Abuse survivor tells of harrowing experiences in Tipperary boarding school

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  • čas přidán 13. 09. 2024
  • Derek McCarthy, a former pupil at Tipperary’s prestigious Rockwell College in the 1970s, reveals how he is finally confronting his traumatic past.

Komentáře • 28

  • @dawnburke2756
    @dawnburke2756 Před rokem +19

    I’m here just to say how brave & courageous you are to speak out about this - it has been going on for decades - we were all silenced into not speaking about any wrong doing coming from church & state - horrific acts were done on innocent boys girls & women - our people were brainwashed to the highest 😢
    The fear put into us all was shocking - I’m 52 yrs old & have seen communities turn a blind eye just to keep the local priest happy - the do -gooders ! The control & brainwashing put into us all was truly horrific!
    I’ve no other words to say only thank you 🙏 for speaking out you are one of many survivors 💚

  • @dw01056
    @dw01056 Před rokem +9

    You've got me in your corner, mate. Always. I admire your strength.

  • @elizabethhurtado2829
    @elizabethhurtado2829 Před rokem +14

    Men don't talk about abuse as much but that needs to change. Thanks

    • @dawnburke2756
      @dawnburke2756 Před rokem

      So True - when you think of all the young innocent boys - grown men now - the suicide rate - so difficult to come out & speak about these barbaric evil acts done to them -
      Evil 👿 & they still hide them & protect them -

  • @Kolditz-fl6yh
    @Kolditz-fl6yh Před 10 měsíci +2

    Derek, tremendous bravery and thank you very much for speaking to for so many of us. Delighted if you would get in touch. We have many things to speak about.

  • @jamesmcelligott7770
    @jamesmcelligott7770 Před rokem +9

    God Bless You, Derek. I admire your strength, courage and fortitude. Their sins shall never be forgiven.

  • @steveryan195
    @steveryan195 Před rokem +6

    Love you my friend! Lots of guts on display!

  • @devilangel9973
    @devilangel9973 Před rokem +5

    So strong and brave ! I'm glad you are letting it out, this shouldn't be kept quiet. You made something of yourself, I know that personally. I'm proud of you !!!

  • @nu43j3lly
    @nu43j3lly Před rokem +8

    God bless you.....

  • @stephenryan2670
    @stephenryan2670 Před hodinou

    Always remember how much strength you have!!

  • @paulmcgrath6118
    @paulmcgrath6118 Před rokem +2

    This is heartbreaking. Felt sick listening to this

  • @seangrogan3622
    @seangrogan3622 Před měsícem

    How is this possible? This is the worst abuse of trust you can imagine. Somehow you can think that these predators would be easier found in places like Letterfrack, but it's all over the place. There's a massive institutional failing that's got to be learned from and the vulnerable and fragile, both in age and in social circumstances must be protected. Look at what this man has gone through, the waste of potential, the suffering, it is horrendous

  • @RonanKieran
    @RonanKieran Před rokem +3

    Glad to see you’re coping Derek. Take care.

  • @jackholohan9654
    @jackholohan9654 Před 11 měsíci +1

    Very though thing to endure for all those years, and to speak up about it, he has guts

  • @dawnburke2756
    @dawnburke2756 Před rokem +4

    The silence is deafing here - says it all - a bit like the mother & so called baby homes - septic tanks barbaric acts - but we don’t want to talk sbout that do we ? All in the past all will be forgotten about NOT !!!!!

  • @user-ee7vr9nn8f
    @user-ee7vr9nn8f Před 10 dny

    I feel so angry for all those who have been abused. These 'Holy People' are full of crap! I am so sorry for your pain. You were born beautiful and you still are. Thank you, you have helped so many.
    Hurt one child you hurt the whole community. If I could return to Secondary School I would bring a few Nuns to court for mental abuse.

  • @fatimak1382
    @fatimak1382 Před 11 měsíci +1

    I never even hinted about my Horrific Children in an Industrial School My daughter is in her 40's and said to me Mum I didn't even know you are Irish, I blocked the dark abusive Childhood that Well used to change my name even worked paid Tax but in different names, Derek I am proud of you you are a true Born Survivor,

  • @collet214
    @collet214 Před rokem +2

    any teaching at all at this private school sick staff members one as bad as each other.parents paying them gor child to b there wow

  • @lukemilus3101
    @lukemilus3101 Před 4 dny

    What Dereck is saying is 150 percent, plus true

  • @lukemilus3101
    @lukemilus3101 Před 5 dny

    I Was in the same school as u, at the same time, i remember , mc cool, an mac donagh,, those two priests,, mac donagh, felt up a friend of mine, in first yr, an mc cool, with the drum stick, made innapprotiate suggestion to me ! Iam sorry what happened to u ! you brave for goin public, !! take care an heal

  • @martinhealy8525
    @martinhealy8525 Před rokem +4

    Church and state need to pay for all crimes no matter who they are

  • @lukemilus3101
    @lukemilus3101 Před 4 dny

    , cause i was in that school at the same time as dereck!! god bless u

  • @vanessakellykennedy8701
    @vanessakellykennedy8701 Před 6 měsíci

    Back then the nuns and priests ran the country 😢so glad you’ve spoke out and your dad got your brothers out 🙏 I pray for more strength for you and try and heal and ease the pain in your heart ❤️

  • @lukemilus3101
    @lukemilus3101 Před 4 dny

    cause every thing he says is true, cause, i know those two priests when i was in that school, nothin happened to me, but, mc cool, known as noddy, made a completly innappropiate comment to me, an my friend from, derry, , was felt up by fr mac donagh, in first yr!! we used to call that priest rat !! as far as iam concerned, the whole church should be liquidated of there assets! u look after yourself !!! i was a foriegn student there !!

  • @alisonbeveridge4001
    @alisonbeveridge4001 Před 4 měsíci +1

    Love you alison😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂❤❤❤😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 0:46 0:46