What To Do When A Guy Is Playing Hot And Cold?

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Komentáře • 79

  • @DatingLogic
    @DatingLogic  Před 3 lety +2

    Book A Consultation - datinglogic.net/consultation/

  • @sarahjaneross2918
    @sarahjaneross2918 Před rokem +25

    Walk away. Block them. Delete them. Even if you love them...
    Keep your dignity and be happy with your life.

  • @kyshabrown8891
    @kyshabrown8891 Před 8 lety +198

    And we are the ones that are complicated.😕

  • @lovelight0012
    @lovelight0012 Před 7 lety +137

    Ignore ignore and refocus back on important things such as my kids and etc. I don't entertain this type of behavior

  • @Lioness417
    @Lioness417 Před 8 lety +223

    This is the most ruthless game of all in my opinion. The game only stops when you remove your feet from under the table and leave them with no one to play with.

  • @anewloveofficial9137
    @anewloveofficial9137 Před 6 lety +128

    Don't let a man plays hot and cold to you, if you won't allow it, it won't happen to you. Show him that you have lots of options. In one way or another, he will be scared of losing you. Don't get played but learn how to play the game.

  • @brandonaldaymachuse6669
    @brandonaldaymachuse6669 Před 3 lety +89

    Guys are way more complicated than girls. That's something I've learned this past year.

  • @joycorcoran8559
    @joycorcoran8559 Před 7 lety +40

    its mean to do that to anyone- especially a loving woman.

  • @SKOLAH
    @SKOLAH Před rokem +6

    Hot + cold = games = walk away.

  • @rachtari1891
    @rachtari1891 Před 7 lety +32

    he was playing hot and cold with me for a long time and i had enough of it...i humiliated him..:/ and he left..i'm not proud of it but he looked for it and got what he wanted!

  • @shitherdadsays9296
    @shitherdadsays9296 Před 2 lety +11

    This was the shortest, simplest and most helpful video I’ve seen today! Thanks for the reminder!👍🏽

  • @gems8582
    @gems8582 Před 2 lety +11

    Ag why does love have to always feel like a battlefield! 😑

  • @Brichanise.Nicole
    @Brichanise.Nicole Před 3 lety +21

    Romans 10:9
    If you declare with your mouth,Jesus is Lord," and believe in your heart that God raised him from the dead, you will be saved❤️❤️

  • @jamest681
    @jamest681 Před 4 lety +9

    Hot and cold means cold.

  • @Rocanala
    @Rocanala Před 5 lety +19

    Let him be cold.....all on his lonesome (wiping hands)

  • @princessbungee
    @princessbungee Před 6 lety +27

    The guy I like plays hot and cold, and him being a guy he knows why he does that and he probably knows it bothers me so you know what, I SWITCH THINGS UP AND I PLAY IT ON HIM! You are playing hot and cold with me, you know what, I’ll play it on you too 😑

  • @eveheart2876
    @eveheart2876 Před rokem +2

    He is right. Go on and live ur life with friends

  • @buffyshellmouthcollection
    @buffyshellmouthcollection Před 8 lety +10

    Great video!! Just went through this and now switched it up real quick.👍👍

  • @sarahsong8000
    @sarahsong8000 Před 8 lety +27

    Your so freaken smart!

  • @Eva-xh8kq
    @Eva-xh8kq Před 6 lety +2

    Thank you for the insight. I like how direct and sharp to the point you are. 👍

  • @kittylikesmilk
    @kittylikesmilk Před 6 lety +7

    Best advice for this!! :)

  • @queensheba-m3430
    @queensheba-m3430 Před 6 lety +1

    Damn, thank you for this!!! God bless you brother!

  • @ryguy108
    @ryguy108 Před 2 lety +13

    Guys playing hot and cold isn't a fluctuation of attraction or playing games really (unless they have read online about redpill info and purposely hold back), guys will act hot towards you if they are horny and cold when they don't wanna have sex. Guys are usually very consistent with there interest. A guy to remain consistent with you will both be sexually and genuinely enjoy being with you.

  • @lawrenciaspooner2327
    @lawrenciaspooner2327 Před 8 lety +8

    oh lord Thank you for this advice..

  • @lauren4933
    @lauren4933 Před 6 lety +1

    Great advice!! 🙌🏻

  • @mistynight123
    @mistynight123 Před 5 lety

    Your videos are so helpful to me. Thankyou so much.

  • @rainclouds1188
    @rainclouds1188 Před 9 lety +9

    Good advice...

  • @tonijackson6529
    @tonijackson6529 Před 9 lety +2

    When your right, your right! Have a good one. :-)

  • @carmelcapricorn7701
    @carmelcapricorn7701 Před 2 lety +3

    Nothing. Keep living your best 🧬.

  • @LG-bx3wl
    @LG-bx3wl Před 8 lety +20

    Hi dating logic or anyone else who understands this - if you act like it doesn't bother you won't he find some other way to test you? Does ignoring it make it go on and on?

  • @TheKaylaAli
    @TheKaylaAli Před 8 lety +3

    That's Right! 100%

  • @lexie02jones25
    @lexie02jones25 Před 6 lety +2

    Boom! That's my answer!!

  • @michellefong326
    @michellefong326 Před 7 lety +2

    Good point!!!

  • @Gaby_Asmr
    @Gaby_Asmr Před 2 lety +1

    STOP IT !!!!!!!
    LOVE THAT

  • @radmilasvensson4428
    @radmilasvensson4428 Před rokem +1

    the best advice, really😂

  • @gladharris1607
    @gladharris1607 Před 7 lety +4

    Yes delete the digits don't luk back.. some times the opportunity only come once..

  • @joannchristofi4547
    @joannchristofi4547 Před 5 lety

    Ty for the advice

  • @pike815
    @pike815 Před 5 lety +4

    don't mistake hot y cold for simply walking away, if someone lied to me, trying to play me, you are ghosted

  • @user-jx1cl3dc4c
    @user-jx1cl3dc4c Před 2 lety +2

    haha im right on track .. he contacted me after 3 months and reached out to me a week ago .. at first he was chasing me now hes hot n cold playing to trap game.. altho i have been strong and confident no reacting to his dump games . im back to no contact and he reaches out again lol

  • @danam358
    @danam358 Před 5 lety +7

    NPD don’t usually show the hot and cold trait until after sometime has passed into the relationship. That’s why a lot of victims takes long to find out. I was involved with two NPD exes in the past. Hot and cold is a trait that you find out early on a relationship it’s not a personality disorder and it could happen to anyone. The causes for this varies from early childhood to any past hurt

  • @lindseyhebert5568
    @lindseyhebert5568 Před 5 lety +2

    Well this is happening to me every now and then

  • @carriefawcett9990
    @carriefawcett9990 Před 4 lety +10

    It's a real dog act.

  • @redfire809
    @redfire809 Před 9 lety +2

    Reminds me of this guy I'm currently trying mg to move on from. He initially said he didn't like me after my friend told him how I felt. Now later he started sending me kiss faces and such. Basically flirting with me however he won't tell me how he feels about me at all. Like I told him how I felt but he won't tell me how he feels for whatever ever reason. I noticed at school and my friend has noticed also that he treats me differently than other girls. Like he likes to joke around and mess with other girls but he sees me, he acts like I don't exist. I also get the sense like he's avoiding me. What do you think of this situation? I personally am tired of him playing this hot and cold game with me. I'm a shy girl so maybe I just make it weird in person or what? But idk.

  • @wednesdayaddams3533
    @wednesdayaddams3533 Před 5 lety +1

    You see some of the guys saying that they are better than you or smarter than you for example you have a crush on this guy and he said he likes you and you said you like him then later on down he's told you that can we broke up and become friends he's saying that he wants to see if you have still have feeling for him and then later he sees you and he's trying to put his powers on to you by apologizing to you and say can we become friends and you said no and then later he said huh I tried to put this power on to this girl and and she didn't care you see that's why it's important to follow your mind not your heart because if you follow your heart you will get hurt by your crush and if you follow your mind you will be the leader I tell him I don't even know you no more, we don't talk anymore and it's best to stick with your true friends

  • @aylex1974
    @aylex1974 Před 4 měsíci

    Continue with our life. He loves kids

  • @thepertinentinfluence
    @thepertinentinfluence Před 8 lety +13

    So when one acts likes nothing is happening does that mean if he texts I should talk to him like I'm not bothered or should I just ignore?

  • @LadyParis-xu2ri
    @LadyParis-xu2ri Před 8 lety +3

    Thanks, I thought I finished playing these games long time ago. I guess I was wrong. So, I will act like I'm not bother any longer. Again, thanks!

  • @mialuna1016
    @mialuna1016 Před 9 lety +27

    Question is what's the purpose? Why do men do this?

    • @mialuna1016
      @mialuna1016 Před 9 lety +3

      But what if this is constantly happening in a relationship? For ex 1year and a half in a relationship

    • @mialuna1016
      @mialuna1016 Před 9 lety +2

      So don't break up with someone that treats me like that? What if we have spoken about this already multiple times, what do you do then?

    • @mialuna1016
      @mialuna1016 Před 9 lety

      Your awesome thanks for the amazing advice n info..... Thank uuuu

    • @Xforeverlove21
      @Xforeverlove21 Před 8 lety +3

      +Victoria Voss So I was seeing this guy and he's so hot and cold. One day he would text me and i would reply back and he won't reply back to me for weeks. When he does come back should I play cold with him?

    • @MsLenepigen
      @MsLenepigen Před 8 lety +27

      You might want to look into something like Narcissistic Personality Disorder, because it's the same pull-push manipulation game they do. Essentially they don't give a shit about anybody but themselves and use other people for narcissistic supply. Attention is their drug, that's all they care about and that's why they do this.
      It's not just men. All narcs do this. It's called "Hoovering" (

  • @sharonhammonds5244
    @sharonhammonds5244 Před 2 měsíci

    They are very complicated.

  • @Hilary945
    @Hilary945 Před 7 měsíci

    If a faucet runs hot and cold, shut the faucet off

  • @jimmsters4873
    @jimmsters4873 Před 6 lety +10

    I am a child
    This was in my recommend
    Why?

    • @wuestion9473
      @wuestion9473 Před 4 lety +2

      It’s for you and your pet goldfish.

    • @ClepsidraSideral
      @ClepsidraSideral Před 2 lety +1

      Someday you will need this advice. It's a divine gift from CZcams algorithm. Choose well, my little grasshopper. And fare thee well in life.

  • @VeronicaUSA
    @VeronicaUSA Před 8 lety +3

    You're so wright

  • @maarnaberthelsen6364
    @maarnaberthelsen6364 Před měsícem

    I think it attraction at the same time obsession. You know he is an insecure man at the same time a jealous man. When a guy like this gets obsessed and intimidated, when he likes a woman like this and is suoer attracted to her. He tried to control her fear of losing her. Obsessed and what he feels about her, you know in his mind, she talks to other guys paranoia excessively and he starts doing things that she hurt her maybe cheating on her or talking to another girl behind her back. Just for try to forget about how much he is obsessed over her. That a lack of empathy. And not understanding the difference between flirting and just talking and other normal stuff. Being attractive and different from other women she could get all most everyone, when a guy like that meets a girl like that, it becomes obsession.
    You know jealous men and very insecure men will not let go of obsession for her he hides it instead showing is. He is going to do something that broke her because at the same time he don't want to seem like he is obsessed. He don't like this feeling of obsesstion over her that why he hurt her you know he is really jalous man and insecure.

  • @leavemealone5242
    @leavemealone5242 Před 3 lety +3

    Don't ignore me

  • @essenceedits1063
    @essenceedits1063 Před 8 lety

    YAY👌

  • @pinkturtle2016
    @pinkturtle2016 Před 10 měsíci +1

    If he does this just move on lol

  • @PeggySeattle
    @PeggySeattle Před 7 lety +1

    What happens when you tell a married man you love him after you have been alone a year and your guy died and your lonely and he was kind to you and you fell in love then told him and he said he never knew and got cold

  • @zoesmith5687
    @zoesmith5687 Před 6 lety

    I’m not going on to relationship advice videos anymore as I don’t have a boyfriend & the men I like none of them are interested in me at all theirs no point watching relationship videos some sick evil person with a very warped mind might be trying to get me to watch these videos to lead me on the host of the relationship videos are really nice people very good advice but I’m not being delusional I don’t have a admirer

  • @user-tk4qd8dj1p
    @user-tk4qd8dj1p Před 4 lety +1

    This is cruel

  • @ohtwonine
    @ohtwonine Před 8 lety

    :| urghhhhh