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  • India's Blind Daters: In India, marriage is a national obsession, everyone's expected to get married - yet one group finds themselves ignored as suitors - India's 70 million people with disabilities. But things are starting to change, Marcel Theroux met three disabled people in Mumbai as they navigate religion, caste and their families wishes in the quest to find someone to marry.
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    This episode first aired on 07/10/2016.

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  • @sobresobre7563
    @sobresobre7563 Před 5 lety +1240

    I love the reporter, he seems like such a kind man

    • @gailshore8540
      @gailshore8540 Před 4 lety +41

      "the reporter" is the wonderful Marcel Theroux, and he is indeed a very kind and gentle man.

    • @Kiki-yw9kc
      @Kiki-yw9kc Před 3 lety +18

      @@gailshore8540 Louis is his brother

    • @LaoSoftware
      @LaoSoftware Před 3 lety +19

      He is very sweet and gentle. That's the way we should treat each other. Kindness and love toward people who are less fortunate.

    • @CartoonistVikrant
      @CartoonistVikrant Před 3 lety +2

      True

    • @ilikebeinganonymous8666
      @ilikebeinganonymous8666 Před 3 lety +4

      @@Kiki-yw9kc Lol I was thinking it's Louis till i saw your comment

  • @Dailyartpallette
    @Dailyartpallette Před 6 lety +758

    Just because you could have a disability doesn't mean you're less a human being, everybody needs love.

    • @aliciacrosby3285
      @aliciacrosby3285 Před 6 lety +2

      LEÓNS FPV true

    • @johnnysammygidharry9949
      @johnnysammygidharry9949 Před 6 lety

      well said

    • @abdullahakhtar9824
      @abdullahakhtar9824 Před 5 lety +3

      People can have preferences though amirite?

    • @shahidauppal8643
      @shahidauppal8643 Před 5 lety +4

      Yes you are right and you have a beautiful heart but in our society in under developing countries like India, Pakistan, Bangladesh,
      Afghanistan etc etc every 1 is dealing with the same problems, Unfortunately 😢😢🤑🤢

    • @John__-ie3od
      @John__-ie3od Před 5 lety +1

      True. But only the lucky ones can hold unto it.

  • @amu5238
    @amu5238 Před 6 lety +1386

    Hudda is 38?!?!?!?! NO WAY! she could pass as a 20 year old !

    • @avatarkyoshi1693
      @avatarkyoshi1693 Před 6 lety +18

      amu5238 true she looks young

    • @Horsewoman725
      @Horsewoman725 Před 5 lety +12

      Hailung Tian I am sure you would love that being done to you. There is a place for that and it’s called Jail.

    • @Necroman98
      @Necroman98 Před 5 lety +7

      What did Hailung Tian say?

    • @MattAlexanderMe
      @MattAlexanderMe Před 5 lety +12

      9:14 now I want to marry Houda. 😍

    • @itsmeagain8009
      @itsmeagain8009 Před 4 lety +7

      😲🤔 woah she looks good for 38!

  • @sridonar
    @sridonar Před 5 lety +705

    Im disable woman. Im married at age 43th early this year with not disable man ..an ordinary man who love me just the way i am. Im blessed to find my soulmate

  • @shellysingh1625
    @shellysingh1625 Před 3 lety +226

    "How can people with disabilities fight against discrimination if they're going to discriminate against people simply because of what caste they're born into" Epic

    • @churchofgod4016
      @churchofgod4016 Před 3 lety +5

      Yet sikhs come to Australia and discriminate against everything... What a terrible shame.

    • @outoforder8791
      @outoforder8791 Před 3 lety +18

      @@churchofgod4016 Really?! I've never heard about Sikh people discriminating anyone. They always tend to accept and respect anyone they meet. It's part of their religion.

    • @blairariavanderkamp3405
      @blairariavanderkamp3405 Před 2 lety

      Exactly!! He doesn't have that privilege lol

    • @cinema6444
      @cinema6444 Před 2 lety

      Yeah let's generalise one of the most disadvantaged people group as casteist based on few examples and undermine their fight for rights. Epic that's what we need.
      Peak identity politics
      Would have been better if "people with disabilities" and "they" is replaced with "you"

    • @angelique7618
      @angelique7618 Před rokem +2

      Caste? What Is the definition? I need to look that word up.

  • @mariei7445
    @mariei7445 Před 5 lety +117

    Love the Muslim girl, esp when she said she doesn't want a normal man to say in future I could have had someone better than u. So moving.

  • @piyushsharma5177
    @piyushsharma5177 Před 5 lety +247

    He is the best reporter you guys have. Give this guy a raise. He's kind and appreciative of everyone he meets. A true gentleman

    • @lilac624
      @lilac624 Před 2 lety +9

      He's also a handsome man

    • @piyushsharma5177
      @piyushsharma5177 Před 2 lety +5

      @@lilac624 true, also he looks very genuine. That adds in as well.

  • @saymoremccalman4974
    @saymoremccalman4974 Před 4 lety +172

    A disabled person from a higher caste turns down a disabled person from a lower caste. I never thought I'd see this layer of discrimination. We learn something new everyday. Just wow!!!

    • @maya-cc2sx
      @maya-cc2sx Před 3 lety +2

      @warlike tiger saying it's written in the religious texts just justify the actions of the people who do it, it's an inhuman practice that no one should take part in, it shouldn't be allowed to pass off as culture when it's not

    • @tanmaykulkarni1545
      @tanmaykulkarni1545 Před 3 lety +1

      @warlike tiger When you don't understand the situation, its better to keep your shithole shut on social media. These people are poor with limited literacy and limited world view. No wonder they hold such prejudices. So shut your piehole and go back to your shithole country where you elect a women rapist as a President

    • @SR-zx2jt
      @SR-zx2jt Před 3 lety +1

      @@tanmaykulkarni1545 calm down bro,don't get triggered so easily.🤣
      You're just making a fool of yourself and your country by reacting in such a way.

    • @recoveringincel2933
      @recoveringincel2933 Před 3 lety

      Racist

    • @user-qr9tx9rb5h
      @user-qr9tx9rb5h Před 3 lety +2

      @@tanmaykulkarni1545.
      I am also visually impaired person.
      Kuch log family ke pressure se aisa karte Hain.
      It doesn't mean ke puri divyang community hi esi Hain.

  • @chrystalcastro676
    @chrystalcastro676 Před 6 lety +507

    I love Alex. He is so positive and kind spirited and it's obvious.

    • @hoeseatcake
      @hoeseatcake Před 6 lety +18

      I agree....his face is so light and kind

    • @applesake2628
      @applesake2628 Před 3 lety +8

      I was looking for this comment!! I really liked how he presented his personality.

    • @twystedhumour
      @twystedhumour Před 3 lety +3

      @@hoeseatcake both him and Huddah have delightful personalities. sometimes, the ability to smile in the face of adversity can buoy you above hardships and calamities... or fate.

  • @SakuraElyse
    @SakuraElyse Před 5 lety +108

    Huda was genuinely a delight of a person, her laugh is so contagious! I hope she's found somebody that keeps her laughing.

    • @mariaphares4783
      @mariaphares4783 Před rokem +2

      I know! I love her laugh! She is such a beautiful person! 😍

  • @arctictern_7648
    @arctictern_7648 Před 6 lety +741

    Huddah, if you're reading this, you have a beautiful laugh, i couldn't help but chuckle myself watching you laugh. It seemed like you were laughing and giggling at the same time.

    • @goddesshatmehit4861
      @goddesshatmehit4861 Před 6 lety +20

      Arctic Tern_7 ikr I love her laugh it's so infectious! And her smile is beautiful

    • @Thesafespace254
      @Thesafespace254 Před 6 lety +12

      Arctic Tern_7 she sounds so intelligent as well

    • @staceykersting705
      @staceykersting705 Před 6 lety +8

      She is positively delightful!

    • @JennyvonHenkelmannLecter
      @JennyvonHenkelmannLecter Před 6 lety +7

      I love her laugh too. What a beautiful spirit. 💫✨💫

    • @Swnsasy
      @Swnsasy Před 5 lety +5

      Absolutely! I couldn't help it! So infectious!!!

  • @onicaadriana6804
    @onicaadriana6804 Před 5 lety +82

    The girl with hijab is amazing and gorgeous.I hope she finds a great man who will love and cherish her.

  • @noblenoble1483
    @noblenoble1483 Před 6 lety +440

    Alex and huddah would make a cute couple I hope it works out for them

    • @siasmana5105
      @siasmana5105 Před 6 lety +3

      uhh same here wish 4 later updates

    • @MK-um8fp
      @MK-um8fp Před 3 lety +5

      Alex and Huda, would match but as Muslim scholars based on Qur’an and Sunnah are unanimously agreed that it is not permissible for a Muslim woman to marry a non-Muslim, whether he is Jewish,Christian or anything else, because Allah, may He be exalted, says:
      “And give not (your daughters) in marriage to Al-Mushrikoon till they believe (in Allah Alone) and verily,a believing slave is better than a (free) Mushrik (idolater, etc.), even though he pleases you. Those (Al-Mushrikoon) invite you to the Fire,but Allah invites (you) to Paradise and Forgiveness by His Leave, and makes His Ayatollah (proofs,evidences, verses, lessons, signs, revelations, etc.) clear to mankind that they may remember”[al- Baqarah 2:221].

    • @imalemon3841
      @imalemon3841 Před 2 lety +2

      @@MK-um8fp ah, now I knew I was happy, forgot religion existed smh

  • @richardwere4487
    @richardwere4487 Před 6 lety +445

    ONE of the best documentary channels in CZcams, blessings to those disabled men and women

    • @SuperBowlRentlDallas
      @SuperBowlRentlDallas Před 6 lety +1

      Richard Were not

    • @zoraidacastro5403
      @zoraidacastro5403 Před 5 lety +4

      I thought it was well put together and the narrator did an excellent job talking to them in a sensitive manner. Good JOB!

  • @ubermensch826
    @ubermensch826 Před 5 lety +51

    16:20 "one couple has already decided they have a future together"
    the wife looks thrilled

  • @DreamBelief
    @DreamBelief Před 6 lety +649

    WTF too low caste?! I was willing to give him the benefit of the doubt when he said he needed someone less disabled than him. I figured that he believed they wouldn't survive without a lot of help otherwise. However, the fact that he immediately rejected someone he liked simply because of her caste shows his true colours. Absolutely appalling. These women can do much better than him.

    • @comelearnsomali4511
      @comelearnsomali4511 Před 6 lety +50

      True! I think it could be just a cover bringing up his family's rejection. He didn't seem the least disappointed. ugh.
      On another note, I can understand as I too am trying to escape it and it's a constant uphill battle the pressure of families especially when one is so dependent. :(

    • @indeliblystampedsupertramp3252
      @indeliblystampedsupertramp3252 Před 6 lety +62

      Not only that. He's a grown man with a business and says the family won't allow it. Seriously?

    • @Noname-ni8qm
      @Noname-ni8qm Před 6 lety +25

      DreamBelief this is problem in india still even in the cities and obvious with disabled people which is crazy

    • @lburns7952
      @lburns7952 Před 6 lety +2

      Ikr !!!

    • @praja558
      @praja558 Před 5 lety +29

      he deserves to to be alone

  • @123cutieputtie
    @123cutieputtie Před 6 lety +117

    Seeing all these people who suffered from polio and to think some people dont want to vaccinate their kids.

    • @sridonar
      @sridonar Před 5 lety +2

      Im polio also ... I wont blame my parents for it. They just didnt know. ITS my Faith.

    • @idontcarei
      @idontcarei Před 5 lety +20

      THERE IS A GOOD NEWS FOR U ...india is declared polio free by WHO ...4 YRS BACK....the eradication of polio from India-is done. In the 1980s, there were approximately 350,000 cases of polio every year worldwide, 150,000 in India. In 2013 there were just 403 cases of polio worldwide, none in India, according to a WHO report.Mar 15, 2014

    • @sasmalprasanjit2764
      @sasmalprasanjit2764 Před 5 lety

      @@idontcarei M a Meds students, other than From Medical field, No other people knows this Facts

    • @piyushsharma5177
      @piyushsharma5177 Před 5 lety

      @@sasmalprasanjit2764 i know it too, i am from engineering background but heard this from my mom. Shes a nurse

    • @user-kw6ez6jt4e
      @user-kw6ez6jt4e Před 3 lety +2

      My grandmother couldn't remember if she had my mom vaccinated or not so she chanced it. My mom has lived a life of pain and discomfort 💔

  • @jesusislord7919
    @jesusislord7919 Před 6 lety +614

    When I watch such I just forget all my problems and thank God for all I am...
    They deserve nothing else but happiness

    • @markromero5331
      @markromero5331 Před 6 lety +12

      Jesus Is Lord, You about "nailed it" with that comment. I was sitting here, whining to myself "why me God" and after watching this, now I have to spend the night praying to God, for forgiveness, for what I actually do have. This is first class journalism, hands down ❤ it

    • @johnnysammygidharry9949
      @johnnysammygidharry9949 Před 6 lety +1

      i agree with you

    • @idontcarei
      @idontcarei Před 5 lety

      rightly said

    • @dorcas.tpembele6333
      @dorcas.tpembele6333 Před 5 lety

      @Confused Commie May Jesus forgive you for the thing you said

    • @OliviaBaeBy
      @OliviaBaeBy Před 5 lety +2

      @MontegomerySF Thats not Gods fault blame that on humans who care nothing for other human beings!

  • @saeefa
    @saeefa Před 6 lety +640

    I've noticed how disabled women are accepting of disabled men but disabled men want women who are less disabled then them, disabled or not male privilege roams around everywhere in India

    • @chaitea3912
      @chaitea3912 Před 6 lety +97

      saeefa. Right. Can you believe the blind guy asked if the blind girl was beautiful right in front of her.

    • @pastelshades2860
      @pastelshades2860 Před 6 lety +102

      Chai Tea I don't understand why that even matters to a blind person.

    • @Noname-ni8qm
      @Noname-ni8qm Před 6 lety +17

      Blockhead VIP these people dont deserves parthners ,even not disabled look only thr beauty that why they suffer

    • @juliuscaesar635
      @juliuscaesar635 Před 6 lety +26

      Patriarchal society.

    • @staceykersting705
      @staceykersting705 Před 6 lety +71

      In the US, guys who don't even own a toothbrush, or a bar of soap....also very fat and unshaven, think most movie actresses aren't even good enough for them. Meanwhile, he is jobless. Seems the less a guy has going for him, the nastier the attitude....the pickier he is

  • @ailinos
    @ailinos Před 6 lety +145

    Huda is just so lovely, she seems happy in all she does. I hope she finds her other half. #Billan

  • @samking1930
    @samking1930 Před 6 lety +317

    It's a pity that Caste system is still very much alive in India....it is the most degrading, the most racist and the most humiliating thing that was ever invented in this country.

    • @indo9031
      @indo9031 Před 6 lety +28

      So true as woman from lower castes I agree. People don’t have to live in India to recognise a evil practice.

    • @johnnysammygidharry9949
      @johnnysammygidharry9949 Před 6 lety

      i agree

    • @aneeshakumar7692
      @aneeshakumar7692 Před 6 lety +13

      Indo90 I am a woman from India and never have really heard of the caste system it really to do with people as small groups than the whole countries

    • @johnnysammygidharry9949
      @johnnysammygidharry9949 Před 6 lety +1

      i have a child with an indian lady so i think i understand the caste system very well, as i look indian but am not

    • @headhunter895
      @headhunter895 Před 6 lety +16

      Caste system exists mostly in villages of north India. Only education can eradicate it.

  • @sammiedav1053
    @sammiedav1053 Před 6 lety +81

    18:00 It broke my heart. No one on earth should ever get judged like this. What a SHAME ! I'm speechless.

    • @4F6D
      @4F6D Před 5 lety +18

      So? Now she has dodged a bullet with this guy. A husband should care for his wife no matter what. Its better he refused with this mindest

  • @haritm
    @haritm Před 6 lety +65

    That Hooda girl is soo positive and lively comparing so many "Abele" people.

  • @FreeTBT1
    @FreeTBT1 Před 6 lety +387

    In india disability is not so big issue. When i watch this video. Caste system is the biggest issue.
    Caste system is more disable than human who are disable 🤣🤣🤣

    • @christeltrinafernandes6130
      @christeltrinafernandes6130 Před 6 lety +21

      Precious Fischer I am an Indian and I agree ... am blessed to have been born in an open minded family and travelled around the world but that's just my luck not all are educated in the right way .

    • @Ashkenya
      @Ashkenya Před 6 lety +14

      It goes beyond cast They are all bleeding educated and do actually know that cast system is wrong and illegal to discriminate based on caste. I suspect it is deeper than that it's the ego 'my car is better than his, my salary is bigger than him my house is bigger than his my qualifications are better than his and here is the reality- in short even if I don't have any good qualities or am not much good at anything he is still INFERIOR than me. It is inferior superior complex which manifests as caste.

    • @aneeshakumar7692
      @aneeshakumar7692 Před 6 lety +10

      Precious Fischer not gonna lie the first time I learnt about the caste system was when I moved from India to the uk I think the caste system depends on area and their beliefs so it is harder to call it big issue because many of the current generation don’t acknowledge it as much

    • @Freeman-uk2xn
      @Freeman-uk2xn Před 6 lety +8

      in christianity and islam
      millions and millions died in
      catholic vs prodestent
      shia vs sunni
      british and protugese divided ppl
      in caste system(from casta) and ruled them
      indian govt gives job reservation to them
      indian pm modi and president are frm so called caste systemm
      is it0possible that prodstent rece job reservation

    • @Freeman-uk2xn
      @Freeman-uk2xn Před 6 lety +3

      p f
      galileo was killed by christians just bcoz just bcoz he said
      earth revolve around
      hahahaha
      and
      u stil believe in bible
      and ur jeje died in cat fight
      grow up

  • @takeshimuchjoji7151
    @takeshimuchjoji7151 Před 6 lety +122

    "when i asked her cast she said Harijan , so i refused " wat??

    • @saiqhai9968
      @saiqhai9968 Před 4 lety +16

      I think he was forced by his family, he didn't care about her cast, but said I have to live with my family and therefore have to listen them

    • @vakhra_swag4447
      @vakhra_swag4447 Před 3 lety +1

      Harijann mean SC / SCHEDULE CASTE = LOW CLASS .

    • @vakhra_swag4447
      @vakhra_swag4447 Před 3 lety

      @Whats in THE name right 🤦‍♀️

    • @MadhevrajSriram
      @MadhevrajSriram Před 3 lety +1

      Caste system derived from Manusmṛiti (Dharma of Hinduism), curse to this nation!

    • @rankingresearchdata
      @rankingresearchdata Před 3 lety +1

      @@MadhevrajSriram not at all "manusmriti is edited by brahmin Aryan".real manusmriti has been burned and destroyed

  • @crystalt681
    @crystalt681 Před 6 lety +289

    I LOVE Huda's beautiful smile and laugh. ❤️
    May Allah azzah wajjal always keep her smiling.
    Ameen.

    • @hibu88
      @hibu88 Před 5 lety +4

      Crystal Torres ameen!

    • @shanabeg8359
      @shanabeg8359 Před 5 lety +4

      !gaming ghost! Shut up troll 🤐nasty evil devil

    • @rk2770
      @rk2770 Před 3 lety +2

      Ameen

    • @zubairansari8396
      @zubairansari8396 Před 3 lety +2

      Ameen ,,but i feel for her when ever she laugh n smiling ..a deep pain behind

    • @AJ-eo2hz
      @AJ-eo2hz Před rokem

      Ameen

  • @nepadron
    @nepadron Před 6 lety +258

    The parents of the theroux brothers must be so incredibly proud.

    • @fsg6181
      @fsg6181 Před 6 lety +13

      n. p. I didn’t know that. I always thought he looked and sounded a bit like Louis.

    • @sofialovinglife597
      @sofialovinglife597 Před 5 lety +3

      He sounds so much like his Brother !

    • @syedzameenali4566
      @syedzameenali4566 Před 3 lety +1

      @Lee Schn Hi am looking for true love can you help me on this

  • @jojobee42
    @jojobee42 Před 6 lety +109

    I kept thinking the interviewer is SO much like Louis Theroux, and if a TV show can't afford Louis they should hire this guy instead! And now I find out they're actually BROTHERS !! How funny is that!

    • @butterfly9274
      @butterfly9274 Před 6 lety +2

      jojo bee no way! I was wondering how come they have the same voice and mannerisms😊

    • @Extreme_1
      @Extreme_1 Před 6 lety

      jojo bee and their father is Paul Theroux

    • @rimumbengia379
      @rimumbengia379 Před 6 lety

      Teresa Garcia who is Louis theroux

    • @irielion3748
      @irielion3748 Před 4 lety +1

      Close your eyes and he sounds just lime him! I just realised he was a Theroux too.

    • @idklol4197
      @idklol4197 Před 2 lety +1

      who is louis theroux

  • @vtop1c
    @vtop1c Před 3 lety +12

    I found it really touching when instead of writing Houda for her religion Alex said "we can set an example for the world, I'll be one side and she'll be the other side". I honestly thought he will say "that's a shame, we can't be a couple". And it's so nice to see Houda felt inspired, she's so genuine and smart and she needs someone to bring happiness and inspiration. I hope things work out for them.

  • @DreamBelief
    @DreamBelief Před 6 lety +240

    I love Huda. She's adorable. I love seeing the change in her too ie the desire to take more risks and do more herself. I hope she gets past the fear of what others will think or say. I'm disabled. My husband is not. He is also Saudi and Muslim whilst I am Caucasian Australian and was raised Catholic (although I became muslim before I met him). People do talk and judge us. They raise their eyebrows. They make all sorts of stupid assumptions. It doesn't matter though. We're happy. They can waste their time on such wasteful concerns.
    On a side note I know how difficult it is. I am disabled, and live in Australia. Even here it can be very difficult. People tend not to see you as a real adult that could be in a relationship. It's like they view you like a perpetual child.

    • @wowso4
      @wowso4 Před 6 lety +5

      DreamBelief good for you darl I’m sorry about those judgmental ppl they probably envy your happy marriage. Good luck to you and your husband

    • @JennyvonHenkelmannLecter
      @JennyvonHenkelmannLecter Před 6 lety +1

      I really hope the two of you can change the way people see each other. What you have is incredible and people should learn from it. Humanity needs to be humane in nature and stop the cruelty of our current world. People have grown too cold and unkind. Spread the love and open people's hearts.

    • @chickchickmary
      @chickchickmary Před 5 lety +3

      why else??? because she loves islam. islam is the fastest growing religion in the world with the most conversion rate

    • @fuzzwuzz6541
      @fuzzwuzz6541 Před 5 lety

      DreamBelief May Allah swt make it easy for you sister and reward you immensely ameen

  • @nicholasbalser6901
    @nicholasbalser6901 Před 6 lety +374

    The caste system is horrendous.

    • @jaidenb1097
      @jaidenb1097 Před 5 lety +14

      Omg only old people believe in that 😂

    • @RubiscoTalks
      @RubiscoTalks Před 5 lety +33

      @@jaidenb1097 even the young people who are brainwashed about this shit...still discriminate!

    • @PikaPluff
      @PikaPluff Před 5 lety +8

      british manipulated it

    • @rishabh2885
      @rishabh2885 Před 5 lety +1

      @@RubiscoTalks not really tbh..maybe still in small towns and villages.

    • @pendejo298
      @pendejo298 Před 5 lety +2

      @@PikaPluff Yeah and its their choices to break free from it like other nations have

  • @abhijitc251083
    @abhijitc251083 Před 3 lety +10

    The lady Huda is such a bright star. She has a beautiful smile. I just hope these are genuine. These people deserve happiness.

  • @ohmeowzer1
    @ohmeowzer1 Před 5 lety +27

    Omg green shirt refused the girl because of her caste ....what a jerk ...that’s the old way of thinking

    • @chickenkm
      @chickenkm Před 3 lety +3

      he probably wanted to marry her but his family/community would shun him for it. it a lot more complicated than one might assume. he might also be reliant on his family in some way.

  • @spongebob2070
    @spongebob2070 Před 3 lety +139

    My dude castism in india is something which can't vanish fully ever
    Its like the indian version of racism

    • @factschicken3708
      @factschicken3708 Před 3 lety +13

      There was no caste system in India before the British rule, but categorization of profession/work into seven types. This categorization of work was depicted as ‘caste’ in India by the British. Even the Vedas find no mention of caste, but ‘Varnas’, categorizing people on the basis of work. For example, two brothers born within the same family, one could be a Brahmin and other could be a Kshatriya based on their aptitude!

    • @gentlemenking2973
      @gentlemenking2973 Před 3 lety +7

      @@factschicken3708 its really interesting to know your version of caste system.
      i am curious, why certain people are looked down based on their profession? Do you mean before the British, there were no discrimination based on VARNA?

    • @contambrah
      @contambrah Před 3 lety +12

      @@factschicken3708 Sure, blame everything on them. Untouchability and other caste based discrimination existed long before colonisation. Stop spreading bs.

    • @flipflop2445
      @flipflop2445 Před 3 lety +2

      @@contambrah they are too good at denying anything which is against them I'm sure he has got this infro from some other CZcams comment

    • @Noone-gz8li
      @Noone-gz8li Před 3 lety +2

      @@flipflop2445 if u can proof that there was untouchability in India before Britishers plz come forward send some videos

  • @IoveYAHUAH
    @IoveYAHUAH Před 6 lety +47

    Hulda and Alex are BEAUTIFUL. I wonder if they will they get married.🤔

  • @Walklikeaduck111
    @Walklikeaduck111 Před 5 lety +17

    Huda and Alex! Seem so perfect. But I'm glad the girls are taking their time before making a decision. In the ahemdabad one you could see that the families arranged the whole thing. The urban rural divide is clear.

  • @francinelaurin520
    @francinelaurin520 Před 4 lety +20

    Hudda's personality is delightful! ..pretty, good humored..she will make a devoted, fun loving Spouse!💕 ..I wish her Marital Bliss when she finds the right partner..her heart will tell her so..moi, Canada 🇨🇦

  • @mr.d.572
    @mr.d.572 Před 4 lety +84

    We need events like this here in America. People with disabilities have needs and feelings too.

    • @SarahKDB
      @SarahKDB Před 2 lety +2

      I'm sure there are events here, just not televised. We are also more accepting, I'm disabled and married to an abled person. It was never an issue.

    • @mr.d.572
      @mr.d.572 Před 2 lety +4

      @@SarahKDB
      Tell that to all the women who walk away from me because of my disability.

    • @krissygreenidge
      @krissygreenidge Před 2 lety +3

      @@mr.d.572 Ok it was one woman? Cope and move on

    • @mr.d.572
      @mr.d.572 Před 2 lety +1

      @@krissygreenidge
      Learn to read before making dumb comments.

    • @ajayrevankar2352
      @ajayrevankar2352 Před 2 lety +3

      @@SarahKDB but here many don't marry disabled think of good physic handsome and all as I'm disabled I know this and iam facing this problem here many proposals are being rejected cz iam disabled but iam not worried about my disability I'm working and iam depend on myself iam very happy for what iam

  • @sophiafaulknor8825
    @sophiafaulknor8825 Před 6 lety +68

    Alex has beautiful teeth

  • @fionagiles2495
    @fionagiles2495 Před 3 lety +13

    Alex has such a great smile, and it looks like he got it from his mother! Both are so vibrant 💕💕

  • @Swnsasy
    @Swnsasy Před 5 lety +25

    Hooda is just too darn adorable! That laugh and smile are so infectious!! 38yrs old!? She looks like a 20yr old you go girl!

  • @kumaradesh6087
    @kumaradesh6087 Před 3 lety +3

    Disabilities is not a problem to get married but caste and religion is the prblm to get married in india.

  • @stolin4039
    @stolin4039 Před 6 lety +33

    The Parent section 🤣🤣🤣

  • @haddingtoniangcp2464
    @haddingtoniangcp2464 Před 3 lety +3

    "If I fall down, I'll get up and not tell them I fell" made me smile ☺

  • @rashmisingh2235
    @rashmisingh2235 Před 6 lety +78

    HUDA, please marry Alex.. you deserve him

  • @horsegirl97100
    @horsegirl97100 Před 3 lety +5

    Hudda is the cutest person I've seen in a while, so intelligent but such a great sense of humour!

  • @moonnuchamling9875
    @moonnuchamling9875 Před 3 lety +13

    The reporter seems so kind. His looks and his attitude, his personality is so kind and nice. A perfect gentleman. Keep up the good work Sir🙏💖 Best of wishes to you. Best wishes to all the people may we all be able find true love💖👌✌️🙏🌹

  • @annamariaagatha9392
    @annamariaagatha9392 Před 3 lety +5

    I love the woman-teacher who for the first time takes a walk on her own outside, inspired by a fellow-disabled person who encouraged her. They are such lovely people and I wish them a good future, with or without each other. I hope Indian society one day will see passed religion, disability, social status and appearance and can only let the heart of the potential partners speak.......

  • @akoklongchar4541
    @akoklongchar4541 Před 3 lety +9

    I know I'm 2 years late but, Huda is such a beautiful person and a beautiful soul. 🌹🌹

  • @praveenchukka
    @praveenchukka Před 3 lety +5

    I'm both crying and smiling at the same time.

  • @lifestyle2003
    @lifestyle2003 Před 3 lety +8

    Huda is hiding her sorrow behind that contagious smile. I wish she finds a perfect man . Insha Allah.

  • @jenna_gia
    @jenna_gia Před 3 lety +5

    Huda seems like an amazing woman, a total catch. I hope she's found happiness and a man as equally delightful as she is. She was a nice contrast to that one man who cared so much about caste and finding a woman "less disabled" than himself.

  • @babbarali2916
    @babbarali2916 Před 6 lety +148

    The reporter is very handsome x

    • @saltlife5322
      @saltlife5322 Před 6 lety +5

      Babbar Ali he's one of my favs on this channel.🤗

    • @csgecko
      @csgecko Před 6 lety +2

      Especially compared to those disabled Indians they got him standing next to.

    • @adg6947
      @adg6947 Před 6 lety +34

      humanix Especially compared to your disgusting comment

    • @bobos07
      @bobos07 Před 5 lety +6

      I like this reporter. He always seems very lovely.

  • @mnreddy6443
    @mnreddy6443 Před 3 lety +3

    Man, this is journalism. Take a bow to the reporter.

  • @yuliay9010
    @yuliay9010 Před 5 lety +6

    Refusing to marry someone based on caste is stupid! It's based on nothing but skin color. But ppl should take religion into consideration when choosing to marry because that can actually affect how compatible they are. For example, Christians are okay with drinking and smoking and partying while most Muslims are against it. In addition, would a Christian spouse be willing to fast with you during Ramadan, buy halal meat and give charity for you even though he doesn't believe in it? Would he support you wearing the hijab or convince you to take it off because it does come with it's own set of hardships? I also thought it was weird that the guy called her middle eastern because it shows the kind of bias he has of her. It's not impossible for an interreligious couple to work but a lot of things should be taken into consideration as there can be more obstacles than when marrying someone who shares your faith.

    • @yuliay9010
      @yuliay9010 Před 5 lety

      @@apotheosis16 your an idiot for the following reasons so far: 1. I never said it's always a deal breaker but it can be. 2. I never once said all Christians drink or smoke or party but they are allowed to do so from their religion. If they choose not to it's a personal choice. (Catholics literally drink at communion as part of a religious ceremony 😅) 3. The guy i was referring to in the video described himself as the western element in the marriage so who are you to say I have an incorrect westernized mindset about Christianity lol? 4) Religion doesn't have an impact on marriage if it doesn't have an impact on you. If it does affect how you live your life then your delusional if you're still saying it doesn't affect your marriage. People need to be smart and consider all aspects of their life when choosing a future partner including religion.

    • @yuliay9010
      @yuliay9010 Před 5 lety

      @@apotheosis16 Also, you have a very derogatory view of Muslims which is ironic considering you think God is one and love. You have called then hypocrites, womanizers, adulterers, perverts with fantasies of incest. And then after this barage of antimuslim insults, you advocate for interreligious marriage with Muslims. This is very hypocritical of you but idk if I should be surprised considering you seem to be supremely idiotic

    • @apotheosis16
      @apotheosis16 Před 5 lety

      Yulia Yossef Who said its allowed? Do parents teach their kids to do such? Go & spread your religious hypocrisy some where els. And learn to be respectful to others thats the basic tennet of being a Human first, Religion later. Even i say many things but arguing with a fool is like wresting with a “pig” in the dirt

    • @yuliay9010
      @yuliay9010 Před 5 lety

      ​@@apotheosis16 your oblivious to your idiocy...First you go denigrate a quarter of humanity with the most disgusting insults, and then when called out about it, you tell them to learn to be respectful, then proceed to call them a pig. But I'll bet you still won't see your hypocrisy even after I've laid it out so clearly. Add it to the list I guess (NUMBER 5)

  • @ayushimishra6124
    @ayushimishra6124 Před 3 lety +9

    Everyone wants a perfect wife and perfect dil
    But you're rejecting that guy bcoz he's from other religion isn't it ironic

  • @fhvschnvc3411
    @fhvschnvc3411 Před 3 lety +3

    The reporter is amazing. He’s asking direct snd intelligent questions, in a kind, calm and respecting way

  • @FirstDayMovieReviews
    @FirstDayMovieReviews Před 6 lety +13

    Definitely, the good part of the internet! Heartwarming stories... thanks #MarcelTheroux for taking the effort to tell untold stories from #India that the #Indian media chooses to ignore.

  • @lilac624
    @lilac624 Před 2 lety +2

    Nothing is impossible truly for disabled..Everyone deserves love...

  • @balkissheik9058
    @balkissheik9058 Před 6 lety +51

    This msg is fo huda. You are so pretty n i m in awe of you. I m short.. but not handicapped. But i married a man who is a handicapped. I chose him. I understand what you are thinking n going through. I dua to Allah that you will.meet your better half who is kind n full of admiration n love towards you. Aamiin.

  • @mail4shikha
    @mail4shikha Před 2 lety +3

    Being a disable girl, looking forward for this kind of events to take place in Kolkata region also. If anybody knows about this kind of events taking place in Kolkata, kindly give contact details

    • @Prateekreactions
      @Prateekreactions Před 2 lety

      Hope you find your better half as well! :)

    • @suman3316
      @suman3316 Před 2 lety

      All the very sister hope you find your life partner...

  • @emms8
    @emms8 Před 5 lety +20

    Huddah, you are such an adorable & a spirited person 😘

  • @stanleyhercules
    @stanleyhercules Před 2 lety +2

    This reporter's heart of compassion is so bright and beautiful it made me tear up. I pray to be able to express the love I feel in my heart with such clarity and unbridled kindness, both to others and to myself.

  • @jlt94earthwarrior1
    @jlt94earthwarrior1 Před 5 lety +5

    Hudah! Her laugh is so infectious! Wish her luck where ever she goes. Also love how open minded Alex seems to be.

  • @karenwangari4057
    @karenwangari4057 Před 2 lety +4

    So grateful to the person who came up with this..also Hudah's laugh is gold

  • @lovingvickky
    @lovingvickky Před 5 lety +29

    Wonderful documentary, you made me cry. I was thinking from last one year to do some meaningful thing in my life apart from my normal routine. Now I have decided that I will arrange such conferences or Introduction seminars once in six months. I spoke this idea to a couple of my friends. They are agreed and we have almost arranged resources. I am sure we will help such guys to tie their divine knot.

  • @ashtekarrush
    @ashtekarrush Před 5 lety +1

    THANK YOU FOR BRINGING LIGHT ON THIS!!AND BRINGING IT TOGETHER SO BEAUTIFULLY!

  • @nassrakhan863
    @nassrakhan863 Před 3 lety +3

    Very interesting. Huda is so beautiful and intelligent. My first cousin married a girl who had polio. My cousin is able-bodied and is currently a Brigadier in the Army. They have been happily married for over 25 years now. So there are some good people out there too who have the ability to look beyond what someone looks like. I hope Huda finds a wonderful person, she deserves it.

  • @alphajalloh8602
    @alphajalloh8602 Před 3 lety +3

    Amazing documentary, I smiled during the entire video. Nothing make me more happy when I see someone feeling like hopeless but strive and keep a positive life

  • @priscillafuentes8663
    @priscillafuentes8663 Před 3 lety +3

    Huda is lovely. I'm disabled too. Their all beautiful people,who are truly gems in their own way.

  • @TheLadydeath02
    @TheLadydeath02 Před 6 lety +9

    This is such a great Initiative.. I never knew this before :)

  • @butterflys7970
    @butterflys7970 Před 6 lety +9

    Good anchoring and bless full documentary

  • @whoknows1408
    @whoknows1408 Před 6 lety +112

    "So is it important that the girl her meets is Catholic? No, I just want him to meet a simple girl that will take care of him. Oh okay so what type of girl would be ideal? A Catholic one." Haha wut?

    • @goddesshatmehit4861
      @goddesshatmehit4861 Před 6 lety +2

      Solora LTD. She didn't understand

    • @queendolly1993
      @queendolly1993 Před 6 lety +75

      “Ideal” that was the key word! A catholic woman would be ideal but a simple girl that takes care of him is fine as well. We shouldn’t allow language barriers to shape our perspectives! Read between the lines!

    • @whoknows1408
      @whoknows1408 Před 6 lety +1

      Shanice Bramwell chill

    • @malikrahman8649
      @malikrahman8649 Před 6 lety +15

      Ideally Catholic but she doesn't mind.

    • @rainbow7135
      @rainbow7135 Před 3 lety

      Thats the mentality we can never change 😣

  • @thedarkknight4243
    @thedarkknight4243 Před 6 lety +33

    Be strong, disability is not inability, God is in control, He guide you in your journey 🤗☺️😔😄

  • @shaynasLyfe
    @shaynasLyfe Před rokem +1

    the reporter is so sweet and positive , he really got so personal with each person he spoke to.

  • @ishtar0077
    @ishtar0077 Před 3 lety +2

    Please redo this video again . Its been 2yrs maybe things have change

  • @subaas_baig8756
    @subaas_baig8756 Před 6 lety +3

    Amazing documentary. Inspiring for those that are differently abled.

  • @jigarp999
    @jigarp999 Před 6 lety +8

    Awesome host! Great episode!

  • @yicama2098
    @yicama2098 Před 3 lety

    The most heartwarming episode. Bless these people for doing this, and this genuine reporter.

  • @FawadZakai
    @FawadZakai Před 3 lety +2

    Despite of being disabled by birth and a Muslim; i'd five rejections from women due to not having a job. i told them that i'm well financially stabled so why'd i need to work?

  • @StCloud-ns7vt
    @StCloud-ns7vt Před 6 lety +10

    so wonderful. they're all so strong and beautiful. much power to them xxoo

  • @saheelfaldesai221
    @saheelfaldesai221 Před 6 lety +10

    It's the best episode by Unreported World.!

  • @nadeemsheikh5257
    @nadeemsheikh5257 Před 3 lety +2

    8:24 A smile with deep sorrows. May Allah make her life easy and happy.Ameen

  • @TheSaba2115
    @TheSaba2115 Před 3 lety +1

    Such great reporting! 👍👍👍 We need a Part II

  • @anubis9901
    @anubis9901 Před 6 lety +5

    This channel is... I have no words 😻

  • @uwiblue
    @uwiblue Před 6 lety +96

    👍I’m soooooo rooting for Alex and Huddah!!! Updates, please! 🙌✝️💝☪️🙌

    • @laughingbirds6724
      @laughingbirds6724 Před 5 lety +6

      If she is religious ,she will not mary , in islam marriage with non believer is prohibited.

    • @avneetbehl8326
      @avneetbehl8326 Před 5 lety +9

      laughing birds Alex is not non believer; he is a believer of Catholic life.

    • @Shubh22
      @Shubh22 Před 3 lety +1

      @@avneetbehl8326 Then you don't know about the Islamic rules of marriage. A Muslim man can marry non-Muslim, but Muslim girls are not allowed to marry non-Muslims.

    • @carolinammajp11
      @carolinammajp11 Před 3 lety

      Muslim women cannot marry Christian, Muslim.Men do marry People of the Book.

    • @carolinammajp11
      @carolinammajp11 Před 3 lety

      @@avneetbehl8326 But he is unbeliever for Muslims dont believe in Allah

  • @ulrika_
    @ulrika_ Před 5 lety +2

    Love you did a video with positive vibes! More of these please!! :)

  • @rahallivex
    @rahallivex Před 6 lety

    really a must watch...excellent...hope this trend gathers more attention and persuades those who feel their disability is a curse.

  • @ElcioThenorio
    @ElcioThenorio Před 3 lety +3

    What a lovely work of good journalism. Congratulations from Brazil to all the team.

  • @neetunaik723
    @neetunaik723 Před 5 lety +14

    Yes we are left overs, but we also know to enjoy our life with what we have got....😊

  • @fromthearchives01
    @fromthearchives01 Před 3 lety

    this was so beautiful to watch. Thank you for this!

  • @zuesbenz
    @zuesbenz Před 5 lety +3

    Kudos for making this, I learned a lot. Can't thank you enough. Subscribed.

  • @sst8465
    @sst8465 Před 5 lety +3

    Huddah has an amazing personality. She is not at all disabled to me. Hope you get the love of your life.

  • @jijumonm2345
    @jijumonm2345 Před 4 lety +6

    18:00 That moment right there. I was smiling through this entire documentary till that moment. As an Indian I was feeling overjoyed with optimism seeing all the smiling faces, but that moment just reminded me of my country's fucked up reality.

    • @AnshuKumar-fi2jy
      @AnshuKumar-fi2jy Před rokem +1

      This is not the reality of whole India . Don't generalise a population of 1.4B . I agree Caste system exists even today, but in the most undeveloped societies or villages.

  • @binaykumar139
    @binaykumar139 Před 3 lety

    I love their smiles.. it's overwhelming how much pain there is behind those sweet smiles.

  • @MukeshKumar-jg4gx
    @MukeshKumar-jg4gx Před 5 lety

    Vow !!!!! This video spoke about so many things. I feel so positive after watching.

  • @mohitgarg2814
    @mohitgarg2814 Před 6 lety +8

    Amazing, beautiful. Love the smile of all of them.

  • @rawtcollingsforth6119
    @rawtcollingsforth6119 Před 3 lety +3

    Why are all the best whole hearted ppl in this way! God bless

    • @emmanueldonalcy
      @emmanueldonalcy Před 3 lety +1

      Because God knows they are strong internally ...unlike u, who are weak ..and won't be able to handle this if we are in their position.

    • @rawtcollingsforth6119
      @rawtcollingsforth6119 Před 3 lety +1

      I agree.

  • @allenmartinalmeida4728
    @allenmartinalmeida4728 Před 2 lety +1

    Despite all its issues, India is a beacon to the developing world.. The majority of its people are not just growing economically, but also socially in the right direction.. There are fringe elements, but they are in their last few days and thats why you see them make more noise than ever before..

  • @RikasHarsaOfficial
    @RikasHarsaOfficial Před 5 lety

    Love the video content. Two thumbs up.