My dog just passed away 2 days ago. I’ve been crying randomly during the day just thinking of him. It’s killing me inside. I saw him crying into sleep. Just seeing those tears when I saw him pass away killed me. I showered him with millions of kisses as he laid there
My dog passed in January so I know that terrible pain the first couple of days. But many of the things he had talked about did help. I started feeling better when I put away her things, I too wrote a letter to her the day after she died and it does help to talk to people. But every once in awhile when I think I'm fine, a twinge of pain catches me and tears well in my eyes. I'm always going to miss her.
Sorry to be off topic but does someone know a way to log back into an Instagram account? I stupidly lost the account password. I love any tricks you can offer me.
@Magnus Jaxtyn Thanks for your reply. I got to the site thru google and im in the hacking process atm. Looks like it's gonna take quite some time so I will get back to you later when my account password hopefully is recovered.
I lost my little boy Jan 9. It was an honor to know such a loving being and he brought me so much joy and enriched my life immeasurably. I’ve been coping by focusing on gratitude but have had to deal with not being able to get his ashes from an insensitive and possibly scam cremation company in Ozone Park NY. Sending positivity to everyone going through the experience of loss.
I appreciate your words. I recently lost my older brother 5 weeks ago. He was 31 and unfortunately was involved in a fatal car accident. Life feels so fake now. I am having a difficult time coping with this loss. Your video however.... has helped me in have an idea of how to go about it all. Thank you. RIP Nikita.
just lost our 13 year old Dachshund today, he declined so fast in a few days, stopped eating, couldn't move much at all and he was in the hallway and passed away what looked to be peacefully but i know he was fighting hard to stay alive and it hurts so much not being able to see him anymore and his daily routines , but know he is at peace now god bless
Thank you for sharing. I lost my beautiful Libby Mae on September 17th at 4am. I cry everyday. she was/is my buddy, my pal, my partner. I talk to her all the time. I can truly feel her spirit around me. I feel so lost and hollow inside. It helps so much knowing that I'm not the only one with deep sadness from losing their pet. If only...
I'm so so sorry for your loss😢 i feel your pain just loss my mix chihuahua Dylan January 10/2021 and my heart so broken 💔 I cry every single day he's my first dog dylan is my love of my life i know I will see my Dylan again and he will forever in my heart 😭😭😭
Thank you so much for your video, Jeremy. I lost my best friend, Bambino, yesterday and I’m finding it so so hard, my house is so empty now. He had such a large presence in our lives. I took your advice and have just written a long letter to him. You’re right, it helps. Thank you, you have made me feel like I’m not alone and it’s so comforting to find people who understand.
Hey Gabi, glad to hear that writing the letter helped. Doesn't have to be a one time thing either. The "empty house" feeling is one of the toughest parts to overcome. Glad I could offer some comfort to you.
Had to put our 13 year old Golden down four days ago and am just devastated. Strange how much we love and miss our pets, they are really more like our children and as such the loss is beyond the understanding of those who have never had that kind of loving relationship with a soul who only knew how to love without reservation.
I feel your pain. When we love I don't think we love with any qualifiers. Pain of loss is the same. I'm sorry for your loss. Hope you can still smile at the happy memories.
Jeremy, I lost my 11 year old female cat, Amity, last Tuesday (Cancer of lungs)--also very unexpectedly. Of all the youtube videos I've been watching, yours is by far the most poignant and heartfelt. I can identify with you where all the others were deficient. I thank you very much, and hope you keep continuing on in a life which, for me, often has no meaning if such things like these must happen.
I really appreciate you saying that. I still regularly struggle with having lost Nikita, Fluffy, and my other pets. Actually right after I made this video I lost my cat, Tiger. He was the last pet I have. The only good thing to have come from all of it is in the comments of this video. It means more than you could imagine to know that this is helping people feel a little less alone. I'm sorry for you and Amity. I read the other day that the scars we bear are the evidence that we loved deeply.
My dog passed 10 months ago and the grief hit me today like it hasn’t in a while. Thanks for putting this video up - it’s shows me that I’m not alone. Nikita was (is!) a beautiful dog.
I’m coming up on a year since my sweet Alice died from cancer surgery complications. I am still gutted by her passing. Thank you for this video. Your sweet Nikita was such a beautiful girl. I know she is honored by your support for others experiencing grief. Your special love is evident with every word. Thank you for sharing this video.
Loss my buddy 3 weeks ago. Even though 3 weeks have passed, it feels like it happened yesterday. Before his transition, I didn't realize how fulfilled I felt with him present until he was no longer present. I'd look at people struggling during the Pandemic with loneliness, not really getting it. I get it now. Its not just the loss of their presence in your life, its the loss of the community you become apart of as a result of them being in your life. For example: My dog got me out of the house. I socialized with other dog owners, because of him. I got out in nature because of him. Anyone reading this.... each day gets a lil better, but this video will help you cope. There are some good recommendations inside. Thank you for sharing
I lost my beautiful chihuahua Henry in November, I miss him so much, sometimes it's unbearable but I'm so thankful for the wonderful times we spent together. Thank you for sharing this ❤️🐶
I just lost my pet chihuahua Shortie a week ago. I'm having a hard time coping with life in general. This is my first time losing a dog and I wonder how does one get over it??? Ur video has helped me some but I'm still hurting. Help Me JESUS because this is a hard one for me.
I really feel for you, I've just posted a comment. I lost my Henry in November and I'm so sad. He was our second dog and he was with me through some very tough times I spent most of my day everyday with him, it is so hard trying to get used to things as they are now but trust me you will over time. One day you will remember with smiles not tears, give yourself time. Take care x
Thank you for sharing🙏🏼 I've lost my Bunny buddy Friday and it really physically hurts. Talking about it and hearing other people talking about having gone through the same thing really helps. I hope you'll feel better everyday!
I lost my little man, my baby, a part of me when my little Chichuahua crossed to the spirit world a few days ago. My heart is broken and my body aches to see and feel him, it's all so painful 💔😭
Thanks very much for your sincere and heartfelt video. It’s been about 6 weeks since I put down my dog. It’s crazy how the grief comes in waves. I have always heard that about grief but this is my first time experiencing the waves. I have days or strings of days where I’m feeling alright and then for whatever reason, days when her absence is felt so strongly. To anyone dealing with the loss of a pet: I know that some moments, it feels like you cannot possibly survive the pain or ensure it any longer. I feel it too. But it’s just a feeling and it will subside. You will smile again at memories of your pet. It just takes time.
Thank you for your beautiful video. It really comforts me that you share your heartfelt tribute with all of us. I lost my best friend, my Mini Schnauzer, after an aggressive battle with cancer less than two weeks ago. He was only 6 years old. I feel we both weren't ready. As I listen to your honest and warm video, I am crying and am trying to move some of his toys and blankets away... It's so hard. But I feel less lonely with it, when I listen to you. Thank you 🧡
The emptiness they leave in your heart will always be there. These beautiful living beings are the most beautiful hello in your life, but always the most hardest goodbyes. Just know that they are in heaven at peace but restored and happy, rest assured that your fur kid want you to be happy as well. Always feel honored that God picked you to be part of his/her life and that one day you will see each other again. I hope that helps. I went through it 5 times already, is the most excruciating pain, and I can assure you I never cried so much in my life, and I will do it all over again. They deserve that and much more..... For everyone who is going through this pain, I pray that God gives you the strength to go on. The same love and care you gave your angel, I hope one day you will save another angel and treat him/her as part of your family as that is what your dog/cat or any other breathing living being would want you to do. God Bless🙏🙏
I just lost my dog ginger yesterday 2/18/2021. Me and hubby feel so sad. Ginger been with us 13+ years. Now when i am home it feel empty without her. All good memories of ginger makes me laugh. Now at look everywhere in the house her presence not here. Ginger would lay there. I miss her dearly. Good golden retriever ever. Miss her snoring when she naps. I am crying every day since. I only have 1 friend at work that has a dog so she understands what i am going through. Ginger is my first dog and my hubby. But never knew that losing a dog was this sad.
I lost my beagle Chance about 2 weeks ago. He was 14 years old too. Died in his sleep right on the couch in his favorite spot. It hurts soo bad, I miss him soo much 🥺😢😢😢
@@ImaginaryJeremy thank you! Your video kind of helped me tonight, it assured me im not alone and that this pain and emptiness of losing our pets is normal to feel. Thank you ❤ I hope one day this storm will pass and hopefully god will send me another fury friend when he knows I'm ready.
I understand what you’re saying....all to well..my senior teacup went to sleep in my arms 1/30/21 all 3 pounds of her......she was totally blind for a year and a half...her back leg was going out she soiled her bed...because she couldn’t get out of her bed...and I knew I had to make THAT DECISION...after she passed I came home got rid of her bed cleaned her water and food bowl and put them up...and just kept her tiny IKEA bear she slept with...I have been going through so much heartbreak and crying constantly...her ashes are in a beautiful box which fit in the palm of my hand...it will get easier with time...because I know I did the loving thing to end her pain and suffering...I loved My Chula so much...she was with me from 7 weeks old till the day she left me...so I understand your grief and pain...but I choose to remember all the wonderful times the love and laughter she brought into my life...My Chula will always have a place in my heart💔 rip Nikita
Thank you for this. My rescue dog suddenly passed away a month ago and it hasn’t really gotten better for me. I feel alone bc it seems like I’m the only one grieving for this long. Watching people talk about their pets and feeling what I’m feeling right now makes me feel like I’m not alone. So thank you for this video. I hope one day I can feel “normal” again.
Thanks for sharing, I’m going through it now. My dog had cancer and aggressively when to a different spot (which was missed). He was in remission and thought I had more time with him.
Oh man do I know your pain. I lost my 8 year old dachshund Buckee to renal failure back in September 2018. I've never had a physical pain inside of me like I did after losing him, even losing human family members. I felt a total disconnect from life and i shut out family and friends for a short time after losing him. The only thing that made the pain go away was alcohol, and drank a lot. I'm doing much better now, but I still feel the pain.
My wife and I made the decision last Tuesday to have our sheltie to sleep. It is one of the hardest things to do and took a lot of research and thought process to come to this decision. The grief starts as soon as you start thinking about it. Our pet and faithful companion was very sick and we tried everything to help her in the last two years. Time took away her hearing in the last year, she was loosing weight to the point of her bones were sticking out and her fur would roll over itself as you rubbed her or petted her. She had cataracts and was having trouble seeing. Her ability to walk was deteriorating to the point the wind would blow her over. She was in pain because of arthritic joints. Her eyes were watering and sinking back into her face. She could not play or run. Her good days were fewer than the bad days, she was unable to control bowel movements. Now that she is gone the emptiness has set in. I wish I could have found something that could have cured her problems, did I do the right thing is always goin thru my mind. Did I let her suffer to long? She filled so much of the day and now the day is full of empty spots that she would have filled. Now that its over I think of what would it be worth to have just 10 more minutes with her. Ray
I can relate to everything you are saying, my girl just passed three days ago and it is killing me. She had kidney failure...no symptoms that we noticed until 10/14/2020 then she lost her appetite. She went to the doctor on 10/19/20 and spent three days in the hospital, came home with some meds and Sub Q fluids. Over the next two weeks she withered away to nothing, she would not eat, got her high calorie paste we would force on to her tongue but it was not enough. Every day she got a little worse until I knew she was suffering too much. I wanted to have her put down at home so I made her an appointment three days out (was the earliest). I never thought she would decline so quickly, her vet gave me no warning it could be that fast. That night she was miserable moaning and sick so we wanted to take her to the Evet room...they were full and would not take her so we tried the one further away and they had no doctor on staff that night. My beautiful girl was suffering so bad and there was nothing I could do until the next morning when a vet would open. She passed away that night and it was terrible. She had a seizure that lasted about a full minute then another one and she was gone after an hour of moaning. I can't believe I let the companion I love , my beautiful girl suffer so much. I hate myself for it. She lived right next to me every day of her amazing life for 12 years. Always on top of my feet when I work at my desk, On the side of my bed at night. When I would get up to go to the bathroom she followed and waited for me to come out. I am so empty and filled to the top with grief. I want to kiss her one more time on her face and hug her big furry body. I will NEVER get over this. I hope we will meet again someday. Sounds like you did good by your baby and you didn't make her suffer. I too would do anything to have one more hour with her and I would give my life savings to do over her last day...if only I had known. Love to all...Kim
@@SagittariusArcherVaperkitten Getting over the loss of a pet is a life time event. Our little girl is there in my mind and memories for ever. I try to think of the good times and try not to 2nd guess the decision I made at the last. I wish we could have cured her ills. I still lower my hand beside my recliner to pet her head, old habits are still there. Ray
This really helped me so much. Thank you for sharing. I lost my Chloe Bug at 13 and she was a very healthy 13 and died so suddenly. It has been two three weeks and I’m still in complete shock.
I feel you ,Nov 1st marks 1 year since I had to put down my lab chow ,and December 5 marks 1 year of losing my beagle,they were best buddies and best friends.botb lived to be 19 or 20 years old ,any memory that comes up I start to cry
Thank you for your video. We had to put Frodo, American Short Hair cat to sleep last night. Everything reminds me of him. The pain is so deep, I find it hard to breath. I cry inside, I find it hard to sleep.
I'm so sorry, Elle. It will get a little lighter in time. And though even the good memories hurt it's helpful to remember the smiles they brought you, too.
Thank you for sharing your video. My dog was ran over by the robber . she only 2/5 years old. She died in my hand 10 days later. Right now I going Through so much pain and fell devastated. I am missed her everyday. Thank you.
lost my sweet baby boy Benji 3 weeks ago was blessed almost 12 years of him enriching my life hope you found your big brother Bobo and you are getting along with him while you wait for your sisters Bella and little Patty Kay to join you at the rainbow bridge
Thank you 🙏🏻 it’s been a year for us 💔a sudden unexpected loss I still can’t say it my son has had a breakdown he’s 23 years old the pain is sohhhh draining I too have written to him and I too read the words I said to him because they were raw grief 💔,listening to your video was comforting to know we’re not mad because we feel such grief 🙏🏻✨✨RIP Wilson ❤️
Ohh what a beautiful heart you have. It truly feels like your heart is ripped out. Sounds awful but I can’t recall grieving this much for a human?! I hope your on your way to healing? This kind of loss kills. Its been two months since my boy passed suddenly & by accident from a vet. I’m so messed up. I dread every waking day. I’m So confused ,I go back the last few days we had together over & over & over. Feels like I’m kinda going mad. He was so full of life & 24 hrs later I’m holding his lifeless body. Im so confused had no gut feeling, why? wtf?? No warning? He was only 8 yrs old 🐶❤️🐶
How do you deal with: Having a perfect awesome best incredible dog for 18.5 years ....... and then a health problem comes along & nobody can daignose it & you feel forced to euthenize them? I heard pain & he needed me badly to help him & I couldnt. ..... here we are 4 days later & I feel because of me, My special freind is gone forever. When the chips were down & he counted on me to make it stop hurting, I failed. I cant get his cries out of my head & seeing his eyes. 18.5 years, I never wanted it to end that way, ever. and my world is turmoil now.
I had a 2nd choice had I not had my sister telling me hes ready to go & I need to let him go, over & over. ....2nd choice Hindsight ....... get the Vet Pain shot, that would buy me some time 8ish hours or less........ I could have came up with 800.00 in that time to run the needed tests & see whats what. It couldve been a mild issue, it couldve been a life threatening issue..... I dont know, but My dog is Dead & Im miserable & lost.
My baby girl Nella died this morning. I’m devastated. She was supposed to be getting better. I hate this feeling. She was so much to me. My best friend.
@@ImaginaryJeremy I’m feeling a little better today. I keep questioning things now. Like things I missed that led to this. I’m just so happy that we had the time we did. She changed my life. Thank you for your video. It truly helped me yesterday when I was inconsolable.
@@jacklowther4912 I'm so glad to hear I was able to help you and so impressed you're already able to focus on the gratitude you have for your pet and your time with her. They may leave us but the impact they had on us never will.
@@ImaginaryJeremy before I adopted her she had a really hard life. I spoiled her immensely. We were extremely close. We knew how to communicate as if she spoke English. She was something special. I’m just happy I could make her happy.
I lost my 13 year old Niko yesterday 💔 I can't with this pain, im so heartbroken. I loved him with all my heart and he loved me too ❤ please tell me this pain gets better 💔
The pain is always terrible, but it gets easier to deal with. And it won't hurt as often. You'll get through this :) as hard as it is to imagine right now.
@@ImaginaryJeremy thank you so much for your words, im reaching g out to support groups on Facebook and watching videos to help myself because this is so hard
My dog just passed away 2 days ago. I’ve been crying randomly during the day just thinking of him. It’s killing me inside. I saw him crying into sleep. Just seeing those tears when I saw him pass away killed me. I showered him with millions of kisses as he laid there
My dog passed in January so I know that terrible pain the first couple of days. But many of the things he had talked about did help. I started feeling better when I put away her things, I too wrote a letter to her the day after she died and it does help to talk to people. But every once in awhile when I think I'm fine, a twinge of pain catches me and tears well in my eyes. I'm always going to miss her.
That pain of losing a pet never goes away, that pain stays with you always. RIP Nikita
Sorry to be off topic but does someone know a way to log back into an Instagram account?
I stupidly lost the account password. I love any tricks you can offer me.
@Uriah Hunter instablaster =)
@Magnus Jaxtyn Thanks for your reply. I got to the site thru google and im in the hacking process atm.
Looks like it's gonna take quite some time so I will get back to you later when my account password hopefully is recovered.
@Magnus Jaxtyn It worked and I actually got access to my account again. I'm so happy!
Thanks so much you saved my ass !
@Uriah Hunter no problem xD
I hear you brother, the loss of my best friend Napoleon will never go away. 15 years of love...
I lost my little boy Jan 9. It was an honor to know such a loving being and he brought me so much joy and enriched my life immeasurably. I’ve been coping by focusing on gratitude but have had to deal with not being able to get his ashes from an insensitive and possibly scam cremation company in Ozone Park NY.
Sending positivity to everyone going through the experience of loss.
I appreciate your words. I recently lost my older brother 5 weeks ago. He was 31 and unfortunately was involved in a fatal car accident. Life feels so fake now. I am having a difficult time coping with this loss. Your video however.... has helped me in have an idea of how to go about it all. Thank you. RIP Nikita.
I'm so sorry to hear about your loss. I hope that you have or can find people around you to turn to when you need help getting through it all.
just lost our 13 year old Dachshund today, he declined so fast in a few days, stopped eating, couldn't move much at all and he was in the hallway and passed away what looked to be peacefully but i know he was fighting hard to stay alive and it hurts so much not being able to see him anymore and his daily routines , but know he is at peace now god bless
Thank you for sharing. I lost my beautiful Libby Mae on September 17th at 4am. I cry everyday. she was/is my buddy, my pal, my partner. I talk to her all the time. I can truly feel her spirit around me. I feel so lost and hollow inside. It helps so much knowing that I'm not the only one with deep sadness from losing their pet. If only...
I'm sorry for your loss
I'm so so sorry for your loss😢 i feel your pain just loss my mix chihuahua Dylan January 10/2021 and my heart so broken 💔 I cry every single day he's my first dog dylan is my love of my life i know I will see my Dylan again and he will forever in my heart 😭😭😭
Thank you so much for your video, Jeremy. I lost my best friend, Bambino, yesterday and I’m finding it so so hard, my house is so empty now. He had such a large presence in our lives. I took your advice and have just written a long letter to him. You’re right, it helps. Thank you, you have made me feel like I’m not alone and it’s so comforting to find people who understand.
Hey Gabi, glad to hear that writing the letter helped. Doesn't have to be a one time thing either. The "empty house" feeling is one of the toughest parts to overcome. Glad I could offer some comfort to you.
Had to put our 13 year old Golden down four days ago and am just devastated. Strange how much we love and miss our pets, they are really more like our children and as such the loss is beyond the understanding of those who have never had that kind of loving relationship with a soul who only knew how to love without reservation.
I feel your pain. When we love I don't think we love with any qualifiers. Pain of loss is the same. I'm sorry for your loss. Hope you can still smile at the happy memories.
Jeremy, I lost my 11 year old female cat, Amity, last Tuesday (Cancer of lungs)--also very unexpectedly. Of all the youtube videos I've been watching, yours is by far the most poignant and heartfelt. I can identify with you where all the others were deficient. I thank you very much, and hope you keep continuing on in a life which, for me, often has no meaning if such things like these must happen.
I really appreciate you saying that. I still regularly struggle with having lost Nikita, Fluffy, and my other pets. Actually right after I made this video I lost my cat, Tiger. He was the last pet I have. The only good thing to have come from all of it is in the comments of this video. It means more than you could imagine to know that this is helping people feel a little less alone. I'm sorry for you and Amity. I read the other day that the scars we bear are the evidence that we loved deeply.
My dog passed 10 months ago and the grief hit me today like it hasn’t in a while. Thanks for putting this video up - it’s shows me that I’m not alone. Nikita was (is!) a beautiful dog.
I'm sorry for your loss. It's so hard when it just pops up out of nowhere. Hit me again just this week, too.
I’m coming up on a year since my sweet Alice died from cancer surgery complications. I am still gutted by her passing. Thank you for this video. Your sweet Nikita was such a beautiful girl. I know she is honored by your support for others experiencing grief. Your special love is evident with every word. Thank you for sharing this video.
I'm so sorry about Alice. A year is such a short time when it comes to grief. Thank you for your kind words about Nikita. Was nice to read today.
I have nothing to add but thank you x
Loss my buddy 3 weeks ago. Even though 3 weeks have passed, it feels like it happened yesterday. Before his transition, I didn't realize how fulfilled I felt with him present until he was no longer present. I'd look at people struggling during the Pandemic with loneliness, not really getting it. I get it now. Its not just the loss of their presence in your life, its the loss of the community you become apart of as a result of them being in your life. For example: My dog got me out of the house. I socialized with other dog owners, because of him. I got out in nature because of him. Anyone reading this.... each day gets a lil better, but this video will help you cope. There are some good recommendations inside. Thank you for sharing
Thank you for sharing, too.
I lost my beautiful chihuahua Henry in November, I miss him so much, sometimes it's unbearable but I'm so thankful for the wonderful times we spent together. Thank you for sharing this ❤️🐶
Sorry for your loss man.
Lost my 12 year old boxer 3 days ago. I knew it wouldn't be easy. I like the letter writing idea, I'm going to try that. Thanks for sharing this.
Just lost my best friend/pupkid tonight. I am soo heartbroken! Thank you for being soo transparent.
Made this video so it might be a little easier for other people dealing with it. Thinking of you and your pupkid tonight!
I just lost my pet chihuahua Shortie a week ago. I'm having a hard time coping with life in general. This is my first time losing a dog and I wonder how does one get over it??? Ur video has helped me some but I'm still hurting. Help Me JESUS because this is a hard one for me.
I really feel for you, I've just posted a comment. I lost my Henry in November and I'm so sad. He was our second dog and he was with me through some very tough times I spent most of my day everyday with him, it is so hard trying to get used to things as they are now but trust me you will over time. One day you will remember with smiles not tears, give yourself time. Take care x
Thank you for sharing🙏🏼 I've lost my Bunny buddy Friday and it really physically hurts. Talking about it and hearing other people talking about having gone through the same thing really helps. I hope you'll feel better everyday!
Thank you! Sorry for your bunny!
I lost my little man, my baby, a part of me when my little Chichuahua crossed to the spirit world a few days ago. My heart is broken and my body aches to see and feel him, it's all so painful 💔😭
Thanks very much for your sincere and heartfelt video. It’s been about 6 weeks since I put down my dog. It’s crazy how the grief comes in waves. I have always heard that about grief but this is my first time experiencing the waves. I have days or strings of days where I’m feeling alright and then for whatever reason, days when her absence is felt so strongly.
To anyone dealing with the loss of a pet: I know that some moments, it feels like you cannot possibly survive the pain or ensure it any longer. I feel it too. But it’s just a feeling and it will subside. You will smile again at memories of your pet. It just takes time.
Love your advice and glad my video could help show you you're not alone. I still have those days, too.
I’m sorry for your loss. I lost my 12 year old girl 2 and a half months ago. It’s so hard.
Thank you, Lisa. I'm sorry for yours, too. Take it easy on yourself. :)
Thanks. Just lost the love of my life. Devastating. Had no idea I could feel so much grief.
I'm so sorry to hear that. We share so much love with our pets.
Thank you for your beautiful video. It really comforts me that you share your heartfelt tribute with all of us. I lost my best friend, my Mini Schnauzer, after an aggressive battle with cancer less than two weeks ago. He was only 6 years old. I feel we both weren't ready. As I listen to your honest and warm video, I am crying and am trying to move some of his toys and blankets away... It's so hard. But I feel less lonely with it, when I listen to you. Thank you 🧡
The emptiness they leave in your heart will always be there. These beautiful living beings are the most beautiful hello in your life, but always the most hardest goodbyes. Just know that they are in heaven at peace but restored and happy, rest assured that your fur kid want you to be happy as well. Always feel honored that God picked you to be part of his/her life and that one day you will see each other again. I hope that helps. I went through it 5 times already, is the most excruciating pain, and I can assure you I never cried so much in my life, and I will do it all over again. They deserve that and much more..... For everyone who is going through this pain, I pray that God gives you the strength to go on. The same love and care you gave your angel, I hope one day you will save another angel and treat him/her as part of your family as that is what your dog/cat or any other breathing living being would want you to do. God Bless🙏🙏
I just lost my dog ginger yesterday 2/18/2021. Me and hubby feel so sad. Ginger been with us 13+ years. Now when i am home it feel empty without her. All good memories of ginger makes me laugh. Now at look everywhere in the house her presence not here. Ginger would lay there. I miss her dearly. Good golden retriever ever. Miss her snoring when she naps. I am crying every day since. I only have 1 friend at work that has a dog so she understands what i am going through. Ginger is my first dog and my hubby. But never knew that losing a dog was this sad.
Love golden retrievers. I know your pain. It was a long road to heal for me and I hope you continue to keep those good memories moving forward.
I lost my beagle Chance about 2 weeks ago. He was 14 years old too. Died in his sleep right on the couch in his favorite spot. It hurts soo bad, I miss him soo much 🥺😢😢😢
I'm so sorry Nattie. It's tough :(
@@ImaginaryJeremy thank you! Your video kind of helped me tonight, it assured me im not alone and that this pain and emptiness of losing our pets is normal to feel. Thank you ❤ I hope one day this storm will pass and hopefully god will send me another fury friend when he knows I'm ready.
@@nattie3177 Definitely not alone
@@ImaginaryJeremy thank u so much ❤❤❤🙏
Thank you Jeremy for this.
My Bicton Frise " Belle" passed away two weeks ago. Heartbroken.
I understand what you’re saying....all to well..my senior teacup went to sleep in my arms 1/30/21 all 3 pounds of her......she was totally blind for a year and a half...her back leg was going out she soiled her bed...because she couldn’t get out of her bed...and I knew I had to make THAT DECISION...after she passed I came home got rid of her bed cleaned her water and food bowl and put them up...and just kept her tiny IKEA bear she slept with...I have been going through so much heartbreak and crying constantly...her ashes are in a beautiful box which fit in the palm of my hand...it will get easier with time...because I know I did the loving thing to end her pain and suffering...I loved My Chula so much...she was with me from 7 weeks old till the day she left me...so I understand your grief and pain...but I choose to remember all the wonderful times the love and laughter she brought into my life...My Chula will always have a place in my heart💔 rip Nikita
RIP Chula
Thank you for this. My rescue dog suddenly passed away a month ago and it hasn’t really gotten better for me. I feel alone bc it seems like I’m the only one grieving for this long. Watching people talk about their pets and feeling what I’m feeling right now makes me feel like I’m not alone. So thank you for this video. I hope one day I can feel “normal” again.
I hope so, too. It's sometimes just as hard to feel alone as it is to deal with loss. I'm here! Just across a screen somewhere else.
Thanks for sharing, I’m going through it now. My dog had cancer and aggressively when to a different spot (which was missed). He was in remission and thought I had more time with him.
It's such a difficult thing to go through. I'm sorry.
Thank you for sharing, my heart goes out to you. Those are some precious photos. I recently lost my pup, and I'm so crushed, he was my soul doggie!
I'm so sorry. It's such a hard thing. It does get easier to live with in time, but it's never quite the same.
@@ImaginaryJeremy thank u, I sure hope it gets easier💔
Oh man do I know your pain. I lost my 8 year old dachshund Buckee to renal failure back in September 2018. I've never had a physical pain inside of me like I did after losing him, even losing human family members. I felt a total disconnect from life and i shut out family and friends for a short time after losing him. The only thing that made the pain go away was alcohol, and drank a lot. I'm doing much better now, but I still feel the pain.
I'm sorry :( 8's so young, too. Glad you're doing better. It's definitely difficult to cope and stick to healthy coping mechanisms.
My wife and I made the decision last Tuesday to have our sheltie to sleep. It is one of the hardest things to do and took a lot of research and thought process to come to this decision. The grief starts as soon as you start thinking about it. Our pet and faithful companion was very sick and we tried everything to help her in the last two years. Time took away her hearing in the last year, she was loosing weight to the point of her bones were sticking out and her fur would roll over itself as you rubbed her or petted her. She had cataracts and was having trouble seeing. Her ability to walk was deteriorating to the point the wind would blow her over. She was in pain because of arthritic joints. Her eyes were watering and sinking back into her face. She could not play or run. Her good days were fewer than the bad days, she was unable to control bowel movements. Now that she is gone the emptiness has set in. I wish I could have found something that could have cured her problems, did I do the right thing is always goin thru my mind. Did I let her suffer to long? She filled so much of the day and now the day is full of empty spots that she would have filled. Now that its over I think of what would it be worth to have just 10 more minutes with her.
Ray
I'm so sorry, Ray. Clearly you did what you did out of kindness. Hopefully, over time, that will be easier to balance. It's never easy.
I am so sorry. I am goung thru it as well & its so hard to know she is not here is hard for me to accept cause i misd her so.
I can relate to everything you are saying, my girl just passed three days ago and it is killing me. She had kidney failure...no symptoms that we noticed until 10/14/2020 then she lost her appetite. She went to the doctor on 10/19/20 and spent three days in the hospital, came home with some meds and Sub Q fluids. Over the next two weeks she withered away to nothing, she would not eat, got her high calorie paste we would force on to her tongue but it was not enough. Every day she got a little worse until I knew she was suffering too much. I wanted to have her put down at home so I made her an appointment three days out (was the earliest). I never thought she would decline so quickly, her vet gave me no warning it could be that fast. That night she was miserable moaning and sick so we wanted to take her to the Evet room...they were full and would not take her so we tried the one further away and they had no doctor on staff that night. My beautiful girl was suffering so bad and there was nothing I could do until the next morning when a vet would open. She passed away that night and it was terrible. She had a seizure that lasted about a full minute then another one and she was gone after an hour of moaning. I can't believe I let the companion I love , my beautiful girl suffer so much. I hate myself for it. She lived right next to me every day of her amazing life for 12 years. Always on top of my feet when I work at my desk, On the side of my bed at night. When I would get up to go to the bathroom she followed and waited for me to come out. I am so empty and filled to the top with grief. I want to kiss her one more time on her face and hug her big furry body. I will NEVER get over this. I hope we will meet again someday. Sounds like you did good by your baby and you didn't make her suffer. I too would do anything to have one more hour with her and I would give my life savings to do over her last day...if only I had known. Love to all...Kim
@@SagittariusArcherVaperkitten Getting over the loss of a pet is a life time event. Our little girl is there in my mind and memories for ever. I try to think of the good times and try not to 2nd guess the decision I made at the last. I wish we could have cured her ills. I still lower my hand beside my recliner to pet her head, old habits are still there.
Ray
@@nanulove2324 I'm sorry for your loss, pets are so dear to our hearts. I still miss our little girl and would dearly love to hold her again.
Ray
This really helped me so much. Thank you for sharing. I lost my Chloe Bug at 13 and she was a very healthy 13 and died so suddenly. It has been two three weeks and I’m still in complete shock.
Three weeks is still so soon. I'm glad I could help and I'm sorry about your Chloe Bug :(
I feel you ,Nov 1st marks 1 year since I had to put down my lab chow ,and December 5 marks 1 year of losing my beagle,they were best buddies and best friends.botb lived to be 19 or 20 years old ,any memory that comes up I start to cry
Thank you for making this video, Jeremy. We had to put our black lab down in October of last year. Everything you said here, I feel all the time.
It's a hard and terrible thing to go to. Heart is with you.
Its been 15 years since I lost my boy it don't get any easier the pain never goes away we done everything together he was my best friend
Good job Brother. I'm very proud of you. Lost my 6 year old Havanese, Chestnut, 3 months ago (October 26, 2022). It is truly devastating.
6 is so young. I'm so sorry.
My gf shot this video to show me how crazy Chestnut got when I didn't return to the house with her.
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Thank you for your video. We had to put Frodo, American Short Hair cat to sleep last night. Everything reminds me of him. The pain is so deep, I find it hard to breath. I cry inside, I find it hard to sleep.
I'm so sorry, Elle. It will get a little lighter in time. And though even the good memories hurt it's helpful to remember the smiles they brought you, too.
Thank you for sharing your video. My dog was ran over by the robber . she only 2/5 years old. She died in my hand 10 days later. Right now I going
Through so much pain and fell devastated. I am missed her everyday. Thank you.
3 months since I lost my boy Goldie, all I can say really is that this has been hell. Will the sadness ever become less.
We lost 3 Chows. One died at 7, one at 8, last one at 9. I still grieve for all 3. We have a Sib. Husky now but it's not the same.....
lost my sweet baby boy Benji 3 weeks ago was blessed almost 12 years of him enriching my life hope you found your big brother Bobo and you are getting along with him while you wait for your sisters Bella and little Patty Kay to join you at the rainbow bridge
My dog passed away last year as well
I'm sorry
My dog Lucky passed away just 3 days ago and the loss is just so big i cried for 2 days and miss him so so much 😢
Thank you 🙏🏻 it’s been a year for us 💔a sudden unexpected loss I still can’t say it my son has had a breakdown he’s 23 years old the pain is sohhhh draining I too have written to him and I too read the words I said to him because they were raw grief 💔,listening to your video was comforting to know we’re not mad because we feel such grief 🙏🏻✨✨RIP Wilson ❤️
What you said it being draining hits it right on the head. RIP Wilson. I'm glad I could offer you some comfort.
Ohh what a beautiful heart you have. It truly feels like your heart is ripped out. Sounds awful but I can’t recall grieving this much for a human?! I hope your on your way to healing? This kind of loss kills. Its been two months since my boy passed suddenly & by accident from a vet. I’m so messed up. I dread every waking day. I’m So confused ,I go back the last few days we had together over & over & over. Feels like I’m kinda going mad. He was so full of life & 24 hrs later I’m holding his lifeless body. Im so confused had no gut feeling, why? wtf?? No warning? He was only 8 yrs old 🐶❤️🐶
My pain is with all you people, lost my border terrier cacey 4 weeks ago she was 16 it is hell and so painful the loss seems unbearable.
I have been there. We grow.
I lost my cat in September 17/22 and my bird in 8 November 2022 and I can't live anymore
I promise if you read the comments you'll see you're not alone. You can make it through this, as hard as it is.
How do you deal with: Having a perfect awesome best incredible dog for 18.5 years ....... and then a health problem comes along & nobody can daignose it & you feel forced to euthenize them? I heard pain & he needed me badly to help him & I couldnt. ..... here we are 4 days later & I feel because of me, My special freind is gone forever. When the chips were down & he counted on me to make it stop hurting, I failed. I cant get his cries out of my head & seeing his eyes. 18.5 years, I never wanted it to end that way, ever. and my world is turmoil now.
I had a 2nd choice had I not had my sister telling me hes ready to go & I need to let him go, over & over. ....2nd choice Hindsight ....... get the Vet Pain shot, that would buy me some time 8ish hours or less........ I could have came up with 800.00 in that time to run the needed tests & see whats what. It couldve been a mild issue, it couldve been a life threatening issue..... I dont know, but My dog is Dead & Im miserable & lost.
My baby girl Nella died this morning. I’m devastated. She was supposed to be getting better. I hate this feeling. She was so much to me. My best friend.
I'm so sorry Jack.
@@ImaginaryJeremy I’m feeling a little better today. I keep questioning things now. Like things I missed that led to this. I’m just so happy that we had the time we did. She changed my life. Thank you for your video. It truly helped me yesterday when I was inconsolable.
@@jacklowther4912 I'm so glad to hear I was able to help you and so impressed you're already able to focus on the gratitude you have for your pet and your time with her. They may leave us but the impact they had on us never will.
@@ImaginaryJeremy before I adopted her she had a really hard life. I spoiled her immensely. We were extremely close. We knew how to communicate as if she spoke English. She was something special. I’m just happy I could make her happy.
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I lost my 13 year old Niko yesterday 💔 I can't with this pain, im so heartbroken. I loved him with all my heart and he loved me too ❤ please tell me this pain gets better 💔
The pain is always terrible, but it gets easier to deal with. And it won't hurt as often. You'll get through this :) as hard as it is to imagine right now.
@@ImaginaryJeremy thank you so much for your words, im reaching g out to support groups on Facebook and watching videos to help myself because this is so hard
My gf shot this video to show me how crazy Chestnut got when I didn't return to the house with her.
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