CONVO| What choice must a husband make? Marriage or Career - Solo Ntsizwa Ka Mthimkhulu |ThatHusband

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  • čas přidán 4. 06. 2024
  • [S1] EPISODE 13: ANYTHING OF VALUE NEEDS WORK
    Anywhere you catch ‪@thelangas7479‬ it is very clear that they rest hard on their convictions. This is such a breath of fresh air in a time when anything goes. This episode is no different. ‪@langabaloyi‬ is unequivocal about his role as a husband and the responsibility that comes with that.
    In one section of the chat, Solo speaks with so much composure and self-assurance about being a "CUSTODIAN" of his wife's dreams. Yo, that was a powerful reminder to me, of the influence we possess as husbands, showing that we are tools in God's hands to shape his daughters. This power must be wielded carefully.
    This chat sheds light on the relationship between career and marriage, emphasizing how a strong marriage can and should be the foundation if career success is possible and it's clear which is more important. The balance and synergy between these two crucial aspects of life are essential, demonstrating that personal convictions and responsibilities in marriage will directly impact professional growth and stability.
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    #50years #solo #custodian #husband #wife #marriage #legacy #wisdom #career #work

Komentáře • 73

  • @The_Dream_Space
    @The_Dream_Space  Před 23 dny +10

    Thank you to everyone of you who have engaged with our content. If you would like to help support us so we can keep making more, there is a "Thanks" button under the video or you can buy us a coffee here buymeacoffee.com/thedreamspace
    Also, If you have an event of any kind Blaque Nubon is available as an excellent MC and Speaker. Get in touch here booking@blaquenubon.com

  • @XEMA1337
    @XEMA1337 Před 21 dnem +15

    I am a married woman & I enjoy your conversations, they really help me understand my husband better. Thank you 🙏🏿

    • @The_Dream_Space
      @The_Dream_Space  Před 21 dnem

      Thanks so much, these conversations are for everyone really who is interested in bettering their relationship dynamics. So happy you are here :)

  • @buyihlubi3344
    @buyihlubi3344 Před 21 dnem +10

    Its beautiful to witness men who value women beyond the preset "societal /traditional standards". Men who recognize a women's potential and ensure to protect and incubate it at all cost. Wow this gave me hope ! 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼

  • @StorytellerJobe
    @StorytellerJobe Před 22 dny +10

    I want my algorithm to show me more of such conversations. I loved this episode yho.

    • @The_Dream_Space
      @The_Dream_Space  Před 22 dny

      So glad you found us here! Check out some of our previous episodes as well. And yes may the algorithm gods bring you back!🙌🏾

  • @sibongisenisakhele3114
    @sibongisenisakhele3114 Před 19 dny +6

    Love the nuggets! "Why are you threatening my marriage?" Husbands respect❤

    • @The_Dream_Space
      @The_Dream_Space  Před 18 dny +1

      We don't play about that over here! lol Thanks so much for watching :)

  • @cee7671
    @cee7671 Před 22 dny +8

    Thank you for changing the narrative on black men and marriage

    • @The_Dream_Space
      @The_Dream_Space  Před 22 dny

      It’s such necessary work! Thanks so much for watching 🙌🏾

    • @cee7671
      @cee7671 Před 22 dny +3

      Some of us who never got to witness our mothers be loved right by our fathers are healing and learning from these types of conversations for real

  • @kuhlemndabe
    @kuhlemndabe Před 12 dny +2

    Always a pleasure listening to this brother speak on his marriage.

  • @samumathebula4396
    @samumathebula4396 Před 22 dny +9

    I will never NOT listen or tune to listen to Zothile speak on the institution of marriage, be it how they met, to this right here. It has me seating down and ponder on my values, my life, the partner I hope to have. The conscious decision to choose your partner in all valleys of life. To have him have people he looks up to abukela Kubo. I love it. Bless.

    • @The_Dream_Space
      @The_Dream_Space  Před 21 dnem

      It was a really special conversation, so appreciative that he was so giving in the conversation. Thanks so much for watching!

  • @cee7671
    @cee7671 Před 22 dny +8

    When he acknowledged the custodian power YESSSSSSS that's a good man right there , sis Dineo whatever you said in your prayers AMEN.

    • @lillymillion
      @lillymillion Před 22 dny +1

      That part!!! It rocked meeeee yoh!

    • @The_Dream_Space
      @The_Dream_Space  Před 22 dny +1

      We need a whole episode on that. Thanks so much for watching 🙏🏾

    • @cee7671
      @cee7671 Před 14 dny

      @lillymillion it was my first time hearing a man say that ! it's soooooo profound

  • @ofenmoer
    @ofenmoer Před 16 dny +2

    The value of great examples or role models cannot be talked about enough 😮!!!

  • @LadyLebza
    @LadyLebza Před 12 dny +1

    Came across this podcast on TikTok and I love it ❤ I’d love to see Priddy Ugly on an episode

  • @nokwethembambatha630
    @nokwethembambatha630 Před 23 dny +12

    sheesh, 16 minutes in and I'm already glued in. Love it.

  • @PottersClayTalks
    @PottersClayTalks Před 23 dny +15

    what is happening here, this is so cool, I am obviously not a husband... or a wife ahahahah but I love this

  • @maxwelldlamini6333
    @maxwelldlamini6333 Před 8 dny +1

    Inspiring talk lads.....As a Future Trophy Husband, I am learning a lot.

  • @tlalanekhanyane8074
    @tlalanekhanyane8074 Před 20 dny +3

    This is beautiful to watch 🙏🏼 6 minutes in and I’m glued to the screen ! ❤️ watching all the way in Lesotho 🇱🇸

  • @zodumoxhavulani7289
    @zodumoxhavulani7289 Před 23 dny +4

    Zothile is such a conversationist sana uyamameleka
    Thank you for this, wisdom from both of you 🙏

    • @The_Dream_Space
      @The_Dream_Space  Před 22 dny

      It was a brilliant chat! Thanks so much for watching!

  • @user-yl8ib5hq8j
    @user-yl8ib5hq8j Před 16 dny +2

    I'm buying coffee by watching the ads, clicking like and commenting below because angina mali askies. Thank you for the great content. I'm a wife and this helps to understand hubby's mind.

    • @The_Dream_Space
      @The_Dream_Space  Před 14 dny +2

      Thank you!!! Ads are MAJOR way we get to keep the lights on so thank you!!! Thanks so much for watching! 🙏🏾

    • @user-yl8ib5hq8j
      @user-yl8ib5hq8j Před 8 dny

      @@The_Dream_Space Oh my comment is highlighted?! Follow suit yal. This is the content we should consume

  • @lisathaleni1338
    @lisathaleni1338 Před 20 dny +4

    What prayers did Dineo pray because wow…

    • @missmpho.
      @missmpho. Před 19 dny +1

      Lol I am asking myself the same thing

  • @Zuza_Zamisa
    @Zuza_Zamisa Před 23 dny +7

    "The things I love are work"💪👏

  • @nhlanhlam121
    @nhlanhlam121 Před 5 dny

    Marriage is a beautiful gift from God. May God bless your marriages. Been married for 31 years now. It is possible with GOD🙏🏾❤❤

  • @pulanathulare9550
    @pulanathulare9550 Před 20 dny +6

    “I don’t struggle with loyalty, is not a weakness I have, BUT I don’t put myself to opportunities to test it…”!
    THANK YOU for this install. I enjoyed watching🤲🏾🤍

  • @snenhlanhlamashile6398
    @snenhlanhlamashile6398 Před 22 dny +3

    16min in and boyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy. I'm touched already 😢 sheesh

  • @missmpho.
    @missmpho. Před 21 dnem +2

    This is incredible hey. Truly good for unions

  • @nomvuyomorgan7872
    @nomvuyomorgan7872 Před 5 dny

    This was a refreshing conversation thank you

  • @cynthiadlamini690
    @cynthiadlamini690 Před 20 dny

    Wow

  • @yolisalisanqari
    @yolisalisanqari Před 21 dnem +1

    ❤ Amazing. Just making it work in our marriages ❤

  • @Its_Gwyn
    @Its_Gwyn Před 23 dny +2

    Such a good conversation

  • @Px28049
    @Px28049 Před 18 dny

    Thanks!

  • @Tom_34321
    @Tom_34321 Před 23 dny +1

    Great show. Watching from the East Rand

  • @sindimagubane3320
    @sindimagubane3320 Před 23 dny +1

    Great interview.

  • @PottersClayTalks
    @PottersClayTalks Před 23 dny +3

    Also, can't find the link to buy you a coffee...

  • @emba_d
    @emba_d Před 23 dny +1

    39:33 - 40:12 I am spinning 🤍

    • @The_Dream_Space
      @The_Dream_Space  Před 22 dny

      Listen!!! seems so obvious but we don't think of it much that way. So good!

  • @dineomoaisi6724
    @dineomoaisi6724 Před 23 dny

    1:05:46 Much respect to Sol for this 👊🏾

  • @samumathebula4396
    @samumathebula4396 Před 22 dny

    S/O to Blaque, Bless

  • @shamiso_t
    @shamiso_t Před 23 dny +1

    16:29 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣💀 it's giving
    "Damn, I'm sorry"😂 funny

  • @lisathaleni1338
    @lisathaleni1338 Před 19 dny +1

    Sheeeesh. Dineo bagged a real one?! A man that understands the gravity and weight kids have on a woman, and is protective of their wife’s dreams
    Urghhhhhhh🥹🥹😫

    • @The_Dream_Space
      @The_Dream_Space  Před 18 dny

      Its a beauitful sight! Thanks so much for watching :)

  • @chakavelile.9546
    @chakavelile.9546 Před 22 dny +1

    Appreciate the work you do brother,this podcast is appreciated. ✊🏾🫂

    • @The_Dream_Space
      @The_Dream_Space  Před 22 dny

      Thanks so much for the support bro! Much appreciated!!

  • @dineomoaisi6724
    @dineomoaisi6724 Před 23 dny +2

    Blaque 🎉 Keep doing what you’re doing! It’s working 🤌🏾

    • @The_Dream_Space
      @The_Dream_Space  Před 22 dny

      Thank you much for always showing love and giving encouragement. We all appreciate you over here! 🙏🏾