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Iyanla's Advice for This Newly Single Man | Help Desk | Oprah Winfrey Network
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- čas přidán 15. 11. 2014
- Clinton, 32, recently got out of a two-year relationship with a woman and is having trouble moving on. Watch why spiritual life coach Iyanla Vanzant says his situation all boils down to one thing. Tune in Sundays at noon ET/PT. For more on #HelpDesk , visit Oprah.com.
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Iyanla's Advice for This Newly Single Man | Help Desk | Oprah Winfrey Network
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He is beautiful. I thank GOD that he allowed himself to be vulnerable to love. It will be a blessing for his heart to be open to the right woman. Great advice Iylana.
What a brave man, how attractive
I am so incredibly proud of him for being brave enough to do this. There are so many men out there holding on to the fact that someone took advantage of their vulnerability. I really hope men take heed to this. I've dated two men who were emotionally scarred by women from their past and they were unable to fully open up. It's definitely frustrating and unfortunately I couldn't stick around, due to the toll it took on me emotionally. I really pray they can forgive and find true love. Good luck, Clinton! I'm sure you won't have any trouble finding a good woman.
edenb24 What advise you have for men who women will take advantage of their vulnerability?
@@depy2762 Iylana just gave it. Follow your gut n see ppl for who they are vs what u want to see. Peace to you
I've been there and I cannot stay trying to convince someone I am not those other women.
Rephrase: He LET someone take advantage of him.
People onky do what you allow them.
Same and I also say that’s a parenting issue that he didn’t get from his parents.
It is so refreshing to see a man showing his emotions and vulnerability. It is easy to forget that men sometimes have the same fears that women do. I pray that he meets a woman who will cherish him and give him the love that he so desires.
Send him to me!
Lol...sooo funny.
He's so hot and shy 😍😍
SugaT 2Sweet4u lol stop it you guys 🤣
😂😂😂
Yessss
Do a 'where are they now" on him. he is fine in every sense of the word and sensitive too!!!!
How can someone let tht go honestly!
girl!!
I had to watch this twice.. He's Really Handsome!!!
I hope next time he meets a lovely single lady and so that he can experienxe the joy of having his first own child,...
I can really relate to what this handsome gentleman went through. I allowed myself to be vulnerable to someone when I knew in my gut that something was off. I'm still working on accepting that he isn't the one for me, and this clip has helped me on that journey. I hope that this guy is able to heal and possibly reconnect with those kids one day.
I hope he does not beat himself up about this . And let it go. I know he had emotional attachments to that woman and her children. But he did what we all do in relationships, he was true .
He got great sound advice, and I am excited for him to. He seems like a wonderful guy and his queen is coming his way.
It's okay to be vulnerable and to own it. Such a good and optimistic outlook ☺️
I just went through this. Only one toddler instead of three. Great words of encouragement.
I hope you heal and find your good thing
So true about going with your gut...would have saved me a lot of my time.. I learned not everyone has a heart like me...when you keep thinking about a situation that don’t sit well, follow that✅
That girlfriend is a fool. This is a good man. I would've held onto him forever, you can tell he's a good person.
Just discovered the help desk....love it!!!
He's cute, and appears to be nice. He can come over here.... :)
+millie chris OKAY????? lol!
Her vibe is healing and soothing.
I, as a woman, was vulnerable, played, and now newly single. When I heard Iyanla say to Clinton, "She didn't deserve you", I felt the same for my situation: Someone takes advantage of you or you allow them to take advantage of you, and the result is hurt. Iyanla gave Clinton support and hope for him to open himself up enough to find the one who would appreciate him for all his goodness. Guard thy ❤️for the right one!☮️
All the women standing in the back, are smiling, and thinking..."Damn..."
Exactly! He didn’t leave that venue single!
iyanla is FLIRTING !!!!
inappropriate. if it was the other way around highly not okay.
Lord... a sensitive handsome man that is conscious of his being... whew chileee….
I wish he could read this message...I've been PRAYING FOR A GOOD MAN 🛐❤
I think his question was also about the children, as in, how does he relate to the kids after their break up?? They got attached and everything... Does he just stop talking to them.... Or does he keep in touch so they arent hurt....
Wow! Imagine how good it's going to be when the right one comes along! 🔥🔥🔥🔥 I never thought about it like that!
Thank you for helping one of our fellow men Ms.Iyanla - much appreciation
OH, I SAW IN THAT YOUNG MAN MY SENSIBLE, HUMAN-HEARTED SOUL HANDSOME SON! GOD BLESS HIM AND MY SON, HOPEFULLY THEY WILL BOTH FIND THEIR ONE AND ONLY SOULMATE ONE OF THESE DAYS.
As a single, the right one is important.
You can feel all the ladies in the room perking up for this cute guy.. 😂
Super simple advice.❤
So very cute! He can date me anytime!
He's gorgeous...
broken hearted, so sad
I want to hear the sister's version of the story.
Me too
***** Happy Holidays!!😄😄
Aww. He's a good guy. I liked that advice
Yes she read me for my past relationship I didn’t trust my instincts I was vulnerable and got played
I love his puppy eyes 💋
wait a minute.... that guy never said he got played, Iyanla just assumed he did. I wonder if that guy left the Help Desk having had gotten real help.
We didn't hear any of his side of the story smh...
This entertainment, not a 1 hour therapy session.
Right because men don't get played 😒. We got to do better. Men get hurt and played just like women do. Btw she's a therapist it's her job to see what you don't say.
@0:55 reminds me of Mike from the movie 'The Wood' lol. I hope he heals and finds the right woman.
Has Clinton found the one yet? Curious to know...
Down as a single mom I am so proud of this young man I'm not going to even say black African a man cuz it doesn't matter he's just a man I like it still type what color cuz color is just it's just a skin tone anyway however moreover I felt the same way but I was the one with the kit and then life continued on when I met this young man that was the ex husband the wheat had a child and I guess I can say I was liable I don't think he was I think he knew what he was doing now that time pass but I'm proud of this young man for just being real don't give up brother don't do it we both cannot let something like that in there our life and our hearts we just have to be more wear and we have to be upfront truthful about the next relationship God bless
I read all the thirsty comments from the women about this man. Its 2 sides to why the relationship ended. There is a reason why the woman he dated with 3 kids broke up with him, because it doesn't sound like he broke up. Have to look beyond the good looks, maybe he had a temper, not a good person to her kids, OR just a bad man.
Geez he's Handsome to me!
I wonder what happened to him and if he found the right one as yet?
I needed this thank you Iyanla ❤❤❤
Tell me what's really going on... Yes! That's right she didn't deserve you!
In my own opinion, I think Iyanla sometime talks too much and takes too much control of the conversation. Homie didn't really get a chance to vent
deadass
so i need to go to north carolina!
Bruh...I'd love to heal you. But in all seriousness vulnerabilities are hard show. But kudos to him acknowledging it he'll be better off for it.
I don’t know that she really answered his question though?
Truth
Well if he is hurt he should have a time alone to heal. Close a chapter before u open another book.
There is more to the story. His good looks ain’t fooling me.
All that's man I would love on him like no other ok ❤👑
He fine
We didn't learn anything. A lot of men have double standards and man mountains out of 'mole-hills'. I don't trust that she wasn't the one and he got played. I think he got his ego bruised and he couldn't handle her past because he resembled a bit too much like his.
Lol okay
It’s a damn shame how women throw away great men for bums who leave them knocked up and alone. Then complain how bad men are. That’s your fault. There’s great men like this all around you.
Beautiful man
Amazing! Own it!...#can I be your one? haha!
Woow
brave G.man
I can say with all assuredness, that there’s no way in the world. This man won’t find what he’s looking for. My goodness lol
I normal using like IYanla but decent advice
I'll never date a woman with kids
I this is old but may I ask you why
Is because her children are more important for her to take care of then trying to date a single man with no children.
And also I wouldn't take care of someone else's child.
never say never...your treasure could be wrapped in an unexpected package..God has a funny way of giving us what we need and its bounds beyond what we could ever want for ourselves...
P.J. WEBB, This has been the black man's Anthem, what he ain't going to do. When did being a father become taboo in the black community? Is there such a thing as a strong black man in today's society? I know about a strong black woman, I see her in the mirror every day. Not all women with children are looking for daddies. We ourselves grew up as Daddyless Daughters. The responsible black man has been on the endangered species list for as long as I can remember and still going strong in 2016. You have a right to your opinion and I'm not here to change it. For the black men out there taking care of the children regardless if their yours or not, thank you, for keeping our community strong. Thank You for being our husband, father, brother, uncle, son and nephew. Thank you from a woman who has children.
Where is he?!!!! Lol. Seriously.
lol
"I was dating a female" 😒. Something about his body language is insincere. He thought she was going to be happy to have anybody he didn't vome correct.
Poor guy! ❤️❤️
Is this still coming on TV??
Still waiting for a show where the handsome men you help who are single can get to meet some beautiful and talented ladies on your show. I'll wait for it.
Dang. Some women don’t know what they have.
I commend him!...I wonder where his now🤔
She let a good man go, but Iyanla was right; she was not the one.
How am i supposed to move on when you've thrown me in prison?
This is good but theres no such thing as the right one.
I'll be that one he is ultra nice looki ng
I wonder what really happened....
Dawg.... I appreciate her on how to Demonstrating how LISTENING but women dont know its a responsibility.
She did him a favor.
Mist single's can't even hold a simple conversation. They can't and won't go dancing. Arcades? - thats,for kids ( where its,fun to show the real you); funky dates ( too messy).No sense of humor, can't tell a clean joke .
Men, it's ok to admit YOU made the wrong choice. women live humanly humble men.
I guess the 3 kids weren't big enough red flags for him...smdh
She cheated on him because he is soft. Women can read men. They know the ones they can walk over. She had 3 children probably by three different men. If I see a woman that was raised without a father, tattoos all over the place and kids. I don't even look her direction.
He's a beta man nice guy provider ...guys like him get to taken to the cleaners in court !
That's a load of crap! people cheat because they want to. It's a choice.
She cheated because she was a cheater. If you can't be soft with her... She doesn't know how to love.
Karen M preach!!
She cheated because shes a cheater...thats her issue not his. Him wanting to take care of a family as a man should doesn't make him soft. It makes him a man. The woman having kids and tattoos don't dictate who she is nor deserve your pre judgement. That's like saying "oh hes black and has beard .he must be a muslimr" its sound ignorant because that type of thinking is. There are surgeons and lawyers with full sleeves of tattoos that preform well and their body art has no merit in how well they do in life...also there are women within kids or tattoo that would mistreat you as well...Truth is there are both good and bad in this world
👍💖to both
Chile!!!!!!!!👀
Black Men Please Stop Getting Involved With Black Women And All Her Kids...
Okay, where is he? Call me!
Such a cutie
I need his number
So a borther got played by a girl lol i cant ladies are pimps too
Here's some advice: don't date a woman with three kids !
Delicious!
I don't trust this guy.
I love his puppy eyes 💋