Iyanla: Fix My Headline-Making Mistake | Full Episode | OWN
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- Iyanla Vanzant heads to rural Minnesota to help a former nurse whose family refuses to forgive her after her headline-making mistake threatens to ruin the family's reputation. (Original Air Date: June 28, 2014) Watch more of Iyanla Fix My Life on the WatchOWN app and visit: www.oprah.com/app/iyanla-fix-...
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Iyanla: Fix My Headline-Making Mistake | Full Episode | OWN
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She made a mistake. But, her family is so self entitled. Everyone needs to work on themselves. They need to quit acting like they are better than Tess when they have their own issues.
Yeah I was so confused, drinking, gambling and bullying and they thought TESS was the problem?! Not only that, the mom also had a drinking problem, a pills problem and was mean just like Gina. Soooo… why the finger pointing? 🤔🙃
I believe that’s why Darcy wasn’t happy with the experience, because she was being in her mind, exposed
this is so true.. l think less was the most successful and educated of all the sisters.. so when she made a mistake, they jumped on it! and of course, her..
this reminds me of a family l know and the baby of that family was the same..
very sad.
Addiction runs in the family
Iyanla knows how to use objects in her demonstration to break the barriers in the storms of life. People can say whatever they want to about her, we thank God for her🙌🏾.
Yess I love her so much ❤because this how you get though your healing process
@@lelebrown0531 amen to that 🙏🏾.
I love how Mama Iyanla has taught me to tell the hard truth to myself and to be accountable for my actions.
Iyanla is a GIFT to the world!
She really is
We miss her fr
Tess got addicted to pain killers, what she did afterwards was wrong and she paid the price for it. Her relatives are so busy being angry at her for things that don’t really concern them and as it turns out, most of them have issues of addiction.
At least these families care enough to try. Some families wouldn't even agree to try and be helped.
they wanted to be on tv..
Wow. Tess was IN PAIN and made a mistake. Her family should be more concerned wirh her health and well being instead of focusing on how she "made the family look bad".
True. 💯
this.
so spot-on..
I am marathon watching Queen Iyanla and these newer episodes! This Woman should always have a show!! It helps to heal us all.
I agree. I take something from every show.
I agree. I have learned better ways to communicate what I need to say and or how to approach the situation
I fully agree, every story is like a good counselling session. THANK YOU Iyanla❤
Lots of individual pain in this episode. The sister that wouldn’t self reflect and played victim all the time has serious issues.
So true. She's concerning.
I think that the body language of the sister that would not share has some abuse issues with a family member, and/or, she might have gender conflicts and feels that sharing those things openly would be too intense for her to face at this time. Hopefully, she gets some outside counseling and eventually feels that the family would accept her.
Tess was a scapegoat presented on a golden platter for them
We ALL have a past! You do not get to judge if you don’t know the whole story. Some people make disgusting mistakes but accept it, accept responsibility, learn from it; move forward, be a better person, and expend all their energy making sure they never make those mistakes again.
So true.
I LOVE that you wrote this! We are all imperfect but everyday we must work to be better. This world needs to embrace empathy and grace. Sending love and light!
I can't believe how her family is kicking her at her worst. She did something wrong and big mistake but family is about rallying and supporting your family at their lowest. Not making excuses for her but still having her back
When she broke down from the slight physical touch of her mother, so did I. 😢😢
Parents think children don't see/hear stuff. You'd be surprised how much kids know about you that you thought they didn't know. I like how Iyanla told the mom to go and hug her weeping daughter. She looks like she's not used to showing up that way for them.
The Universe heard me! Keep them coming! I hope we can get Iya back on tv in some capacity too!
Sending you love and gratitude Iya! 😘
@@nubeing8381 she has a CZcams channel, where she uploads regularly.
Oh this episode is so heartbreaking. A mom looking at her girls and jealous because she felt she couldn’t accomplish what they did.
you nailed it.. jealousy.
They are using her public embarrassment and choice to abuse her.😢
Why would she apologize to the mom? She didn't do anything to her. Apologize to the patients, hospital, whatever, but the mom?
I said the same thing!
I’ve figured it out after watching. Her mom was jealous of her and the nursing opportunity. I believe her mom was living through her and when the opportunity failed. Her moma felt a host of emotions. It’s deep. Overall it had nothing to do with Tess
@@BreeMooreProductionsI disagree, I think the mom was proud of her for being better then she was and then hurt and embarrassed by her daughter not only failing herself but also being on the news letting the world know that she had stolen her patients meds
Wow, her family is ridiculous!!! Her issues go back to that family FOR SURE!!!
I feel for the mother as well. 😢
The mother is a piece of work!!!!!
Maybe Darcy felt too exposed. I feel like she learned something from this experience but doesn’t like how it makes her look on tv for some reason.
I agree. I figured Gina would’ve said that since she didn’t really open up.
Why would she apologize to mom, when she herself was the one with the issue, not mom. I'm confused
Mom is being weird
the mom is jealous.. so are the sisters..
so sad.
why can't they just support her..
and love her..
GINA GUHHHHHH, STOP IT. YOU ONE OS THE BIGGEST PROBLEMS ACTING LIKE ITS EVERYONE BUT YOU¡
Why do they continue to chase the goofy one when she has a tantrum? She doesn’t have anywhere else to go because she’s so miserable-she’ll be back lol
"the goofy one" 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
I've worked in healthcare for decades. There are millions of " Tess's". Nurses, Drs. What is clear is the Nurse addict, and the other addict, are two different people in the justice system.
Wow Iyanna is really good this entire family was hurting and in pain hopefully they all healed and much closer now
"Is that water proof mascara if not this is gonna be a hot mess at the end of it" 😂🤣
"I am a minister & this work is my ministry & I'm a life coach. I'm here cause your not winning at your game I'm here to interrupt your pattern"
-Iyanla Vanzant 💕
I agree with the You Tubers on Iyanla's Gift 🤜🏾🤛🏾 We need to Forgive One Another especially as Family. We Thank God for You Iyanla, Continue Healing the World 🙌🏾...from SA with Love... ❤🇿🇦🙏🏾😇
Addiction is an unhealthy coping mechanism. Its what happens when one can't control their emotions and the things happening around them.
Thank you for uploading. Watching from South Africa 🇿🇦
Me too
Lerona re teng
I love Iyanla so much. She cares so much for others ❤️
Why do she need to apologize to her mom I mean yea she made a mistake but she has to live with it not the mom
Because some people believe in honoring their parents by not bringing shame to their parents. Some people believe that when their parents release them into the world, that they are a reflection of the upbringing, teachings, values, morals, etc. I've always kept that in mind through ought my adulthood even if my parents were flawed, I still wanted to be better than who they raised. I never wanted to disappoint.
Love you, Iyanla you are such a powerful spirit and healer.
Tess has an unsupportive extended family.
I find it funny how they all have an addiction to something. They're all pointing fingers at Tess and it's 3 more pointing back at them.
If the "criminal justice system" was sincere and successful it would look a lot more like this episode of the Iyanla show. Therapy should be mandatory for people embarrassed and damaged by such an unjust, racist system.
Unfortunately abuse runs rampant in the arena of clinical psychiatry and therapy and it goes without saying that vulnerable people bear the brunt and burden of those abuses.
@@moringaottawaabuse does not run rampant in the mental health field. They are a code of ethics that must be adhered to or a complaint can be lodged thru the licensing board . You are confusing mental health with law enforcement
Please explain elaborate a little further because I know you’re not saying that because of her skin color she was treated unjust when in fact had she been a person with melanated skin , that person would’ve been thrown in prison
She knew exactly what she was doing and didn’t care until she got caught and now she wants sympathy and to be the victim, Bs !!
She refuses to take responsibility for her actions , including the many people whose meds she stole for her addiction and caused them pain but also she wants to play the victim and doesn’t have any remorse because she doesn’t want her family to tell her the truth! As a nurse she claims she didn’t know how to say she needed help but yet nurses are trained to give addicted patients pamphlets and information to get help. She’s only ashamed because she got caught!!
Your such a great Black Woman, You Helped So Many People.
She is a woman , colour and race is not relevant
This family is messed up
They all need to get lives of their own
Gina is forever a victim in her own eyes. Everything is everyone’s fault.
I am so thankful for these episodes! Im going through some family things right now, and Iyanla is giving me the tools to get through it!! Thank you Iyanla!!!!
I couldn't even watch all of this because they are sitting up there making it about THEM and not Tess.
Of rip? I feel bad for her. She felt the need to immediately go back to work.
I appreciate how this is one of those episodes where Iyanla admits she doesn't know how to fix the family. It goes to show that though reality TV may be edited, it's not always fake.
We all make mistakes
35 min in...
Kayla-forgotten child
Darcy-forgotten child
Gina-golden child
Tess-scapegoat child
In families as such, the scapegoat children have the most potential in family units...they're reasonable...ppl in the family use them to feel better about themselves...Scapegoats are the strongest in these families...
Just wow, the revelations of what the other sisters and what mom do/did to numb their own pain has me speechless....the audacity of pointing fingers, demanding apologies etc ....look in the mirror and WORK ON SELF!
Gina, the golden child had some closed-lip, tight shoulder, run away in a bind, body language that says what she can't open up about might be some abuse by a close family member or a gender identity conflict that the others are shunning her for.
And yet many here is watching but not seeing anything or listening.
STOP THE JUDGEMENT NONE OF US ARE PERFECT. Stop the finger pointing .
Mom wanted attention so she didn’t have much of it to give to her children. What a cycle
Well that just sums it all up ! Not !!!
They ALLL had struggles with addiction WHY are they throwing her business in her face. I would struggle to be accountable for my actions too. Also.. Tess is the wrong sister to be worried about it's the red head that needs the exorcism.
Darcy said she was done with that family. I know how she feels.
I salute Iyanla ❤👌🏼
Her family apparently dont under what an addiction is and they are more worried about what ppl think of them instead of what their sister and daughter is going through
This is the work that humanity needs! Thank you Iyanla ❤
Great episode! Maybe Darcy felt left out or something or just maybe didn’t wanna be apart of it. She’s probably actually the mean one lol jk
She IS mean and jealous!
Yes, I’m thankful for the upload as well. Watching from California ❤
I learn so much from her
I like the mirror and the shame walk carpet. I wish I could share some things with my family, but, they would have to be willing to share their things as well, so I know they would be open to forgive me.
Always learning from these episodes.
Love from Kenya
❤❤❤
Thanks for the upload ❤❤❤
LEGENDARY ❤️🩹
Ppl think we who have 2 parents growing up is so peachy. Its not talked about enough how some of us were still abandoned. Our mothers neglected eveeyone around them but never their men. The my were married oick me's
Wow I felt overwhelmed watching this but I see my family 😢
Me 2😮
*_Me 3!! I’m feeling anger too.._* 😔
I see my mom, her sister, and my grandmother. For sure. And those three together....the shame and judgment on me was palpable. Smh
And no affection. No sincere affection.
Same here 😢😢. My sisters have done this to me. I can relate
Iyalana is doing Gods work 👍🏽👏🏾❤️🙏🏽😁
Nurses have incredibly intense, important, critical, stressful jobs. Addiction is in the nursing profession and many others.
She made a mistake. No one is perfect. Poor women
Nurses taking their patients meds happens ALOT. I know of two personally eventually they got caught but the one went on for years. My mom was a nurse her whole life but this new generation whew....we are in trouble!😢
Love Iyanla
Imagine being in the hospital in pain and the nurse stealing your meds.
This seems to be a common thing for nurses that form an addiction . I read another nurse story like this.
Classic. Women in the past were stressed trying to please men. Their dad and her husband cheated, beat, and disrespected the women. NOW, the plot is thick. Women, get out of YOUR OWN way‼️ Sometimes it's hard to get out and stay out the way of our hurts and wants.
Iyanla>Miss got so much to say😅😅😅
Great job Iyanla 👍
Oh that walk of shame was ITTTTTTT
Oh, I see now! The daughters are the mother's fruit.
The whining is annoying
So annoying! She’s a child in a woman’s body
🔥🔥🔥🔥
These gals are 😮😮😮😮
Mom is sitting there looking sad. The world she grew up in was a different era. 😢 Poor mom!
She just told the toxic one look at u talk about your bad no she cant she to good she perfect
Look u miss standing up making yourself look stupid its sick she needs help
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They all were addicted to something
Gina is quite entitled
Wow… so the family doesn’t understand addiction AT ALL
Why her mom feel like Tess need to apologize to her??? The nerve of her!!
Why tf does she need to apologize to yall 1000 times for a mistake that has HER on house arrest you mfs are freeee 😳😮💨
At the start, I wonder ehat drug she became addicted to as we've seen now how some American painkiller manufacturers have purposely been making their drugs highly addictive. She may have legal recourse here as have countless others.
I think they are most angry with Tess because her situation was in the newspapers. The other women’s stories were probably not front pagein the newspapers.
Today date 6-22-2024