As a student, it’s so easy to base your self worth on your grades and academic performance. The part where you talked about not being too hard on yourself really resonated with me. Thank you so much for all you do, sending all my love to you and your family!! 💕
We all need down time!! Ur an empath & truly a giver at heart ♥️ I am an empath &aqua rising & understand that constant judgment & drive on urself to keep pushing& helping and doing. Aquarians are true humanitarians!! I feel for you & it’s okay I teared up cuz I go thru this struggle daily so it was nice to hear u talk about it. Ur a a shining star 🌟 in a dark sky but sometimes u need time to just be !! Sending lots of love 💕 & good luck 🍀 blessings on ur speech!
Girly don’t feel bad for having an off day if anything this makes you more human for just being raw vulnerable and honest ngl it’s the energy of the last month of the year and the pressure of the new year a lot of go go go never feel bad if you have to take a vlogmas break for a day or two
I obviously do not know you personally but, I just know that you're a wonderful daughter, friend, partner, stranger and one of the greatest vloggers and I appreciate your consistancy. YOU GOT THIS! You always have^^
“You’ll be fiiiiiine” gets me every time 😂 a Cal STAN! Also girl, you take your days a day at a time and share what you want to. Remember this is your channel and your life! We are just happy to be apart of it in general ❤ love you Rem! Remember take care of you first and over the years and years of following you, I am so incredibly proud of your growth and what you’ve done with your life. Don’t be so hard on yourself, you’re incredible!
reeeemiiiii, Im literally just laying on the couch not feeling great today, getting ready to start my period & I feel like I’ve been hit by a bus. I love hearing you say you need to give yourself grace bc I’ve been learning that as well. I love when you’re vulnerable with us, you’re just such a genuine soul. thanks for feeling like my bestie for the past 10+ years 🫶🫶🩵
As being the oldest daughter and only having younger brothers. This was such a wonderful reminder to remember to try to release the tension off my shoulders as well. When I describe to people about the type and amount of pressure is on my back, I honestly don’t know if people can understand, which makes feel I’m alone in this. I’m really thankful of you Remi! And I’m so proud of you! Muah!🫶
REM! We love you soooo much & understand how much pressure can get to you. Remember to take little daily breaks & remind yourself it’s OKAY TO BREATH - as a child of immigrants I have always felt this weight to prove that my parents did the right thing by moving here but the truth is they did it so I could have all the opportunities I have. I love you soo much & im so thankful for your openness & honesty through every phase of life ❤❤❤❤❤
Rem, I’m sitting here tearing up right with you. I can’t tell you how much I relate to the “just keep smiling and taking care of everything and everyone else” thing. You have worked so hard for such a beautiful life and I can’t tell you how much you inspire me. I’m so grateful to get to know you as a creator and a person, even if it’s just through social media. You truly are such an amazing woman. You have every right to feel the way you do and I really appreciate your vulnerability about your personal well being and growth. We’re not entitled to anything that you don’t want to share but it feels really good to see your awareness to take care of yourself and learn a deeper level of self love. Because you deserve all of it. We love you so much ❤❤ I’ve been a follower since your college days and will be a supporter for a lifetime. 🫶🏻
Vlogs like this just make you that much more relatable Rem. Everyone has days like this, you're human. Thank you for being vulnerable. Proud of you for trying to be more gentle on yourself, it's okay to not be okay sometimes ❤
“It wasn’t my best day” I’m literally crying and having a break down in my office right now because my students pissed me off this morning and I turned your vlog on to calm me down hahaha Thank you for this distraction 🤍
I commend you. I had a teacher friend (elementary) who I'd help out for a couple hours every week and they were NUUUUUTS lol! It takes a special kind of strength and person to teach. You're incredible.
Remi, take your breaks! Daughter of immigrant here too and the internal "need to accomplish and achieve to show gratitude or whatever to our parents" is so true and hard to break. Hope you can find more time to "turn it off" and fully clock out. That be block schedule or a "no working after 5pm" kind of thing. Take care of yourself girlie!
I don't think I have ever commented... but I have been watching you forever. You are such an inspiration. You put your all into these vlogs, and it shows. Thank you so much for being you. You are human, and we can see how real you are! You are such a breath of fresh air, Remi. You are so damn awesome. Keep those positive thoughts rolling, and thank you for being you ❤
I think your speech will be my favorite part of Vlogmas. I’m so moved by your determination and heart! Literally crying, you deserve every blessing that comes to you. ❤ GO REMI!
Hi Remi! Im usually a silent watcher but I just wanted to tell you that showing your more vulnerable side is so helpful (I also bottle up feelings till I explode in a gigantic ugly cry), and also seeing you turning your day around really showed me how feelings are temporary and even the sad ones go away! Thank you so much for being such a light on yt ✨💌 ilysm
Aw Remi!!! This vlogmas has been so chill and I am loving it thus far honestly. It gives me comfort being able to come home from work, get ready for the day, or even make dinner and watch vlogmas!!! I truly love all the content you've been putting out. You are doing amazing so far. Tomorrow is a new day with new opportunities and experiences! You're going to do great! Sending so much love to you and hope you feel better!!! ❤
I had been struggling with negative self talk for years. When I started giving myself grace and talking myself through hard feelings versus berating myself it made a huge difference. What surprised me the most was how much easier it was to extend grace to other people after that. My ability to be compassionate has greatly increased and it is a much more peaceful existence.
Remi!! No I wish you could see the light you are. I could literally watch a time lapse of you watching tv all day girl. We are here for you and whatever you decide to do each day 🫶🏼
Awwww Remi don’t be hard on your self 🥺. It’s ok to have lazy/unproductive days. Your vlogs are great! Sending you love and positivity. Usually when I get those intrusive thoughts I have to immediately play my girl boss playlist, write or go for a walk. I hope you’re doing better “you are your first priority” .❤
i get so emotional seeing you with Cal. I have been watching ur videos since i was 12 and i don’t miss an upload. watching u grow in ur confidence and success is amazing. i’m so happy you found a man who treats you with the respect and kindness that you deserve. he seems to be truly obsessed w u. i hope for that same thing one day. you are kicking it a VLOGMAS!! definitely my fav youtuber to watch. you have an addicting personality and brightness.
Literally crying because why is Cal so cute like he's always there to cheer Remi up and I love to see it because she deserves so much and he's so perfect for you!!!
Thank you for sharing this. I’m feeling exactly the same way. I’m on my last year of law school and I feel like I should be doing more. Reminding us to give ourselves grace truly resonates with me right now. I’m also a daughter of immigrant parents, so I think it’s a mixture of never wanting to let them down or feel as if their struggle was taken for granted. It’s a heavy weight to carry on our shoulders, so thank you for being so candid. We need more rest days, we need more days to relax, and we need more days to just appreciate everything we have and all the things we’ve accomplished. It’s an every day battle, but WE CAN DO THIS! 🥹❤️
First of all, I love watching your content: you are amazing! Secondly, I know what it is like to be hard on yourself, overthinking, and not taking breaks when it is beyond necessary! I am an educator (soon to be teacher, currently a teacher assistant) and I used to not take breaks because I didn’t think I did enough and always worry about making mistakes. I have also have suppressed so much over the years but every year I try to come up with a mantra ever since the pandemic. One of them is, “express don’t suppress”- try to be less hard on yourself and everyday try to do something to recharge❤. Happy holidays and congratulations on the engagement
You are okay to feel everything that you're feeling. I totally understand having that feeling of wanting to make your parents proud, but just know that your parents are ALREADY immensely proud of you. You are such an amazing and inspiring human being and don't feel pressured to please everybody. At the end of the day, you do what pleases you and makes you happy and you have tons of followers who support you and are very understanding. Thank YOU for being your authentic self!
remi, i’m OBSESSED with vlogmas this year!! the small business hauls have been amazing so far and i can’t wait to support more of the amazing businesses 🎀🩵✨
Hi Rem! You talking about how you’re so hard on yourself really resonated with me because I just had the same conversation with my psychiatrist yesterday at my appointment. I started a new job back in February, and haven’t even been there a year. I feel a pressure to be absolutely amazing at everything and put my all and more into it as well, and it’s burning me out and making me feel absolutely terrible about myself and my work. My psychiatrist called me out for it (nicely) and I realized how right she was. I’m doing my best now to put myself and my mental health first, but it can be so hard! Also, I don’t know if this is TMI, but I’ve been having some of the same symptoms you talked about with your PCOS and how it’s affected you, and I reached out to my doctor to be referred to an OBGYN to see if I could have the same thing. My periods have been basically none existent for so long and it’s been really concerning to me. Thank you for inspiring me to take steps towards trying to figure out what the cause is and for being an advocate for myself. Love you girlie ❤️
my favorite thing about girlhood is everyone getting their periods at once!! i'm having a rough day as well and hearing someone else going through it and feeling their feelings helps so much!!!
The part where you were talking about giving yourself grace I loved it because yesterday I just napped all day because I wasn’t feeling great and I was hard on myself so I’m also trying to learn that as well. I love when you’re so vulnerable because it makes me not feel so alone I love you🥹💕🤍
I have been crying all day and have been so stressed lately, we are all going through this and it will be okay, December is the hardest month, nothing is going according to plan ❤
Remi, I just started watching your vlogs and I can already see how wonderful of a person you are. I also have been feeling super overwhelmed as well. I swear it has something to do with the Christmas season and the shorter days. If you are feeling super overwhelmed please take time for yourself. You deserve the world.
My bf is the same way. The smallest thing will set him into a spiral of all the things that have been stressing. I just try to be the shoulder to lean on and im glad you have your support system to lean on too. Youre doing your best! Grace is a blessing 😇🙏🏾
No Remi the way I’m up at 3am having a mental breakdown but not knowing why and started sobbing as you were talking about what’s been bothering you recently. I needed that so bad, thank you for sharing. It’s helped me more than you think!
Thank you for being vulnerable with us Remi ❤ I also struggle with feeling pressure to always be productive, so this really resonated with me. We have to remind ourselves that we’re allowed to make mistakes and take breaks. You don’t have to be productive every second of every day, that’s just not sustainable and not how humans are intended to live. It’s important to take time for yourself. Of course we love watching your content, but we love you so much and want you to be okay so we understand if you need to take a break. You are a light in this world and deserve your rest. Love you Remi 🫶🏻
Oh Rem...Not sure what is going on today. I am definitely not a crier.. but this morning I just couldn't hold it in anymore and had a mini breakdown where I just could not stop crying. Growing up in a Asian household I got in the habit of pushing my feelings down and try to push forward. Just until it's completely bottled up and it all comes flooding out.. I just had to step away from my workload and give myself some time to get myself together and do something that makes my happy. And that was your daily Vlogmas. Came across the section where you had a weak moment made me feel like no matter where you are in life you're still human with big feelings and it's okay to just let it out. You're such an incredible human being. Thank you for being that sunshine on my stormy day ☀💕
Remi, I had the exact same breakdown for the exact same reasons yesterday myself. Thank you for sharing! I think when everyone is more vulnerable with each other, it breeds love and acceptance. If it makes you feel any better, you are living my dream life and you inspire me so much!! I just purchased the merch today and I cannot freaking wait to rock it! Love you REM! ❤
I am also always constantly in my head and thinking of how I could've acted or handled things differently. My therapist told me that consistently thinking negative thoughts creates or continues the habit. So instead try to replace those negative thoughts with positive ones and make that a habit. It's really hard, but it helps! Thanks for being vulnerable and talking with us!! You are amazing, and the community you have created here is all here for you! You got this!! ❤❤
Remi, I just wanted to say we appreciate you so much. I know you’re so grateful for the views that vlogmas brings in but please feel free to take some breaks
We love you Remi! Your rawness and vulnerability are a few reasons why so many people love you and can relate to you. Thank you for sharing this side of your life, yesterday was a tough day for me too & it’s nice to know that I am not alone in feeling that way. ❤
Give yourself grace. These vlogs, the ones where you open up to us and are your true, authentic, and vulnerable self, are my absolute favorite. Take your breaks when you need them, lay on the couch, and cuddle those pups (on vlog or not). As someone on a mental health journey, your videos have been a staple in my healing process. Thank you for being you ❤
omg omg omg I LOVE allthingslilyann!! She’s literally the sweetest person and her stuff is amazing! LOVE her holiday clothes too. She designs everything herself and is so inspiring!
Sweetheart let me tell you something... You have been my source of serotonin these days. Academic has been hard. And life in general has been hard lately but i really look forward to see your content cause it feels like I am on a video call with my friends. Thank you for doing what you do. I love you so much ❤. Been loving for almost 5 year now
remiiiii, your vlogs have been getting me through these past few years. the other day, i experienced a traumatic event at my school (unlv) and i hope you know that your vlogs right now are helping me get my mind off of what happened. you are such a great person and im sending you so much love!!!
Hey remi! I completely understand the wanting to be strong, you're so amazing and literally inspire me so much. I hope you do give yourself grace when you've gone through so much. I know you push it down but I know Alisha, and oli would be there for you 100 percent. Allow yourself the rest you deserve when you're constantly on the go. I love you so much and you got this. If you ever feel that some days it's so heavy, I always tell myself that it's okay to have a down day and be as gracious with yourself and treat yourself.
Having VlogMass during my period is literally the best. Getting more Remi, Alisha, Ashley, and Oli is Awesome. Each soothes a different part of my soul. Remi Thank you so much for being honest and letting yourself be vulnerable. I'm glad you just vegged out on the couch today. It's what is needed sometimes and well deserved
I myself have also been struggling with similar thoughts and hearing your advice was exactly what I needed to hear. I also agree with everything you said we need to give ourselves grace. Some times a good cry and a vent is much needed. Sending you all the love and tight hugs! 😊🩵
Hey Rem❤ I remember a long while ago you and Alisha said you wanted to go to church more regularly. I know from experience that going helps a lot with dealing with your inner thoughts and low moments. When we understand God's forgiveness for us, it's so much easier for us to love and forgive ourselves ❤
Your feelings are valid. Whether it’s PMS or the straw that broke the camel’s back, you are allowed to feel overwhelmed/sad/etc. But also remember you are so loved by your community (virtual and IRL). 💕
Literally every year I look forward to these Christmas vlogs!! Been watching since high school. Thank you for all the fun memories that you’ve shared it’s been a long journey. 🤗💕
I recently failed my licensure exam & have been feeling down about it even though I'm studying again. Something that helps me get through is knowing that your best is going to look different every day. And that is perfectly okay. I hope you read this and it can bring you some comfort (you def bring me comfort). Love you Remi! ❤YOU'RE DOING GREAT SWEETIE🎥💃
We’re always the hardest on ourselves! Remember to celebrate little achievements and remember how far you’ve come. I 100% resonate with how you feel in which I always have to feel busy and push down my feelings. You’re not alone and you’re amazing!
Remi, you truly are a beautiful person inside and out 🤍 You give me so much comfort just by watching your vlogs! Thank you from the bottom of my heart! Don’t give yourself a hard time!! You’re doing so well!! Fighting, girl! You got this 🫶🏻🍀
i don’t always comment on people’s videos but i have watched every single one of your videos for YEARS and yet every time i do, i think to myself “she is just my absolute favorite 🥹” i’ve also watched all of your vlogmas so far and still when i woke up this morning one of my first thoughts was that i was excited to see what you were going to show us in the vlog today! i really appreciate you talking about how you have been feeling lately and i hope you will take a break if you need to, because everyone deserves to take breaks and have some chill me time! i’m sending virtual hugs 💛💛
Aww Remi, I literally had a looong cry about the exact same thing yesterday!! I just want to do everything so well and I feel like I’m messing everything up and I’ve just been so hard on myself. I teared up when you were talking about doing the same thing to yourself. Thank you so much for the reminder to be gentle with myself, it really came at the perfect time ❤️ ilysm!!!
Right down to the PMSing, I am with you. Though based on different life circumstances I have been having similar thoughts this past week. Your vlogs are one of the things that brought me joy every day. We would watch you do the exact same thing every day and be thrilled because watching a vlog is like having a companion in those quieter moments. You are truly doing amazing, and all of the feelings you are having are so incredibly valid. I am a person who really feels all the feelings, and I can say it’s truly life changing to let yourself feel them and have your heart be your guide 💗
hi queen, just wanted to come on here and tell you that you are doing a great job. truly not everyone can do even half of everything you’ve been doing and to nail it all the time? YOU ARE A WONDERWOMAN. you should give yourself credit bc you don’t know how much you’ve been helping a lot of ppl. at least for me, i lost my grandpa a few months back and it was hard for me to even get up in the morning or wash my face or even drink water let alone smile and go to work like everything’s okay but you have helped me so much just by making me crack even the littlest smile. you have been my go to since 5 years ago, always have and always will be. i love you so much rem!!! on good days but even more on the bad 💖💖💖
Rem, I’ve been through so much this year. I had two deaths in my immediate family (my father and his brother) which is making the holidays extra hard this year and I’m facing foreclosure. Normally I wouldn’t stress financial things but I’m disabled and have adopted my father’s dog so there’s extra responsibility. To top it all off my health has been declining. I’ve typed all that to tell you how much I appreciate your vlogs. They offer me a little escape and I feel so grateful. I watch you normally and I do NOT miss a video but this year I feel like your vlogmas is just for me! It helps in ways I can’t explain and I want to thank you, Cal and the fourlegged kids too. 🤟🏽 🫶 TY! 🫂
thank you for opening up to us and not only showing the positive side but also the authentic parts of life and especially vlogging everyday is truly amazing and I truly respect you for your honesty and ilysm🤍🤍
"i'm sorry this vlog hasn't been very good" STOP. this is exactly what you were talking about. your content and realness is great and relatable. dont ever apologize for days where life happens!!! target and pup content is good enough :)
Remi you are human! It's perfectly normal to feel like this but just know you have so many loved ones surrounding you, and you are an amazing person!!! You and cal are literally my favorite couple to watch on youtube!!
Remi please know that you are such an amazing person and I really appreciate you sharing your life with us! Everyone is entitled to a bad day so thank you for not being fake and for being so kind but please remember to be kind to yourself! Love you!
oh remi!! please please please always give yourself grace. you're such an incredible content creator and genuinely a great person!! i've been watching you for 10+ years and you can see how hard you work and how excellent you are. always take care of yourself bestie. we'll always be here waiting for yaa
it's all good Remi no need to apologies, it's absolutly brave to show the downside you can experience in a day to day life even if there is not "big deals" but just built up anxiety, we can all relate to that and i'm sure and we're all happy to send you our love and support because you truly highlight our days and life with your content and we wish you only the best in life, love from Paris
Hey, I know I’m super late to watching. Life has been hectic, but I hope everyone remembers to be kind to yourself. Even on rough days, remind yourself that you’re here existing and that’s all we can expect. We’re all human beings bound to make mistakes, but also remember that the only reason we know those negative feelings because we’ve also felt those positive emotions too. Try to compliment yourself at least once a day in the mirror. I know it sounds so weird, but it really helps. Love you all! ❤
omg i know i’m so late to watching the vlogmas im so sorry remi but im literally tearing up i hate seeing you cry and i feel the same way im having health issues and everyday i am so beyond stressed and hard on myself for not doing as much as i should and i love you you’re not alone and honestly we only have one life please take your breaks i love u ❤️❤️🫶🏻🫶🏻😭😭
Remi!!!!!! Enjoy those lazy days don’t feel guilty for relaxing on a day you don’t feel the best!!!! I love watching you whether it’s window shopping, cleaning, cooking, hauls or just getting ready. Don’t ever apologize!!!
You are an incredible person! You bring so much joy to my day when I get to watch you. You are human, you have needs that need to be attended to, you give so much of yourself everyday to others and I hope you find time to take care of you and your mental health. ❤️You are loved!
Remi… we see you and hear you. Social media is NOT real life, and sadly many people assume that others lives’ are perfect and sunshine & rainbows. We are all human, we have feelings, we struggle. It’s okay to admit that. This is why you’re my favorite influencer because you are REAL, you keep shit 💯 and don’t make your life seem like it’s a perfect fairy tale. I’ve been watching you since your OG college days and growing up with you essentially has been inspiring. Despite your struggles you have inspired millions of girls across the world being your real and true self. You should be incredibly proud of ALL your accomplishments. I literally remember when you came out with that DIY face mask line and I was so excited about it. You’ve done so so so much and your true fans are so proud of you and DONT LET INTERNET PEOPLE HATE ON YOU! They are miserable and don’t have an actual successful life like you and will project. We are all so proud of you, vlogmas is my favorite time of year, thank you for seriously being you and not being another LA washed influencer that promotes shitty values & behaviors. There’s a reason why so many people love you… remember that.
Remiiiiiii! Just know you created this life you have now. You weren’t given it, nor dealt the cards by chance. YOU created this community and career by your own accord. There’s nothing here to mess up, or not do well enough, because you simply already have. You’re doin the damn thing girly pop and we lysm 🫶🏼
No matter what the content is I’m just happy to watch Remis vlog❤ throughout my life the past 10+ years Remi has been with me to cheer me up. Of course I never want to see you sad but sometimes things happen and we understand and will always continue to love and support you❤
Remiii❤ I’ve been watching your vlogs for years and I’m so glad I can listen to you about mental health. I recently just lost my mom which has took a hard hit on me especially because of my son who lost his grandma. But I have my good days but I also have my bad days. We’re all here to support each other 🤍 thank you for being so open. I need to learn how to express my feelings more and I thank you for that🥹 we love you remi!!!!🤍🤍🤍
Remi, I love your vlogs, especially vlogmas! I’ve been watching you for a few years now and I can tell you give it 110% so please whenever you feel overwhelmed take some time off and enjoy yourself. We will be here when you get back 🫶🏼
The same thing happened to me yesterday so just remember you’re not alone and we love you❤️ it’s nice to see the hard moments too to remember everyone goes through it
rem it's ok to be sad sometimes or to have an off day! we still love anything you put out! i just love watching you doing everyday stuff! also love to see cal more and the huge love you two have!
As a student, it’s so easy to base your self worth on your grades and academic performance. The part where you talked about not being too hard on yourself really resonated with me. Thank you so much for all you do, sending all my love to you and your family!! 💕
sending you so much love!! thank you so much 🥹😭🩵
Vlogmas just started and I’m already sad for whenever it ends and I have no Miss Remi vlogs to look forward to everyday 😭😭🩷
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We all need down time!! Ur an empath & truly a giver at heart ♥️ I am an empath &aqua rising & understand that constant judgment & drive on urself to keep pushing& helping and doing. Aquarians are true humanitarians!! I feel for you & it’s okay I teared up cuz I go thru this struggle daily so it was nice to hear u talk about it. Ur a a shining star 🌟 in a dark sky but sometimes u need time to just be !! Sending lots of love 💕 & good luck 🍀 blessings on ur speech!
Girly don’t feel bad for having an off day if anything this makes you more human for just being raw vulnerable and honest ngl it’s the energy of the last month of the year and the pressure of the new year a lot of go go go never feel bad if you have to take a vlogmas break for a day or two
I obviously do not know you personally but, I just know that you're a wonderful daughter, friend, partner, stranger and one of the greatest vloggers and I appreciate your consistancy. YOU GOT THIS! You always have^^
TYSM 🥹😭🩵
I love to see Cal so much more involved and himself around the camera! I love the love between the two of you 🥰
“You’ll be fiiiiiine” gets me every time 😂 a Cal STAN! Also girl, you take your days a day at a time and share what you want to. Remember this is your channel and your life! We are just happy to be apart of it in general ❤ love you Rem! Remember take care of you first and over the years and years of following you, I am so incredibly proud of your growth and what you’ve done with your life. Don’t be so hard on yourself, you’re incredible!
reeeemiiiii, Im literally just laying on the couch not feeling great today, getting ready to start my period & I feel like I’ve been hit by a bus. I love hearing you say you need to give yourself grace bc I’ve been learning that as well. I love when you’re vulnerable with us, you’re just such a genuine soul. thanks for feeling like my bestie for the past 10+ years 🫶🫶🩵
As being the oldest daughter and only having younger brothers. This was such a wonderful reminder to remember to try to release the tension off my shoulders as well. When I describe to people about the type and amount of pressure is on my back, I honestly don’t know if people can understand, which makes feel I’m alone in this. I’m really thankful of you Remi! And I’m so proud of you! Muah!🫶
LOVE YOU SO MUCH REMI ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤ never mis a day of vlogmasssss 🎉🎉🎉
REM! We love you soooo much & understand how much pressure can get to you. Remember to take little daily breaks & remind yourself it’s OKAY TO BREATH - as a child of immigrants I have always felt this weight to prove that my parents did the right thing by moving here but the truth is they did it so I could have all the opportunities I have. I love you soo much & im so thankful for your openness & honesty through every phase of life ❤❤❤❤❤
Rem, I’m sitting here tearing up right with you. I can’t tell you how much I relate to the “just keep smiling and taking care of everything and everyone else” thing. You have worked so hard for such a beautiful life and I can’t tell you how much you inspire me. I’m so grateful to get to know you as a creator and a person, even if it’s just through social media. You truly are such an amazing woman. You have every right to feel the way you do and I really appreciate your vulnerability about your personal well being and growth. We’re not entitled to anything that you don’t want to share but it feels really good to see your awareness to take care of yourself and learn a deeper level of self love. Because you deserve all of it. We love you so much ❤❤ I’ve been a follower since your college days and will be a supporter for a lifetime. 🫶🏻
don’t ever feel bad about not doing anything! I felt the same way yesterday and I am learning to give myself grace. you got this girlie!
Vlogs like this just make you that much more relatable Rem. Everyone has days like this, you're human. Thank you for being vulnerable. Proud of you for trying to be more gentle on yourself, it's okay to not be okay sometimes ❤
“It wasn’t my best day” I’m literally crying and having a break down in my office right now because my students pissed me off this morning and I turned your vlog on to calm me down hahaha
Thank you for this distraction 🤍
sending you SO much love!! 🥹😭🩵
I commend you. I had a teacher friend (elementary) who I'd help out for a couple hours every week and they were NUUUUUTS lol! It takes a special kind of strength and person to teach. You're incredible.
Remi, take your breaks! Daughter of immigrant here too and the internal "need to accomplish and achieve to show gratitude or whatever to our parents" is so true and hard to break. Hope you can find more time to "turn it off" and fully clock out. That be block schedule or a "no working after 5pm" kind of thing. Take care of yourself girlie!
thank you SO much 🥹😭🩵
I don't think I have ever commented... but I have been watching you forever. You are such an inspiration. You put your all into these vlogs, and it shows. Thank you so much for being you. You are human, and we can see how real you are! You are such a breath of fresh air, Remi. You are so damn awesome. Keep those positive thoughts rolling, and thank you for being you ❤
thank you SO much!! 🥹😭🩵
I think your speech will be my favorite part of Vlogmas. I’m so moved by your determination and heart! Literally crying, you deserve every blessing that comes to you. ❤ GO REMI!
Hi Remi! Im usually a silent watcher but I just wanted to tell you that showing your more vulnerable side is so helpful (I also bottle up feelings till I explode in a gigantic ugly cry), and also seeing you turning your day around really showed me how feelings are temporary and even the sad ones go away! Thank you so much for being such a light on yt ✨💌 ilysm
You are making your parents (and us!) SO PROUD
thank you SO much 🥹😭🩵
I was cracking up when Luna was on the table 😂😂😂 as soon as Remi said her name like that she knew she was in trouble 😂😂😂
HUGSSS! I understand completely about trying to please everyone and holding it in! I’m grateful for you being a vlogger that I love to watch!😊❤️😊
Aw Remi!!! This vlogmas has been so chill and I am loving it thus far honestly. It gives me comfort being able to come home from work, get ready for the day, or even make dinner and watch vlogmas!!! I truly love all the content you've been putting out. You are doing amazing so far. Tomorrow is a new day with new opportunities and experiences! You're going to do great! Sending so much love to you and hope you feel better!!! ❤
I had been struggling with negative self talk for years. When I started giving myself grace and talking myself through hard feelings versus berating myself it made a huge difference. What surprised me the most was how much easier it was to extend grace to other people after that. My ability to be compassionate has greatly increased and it is a much more peaceful existence.
Remi!! No I wish you could see the light you are. I could literally watch a time lapse of you watching tv all day girl. We are here for you and whatever you decide to do each day 🫶🏼
Awwww Remi don’t be hard on your self 🥺. It’s ok to have lazy/unproductive days. Your vlogs are great! Sending you love and positivity. Usually when I get those intrusive thoughts I have to immediately play my girl boss playlist, write or go for a walk. I hope you’re doing better “you are your first priority” .❤
i get so emotional seeing you with Cal. I have been watching ur videos since i was 12 and i don’t miss an upload. watching u grow in ur confidence and success is amazing. i’m so happy you found a man who treats you with the respect and kindness that you deserve. he seems to be truly obsessed w u. i hope for that same thing one day.
you are kicking it a VLOGMAS!! definitely my fav youtuber to watch. you have an addicting personality and brightness.
Literally crying because why is Cal so cute like he's always there to cheer Remi up and I love to see it because she deserves so much and he's so perfect for you!!!
Thank you for sharing this. I’m feeling exactly the same way. I’m on my last year of law school and I feel like I should be doing more. Reminding us to give ourselves grace truly resonates with me right now. I’m also a daughter of immigrant parents, so I think it’s a mixture of never wanting to let them down or feel as if their struggle was taken for granted. It’s a heavy weight to carry on our shoulders, so thank you for being so candid. We need more rest days, we need more days to relax, and we need more days to just appreciate everything we have and all the things we’ve accomplished. It’s an every day battle, but WE CAN DO THIS! 🥹❤️
First of all, I love watching your content: you are amazing! Secondly, I know what it is like to be hard on yourself, overthinking, and not taking breaks when it is beyond necessary! I am an educator (soon to be teacher, currently a teacher assistant) and I used to not take breaks because I didn’t think I did enough and always worry about making mistakes. I have also have suppressed so much over the years but every year I try to come up with a mantra ever since the pandemic. One of them is, “express don’t suppress”- try to be less hard on yourself and everyday try to do something to recharge❤. Happy holidays and congratulations on the engagement
You are okay to feel everything that you're feeling. I totally understand having that feeling of wanting to make your parents proud, but just know that your parents are ALREADY immensely proud of you. You are such an amazing and inspiring human being and don't feel pressured to please everybody. At the end of the day, you do what pleases you and makes you happy and you have tons of followers who support you and are very understanding. Thank YOU for being your authentic self!
remi, i’m OBSESSED with vlogmas this year!! the small business hauls have been amazing so far and i can’t wait to support more of the amazing businesses 🎀🩵✨
It wouldn't be vlogmas without Remi being candid and honest 😊😊 thank you for that... Also I love how Cal didn't leave her side after that ❤
Hi Rem! You talking about how you’re so hard on yourself really resonated with me because I just had the same conversation with my psychiatrist yesterday at my appointment. I started a new job back in February, and haven’t even been there a year. I feel a pressure to be absolutely amazing at everything and put my all and more into it as well, and it’s burning me out and making me feel absolutely terrible about myself and my work. My psychiatrist called me out for it (nicely) and I realized how right she was. I’m doing my best now to put myself and my mental health first, but it can be so hard! Also, I don’t know if this is TMI, but I’ve been having some of the same symptoms you talked about with your PCOS and how it’s affected you, and I reached out to my doctor to be referred to an OBGYN to see if I could have the same thing. My periods have been basically none existent for so long and it’s been really concerning to me. Thank you for inspiring me to take steps towards trying to figure out what the cause is and for being an advocate for myself. Love you girlie ❤️
my favorite thing about girlhood is everyone getting their periods at once!! i'm having a rough day as well and hearing someone else going through it and feeling their feelings helps so much!!!
This is one of my favourite vlogs so far! We love and appreciate the vulnerability Remi. We love you
The part where you were talking about giving yourself grace I loved it because yesterday I just napped all day because I wasn’t feeling great and I was hard on myself so I’m also trying to learn that as well. I love when you’re so vulnerable because it makes me not feel so alone I love you🥹💕🤍
I have been crying all day and have been so stressed lately, we are all going through this and it will be okay, December is the hardest month, nothing is going according to plan ❤
Remi, I just started watching your vlogs and I can already see how wonderful of a person you are. I also have been feeling super overwhelmed as well. I swear it has something to do with the Christmas season and the shorter days. If you are feeling super overwhelmed please take time for yourself. You deserve the world.
My bf is the same way. The smallest thing will set him into a spiral of all the things that have been stressing. I just try to be the shoulder to lean on and im glad you have your support system to lean on too. Youre doing your best! Grace is a blessing 😇🙏🏾
No Remi the way I’m up at 3am having a mental breakdown but not knowing why and started sobbing as you were talking about what’s been bothering you recently. I needed that so bad, thank you for sharing. It’s helped me more than you think!
Thank you for being vulnerable with us Remi ❤ I also struggle with feeling pressure to always be productive, so this really resonated with me. We have to remind ourselves that we’re allowed to make mistakes and take breaks. You don’t have to be productive every second of every day, that’s just not sustainable and not how humans are intended to live. It’s important to take time for yourself. Of course we love watching your content, but we love you so much and want you to be okay so we understand if you need to take a break. You are a light in this world and deserve your rest. Love you Remi 🫶🏻
Oh Rem...Not sure what is going on today. I am definitely not a crier.. but this morning I just couldn't hold it in anymore and had a mini breakdown where I just could not stop crying. Growing up in a Asian household I got in the habit of pushing my feelings down and try to push forward. Just until it's completely bottled up and it all comes flooding out.. I just had to step away from my workload and give myself some time to get myself together and do something that makes my happy. And that was your daily Vlogmas. Came across the section where you had a weak moment made me feel like no matter where you are in life you're still human with big feelings and it's okay to just let it out. You're such an incredible human being. Thank you for being that sunshine on my stormy day ☀💕
My favorite part of the intro is Cal saying help me I'm scared 😂 this is the best time of the year 💗🎄
We support you, you are human and have life to manage. No matter what you go through you aren’t alone & many of us can relate. It’s ok to feel.
God’s got you Remi!!! Loved this video!!!
thank you so much for watching!!! 🥹😭🩵
Remi, I had the exact same breakdown for the exact same reasons yesterday myself. Thank you for sharing! I think when everyone is more vulnerable with each other, it breeds love and acceptance. If it makes you feel any better, you are living my dream life and you inspire me so much!! I just purchased the merch today and I cannot freaking wait to rock it! Love you REM! ❤
Remi these vulnerable moments of you
Are my favorite don’t ever feel bad ❤️ we love you and we love your vlogs regardless of what you show us ❤
this video couldn’t have come at a better time, i resonate with these struggles so much, we’ll be okay!! love you rem❤️
I am also always constantly in my head and thinking of how I could've acted or handled things differently. My therapist told me that consistently thinking negative thoughts creates or continues the habit. So instead try to replace those negative thoughts with positive ones and make that a habit. It's really hard, but it helps! Thanks for being vulnerable and talking with us!! You are amazing, and the community you have created here is all here for you! You got this!! ❤❤
Remi, I just wanted to say we appreciate you so much. I know you’re so grateful for the views that vlogmas brings in but please feel free to take some breaks
We love you Remi! Your rawness and vulnerability are a few reasons why so many people love you and can relate to you. Thank you for sharing this side of your life, yesterday was a tough day for me too & it’s nice to know that I am not alone in feeling that way. ❤
Give yourself grace. These vlogs, the ones where you open up to us and are your true, authentic, and vulnerable self, are my absolute favorite. Take your breaks when you need them, lay on the couch, and cuddle those pups (on vlog or not). As someone on a mental health journey, your videos have been a staple in my healing process. Thank you for being you ❤
omg omg omg I LOVE allthingslilyann!! She’s literally the sweetest person and her stuff is amazing! LOVE her holiday clothes too. She designs everything herself and is so inspiring!
Sweetheart let me tell you something... You have been my source of serotonin these days. Academic has been hard. And life in general has been hard lately but i really look forward to see your content cause it feels like I am on a video call with my friends. Thank you for doing what you do. I love you so much ❤. Been loving for almost 5 year now
remiiiii, your vlogs have been getting me through these past few years. the other day, i experienced a traumatic event at my school (unlv) and i hope you know that your vlogs right now are helping me get my mind off of what happened. you are such a great person and im sending you so much love!!!
So we all had a bad day at the same time 😭🥲 sending you so much love Rem
I loved this clog because it was a slow chill day. I love when you tell us how you feel and I have been loving the vlogs
Hey remi! I completely understand the wanting to be strong, you're so amazing and literally inspire me so much. I hope you do give yourself grace when you've gone through so much. I know you push it down but I know Alisha, and oli would be there for you 100 percent. Allow yourself the rest you deserve when you're constantly on the go. I love you so much and you got this. If you ever feel that some days it's so heavy, I always tell myself that it's okay to have a down day and be as gracious with yourself and treat yourself.
Having VlogMass during my period is literally the best. Getting more Remi, Alisha, Ashley, and Oli is Awesome. Each soothes a different part of my soul.
Remi Thank you so much for being honest and letting yourself be vulnerable. I'm glad you just vegged out on the couch today. It's what is needed sometimes and well deserved
I myself have also been struggling with similar thoughts and hearing your advice was exactly what I needed to hear. I also agree with everything you said we need to give ourselves grace. Some times a good cry and a vent is much needed. Sending you all the love and tight hugs! 😊🩵
Hey Rem❤ I remember a long while ago you and Alisha said you wanted to go to church more regularly. I know from experience that going helps a lot with dealing with your inner thoughts and low moments. When we understand God's forgiveness for us, it's so much easier for us to love and forgive ourselves ❤
Your feelings are valid. Whether it’s PMS or the straw that broke the camel’s back, you are allowed to feel overwhelmed/sad/etc. But also remember you are so loved by your community (virtual and IRL). 💕
Literally every year I look forward to these Christmas vlogs!! Been watching since high school. Thank you for all the fun memories that you’ve shared it’s been a long journey. 🤗💕
I recently failed my licensure exam & have been feeling down about it even though I'm studying again. Something that helps me get through is knowing that your best is going to look different every day. And that is perfectly okay. I hope you read this and it can bring you some comfort (you def bring me comfort). Love you Remi! ❤YOU'RE DOING GREAT SWEETIE🎥💃
We’re always the hardest on ourselves! Remember to celebrate little achievements and remember how far you’ve come. I 100% resonate with how you feel in which I always have to feel busy and push down my feelings. You’re not alone and you’re amazing!
Cal is the cutest thing I've ever seen!! Every time he comes on camera I'm like " he's so good for Remi & Remi is good for him" I love yall❤
Remi, you truly are a beautiful person inside and out 🤍
You give me so much comfort just by watching your vlogs! Thank you from the bottom of my heart!
Don’t give yourself a hard time!! You’re doing so well!! Fighting, girl! You got this 🫶🏻🍀
I love All Things Lilly Ann omg!! The best notepads ever! So happy to see her featured 🩷
Videos like this remind me why Remis my favorite she’s so genuine
Every day may not be good but there is something good in every day!
You make all our days better. ❤
i don’t always comment on people’s videos but i have watched every single one of your videos for YEARS and yet every time i do, i think to myself “she is just my absolute favorite 🥹” i’ve also watched all of your vlogmas so far and still when i woke up this morning one of my first thoughts was that i was excited to see what you were going to show us in the vlog today! i really appreciate you talking about how you have been feeling lately and i hope you will take a break if you need to, because everyone deserves to take breaks and have some chill me time! i’m sending virtual hugs 💛💛
Aww Remi, I literally had a looong cry about the exact same thing yesterday!! I just want to do everything so well and I feel like I’m messing everything up and I’ve just been so hard on myself. I teared up when you were talking about doing the same thing to yourself. Thank you so much for the reminder to be gentle with myself, it really came at the perfect time ❤️ ilysm!!!
Right down to the PMSing, I am with you. Though based on different life circumstances I have been having similar thoughts this past week. Your vlogs are one of the things that brought me joy every day. We would watch you do the exact same thing every day and be thrilled because watching a vlog is like having a companion in those quieter moments. You are truly doing amazing, and all of the feelings you are having are so incredibly valid. I am a person who really feels all the feelings, and I can say it’s truly life changing to let yourself feel them and have your heart be your guide 💗
hi queen, just wanted to come on here and tell you that you are doing a great job. truly not everyone can do even half of everything you’ve been doing and to nail it all the time? YOU ARE A WONDERWOMAN. you should give yourself credit bc you don’t know how much you’ve been helping a lot of ppl. at least for me, i lost my grandpa a few months back and it was hard for me to even get up in the morning or wash my face or even drink water let alone smile and go to work like everything’s okay but you have helped me so much just by making me crack even the littlest smile. you have been my go to since 5 years ago, always have and always will be. i love you so much rem!!! on good days but even more on the bad 💖💖💖
Remi helps me get through work everyday. Ilysm girly and nothing by love and support for you
Also: LOVE Cal’s fit check OOTN! ANDDD Oh my goodness been following All Things Lily Ann for soooo longgg!!! SO HAPPY TO SEE YOU DID HER!!!! ❤❤❤
The way you actually had me tear up and give a little cheer for myself...I love you Remi!!!! Thank you for the reminder!!!
Hope everything gets better, sending you a big hug! Thanks for always be so open with us 🫶🏻
Rem, I’ve been through so much this year. I had two deaths in my immediate family (my father and his brother) which is making the holidays extra hard this year and I’m facing foreclosure. Normally I wouldn’t stress financial things but I’m disabled and have adopted my father’s dog so there’s extra responsibility. To top it all off my health has been declining.
I’ve typed all that to tell you how much I appreciate your vlogs. They offer me a little escape and I feel so grateful. I watch you normally and I do NOT miss a video but this year I feel like your vlogmas is just for me! It helps in ways I can’t explain and I want to thank you, Cal and the fourlegged kids too. 🤟🏽 🫶 TY! 🫂
thank you for opening up to us and not only showing the positive side but also the authentic parts of life and especially vlogging everyday is truly amazing and I truly respect you for your honesty and ilysm🤍🤍
"i'm sorry this vlog hasn't been very good" STOP. this is exactly what you were talking about. your content and realness is great and relatable. dont ever apologize for days where life happens!!! target and pup content is good enough :)
Remi you are human! It's perfectly normal to feel like this but just know you have so many loved ones surrounding you, and you are an amazing person!!! You and cal are literally my favorite couple to watch on youtube!!
Remi please know that you are such an amazing person and I really appreciate you sharing your life with us! Everyone is entitled to a bad day so thank you for not being fake and for being so kind but please remember to be kind to yourself! Love you!
thank you 😭 love love love you 🩵🥹
ps: Cal knows he puts that shit on lol, he's so modest but ya'll really compliment each other so well, congratulations on the engagement faves!!!
thank you SO much!!! 😭🩵🥹
oh remi!! please please please always give yourself grace. you're such an incredible content creator and genuinely a great person!! i've been watching you for 10+ years and you can see how hard you work and how excellent you are. always take care of yourself bestie. we'll always be here waiting for yaa
it's all good Remi no need to apologies, it's absolutly brave to show the downside you can experience in a day to day life even if there is not "big deals" but just built up anxiety, we can all relate to that and i'm sure and we're all happy to send you our love and support because you truly highlight our days and life with your content and we wish you only the best in life, love from Paris
Hey, I know I’m super late to watching. Life has been hectic, but I hope everyone remembers to be kind to yourself. Even on rough days, remind yourself that you’re here existing and that’s all we can expect. We’re all human beings bound to make mistakes, but also remember that the only reason we know those negative feelings because we’ve also felt those positive emotions too. Try to compliment yourself at least once a day in the mirror. I know it sounds so weird, but it really helps. Love you all! ❤
omg i know i’m so late to watching the vlogmas im so sorry remi but im literally tearing up i hate seeing you cry and i feel the same way im having health issues and everyday i am so beyond stressed and hard on myself for not doing as much as i should and i love you you’re not alone and honestly we only have one life please take your breaks i love u ❤️❤️🫶🏻🫶🏻😭😭
I love how homey your vlogs are. I get so much comfort from your videos.
Remi!!!!!! Enjoy those lazy days don’t feel guilty for relaxing on a day you don’t feel the best!!!! I love watching you whether it’s window shopping, cleaning, cooking, hauls or just getting ready. Don’t ever apologize!!!
Remi just remember your fans are only as happy as you are!! We are behind you no matter what ❤
You are an incredible person! You bring so much joy to my day when I get to watch you. You are human, you have needs that need to be attended to, you give so much of yourself everyday to others and I hope you find time to take care of you and your mental health. ❤️You are loved!
Remi… we see you and hear you. Social media is NOT real life, and sadly many people assume that others lives’ are perfect and sunshine & rainbows. We are all human, we have feelings, we struggle. It’s okay to admit that. This is why you’re my favorite influencer because you are REAL, you keep shit 💯 and don’t make your life seem like it’s a perfect fairy tale. I’ve been watching you since your OG college days and growing up with you essentially has been inspiring. Despite your struggles you have inspired millions of girls across the world being your real and true self. You should be incredibly proud of ALL your accomplishments. I literally remember when you came out with that DIY face mask line and I was so excited about it. You’ve done so so so much and your true fans are so proud of you and DONT LET INTERNET PEOPLE HATE ON YOU! They are miserable and don’t have an actual successful life like you and will project. We are all so proud of you, vlogmas is my favorite time of year, thank you for seriously being you and not being another LA washed influencer that promotes shitty values & behaviors. There’s a reason why so many people love you… remember that.
side note remi’s nails look so gorgeous with her ring, i’m obsessed😍
Remiiiiiii! Just know you created this life you have now. You weren’t given it, nor dealt the cards by chance. YOU created this community and career by your own accord. There’s nothing here to mess up, or not do well enough, because you simply already have. You’re doin the damn thing girly pop and we lysm 🫶🏼
No matter what the content is I’m just happy to watch Remis vlog❤ throughout my life the past 10+ years Remi has been with me to cheer me up. Of course I never want to see you sad but sometimes things happen and we understand and will always continue to love and support you❤
Remiii❤ I’ve been watching your vlogs for years and I’m so glad I can listen to you about mental health. I recently just lost my mom which has took a hard hit on me especially because of my son who lost his grandma. But I have my good days but I also have my bad days. We’re all here to support each other 🤍 thank you for being so open. I need to learn how to express my feelings more and I thank you for that🥹 we love you remi!!!!🤍🤍🤍
Remi, I love your vlogs, especially vlogmas! I’ve been watching you for a few years now and I can tell you give it 110% so please whenever you feel overwhelmed take some time off and enjoy yourself. We will be here when you get back 🫶🏼
The same thing happened to me yesterday so just remember you’re not alone and we love you❤️ it’s nice to see the hard moments too to remember everyone goes through it
rem it's ok to be sad sometimes or to have an off day! we still love anything you put out! i just love watching you doing everyday stuff!
also love to see cal more and the huge love you two have!
This vlog was so comforting remi🥹🫶