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  • Sadhguru explains why greeting by hugging someone is avoided, especially in indian culture.
    sadhguru himself keeps avoiding hugging other people because it effect's one's integrity.also there is something called as runanubandha that is touching someone will lead to memory transaction which will have impact on them.
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  • @anoushkagokhale2723
    @anoushkagokhale2723 Před 2 lety +206

    Completely agreed! Why should I hug random people or guys who are just hugging for the sake of physical pleasure? That is mentally uncomfortable. I Believe in Hugging only those who care for you and are concerned about you.

    • @xrxs1020
      @xrxs1020 Před 2 lety +15

      "Why should I hug random people or guys who are just hugging for the sake of physical pleasure?''
      You shouldn't. But there are other dimensions of hugging. To me hugging is a sign of universal acceptance, love, harmony, and grace. It doesn't have to be extended to just anyone, but it fitting in certain kinds of spiritual or creative groups. This brand of hugging has nothing to do with sex. To me, hugging is like a foretaste of what's to come, symbolic of Heaven and Infinity.
      Besides that, speaking as a long-time social dancer, some of the best dancing is called Close Embrace, which is similar to hugging and is a beautiful way of dancing, along with more open positions. The two dancers needn't be lovers. Close Embrace is simply a closeness with another human being in which the closeness, or hugging as it were, isn't sexual.
      The world is largely unaware of the dance world.
      If one is in charge of one's self like Sadhguru is, then one simply handles it in a mature manner. Done. Simple. Beautiful. Not harmful, but wholesome and uplifting.

    • @cimmerianfable
      @cimmerianfable Před 2 lety +7

      Who even hugs random people tho?? You don't even wanna touch or be touched by the strangers, isn't it??
      Hugging feels heavenly only when it's done with the ones you truly love & are attracted to.

    • @johnybrokeit
      @johnybrokeit Před 2 lety +3

      @anoushka gokhale I don't want to agree that we hug for physical pleasure. But it Is complicated, not simply cuz I am Indian.
      When I hug someone I know I'm not going to get any sexual satisfaction from it, but the mere thought of hugging a girl, getting close to boobs (if I were to be blunt) works an intense chaos or series of explosions in a dude's brain.
      It also isn't a culture thing I must say, cuz, even my American friends have very little need to go out of their way to hug another guy friend. But with a girl, they jump on the chance without even a second's thought.
      The strange thing is that when you hug someone you can't feel the boobs or anything... cuz it's just fat, so it holds no ummm mass? I dunno... never needed to put this in words till now. We can't feel anything to be accused of doing it for physical pleasure. Unfortunately.
      But the sheer thought of getting close to a gorgeous girl and holding them, is enough to cause a preemptive strike on our funny male brains.
      But eventually when we are in the act (haha) we realize that it is pleasant and warm and comforting and completing for us. Just like it feels for women. And why I think hugs essentially are so uplifting especially in this chaotic world. Sadhguru makes a killer point here though.
      But yeah, I think it's complicated. So I avoid it as much as possible. Only when I'm leaving someone or meeting someone after say 5 to 6 months is when I hug either sex.
      A funny note also, is that, when you refuse a hug women sense it and they desperately neeeeed to hug you somehow because of it hahaha. Unbelievable. So I give up and let it happen (o poor me!).

    • @johnybrokeit
      @johnybrokeit Před 2 lety +2

      @@cimmerianfable I'd hug a random person :) if I felt like they needed one. Of course I'm human and so my brain kicks in to cleanliness mode and starts firing me with demands to check if I could get any disease or dirt from them (yikes! I did day I am human haha).
      But when the heart says go, it's a split second decision and they get attacked with the hug haha. Genuinely not for me; evidence? A lot of times it's for guys! And I'm 110% not gay.

    • @RaVNeFLoK
      @RaVNeFLoK Před 2 lety +3

      Guys who hug for physical (sexual?) pleasure must be so starved of it one can hardly imagine it. Or in love.
      I can tell you that most guys do not derive any sexual pleasure out of a hug. In my part of the world we think nothing of it - I hug my closest guy friends as well if I haven’t seen them in a while. When I hug a female friend it’s the same.
      One shouldn’t hug strangers though. That would indeed be weird and pushy. That’s what a polite hand shake is for - or just a nod of the head - I agree.
      Sometimes I just think some woman think guys more sex crazed and weird than we actually are.

  • @talori5417
    @talori5417 Před 2 lety +216

    One time I was at a money seminar and everybody was walking around giving each other encouraging high fives, when this monk walks up to me and gives me the warmest embrace. I lightly hugged him back with the pat on the back thinking it would soon be over but he kept holding me, I nearly broke down and cried. He then released me and did the same thing to another person. I wasn’t a very touchy-feely person before this. I vow to be a great hugging healer one day. 🙏🏾🌹

  • @zamoraobed
    @zamoraobed Před 2 lety +157

    I always wondered why I disliked physical contact especially from random people who try to touch me for no reason.

    • @yanniegeerdink7183
      @yanniegeerdink7183 Před 2 lety +3

      Or in my case family and nephews /nieces; had to adjust !)

    • @Zoe-nr6vv
      @Zoe-nr6vv Před 2 lety +7

      maybe because it's weird that a random person wants to touch you. that's it

    • @aghori2531
      @aghori2531 Před 2 lety +2

      @@Zoe-nr6vv lol.. What u talking about dude

    • @Zoe-nr6vv
      @Zoe-nr6vv Před 2 lety +5

      @@aghori2531 if u don't know you've been neglected or you're dumb

    • @rishitagautam7905
      @rishitagautam7905 Před 2 lety

      @@yanniegeerdink7183 same

  • @Zoe-nr6vv
    @Zoe-nr6vv Před 2 lety +26

    hugging someone is affection and that's what your body will remember.....love

    • @aartishah7988
      @aartishah7988 Před rokem +2

      But everyone doesn't have the same pure thought while hugging

  • @Anna-li8dy
    @Anna-li8dy Před 2 lety +24

    I personally love hugging and see nothing wrong with it😍

  • @BedollitaYoyis
    @BedollitaYoyis Před 2 lety +62

    Every single morning my son and I hug. We started because he was arriving from work as I was heading to mine. Its a wonderful thing!NAMASTE💫💞💫💞💫💞💫💞💖💫💖💫💝

  • @lisathomas1622
    @lisathomas1622 Před 2 lety +24

    About ten years ago my body was ill in the exact same places as my granny. I knew nothing about self healing at the time and went to the doctors as usual. They gave meds to manage my various issues. Well I found that unacceptable. I was only in my forties and definitely not ready to slow down for old age! Thank goodness I took up yoga! What journey it launched me on! I’m not sick with any of her symptoms anymore.

  • @reddykanta7337
    @reddykanta7337 Před 2 lety +183

    I think hugging and kissing loved ones strengthen the bond between them. It makes you feel special and loved. 🥰

    • @tstanmoysamanta
      @tstanmoysamanta Před 2 lety +23

      He was not speaking against it....he was saying choose the right person.

    • @RajneeshSinghrsinghpaliwal
      @RajneeshSinghrsinghpaliwal Před 2 lety +4

      He don't give a shit what you think...

    • @pinrayi7909
      @pinrayi7909 Před 2 lety +13

      My dear friend a Yogi saves his/her energy. A person who meditates should also keep this thing in mind because energy from a meditator is absorbed by others around him/her. It completely drains them if there are people who have weaker aura around them or who eats meat or have negative mindset. A Yogi suffers if he is around people for too long that's why they normally keeps distance.

    • @billwilliams2968
      @billwilliams2968 Před 2 lety

      @@tstanmoysamanta ⁹⁸8o8oooooooooooòo

    • @patriciaking7892
      @patriciaking7892 Před 2 lety +1

      Tanmoy Samanta, I agree with you 👌👌. Everyone doesn't have the same energy💞💞.

  • @crowmedicine3890
    @crowmedicine3890 Před 2 lety +37

    Hugging is very natural to our species. It's a simple, beautiful way to nurture a basic human need.

    • @fourtwentythree
      @fourtwentythree Před rokem

      I’m not needy in that way but to those that are be well and hug 🙏 but couldn’t be me 😅

    • @ReturnJaguar
      @ReturnJaguar Před rokem

      Hug yourself r consenting partners

  • @sapphiresniles3523
    @sapphiresniles3523 Před 2 lety +208

    Finally my reluctance to hug clearly explained by sadhgru...I was insulted and psychologically bullied for not liking and agreeing to hug cause I don’t like the touch or energy exchange of certain people, it’s make me feel disturbed when I sense other people’s energetic memory...in reality I just comfortable with greeting someone with eye contact...thank you sadhguru, Om Namashivaya 🙏

    • @TheMysticWorld
      @TheMysticWorld  Před 2 lety +6

      🙏🙏🙏

    • @eddyed4713
      @eddyed4713 Před 2 lety +12

      And My liberal friends blamed me for practising brahminical hegemony or something of that sort when I didn't want to hug ...😂 ...

    • @rajkapoor4446
      @rajkapoor4446 Před 2 lety +3

      👍👍👍🏳️🏳️

    • @soulmate1960
      @soulmate1960 Před 2 lety +4

      True.

    • @PrajwalSedain
      @PrajwalSedain Před 2 lety +9

      Sadhguru tries to make a fool of everybody by justifying every ancient hindu thing through science which is nothing but a piece of crap. He feeds on our ego that our culture is the best. The man is just some pandit from some gaun who has become mainstream through English language

  • @MelanieWellard
    @MelanieWellard Před 2 lety +274

    I was hugged and loved all the time when young I love hugging, I’m a tactile person, it can also be cultural, I resonate with people from Brazil, Tunisa as they are very huggy. When I hold and hug someone I love for a period of time, I feel my whole nervous system relax

    • @eeaotly
      @eeaotly Před 2 lety +7

      I feel deeply relaxed even if I imagine that I am hugging someone I love!

    • @aghori2531
      @aghori2531 Před 2 lety +12

      @@eeaotly if you are in certain kind of ecstasy and joy... Hugging is the best thing you could do..
      But if you hug to the children or some friends just to feel relax and calm that means you're going through something and you're sharing your negative vibes with them and vice versa

    • @eeaotly
      @eeaotly Před 2 lety +5

      @@aghori2531 I am not a "huggy" person. All I saying is that I feel deeply relaxed when I IMAGINE that I am hugging a dear friend. I am not even in the same room with that person.

    • @daniello9155
      @daniello9155 Před 2 lety +16

      I have great respect for Sadhguru but maybe what is correct in India may not be elsewhere. I get feel good hugs almost everyday and almost everywhere I go. Sometimes from complete and total strangers, even males. I think hugs can convey so much without all of the complications of it going further.

    • @aghori2531
      @aghori2531 Před 2 lety +9

      @@daniello9155 of course hugs helps to feel relax and happy, especially when we feel low..
      But what he is saying is that the human touch carries an enormous memory which can distract the path of a spiritual person.
      Being spiritual means being bliissful within ourself.

  • @samanthagibson979
    @samanthagibson979 Před 2 lety +271

    Idk how I feel. Hugging my kids fine but random people, I can’t hug. It doesn’t feel right or comfortable. Only if it’s my children or people I love

    • @blossming_babe
      @blossming_babe Před 2 lety +8

      True

    • @samirmajumdar882
      @samirmajumdar882 Před 2 lety +9

      Yeah thats because you are making a connection with your kids and leaving an impression on their mind and body and its okay. But doing that with all so called "friends" or just a random person is not fruitful especially when you dont want to make a connection.

    • @alynahydar9757
      @alynahydar9757 Před 2 lety +6

      It doesn't feel right cuz you think they are bad people. You judge them very easily without knowing them.
      I don't hug anyone not even my family but sometimes I have to if I see someone in pain

    • @blossming_babe
      @blossming_babe Před 2 lety +1

      @@alynahydar9757... Dat's different thing. Everyone hug their family members.
      Here all r toking about outsiders.

    • @djosephine
      @djosephine Před 2 lety +11

      I literally always thought there was something wrong with me because I see people hug so open and freely and I just cannot. It doesn’t feel right Americans are too touchy touchy & open with strangers. It’s blurred lines (I’m American by the way)

  • @tkarno4276
    @tkarno4276 Před 2 lety +8

    LOVE my hugs. Giving AND getting them 🥰

  • @neilaleksandrov2655
    @neilaleksandrov2655 Před 2 lety +137

    Not sure I agree with this, by hugging my friends and family members I always feel amazing positive energy and notice how it overall brings greater feeling of peace and love overall, not simply a nurturing feeling for me but for everyone. I have certainly never felt odd or negative energy from hugging people but that being said I don't give hugs to strangers. I will continue hugging my family and friends Sandghuru all due respect.

    • @jonnalagaddasaisumanth6228
      @jonnalagaddasaisumanth6228 Před 2 lety +4

      "...that being said I don't give hugs to strangers..." - That part. If you, your family and your friends are emotionally and physically fulfilled and with full of integrity, it works IMO.

    • @sebastianbolt7886
      @sebastianbolt7886 Před 2 lety +18

      Just because he says his view, does not make it true for everyone, I hug instinctively those who want a hug instinctively, it's all relevant to the individual. You are your own master.

    • @brendabrenda6738
      @brendabrenda6738 Před 2 lety +2

      This man is one of those puppets!

    • @valrosenbaum6435
      @valrosenbaum6435 Před 2 lety +8

      As always, take what adds to your life, let the rest go. I agree with you.

    • @debbieangel9376
      @debbieangel9376 Před 2 lety +1

      @@sebastianbolt7886 I Agree with you

  • @yullyparraduque3694
    @yullyparraduque3694 Před 2 lety +49

    Living is becoming so fucking complicated, I hug whoever I want, whoever needs it.

    • @mikeyyoyo6464
      @mikeyyoyo6464 Před 2 lety +5

      Brilliantly put, too fkn complicated! We all get drunk, party from time to time & everyone hugs everyone it’s brilliant ❤️👍

    • @yullyparraduque3694
      @yullyparraduque3694 Před 2 lety +4

      @@mikeyyoyo6464 yes, my friend we are one, we need each other, we need to stop this dehumanization, this guy knows and shares interesting things but we have to start thinking by ourselves and not to do and accept everything everyone else's tells us to. Send you a big hug.

    • @daniello9155
      @daniello9155 Před 2 lety +1

      Yully I had to put this up twice as one was deleted? Who wouldn't want a hug from you, you have a beautiful sweet smile. OO

    • @janmejaypandey2424
      @janmejaypandey2424 Před 2 lety +1

      It's not complicated..It's becoming more conscious than compulsive 😁

    • @monamucci6708
      @monamucci6708 Před 2 lety

      You’re fortunate to not absorb others sadness and confusion. I cannot hug or shake hands because it leave a kind of residue on my soul, as I absorb their inner emotions. The same happens with sexual relations.

  • @cssuntherrao
    @cssuntherrao Před 2 lety +63

    Hugging a saint who is full of love and compssion is not harmful or an obstacle in anyway. It generates loving vibes in the person hugged.

    • @msvenu544
      @msvenu544 Před 2 lety +11

      Yes people will get positive vibes from saint. But Saint May get negative vibes 😂😂😂

    • @missjae4033
      @missjae4033 Před 2 lety +6

      Once a person of light is in the room animals, babies and the especially the opposite sex are instantly attracted. They want the Saints energy. On an ordinary scale, it's still not wanted when people try to invade a person's space - period. It's not good for the Saint. Invasion of privacy with their energy. 😬 I become what society calls a B* because I am protecting myself. And if I open my sacred loving light I am a supply - a meal to hungry wolves. You tell me whose getting the worse end of stick here in society.. Let it sink in.

    • @cssuntherrao
      @cssuntherrao Před 2 lety +2

      @@msvenu544 The he/she is not a complete Saint yet😊

    • @cssuntherrao
      @cssuntherrao Před 2 lety +3

      @@missjae4033 Then further spiritual progress is needed. Till then, protection from negative vibes by refraining from hugging is ok😊

    • @liquidvelvet
      @liquidvelvet Před 2 lety +3

      Might be part of Amma's power...

  • @1shu
    @1shu Před 2 lety +127

    That's why namaste and bowing is the best way of greeting. Never liked hugging and kissing each other's cheeks.

    • @SD-mi2ss
      @SD-mi2ss Před 2 lety +1

      Correct

    • @bignavin10
      @bignavin10 Před 2 lety +4

      That has become so common with youngsters now... its a fashion, its trend, they feel its something superior way..

    • @eddyed4713
      @eddyed4713 Před 2 lety +5

      @@bignavin10 ya ..that's because of those "celebrities" they follow ..I have been called "gawar " by many because I couldn't control my laughter when I see people do it making stupid faces and utterring the muah muah sound ...🤣

    • @rajkapoor4446
      @rajkapoor4446 Před 2 lety +1

      There are ppl who criticize ppl like us by saying we're not modern enough

    • @jeevithakitdal4983
      @jeevithakitdal4983 Před 2 lety +2

      @@eddyed4713 I don't know why celebrities are brought into this topic

  • @TheSanbao
    @TheSanbao Před 2 lety +23

    On some things I agree, but if I wish to really hug, I'll hug, even you dear Sadhguru are not for everyone. Same with diets, there is not one diet for all of humanity, not only one meditation for everyone.

    • @chan_for
      @chan_for Před 2 lety

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  • @gigisalamangkera5524
    @gigisalamangkera5524 Před 2 lety +101

    Yes, for me it's true. Transfer of energy and memory, in some cases .....you can feel negative energy.....

    • @JustFiddler
      @JustFiddler Před 2 lety

      indeed

    • @yanniegeerdink7183
      @yanniegeerdink7183 Před 2 lety +1

      True

    • @tallacoin439
      @tallacoin439 Před 2 lety +4

      There is always something transmitted be touching, whether you feel it or not.

    • @andreak4280
      @andreak4280 Před 2 lety +1

      @@brizayden 🤜🏼🤛🏼AGREE! 🙅🏻‍♀️🙏🏼

    • @andreak4280
      @andreak4280 Před 2 lety +7

      Yes! definitely you can feel “negative energy” same as you can feel positive energy! Learn to stay grounded and get a sense of the negative from a distance. If your energy is positive, centered & strong, your energy will not be swayed into negative. If you do feel it, shake it off with your inner positive (amplify) Somebody with some negative energy does not necessarily mean they are bad or of ill intent but their vibration is low and possibly in need of some positive! WE ALL go thru various positive & negative energy thru life simply because we are made up of energy. The key is to always try to keep within a higher vibration as much as possible via a healthy mind & body which all comes from good nutrition, sleep, exercise, relationships, meditation. The human touch when given in a respectful way can be healing for both the giver & receiver! Do not fear a hug.
      I also agree with the sentiment below made by Brayden Jack 👍🏼 but that is just both our opinions and we know what opinions are like 😉😅 may peace be within us all 🙏🏼🙏🏼 ☮️

  • @NataliaArantsevaPhotography

    Hugs 🤗 🤗 🤗 it's a beautiful experience, makes me feel happy, connected to the whole universe.

  • @amareshraja
    @amareshraja Před 2 lety +27

    These things are never taught for me when I am growing! So sad when thinking of the past and so glad to know these things now! I will raise my child properly without putting them into a cart and push them wherever I go or leave them in a separate cot for them to sleep. I will keep them with me all the time!

    • @donnalawrence9054
      @donnalawrence9054 Před 2 lety +2

      Don't be a helicopter parent. Kids have to grow learn that everything isn't perfect in life.

  • @rishabhsharma1241
    @rishabhsharma1241 Před 2 lety +9

    not just in Indian culture, but also in, Japanese, Chinese and Korean, and many other cultures, hugging is avoided, it doesn't mean it was completely avoided, it used to be done in very very very rare cases.. Like Ram and Hanuman,,, mostly used to happen in friend circles..

  • @Imthesaviour
    @Imthesaviour Před 2 lety +6

    For people who disagree they may not be with deeper understanding… Sadhguru didn’t say we shouldn’t hug… by hugging we can pass or share good our energy to weaker ones too… its all about what necessary and what’s not… Sadhguru❤️

  • @whichwitchiswhich9765
    @whichwitchiswhich9765 Před 2 lety +75

    But it is also said that kids who are supposed to hug more grew up as happy adults .

    • @kkb2687
      @kkb2687 Před 2 lety +27

      Yeah. That's what he said. They should be hugged and played with by their parents sufficiently

    • @ayushkumaryadav1073
      @ayushkumaryadav1073 Před 2 lety +19

      Don't believe any guru blindly..that's all I want to say

    • @cevonnegut1894
      @cevonnegut1894 Před 2 lety +3

      @@ayushkumaryadav1073 best reminder ever!

    • @yanniegeerdink7183
      @yanniegeerdink7183 Před 2 lety

      Unless it goes with brutality.

    • @soulmate1960
      @soulmate1960 Před 2 lety +1

      Must not be with any random person.
      That is how most children are harmed and parents remain blind to it most of time.

  • @jayashreeshreedharan6631
    @jayashreeshreedharan6631 Před 2 lety +5

    You are not going to loose anything in fact you start loving❤️❤️❤️ the universe is full of goodness and accepting the universe is accepting yourself

  • @victoriale2792
    @victoriale2792 Před 2 lety +6

    i was hesitant about watching through the video, (because of the comments tbh) but now finishing, i see that it’s more than a question of should you or shouldn’t you hug someone. its about being conscious and maintaining a healthy integrity for yourself and your body.

  • @krishnabanerjee8039
    @krishnabanerjee8039 Před 2 lety +10

    So beautifully explained. Namaskar Guruji.

  • @Jagritidhariwal
    @Jagritidhariwal Před 2 lety +144

    As a teen i have always felt this, i never wanted to hug anyone or get touched, i always felt like people are sucking the good energies off you when u hug them. I used to feel drained. Now i feel like my own energies are so strong that i don't need hug from strangers to make me feel good.

    • @janmejaypandey2424
      @janmejaypandey2424 Před 2 lety +4

      It's right... unless you get a hug from sadhguru 😁

    • @Jagritidhariwal
      @Jagritidhariwal Před 2 lety +9

      @@janmejaypandey2424 i don't like being touched until i really love that person so it would be NO for sadhguru as well.

    • @janmejaypandey2424
      @janmejaypandey2424 Před 2 lety +6

      @@Jagritidhariwal Chill..Sadhguru is too sensible to make this mistake 😂

    • @dinesh.shenoyrenjal9167
      @dinesh.shenoyrenjal9167 Před 2 lety +3

      U r right.those who are spiritual..it happens

    • @jaykeane25
      @jaykeane25 Před 2 lety +3

      Yeah. I don't like rapists I want to kill them. So If I hug or hand shake someone . Sometimes I feel disgusted and uncomfortable after the encounter.
      Its difficult balance between being nice to everyone you greet.
      But my good energy is transferred to them so it's a selfless sacrifice.

  • @sydniecrawley3514
    @sydniecrawley3514 Před 2 lety +6

    This is one of the most interesting things I have learned, thank you, SadGuru🙏🏽

  • @Kshitij.with.nature-channel

    This is to be taught to every teen classmates in the world 😭😭😇😇

  • @lilibethdaligdig6560
    @lilibethdaligdig6560 Před 2 lety +2

    Correct and I strongly agree. It was also explained scientifically. What a great great idea. Salute to you Sir.

  • @ashwaniesingh8708
    @ashwaniesingh8708 Před 2 lety +74

    Hugging is wonderful.It's love.People do what makes you happy.Hugging makes me happy.No one can make you happy except yourself.Make use if your own brain don't let others think for you.

    • @letchumytheresa8970
      @letchumytheresa8970 Před 2 lety +4

      I love your comment ☺️

    • @ashwaniesingh8708
      @ashwaniesingh8708 Před 2 lety +5

      @@letchumytheresa8970 Thank you.Stay safe.Be happy and hug someone.

    • @mikeyyoyo6464
      @mikeyyoyo6464 Před 2 lety +1

      Yes 👍

    • @MN-zh2vd
      @MN-zh2vd Před 2 lety +3

      I love hugs too! I don't just hug anybody, though. I've definitely experienced that negative transfer of energy. Now I'm discerning and I only hug those I have determined to be worthy of my hugs and that's ok too.

    • @ashwaniesingh8708
      @ashwaniesingh8708 Před 2 lety +1

      @@MN-zh2vd Have an open heart.Don't believe on negative energy;it only controls your life instead of you controlling it.

  • @sakurabonita9905
    @sakurabonita9905 Před 2 lety +64

    Insightful....people need this information and knowledge about physical memory....less discussed topic...

  • @JatinderSingh-oz1hx
    @JatinderSingh-oz1hx Před 2 lety +29

    Hug is an expression of love and affection, in India is it common to hug family and friends. In fact, it can uplift you and make you feel good. It is obvious that you not hugging random people, it is only known and close circle people fall under that category. In fact there is a Saintly lady in India who hugs people to heal them. People from far and wide go to her just for a hug, so nothing wrong with giving or getting a hug, positive vibes from one body get transferred to another.

    • @ericdreese9145
      @ericdreese9145 Před 2 lety +6

      Yes but dont forget that most humans are not capable or prepared to be useful in that manner, if you watch better most of the people around the globe are very toxic in their own ways and are not doing a great work with their basics of life. In this video its offered a knowledge which is useful and are going to do a good impact in most of the people, but it doesnt means that u cannot use in a powerful and good manner as you said, all depends on you, your capacities and clarity about what are you doing. And of course we cannot forget that when you are more of a public person the vast majority of your teaching are going to be basics in the sense of the circunstances in which you are involving yourself, in this case, this world which i think that i dont have to say how the people are living here because its very clear dont you think...?

  • @Kshitij.with.nature-channel

    Sadhguru is the best live blessing I have ever got in my life

  • @girlvibes6827
    @girlvibes6827 Před 2 lety +1

    Goosebumps Sadhguru, words you spit are nothing but only wisdom.

  • @SWoodcheke
    @SWoodcheke Před 2 lety +42

    This actually explains a lot ... Not just physical touch. I could be sitting on a train absorbed in my book and be disturbed by someone sitting at a distance who is staring at me. Nowhere near close enough to touch. A sort of 6th sense. How many times have I walked down a quiet street and been startled by the presence of another person behind me who wasn't there before. And this person not even close enough to touch, making no sound.

    • @akumaku7930
      @akumaku7930 Před 2 lety +8

      I had that exact experience in class during college. I was in the back, the person was in the front, this person literally to turned around kept staring at me. I was aware this person was staring yet I never looked kept working on my assignments, however it very uncomfortable.

    • @bewusstsein3527
      @bewusstsein3527 Před 2 lety

      @@akumaku7930 why it made you uncomfortable?

    • @bewusstsein3527
      @bewusstsein3527 Před 2 lety

      May i know why?

    • @akumaku7930
      @akumaku7930 Před 2 lety +8

      @@bewusstsein3527 Sure, Its their energy/vibration didnt set well. Their stare was hungry eyes wanting something..

    • @bewusstsein3527
      @bewusstsein3527 Před 2 lety

      @@akumaku7930 didnt sit well.. okay.. how do we detect it? Do we have 6 or 7th sense aside from tge normal 5 senses? How can we use it and the enrgies that sorround us?

  • @lolischester6895
    @lolischester6895 Před 2 lety +225

    In Japan it's not ok to hug even shaking hands is not common.

  • @ot7bg
    @ot7bg Před 2 lety +2

    this explains what i have been experiencing perfectly. Thank you

  • @acyutaatipriyajambavatidas7954

    Wow. Thank you for this. Just what I needed to hear.

  • @elangovan1592
    @elangovan1592 Před 2 lety +43

    Don't ever question Indians. They know everything.

  • @blossming_babe
    @blossming_babe Před 2 lety +17

    *Best hug in this entire universe is a mother's hug but unlucky me I can't feel that hug anymore* 💔💘
    Miss U Ma
    Love U💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕

    • @carakellymangang6592
      @carakellymangang6592 Před 2 lety +1

      Namaste kanakk Singh,
      Don't feel low....
      No one can replace mother's love.
      Always know she lives in side of Y❤️U. So pls be strong
      Regards
      Poonam

    • @blossming_babe
      @blossming_babe Před 2 lety +1

      🙏

    • @cristopher7019
      @cristopher7019 Před 2 lety +1

      She is happy in heaven she is watching you and living inside of you

  • @marlsemail2037
    @marlsemail2037 Před 2 lety +1

    Wow this was so spot on. Love this man

  • @renukadevin5181
    @renukadevin5181 Před 2 lety +1

    Excellent explanation. Thank you so much sadhguru

  • @user-ib9tw4yf7d
    @user-ib9tw4yf7d Před 2 lety +5

    🙏🙏 Always a beautiful learning ❤️

  • @S.T.11
    @S.T.11 Před 2 lety +12

    The topic is avoid as much as possible.
    If you only hug your siblings parents child or spouse. Then it would create deep memoroes.
    He is saying this because he believes in finding the true yourself.
    Less memory easier the path.

    • @DJRenee
      @DJRenee Před 2 lety +1

      I do understand that....less memory easier path.

  • @aryanyadav3690
    @aryanyadav3690 Před 2 lety +2

    Wow I'm amazed 😮 Crazy information ❣️

  • @audioknowledgeworld7786
    @audioknowledgeworld7786 Před 2 lety +1

    awesome explanation by sadguru sir

  • @maykhoo5610
    @maykhoo5610 Před 2 lety +5

    An eye opener! Thanks Sadhguru ❤

  • @ashutoshkumarsingh7157
    @ashutoshkumarsingh7157 Před 2 lety +8

    I AGREE, I AM BEING AWAKENING NOT COMPULSIVE. THEN I HUG WHOEVER I WANT BY CHOISE NOT FROM DESPERATION

  • @shyamalagowri8958
    @shyamalagowri8958 Před 2 lety +1

    Very good point

  • @sipo8972
    @sipo8972 Před 2 lety

    Thank's a lot for putting touching and beeing touched to the right place!

  • @vyas2005
    @vyas2005 Před 2 lety +3

    Next level!

  • @osho6158
    @osho6158 Před 2 lety +8

    Thank you Mystic world for this wisdom.

  • @melparadise7378
    @melparadise7378 Před 2 lety +1

    This is such a helpful talk. I don't like people in western society that get too touchy feel-y. Respect peoples' spaces.

  • @vipuldudam1824
    @vipuldudam1824 Před 2 lety +1

    Astonishingly Supper
    Sadhguru talk is extremely important for youths about Concious decision & Conciousness.

  • @jeralynmartinez7546
    @jeralynmartinez7546 Před 2 lety +4

    Human touch is necessary and vital and should be done with absolute consent, love and mutual respect. It should never be forced.
    If you are uncomfortable, then politely decline. Easy-peasy.

  • @boingbryan8123
    @boingbryan8123 Před 2 lety +6

    Thank you sadhguru...

  • @leighann6975
    @leighann6975 Před 2 lety

    Thanks for sharing!

  • @muralinair4595
    @muralinair4595 Před 2 lety +1

    Pranam Guru Ji
    Thank you and amazingly explained.
    With prayers 🙏
    Murali

  • @dnag02
    @dnag02 Před 2 lety +39

    My Godness - the way he articulates with a good command over English. I think Sadguru is a phenomenon now after Swamiv V and Sri Aurobindo.

    • @beatereich5466
      @beatereich5466 Před 2 lety +3

      If I feel like......I hug😄😄I don't have this fear that the energy from others can harm me. I am whole and I am within love😉😄😄💜

    • @lisathomas1622
      @lisathomas1622 Před 2 lety +5

      They learn English in school from the beginning , you know, cuz the UK invaded them awhile ago…

    • @kallurisubrahmanyam4350
      @kallurisubrahmanyam4350 Před 2 lety

      @@lisathomas1622 True

  • @djosephine
    @djosephine Před 2 lety +86

    “Sadguru where is my hug “
    “It must be with you”
    Literally Me all the time 🤣🤣

    • @stopchildabuse7932
      @stopchildabuse7932 Před 2 lety +2

      I laugh so bad when our dear gurú said that

    • @beautifulrose8619
      @beautifulrose8619 Před 2 lety

      Notice you only put a heart like on people who agree. I can't wrap my head around this concept. I do agree that some cultures and people don't like touch, but to generalize and say what this "guru" says as to be the truth is cray cray. I've listened to some of his talks and he is okay. In my opinion, he is trying too hard to look and sound like he is important. My gut instinct is turned off by him. I clicked to hear because the title is so off. Whatevs.

    • @jenniferdavis2110
      @jenniferdavis2110 Před 2 lety +1

      SADHGURU

  • @seemakapse1931
    @seemakapse1931 Před 2 lety +1

    Woww, v helpful talk

  • @hestervanrooyen4678
    @hestervanrooyen4678 Před 2 lety +1

    Thanks amazing information

  • @atmamanifesta9749
    @atmamanifesta9749 Před 2 lety +281

    choosing to hug a person you love feels so great and the body produces oxytocin, better than any medicine ,isn t it ?

    • @patriciastewart2537
      @patriciastewart2537 Před 2 lety +15

      Even a SMILE.
      My son had cursed me, "That's not how it WORKS!", frowned, at my overnight ability to WALK!
      MYy hip pain came back.
      It hurt, and I was limping along.
      I met BUZ!
      An old friend.
      He gave me a big smile as I began a mile hike, and suddenly my healing came back!!!!

    • @aquaticplantsavage6625
      @aquaticplantsavage6625 Před 2 lety +18

      Wasn't there a woman in india that was healing people with just a hug? lol. Sorry sadghuru... love you but I disagree.

    • @beautifulrose8619
      @beautifulrose8619 Před 2 lety +6

      @@aquaticplantsavage6625 Amma the hugger. What a great point. I think I have to disagree with him also.

    • @dianemoril7612
      @dianemoril7612 Před 2 lety +13

      he said people you love or like aren't concerned. the ones who he pointed are the systematic hugging when you meet people you don't even know. americans do it a lot. in france we kiss on cheeks a lot. even unknown people. that is what he pointed. it's ok with family and close friends.
      listen again here: 5:58.

    • @dianemoril7612
      @dianemoril7612 Před 2 lety +2

      @@beautifulrose8619 this is different. this is her life's mission to give her own energy to other people in order to increase their consciousness.
      this is a totally different thing. and people should think twice before going to see Amma. because it costs her a lot.

  • @reneelipton695
    @reneelipton695 Před 2 lety +30

    It might be that I wasn't hugged a lot as a baby but it sure feels good to me to give hugs. I don't ever recall being pushed away and hope I can give my feelings of a hug to others.

  • @brehojojordan7259
    @brehojojordan7259 Před rokem

    very interesting counsel.

  • @eabroham7937
    @eabroham7937 Před 2 lety +1

    This was deep. And it resonated with me.

  • @mako6335
    @mako6335 Před 2 lety +4

    No wonder I tend to avoid hugs and handshakes. I have been brainwashed to think that I am crazy without knowing love. Thank you!

  • @ChiChi-sw5iu
    @ChiChi-sw5iu Před 2 lety +7

    You’re amazing Sir 👁👁

  • @imanb2347
    @imanb2347 Před 2 lety +2

    Such a gem

  • @bobbyche9936
    @bobbyche9936 Před 2 lety +2

    Thank you for this video. It helped deeply explain how I’ve been manipulated in the past

  • @faithnorks
    @faithnorks Před 2 lety +3

    Hugging is the most beautiful thing.

  • @Ribas_darkkissa
    @Ribas_darkkissa Před 2 lety +34

    One of the most mystical experiences I’ve had in my life was when I received darshan hug from Amma! 🙏🏼💞

    • @kripaharris237
      @kripaharris237 Před 2 lety

      Yes Amma hugging is a very different exchange than average people hugging

    • @mariosarmiento5453
      @mariosarmiento5453 Před 2 lety

      hmmmmf I dont think such...something off with that one

  • @sherylhokianga6075
    @sherylhokianga6075 Před 2 lety

    Omg! Soooo Much Truth He Speaks Here!..I Get It!!

  • @GurleenKaur-ic2li
    @GurleenKaur-ic2li Před 2 lety +1

    Sadhguru is the Best ❤

  • @daniello9155
    @daniello9155 Před 2 lety +11

    Interesting, I had a Thai lady friend give me a hug and when our stomachs touched it was like this burst of electricity exploding. I have never felt this before or again, not even with my wife of 35 years. It was very special.

    • @Vividaaa
      @Vividaaa Před 2 lety

      I had this one, only once. It was very strange.

    • @lorenzovillegas2457
      @lorenzovillegas2457 Před 2 lety +1

      Nice!

    • @daniello9155
      @daniello9155 Před 2 lety

      @@Vividaaa Same here, just the once it happened. I get quite a few hugs from my customers but never repeated itself. I think we did have a special connection though.

  • @hasanoshohilali10
    @hasanoshohilali10 Před 2 lety +10

    For corona reason may be,,but in reality hug is very important for selfless and lovely humanity

  • @inmindcanidate1884
    @inmindcanidate1884 Před 2 lety

    WONDERFUL, Just WONDERFUL..

  • @rosetvm
    @rosetvm Před 2 lety

    I love to see the Maha smadhi of Sadguru, soon.

  • @cuttostah
    @cuttostah Před 2 lety +98

    Lol so many people just not getting it in the comments. I mean I understand you hug everyone in your culture but Indians naturally keep a distance. It only changed after young teens of 2015 started thinking it was a cool thing to do. Runanabandha is real. If you think about a friend who hugged you recently, you're body will instantly remember the feel of that person's hug. You don't want no accumulation of unwanted energies around you, do you?

    • @simransingh3399
      @simransingh3399 Před 2 lety +27

      That's true.. Even I feel really irritated when people come very close to me, you know near a certain boundary. No matter what their gender. Physical contact has never been my thing.

    • @chinnabangaaru
      @chinnabangaaru Před 2 lety +4

      Wow, thts true👍🏼

    • @redshift8302
      @redshift8302 Před 2 lety +2

      So if I see somone lying on the floor and needs help I should not try to lift him up even if he is in the middle of the road, because I would affect him/her negatively because of runanabandhana?

    • @cuttostah
      @cuttostah Před 2 lety +19

      @@redshift8302 Now you are purposely exaggerating it. You very well know that's not what we mean when we talk about Runanabandha. Your reply is so childish, simply to argue about something you didn't fully understand. Don't @ me again I won't waste my time. Thanks.

    • @romilmahant2971
      @romilmahant2971 Před 2 lety +4

      Hahhahah wow you understood very well, but how do you know that hugging with another can accumulate energy from that person, are you on weed ,like your guru? There are many western countries who are much more prosperous and developed than India, but hugging is part of their culture, so by your bullshit each one of them might be ready to explode from the accumulated energy spirit bomb bullshit, grow.up kid!

  • @rtra3863
    @rtra3863 Před 2 lety +54

    Very interesting philosophy however I respectfully disagree that we are separate from each other. The ego would have us perpetuate this illusion but we are one consciousness permeating all of eternity not separated beings searching for enlightenment.

    • @NevillesRightHand1905
      @NevillesRightHand1905 Před 2 lety +3

      My exact sentiments. Thank you 💖🙏🏼.

    • @dwhite8997
      @dwhite8997 Před 2 lety +4

      Same 🙏🏾❤ thank you. We are all connected. I send love to everyone... we are all pieces of one energy.

    • @999titu
      @999titu Před 2 lety +4

      He is talking about the physical integrity, it's too much burden for the body, you took it to mental

    • @janmejaypandey2424
      @janmejaypandey2424 Před 2 lety

      Now this is what a philosophy sounds like 😂

    • @NevillesRightHand1905
      @NevillesRightHand1905 Před 2 lety +1

      @@janmejaypandey2424 It's not a philosophy; it's the truth. And if you'd start to listen deep within yourself, you'd find that too. I know that one day it will be your turn, and you will definitely remember theses words. I'm sending you much love, clarity and encouragement on your journey 💜🌹💫.

  • @shimadas9975
    @shimadas9975 Před 2 lety +1

    Radhe Radhe Prabhu ji.. I just feel like to hear all words of yours all the time. Wonderfully explained 🙏🙏

  • @junapolines1617
    @junapolines1617 Před 2 lety +2

    I truly understand Indian culture and traditions..

  • @jeyaseelanjeyaram6538
    @jeyaseelanjeyaram6538 Před 2 lety +8

    Mind blowing

  • @Msfrangipaniful
    @Msfrangipaniful Před 2 lety +4

    A hug a day keep your stress away 🤗

  • @sudipsen6376
    @sudipsen6376 Před 2 lety +1

    Devine Soul.

  • @MCBC_5
    @MCBC_5 Před 2 lety

    Sadguru videos are fine great time pass grab popcorn no need for movies , I personally watch it while working out time flies and my work out is done , while I keep smiling at the comic relief I get. Thank You

  • @marinnisu5665
    @marinnisu5665 Před 2 lety +6

    Thank you so much 🙏

  • @jayasuria1214
    @jayasuria1214 Před 2 lety +3

    Beautiful revelation, Sadhguru. I feel like hugs and embraces work just fine if both parties carry positive vibes, or even either one is highly positive. It definitely helps the one with less positive vibes. Hugging has its own miraculous healing in some circumstances. Practising it moderately and only when needed, would be wise =)

  • @Uhlzone
    @Uhlzone Před 2 lety

    Sadghuru this is deep and you are so right. My roots May be christian but, I'm an open hearted soul that understands this universe is beautifully made with so much truths to be discovered. My lady and I are looking to have kids in a few years and I don't want them to go through the desparate longing for bonding without realizing what"s going on like I did. Thank You for these wise words....

  • @user-po5fd2te3s
    @user-po5fd2te3s Před 2 lety +2

    I knew that I wasn't weird, thank you for explaining this to me it makes sense to me now

  • @evetteshuk4372
    @evetteshuk4372 Před 2 lety +12

    After watching/listening to Sadgurus videos over the last 6 months, this is the first one that really made me pause and question physical touch and hugging other humans.
    I have come to the conclusion: I disagree. I believe in touch... touching with intention, love and light. Touching another is validation of their being-ness, It let's you know "Isee you". It produces oxytocin which promotes health, immunity and well-being. One of the root causes of death is loneliness which acts as an amplifier and worsens all other physical and mental issues. I have held the hands and embraced many as they left their physical bodies. Recently a friend asked: "If I'm still single when I die, will you hold me, and hold my hand?"
    I didn't even have to think about it and answered "yes"!
    It's a personal experience and each is allowed to do what's best for themselves.

    • @krantikoganti
      @krantikoganti Před 2 lety +2

      Sandhguru is only giving an explanation. You choose what is good for you. He is not trying to force it on you 🙂

    • @fourtwentythree
      @fourtwentythree Před rokem

      Yes he is giving his perspective your may be different 🙏 but I personally agree with his POV 🙏

  • @NiralliPatidar
    @NiralliPatidar Před 2 lety +3

    EVERYONE SHOULD UNDERSTAND THIS. I DONT UNDERSTAND WHY YOU HAVE TO TOUCH SOMEONE WHO IS NOT YOURS. like really...? maintain the space please.

  • @thirupathimultitech7848
    @thirupathimultitech7848 Před 2 lety +2

    Thank you sir

  • @BLESSFUL-Bliss
    @BLESSFUL-Bliss Před 2 lety +2

    Jerry *finally* feels vindicated.
    (One of my favorite "Seinfeld" episodes.) 😅🥰😇
    *WORSE is the kiss* that people erroneously presume comes with greeting.
    I am such an ancient soul with such a youthful spirit inside such a young body. I view integrity as *wholeness,* _integrating_ all parts of Self.
    I am so grateful and thankful to my family, most especially my mother, for giving me *many* hugs, and much physical contact.
    A healthy balance, so that I do not crave it, and so that I do appreciate and am discerning with my energy.
    I don’t even hug trees when I’m sad or down. I know they’re healing, but I’m always cautious not to pass any negative energy unto them.🙏🏽💚
    Wonderful upload; thanks.

  • @fxdezx6613
    @fxdezx6613 Před 2 lety +7

    i hugged so many people and i don't feel any different. love is different from a hug. love is emotional and spiritual. hugs are physical.

    • @lorenzovillegas2457
      @lorenzovillegas2457 Před 2 lety +1

      That's why you're broke... they were just lifting your wallet.
      just kidding, lol
      Hug

    • @fxdezx6613
      @fxdezx6613 Před 2 lety

      @@lorenzovillegas2457 lol

  • @Victoria-Danielle
    @Victoria-Danielle Před 2 lety +5

    I'm a sensitive person and don't hug socially. I don't feel the need to hug people often at all, but there are times when a hug seems congruent to the situation.

  • @cockandrews6646
    @cockandrews6646 Před 2 lety

    Thank you for this knowlege i now understand the importance of touch and the reason why i dont except some peoples touch but embrace others

  • @dianesorokac2260
    @dianesorokac2260 Před 2 lety +1

    From now on I will bow n say namaste love it!