How to Teach Sharing in 3 Stages

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  • čas přidán 28. 08. 2024

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  • @verylindsay3289
    @verylindsay3289 Před 5 lety +31

    My 3 year old son is really testing my patience. I don’t know why I didn’t come to CZcams before now? 🥰🥰 Thank you. I’m going to work with him. My fear is that he will be the “mean kid” in preschool.

    • @WalkieTalkieSpeechTherapy
      @WalkieTalkieSpeechTherapy  Před 5 lety +1

      Glad you found my videos!

    • @yoya1011
      @yoya1011 Před 3 lety

      I feel exactly the same I’m hoping if things are ok this year maybe he can start preschool in the fall. So I really want to get him ready for it

  • @lisaklemm3791
    @lisaklemm3791 Před 6 lety +14

    Always enjoy your delivery. Im a Nanny to a 19mo and 34mo.
    Great tips..

  • @adikwualechenu9698
    @adikwualechenu9698 Před rokem +2

    So interesting how this could be one of the most important videos in the world, yet it's only been seen by just about a thousand people. Just Imagine what this world would be like if we went back in time and showed this to every billionaire's parent. Thank you for making the future a better place, I'll be teaching my daughter this for sure and I'll make sure to share how it plays out, she's 8 months old.😊

  • @jarabe28
    @jarabe28 Před 2 lety +8

    Thank you! Will start doing this today. My 4 year old started preschool and is having a tough time sharing

  • @user-gr1eq3fl5w
    @user-gr1eq3fl5w Před 6 měsíci +1

    I do like all these stages and practicing. You can do all this without the use of praise. Praise is adults using their power to manipulate a child. Do have a look at "punished by rewards" by Alfie Kohn. Trust that praise is not needed. When we do things for things rather than because it is fun or builds connection which ultimately teach the wrong motivation.

  • @sereneanshu
    @sereneanshu Před rokem +1

    This was extremely helpful. Learnt a lot of great tips. Thankyou so much.😊

  • @Faithwithscience
    @Faithwithscience Před rokem +2

    My daughter is 2 years and she’s quite advanced in her speech, I worry because she shares all her things and if she wants it back she will say “please” but other toddlers don’t quite understand. I’m not sure how to teach her how to react or respond to these toddlers in a healthy way!

    • @alinabaltazar7255
      @alinabaltazar7255 Před rokem +1

      My toddler is like the other toddlers. I feel so bad when my son interacts with more emotionally mature toddlers and just takes it, hence why I’m here 😞

  • @bhela2619
    @bhela2619 Před 2 lety +1

    I love this, it will definitely help. I will try and thank you. So much

  • @entername5706
    @entername5706 Před 2 lety

    I’ll be back in 7 months thank you ❤️

  • @amanina_
    @amanina_ Před 2 lety

    Thank you for these great tips

  • @sameeradolley1848
    @sameeradolley1848 Před 4 lety +10

    My son is at a play school and he has been delayed with his speech. He is 3 and is speaking abit more. He gets very aggressive and kicks and throw the chair at school when he doesn't get what he wants. He struggles to express himself and what his feeling.He even kicks, hits and smacks me. He is the only child and he just don't like to share at all. When he plays with his cousins he attacks them if they don't give the toy to him. When he hurts my mom and she say ouch or it hurts he still goes ahead and hurt her. Is there any advise you can give me to help me with him. I stay with my mom and I am a single mom

    • @bernadettevilloria9648
      @bernadettevilloria9648 Před 3 lety +7

      I wish they could post a reply on this one. I'm also waiting...

    • @user-bw4dn7um2s
      @user-bw4dn7um2s Před 2 lety +2

      how is he doing now ?? dealing with the same thing as u ?

    • @Rohaneh24
      @Rohaneh24 Před 2 lety +1

      Any update?

    • @xeinahpets27
      @xeinahpets27 Před 2 lety +1

      Im dealing with the same, my son is 3 and just started school and doesn’t like to share and becomes aggressive. One thing that helps is enforcing time-out, no hitting. Also work on phrases to talk about his emotions. Plenty of children books that goes over emotions and that really helps and encourage the kid to learn and process their emotion. another thing that helps is arranging playdates with other kids to have him practice/learn on how to share and
      last but not least be patience and remember it takes time, good luck❤️

  • @lindsaynonhof-fisher896

    Love love these tips! Thank you

  • @Thehappymom7000
    @Thehappymom7000 Před 2 lety

    Thank you

  • @mehwishkanwal8707
    @mehwishkanwal8707 Před 7 lety +1

    Its really fruitful

  • @mehwishkanwal8707
    @mehwishkanwal8707 Před 7 lety +2

    Your way of explaining such a nice

  • @elidel3299
    @elidel3299 Před 4 lety +1

    Good thoughts on sharing thank u

  • @SuperVince888
    @SuperVince888 Před 5 lety

    Very helpful video - thank you

  • @Alcones23
    @Alcones23 Před 3 lety +3

    I’m tired of my 3 year old nephew fighting with his 11 month old brother over a tow truck. Only to hear him say vroom vroom big as he rips it away from little brother

    • @Alcones23
      @Alcones23 Před 3 lety

      I’ll be watching more of your videos thank you!

    • @WalkieTalkieSpeechTherapy
      @WalkieTalkieSpeechTherapy  Před 3 lety +1

      @@Alcones23 Thanks Arthur, sorry to hear about the challenges with your nephews. If you suspect there are language delays please check out my online course which helps caregivers teach their kiddos how to talk! school.walkietalkiespeechtherapy.com/

  • @kaylas3814
    @kaylas3814 Před 2 lety +1

    I like the timer idea more. I don't think counting fast for the impatient child to have a turn is fair to the other child who is waiting patiently. It is like you are punishing them for being patient and they will figure out what you are doing.

  • @So3oodiya
    @So3oodiya Před 3 lety

    Amazing tips thanks a lot

  • @Rosaila30
    @Rosaila30 Před rokem

    I don't want my toddler to share food or drinks with stranger including kids.if they have extra unopened it's different.its important to develop healthy boundaries what's your thoughts on that for toddler

  • @lilyfaith6932
    @lilyfaith6932 Před 2 lety +1

    I have a one year old and it’s my first day watching her 2 year old cousin who doesn’t like sharing and I am terrified lol

  • @heliejanecomcom6469
    @heliejanecomcom6469 Před 2 lety

    thank you! 💓

  • @bdub6103
    @bdub6103 Před 4 lety +1

    Can you make another video using dolls as an example?

  • @danasher5150
    @danasher5150 Před 5 lety

    will try it

  • @chad6472
    @chad6472 Před rokem

    We have 17 month old twins. Want to try more to help them with this issue :)

    • @WalkieTalkieSpeechTherapy
      @WalkieTalkieSpeechTherapy  Před rokem

      It sounds like you'd benefit from enrolling in my online course called "How to teach a toddler to talk." Check it out here school.walkietalkiespeechtherapy.com/

  • @GotoMaki4Micah
    @GotoMaki4Micah Před rokem

    why do we teach children to share when as adults they are expected to buy/ earn their own things? adults don't share things. they buy/rent places to lock their stuff in so no one else can play with any of their things.

  • @flordelizateogangco6159
    @flordelizateogangco6159 Před 2 lety +1

    How to hide your toys when someone wants to barrow it

    • @GotoMaki4Micah
      @GotoMaki4Micah Před rokem

      you certainly dont want them to never return it or break it. or as adults do, sell it lol. a great question would be, how often would your parents trustingly lend things out to anyone who would ask? im guessing, f*ing never.

  • @nadiahaddad6973
    @nadiahaddad6973 Před 2 lety

    I am10 and my sister is 6 needs to learn how to share

  • @keithdecesare653
    @keithdecesare653 Před 5 lety

    Won't play

  • @luketracey3269
    @luketracey3269 Před 2 lety

    🍀..

  • @YouDontNeedMuch
    @YouDontNeedMuch Před 3 lety +1

    You look like Taylor Raz.

  • @xX_AH-64E_Xx
    @xX_AH-64E_Xx Před rokem

    I dont shair anyone that I ever met that wants to share was some kid that comes to my house I will have an game console or toy and says can I have it ,me: no ,him: BUT you have to share me: no ,him: grabs nerf gun and runs, his dad: it's ok he will give it back ,him drops nerf gun