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Just hearing the kids in the background and the women talking with you speaks volumes. Thank you for the wisdom❤
I loved it as a Muslim. ❤
Why are you a muslim if you need rabbis to teach you? Why don't you simple leave Islam? I left 12 years ago after being a Muslims for 8 years. (I did never regret it.) Muhammed hated jews. (That's why I left Islam, you can't love jews if you follow the words of someone who ordered you to kill Jews, and you know what I 'm talking about because YOU ARE A MUSLIM, as I WAS ONE.
👏 Bravo!! Please more fireside chats for women ! Some of us have never heard words of guidance! Thank you for all you do!!
Now THAT is a unique background
I'm dying. Could be mine. I have a ton of wigs 😂
my exact thoughts
Thank you Rabbi Friedman!! 💪✡️🙏❤️🔥🎶
My late great grandmother gave Tzevu for the future generations of women in our family, “ Never ever stay remain in the room even with an elderly man.”
Yeah they never grow up 🤯
It is not natural... Meaning not how God created us to function... For a man and a woman to not be able to be in a casual situation together without a thought of sex occuring from one or both.
Every day is NOT "mating day" for humans, therefore our minds should not be dwelling there every day.
When I was first introduced to this "rule" in Christianity it actually stirred up fear in me...
Because I come from a background of sexual abuse, and so the message that gave me is there is nowhere safe for a woman to be. Not even amongst church people. 😳
If there is a man around, there must be others around because men cannot control themselves around women whether they are married or not...
Do you see how UNnatural that is when you look around at the rest of the world?
We love to compare ourselves to each other... So why not compare ourselves to something worthwhile?
Like Nature and how God created IT to function, and how it DOES function, quite naturally.
Do you know what the difference is between us and the other species in nature?
We are the only species that is BOMBARDED DAILY from a young age with images, music, and any other way of presenting sex.
Sex, sex, sex...
Everywhere you go. Billboards, the radio station, the commercials on TV, young women walking around in a tank top and booty shorts.
Why do men think of sex all the time, which makes them appear like sexual predators because it triggers the hormones that cause sexual desire? (Currently labeled as temptation)
Because they are MADE to think of sex all the time.
Resist the temptation?
That is utter BS.
It's not a "temptation"...
It is a manipulation. The result of eating the fruit we are all being fed through media and their propaganda.
Men CAN control themselves quite easily when in their NATURAL environment.
Society today is a FAR cry from that.
😮 I realized about 17 years of age, the attractiveness of my unusual Honey coloured hair, to men, who would regularly approach me & ask "if they could touch my hair" NO ! After a trip to Israel, I started to cover my hair, I am a Christian, who observes Shabbos. Here in New Zealand, we meet weekly to pray for the return of the hostages taken into Gazza, & several Christian Churches in Hastings gather once a month at the Clocktower to stand together, for the return OF the hostages.
May the Creator continue to sustain you and grant you a long amd healthy life.
Thank you for your heartfelt support ❤
Are you Jewish? If not, I'm guessing you're not aware that Shabbos is exclusively for Jews. In fact, a non-Jew is forbidden to observe Shabbos.
This has me changing my thoughts on feminine attire 🤨🤨 very thought provoking 🤓🧐 Thank you Rebbe 🙏🙏🇬🇧🇮🇱🧐🌴💜💜🪷
Covering hair is one mitzvah but being modest is another. When a woman covers with a wig that is eye catchy (long, full and highlighted which resembles a natural look and even better than natural hair many times) Yes , she’s covering her hair but no she is not being modest. Mind you when they’re home they walk around in snoods And save the fancy wigs for the outside world. Saving sexual energy for your spouse is not just about covering up. but also HOW you behave and HOW you cover up. Just as wearing a skin tight dress which covers all the parts of the body according to all the halachic guidelines but still reveals every curve, line of undergarments and more strips away the whole purpose of the mitzvah of modesty. The way we dress impacts the way we act. When we’re in sexy clothing and/or gorgeous wigs it becomes very difficult to curb the sexual energy that peaks out in the behavior that automatically comes out Bec of the way we’re “covered up”
Spot on
Do the Rebbe says it’s right to cover the hair with a wig and to choose a beautiful one, but you think it’s not 😮
Wow you literally took the words out of my mouth, beautifully explained
Thank you Rabbi 🙏
Rabbi, I really wish you could do a discussion on the importance of ethically sourcing human hair for the wigs that are worn. Hair from India frequently comes from women who have their heads shaven (tonsuring) in Hindu temples as an offering, where it is then sold to hair brokers. In China, it has been documented that Uyghur Muslim women have had their hair removed against their will, with the hair being sold to make wigs that may be adulterated with plastic or horsehair. Women in Cambodia, Vietnam, Myanmar, Laos, Brazil, and Peru are often paid very little for their hair, an exploitive practice. It is a largely unregulated, billion dollar industry. Hair can be sourced from the floor of a hair salon, a brush, or even a cadaver.
I am content with myself as God made me...stay away from things unclean❤️
There is no ethical way, and it is 100% wrong to wear wigs it is idolatry based on exactly what you said.
I don't know why this guy says it's ok when the lubavitcher Rebbe himself was firmly against wigs. He only gave a heter for wigs under very strict conditions- none of which meet today's standards. And for some reason chabad took that small window and ran with it, and Hashem yerachem they all mostly wear wigs today. It is not ok and very few people are speaking out about it.
Like you said it's a billion dollar industry. Check out if you like, the channel Spiritual Visuals, he has a documentary on the wig industry, and it is extremely eye opening to say the least. Please research the halachic guidelines for wig wearing. Rav Moshe has strict guidelines as well. Rav Elyashiv Rav Ovadiah Yosef, great gedolim all spoke out and warned against wigs. The lace fronts of modern day wigs, long blonde, even long dark, doesn't matter they are ALL 100% forbidden. These so called rabbis running around saying wigs are great are מחטיא הרבים.
😮 ThisTeaching is very appreciated, thank you so much. Véry needed. 🕊
Wow thank you so much! I’m from Brazil and as a christian (a very curious one), I love to listen to wise good hearted professors, no matter what religion they practice, and I do belive they are good when it takes us to a place of love, respect and a conection with our Creator. This topic was kind of a confusion to me (the wig x the scarf, and the intention behind it) , and you Sr. explained beautifuly. I do believe in the energy of our hair and the power it has, as several other ancient religion and sages already said around the world. I’m glad I understood the idea behind the rule in judaism, wich I really respect. God bless your wisdom.
As a muslim woman,I am astonished that the issue of covering hair is also told in Jewish teaching.
Most of your teachings come from Judaism
@NAF1967 exactly.
because the origin of all abrahamic religions is one God .
God's orders have been the same from the beginning of religious life.
Why u think all the female saints or Virginia Mary are drawn with head coverings. Because the Christians knew by reading the old Testament they were taught to cover their heads..............
@@NAF1967 they came from G-d. See: "Binimad Quran math miracles".
No disrespect. But Judaism IS ISLAM - true Islam - true G-d or Allah as u say! ur faith has mistaught u a lot - sadly! Mohammed has a not a prophet for one! Read the Bible !
So true. The more you keep your energy the more atractive you become
I'm 66. My hair is gray. After my radical full hysterectomy much of my hair fell out. It never grew back. I'd like to cover my head with a $2,000 human hair gorgeous wig, but I'd feel ridiculous. I'd be vain. Unnatural. All beauty fades with age. No worries. A pure heart is more pleasing to God than a covered head. All things are passing away. If you know you can just cover your hair, you may be hiding dirt and sweat. Plus, the number place the human body gets rid of over heating is through the head. Did God cover Eve's head with animal skins when He made clothing for them? If you live in Alaska than cover your head with animal skin & fur. Ok. ❤
So many questions , my mind and heart , like a child of curiosity , when you realized how much you are valued , okay then, what now ! This is mind blowing , clarity ! Useless perpetual shame , when love and compassion has been here all along with a blueprint , given in complete love for a persons welfare, integrity, and purpose in this world !
Thank you rabbi
This was very informative!! I have been working on making my wardrobe more modest but this was a whole new perspective! Thanks!
This was so beautiful to listen to. Such wisdom
Summer or winter I'm always covered for my marriage bed/husband.
I follow modest traditions according to my family minhag.
You are so wise.
This conversation has changed my whole perspective about hair covers!!!!! Thank you!!!
Thank you for this clarification 🙏🏼
well I dont think hair is the biggest issue. I think women walking around in lingerie is the biggest issue and nobody is talking about it.
Your way to good looking Rabbi! Wonderful topic!
I believe in what you are saying ❤❤❤❤
Absolutely so true... 💜
First time I hear this from this angle.thank you Rav.
Where fear is not punishment, it is Divine awe ! And love for oneself if , is integral respect for the life within oneself and the beauty we share with the world around us ! It is so different what was made to believe
Wow yeah makes sense !!!💜
Two questions if you could pls answer dear Rabbi:
1. Should a woman cover at home if she has sons? If so, from what age does that become necessary?
2. If a woman is on social media making videos, should she cover her hair in the videos even if theyre filmed at home with hubby around?
Glad I found this channel
AMAZING SHIUR!! thank you very much
So by this logic, *never spending time with someone, will keep them attractive in your eyes.
I agree with this statement. Anytime I get to know someone I lose interest 😂
Leave something for the imagination .
Peace Love Cool. Ladies Keep The Faith
I don’t know if the concern is that a women will “use up” her energy I think it’s more the idea of other men shouldn’t have access to my sacred energy. And also to be covered on the body again not that your using up energy but they are channeling it at the wrong times wrong places and then there is lack of mystery as well
Thank you.
Goodnite
This was so eye opening
I disagree with him saying if women continue wearing scarves/hats they will eventually take it off. Not true. Sefardic Jews have been wearing scarves and still do till this day. If not for the wig movement many sefardim would continue to wear scarves. There are many women who thought wigs were the only
Kosher option and never started covering their hair Bec it was against their logic to cover hair with hair or Bec it’s expensive till they learnt a scarf is a perfectly kosher way to cover and they started covering their hair. It can go both ways.
The real problem with hats and scarves is that it leaves part of the hair uncovered, so even at the beginning of the day when she looks at herself in the mirror for 40 minutes before leaving the house that everything is covered, sure enough an hour or 2 later hair tends to stick out of the hat and the scarf/kerchief starts to slide back and at times when I walk around my neighborhood in Brooklyn I wonder why bother wearing a head covering that really reveals much of the hair... Hasidic hats and bands are mehudar in my opinion because even though I am lubavitch and prefer a wig like the Rebbe recommends. (Those hold on tight throughout the day even while running errands and scooting down to take care of young children etc. I'm sorry but the sefardic community as much as I respect them, still have room to improve in this area.
He is 100% wrong it is scary that he has so many people following him. He's telling them what they want to hear.
Wigs are 100% forbidden he is מחטיא הרבים by making these statements
It is so so so bad to wear wigs the lubavitcher Rebbe never gave a heter for the wigs that are worn today. Rav Moshe, rav Elyashiv, nobody, it is disgusting what so called rabbis will do for money.
IF you're going to wear a wig it has to be fake hair (real hair is idolatry) and it has to be short above the shoulders, and according to rav Moshe everyone has to know that you're wearing a wig.
The lubavitcher Rebbe only ok'd SHORT wigs for a specific reason, he absolutely would never ever give a heter for today's wigs especially the lace fronts where single men can and do hit on married women because they can't even tell the difference.
It's not ok.
Women need to cover up in scarves and men need to look away. The sin of spilling seed goes on both man and woman, not just the man.
@@mendel5106 I hear you and you’re right. That is where a woman needs to be careful and keep checking throughout the day that her scarf is covering her hair properly. Just as your shirt might rise throughout the day and expose your elbows. Or a skirt roses up you need to pull it down and fix it after doing certain activities. Doesn’t mean you should start wearing pants cu skirts flow around too easily. Just gotta be more careful. Also halachacly it is mutter for a certain amount of hair to be exposed. But if your stricter than your more careful. It depends on each woman and her yirat Shamayim
According to certain universally accepted poskim it is not permitted to expose a tefach, or less of hair.
@@hindareizes2556 what about the women who take out their bangs out of the wig?
BH', Rabbi question, with all the fear of Hamas, I am experiencing Divine downloads directly from the Rebbe, it is like I am living in another state of uploaded consciousness, I want to share this experience with others but I do not know how too !
How interesting, perhaps start making short videos on your phone? I'd be very interested to hear what you have experienced.
I have heard that some women who have worn wigs for years complain that it has caused patches of baldness and that the tightness of the wig is uncomfortable and can cause head pain. I can't imagine that keeping the scalp away from air and sun exposure is necessarily healthy. I wonder if there was more influence of female energy in patriarchal decision-making, if the rules would evolve. Women decide to go along with religious "laws", including circumcision, which is also unnatural and so these traditions continue. Also, I don't appreciate the inference that covering grey hair is virtuous and I don't consider calling anyone "ugly", holy either.
Thanks Rabbi🎉
Gold
Our relationship " was damaged as soon as you told me the goal for me -
Uncomfortable unconscious vegitating
many years I understood what had happen to me!
What happened to you?? I hope you’re doing well!!
thats why we have the Law!.. he is breaking the Law! the Law is all we have!
so hard subject! but so! needed!
Dear Rabbi, where is this information about energy loss through one’s hair coming from? Can it be supported by the Written Tora? Thank you.
No it can't. I've never heard such nonsense in my life. Rivka wore a veil when she met yitzchak for the first time. She was single and covered head to toe. So was Rachel Imenu. For women it's about modesty, we are daughters of the King; for men it's shmirat eynayim. The sin of spilling seed is extremely bad and it goes on the woman too if she's the one who caused it to happen. It's irrelevant if one is single or married.
And it is 100% forbidden to wear wigs- especially the kind that are made today. It is idolatry and immodest.
The only heterim you'll find would be from rav Moshe or similar from the lubavitcher Rebbe, is that it has to be fake hair (which nowadays they mix everything so it's impossible to know for sure), and it has to be short meaning above shoulder length, and everybody has to know that it is a wig.
Lace fronts are 100% forbidden.
No judgment here, I just wish people would stop spewing nonsense on the internet and calling it Judaism.
Are you a posek?? Can you cite your sources?
Are you a posek? Can you cite your sources (with accuracy)?
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I never knew
What if your husband doesn't find you beautiful?
I’m sorry but this is so wrong. I covered for many years and lost interest in sexuality. Because I didn’t feel sexy. Now I cover but not as strictly. I feel more beautiful and sexy. Much more interest. That’s how it works for me. I am in favor or being covered but with awareness that sexuality is important
Thank you❤
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I still smoke in my room, and that's both against building regulations, and my health.
when I learned I was DNA to the Methodist Elizabeth...then we travelled futher back
The man just has to worry about what he has put himself in. And learning what the age of impulse is, and thinking is something everyone should not only be able to read and exercise power over others. - See the result
...now we spend' no monies' Unless we may track' it down! Follow the monies! No! not allowed!
If it doesn't happen I will say I'm sorry
to you make sense to me...
I never wear a sheitel ever! Not modest.
Only wear tichel and sinar.
He isn't saying that that is the one and only reason your libido is low... he is just saying these can be the consequences of not covering their hair, and women are asking him these questions he is just answering....
My man is a Jehovah Witness, this isn't practiced but speaking to him and other men who don't even have and idea about head coverings always mentions how a woman's hair is her beauty. When it's well styled it make them more attractive. It speaks a lot about a woman.
Its a very interesting topic. But just keep in mind this is a point of view not a fact. If u disagree fine if u agree good. No need to talk bad about him.
Before עץ הדעת energy was infinite ?
Only in finite temple it can be seasonal available in season otherwise it can be wasted/ leaving body health wasted. 12:47
Attractive VS provocative
They were undressed before עץ הדעת?
It's provocative but it screams insecurity I think as well, they may well be insecure about their personality..
But like tends to attract like so it seems..
If it doesn't happen I will give all my money to charity.
I am a victim of sexual inequality
Listening to this Rabbi has in 2 years
aged me 20 years. I look like 90 years old .
Not my experience. But I believe you believe this is a fact.
Also, an infinite number of things im allowed to do
What if the man is ugly?
He can force her.
The seed of the Serpent and the seed of the Women have always been at war since the beginning of time. The redemptions of all God`s Creations are granted in the end times. This is why the seed of the Women and the seed of the Serpent are in the main spotlight along with the Dragon`s, Atlantean`s, Anunnaki`s and Babylonian`s.
My friend said why does your fiancé have to wait on the porch when you are home alone? I said he was raised as an Orthodox Jew and he expected that!
Thank you. Your subject is beyond interesting. It is so greatly appreciated that it makes me love u to the moon. I’m divorced. My third husband’s mother was Jewish. Today, Tuesday, May 29th, 2024 is a scorching 94 degrees in South Florida. If I had to cover my head with a wig I would probably faint. My scalp needs to breath. When I run errands I wear shorts cuz my legs need a breather as well. If I had to visit a Jewish Synagogue I do know how to dress appropriately (100% cotton of course from Old Navy store). My elbows n toes would be covered n hem length would be long. If any male thinks that I’m being provocative when I wear shorts, that’s his problem not mine. My conscience is clean n pure. As for the release or escaping of my sexual energy into the air would actually be nice for a change. Never had a problem in that department. Always been…ready Freddy. Had a lid on it since 2005. G-d is so wonderful n I’m so grateful for the willpower He has blessed me with. We have not bcuz we ask not. If we all ask G-d for holy things in prayer, to do good, He will help us serve Him.❤✡️👌🤟
...find the thing
Rabbi,
give your lectures to men,
they need the Torah parameters,
not us women.
Let the women address women,
and the men address men.
Rabbi Friedman, Eve saw what Adam missed, and yes I am using the English names. Here is a thought….the reason for the wigs, the not being alone, even your replacement of sexual in your word choice energy with intimacy all skirt a fundamental truth: overall men are physically larger than women and covering, not being alone keeps women safer overall. When you go into the energy discussion and get binary based upon anatomy sounds good but still goes to men defining life based on their understanding without women participation at an equal level and I know how fundamental the difference between the man and the woman is in your teaching. It is time to revisit this because intellectually even based on your own analysis of Eve in the Garden the woman saw what the man did not in the instruction from G*d. Laws are created by people and can be changed by people.
now we have the Internet' were are ...Inch makes a milestone
This is what happens when I don't smoke pot.
Yeh, smoking pot makes you really attractive. What are you running from?
Why do divorced women need to cover hair according to this ?
That video coming tomorrow, Gd willing 🙂
@@manisfriedman thank you so much sorry if I came across as confrontational that wasn't my intention
@@manisfriedman so מעלין בקודש just to clarify ?
@@manisfriedman and when can they be מורידין ?
@@manisfriedman also if it's מעלין בקודש than if a divorced woman never wore a shaitel than it's not considered מורידין?
Why do some Rabbis say that wigs made of human hair and that is long is not tznios? Are there length requirements for a sheitel?
2 reasons 1 being idolatry most human hair regardless of where the label says it comes from, is used in ritual practices as an offering to their gods and therefore forbidden.
2 is they are completely 100% immodest to the point where single men don't know they're talking to a married woman.
The only heterim you'll find for wigs are (lubavitcher Rebbe, rav Moshe feinstein) if they are fake hair and short meaning above the shoulders. Rav Moshe also adds that everyone must know that she is wearing a wig. Meaning today's wigs are COMPLETELY forbidden. Lubavitcher Rebbe, rav Moshe, Rav Elyashiv, Rav Ovadiah, the list is long on how many gedolim Ashkenaz and sefardi it doesn't matter they all say wigs are assur. It's a billion dollar industry, money talks.
Yes - short and fake hair only, and everyone must be able to tell that it is a wig. According to rav Moshe.
Most halachic authorities forbid them altogether since they mix fake and real hair together and it is considered avodah zara since the women shaving their heads do it for their gods. It's a very big problem
Amen 🙏🏽 so amazing 💥 ✡️ 🇮🇱🇮🇱🇮🇱
...see! for woman! the fore arm' is the most!
IT so beautiful to me to cover my hair ....
Im not allowed to do an infinite number of things.
This needs to be educated to the chasidishe Mosdes
how many wigs were sold?
😂😂😂
A big fan of yours I have listened to many of your podcasts but I am sorry this one you're off the charts so much..... Bull
How about indigenous people.
How about people living in the tropical areas in this world.
We give off pheromones..
But are we losing it.
A beautiful head with luxurious hair is very appealing to us humans and that is why married women need to hide it so others don't lost after them
What if a women Is divorced?
how can we have babies?...! we seek our families! we bring the man to glory!
20:40: It's neither Tora nor Quran. See "Samina Ali hijab TED talk".
Rabi now we live in interesting times...I traced me DNA...when u move I move
Daniel said ❤"it ain't MATTER if we look like them , as long as we don't Act like them avoid nuances_ If opposite, its h0w the unlawfull sneak in the legal, SHAPE SIZE & COLOUR🎬they even got their own language, copyright 🎬🎥
& if you explain it, you get into trouble for it ❤political correct OUT of America thank God
...if you are walking' down the street...always be aware of life....I was robbed of my Energy as a baby.
Hahahahahaha aw that sense of humor..
Adam and Eve, not Adam and Steve. Lol. Some people dont like that. Lol.
I'm not saying too much -- just leave me in peace.
...food!
...hello' BB in the Bckgrnd!
A nunnery - that's what you're pushing me to. Your consequences
I have to go somewhere
...in Modern nows...we woman' say No!...
..ask why?
Is it ok for a rabbi to speak about these things with women? For me this is so so so strange. So strange.
I agree. Feels a bit creepy.
This specific shiur is for the women, usually a rabbi won't talk to women and give a shiur unless there's a partition between the genders.