Jan Gaye Opens Up About Life With Marvin Gaye in Memoir: After the Dance: My Life With Marvin Gaye

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Komentáře • 961

  • @ScherylSings
    @ScherylSings Před 8 lety +96

    She deserves to express in any way she chooses. She was one of Marvin's BIGGEST inspirations she should reap the rewards from whatever she writes.

  • @abdusluqman5367
    @abdusluqman5367 Před 7 lety +67

    Jan Gaye is real cool. I like how she doesn't throw Marvin under the bus by exploiting his faults and addictive behavior. She is still protective of him. Nice.

    • @understandingthescripture2907
      @understandingthescripture2907 Před 5 lety +4

      Abdus Luqman she doesn’t have any room to throw MG understand the bus concerning drugs heck she was a druggie herself.

    • @Anna-nc8de
      @Anna-nc8de Před 5 lety +5

      OF Course she is protective of MG..She LOVES him and Loved him always will..Has his Children..Cool Abdus YOU 2.

    • @maureendefoe7462
      @maureendefoe7462 Před 9 měsíci +3

      She’s also the mother of his children! ❤

  • @wetheunhoused5218
    @wetheunhoused5218 Před 4 lety +27

    she has a nice aura about. very soft spoken and kind.

  • @te4888
    @te4888 Před 6 lety +112

    Nona looks just like Marvin and sounds like Jan when she speaks. God bless them.

    • @leilanidupree5922
      @leilanidupree5922 Před 3 lety +4

      I agree, I was just thinking that !

    • @carolynbratton7827
      @carolynbratton7827 Před 3 lety +1

      I always thought Nona looked like Teddy.

    • @christinagraham2915
      @christinagraham2915 Před 3 lety +2

      She a mix of both to me

    • @te4888
      @te4888 Před 3 lety +2

      @@christinagraham2915 Nona was and still is a beautiful lady. Get it boo. 😍

    • @te4888
      @te4888 Před 3 lety +1

      @@leilanidupree5922 Cool

  • @locadisa
    @locadisa Před 6 lety +141

    If you are a Marvin Gaye fan you would love this book. She put you right in front of him in her book. Made you feel like you were in the room at all times. You disliked the way that he treated her but you still admired him because he was such a free spirit and rather intelligent. If you asked her she would tell you that she would do it all over again if she had the chance.

  • @amandlamedia
    @amandlamedia Před rokem +24

    Heavenly blessings to you Janis. RIP

  • @deborahcouncil214
    @deborahcouncil214 Před 9 lety +83

    I bought and read the book. It gave a lot of insight into their tumultuous relationship

    • @vickipowers7041
      @vickipowers7041 Před 6 lety +10

      I've also read the book. It gives the reader an insight and understanding of the "troubled man'

  • @veronicamcfarlane8707
    @veronicamcfarlane8707 Před 7 lety +89

    Janice is so down to earth and genuine in this interview. What a wonderful persona

  • @rezyousuf4954
    @rezyousuf4954 Před 2 lety +14

    Jan is a beautiful woman in and out , I salute her.

  • @dacommish23
    @dacommish23 Před 8 lety +250

    ....oh and by the way she just battled cancer and won 2yrs ago, she's a champ in my estimation

    • @chefbee70
      @chefbee70 Před 6 lety +4

      kyle morton don't left this fake bitch fool you.......

    • @rebeccajackson4401
      @rebeccajackson4401 Před 6 lety +1

      kyle morton

    • @tessarix
      @tessarix Před 6 lety +3

      Yeah, Tammy! I had breast cancer also a few years ago and it wasn't the best time of my life, but it was tolerable because I had people who deeply love me to get me through it and to give me hope, even the hair loss giving me the proverbial "chrome dome" because I'm a girl. Imagine what Marvin and Tammy would be doing in today's world...

    • @tessarix
      @tessarix Před 6 lety +5

      How was she a fake bitch? Please elaborate. I'm just curious. I have no dog in this fight so to speak, just want info. Thanks!

    • @noaidjones7216
      @noaidjones7216 Před 6 lety +5

      tessamersus. She's not fake to me but she could be. I don't know her. She looks good for someone of her age and all the damaged she done to her body and mind.

  • @2Wheeled_2ourist
    @2Wheeled_2ourist Před 7 lety +110

    "Janice is my girl, in all the world.. there's no one sweeter.. and when She goes to sleep I kiss her face and think I'm the luckiest man in all the world" Marvin Gaye.. I personally cant get beyond this song since I first heard it 1976 or so..

    • @chrissymoss514
      @chrissymoss514 Před 4 lety

      Quite a long time since your comment, but what song were these words used? Cheers x

    • @florashorter7888
      @florashorter7888 Před 3 lety +7

      I always thought that he was in love with Tammy. I knew also saw how he changed when she died.

    • @florashorter7888
      @florashorter7888 Před 3 lety

      Beautiful,he found someone to love again.

    • @ritahendrix1457
      @ritahendrix1457 Před 3 lety +3

      I remember how happy I was for him when I heard this song. After Tammi died was rough! You could feel thelove in this song!

    • @moni1952
      @moni1952 Před 3 lety +4

      @@florashorter7888 I think he was, also but she died and life went on.

  • @nkululekonazo5755
    @nkululekonazo5755 Před 3 lety +15

    Beautiful then and still beautiful now❤️🖤

  • @Imeraldgyrl
    @Imeraldgyrl Před 8 lety +56

    I was a fan of Marvin Gaye . . . as well a contemporary of Jan. And given what I have heard about Marvin, i feel she is telling the truth.

  • @GMSCHAARAWTAZA
    @GMSCHAARAWTAZA Před 8 lety +43

    at one point, janis was marvin's muse. it was apparent on the album "I Want You".

  • @luciverdad4834
    @luciverdad4834 Před 6 lety +304

    People forget Jan was still a teen when Marvin courted her. Imagine being 16/17 and one of the most famous musicians wants you and you become his muse! She was enamoured but far too young to understand what she was getting herself into. After dealing with the much older and assertive Anna Gordy, Marvin seemingly tried to mold an impressionable teen to be his wife. I'm sure he loved her but that didn't stop him from cheating and becoming violent.

    • @christyjackson4835
      @christyjackson4835 Před 5 lety +40

      Marvin used Jan and she was a willing participant. She wasn’t 17 forever and knew the score

    • @knicole4964
      @knicole4964 Před 5 lety +18

      Yes, so true. Kinda reminds of what's going on on today in 2019 with a top entertainer.

    • @KandiYamsLuv2b8
      @KandiYamsLuv2b8 Před 4 lety +7

      Same thing I say about Aaliyah and these other bitches about R. Kelly but y’all call him a pedophile.

    • @wendylee7242
      @wendylee7242 Před 4 lety +33

      Marvin was married to AG she was a lot older than he,then he married Janis much younger,he got to be the shot caller with Jan, Anna was a Gordy, strong and her brother was in control of his music.

    • @lastdays3148
      @lastdays3148 Před 4 lety +18

      @@wendylee7242 ,Wow very well said true. And I've always believed that too. If you noticed he was smitten by Jan Beauty and Youth. He even said her named in one of his songs,during the earlier 1970s. The other songs called You Sure Love To Ball & I want You. Well I believed he was talking about and wanted Jan,just listen to the Lyrics of those Songs. That man Mr.Marvin Gaye was Smitten by Jan. Ana Gordy,knew that she had to eventually let go of Mr.Marvin 🤦🏾‍♀️

  • @adriana77
    @adriana77 Před 3 lety +16

    I loved her book. It was very open and honest. I love Marvin's music forever.

    • @jeanine945
      @jeanine945 Před 3 lety +1

      Yes absolutely the book is so deep, beautiful and open. Jan’s heart is pure.

  • @deborahflorence2332
    @deborahflorence2332 Před 5 lety +48

    She's wonderful!!!!!!!! So articulate, poised, intelligentand overall a beauriful person!!!!!!!!

  • @barbarawells6845
    @barbarawells6845 Před 4 lety +28

    It's so sad the people who loved him were many but no one could help him😓😓😓😓

    • @twailaford1736
      @twailaford1736 Před rokem +1

      Another sad thing is that he included others into craziness. She did not understand life, eventhough she thought she did.

  • @consuellaturner
    @consuellaturner Před 5 lety +20

    Prince of soul, Marvin was a King!

  • @christopheranderson6120
    @christopheranderson6120 Před 4 lety +90

    Marvin is still the man after all these years tammi was Marvin's true love he was never the same after her death ..

    • @anjanettebaity3689
      @anjanettebaity3689 Před 4 lety +19

      Marvin Gaye...A Divided Soul....he said that Tammi and his relationship was not sexual.
      His first wife was his muse, then later, his second wife became his muse.

    • @MiamiPush2theLimit
      @MiamiPush2theLimit Před 3 lety +2

      You drank the KoolAid. Marvin would’ve never been with a woman like Tammi.

    • @christopheranderson6120
      @christopheranderson6120 Před 3 lety +1

      @@MiamiPush2theLimit Did you know marvin i think not ..

    • @monilaninetynine3811
      @monilaninetynine3811 Před 3 lety +2

      @@christopheranderson6120 Did you?

    • @christopheranderson6120
      @christopheranderson6120 Před 3 lety

      @@monilaninetynine3811 Ignoring you're stupidty ...

  • @debbielawrence1434
    @debbielawrence1434 Před 9 lety +79

    Awesome book! Jan "holding back"? Read the book!!! Then you'll know, she's not "holding back"! She's a very sincere and honest lady, and it took a great deal of courage to write such an honest book about her bittersweet relationship with Marvin.

    • @MaryLou913
      @MaryLou913 Před 3 lety

      I think she held back a LOT!

    • @lmiller6675
      @lmiller6675 Před 2 lety +1

      Why did she even write it. For money

  • @judithcampbell1705
    @judithcampbell1705 Před 2 lety +25

    Thank you Jan for your honesty and insight into what Marvin was like. He touched the heart of so many millions of people. You were there for him and I respect you for sharing your life with him. Much love to you Jan! ❤

  • @SUBLIMEGOD
    @SUBLIMEGOD Před rokem +30

    May she rest in paradise and be one with Marvin again. Even though he was toxic, they both were on drugs at the time and both did things that weren’t good but that’s life. Their story is beautiful and Jan is one of the luckiest women in the world for getting such an experience. Much Love to them both❤

    • @SimplyBeingTT
      @SimplyBeingTT Před rokem +2

      I like him and Anna

    • @SUBLIMEGOD
      @SUBLIMEGOD Před rokem +5

      @@SimplyBeingTT they were just as toxic, if not more, because they were together longer. Marvin was extremely unhappy when he was married to Anna.

    • @SimplyBeingTT
      @SimplyBeingTT Před rokem +11

      ​​​​​@@SUBLIMEGOD He was extremely unhappy with Jan. Marvin was unhappy in general and really needed therapy. However, how happy or good is a relationship when all you do is stay faded and strung out? And he helped her get strung out...and pushed her to sleep with other men. That's not love. Their relationship was built on lust, sex, drugs, and a codependency. And then he didn't want her anymore. You say he was miserable with Anna, but he made sure Anna was by his side in the last year/s of his life.

    • @divinelove249
      @divinelove249 Před rokem +4

      Huh

    • @SUBLIMEGOD
      @SUBLIMEGOD Před rokem +1

      @@SimplyBeingTT I read her book and his biography and he always said Jan was the love of his life. Do your research goofy. No relationship is perfect. Their relationship was of it’s time. It was the fucking 70s. Lots of relationships were very open and Influenced by drugs at the time. Doesn’t mean she wasn’t the love of his life.

  • @ruethais-williams1021
    @ruethais-williams1021 Před 6 lety +22

    Thank you, Janis, for being so generous and courageous in sharing your love story with Marvin.

  • @ariellakelly9435
    @ariellakelly9435 Před 4 lety +13

    Beautiful and intelligent woman.

  • @asalibradreams8956
    @asalibradreams8956 Před 4 lety +8

    My beautiful Auntie!! love seeing this

  • @bo777ford
    @bo777ford Před 5 lety +23

    While listening to this interview I have Marvins album "I want you" playing in background. It all fits together now.

  • @MzIvorySeattle
    @MzIvorySeattle Před 6 lety +18

    Her voice of life story bravery. His music speaks of her too

  • @jeannetteduette6704
    @jeannetteduette6704 Před 6 lety +19

    He is a good interviewer.
    Network news channels should take notes. He does not interrupt her every second. He asks questions and listens as she responds.

  • @deborahpatterson7692
    @deborahpatterson7692 Před 3 lety +17

    How lucky to have had someone like Marvin love you and make you his muse. Too bad the drugs and violence had to intervene.

    • @dr.ayanna
      @dr.ayanna Před 5 měsíci +1

      ...and the fact that he was a 33 year old married man.

  • @MsNini-sw2jn
    @MsNini-sw2jn Před 7 lety +120

    I'm glad Janice got to tell her story. I hope that she got permission to reveal details of other artists drug use & lifestyle because she really exposed a lot. It's sad that she didn't have the best example of parents, which caused her to begin the process of destroying herself at such a young age and use her body as her gift. I'm super glad that she got cleaned and I pray for healing for her and all their families.

    • @nycsongman9758
      @nycsongman9758 Před 3 lety +1

      "... use her body as her gift."
      That's a nice way of putting it.

    • @WindDancer435
      @WindDancer435 Před 2 lety +5

      I don't think she needed permission to reveal details of others drug use.

    • @morrisstewart7586
      @morrisstewart7586 Před 2 lety +4

      Are any of you really shocked, at people using drugs. People amazed me when they think stars are anything more than a human beings.

    • @claudewilkins892
      @claudewilkins892 Před 11 měsíci

      0

  • @garfieldharrison510
    @garfieldharrison510 Před 3 lety +64

    It wasn't just any other relationship. Jan keeps saying that.. They had an affair while he was still married. He saw a 17 yr old and wanted to bang..you can circumvent all you want. She was actually not considered legal at the time. So when she says it was normal it wasn't.

    • @j4kgang921
      @j4kgang921 Před 3 lety +7

      No..ofcourse it wasn't!!! Why does she sugar coat shit???

    • @christinagraham2915
      @christinagraham2915 Před 3 lety +3

      In Cali she was

    • @stylecollective-qt9um
      @stylecollective-qt9um Před 3 lety +1

      I think it also reflects the time period. In the freewheeling 70s and even decades before, an older man snatching up a child bride want met with the same consternation as today. As for the adultery aspect...yes, that is tawdry, indeed. I'll never forget how she describes Anna Gaye as referring to her as an "it"., and in empathizing with how disrespectfully brazen Marvin and Jan were with living as a couple right in her face, I can't say I blame her.

    • @lynnaegink
      @lynnaegink Před 2 lety +1

      By the time the 80s came around this was not considered normal, but women and men have been getting married and having kids at 16 and 17 years of age going all the way back to the turn of the century and before

    • @dr.ayanna
      @dr.ayanna Před 5 měsíci

      She did her best to normalize a whole immoral mess! He was screwin' & impregnated the 16 year old niece (whichever one of those 16-17 year old children came first) at the same time. Talk about "flaws". Chile, bye!!

  • @jacqueline2027
    @jacqueline2027 Před 9 lety +14

    she looks Great!

    • @ravenaider
      @ravenaider Před 6 lety +1

      jacqueline2027 And you do too!

  • @ttopbugatti9430
    @ttopbugatti9430 Před 3 lety +114

    Something about this doesn’t sit well with me.. sounds like this lady’s momma pimped her out.. wow😔😔😔😔

    • @SouthernComfort707
      @SouthernComfort707 Před 3 lety +31

      You are right. The mother also wanted Marvin.

    • @VL-rv1uh
      @VL-rv1uh Před 3 lety +12

      Her mom did.

    • @blancamiranda7424
      @blancamiranda7424 Před 3 lety +12

      She was definitely used😕being exposed to the industry by her family then Marvin!!! All the drugs an freaky partying..Marvin loved her but he had been turned out himself....🤐

    • @janetmartin5463
      @janetmartin5463 Před 3 lety +6

      MONEY 😐

    • @melaniefields9935
      @melaniefields9935 Před 3 lety +4

      Definitely

  • @shermanmiller3203
    @shermanmiller3203 Před 3 lety +27

    Come Live With Me Angel was the joint!!!

  • @sparkleinyoureyes8259
    @sparkleinyoureyes8259 Před 5 lety +12

    Congrats to her for finishing her book on Marvin !!💗

  • @4Rivers-gd
    @4Rivers-gd Před 3 lety +11

    Great story, Janis is truly a lady. I think many teens her age was in love with Marvin for his good looks and beautiful voice.

  • @gracemclean558
    @gracemclean558 Před 4 lety +8

    Just read the book.. speechless wow two soulmates....love marvins music...

  • @cecewilliams4453
    @cecewilliams4453 Před 3 lety +9

    His music still rings in this world!

  • @joeannchaney1219
    @joeannchaney1219 Před 6 lety +27

    I have always been obsessed with the relationship between Marvin and Janis.I have always listened to the I Want You album and just knew he was singing every word to her.Her book was amazing.However,I love and respect Anna Gordy-Gaye.

    • @plmitch
      @plmitch Před 4 lety +4

      @@christyjackson4835 it doesn't mean that he didn't love her. AND let's not forget how petty he was with, "Here My Dear". Masochistic Beauty is just the pain talking......
      Marvin was simply an artist who couldn't come from any other place but one of truth---he was angry AF w/her and that's how he felt at the time. he's said in his other works that if she ever left him that he'd be heartbroken/devastated----i believe that losing her drove him over the edge.....he didn't last much longer past their relationship ending....

    • @christyjackson4835
      @christyjackson4835 Před rokem +3

      @@plmitchyou don't know that. None of us knows any of that shit. We weren't there.

    • @plmitch
      @plmitch Před rokem +1

      @@christyjackson4835 I said, "I BELIEVE".

    • @christyjackson4835
      @christyjackson4835 Před rokem +3

      @@plmitch girl. Listen. Marvin used Jan. He used her and fell out of love. He fell out of love with life itself because he became an ADDICT and lost his passion to sing and create more music. Read 2 books: My Brother Marvin by his sister Zeola Gaye. And Divided Soul by David Ritz. Marvin beat Jan. He broke her ribs, turned her into an addict, and wanted her to fk other men. She refused to let him see his children in the days before he died and that also hurt him deeply. I have read so much and watched so many documentaries on MG. You are romanticizing his relationship with Jan. They were just people like you and me. Jan accepted my Facebook friend request years ago and we inboxed each other many a time through the years. She told me once that she was like any other woman in an abusive marriage -- that she was a "victim of domestic violence", her exact words. This woman was just a young girl at 17 with a superstar who introduced her to hard drugs, orgies, and his insanity. Jan had affairs with Rick James, Frankie Beverly, Teddy Pendergrass, and all kinds of other men because she and Marvin were in an open relationship and she was just as screwed up and promiscuous as he was. Some of your facts and statements are off. You are obviously a MG fan like me but you are perhaps younger than me and therefore not as wise or mature enough yet to see that this man tormented others, including Jan and including himself because of his own unhappiness and mental illness. He wanted to die because he hated himself. He hated his father. He wanted his father to kill him. Keep reading about him and unpeeling the layers of this onion. It's much deeper than Jan. It goes back to his childhood when he was beaten by his father and raped by his uncle at the age of 14. Y'all need to grow up. His story is about more than this one woman. He was not in love with her when he died. He hated her. He was paranoid. He tried to commit suicide multiple times. He beat his Father many a time prior to the day he was killed too. Jeez 🤦🏾‍♀️ it's so much you obviously don't know.

    • @plmitch
      @plmitch Před rokem +1

      @@christyjackson4835 Nope.....I actually read ALL those books and i came to the exact same conclusions that you did. as far as me being young, i'm not really that either. i am from Detroit, MI and i had a family member who worked as a domestic for Anna (and Marvin) when they were married, so i know quite a bit about Marvin's life (in his 1st marriage) prior to him starting up with Jan.
      that being said, artists are different than other people----i am an artist myself and i understand how they view things. Jan can only tell you things from HER OWN point of view, but she can't give you perspective FROM the man who created---you have to listen to HIM for that. if you looked into the lives of MANY a creative, you would most likely find many things you would find displeasing, distasteful, sometimes even deplorable (as in this situation), but it's often times where creatives, "muse". WE ALL romanticize what it takes to get to the art we're consuming---and i think that's the greater message here.
      i loved Marvin as a CREATIVE, but i am NOT AT ALL romantic about anything having to do with his life....and i'm sure, through a lot of their experiences, abused people as well as their abusers (often the abusers were abused themselves, as in this case) would speak differently about what they thought, "love" was to them. as someone who has (and currently IS) studying human behavior (to work in the healing arts), i don't like to completely dismiss feelings and actions---it's better to dismantle and then process them in a healthy way....

  • @ElijahLukeMusic
    @ElijahLukeMusic Před 5 lety +14

    This book was very good. Marvin had some ways. I left with more music to add to my music library. He was a very troubled man near his end. His brother Frankie and others tried to help him to no avail. Love you Marvin.

  • @ElectedOfficial1
    @ElectedOfficial1 Před 6 lety +59

    I was going to say, looks like she's been through hell and back...cancer is hell. My daughter is recovering..thank you Jesus!

    • @Relentless-1
      @Relentless-1 Před 3 lety +6

      No, she looks nothing like the hell she been thru. Look at God!

  • @Sotangy247
    @Sotangy247 Před rokem +2

    What a beautiful down to earth lady. Great interview Lenny . R.I.P Jan

  • @chayamchrisore5826
    @chayamchrisore5826 Před 4 lety +5

    I'm from DC and he is still a great man 💯

  • @OnlyOneBoomer
    @OnlyOneBoomer Před 8 lety +122

    Janice was gorgeous when she was younger.. but possibly one of the greatest albums ever created was inspired by her, her love, and her beauty. "I Want You", - :Soon I'll Be Loving You Again" is my favorite song on it. What's yours?

    • @wesgriffin6081
      @wesgriffin6081 Před 8 lety +13

      yeah. like the song "Janis Is My Girl" . It was in Let's Get It On" album. At the time it came out I was like, who us this Janis chick? She sho got Marvin's nose WIDE open. LOL

    • @OnlyOneBoomer
      @OnlyOneBoomer Před 8 lety +6

      well unfortunately, I wasn't alive when those albums were created, but I came across his musical catalog over 10 years ago, help me through some of the best and worst times... A person wish they could've found love the way they had!!

    • @kayandaeddings4803
      @kayandaeddings4803 Před 8 lety +9

      I have a few favorites. I want to be where you are, come live with me angel, feel all my love inside, soon I'll be loving you again, and since I had you.

    • @OnlyOneBoomer
      @OnlyOneBoomer Před 8 lety +3

      Kayanda Eddings amazing, i heard the extended version of i want to be where you are.. .awesome

    • @MissSuperHottie
      @MissSuperHottie Před 8 lety +4

      I think "Since I Had You" from I Want You is my favorite. She was indeed his muse for the musical artwork.

  • @soulchild61
    @soulchild61 Před 6 lety +17

    He has always been My favorite male singer of All time, but the more I learn about him , I learn that he was a very Sick, confused, craze individual, on a personal note, maybe that’s why he was sooo talented!

  • @michealcurrie8272
    @michealcurrie8272 Před 3 lety +4

    Thank you, Jan. You were the rock for Mr. Marvin Gaye ,that's cool . He gave so much to the world because of that. Happy for that.

  • @leiutley4083
    @leiutley4083 Před 6 lety +5

    Beautiful women glad she wrote the book. Sad what we go thru as people PTSD

  • @feliciacoby5321
    @feliciacoby5321 Před 4 lety +23

    Marvin felt very strongly about Tammi Terrell he called her his sister not romantically that's how strong the relationship was

    • @carolcrowley3040
      @carolcrowley3040 Před 3 lety +3

      Tammy was involved in a horrific relationship with James Brown.

  • @ElijahLukeMusic
    @ElijahLukeMusic Před 5 lety +5

    she is still so very beautiful and Nona Gaye is too

  • @BasilFomeen
    @BasilFomeen Před 7 lety +19

    Just Finished Jan's book. in my quest to soke up every word,video,and song pertaining to my favorite artist ever. i must say was skeptical going in but i thought the book was honest and excellent. was very pleasantly suprised. thanks for sharing Jan

  • @smarq28
    @smarq28 Před 9 lety +43

    This book was great!

    • @Gump-tion
      @Gump-tion Před 9 lety +7

      Shonda Marquise Total page turner. I read it in two days!

    • @shirleyjones8953
      @shirleyjones8953 Před 7 lety +7

      Shonda Marquise but oh SO SAD!! MUSIC INDUSTRY and DRUGS

  • @simonechalice5021
    @simonechalice5021 Před 6 lety +9

    I dont know why but i really dig her..

  • @leonardodalongisland
    @leonardodalongisland Před 2 lety +6

    I met Jan back when we both lived in LA. She was working for a small film production company. We met there and about two weeks later she called and asked me on a date! We dated for about a year-friends for many more. Very surreal dating/being "part of" Marvin Gaye's life...I'm listening to this with my eyes closed-hearing Jan's voice as I have a thousand times on the phone...missing her.

    • @baileybutterfly320
      @baileybutterfly320 Před 2 lety

      Wow! How was she dating wise? Kind loving and etc?

    • @TempeSoldier123
      @TempeSoldier123 Před rokem

      Yeah, right. Did Madonna give you a reach around too?
      Gtfoh

    • @leonardodalongisland
      @leonardodalongisland Před rokem

      @@TempeSoldier123 Not that I need to prove myself to a rude person like you but; Of all the people on the planet, you really think someone who make up a story about (a little known "celebrity) like Jan Gaye? IF I was going to make up a story it would have been about someone everyone knows-like Madonna-not someone so few know.

    • @TempeSoldier123
      @TempeSoldier123 Před rokem

      @@leonardodalongisland wow, just wow. Your lies about Jan are something else.
      Did you date Halle Berry too? Let me guess: you impregnated Whitney Houston before she married Bobby Brown, huh?

    • @christyjackson4835
      @christyjackson4835 Před rokem

      @@baileybutterfly320 she just died

  • @ediebeebop
    @ediebeebop Před 6 lety +21

    Great interview, no one knows her story but her. Next time you are interviewed Mrs. Gaye, please tell us about those ballads Marvin would sing to you. The "Bobby Scott" recordings. I read your book, I truly enjoyed it, the writing was beautiful.

  • @padmasalam5267
    @padmasalam5267 Před 3 lety +11

    The host has a lovely broadcasting voice. It’s overly smoothing. Love it! 🥂🍺 Cheers and beers mates!

  • @emmajones9445
    @emmajones9445 Před 6 lety +8

    A lovely woman. Good interview.

  • @tessarix
    @tessarix Před 6 lety +61

    Tammy Terrell was a gorgeous woman, with her beautiful skin and hair and a body to make any man sweat and want to chase her down the Motown hallways! Her voice was delicious, in my opinion, like butter, and perfectly tuned to sing with Marvin. What a great duo they would have been over the years...sad he died.

    • @dorothywilder5525
      @dorothywilder5525 Před 2 lety +10

      Tammy Terrell died first ..he could never get over her

    • @marcyfan
      @marcyfan Před rokem

      @@dorothywilder5525 czcams.com/video/D4C5uLNj-jY/video.html

    • @dn30001
      @dn30001 Před rokem +2

      David Ruffin put Tammy through SO MUCH physical abuse. There was a time when Tammy had a anuerisym in Marvin's arms during a show performance.

    • @janehyden1652
      @janehyden1652 Před rokem

      ITS ABOUT JANIS NOT TAMMY.

  • @victoriagilmore4030
    @victoriagilmore4030 Před 6 lety +4

    Beautiful lady! Courageous & loving. Very sad situation for she & her family.

  • @EddieisKrueger
    @EddieisKrueger Před 7 lety +29

    I read the book and I loved it! Show me a different side of Marvin Gaye, the human side. He suffered a great deal and mostly did it to himself. I assume he felt it would make him a greater artist and it did. He suffered for us.

    • @wendylee7242
      @wendylee7242 Před 4 lety +6

      I read the book divided soul it layed out his childhood abuse by his father, it was terrible.

    • @melvincarter9640
      @melvincarter9640 Před 2 lety +4

      Marvin Gaye never suffered for us. He was just a man who suffered like we all do. Don't try to make Marvin Gaye out to be a god.

    • @rosewelton2904
      @rosewelton2904 Před 2 lety

      @@melvincarter9640 you didn’t care for him

    • @melvincarter9640
      @melvincarter9640 Před 2 lety +4

      @@rosewelton2904 I didn't know the man, do you? Why do you think this lady is tell her story? Just because someone was talented and famous don't mean they didn't have their own demons that they was living with.

    • @marcyfan
      @marcyfan Před rokem +1

      @@melvincarter9640 if you could write and sing like marvin, i and a ton of other people would be saying you helped us through some stuff. instead we just say "don't knock the prince of soul"

  • @aeshaalberts7560
    @aeshaalberts7560 Před 4 lety +44

    Janis was gorgeous back in the day

    • @DistortedV12
      @DistortedV12 Před 4 lety +6

      She was definitely among the finest

    • @Preteahumblegirl
      @Preteahumblegirl Před 4 lety +7

      Yes she was beautiful

    • @carolcrowley3040
      @carolcrowley3040 Před 3 lety

      They way she's explaining events is as if she was so much older than she actually is. Give me a break!!!!.

    • @tosomt5419
      @tosomt5419 Před 3 lety +1

      she really was...young ppl reading this...enjoy your looks while u still have them bc no matter what, they will go...starts at about 40 for most

    • @ragingbull3157
      @ragingbull3157 Před 3 lety

      @@tosomt5419 looks like (2) different people...yes

  • @dianneelaine157
    @dianneelaine157 Před rokem +4

    R.I.P Ms Janis Gaye🙏🏽

  • @matlynsmith5
    @matlynsmith5 Před 3 lety +4

    Thank you for sharing her story with us,

  • @lorettahawkins1269
    @lorettahawkins1269 Před 8 lety +17

    Kudos To You Jan No One Knows What You Went Through With Marvin Gaye But You! I Love Me Some Marvin Gaye Though!

  • @yolandasession8158
    @yolandasession8158 Před 3 lety +2

    I am currently reading the book Marvin did have some Ways about himself Like any human but he was a very trouble soul.Streaming from his childhood .Janis wasnt holding back thank you for sharing your story❤️RIP MARVIN 💕💕💕I love his music and I love him

  • @your_princesa_isabelg
    @your_princesa_isabelg Před 6 lety +4

    Happy birthday Jan

  • @24pekanpie
    @24pekanpie Před 6 lety +6

    Chile the tea in her audible book!!! ☕️ I listened to it on a trip and finished it in one day! Whew! Marvin was crazy as’f

    • @christyjackson4835
      @christyjackson4835 Před 5 lety +4

      24pekanpie Lies. She told so many lies. Did she mention the part where she poisoned Marvin’s marijuana supply after she and her mom took out a $1 million life insurance policy on him . ??

  • @flatbush46
    @flatbush46 Před 7 lety +8

    she looks so young

  • @Charles-tt3dr
    @Charles-tt3dr Před rokem +4

    R.I.P. Jan Gaye

  • @barbarajackson310
    @barbarajackson310 Před 5 lety +3

    Loved the book it was great thanks Janis”

  • @bernadetteseymour3618
    @bernadetteseymour3618 Před 6 lety +6

    I was so in love with Marvin when I was seventeen too. I had no idea how dark he was in the inside. I used to love his music, but had no idea his songs was a representation of how his life was. Through my journey in life, it has taught me to be aware of what I look at and listen to. I in no way want to enjoy or participate in something that someone creative because of their pain or evil darkness that lives inside of them. I wish that Marvin Gay would have stayed with God! I hope he found the peace that he longed for in the end! RIP Mr. Gaye!

  • @stellahale8656
    @stellahale8656 Před 6 lety +8

    I finished the audio book in 2-days. I feel Jan was very truthful and I wish she had narrated the audio book. It was so insightful. She did a fantastic job.

  • @sirjefferson4790
    @sirjefferson4790 Před rokem +3

    R.I.P👑🕊️🙏🏾

  • @TempeSoldier123
    @TempeSoldier123 Před rokem +3

    RIP JAN ❤

  • @dgray9020
    @dgray9020 Před rokem +5

    Rest In Peace Ms Janis Gaye

  • @christinagraham2915
    @christinagraham2915 Před rokem +3

    Rip Mrs janice

  • @tunde818
    @tunde818 Před 6 měsíci +2

    Her book was pretty good. Read it in two nights. She was very candid and shocking. They both used drugs regularly, she gave him oral sex at 17 when he was 33, while her mother was in the next room. When she was pregnant with Nona, Marvin sent her to stay with his parents in Maryland while he went on tour. She talks about how creepy the dad was. First time she met Marvin's dad he was wearing a Tank top and women's wig? No one was allowed to enter his room. She talks about how Anna Gordy, Marvin's first wife confronted her, her affair with Teddy Pendergrass...so many good stories. Glad she wrote the book since she died a few years ago.

  • @locadisa
    @locadisa Před 5 lety +14

    I read the book.I loved it.Made you feel like you were right in the room with him. She didn't touch on his so called bi sexual relationships. She did refer to an incident when he told her that he was attracted to a movie star in passing but she never flat out revealed it .Quincy Jones was the one that referred to his association with Marlon Brando. Even though he had a serious drug issue he was highly intelligent and seemed very likable. Thank you Jan.

    • @SimplyBeingTT
      @SimplyBeingTT Před rokem

      My question is, how does Quincy know 🤔???? And, why isn't Quincy speaking on his own liaisons with men. Marvin is not here to confirm or deny, so therefore, it should be taken with a grain of salt.

    • @thetarotdetective3363
      @thetarotdetective3363 Před rokem

      ​@@SimplyBeingTT because Quincy always was a tell all and allegedly Quincy is bi .ask Tevin Campbell

    • @SimplyBeingTT
      @SimplyBeingTT Před rokem

      @@thetarotdetective3363 A tell all of lies. And yes, I'm aware that Q is probably bisexual. That's why he feels the need to lie on a man that he desires.

  • @rashidaokolo2893
    @rashidaokolo2893 Před 7 lety +6

    Much love & respect 4 U Marvin Gay & Your many Contributions😌💜

  • @rezyousuf4954
    @rezyousuf4954 Před 2 lety +3

    He must have been absolute hell to live with! Addictions ruin relationships.

  • @carolynbratton7827
    @carolynbratton7827 Před 3 lety +3

    She was very pretty when she got with Marvin Gaye. I believed he loved Jan but loved Anna even more.

    • @belladonna5904
      @belladonna5904 Před rokem +1

      Well yeah...Anna turnt him out

    • @moonsiemeda5054
      @moonsiemeda5054 Před rokem +2

      I think he admired and respected her, (Anna) more. He loved Jan just in a more twisted and sadistic way. She was too young and did not know what she was up against. She was seeking his approval and validaton; whereas Anna could take himor leave him, she chose herself rather to destruct with him. As the aying goes there is a danger in loving someone too much. On another note: "Anna 's Song" is out of this world, it speaks volumes. That entire "Here My Dear" album does.

  • @anthonycarter5346
    @anthonycarter5346 Před 3 lety +1

    Beautiful interview with Miss Janice gay beautiful

  • @keitharchie3130
    @keitharchie3130 Před 2 lety +3

    Jan and I were in a Mass Media class at Dorsey High school a group of talented 11th and 12th graders from L A city schools about 10 of us, it was a great. We would travel to meet at Beverly Hills High School . She went to L A High. We were friends, I was young, didn't realize when when she would walk with me across Dorsey High's campus that she liked blackness. We would be at my locker and the sisters would eyeball us. I didn't know how to take it...then, it wasn't cool, boy was I stupid. She married Marvin. I didn't/couldn't see that she was half black. The sweetest girl.

    • @eltiochusma
      @eltiochusma Před rokem

      She went to Hamilton High and left school early. It's in the book.

  • @helorisc
    @helorisc Před 7 lety +5

    Beautiful interview

    • @puppylove2493
      @puppylove2493 Před 4 lety

      60s and 70s=free love on credit..80s and 90s= AIDS and Herpes cause bill plus interest overdue

  • @nycsongman9758
    @nycsongman9758 Před 8 lety +183

    First off, Janis is /was fine. Remember, Janis is damn near 60 years old. People age. Though she was the one-time wife of a mega-star, I don't feel that she, post-Marvin, necessarily lived that "Rodeo Drive" lifestyle of Hollywood once-royalty (facelifts, personal trainers, regular injections, personal chefs). She seems to be pretty natural in her physical appearance, and I'd like to repeat, she's almost 60 years old.

    • @phoebegodiva-adeniyi5315
      @phoebegodiva-adeniyi5315 Před 7 lety +28

      NYC Songman That was sweet! So glad you said that. She is a beautiful woman...still. ❤️

    • @leonhooker744
      @leonhooker744 Před 7 lety +2

      NYC Songman

    • @BasilFomeen
      @BasilFomeen Před 7 lety +20

      NYC Songman She was extremely gorgeous back in 70s and 80s

    • @kavispoole9562
      @kavispoole9562 Před 7 lety +10

      NYC Songman Yes sir. She still got

    • @sweetpea254
      @sweetpea254 Před 7 lety +12

      Yes she's VERY beautiful and to be honest she doesn't even look that seriously. Fame ain't for EVERYONE it requires entirely TOO much just like you said surgery this surgery that gotta fit in with the damn Hollywood women ect. She much rather stay out of the limelight and was a mother for her kids. I wouldn't have wanted my kids always in the spotlight either.

  • @clarkewi
    @clarkewi Před 6 lety +10

    A giant in R&B music. He inspired the Beatles.

  • @christyjackson4835
    @christyjackson4835 Před rokem +8

    I don't believe she ever understood him , she was so young and became a wild addict. I hope she found peace before she died earlier this month. 🌹

  • @revruc1
    @revruc1 Před 5 lety +3

    Back in the day, all of us growing up in the same area with Bethel Church being the hub of singing.....Remember, we were all "YOUNG.".

  • @MyWilliam41
    @MyWilliam41 Před 2 lety +2

    I know this interview is 3 years 0ld but she still looks Good

  • @diamondintheroughiamthelaw9682

    I just finished reading it!

  • @bigbee000
    @bigbee000 Před 9 lety +99

    I don't think she was beating around the bush at all. Usually when a person is being interviewed about a book, they don't want to reveal too much. They'll give you just enough, so you can buy the book.

    • @Jsimm100
      @Jsimm100 Před 9 lety +7

      Exactly

    • @magovenor
      @magovenor Před 8 lety +5

      +Brian Davis She still was vague when answering some direct questions, dude let her off the hook!

    • @mildredgresham3207
      @mildredgresham3207 Před 6 lety

      Brian Davis true

    • @bashiradennis1258
      @bashiradennis1258 Před 4 lety +2

      She's not all that cute .l wonder was she a vergin when she met Marvin

    • @SouthernComfort707
      @SouthernComfort707 Před 3 lety +3

      @@bashiradennis1258 According to her book, she was not a virgin.

  • @KingMellow11
    @KingMellow11 Před 8 lety +133

    I don't think Jan was a gold digger. She really loved Marvin.

    • @alansilvestri2375
      @alansilvestri2375 Před 7 lety +13

      How in the fuck do you know? Were you part of their journey? Na - you weren't. Stop pretending. Stop acting.....like you know.

    • @MsNini-sw2jn
      @MsNini-sw2jn Před 7 lety +20

      henceforth his words "I don't think"....he didn't say she wasn't definitely.

    • @MrSteven2945
      @MrSteven2945 Před 7 lety +19

      she was to young to know what real love was ....... 17 years of age come on!... are you guys serious?,,, that wasnt love that was infactuation

    • @jacquelinerussell8530
      @jacquelinerussell8530 Před 6 lety +5

      KingMellow11
      totally she seems so sincere in that interview In short she is keeping it real and that's all you can ask for

    • @MzIvorySeattle
      @MzIvorySeattle Před 6 lety +11

      Not a gold digger, your right. He loved her too really hard at one time

  • @latoyafox
    @latoyafox Před 6 lety +32

    Oh her mother place her in this industry it was set up for her already ,her own mother was dating a song writer ! Wow

    • @sarge7526
      @sarge7526 Před 4 lety +8

      Like mother like daughter....and I got this notion from justbreading this 1st 15 pages of her book

  • @c.calliecoleman1531
    @c.calliecoleman1531 Před 3 lety +3

    Thank you for sharing.
    I still remember vividly the day I heard Marvin Gaye died. I remember the room I was in, where I was standing, the time of day. It's like the shock of hearing it, that moment, I froze in time.
    Marvin was a very gifted man, and left us with so many beautiful songs. I'm just thankful for the time, we had him, with us.✌

  • @sterlinggoldstien6820
    @sterlinggoldstien6820 Před 8 lety +40

    She has aged so gracefully! Wow that sistah looks like she is 30 years old.

    • @Queenalika85
      @Queenalika85 Před 7 lety

      Sterling Goldstien exactly

    • @locadisa
      @locadisa Před 7 lety +4

      Sterling Goldstien She is right though. It is better to hear it all from the women who lived with him and all of his imperfections. Fans have been curious for so many years because he was such a charismatic person and yet plagued with so many demons.Strange how one can have a strict and very religious upbringing yet can become worldly and unhinged. Everyone already knows that Marvin was very talented till the end but clearly had issues. What we dont know is what drove him to fall from grace into that taking an under aged child for a lover,adulterous, seedy,sexy drug scene that ultimately helped lead to his untimely death. Dont want to read a polished bedtime story to pacify the grand kids
      And I dont want to read it if she cant name the drugs,take the sheets of the beds and admit how complict she was too.Lucky for her she had the chance o to change her old habits before its was too late. Dont want to read her book if she is not willing to vilify and glorify both Marvin and herself on the pages. The truth should be told to his fans.The smoothed over details have already been told by the many biographers who think that they knew his story. Too bad that Anna didn't write her book on him before she passed. Agree to transparency or I'm saving my money.

    • @locadisa
      @locadisa Před 7 lety +1

      Sterling Goldstien She is right though. It is better to hear it all from the women who lived with him and all of his imperfections. Fans have been curious for so many years because he was such a charismatic person and yet plagued with so many demons.Strange how one can have a strict and very religious upbringing yet can become worldly and unhinged. Everyone already knows that Marvin was very talented till the end but clearly had issues. What we dont know is what drove him to fall from grace into that taking an under aged child for a lover,adulterous, seedy,sexy drug scene that ultimately helped lead to his untimely death. Dont want to read a polished bedtime story to pacify the grand kids
      And I dont want to read it if she cant name the drugs,take the sheets of the beds and admit how complict she was too.Lucky for her she had the chance o to change her old habits before its was too late. Dont want to read her book if she is not willing to vilify and glorify both Marvin and herself on the pages. The truth should be told to his fans.The smoothed over details have already been told by the many biographers who think that they knew his story. Too bad that Anna didn't write her book on him before she passed. Agree to transparency or I'm saving my money.

    • @AraCod
      @AraCod Před 6 lety

      Sterling Goldstien she's half Irish

    • @briggie28
      @briggie28 Před 6 lety +6

      More like 45, at least.

  • @branbeelotus
    @branbeelotus Před 7 lety +7

    The book is amazing. A must read. You will not be able to put it down.

    • @tyrarenae3486
      @tyrarenae3486 Před 6 lety

      Lotus Bee yes it is an awesome book!!

    • @ashleystar9780
      @ashleystar9780 Před 5 lety

      Hey to reaches own. Who am I to judge!!!,I married early my husband was older than me.. Do what works for you.. Again love you Mr Marvin Gaye!!!!

  • @monrouge24
    @monrouge24 Před rokem +1

    The movie next .. I need this book actually

  • @micuch62
    @micuch62 Před 4 lety +5

    1st time listener, beautiful interview, well spoken

    • @sylviahammond574
      @sylviahammond574 Před rokem

      Very precious lady she was able to write her book in her own words AMEN!!!

  • @MoeSoNatural
    @MoeSoNatural Před 2 lety +7

    That’s so messed up, she was so beautiful and innocent. He got her into drugs, perverted sex, abused her mentally and physically. He manipulated her and God bless for her breaking free of that nonsense. It took her years to get over drug addiction and their daughter Nona had become an addict as well. To think, Marvin’s dad was an abusive mess and I’m sure he went through as well - so sad the pathology

    • @lmiller6675
      @lmiller6675 Před 2 lety +1

      Don’t blame him for what she involved herself in. She knew he was a grown man and doing grown man things

    • @belladonna5904
      @belladonna5904 Před rokem

      I would say all the perversion started with her mother.

    • @belladonna5904
      @belladonna5904 Před rokem

      Cocaine is a helluva of a drug, it can have you getting aroused by some perverted stuff. I think a lot of Marvin's sexual perversions was coke fuelled.

  • @abriana3121
    @abriana3121 Před rokem +3

    Rest In Peace 🕊️