The Art of Being Alone - Jordan Peterson (Best Motivational Speech)
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The Art of Being Alone - Jordan Peterson (Best Motivational Speech)
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Never ask someone to do something you wouldn't do yourself and you'll not be corrupted. Don't allow fear to dictate what you do, fear is the greatest sin against God as it shows him you have no faith in his power. You help so many sir, but who is there for you? I prayed for you while battling your addiction, I defended you against those who hurling their hypocritical slings and arrows at you. We may never meet face to face, but know there are regular people like myself that see the value you bring to the world and will protect that with fire if needed. God bless you and all of yours sir and thank you for the help I received from your wisdom.
Your a very interesting man who is obviously a deep thinker so Sir you would be a person I would go for a pint with and interesting conversation. I am 66 years old so a little older but love k look listening.
I trust in the promise of Jesus so I’m never alone.
I think he means physically alone, not spiritually
I'm 43 I've spent my whole life around douchbags backstabbing completely gave my time to the wrong people. Had children with the wrong person. Being alone is honestly the most beautiful peaceful feeling I've ever had.
You just told my story. I'm a couple years younger but you just told my story...
I’m 33 years old and I figured it out at 20 years old. Fuck people, love yourself and do what you want
It's curious that so many more younger people are more aware sooner.
Maybe it's the Internet that's helped.
It's hard to gage when I was 20 Internet didn't exist.
But I can say that looking back on those years I wasn't aware at all.
I was floating around from one situation to the next.
Having such an awareness at an early age can be tough I think.
Becauee there's times now where Im so aware....I think so what now.
Cars don't interest me. Big fancy houses don't interest me.
When you pull away from material things and attachments you just think....so what now.
44 and same here ❤
Exact Same age here. Same
Deal, minus the kids.
Its been a rough first 6 months, learning to engage in life all over again from a fresh start, but the silence...its amazing.
It is better to be alone than in bad company.
Man I’ve always had that same sentiment. “Idk if hell follows or it’s always here”. That makes so much sense to me. Thank you for all your work Dr. Peterson.
God bless you Dr. Peterson- you are in my prayers❤
I spend 95% of my time alone and I enjoy it. Sometimes though, I do wonder if I'm missing something.
I don't know. I have a family. But sometimes it feels like that would be better. I didn't think that when I was young but now. I'm not suicidal but if death came along tomorrow,that would be ok. I only would feel bad for the kids even though they are grown.
@@Rufio1975I know exactly how you feel
Thank you dr Peterson
Youre welcome.
'You're more likely to die terribly if you live in a manner that brings you to hell'. (JP)
Choosing to be alone, that most people can't handle, as it forces a person to rely only on themself. Which is very big self confidence thing, especially, when traveling abroad to destinations you have never been before!
It's sad, but I totally understand what this feels like. I am also ready to be done. Death does not bring me fear as much as the thoughts of living long into old age.
Agree
I keep on dreading the death of Dr Jordon Peterson, we are so lucky to witness a living legend ❤❤❤
Some people are constantly aware of their mortality, and some people avoid any thoughts of it, go to great lengths to ignore it, and pretend it's never going to happen to them.
How about that! I have something in common with Dr Peterson! I am continually aware that death is my constant companion.
Wow, this conversation actually made me cry a bit. I think about death all the time too. I really love this man, how deep his thinking goes and how articulate his speaking is but he’s not afraid to say, I don’t know. That’s true wisdom in my book.
Why? I know the answer. It's because he's articulated. Why, when I speak of it that way, am I shunned and seen as morbid? I am on a mission to become more articulated so that I might be understood. Fiancee, children, and a big family. I shouldn't, but I feel so alone.
If you're lonely while alone then you're in bad company !!
Wow that's profound
@@Vi7IsSandrait's not mine, sartre or camus I think ?!
That's Sadhguru.
If you're miserable when alone, then obviously you are in bad company.... This is the correct one.
Bad company here refers to one's own inner-self. We create misery and -ve thoughts ourselves in our own mind.
So to be in good company, in this context, you have to take charge of your mind.
As Sadhguru says your mind should not consume you, you should be able to use your mind for your well-being.
Nobody’s alone not even you.
I have never had much of a fear of death. Even as a kid. Maybe that's because I grew up in a really harsh environment. My brother used to say I was like a lemming when I was a kid, doing so many crazy things, like climbing buildings and trees and falling out of them. I never broke any bones from these activities. I certainly got some scars though. I think both my parents could quite easily be classed as having a narcissistic personality disorder. They came from more isolated communities just mainly around relatives and just close family, so their behaviour was never called into check. I grew up in a large village/small town close to a major city. I was trying to explain from the age of 5 to my parents why they were never invited to the neighbours parties and I was. Most of the neighbours were afraid to be around them, especially my dad who was close to being a psychopath, prone to violence.
I think it's quite clear that Jordan has never had a spiritual experience and his soul is crying out for one. He has never felt a oneness with the Universe. Time doesn't matter. You don't have to always be working. You can live a balanced life. You will never escape the viciousness of others for too long but you can build out comfort zones for yourself in life between the harshness.
I agree with what he said though, the feeling of oneness is only on the other side of hell. You have to go through hell to experience it. You have to speak the truth when everyone else around you is lying, everyone else around you is going along with power. You don't have to constantly speak it though, as believe me, you will be murdered, but you have to focus on it at least within your own heart.
You will meet very few people who speak the truth in life. Almost everyone goes along with power most of the time and is caught up in a maelstrom of lies. They do not even know which way to turn to find the truth. Just constantly looking to follow the crowd so that they are not personally attacked.
I think though, when you see so much viciousness and pain, and people dishing those out doing well, it makes you question the nature of the Universe. What a mess the Unified spirit has created in man, in the realm of physical existence. I can only say that once you focus on truth and give up on life, the world and on the sense of God itself, on the other side of hell, when despair is just a distant mirage on the horizon, then you can feel the oneness in a very strong format. I wouldn't recommend this as a path to anyone though, and there are many other ways to experience this that are less difficult. Get away from the cities. Go to nature. Get away from all city lights where you can fully take in the beauty of the night sky and the stars. Use all natural methods to try and feel this oneness. The unnatural methods are ok to tide you over until you can get the reserves and time to experience these brief moments of oneness again. There are many other methods to feel this to some extent also. Laughter, love, music, etc. Jonathan Haidt mentions some in his book the Happiness Hypothesis.
Jordan should focus on just looking for methods to have spiritual experiences. Give up all pharmaceutical methods to balance yourself. Go through the pain without them. Get away from cities. Best of luck to everyone.
Embracing life's potential fully not only enriches our experiences but fortifies us against existential fears. 💡
This is so ironic coming across this podcast after hearing the news of the unfortunate death of Dr Michael Mosely whilst on holiday in Greece..He did die alone and his body wasn’t found for four days…this is a stark reminder that there often is no warning..and there you have it..distraught family and a big fan base from being a much loved celebrity on the BBC.
Gazing into the abyss would be like looking up at night. You see one star....then another appears and another.
Then before you know it you see hundreds of stars
❤ I like it
I am in my 40s and being unmarried and completely single is my only fulfilling way of life. I feel so much better when I am not close to anyone.
It is not uncommon, but not healthy..I hope you find love.
@@mmoro143 Nah, I don't like romantic love at all, I am simply not built for dating or marriage at all. Plus women and men are incapable of loving each other at this point. All of my attempts to find a date in my 40 years have always ended in pain and misery. Once I realized all this and stopped pursuing romance, I became much happier and more fulfilled with life. So I am remaining single for my entire life.
Whatever I am or become, I don't want to be the guy that was out hiking with his dog in a baby backpack!
Loneliness has helped me become a businessman and writer etc but I long for companionship like the majority but its easy to say when you're not alone that being alone is key
That is great ...you should be very proud . .lots of us myself include process our lonliness in nagative ways through various addictions booze, sex, drugs, food, gambling etc. If no one else tells you this today there is one person here battling his own form of lonliness in his early 50s that is super proud of you for facing yours the right way. 👍👊💪
@johngallagher72 thank you so much for you're message I pray in jesus mighty name you receive deliverance and clarity from the Lord.. I still got my own personal battles but I'm striving to connect with pur lord ans saviour jesus I hope you can find time and courage to read the bible brother amen thank you so much foe the message
I don't know who said I refer back to this all the time, I'm often alone but I'm never lonely .
Afraid of death? Its gonna be like coming home, but you cant force it.
If you want be PM in his country this gentleman should have 3 hr interview with each candidate
Future PM Pierre did good mature conversation with him. Was nice listening two smart men talk like adults about that awful country
I am not concerned about dying, it’s how I might die that is the worry. Lol.
Each and every moment is freedom to be, to be with life as it is.....to be with life "as it is". To be in that moment not wanting to change that moment. To Be......to be.... "being"......being is super to doing. To be..😊❤😊 Being....Being..❤
Wow wow something to think about. I for sure have . Live your day as it is your last. Feel blessed and pray always for the good
All Anger stems from loss...find what you lost and discover the root of your Anger...Toa de Ching
All the time. True.
Wow!
❤If one sets his/her 'aim' on God the Almighty Creator as 'Truth' be told,, then no concerns for balancing your 'honesty' is required... And then if anyone should be troubled by your statement (s),, you can know that you still have 'served' them well,, and with love,,Amen?,,, Amen, amen ❤️...
Great discussion! I liked it a lot.
Blessings 🙏✝️
Elon Musk and all of us can easily relieve ourselves at anytime from worldly pressures and the weight of it. Become born again and truly put aside everything and walk with Jesus. It makes sense and I'm positive Elon Musk would be much happier. Let it go
That's Lex Fridman with him. I like his style of podcast..
" Si tu regardes l'abîme assez longtemps tu vois la lumière, pas les ténèbres " que c'est vrai, absolument nécessaire d'être des DIGGERS ❤ Vous nous y aider Mr. J ! Tant de gens acceptent d'aller chez le proctologue mais ne se laissent pas sonder par l'Esprit-Saint....!
When I was turning 40, I suddenly became afraid of dying because of it was often mentioned in news, etc that men were susceptible to heart attacks starting at that age.. Now closing in on 80 I find it less frightening. In hind sight I think at 40 I had a lot more living to do so that caused my fear. Now my body is wearing down, a lot of family and friends have passed away and I am more at peace with my future related to death. I once had an elderly woman who reach the age of 100 yrs. Tell me she was ready to die. I asked her why. She indicated it was because all the people she knew including her children had passed away and she had nothing further to live for…I think that is the reality of life and death. I am reach that point myself.
48. Something I learned along the way. A few close calls in the military and in civilian life. I don't fear death. Sometimes I feel like I'm ready to go. At this age,all I want is peace. I don't know what it feels like. I still haven't found it.
Erickson believed that if we live through the natural stages of the human life cycle we can then face an "active death". I agree.
Born 1957 and sometimes I want to die - but it is not real. If something is real is that I want to get rid of the old stuff. Leave old limitations that make me suffer and step in to new areas and a new time.
The only way to combat the fear of death is to know where you are going after you die.And I know I will be in Heaven with my Lord.I have no fear of death, nor man and will live my days craving His love, guidance and peace. Man will take your peace...the Lord keeps me stable and strong.And able to give to others which brings happiness.If you know where you are going,( heaven) know whose you are(the Lord"s) .......living life with confidence and dieing with peace is what I forsee in my life.
Great video, but don't know what it has to do with being alone.
I came here to learn "The Art Of Being Alone". Video had nothing to do with that.
Same here...I don't think this channel belongs to Dr. Jordan Peterson. Just clickbait-y.
Glad you're starting to get it... Wait until you discover that ElonmuskRulez69 isnt actually Elon musk!
Its a game changer.
😂😂😂😂😂😂exactly
JP needs to meet Randy Kay, period! Please look him up and you’ll soon find out what’s it’s like after death. It would be awesome for him to finally get the real and true answer on the topic of dying.💚
I'm hoping to die peacefully in my sleep just like my grandad did.. Not yelling and screaming like all his passengers
I think we are in a Soul Trap.. I'm not getting caught in this horrible suffering again....
Imagine if Mr.Peterson was to interview clowns like Justin or Joey
He would make them both stutter sweat and run out of the room struggling to answer complicated and hard questions
My husband suddenly died and im having a hard time
Sorry for your loss.I live in Stockholm Sweden i lost my mom sister father All in sudden deaths between 2000-2004 i was devestated much love to you.
Stay positive. Focus on the good things you gonna be fine.
I lost my wife, we met on a blind date, I proposed the next day. Married for 23 years.
It's hard.
The most helpful people have been those that have lost someone.
Sending you great love. Just keep loving and literally one foot in front of the other. Breathe . Then one day… peace 🙏 grows bit by bit. Stay grateful for loving . Let the moon and stars become your new best friends awhile. Sending light ✨
@@andreabell5724 thank you
The abyss can stare all it wants, won't make it right.
I have lived large with many adventures and I am writing to you Jordan to let you know that your laundry list is less important than you think. I will be willing to share this truth with you when you are ready sir.
Well heres the bad news. Youre not writing to him. Youre writing to the owner of a clip compiling channel.
What's on your list ,do tell,do tell
What does this video have to do with being alone? Is the title an error?
"Death is my advisor..." Don Juan Matus
Right
Matthew 5:29-30.
Thank you for making me open the Bible🎉
His picture looks like he’s daring you to call him a clown.
Revelation 1:18
I am he that liveth, and was dead; and, behold, I am alive for evermore, Amen; and have the keys of hell and of death.
I call BS on "every word I think of death".
Why people don’t understand death I don’t know why I do maybe once I was very close and as I remember we made a deal but I was a child probably imagination only 😊
I still like you even if I disagree with you on some things. You are still very wise but I want you to understand the other view sometimes but unsure if you can truly grasp the depth of some people’s darkness
In the Bible, Saul was absolutely full of darkness and hate. He went around killing early Christians. Then he had that road to Damascus moment, was blinded, but regained his sight with a new vision, spent a few years in the desert, and eventually became The disciple/apostle to the Gentiles. And somewhere in there his name changed to Paul, and he wrote more of the New Testament than anyone else.
God is no "respecter of men." That means that whatever He has done for others, He can also do for you. He delivered Saul/Paul from darkness, and He can do the same for you.
There are plenty of people in the Bible who had reasons to be bitter. Jesus of course, but also Job and Joseph and others. Perhaps it would be helpful to study them and their situations, and not focus on your own too much? They always say that the cure for depression is to focus on others, and there are plenty of people in the world who need help.
Don't study your darkness. Study His light.
@@natashamudford4011 thank you sister 🤍
@@user-um9ot5jx6y You are more than welcome. God bless you abundantly!💜
Which one do you choose to feed the most, life or death?
@@spoilerman8975 used to be death now it’s life and no longer am I scared to do but still I remain cautious. And learning the balance between cautious and overly cautious
Glory to god thank you Jesus 🙌
He did that
Interesting but nothing to do with the title and the imagery.
I admire you, Jordan, but as soon as i heard you say, " My wife and I head out to watch the sunset" I switched off. To be alone is something only a person who lives can know what it feels to live this live as a 1.
Lawfare is warfare with enemies of the US using the law.
Malicious Prosecution= Making case law with malicious intent and is NOT to be used against individual citizens in the United States.
psyOps was first done by the United States during the Nazi situation using fake tanks and things like that
Claiming Lawfare can be used against citizens= an attack reserved for enemies being used against citizens.
You are the Nazi expert and that's why you may be one of the most important people to stop its advance.
Respectfully
Melanie loomos
...the suits they make him wear, look more ridiculous than I do, sleeping in the woods.
"I wash my hands of you all. You're all fired."....🔥🚬🐛🥀
Prosecuting Witness -The private person upon whose complaint or information a criminal accusation is founded and whose testimony is mainly relied on to secure a conviction at trial. particularly the persywho was chiefly injured by the act constituting the alleged crime (as in the case of assault), and who instigates the Prosecution and gives the evidence."
Q. Is Porn chick and Disbarred lawyer COHEN being protected by a gag order from the Court because they have been merged into 1 person to meet the above 8:08 definition?
That would explain the gag order, the fact the case is in both State and Federal Court and the fact that they have rotating prosecutors in this action.
Q. What prosecutor signed the action being tried against Trump?
Respectfully, MelanieLoomos
People can evolve only through interactions with others, and be truly fulfilled and happy only through LOVE. Love can manifest in two ways only through devoting your life to God (solitude on human level) or through developing and cultivating a relationship with another being per God's laws (man and woman).
JP seems burned out emotionally after big tests of stress, faith. Not knowledge dear Doc, but love heals!! Worry less, love more to heal yourself.
I don't get Jordan's way of "threat" thinking. It's to limiting. It's all "or else this, or else that". Who can live like that? And how can someone NOT want to keep living longer and longer?
Will Jordan come off social media for 5 minutes, so?
Honestly it feels like I escaped into my 40s pretty much unscathed. They did their best to screw me but somehow I made it out of my teens, 20s and 30s. Plan on working till I'm 85 or so and that might be tough going it alone. I'll probably just hire a maid though and that'll work. Starting to think grandkids would be cool but that would involve having to be married to some idiot trying her best to screw you over every chance she gets. And it would having to have and raise kids. If a supermodel jumped in my lap and said I'm yours I might reconsider being single. But I'm not pressing my luck with more woman. Especially after everything I escaped. And all the girls I've ever been with were only because my "flirtation" skills were pretty much borderline rape. That would definitely get me in jail these days.
OK, a minute and a half and I would totally have kids again. Just not with the same woman.! Kids are the creation of life, children are life, exploding into being! You have to have a partner who wants to be a part of that growing with your children and themselves and with you altogether. My ex was a “it has to be my way.” “ just do what I say” person. It’s so absurd that you blow it off the time as a mood disorder.. which probably is. But kids are life going to the tropics and watching the fertility of growth all around you. Except kids are human. It’s a generation of humanity can’t be dismissive of our in the situation to grow. Kids in an extra generation of that grow and it’s beautiful.
You should be alone if you are wearing that jacket.
Good video but your thumbnail is fraudulent
So Jordan has the art of being alone mastered. Now if he would just learn the art of silence.
,...,& , why do you feel this way about doctor Peterson?
Jealous??
I am now 67 and retired in sweden - I have come to the end/new beginning. Astrologically there is a period of 13/14 yars (jupiter & uranus conjunct). I changed my life in new directions 1983/1996/2009 and now 2024. These years I started in new areas and it could not be predicted or calculated. It is a quantum leap to a new level - with emphasis on NEW - not based on earlier experiences.
Did I miss or this video had nothing about being alone.
I can corfirm:
Yes, there is plenty ( a lot)
of us
No, we will not
rescue any of U
Private Prosecutor - "One who sets in motion the machinery of criminal justice against a person he believes to be guilty of a crime by laying an accusation before the proper authorities and who is not himself an officer of the government."
1.
Q. Is the gag order protecting Cohen becase he was defendant who became the Private Prosecutor in this alleged action without an actual change?
2.
This is malicious Prosecution in search of a crime, period. Everything charged is beyond the statue of litations.
3. I believe this malicious Prosecution is resulting in damages for the Presidentsl candidate and ALL his supporters.
4. We need to file a class action since Republicans are being attacked along qith the Jews.
5. This situation is way worse that smoking cigarettes in the courthouse, which Hillary Clinton's brother made so much money from - the tobacco class action. He was a regular Public Defender in Miami Dade before his big class actuon.
6. Any lawyers have balls? I have Newtons balls.👍
Respectfully, Melanie Loomos
Surrender
He has no experience with being alone so it’s not a subject he knows anything about it’s a waste of time for him to be talking about it
This interviewer! Needs some help.
Sorry, but you've never been alone. You have allways been withyour wife.
Days with distance I'd not call beeing allone.
When you were about to loose her, you drowned your fear in Benzos.
No judgement, totally understandable.
But really beeing alone is something only people who have been through it, are able to assess.
According to Wikipedia you are 61 years old.
This is dangerous and misleading
Jesus is falsehood. He did not lie he is cool. His followers are not unless. Top choice good
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