The Best LGBTQ+ Places in New York! | Ingrid Nilsen

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  • The queer-friendly + queer-owned places in NYC (plus a destination upstate) that I LOVE! These are all places I have discovered naturally through friends and by exploring the city. Whether you want food, art, coffee, books or a fun weekend trip - I've got you covered!
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    PLACES MENTIONED:
    - Meme's Diner
    657 Washington Ave, Brooklyn, NY 11238
    www.memesdiner...
    - Cafe Eloise
    417 Prospect Pl, Brooklyn, NY 11238
    cafe-eloise.bu...
    - Bluestockings Bookstore , Cafe & Activist Center
    172 Allen St, New York, NY 10002
    bluestockings.com/
    - Leslie-Lohman Museum of Gay and Lesbian Art
    26 Wooster St, New York, NY 10013
    www.leslielohm...
    - Americana Vineyards Winery
    4367 E Covert Rd, Interlaken, NY 14847www.americanavi...
    - NYS Equal Rights Heritage Center
    25 South St, Auburn, NY 13021
    historyshometow...
    - Cayuga Lake Creamery
    8421 NY-89, Interlaken, NY 14847
    cayugalakecrea...
    - Women's Rights National Historical Park
    136 Fall St, Seneca Falls, NY 13148www.nps.gov/wo...
    - National Women's Hall of Fame
    76 Fall St, Seneca Falls, NY 13148www.womenofthe...
    - Harriet Tubman Home
    180 South St, Auburn, NY 13021
    www.harriet-tub...
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Komentáře • 130

  • @rosecolouredgirl7190
    @rosecolouredgirl7190 Před 5 lety +146

    I work at a hotel in Alberta and we are incredibly passionate about making sure that our LGBTQ+ guests are welcomed and comfortable and happy. Pride is our favourite season and I am so proud to be a small part of such an incredible community ❤️🏳️‍🌈

    • @jimenatorres6046
      @jimenatorres6046 Před 5 lety +3

      Megan Marie I live in Alberta! What hotel is this? :)

    • @loveyourself3869
      @loveyourself3869 Před 5 lety +3

      Oh yeah I forgot pride was a season yeah there's spring, summer, fall, and pride. Don't forget pride the reason y'all!!!

  • @acflnnr
    @acflnnr Před 5 lety +32

    "I wish I could dedicate a whole video to this" -- please do! Even if I'm not part of the LGBTQ+ community, I find your videos really interesting and educational. We all become better when we learn different histories!

  • @NikiPatton
    @NikiPatton Před 5 lety +90

    no one pulls off this haircut bettterrrr

    • @ricktompson9453
      @ricktompson9453 Před 2 měsíci

      Her hairstyle probably drives her crazy. To many guys would like her. Want to date 📅 her.

  • @dance31115
    @dance31115 Před 5 lety +29

    Hey Ingrid, I am not sure if you actually read these but I really wanted to reach out. I am still in the closet as bisexual but I am so incredibly moved by all of your videos, especially during Pride Month. I have been watching you for years (I was only 11 or 12 when I started watching you do makeup and DIYs and all that). I remember being so incredibly moved by your Coming Out video and as I watch it as I grow older, I am mature enough to see that I am struggling with a lot of similar issues you had. I am so thankful you have talked so openly about depression on your channel as that is something I have always struggled with too. One thing that really stuck out to me was your discussion of guilt or feeling selfish in your coming out video, something I will probably always struggle with (I always find myself guilty, or that I was the problem, even when I am not). Watching your videos and seeing you evolve has given me so much hope and joy. I don't know if this will ever reach you but I just wanted to thank you and let you know that it means the world to me. Someday, I want to read all of the books you have recommended and just be able to connect because I feel like we have very similar personalties and they may move me in a similar way. All in all, I Just wanted to reach out and let you know that I love you and you mean a lot to me. I am so thankful for finding your videos back in the early 2010s and that I have stuck around and seen you grow. Thank you for living your fullest truth and letting us in on some of the tough stuff, it means a hell of a lot to people like me. (Sidenote: Ahh! I see you were in Upstate. I live in Syracuse but attend school in Geneva (15 minutes away from Cayuga and Seneca Falls) Good to see us get some credit :) )

    • @QuieroMiCacao
      @QuieroMiCacao Před 4 lety +1

      julianatoli15 you’re really beautiful.. btw thanks for sharing that even though it was written for Ingrid. Brave of you!

  • @megstarbright
    @megstarbright Před 5 lety +82

    I’m not even queer and I find these videos so interesting as a supporter!

    • @MfAaCce
      @MfAaCce Před 5 lety

      Megan Alexis me too!

  • @jessicaaaacr
    @jessicaaaacr Před 5 lety +4

    Thank you for making this video, Ingrid! As a queer person who doesn't drink, it's so nice to learn about community spaces that aren't bars. Two additional NYC recommendations I'll make for folks:
    The LGBT Community Center - they have events, support groups, a bookstore, art installations, a cafe, and so much more!
    MNDFL (Greenwich Village location) - a meditation studio that hosts an LGBTQ sit every friday night

  • @twilightrocksmysocks
    @twilightrocksmysocks Před 5 lety +36

    Love this! In Chicago people always talk about Boystown, but if you're not as into the nightlife scene like me, check out Andersonville. Women & Children First bookstore has an amazing selection. Hamburger Mary's is also great - they host drag shows throughout the week, in a more relaxed environment.

  • @GracielaMae
    @GracielaMae Před 5 lety +81

    loving all the pride month content, ingrid! 💛

    • @aloyannce3695
      @aloyannce3695 Před 5 lety

      @@fatimafakir145 hopefully you didnt mean that......if you did, fuck you!
      🏳️‍🌈💖

  • @missymorales7376
    @missymorales7376 Před 5 lety +33

    I want to recommend "La Masa Restaurant" in the Bronx. They just started 'Pride Wednesday'. Every Wednesday is a pride celebration with deliciously excellent #colombian food and #vegan options!!! Great video 💞🌈💞 looking foward to trying out these spots soon😍🙏😍

  • @botakoilybayeva8072
    @botakoilybayeva8072 Před 5 lety +4

    It seems that Kristine is a great assistant. The content has improved and evolved so much becoming more conscious, mature and meaningful. Thank you!

  • @pppotatoes
    @pppotatoes Před 5 lety +9

    This video unexpectedly made me REALLY emotional. Great idea for a video- thank you for sharing

  • @sarahc5593
    @sarahc5593 Před 5 lety +16

    In brooklyn there is the lesbian archives museum
    Have you ever been there ?
    You can’t film there though

  • @sammer1208
    @sammer1208 Před 5 lety +7

    I’ve been watching you for years. So cool to see how far you’ve come ♥️

  • @catbicon
    @catbicon Před 5 lety +1

    Omg Ingrid this video means so much to me! I live in Brooklyn near the Crown Heights area and I’m from Rochester, NY. The Finger Lakes hold SUCH a special place in my heart! Canadaguia is home to the spot where Susan B Anthony was arrested for voting. Rochester is where her home/museum is and she is buried! Definitely recommend continuing to explore Western, NY!

  • @by_emilymarie
    @by_emilymarie Před 5 lety +4

    I never hear people talk about Seneca Falls so it makes me so happy to see you went there! I used to live there and I still sort of do and just ahhh, so much history in this area! I'm so happy you came to the finger lakes region~

  • @EclecticBrownGirlTV
    @EclecticBrownGirlTV Před 5 lety +1

    Awesome video Ingrid! Your videos bring VALUE to our community, because you don't just sit down and talk about the same old stuff people have BEEN talking about for years... Thank you for being original, love it! Love You & Erica!

  • @elizabethclift3515
    @elizabethclift3515 Před 5 lety +15

    The Human Rights Museum here in Winnipeg Manitoba Canada. It is beautiful and inspiring. 💖

    • @justanotheruser2611
      @justanotheruser2611 Před 5 lety +1

      Pride in North America rules 🌈 🏳️‍🌈

    • @elizabethclift3515
      @elizabethclift3515 Před 5 lety

      @@justanotheruser2611 as a supporter I totally agree!!!! We are so fortunate to have such an amazing place as the human rights museum here in Winnipeg. I recommend everyone who travels here to Manitoba to see it. ☺

  • @AngieTomlinson35
    @AngieTomlinson35 Před 5 lety +3

    Seeing this makes me happy!!! I will always support you and others in the LGBTQ+ community!! 🌈🏳️‍🌈

  • @angiii
    @angiii Před 5 lety +6

    I live in Long Beach & there's this cute lesbian-owned cafe called Wide Eyes Open Palm that everyone should check out. I also love the bars on Broadway in LB especially Sweetwater Saloon.

  • @JuliaQingReaves
    @JuliaQingReaves Před 5 lety +1

    Thank you so much for creating this much-needed short film for our community.
    Continue your amazing work.
    Love and appreciation,
    Julia Qing Reaves (Your Average New Yorker)

  • @maddiealeman3412
    @maddiealeman3412 Před 5 lety +3

    Thanks for including Bluestockings! I also love Mood Ring, a queer bar with an astrology theme in Brooklyn

  • @insertbookpunhere
    @insertbookpunhere Před 5 lety

    This video made me so emotional, honestly. I just love how passionate you are about sharing these places.

  • @l.u.c.y.3590
    @l.u.c.y.3590 Před 5 lety +7

    You look so pretty!

  • @beautynspice84
    @beautynspice84 Před 5 lety +2

    This was such an enlightening video topic, Ingrid! Thank you for sharing it with us. All of these place look so awesome and are filled with such interesting and teaching topics and concepts!! 👏🏼💗

  • @Janaleine7
    @Janaleine7 Před 5 lety +5

    *Very good Ingrid 👏*
    *A day we will be recognizedddd on Yoooutube 🙌🙏*

  • @TriVoTube
    @TriVoTube Před 5 lety +13

    One place I love in NYC (though it may not be for everyone) is the Museum of Sex! Really cool exhibition of all kinds of things LGBTQ related and a very intimate place! :)

  • @piafleig
    @piafleig Před 5 lety

    I paused the video because I just want to say that not only is this video beautifully edited, I also find it so amazing that you talk about such an important topic! There is so much quality content in what you share, which I love. Really, really good work! :)

  • @nah.....
    @nah..... Před 5 lety +2

    Ingrid you make the best travel videos. I hope you continue to make more in the future. I never knew about all those interesting places around the Ithica area, I might need to take a trip this summer! My mom saw this vid as well and she was blown away by the locations as well. We live near Buffalo N.Y. so it would make a nice educational trip :D Thanks Ingrid!!

  • @katehickey2047
    @katehickey2047 Před 5 lety +3

    The first two places are right near where I used to live in Brooklyn!! I wish I'd known then!! I saw Cafe Eloise a bajillion times but I never stepped in!

  • @johnmuldoon79
    @johnmuldoon79 Před 5 lety +6

    Very cool Ingrid, that Lgbtqi visual arts museum was fresh

  • @JamesJustNow
    @JamesJustNow Před 5 lety +5

    Love your pride video's Ingrid! Hugs from me and my (skincare) channel Jx

  • @shayg.4897
    @shayg.4897 Před 2 lety

    finally, some lgbtq+ spaces that aren't centered around partying and alcohol. thanks for sharing this!

  • @marissa-gabriella
    @marissa-gabriella Před 5 lety

    Thanks for sharing, Ingrid! I loved the background and history you’ve provided from each location alongside your own thoughts and experiences. Thanks for linking to everything and providing addresses in the description as well! As a fellow New Yorker, I’m excited at the opportunity to learn of some new places that you mentioned and can’t wait to go check them out!

  • @deadboy5678
    @deadboy5678 Před 5 lety +3

    I love Bluestockings!!! I just found out about it recently. I really wanna start going to their trans/minority open mics more! ❤🧡💛💚💙💜

  • @angiii
    @angiii Před 5 lety +2

    I LOVE this video and it makes me miss NY so much ;-; thank you for this, Ingrid! When I go back, I'll definitely have to reference this video ^~^

  • @lilys.6849
    @lilys.6849 Před 5 lety +3

    Thank you for this video :) I’m traveling to NY for Pride this year and I’ll definitely go there

  • @joanie5278
    @joanie5278 Před 5 lety +1

    Central New York getting some love! ❤️🧡💛💚💙💜

  • @NikiPatton
    @NikiPatton Před 5 lety +1

    VERY cool video idea!

  • @vminky6559
    @vminky6559 Před 5 lety

    I was lucky enough to meet you while working at the Cayuga Lake Creamery! You’re amazing Ingrid! 💜

  • @freyaelliott3120
    @freyaelliott3120 Před 5 lety

    This video is wonderful Ingrid! I live in England but I will actually be visiting New York this summer so I'm really excited to visit a couple of these places, especially the bookshop and the museum!

  • @essysdean61042
    @essysdean61042 Před 5 lety

    I've been to Bluestockings Bookstore and I had no idea it was LGBT+ owned. I love it just as a bookstore. Thanks for the extra dimension, Ingrid

  • @olivetune
    @olivetune Před 5 lety

    I am so incredibly happy that you came to central New York! I’ve recently moved to Auburn and I live right by the new center! I work near Seneca Falls and I go to school by Ithaca! This means so much to me to have this area recognized for its inclusivity!

  • @caras1366
    @caras1366 Před 5 lety

    I want to live in that bookshop! The museum also looks absolutely incredible - I feel emotional just seeing your shots of it, and relate completely to the way you said it makes you feel to be able to see LGBTQ+ art & history.

  • @hithaishi.kushalappa
    @hithaishi.kushalappa Před 5 lety

    This is such a unique fun video!! Absolutely love the concept of it 🌺🧡😊

  • @rochile6001
    @rochile6001 Před 5 lety

    i agree with your review of the bluestockings bookstore. they have unique stories on display.
    i passed by there with my friend when we were just walking through the city after brunch and it was so empowering to see the diversity in voices displayed
    i'm looking forward to checking out the food places you recommended, thank you for these suggestions

  • @LindseyObrooke
    @LindseyObrooke Před 5 lety

    This was so great, and the editing was also great. Thanks so much:)

  • @emmacauvin
    @emmacauvin Před 5 lety

    This is so well-made and interesting, Ingrid! You've been making such good content during pride month 🌈 Thank you for sharing all these tips and stories!

  • @lienpham211
    @lienpham211 Před 5 lety

    Thank you so much Ingrid. I have been learning english through your videos. Your stories are really interesting and your voice is beautiful too.

  • @imsokeiko
    @imsokeiko Před 5 lety

    Thanks for the Ithaca shoutout!

  • @starkidglee4ever
    @starkidglee4ever Před 5 lety +1

    Equal Grounds Coffee in Rochester, NY!

  • @cadypenrod5301
    @cadypenrod5301 Před 5 lety +3

    dang, i’m upstate for another week or so. i wish i coulda gone to the city 😤😖

  • @alexb.3279
    @alexb.3279 Před 5 lety +5

    This makes me so happy!! 💛 I love all this pride month content🥰

  • @marissalasoff-santos6157

    Aut Bar in Ann Arbor, Michigan! They also have great food, not just drinks.

  • @klabeck1097
    @klabeck1097 Před 5 lety

    Thank you for this. So very much. I don't drink and although bars are fun & all it does feel like they're the only option if you want to hang with Family. I'm going to check out that bookstore this weekend! I work in BK, as well. Seriously, thanks Ingrid~K

  • @Narnendil
    @Narnendil Před 5 lety

    The blue bag in the back of the car towards the end of the video - I have the same one! :D I bought mine in Osaka, Japan, a few years back.

  • @queersilver
    @queersilver Před 5 lety

    Since you seem to live/enjoy being in Brooklyn, Clover Club is a great brunch and cocktail bar.

  • @leakhoury1882
    @leakhoury1882 Před 5 lety +4

    Love u ❤❤❤❤🏳‍🌈🏳‍🌈🏳‍🌈🏳‍🌈

  • @themmarae
    @themmarae Před 5 lety

    Great video! One of my favourite local places is Little Jo Berry’s in Ottawa, Canada! 🇨🇦

  • @EmiliaBenavides
    @EmiliaBenavides Před 5 lety

    I love this; wish someone did this for Dallas TX

  • @verrongo
    @verrongo Před 5 lety

    There is a tour called Christopher Street Tours in NYC that does LGBTQ history tours. Highly recommend.

  • @martha4157
    @martha4157 Před 5 lety

    Ingrid. I recommend Klom Khlorm in Bushwick, Brooklyn. It's a Thai restau from Bangkok. You'll see. The food is Amazing too!

  • @jencasey316
    @jencasey316 Před 5 lety

    LOVE this video! So many places to check out next time we go down to NY! I'm in Worcester, MA and we have a big Pride flag flying right by the highway most of the year (It gets replaced with a team flag during major championships if a Boston team is playing - at least if it is the Red Sox of Pats). I cant think of any specific places - but we havent been able to get out much in the last 3 years that we have lived here while my fiancee was in Vet school but she's a real Dr now so hopefully we will get out and explore more soon.

  • @tammytje1
    @tammytje1 Před 5 lety

    interesting video! Love from Belgium !

  • @pacodelrey
    @pacodelrey Před 5 lety

    Inspiring and thoughtful content❤️🏳️‍🌈

  • @molly_lf
    @molly_lf Před 5 lety +2

    I incredibly loved this video, especially for the vibes that you give to your audience ❤💛💚💙💜 thank you 😘
    Ps. Even if it has nothing to do with the video 😂 can I ask where you got your shirt?

  • @lagabrielaa
    @lagabrielaa Před 5 lety

    Loved this video Ingrid :)

  • @justarandomindividual4110

    Honey I wish you didnt have to specifically create a community for your gender😔 Our humanity needs ti grow the fuck up already. Great video - straight- me would also visit these ❤️

  • @rainbowkidbreylon2208
    @rainbowkidbreylon2208 Před 5 lety +4

    I like your video when you came out of the closet. That’s one of the bravest things you can do

  • @hlox9
    @hlox9 Před 5 lety

    Love your videos

  • @meganmccarty5547
    @meganmccarty5547 Před 5 lety

    💕

  • @ChelseaSierraK.
    @ChelseaSierraK. Před 5 lety

    ✨🙌🏻💖

  • @gayandafraid_
    @gayandafraid_ Před 5 lety

    The Pride Center of New Jersey in Highland Park, NJ.

  • @jessicalazarus7524
    @jessicalazarus7524 Před 5 lety

    I have a question about the use of the word “queer” in reference to LGBTQ etc. Ingrid seems to use the word a lot these days but I recall a time when this word was considered offensive. Is that not the case anymore? I can’t help but cringe every time I hear her say it because to me it’s still defined as “weird” or “strange” etc or used as an offensive term to describe homosexual people. Does it have to do with where your from? Thoughts?

    • @firefly313
      @firefly313 Před 5 lety +2

      Queer is a word that has been reclaimed by the community, and can be used as an umbrella term and also as its own identity. It has a strong political history with the queer liberation movement, as well. I myself identify as queer.

    • @jessicalazarus7524
      @jessicalazarus7524 Před 5 lety

      Kelly.x thank you for explaining to me!

  • @joycegabriel3379
    @joycegabriel3379 Před 4 lety

    Nice to meet you,, I'm from California 29 yrs old single lesbian,, are you???

  • @theathedeathwolf4386
    @theathedeathwolf4386 Před 5 lety

    IM GOING BACK TO MY HOME CITY

  • @theunitedkingdom
    @theunitedkingdom Před 5 lety +1

    She sounds so much like Alexandria Ocasio-Cortez.

  • @TheNovelSanctuary
    @TheNovelSanctuary Před 5 lety

    BLUESTOCKINGS BOOKSTORE

  • @goodvibes-ts1lj
    @goodvibes-ts1lj Před 4 lety

    you are cute hey!and ur video are nice too;-)

  • @phoebe_272
    @phoebe_272 Před 5 lety

    I live in Crown Heights, I have been wanting to check out MeMes! I will definitely do that soon:)

  • @carlosbaello8619
    @carlosbaello8619 Před 5 lety

    PULSE community rainbow run!!!! Orlando FL

  • @maggiebranch9296
    @maggiebranch9296 Před 5 lety

    Hey Ingrid

  • @colefarina
    @colefarina Před 5 lety

    Memes cafe hehe

  • @dawn3589
    @dawn3589 Před 5 lety

    *heard you gave Natalia dirty looks*

  • @isabellelebourlegat5524

    The cheese balls looks like pão de queijo 👀

  • @sangria-margarita
    @sangria-margarita Před 4 lety

    I don’t like how you refer to lgb people like they’re a different species :/

  • @elvinjohanson5584
    @elvinjohanson5584 Před 5 lety

    Is there a place for straghigt ppl

    • @love4starz
      @love4starz Před 5 lety +2

      Elvin Johanson yes just step outside your home.

    • @elvinjohanson5584
      @elvinjohanson5584 Před 5 lety

      love4starz well everything i see is pride flags

    • @love4starz
      @love4starz Před 5 lety

      Hmmm don’t have time to sit here and argue with an ignorant person.

    • @elvinjohanson5584
      @elvinjohanson5584 Před 5 lety

      love4starz me ignorant it was a jk chill and why turn so fast

  • @DanFrederiksen
    @DanFrederiksen Před 5 lety +5

    Ingrid, have you ever honestly asked yourself if you were lesbian before Hannah or if Hannah manipulated you and turned you? it's a serious question you deserve to ask yourself.
    I know for certain that Swike was into guys before Hannah and never saw her show any interest in girls.

    • @linneascott6715
      @linneascott6715 Před 5 lety +24

      Hey, being manipulated or “turned” gay is not a thing! And highly inappropriate for you to be suggesting! Have a nice day and maybe never question a stranger’s identity again!

    • @DanFrederiksen
      @DanFrederiksen Před 5 lety

      @@linneascott6715 Yes it is.

    • @sfrancies87
      @sfrancies87 Před 5 lety +7

      @@DanFrederiksen based on what evidence? your own bigoted imagination? Clearly you don't have much going on in your own life

    • @sfrancies87
      @sfrancies87 Před 5 lety +4

      @@DanFrederiksen Sorry, it's pretty funny that you would accuse me of being hostile when you're attacking people on the internet! Are you a lesbian?! What kind of authority do you think you have over strangers? It's none of your business. Just because Ingrid and other youtubers share some things online doesn't mean your entitled to know anything else. Like I say, if you concentrate on your own life, this stuff won't matter to you. Good luck to you

    • @DanFrederiksen
      @DanFrederiksen Před 5 lety

      @@sfrancies87 you seem eager to make the question go away

  • @gracema2816
    @gracema2816 Před 5 lety

    Disgusting