When The Workplace Scapegoat Leaves.

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  • čas přidán 15. 11. 2023

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  • @twocents8355
    @twocents8355 Před 3 měsíci +48

    I left two scapegoating bosses to go on to greener pastures. Their suddenly pale faces when I announced my departure are priceless memories. Don't let bullies snuff your light. You can do better.

  • @dontbelongherefromanotherp9807

    One thing is for sure when the workplace scapegoat leaves, the remaining workers will turn on one another and start finding flaws amongst themselves. Everything collapses when the scapegoat exits.

  • @user-qb8qm4mp5n
    @user-qb8qm4mp5n Před 2 měsíci +25

    Workplace bullies are unremarkable. They don't really accomplish anything in their lives. They are mediocre at best.

    • @theworkplaceabuseexperts9484
      @theworkplaceabuseexperts9484  Před 2 měsíci +4

      All mediocre is giving them weight too much credit. These people are usually incredibly stupid. Absolute dummies, they have no emotional intelligence. They have no intelligence. And they have such pathetic excuses of sorry, existences that this is how they get their thrill. This is how they get their heart ones by ganging app on people and spreading gossip and rumors. Mine were a bunch of 50-year-old men that acted like seventh grade girls in the locker room. It's like, are you freaking kidding me? I wanted to say man. I don't blame them as much as I blame their stupid dads for not pulling out.

    • @theworkplaceabuseexperts9484
      @theworkplaceabuseexperts9484  Před 2 měsíci +11

      They usually target the best brightest. Smartest, most likable, prettiest or any one they feel threatened by. These are insecure pathological envious, little butt holes.

  • @singstreetcar5881
    @singstreetcar5881 Před 3 měsíci +42

    The day they ganged up on me at my work place I quit immediately on the spot
    The manager was shocked. He begged me at first to stay and I refused, then he started yelling at me while I was quitting. Lol

  • @cassieblessed6430
    @cassieblessed6430 Před 3 měsíci +22

    I was the scapegoat 😂. It was not a good feeling and I am still very much traumatized. My manager tried to get me to stay, but only because I left during a busy period and me leaving would affect the operation. I agreed to give them a week more until my colleagues refused to change shifts with me to get me to leave abruptly, so I did. My biggest regrets were I wish I stood up for myself to prevent things from getting as bad as it did and that I had resigned much earlier than I did.

    • @theworkplaceabuseexperts9484
      @theworkplaceabuseexperts9484  Před 3 měsíci +4

      I am there with you, let me know if I can help you. Podcast coming in 2 weeks. :) Be blessed. !

    • @cassieblessed6430
      @cassieblessed6430 Před 3 měsíci

      @@theworkplaceabuseexperts9484 Much appreciated. Looking forward to it!

    • @enikobenak5783
      @enikobenak5783 Před 2 hodinami

      Well, don't be too bummed out, because I did try and stand up for myself and fight the right way, but it only made things worse and I was even more deeply traumatized by it. I guess I can tell at least I tried, but it has not made anything better. If they've got their heart set on bullying you out, all they need is a couple of easily manipulated people to stand behind them and boom...you're screwed, no matter how hard you try.

  • @louiseparham-l8k
    @louiseparham-l8k Před 4 měsíci +23

    I left several jobs one after the other because I was scapegoated and treated like a halfwit. Me with 2 University degrees! It was usually a line manager with the aid of their acolytes gaslighting me. Needless to say I no longer work or ever wish to.

    • @P8860
      @P8860 Před 3 měsíci +9

      Story of me life. You can't do anything about a workplace bully but leave that job. I no longer work or wish to work either unless it's remote.

    • @kristiemao4275
      @kristiemao4275 Před 3 měsíci

      @@P8860 even remote can be bad, too. i worked for a sociopath in a remote job who believed myself and another coworker were just doing nothing. she bullied using some electronic platform (SLACK) that gave you no way to track the behavior of the leadership. i was eventually fired along with the other person she targeted within a month of my surgery.

    • @theworkplaceabuseexperts9484
      @theworkplaceabuseexperts9484  Před 3 měsíci +9

      2 University Degrees = Mindless Bullies saw you as a THREAT. Podcast coming in 2 weeks. :)

    • @lindsaywagner3555
      @lindsaywagner3555 Před 2 měsíci

      ​@@theworkplaceabuseexperts9484Thank you for your videos. I'm in Cape Town, South Africa and the same tactics are used here. I'm currently in therapy.My self-esteem has been knocked and I'm incredibly scared to head into an office right now. So I am thankfully working remotely. Thank you. ❤

  • @TuedaysChild72
    @TuedaysChild72 Před měsícem +6

    Yes, been through that, I hate offices, always full of 2 faced A-holes

    • @theworkplaceabuseexperts9484
      @theworkplaceabuseexperts9484  Před měsícem

      Every time friend every single time.By the way, I've got some podcast going on now.They're on Amazon and Spotify and some other stuff, but not on apple.I gotta figure that one out

  • @Amanda-zd7ei
    @Amanda-zd7ei Před 17 dny +3

    What I noticed is it is often your direct supervisor or HR encouraging the bullying and abuse

  • @donnaanderson9473
    @donnaanderson9473 Před 3 měsíci +13

    This happened to me… really messes with your mind. I ended getting laid off when work was slow.

  • @philu4621
    @philu4621 Před 3 měsíci +7

    They treated me like absolute crap, boss was gonna fire me in the beginning now he's asking me to rethink quitting on my way out.

  • @angelavore6705
    @angelavore6705 Před 3 měsíci +13

    ❤ my family did this to me until I ejected myself. God bless u for helping people

  • @karagraham9764
    @karagraham9764 Před 5 měsíci +14

    Maybe slow down your speaking but I definitely understand the need to rant after dealing with these assholes. Good luck with your channel

  • @Leah-i1e
    @Leah-i1e Před 9 dny +1

    Same thing as a dysfunctional family---they don't want you go leave. They need a punching bag.
    Narcissists often, but not always, get other workers to be on their team. Most people have no backbone, and are afraid of a workplace narcissist, so they go along with them. A few don't.
    Your departure will be followed by badmouthing. But you've been badmouthed all along.

    • @theworkplaceabuseexperts9484
      @theworkplaceabuseexperts9484  Před 9 dny

      @@Leah-i1e Oh my ex, co-workers are life losers these are like really bottom feeder? Beta cuckold individuals who are their father's sons. They get bad mountain me all they want, at least I can stand app when I go p***, my father was a marine. My mother was a marine. Both retired from the United States Department of Justice, these guys were related to school board members who were stealing taxpayers' money. Think about who has that edge, my parents from the United States DOJ or their parents stealing taxpayers' money, right? They just handed me all the leverage I need. I hope they do keep stalking me that way. I have a reason to send them all to prison. Not only that, once I reminded them that, they were breaking. State laws by stalking me and could quote the piano codes in contact the prosecutors. They're losers. They're life losers. They tried to Hoover me back in. I told him where to go and how to get there. They are losers I don't hang out with losers because I don't treat people like that. These disgusting diarrhea for brain's better cuckold. Low level bottom feeders. LOL now you know high feel, but I've dedicating my channel to helping people.So there's something good that came out of this.

  • @rosediddynorelation4824
    @rosediddynorelation4824 Před 8 měsíci +16

    Thanks for the video just experienced this.

    • @theworkplaceabuseexperts9484
      @theworkplaceabuseexperts9484  Před 8 měsíci +9

      I'm sorry you had to deal with that, you didn't deserve it, but just understand one thing if there's anyone thing I need you to know and I need you to know it's not your fault. It wasn't your fault. I had nothing to do with you and had everything to do with these sociopathic c*** for brain bullies.

    • @annastone5624
      @annastone5624 Před 22 dny

      Love this reply!! 💖💖

  • @ReluctantLion
    @ReluctantLion Před 3 měsíci +8

    Start recording the bullies

    • @theworkplaceabuseexperts9484
      @theworkplaceabuseexperts9484  Před 3 měsíci +3

      It depends on your state if you're gonna record the bullies without their knowledge. It has to be a one party consent state. Other states are 2 party consent which means you can't legally record the bullies without them knowing about it. I live in Texas and that's a one party consent. So I'm good, so check on your state laws. You should be able to find that on the internet.

  • @Xplreli
    @Xplreli Před 5 dny

    Love the energy 😂

  • @some2l9
    @some2l9 Před 3 měsíci +3

    I love you, man. This was what I went through in my first job…and first family so to speak.

    • @theworkplaceabuseexperts9484
      @theworkplaceabuseexperts9484  Před 3 měsíci

      Love you too man, sorry you went through this. Let me know if I can help. Starting a Podcast in a few weeks. :)

    • @some2l9
      @some2l9 Před 3 měsíci

      @@theworkplaceabuseexperts9484 No, it doesn't seem like you could help me. I don't need it for one thing; I have enough and have healed enough for the moment, rather, I would advise you to come into further control of your emotions and address the pain under all these empty but marginally helpful theatrics. Podcasting is a way many resort to, so you know, to teach what they don't know, and act like they know it at a deep level and are past the concerning psychological hurdles and are the experts. ...
      I say this in love of the faithful Brethren-It doesn't bode-well.
      Help yourself first, though your videos are quite high in merit.
      Do not be merely intellectual and righteous in these matters.

  • @diegobenelli3470
    @diegobenelli3470 Před 3 měsíci +6

    Nailed it

  • @peachberryblue295
    @peachberryblue295 Před 3 měsíci +2

    The law codes numbers is BRILLIANT! 👍🏼😁

    • @theworkplaceabuseexperts9484
      @theworkplaceabuseexperts9484  Před 3 měsíci +2

      Thank you. I'm just trying to help people. Nobody deserves this disgusting behavior podcasts coming out in a couple of weeks. Be patient with me and I'm gonna start writing a couple of books. Hopefully, I can get you guys on. Maybe you could join me on a podcast. Let's, let's raise awareness of this disgusting behavior let's go after the bad guys all of them.

    • @theworkplaceabuseexperts9484
      @theworkplaceabuseexperts9484  Před 3 měsíci +2

      Thank you, peach. I went through a year and a 1/2 where I got fascinated with studying law. I wish I had more time to do it aunt but I'd better least now. I know how to read statutes and cases. Made some friends who were lawyers that? I haven't talked to in a while and there's a lot of good information on CZcams. There's a free law course class on the great courses. If you buy that so yeah, just became a thing with me. I'm tired of these bullies. I'm gonna I'm going after the bad guys. I'm starting a podcast in a couple weeks. So keep an eye out for it. If you're interested and go get me some more subscribers. This is a cancer and people are really getting hurt because of this stuff and I want to try to I want to try to call this evil out for what it is and. Do what I can to deter it. Thank you so much for your support. It means a lot.

    • @peachberryblue295
      @peachberryblue295 Před 3 měsíci

      @@theworkplaceabuseexperts9484 You're doing an excellent job, please keep it up. I'll be looking forward to your podcast. Please try to upload it on Spotify or even here on youtube. I can't promise big followers from my networks since I'm more on the introvert side, but I'll do my best to spread the word on your amazing work!

  • @DRHightower
    @DRHightower Před 2 měsíci +3

    I was recently the scapegoat. Terminated for discussing pay inadequacies with coworkers.
    I have an attorney and recordings of everything. I hope the learn a lesson.

    • @theworkplaceabuseexperts9484
      @theworkplaceabuseexperts9484  Před 2 měsíci

      I don't think.
      It's even legal to stalk.
      Employees from discussing pay. I think companies like to threaten people with that all the time. You can't discuss pay but I don't think that's even legal if I'm remembering my employment law and labor law. It's been a while since I've looked at it. No I didn't go to law school this claimer but I did self-study law as a hobby for 1.5 years and I really, really enjoyed it. Especially the labor and employment law and First Amendment law. Yeah, I made friends on an online site that were lawyers. I learned from them. They mentored me. I went through online courses, but they're so much. Information out there.I couldn't keep up with it all.I used audio books.The great courses, friends that were lawyers.Anything, I could use to help people from being bullied at work.Thanks for being on the page and thanks for supporting my work.It's truly truly appreciated.I'm starting a podcast in about 2 weeks and I'm writing a book.So be patient with me.I hope most of them set up a Patriot.I'm trying to build an Empire to rise up against this evil vile dog vomit.I need all the soldiers in this cause I can get

    • @theworkplaceabuseexperts9484
      @theworkplaceabuseexperts9484  Před 2 měsíci +3

      Oh, you were the scape goat.I'm gonna guess at this when you were probably good at your job.Smart person probably well liked.Somebody got jealous.Somebody got insecure and you became a target.You were a little different.You marched to the beat of your own drum.You weren't a dumb dumb that fit in with the mindless masses.And so you know you had to you had to be targeted because you couldn't be Mediocre

    • @theworkplaceabuseexperts9484
      @theworkplaceabuseexperts9484  Před 2 měsíci

      The paying adequacies It was probably something they were doing.They weren't supposed to be and you called them out on it.Yeah , criminals kind of hate it when you

    • @DRHightower
      @DRHightower Před 2 měsíci

      @@theworkplaceabuseexperts9484 you hit it all on the head. My attorney says it's a slam dunk because of how well we (multiple employees) documented everything. They even put it in document form to have us sign. Lol. It's so stupid it would be funny if it wasn't happening to me.

    • @theworkplaceabuseexperts9484
      @theworkplaceabuseexperts9484  Před 2 měsíci

      @DRHightower Oh, bullies are definitely stupid. Thanks for affirming my legal analysis. I like to know I still have my chops LO. L tell your attorney that I'm working on learning that stuff Because I think it's awesome and I want to help people. In fact, have him check out my channel. He might get a kick out of it or a laugh out of it LO. L plus it's good to help him understand the psycho. Social dynamics of this garbage. Anyway, I work for a school district that actually literally threatened us in writing and what they were asking us to do was illegal. I used to talk to a lawyer friend Of mind sort of an online buddy.I made on one of those lawyer sites and he was really in the first amendment law He went to law school because he wanted to win political fights on the internet.L , o , l , but he had to pay the bills , so he got into Corporate law. He told me the number of Times he almost had to sue school districts because of the blatantly stupid Things that the bullies and power would do was ridiculous.They were so legally Stupid and entitled. So yeah, I used to work for school districts that did illegal things in writing all the time.They're dumb AF. Bullies always are. Definitely keep in touch and let me know how It goes.

  • @rm1498
    @rm1498 Před 2 měsíci

    Very informative video, keep up the good work 👍👍👍

  • @peachberryblue295
    @peachberryblue295 Před 3 měsíci +1

    Came from the algorithm
    Impressed by the awareness
    Going to the about to know more 😉😉

  • @v4756nb1rs
    @v4756nb1rs Před 26 dny

    I feel this. Big time.

  • @AnnaRobertson-mu3sh
    @AnnaRobertson-mu3sh Před 3 měsíci +1

    Thank you. You're funny

    • @theworkplaceabuseexperts9484
      @theworkplaceabuseexperts9484  Před 3 měsíci

      LOL Thanks, I think, hahaha. I just can't stand loser bullies ( I have always been a bit of a sarcastic humorist) LOL

  • @deltabravo9903
    @deltabravo9903 Před 3 měsíci +1

    Thank you

  • @isabellapersichetti5101
    @isabellapersichetti5101 Před 2 měsíci

    I love this guy. you should do a video with HRH Collection you guys would have a great covo

    • @theworkplaceabuseexperts9484
      @theworkplaceabuseexperts9484  Před 2 měsíci +1

      I'll check it out. Thanks for the suggestion. Thanks for being a supporter. I really appreciate it and I'm very sorry. You're having to go through this. Help me build this channel. I'm starting a podcast in a couple of weeks and I'm writing a book. People are getting hurt. This doesn't work for me. Nobody deserves this. This needs to stop this is vile. This is evil. This is horse crap. And thank you for the kind compliments. It is truly appreciated. Wait till you see my next track. You're gonna love this? I'm gonna put up a list of employment lawyers online to give clients ideas. I studied law on my own as a hobby for 1.5 years and I got pretty nasty with it made a lot of friends that were lawyers and started learning tricks of a trade. For example, if your boss hits you that's a salt and battery, whether the company supports you or not whether you lose your job, he could be charged if he gets in your desk and steals your private property. That's larceny, that's a theft. If they put things in your food there's more than one way to skin a cat. You think that I didn't come from a military family and studies sun sues art of war I'm going after the bad guys. I'm sick of it.

  • @aprilmg7072
    @aprilmg7072 Před 17 dny

    You don't know?! You're supposed to be the experts 😢