Show this to your Parents if you want to live your life your way | Honest Talk #8
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Honestly speaking
99% students watching
1% parent's watching
E hello i am also watching this
Yea true
0.1
Reality
Ananya singh it's 0%
my parents - you can do whatever you want.
me -good
parents - so what do you want to choose bio or maths ; )
😂
Relatable😂😂😂😂
😂😂😂
Bhai
damn relatable but maths lene ke baad bhi sirf engineering hi kar sakte ho aur khalta hain
Parents:- Aaj kal ke bacche bahut nikamme hai
Aman sir:- Pala kisne hai
😝😝😛😛
It's a real serious issue mann!!
@@arshpreetkaur3831 I know it is very serious but that first line was too good 😆
lol.. agar kuch aacha kare toh kahenge baccha kiska hai and galti kare toh ..yeh mene toh nhi sikhaya tujhe,aise gunn kaha se aagaye tujhme ..lol
@@arunagupta2422 sad reallity 😫
@@arpitgupta5545 ab kya hee kr sakte hai
Cried 4 times while watching this.
But yeah, can't show this to my parents.
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Edit: Thanks for the likes! It means we aren't alone.
Please tell me
@@carls389 kya
Exactly 🙌 and tomorrow is my neet
@@amanamohammed Mine too. All the best! 😁
@@kritikamargadarshini2866 yupp are you prepared and confident about cracking a med seat😬
The worst fact is that i cant even show it to my parents 🥺🥺
Literally
And this is really sad 😩
That's why you are watching this video before your parents.
Same here😭😭
Faida h nhi hai na bhai... Unke pass koi na koi bahana hota h hai unko sahi proof krne ka... Aur agar na ho toh yah toh emotional blackmail kr denge (jisse actually Hume fark toh nhi parta mgar pata hota hai ki bol k faida nhi & manenge nhi) ya toh gussa kr denge tab toh Baat h khtam
Other parents: learn from your mistakes.
Indian parents: don't make mistakes.
Absolutely correct 👍
Students are struggling...a lot!!!!!!!!!
@Ritish Bhajri Yes they do. Indians never needed mother's day and fathers day. It's a concept of west because western people don't even respect their parents and let me tell you it's a problem of society and not the problem of parents. Don't blame parents
@@snehabharti763 @sam_tyagii ( check my insta Id)
@@achyuththouta6957 right sahi bols
Our generations as parents will be best because we will understand them.
@not my name they thought, we'll remember
But you can't stop everyone from having kids right 😂
@Kartik Raj I'm gonna have kids, adopted but still
Nope upcoming generation would be more Stubborn 😂 they won't listen to us easily as nowadays when we listen of such painful crimes by non adults and they are not even guilty... Shows how terrible is going to be upcoming situation
@@AnanyasinghIit2021 honestly, depends on how our generation raises them..... Also, there's a certain way to speak to kids. If they feel like they're being ordered, of course they're not gonna listen! And believe it or not, most parents orders their kids not advise them.....🤷
Our generation will definitely be good parents!💯😌
Yes
Yes sure
True
How true 👍👏
Like fure sure
100% Reality...
Sir, Your Children will be the happiest ones.
Maybe not
@@shahzebali9747 LOL..XD***😂😂😂😂😂😂
@@thegamingsoul831I'm not joking, we really don't know what mentality would his children be having, so we can't say they'd be grateful.
@@shahzebali9747 YES. TRUE !!!
Also beast boy shubh children's will be happiest ones
It's sad that I'm watching this to learn how to be a good parent in the future instead of showing this to my parents because you know Indian parents.
I bet our generation as parents will be the best because they understand stuff.
To the person reading this, I hope you achieve what you really wish for, have a great day! ✨
Mochiiii🥺💜
Really
Same Here
True....we know the suffering we went through
Yes
1k dislikes is by parents who dont want to listen
Yes
exactly. You are right.
Facts.
@@BinodTharu-Official binod 😂
Yes bro
After watching this, I tried to talk to my parents about how alone I feel but then they just changed the topic to my grades and started comparing me to others. This is the main reason I don't talk to my parents about any of my problems. I just feel like I wanna run away anywhere out this place 😔
Edit - Glad to be relatable to so many friends 😀 . But still the reality can't be changed 😕
Lemme tell you this straight away bro.... maximum parents don't care...only very few parents learn about parenting..so the fact is that they don't care... please visit a therapist if possible, if not, then try online sessions...now a days strangers can understand and motivate you way more that your parents...I'm telling this from experience...
If you can just repay then money...then they will be happy...this is the truth..
@@sushreeswain1554 that's the hittin truth bro breaks ma heart wish I'd knew from start
They want money 💰 , comfortable life fir us they don't want us to struggle
Doin or joining a private business is bad (they think )
Because we will fail or we can get fired and that's where struggle comes most of the successful people have failed , fired up but they got what they wanted (sucess)
"IF YOU BELIEVE IN YOUR SELF YOU CAN ACHIEVE ANYTHING IN LIFE LITERALLY ANYTHING "
Man that's it but our parents think
"IF YOU FOLLOW SHARMA JI KA BETA YOU'LL GET EVERYTHING"
If your parents say the 1 one you're lucky but mine are always like the 2nd one I feel sorry for myself but I can't help myself I just can't I also wanna run out of ma home but I ain't got a plan and ma dad he just trusts me as I'm the eldest kid still a teen I just love him more than myself so it's kinda not kinda it's literally hard to say that I dont wanna ACHIEVE what Sharma ji ka beta ya beta ACHIEVE,
BUT I KNOW one day I'm gon be a good mom next generation 💯 will be the best inshallah
Let's hope for the best and live before we die
@@__heartbeat__2635 yeah bro.....thats why I say that always finish college and then do your passion...in that way your parents will be happy and also you will be happy
@@sushreeswain1554 yes thnks a lot yar !
@@__heartbeat__2635 😊
Explaining to my parents that I love somebody and want to do things my way.
Dad: Zyada BADA ho Gaya hai
Finally ek mere Naam wala bhi mil gya
ye ekdum shi baat khi same with my dad zyada bda hogya
@@samridhchandel871 Bhai log.. jab hum bare ho jaaye aur humare Bache ho... Toh unke sath esa nahi karenge
@@SatisFire6677 sahi bola bhai
@@SatisFire6677 Yeah
I said to mom : Mummy yahan aao ye dekh lo
i knew the response and also she gonna get offended
She said: itna time nii hai mere paas
😂
🤣🤣🤣🤣same yaar
Sbke sath yhi hota hai
Same here
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Or mae bol ah nah phone he band ho jah yae gah 😅🥺🥺
My eyes are full of tears right now.....
They will never understand 💔
this is another harsh truth
Yae✌can't give freedom
Saare Indians ki sooch pinjre mein baandh hai, hum tab tak azaad nahi ho sakte jab tak hamari sooch azaad nahi hogi.
Exactly
That's reality
if i become parent i will never compare my child with neighbour's child
becoz i feel it 😢😢
Next generation will be saved from so much drama
me to 😥😭
Showing this to my parents.
Parents show their ego.
Correct!!
They'll never understand. Sad
ikr ):
Army??
Oui :)
Aman: told this video to parents for watching
But I can guarantee , can't even convenience parents to watch this video.......
My mom and dad are really good...my mom says...do whatever but I'll be the assistant 😂. ..my father never tells a word related to this topic....I'm so blessed .
congrats
😭
I literally started crying while watching this vid. That there’s someone who understood me ....
So true bro
Yes bro
Bro too bhi dekhta hai kabhi kabhi aman ko
Yes bro😢
Riya Khatana I agree with you
I was just crying alone in my dark room coz of my toxic parents who never understand me n the fact that I’m just 20 days away from my finals (I’m in grade 12) n my prep is still 0 coz I can’t focus on studies with depressed mind but then luckily found this vid n I’m so surprised how he just spitted facts that I can relate to- HUGE RESPECT TO THIS MENTOR 🙌 hope it’ll help me a lot n lots of love from Pakistan 🇵🇰💚
Me too
Bro, I have grew a habit of not crying because my father scolded me for being a crybaby too many times.
And now, they say, you aren't emotional. My teachers are like, he doesn't have any gratitude or respect for others.
Honestly, I am sick of this.
Yesterday was my result and i got 95.27% and my parents still expected more than this😔they are never satisfied
You should let them know that they are demotivating you in a ignorant way and you should tell them it is not easy to get such high marks....I think they'll understand that sometime. Be happy😊😊
Congret for the amzing marks ..which class are you in 10 or 12 th ?
That's terrible 😞
You did a great job. ❤️❤️
@@rayaanaaryan2684 8th
I like the system in america where parents don't expect anything from their kids , they just want them to have a work dosen't matter how much you earn or what you do. Just want you to be happy
true so true
I also appreciate thems but if there child will be in bad company they don't care
@shaury singh yep here it is very hell in India
@@short_buddy105 Indian kids under parents supervision have more bad company than American kiddos having little supervision
@@devjitmondal47 Yes maybe
Today's Society (old) : - Are yaar...Ajj Kal ke Bache Bht Nikame Hote hai🥴
Aman : - Achaa...Paala Kisne hai..?!
Me : - Savage🔥
I Know you will be the best father bcz you really understand children, we poor children need more people like you.
thankfully the next generation will have a different mindset, especially those who have access to internet
@@iware7085 bro truth is that every generation thinks like this, but they end up being toxic 😭
There is only u bhaiya who understand the feelings of students. Otherwise, other people forgets that they too were children 😔-_-||
My mom and dad are really good...my mom says...do whatever but I'll be the assistant 😂. ..my father never tells a word related to this topic....I'm so blessed
Great line mam "forgets that they too were children
@@prajna-satheeshbs4519 AGE
@@lovedietfood yea, exactly
@@devansh1802 true
Thank you , bhaiya.... More of these please...."Children are products, parents are investors."- Totally relatable...
Yep!
Aree pratik Biro Kaisa hai
I SHOWED THIS TO MY PARENT'S
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NOW I'M NOT THEIR CHILD
🤣
😂😂
Lol
😂😂
🤣🤣
I don't want to live, but couldn't end my life.
When i made my parents to watch this video...
Le my parents*
Abey padhai likhai karlo😤
🐕🦮😂😂
Age mai complete mai kardeta hu ..... Abey padhai likhai karo, IAS YAS bano😂😂😂😂😂😂
@@avinashkashyap1832 uske aage mat ja bhai 😂😂
@@avinashkashyap1832 but mujhe to ips banna hai and main ek girl ho to parents bolte hai jada se jada teacher bano varna gharme rahu 😭😭
@@avinashkashyap1832 I am obsessed with songwriting. But whenever I write a song and share my happiness with my dad he just thinks it like a competition. I mean for me it's a way to express myself. For him it's a way to impress his friends by sending it. So whenever I write song a little bit he just pressurise me to just finish it fast so that he can send it, even scolds me to finish it even if my mental health is not well. Due to this i stopped writing. Bcs he always keeps saying me:" live to impress people and make us proud. "But l want to live a best life express myself " l live for cause not for applause he doesn't understand
Sir I don't even have the courage to show this video to them....😭😭
Lekin mai phodungi sir....🤘🤘
You can do it sis🤘
Same here
Same..iske baad bh NH samjhenge...Ulta ques krne lagenge...Accha to abhi tk kya Kiya...they will go in past
Same bcz they can never understand me inside out.....but I just focus on my goal and ignore the ones who are obstacles in my path.....
@@aishwaryathakur7768 absolutely true same would happen here
He will definity become a top most motivational speaker for all generation soon 🙏 .R u Agree🤔
Comment how much time he will take ...
Summary: Give your parents money, they will not stop you.
Harsh Truth 😓😞
So true
Right😭😭😭😭
Girls k liye earning b difficult h
@@manjotkaur3844 aisa soch soch ke hi izzat girane ki koshish karo tum, apni izzat bnani padti hai
@@resilientcerebrum sadak pr mazdoori thodi krni h ab 🤣🤣
Aman Bhaiya is just rocking with his "Honest talks" ❤️❤️❤️
Pls subscribe to my channel 🙏😇😇😇😇🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏" Intrepid Warriors"
Really
5:53 gosh this is exactly the point !!
we're dependent on them financially... if only we can earn and show them we are earning they will allow us to do something different...
Financial earn kar sakte hai..but vo bhi karne denge..running away...ek ghar bhi rent karne ko nahi milega..vahi to problen hai..raste main thodi naa so sakte hai😓😓
Yes
so true
That is my exact question. How the hell would I even earn?
Same situation happening wid me ;(
Openness, acceptance, clarity, is highly needed in Indian society!!!
My mom and dad are really good...my mom says...do whatever but I'll be the assistant 😂. ..my father never tells a word related to this topic....I'm so blessed
Just fk the society, and move on!!
@@prajna-satheeshbs4519 that's nice, my father was too like that
@@prajna-satheeshbs4519 I wish I was that lucky
Tbh we are in a severe need of good education system & JOBS! You can't even get a job that easily nowadays. Kaha se aayega fir source of income? Aur kaha se ham banenge independent?
No words for my dad he is just destroying my life , just crying and crying sitting alone😭😭
Earn by yourself and just leave your house... Live alone
@@youtuber9744 I wish
@@smile-cy6ld what wish? Agar khudke hisaab se jeena hai toh kamana toh padega naa.... Baap pe depended ho toh baat sunni padegi... Koi bhi choti moti job dhoondlo naa
My college attandence will be 💯 percent if he become my class teacher...
😂😂
Ohh
😅😅😅
lawl
Directioner!!! Hey fam!!
I showed this to my parents, they said 'kehna asan hai' . Lol very difficult to communicate with parents.
But thanks alot.
Yep ! Same here😁
Parents are real savage
😂😂😂
Yeah
Our gernation will be coolest parents 😂
I showed this video to my parents
Now: I am on road typing this comment 😅😅
police call karle kehra hu
1098
😂😂😂😂
bro mask pehna hai na? XD
😂😂😂
It's 💯% true i really hate my home 🏠 environment bloody depressed ,stressed, torture ... Feels like Dual + ignorant parents (gave burth to dull generation)💔
“Dream is not that which you see while sleeping it is something that does not let your sleep.” -- APJ Abdul Kalam
Dude face the reality already. We need time to execute that dream . Which is 82% wasted by doing useless assignments given by school. 😂😂😂😂
@@dd.2049 Mummy se krwalo😂
True.....
It's impossible in India to turn your dream in to reality....only few will make it😂
me : giving speeches while nobody is listening
Giving speeches about parenting and school system even though I ain't a parent kinda strange 🙂
@@abhijithp2116 yes sb ias karenge India main jaise aur koi option hai hi nahi
after watching this with my parents . i had one hour lecture
RIP the courage u took but luckily I am not a cracked pot haha
But seriously if had done so I would have met the same fate
RIP The courage
What happened next
So basically they did the same thing, they didn’t listen 🤡😭
Koi ni apne baccho ko freedom de dena 🥲
I am depressed bcoz of my parents my dad scold me for i left half of my maths final exam i am sacred that what my dad will do to me if the result is not good . Everytime i cry alone and want to know why i was born i ask god to give me a disease that i can die because i am afraid of suicide . I want to go to korea and wantvto become a kpop idol but when i asked my dad he scolded me very hard he said only focus on studies get good score i want you to become a officer . He even compares me with my classmates he comes first and i come second or third rank it feels to depressed i got too much headache many times
Maths practice kro bhai suru se toh mehnat ki ni aab kya maths means practice mae bhi weak tha fail bhi hua hun maths me aab ni aab practice krte krte aab mere 90 95 marks aane lge...tum bhi kro mehnat
Koi tumhe scold ni krega 😎🔥
@@sumitvasishtha9095 bhai log phir bhi karenge scold bolenge exam mein cheating karke pass hua ye phir tumhe career mein taanenge phir surat leke phir har cheez mein
@@hellobrainless693 toh tum logo ki sunte ho khud ki ni zara sa dimag se kam lo aagat koi tumhe black african se shaadi krne bolenge bhar ke log tum to unki baat ni manoge fiir isme kyu bhot ch kisim ke admi ho.😂😂
Same bro I waana become a international music producer like avichii or marshmallow but i dont have the balls to say anything to my parents becoz unka ek reply hi aata hai ki hamne tereko paala possa hai abb aage tu haame aaraam ki zindagi dega. Yeh producer wagera chodd aur IIT IIM try kar
Seriously bro....you're trying to escape from the real world....I just want you to rehabilitate yourself to start thinking about yourself again....more power to you🙌
THE CHILD DIDN'T CHOSE TO BORN THE PARENTS DID, CHILD OWES NOTHING TO US (parents) BUT WE OWE EVERYTHING TO OUR CHILDREN!
Wow atleast some parent understands
yeh bat elon musk n boli thi ju sabse ameer hai bro kyuki usse pta hai hai ki uske bacho ka future secure hai . humare parents din raat kerke ache school m padhate hai or usne apne bacho k liy alag school banva diya
A child understands a parents feeling they are ready to do anything for their parents the child give parents emotional support the parents don't they treat kids like product humbe to janam leke paap kardiya
@@BEAST_69 mere daddy bole aaj ki mai 3 time ka khana khilata hu 😭😭😭😭😭 it hurts yaar
@@op-X_solutions another starwberry world wale log. ye baat usne boli think hai par ye usne tab sochi hogi jab woh duniya ka sabse ameer banda nhi hoga aur uske baccho ka future secure bhi nhi hoga. tujhe pata bhi hai elon musk kitna niche se upar aya. failures pe failure leker ajj woh successful hua hai. toh aisi soch rakhna band karo. forcefull parents are always wrong
I'm 17 years old now, just completed my 12th, now, when i turn back, i see nothing more than myself going to school or college, returning back to home evening, and complete my homework, do my preparation stuff for the next day's test, have dinner and sleep.....friends to me, were confined to the school....the place where i live is so congested with houses surrounding....even afraid to play on the terrace thinking that the ball would possibly fall onto the road. so i simply used to roam around instead of playing any major sport...besides, i would hardly find any time to indulge in any other activities......And now, with the whole country in lockdown and people getting dizzy with their free time......i, who was striving to get myself out of these wretched books and all, now,.......................................................................................is still forced to read, read and read.....coz i have my entrances to prepare for!
(unlike what my words may imply, i'm just an average student, a frustrated one in the true sense.) :-(
😳😳 are you the 2nd version of me?? I was so shocked! This is the same as my life!!
Sm here 😳😳😳😳😳.
Relatable bro!
Dude are you stalking me.....
Maiko bus mai hoon
His speed of speaking is increasing day by day.
That's called confidence he gained through love
Aisa hi chalta raha toh he will surpass Eminem in 1 year
It is inversely proportional to the growth of Indian education system.
I watched in 2x 😂
lol he increases his video speed to 1.5X while editing. itni tej to technical guruji intro me bhi nahi bol pate aman bhaiya 20 min kese bolege soch k to dekho
I showed this to my parents
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Their reaction....👇👇👇
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.Yeh sab faltu hai. Ja padh
Itne likes mrko kabhi nahi aaye thank
You all of you
Bro plz give me the email address of Aman Dhattarwal Bhaiya
😂😂😂😂
Sahi mai parents yahi bolte h
Parents ko kuch fark nhi padta Shi mai
sahi kehra h
I am in 11th standard. And I don't know why, I just cried 3 times while watching this video...
Edit - 12th about to end..
Same with me doing neet
@@avengersfanclub6367 I want to say something on your comment but I'm speechless🙂
Same with me but I'm in 10th🙂
@@ididntasktobeborn5240 exactly with me!!😭
@@avengersfanclub6367 same
Me: I don' t want to be doctor
Parents: you are a girl you can't do anything else.
Me: I can
Parents: what will your relative say??they will talk rubbish...
Our parents just think about their reputations not about our dreams
Our parents just th
Same..
You are a girl and can't do anything, NO you choose what you want to do and do what you love, love what you do tomorrow they will regret
Relatable...
Ur parents: u r a girl u can't do anything else other than doctor
My parents: u r a girl u can't to anything other than getting married and looking after your in-laws family
Just th means ?
I m in class 12 I have so much pressure sometimes i have suicidal thoughts 🙁 but parents don't understand 🙄
😭Here too🙃
There is always an Amazing Sunshine after The Dark Night 💜Remember that 😄Stay Strong and Work Hard Silently 👍Best of luck ❤
@@madhavirao4759 thankyou
@@k9kurz 😖hm
@Manisha Bisht yes u are right 😖
I literally hate my parents from inside and i never shared a single thing with them since my childhood. It's bitter but it's a fact that most of teens are depressed because of their own parents, they just expect too much from their kids and compare them to everyone 💔
Fact- my mother is studying child psychology but still doesn't understand my dream of becoming of gamer!
😶 Oops...but tbh..my parents always support me and me dreams....I hope ur parents will also understand u someday
Have you achieved anything in gaming? have you tried to educate how it all works and if how many times? Have you made any money yet coz ultimately your mum wants you to secure your future. If you didn't they how could you say that they doesn't understand you?
@@shahzebali9747 tf? You mean you can sustain your life without money? Why your parents are investing in your studies ultimately for a safe future i.e money. And I meant to say that if you are really passionate about something then you gotta show them that yes there is sufficient money and respect in my passion. You know what's the difference? By your comments, it seems you haven't ever tried to question yourself, just blame everything on others. I have been successful in convincing my parents and hence I know what I struggled with. So please don't promote your dumb knowledge to this youth without understanding the meaning of what another guy is sayin.
**Some people always loves to conflict with people**
@@DearTech You seems like another old minded person ... You will get results once you give efforts and if our parents are not allowing us to give efforts so how can you get a good result .. Update your 3rd class mind
@@hamzakazmi110 what he said is kind of right btw..but gaming is a very big industry and India can definitely because of its HUGE population do a lot good in this space
I watched this video after a huge fight with my parents
And I start crying...!
Aw I hope you're fine
Me too
Due to some reason my board copies are not checked properly and my cousin get 100 % due to which my parents always taunt me about this
@@ritikagoel641 that sucks I'm sorry. I hate it that my older brother is a topper and I'm not
Same here , my father started argument against it .
@@NidhiSharma1975_ we all can't just prove our point to our parents
Hope your are ok
Sir my father always think about my marks never ever asked about my conditions nor my mental health. Since i was born , whenever he speaks to me all he talks about is studies and stuff that to for 2 to 3 min. I want to share my thoughts freely but all i feel is fear. I was a topper in my coaching institute for neet , always getting 550 and above marks. He used to pressurise me so much that i lost my interest,my joy , my happiness that i used to feel while studying. I started getting low marks, and he started hating me. Whenever i see him,all i see is hate towards me. I used to cry so much all night. I don't know what to do. No one asks me what i feel except my mother , but she can't do anything since my father is the ruler.
Everything would be okay
I never wanted to be doctor but look now I'm in 12th pcb
I don't know what to do next but Everything would be okay
It's OK.... Everything will be fine
See girl, you are a great person, you hv got such a loving mother, and you know what your father too loves you from inside, the only fact is, he doesn't show. Trust me, he is concerned about your future, this shows, he loves you🙂. See, you are very good at studies, I am sure u will end up taking admission in a good govt medical college. More power to you, future doctor!!:) all the best
Same condition with me
Same here 😢
Request for CZcams community ..
Recommend this type of videos to parents 🥺
I think every child can relate with the intro 🙄🙋🏻♂️
My mom and dad are really good...my mom says...do whatever but I'll be the assistant 😂. ..my father never tells a word related to this topic....I'm so blessed
@@prajna-satheeshbs4519 😂😂😂
@@prajna-satheeshbs4519 😢😢😢😢
Especially the teacher's part
S and I am depressed because of this and depression is a common thing it happens to us also . Once my mother told that I am burden in this earth and it really hurts . It broke my heart. Honestly because of these things I even tried to take my life maximum 3 times but failed . What to do now I am stuck here and because of these toxic relationship with my parents . Even I became toxic with my siblings . I am really sorry they are suffering because of me.
My parents still taking it in negative way😥
Thats call indian parents😎😎😎😎😎
BUT I REALLY LOVE MY PARENTS
Same and they will say .
Dekh itne bade ho Gaye ki ab hamko sikha rahe hai
Video na dikhane me fayda hai kyuki bhale hi Sahi hai , they're never gonna take it positively but they will be like they're trying to prove us wrong .. 😭 and utlta daant aur bhadh jayegi
My Teacher had got 243 AIR in Jee Advanced (when he gave the exam) also He was getting medical college (He also got a pretty decent rank in NEET).
But his" padosi" getting IIT Bombay and AIIMS at the same time. So his father was not happy.
This is a harsh comparison, depressing and heartbreaking.
Think about what we will feel if the same will happen to us in similar ways.
True but depressing
Recently my father got expired and l am in class12 l eventually lost my focus in studies but now l have to crack my board as well as neet my mother is having various expectation s from me along with my teachers as well as relatives l am depressed
@@manishyt2438They just want that u will earn!
For earning study is not the only way...so don't get disheartened!
@@DEEPAKSINGH-cy3pi thanks bhai ❤
@@manishyt2438 Anything 👍
Parents just want that we do what they said
If we go outside for long : bhot bigad gya hai bas bahar ghumta h
If we stay at home: bass ghar me rehta h bahar jaata nhi h
If we study: no one noticed
If we take mobile: Padhai karni nhi h bass mobile me hi laga reh
Struggle sbse zyada bachhe ko karna parta jitna parents job krke bhi nhi krte humpe bhot burden h smjh nhi paa rhe 😞😞😕🥺🥺
Grand parents : ''Aaj ki bacche bahut nikamme he !!!''
Aman bhaiyya : ''Paala kisne unhe''
*savage* 😎
The Best Part - "JAO AB PHODO!"
That motivated me the most!
95% students haven't showed this to their parents😂
yup
No 99% dont show their parents 😂😂
😭😭😭
100%
True😅.... But very much willing to show them.... also have no guts to do so...
Logo ne maa baap ko bhgwan bana ke rakha hua h bhgwan sirf ek h ek the ek rahege maa baap bhi insan h bhgwan nhi baan skte kabhi bhi vo bhi toxic hote h aur Jaan se Marne ki dum bhi rakte h 😥😥😔🙏😡
Hi😊😅
Seriously this is the truth in almost every middle class family
shutup liar bastard
@@tam0w why bitch....u assholes cannot accept the truth
Hmm
@Sarthak Bhattacharjee exactly, I can feel that frustration and you know it's all about money bss paise la do ghr pe all problem solved.... 90% ppl watching this belong from middle class family.
@@niteshm1922 so true bro
I can relate
Aman in every vid: don't get distracted
me watching his vids for the past 1hr: ok
Shwetabh gangwar also said in his book - YOU are a Product 🔥
Which one? "The rudest book ever"?
@@someone1734 yeah
@@Ava-xu5ok okay, thanks
My Father wants me to become a government teacher and then go prepare for RAS.
When I told him what I want to do, he said that I don't know anything and his colleague SAID that this field is the best.
I've argued so many times but now I'm mentally tired. Can't handle this pressure. Thought of jumping off the terrace countless times but didn't do it out of fear.
I feel like a zombie now.
I'll do what he wants until I'm financially independent and then leave home to not return ever again.
Never hated my family but I can't resist anymore
Don't hate them, just don't listen to them. And live your dreams bro 🤍
Its your life not his. Do what you want, no one can force you, if you don't accept.
Same situation brother ....
@@Akash-ok7su yes
@@Aswin0x yes
He ll really make a good father.
I think most of us from this generation would make a good parent if we consider how we felt towards our parents and what we wanted from them while parenting our future child.
@@vas2.1025 even thts wht our parents did. just tht our feelings nd interests had become far to modern and wen we ll be into parenting the tech and feelings would advance evn more and henc3 the statement 'our parents would never understand us ' would again be proved
I'm 16 and currently in class 11. i would honestly say that what you told today, my dad told me this exactly when i was in class 6. well, I'm lucky :)
We'll be the first generation of coolest parents
True!!...a conscious one!
my parents are like--- "AB ye ldka Humko sikhayega humari beti k lie kya sahi h??" *throws away phone on my face* :-|
U r GOT fan😼😼
@@ankitanand3037 noo
IKR
🤣🤣🤣 pearpressure
@I'mnone You are someone
I wanna see this video on the trending page so my parents can see that too.
Indian Parents wants male
Do pcm
Do b tech
Do mba
Get good job
Get married to highest bidder
Give grandson
Work like shit
Female:
Do any stream
Do bachelors for education
Graduate
Get married to good package groom
Give grand kids
Spend your whole life raising the kids
After that
Hobbies what is hobbies
Ya sad truth. Luckily my parents aren't like that.
sorry its not that easy for females okay? i wont even get married lol where the hell will kids come from. women are fucking independant.
Dam reality
women are indipendent? wtf is this outdated mindset????
Parents have fucked us all
I wish I had supportive and understanding parents.
I wish too😭😭
Me too I also want supportive and understanding parents but I know they will never understand me😭
Same. Bro
@@pratishthashekhawat2842 same here bro 😭😭😭😭😭
Me too
I regret the fact that I have only one like to give. Wish I had more.
True bro boht sahi bola hai
Baat bilkul sahi hai
Make new gmail
Me watching the video after having fight with my father due to having less marks in all india practice test😂
Same dude😂
Well, I don't even know what to say anymore. The accuracy in his words is unexplainable. Too accurate, thank you so much, bhaiya. Letting the children do what they genuinely want to, is a sign that the parents not only understand their children but they also trust them. They allow their children to take the risk. Nothing in life can always be smooth, there will be obstacles, so even if the child wants to take the path, he/she should be let to, in that way, even if they fail, they'll at least learn something. They'll learn not to make the same mistake again, being successful or not shouldn't have anything to do with earning. This is what I genuinely feel.
Honestly I want to do fashion designing and my father and family laughed and force me to do engineering bcoz I got 90%in 10th boards
It's ur mistake bcoz u got 90..
And still u can...if u can u will
Lol same.... but i am not giving up....if i give in i know i am going to regret it for the rest of the life
i wanted to be an architect, but my dad didn't even motivate me to do it. He was like, hmmm ok ok.... And when my 12th boards came, as usual I was messed up and I just wanted what 'felt safe' at that time. That time i didnt know any better and took FUCKING Engineering!!!!! Fuck fuck! FUCKK! I spoke to my parents about a possible alternative in environmental engg but they were like, no! There is no scope in that field. Fuck the scope. I'm 25 now, studying masters in Supply chain but it was my own choice to do so. I'm not 100% enjoying it but still, it's a good learning experience for me. Lots of things to do in my future.
Rat rat ke hum sab 90 marks le aaye😥😥😥
I also want to do fashion designing but my parents asked me to study buisness management first cuz unhe ye fashion designing samajh nhi ati for them its tailor ka kam second they can't afford aur loan nhi lenge why cuz acc to dem fashion designing koi career nhi isme koi scope nhi ye sab cheeze hobby tak hi theek hai😭🤧
Exactly.. that open discussion is must between indian parents and their children.. children even feel suffocated due to lack of this discussion.. Parents must think on this... really thnks bhaiya for this amazing video..
My mom and dad are really good...my mom says...do whatever but I'll be the assistant 😂. ..my father never tells a word related to this topic....I'm so blessed
I showed this and now i m having their lecture to be listened 😩
My mom and dad are really good...my mom says...do whatever but I'll be the assistant 😂. ..my father never tells a word related to this topic....I'm so blessed
@@prajna-satheeshbs4519 these people exist ,😐
learn english first lmao
@@tanisshqgautam282 nothing to laugh about baka!
to aapka matlab sari ki sari galti maa baap ki, wahi nikamme aur sabse bade villan and hamare dusman are ye15-20 saal k doremon dekhne wale launde.. inko parents se problem start ho gayi aur amarica inke liye behtar ho gaya.. din bhar ye log instagarm pe rhte hai ladki ko ladka chahiye, ladke ko ladki chahiye, insta nahi pubg, aur jab phone band hota hai to problem hone lagti hai hattttt
Our generation will be good parents because today’s generation know how their parents treat them and they will understand how to deal with their kids in a good way.
True fact:
These dislikes are from the parents
and his haters 🌝
Haters 👿 are always there bro 😫
Dislike to hai hi nhi
@@Aman-td9nl lekin mai jab dekhi thi tab tha.. ajkal kisi video pe dislikes nahi dihte..
@@anshikajana7555 Kyunki youtube ne dislike waala button hi hata diya 😁
10:30 the golden words I will never hear
हे ब्रह्मांड के महान प्राणी, जगत रूपी कल्याण के लिए जो खबर छापी है उसके लिए मैं आपका कृतज्ञ आभारी हूं । यह खबर मिलने के बाद तीनो लोक के प्राणियों में यह होड़ मची हुई है कि इस खबर का दोहन सबसे ज्यादा कोनसे लोक के प्राणी करेंगे । मानव कल्याण हेतु यह खबर इस सदी में सर्वोत्तम स्थान रखती है । भविष्य में भी आप ऐसी खबरों से हमें अनुग्रहित करते रहे ।ये अलौकिक समाचार सुनकर तीनों लोको में बहुत प्रसन्नता है समस्त नर और नारी सुर असुर देवता मनुष्य मुनि गनधर्व प्रसन्न हुए पूरे ब्रह्मांड में उत्साह है दिव्यज्योति प्रजवालित हुई है आगे भी सृष्टि के कल्याण के हेतु ऐसा समाचार डालते रहे तकि संसार प्रकाशमय रहे ऐसी सूचनाओं को पा कर।
धन्यवाद आपका👏👏👏इतनी महत्वपूर्ण जानकारी देने के लिए धन्यवाद।आज आप अगर यह जानकारी ना देते तो देवराज इंद्र का सिंहासन हिल गया होता, धरती पर भूकंप आ गया होता।आपने इस खबर को दिखा कर पूरे मानवजाति पर बहुत बड़ा उपकार किया है।इसके लिए आपको कोटि कोटि धन्यवाद।🙏🙏
O Bhai Puri Hindi ka gyaan dal diya Hain apne toh....apko jitni shudh Hindi ati thi sarra likh diya Hain apne toh .....itni shudh Hindi parkar kahin main apni bhasha na bhul jaun.....but nice
@@swarmistachakraborty2086 😂😂😂abe tune jitna accha diya naa is commenter ko..apne aapko samajhta kya hai ve mithi katari kehta hai agar ye video naa banate to indra dev ka seat hil jata..abe pehle apne khopdi ki seat ko thik rakhe....sagi kaha..iska kathan samajhte to mujhe aankh gol gol katke padhna pada..😂😂
Thanks sweetheart .....To hard to win....
@@swarmistachakraborty2086 Haha..welcome..dear!!
Our parents created fears in childhood and now they want us to be fearless, saying you can't do anything etc... Really a biggest concern for youngsters 😥
My parents wants to know your location 😂😂
😂😂😂
🤣🤣😂😂
Exactly
😂😂😂
😂😂
Sad Reality is that there shortage of faculties, forget about the quality
sahi kehra h
So true 😔
School mein dost nehi milte.
1000℅ correct.
School mein hum log bas jealousies dekhte hain. Kon kisko piche chorega.😫😫😫😥
Shi kha 😞😞
@@besties_498 agreed.
True
Soooooo true 😥😥
Ryt
The fact is that I can't even show this to my parents..🥺🥺
When he says "pala kisne hai".i am be like " O bhai bhai"😆
I am 15 and I don't feel good asking my parents for money
Yeah same
Same.
Same
Same
Same
if i show this to my parents
my parents after listening :
oh now you want to drink alcohol and go to party at midnight huh? this is why you want me to see videos...in reality he will also send his brother to IIT and let him also suffer..you want me to accept you having bf/gfs etc, now?
(this is exact dialogue i can expect)
point is.
parents never get the point out of all they will throw a logical fallacy which we cannot counter..i know this will happen so yeah..
not going to try also..
i know my parents more than my parents know me..its ok
It's true but they're not aware they are giving such load to you. I'm myself thinking about this, and I hope I'll make them understand someday.❤️
issi wajah se nhi dikhaunga mummi ko 😣😣😣
Damn men same I thought the same after seeing this video😂😂😂
@@beyondinfinity9792 keep trying!!
its not about that they dont understand u but they want u to be succesful and so that u dont have to struggle like them so respect ur parents and always remember that sometimes while growing up youth forgets that their parents are also growing older so respect them.....
Moral of the story is "Have patience,Keep yourself calm, Do something with confidence... Matlab Kuch Ukdahro!!!"
You have to Love your parents ❤️
I love my Mom and Dad ❤️❤️❤️
Middle class students suffer the most 🤧
I wanna be a singer and I am Still struggling ...
Still convincing my parents ....
They are not listening to me 😭
They want me to be a doctor 😞
I'm really depressed 😔
Take a step dude. Start making small earnings. Pick a beat from yt, make music record it and upload it on CZcams. If you have talent and put in hard work. Money will also come on its own if you put in effort
@@nehalofficial8559 parents social hone de tb na 😶
Bro I also want to become a filmmaker but my parents are forcing to take science and do anything to make your life set first
@@theuncoolbateman3732 I too wanna be a film maker
@@substring. dude like tell them that if you score marks more than their expectations than they will have to let you open a yt channel. Find ways to convince them, make a deal with them
tanishq is so lucky to have a brother like you. thanks bhai.
You are also so lucky everybody doesn't have everything.try to focus on yourself to become a very best version of yourself
One day you become so great that you also feel you are so lucky.keep growing
@@kshitizsingh8639 thanks a lot for your kind words. i wish you the same.
My parents Be like..!!
Chal chal apne baap ko mat sikha..😂😂😂
😂😂
@@shagun4484 😁😁😁
Mera bhi
Same here😢😢😢😂😂😂😂😂😂
Same😂
Dil ke taaro ko chuu lia apne....same feeling here ..
Atleast ICSE has taught me love, humanity and human nature in its syllabus.
123 45 u r right
That's great
True(^^)
@1O310_shreya Gupta Its not exact topic like
"Love"
"Humanity"
Something like this
We studied Peoms Stories, a whole book of Dramas Written by Shakespeare
Where i got Many Life lessions With hidden quotes By famous Poets, authors and Shakespeare
Like There is one Poem i forgot the name ,there is one quote
"But when you say goodbye to this World"
"Leave Your footprints on the sands of time"
(This qoute means Do something in yout life that when you die, people Remembers you not by your name, but by your Work you did Before you died, in this world
And One more poem
"If thou must Love me"
(This poem teached me What is Love, what is true love, attracting to outer beauty is not love, this beautiful eyes noes Hairs skins
All will fade aways when time comes
And only left, would be your SouL and your love for Your partner.
Etc etc etc I learned from ICSE & ISC
Sorry Beh gaya tha Baaton mein🤤❤️😂😂
Have a Good day
@1O310_shreya Gupta
No no You are correct My School teacher Also Didnt taught me Love respect Lol these words don't Exists for them
For them, High Ranks = High respect for that candidate
I got to learn this Love respect humanity, hard work By Reading that books 🤪
Easier said than done. Through their life experiences parents have formed certain opinions, and at their age they would be quite stubborn about it.
You cannot change their opinions overnight or expect them to understand you.
So in real life it boils down to : Either they are understanding by default or you go fight your own battles...
Hey same name😆😆
Me : mom see aman vhi ka vedio and sikho kuch.
Mom : hold my belon.
ahhhhhaahaaah
*Video
I hope all of us become better parents than we have. Aman bhaiya really explained how a collective effort can create a better generation.
Just loved it
Our education system should focus on making a student efficient enough to live their life as they want
And most importantly they should make a student a lifely educated not just for grades.