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  • @LynetteAdkins
    @LynetteAdkins  Před 3 lety +172

    Hope you guys enjoy this vid! Let me know if you want to see one going into detail on the manifestation techniques that I do daily!✨

    • @anthorpology
      @anthorpology Před 3 lety +3

      I love manifestation and the law of attraction! Thank you for your tips and tricks !! X

    • @thaliahoyos6773
      @thaliahoyos6773 Před 3 lety +3

      Yes, girl! You keep coming with these great videos!

    • @LoveLaRieXO
      @LoveLaRieXO Před 3 lety +2

      You’re speaking my language! Loved this! Thank u❣️ My highest ranking video, from 4 years ago, is about Law of Attraction. The rest of my content is nothing of the sort... 😂 We are creators.

    • @danielletaylor6602
      @danielletaylor6602 Před 3 lety +1

      yes please this is very needed

    • @arat9573
      @arat9573 Před 3 lety +1

      yes please 🌞

  • @MariiZebrahead
    @MariiZebrahead Před 3 lety +419

    "Some people call it being lazy... but it comes from fear."
    This is very true. I get overwhelmed by what I need to do to be who i want, so overwhelmed that I end up putting it off and never doing it and then i end up calling myself lazy and a failure. Thanks for this video, it was a good reminder to get my butt to work lol

    • @LynetteAdkins
      @LynetteAdkins  Před 3 lety +26

      You so got this. It’s so much easier said than done but being aware of your fears give them less power over you, so the hard part is done!

    • @girlwithalens5286
      @girlwithalens5286 Před 3 lety +5

      This is SO ME.

  • @saidycedano5775
    @saidycedano5775 Před 3 lety +330

    i have been running on fear for nearly two years and it’s been effective in getting me where i need to be, but I am exhausted now.

    • @no-one00
      @no-one00 Před 3 lety +14

      That’s so true that actually works for me also to finish school work or make money

    • @LynetteAdkins
      @LynetteAdkins  Před 3 lety +39

      I so feel that. I feel like I was ‘doing things right’ but not actually stopping to see where I wanted to be until recently

    • @sashafardell_
      @sashafardell_ Před 3 lety +1

      🙏🙏🙏

  • @damondominique
    @damondominique Před 3 lety +197

    yesssss i love the point about channeling all that energy toward wishing you had what other people have and redirecting it into getting there! that's what I used to say to myself when i'd step into the gym in hollywood and be like damnnnn yall got some straight-up trophy bods...and i can get there too with this next pushup - let's go!

    • @kinderbeing
      @kinderbeing Před 3 lety +11

      Y’all should collab🌞 both of your powers are unmatched

    • @LynetteAdkins
      @LynetteAdkins  Před 3 lety +11

      Yessss I’m learning this esp with my body image/gym goals rn too!

    • @LynetteAdkins
      @LynetteAdkins  Před 3 lety +3

      @@kinderbeing 🥺❤️❤️❤️

  • @Areyannamonae
    @Areyannamonae Před 3 lety +112

    My manifestations is very...”iffy” or inconsistent. Three days where I’ve manifested 10k, or $600 in literally 24 hours and then there’s days where I’m literally on my hands and knees praying that my phone bill will get paid or that I can buy myself food. It’s not just money but relationships as well. There’s days where I’ll simply just think about someone then they’ll call me and there’s days where I’m just like...God, why am I single.

    • @mylifeasjessio
      @mylifeasjessio Před 3 lety +1

      it's astrology. good days and bad days

    • @romitsu968
      @romitsu968 Před rokem

      Yeshua(Jesus) the Christ loves you! Praise YHWH El Shaddai and may He bless you! Christ is the King of kings and Lord of lords!
      (YHWH - the LORD) (El Shaddai - God Almighty)
      To those who haven’t; Repent of your sins and believe on the Adon Jesus the Christ, believe in your heart that He has died for your sins and rose from the tomb on the third day and you shall receive the Holy Spirit of God and He shall dwell within you. You shall be saved. Be baptized in the name of the Father, the Son, and the Holy Spirit!
      -
      Jesus the Christ loves you, praise YHWH our Elohim
      -
      Evidence for Jesus Christ’s existence, crucifixion, and disappearance from the tomb (He rose from it):
      The Lord Jesus Christ did exist, gathered disciples, and was crucified and went missing from the tomb. To argue about wether He was taken from the grave or rose from it, is an argument a skeptic can make. Because well if you disregard the eye witness testimony of the disciples and there willingness to die for Christ, and humans won’t die for something they know is a lie, when Peter is pinned upside down to that cross, he could have said that it was a fake, but He didn’t because it wasn’t, what care would he have about death in this world if he knew for a fact he had assurance of a life in another, Jesus Christ did rise from the tomb and is the King of Kings and Lord of Lords. Now the evidence for the Lord Jesus Christ’s existence really isn’t hard to find a multitude of non-Christian scholars and historians mention Him within 150 years after the time of His life. One such is Tacitus a Roman historian who reported on emperor nero’s decision to blame the Christians for the fire that had destroyed rome in 64 AD. Tacitus wrote:
      “Nero fastened the guilt ... on a class hated for their abominations, called Christians by the populace. Christus, from whom the name had its origin, suffered the extreme penalty during the reign of Tiberius at the hands of ... Pontius Pilatus, and a most mischievous superstition, thus checked for the moment, again broke out not only in Judaea, the first source of the evil, but even in Rome…”
      In this Tacitus makes reference to not only Christians, but Christ calling Him Christus and confirming the Gospels going on to say that He suffered the extreme penalty (crucifixion) under the reign of Tiberius and by the sentence of Pontius Pilate, which like I said confirms the Gospels narrative.
      Another important source of evidence about Jesus and early Christianity can be found in the letters of Pliny the Younger to Emperor Trajan. Pliny was the Roman governor of Bithynia in Asia Minor. In one of his letters, dated around A.D. 112, he asks Trajan's advice about the appropriate way to conduct legal proceedings against those accused of being Christians. Pliny says that he needed to consult the emperor about this issue because a great multitude of every age, class, and sex stood accused of Christianity. At one point in his letter, Pliny relates some of the information he has learned about these Christians:
      “They were in the habit of meeting on a certain fixed day before it was light, when they sang in alternate verses a hymn to Christ, as to a god, and bound themselves by a solemn oath, not to any wicked deeds, but never to commit any fraud, theft or adultery, never to falsify their word, nor deny a trust when they should be called upon to deliver it up; after which it was their custom to separate, and then reassemble to partake of food - but food of an ordinary and innocent kind.”
      This passage provides a number of interesting insights into the beliefs and practices of early Christians. First, we see that Christians regularly met on a certain fixed day for worship. Second, their worship was directed to Christ, demonstrating that they firmly believed in His divinity. Furthermore, one scholar interprets Pliny's statement that hymns were sung to Christ, "as to a god", as a reference to the rather distinctive fact that, "unlike other gods who were worshipped, Christ was a person who had lived on earth." If this interpretation is correct, Pliny understood that Christians were worshipping an actual historical person as God! Of course, this agrees perfectly with the New Testament doctrine that Jesus was both God and man.
      You may have heard of the scholar Flavius Josephus who mentioned James as being the brother of the Lord Jesus Christ, which matches what Paul said calling James “The Lord’s brother” and there is another document that Josephus may have written which goes:
      “About this time there lived Jesus, a wise man, if indeed one ought to call him a man. For he ... wrought surprising feats.... He was the Christ. When Pilate ...condemned him to be crucified, those who had . . . come to love him did not give up their affection for him. On the third day he appeared ... restored to life.... And the tribe of Christians ... has ... not disappeared.”
      Now it’s up to debate wether this is the entirely original document of what Josephus wrote, or if a Christian had edited it. But regardless he wrote about the Lord Jesus Christ. Wether it was negative or positive like the possible document is. Anyways there are many other statements, documents, letters, and writings of all sorts from the ancient world talking about the Lord Jesus Christ and there is not one question if He was a real person or if He was crucified and went missing from the grave. That is clear as day, He is a real person, was crucified, and went missing from the grave. And He did rise from the grave. And for more evidence of the Lord Jesus Christ, there’s the Bible and you see there is no evidence the Bible is corrupted, a lie, created by the Roman government, folktale. It is the recount of the Disciples of the Lord Jesus Christ, now wether you want to believe it is up to you. And what profit was there in spreading Christianity, All the early Christian suffered persecution, beatings, and were killed. Another Scholar reported that James the Lord’s Brother was thrown off a building and then stoned to death for spreading the Gospel in Jerusalem. These people went to great lengths even giving their own lives for the Adon Jesus the Christ.

    • @romitsu968
      @romitsu968 Před rokem

      @@mylifeasjessioYeshua(Jesus) the Christ loves you! Praise YHWH El Shaddai and may He bless you! Christ is the King of kings and Lord of lords!
      (YHWH - the LORD) (El Shaddai - God Almighty)
      To those who haven’t; Repent of your sins and believe on the Adon Jesus the Christ, believe in your heart that He has died for your sins and rose from the tomb on the third day and you shall receive the Holy Spirit of God and He shall dwell within you. You shall be saved. Be baptized in the name of the Father, the Son, and the Holy Spirit!
      -
      Jesus the Christ loves you, praise YHWH our Elohim
      -
      Evidence for Jesus Christ’s existence, crucifixion, and disappearance from the tomb (He rose from it):
      The Lord Jesus Christ did exist, gathered disciples, and was crucified and went missing from the tomb. To argue about wether He was taken from the grave or rose from it, is an argument a skeptic can make. Because well if you disregard the eye witness testimony of the disciples and there willingness to die for Christ, and humans won’t die for something they know is a lie, when Peter is pinned upside down to that cross, he could have said that it was a fake, but He didn’t because it wasn’t, what care would he have about death in this world if he knew for a fact he had assurance of a life in another, Jesus Christ did rise from the tomb and is the King of Kings and Lord of Lords. Now the evidence for the Lord Jesus Christ’s existence really isn’t hard to find a multitude of non-Christian scholars and historians mention Him within 150 years after the time of His life. One such is Tacitus a Roman historian who reported on emperor nero’s decision to blame the Christians for the fire that had destroyed rome in 64 AD. Tacitus wrote:
      “Nero fastened the guilt ... on a class hated for their abominations, called Christians by the populace. Christus, from whom the name had its origin, suffered the extreme penalty during the reign of Tiberius at the hands of ... Pontius Pilatus, and a most mischievous superstition, thus checked for the moment, again broke out not only in Judaea, the first source of the evil, but even in Rome…”
      In this Tacitus makes reference to not only Christians, but Christ calling Him Christus and confirming the Gospels going on to say that He suffered the extreme penalty (crucifixion) under the reign of Tiberius and by the sentence of Pontius Pilate, which like I said confirms the Gospels narrative.
      Another important source of evidence about Jesus and early Christianity can be found in the letters of Pliny the Younger to Emperor Trajan. Pliny was the Roman governor of Bithynia in Asia Minor. In one of his letters, dated around A.D. 112, he asks Trajan's advice about the appropriate way to conduct legal proceedings against those accused of being Christians. Pliny says that he needed to consult the emperor about this issue because a great multitude of every age, class, and sex stood accused of Christianity. At one point in his letter, Pliny relates some of the information he has learned about these Christians:
      “They were in the habit of meeting on a certain fixed day before it was light, when they sang in alternate verses a hymn to Christ, as to a god, and bound themselves by a solemn oath, not to any wicked deeds, but never to commit any fraud, theft or adultery, never to falsify their word, nor deny a trust when they should be called upon to deliver it up; after which it was their custom to separate, and then reassemble to partake of food - but food of an ordinary and innocent kind.”
      This passage provides a number of interesting insights into the beliefs and practices of early Christians. First, we see that Christians regularly met on a certain fixed day for worship. Second, their worship was directed to Christ, demonstrating that they firmly believed in His divinity. Furthermore, one scholar interprets Pliny's statement that hymns were sung to Christ, "as to a god", as a reference to the rather distinctive fact that, "unlike other gods who were worshipped, Christ was a person who had lived on earth." If this interpretation is correct, Pliny understood that Christians were worshipping an actual historical person as God! Of course, this agrees perfectly with the New Testament doctrine that Jesus was both God and man.
      You may have heard of the scholar Flavius Josephus who mentioned James as being the brother of the Lord Jesus Christ, which matches what Paul said calling James “The Lord’s brother” and there is another document that Josephus may have written which goes:
      “About this time there lived Jesus, a wise man, if indeed one ought to call him a man. For he ... wrought surprising feats.... He was the Christ. When Pilate ...condemned him to be crucified, those who had . . . come to love him did not give up their affection for him. On the third day he appeared ... restored to life.... And the tribe of Christians ... has ... not disappeared.”
      Now it’s up to debate wether this is the entirely original document of what Josephus wrote, or if a Christian had edited it. But regardless he wrote about the Lord Jesus Christ. Wether it was negative or positive like the possible document is. Anyways there are many other statements, documents, letters, and writings of all sorts from the ancient world talking about the Lord Jesus Christ and there is not one question if He was a real person or if He was crucified and went missing from the grave. That is clear as day, He is a real person, was crucified, and went missing from the grave. And He did rise from the grave. And for more evidence of the Lord Jesus Christ, there’s the Bible and you see there is no evidence the Bible is corrupted, a lie, created by the Roman government, folktale. It is the recount of the Disciples of the Lord Jesus Christ, now wether you want to believe it is up to you. And what profit was there in spreading Christianity, All the early Christian suffered persecution, beatings, and were killed. Another Scholar reported that James the Lord’s Brother was thrown off a building and then stoned to death for spreading the Gospel in Jerusalem. These people went to great lengths even giving their own lives for the Adon Jesus the Christ.

    • @romitsu968
      @romitsu968 Před rokem

      Turn away from the aid of evil and to the aid of the LORD! Yeshua(Jesus) the Christ loves you! Praise YHWH El Shaddai and may He bless you! Christ is the King of kings and Lord of lords!
      (YHWH - the LORD) (El Shaddai - God Almighty)
      To those who haven’t; Repent of your sins and believe on the Adon Jesus the Christ, believe in your heart that He has died for your sins and rose from the tomb on the third day and you shall receive the Holy Spirit of God and He shall dwell within you. You shall be saved. Be baptized in the name of the Father, the Son, and the Holy Spirit!
      -
      Jesus the Christ loves you, praise YHWH our Elohim
      -
      Evidence for Jesus Christ’s existence, crucifixion, and disappearance from the tomb (He rose from it):
      The Lord Jesus Christ did exist, gathered disciples, and was crucified and went missing from the tomb. To argue about wether He was taken from the grave or rose from it, is an argument a skeptic can make. Because well if you disregard the eye witness testimony of the disciples and there willingness to die for Christ, and humans won’t die for something they know is a lie, when Peter is pinned upside down to that cross, he could have said that it was a fake, but He didn’t because it wasn’t, what care would he have about death in this world if he knew for a fact he had assurance of a life in another, Jesus Christ did rise from the tomb and is the King of Kings and Lord of Lords. Now the evidence for the Lord Jesus Christ’s existence really isn’t hard to find a multitude of non-Christian scholars and historians mention Him within 150 years after the time of His life. One such is Tacitus a Roman historian who reported on emperor nero’s decision to blame the Christians for the fire that had destroyed rome in 64 AD. Tacitus wrote:
      “Nero fastened the guilt ... on a class hated for their abominations, called Christians by the populace. Christus, from whom the name had its origin, suffered the extreme penalty during the reign of Tiberius at the hands of ... Pontius Pilatus, and a most mischievous superstition, thus checked for the moment, again broke out not only in Judaea, the first source of the evil, but even in Rome…”
      In this Tacitus makes reference to not only Christians, but Christ calling Him Christus and confirming the Gospels going on to say that He suffered the extreme penalty (crucifixion) under the reign of Tiberius and by the sentence of Pontius Pilate, which like I said confirms the Gospels narrative.
      Another important source of evidence about Jesus and early Christianity can be found in the letters of Pliny the Younger to Emperor Trajan. Pliny was the Roman governor of Bithynia in Asia Minor. In one of his letters, dated around A.D. 112, he asks Trajan's advice about the appropriate way to conduct legal proceedings against those accused of being Christians. Pliny says that he needed to consult the emperor about this issue because a great multitude of every age, class, and sex stood accused of Christianity. At one point in his letter, Pliny relates some of the information he has learned about these Christians:
      “They were in the habit of meeting on a certain fixed day before it was light, when they sang in alternate verses a hymn to Christ, as to a god, and bound themselves by a solemn oath, not to any wicked deeds, but never to commit any fraud, theft or adultery, never to falsify their word, nor deny a trust when they should be called upon to deliver it up; after which it was their custom to separate, and then reassemble to partake of food - but food of an ordinary and innocent kind.”
      This passage provides a number of interesting insights into the beliefs and practices of early Christians. First, we see that Christians regularly met on a certain fixed day for worship. Second, their worship was directed to Christ, demonstrating that they firmly believed in His divinity. Furthermore, one scholar interprets Pliny's statement that hymns were sung to Christ, "as to a god", as a reference to the rather distinctive fact that, "unlike other gods who were worshipped, Christ was a person who had lived on earth." If this interpretation is correct, Pliny understood that Christians were worshipping an actual historical person as God! Of course, this agrees perfectly with the New Testament doctrine that Jesus was both God and man.
      You may have heard of the scholar Flavius Josephus who mentioned James as being the brother of the Lord Jesus Christ, which matches what Paul said calling James “The Lord’s brother” and there is another document that Josephus may have written which goes:
      “About this time there lived Jesus, a wise man, if indeed one ought to call him a man. For he ... wrought surprising feats.... He was the Christ. When Pilate ...condemned him to be crucified, those who had . . . come to love him did not give up their affection for him. On the third day he appeared ... restored to life.... And the tribe of Christians ... has ... not disappeared.”
      Now it’s up to debate wether this is the entirely original document of what Josephus wrote, or if a Christian had edited it. But regardless he wrote about the Lord Jesus Christ. Wether it was negative or positive like the possible document is. Anyways there are many other statements, documents, letters, and writings of all sorts from the ancient world talking about the Lord Jesus Christ and there is not one question if He was a real person or if He was crucified and went missing from the grave. That is clear as day, He is a real person, was crucified, and went missing from the grave. And He did rise from the grave. And for more evidence of the Lord Jesus Christ, there’s the Bible and you see there is no evidence the Bible is corrupted, a lie, created by the Roman government, folktale. It is the recount of the Disciples of the Lord Jesus Christ, now wether you want to believe it is up to you. And what profit was there in spreading Christianity, All the early Christian suffered persecution, beatings, and were killed. Another Scholar reported that James the Lord’s Brother was thrown off a building and then stoned to death for spreading the Gospel in Jerusalem. These people went to great lengths even giving their own lives for the Adon Jesus the Christ.

  • @Chrissy206
    @Chrissy206 Před 3 lety +66

    I know exactly what you mean. I write, and I started writing with the thought in the background “hurry up and finish so I can get financial freedom and the lifestyle that I desire”. I did that to the point where the passion I had for writing turned it into a pressured activity. I started to mute the love for it focusing on my desired results too much! Then i swung to the opposite side of not doing enough. I’m learning to just chill and find that happy medium

    • @LynetteAdkins
      @LynetteAdkins  Před 3 lety +6

      It's crazy how much we're pressured into rushing/monetizing our passions. This is exactly how I felt making content for a while. Definitely all about finding that balance

    • @ngawangchimeybhutia711
      @ngawangchimeybhutia711 Před 3 lety

      Yoo I had the same thing but in my case for football

  • @INTERESTEDINFORMEDINSPIRED
    @INTERESTEDINFORMEDINSPIRED Před 3 lety +18

    When you said you were making content for three years (decent but operating from fear) but getting nowhere and obsessing over quitting your 9 to 5, I had to pause the video. That is literally me you’re describing.
    Thank you for this. I needed to see this.
    Edit: your nails are fire

  • @joecruz4374
    @joecruz4374 Před 3 lety +65

    I’ve been on a downward spiral for MONTHS now and these vids keep me grounded. Wish I found this page sooner. You are such a light!

    • @LynetteAdkins
      @LynetteAdkins  Před 3 lety +5

      Im so glad these have been helpful. Sending my love and wishing you the best❤️

    • @joecruz4374
      @joecruz4374 Před 3 lety +2

      @@LynetteAdkins 😭 you are so sweet omg literally found you through a friend on Ig and we looove your content. You got mad people rooting for you!!

    • @AishaMae
      @AishaMae Před 3 lety +1

      I feel the same way, Joe!

  • @melissagarrick.3288
    @melissagarrick.3288 Před 3 lety +117

    I'm more on the complacent side of things, and the fear can be incredibly paralyzing, even when you don't really feel it. I'm a beginning youtuber, and the fear of not being good enough has held me back from making videos for a while, but I'm beginning to let go. Slowly, but yeah.

  • @sangichan
    @sangichan Před 3 lety +38

    Letting go of control is so hard.. but thank you for reminding me of that. And the thing you said about fear is 100% true. We need to root for ourselves when no one is clapping for us!

  • @thriftingsuperstars
    @thriftingsuperstars Před 3 lety +1

    The illusive balance between hustle and flow 💫🦋

  • @alirene7111
    @alirene7111 Před 3 lety +25

    my dream is to be a dancer/performer and actress. For a really long time I've felt guilty for not working harder and faster, despite being tired and unmotivated. I think I practiced more out of fear of falling behind and not reaching my dream instead of doing it because I love it. I've been finally taking a break for about two weeks now, I still feel guilty sometimes but I can also feel new motivation building up 😊 I hope I can find the happy medium you talked about this year ❤️ wishing everyone reading this good luck and lot's of love :)

    • @AJ-sr2hz
      @AJ-sr2hz Před 3 lety +2

      I can relate to this so much!

    • @LynetteAdkins
      @LynetteAdkins  Před 3 lety +2

      I'm so excited for you, it sounds like this break is much needed and is giving you the time you need to reflect and come back with a renewed mentality! Rooting for you!

    • @alirene7111
      @alirene7111 Před 3 lety

      @@LynetteAdkins thank you so much, it means a lot to me :)

  • @BelaTV
    @BelaTV Před 3 lety +58

    i love how raw and real you are. so glad i came across your channel. makes me feel like im in a safe space.

    • @user-gn8qn5wd6i
      @user-gn8qn5wd6i Před 3 lety +2

      She’s really a gift. 😌💕

    • @SunRayBabyJ
      @SunRayBabyJ Před 3 lety +2

      Me too. I feel safe and seen here.

    • @LynetteAdkins
      @LynetteAdkins  Před 3 lety +3

      I am so glad 🥺❤️ I wish we could all meet and talk bc that’s literally how I feel too!

    • @LynetteAdkins
      @LynetteAdkins  Před 3 lety +2

      @@user-gn8qn5wd6i thank u so much

    • @LynetteAdkins
      @LynetteAdkins  Před 3 lety +2

      @@SunRayBabyJ I am so glad❤️

  • @mihlali8416
    @mihlali8416 Před 3 lety +10

    Omg, the way I relate to everything you're saying.
    Struggling to be in the present moment because you're so invested in your future self ( that's so me )

  • @north_star_yt
    @north_star_yt Před 3 lety +7

    Da-ummm....Yes! That was the memo from the universe I got this past week too!! “YOURE ALREADY DOING IT!” & “YOUR PURPOSE IS TO JUST BE YOU!” 😍🥰😍💋💪💪

    • @LynetteAdkins
      @LynetteAdkins  Před 3 lety +2

      YESSSS

    • @stephsteph1338
      @stephsteph1338 Před 3 lety +1

      Yes! As you said...”You’re Already Doing It!” “Your Purpose Is To Just Be You!” I MUST remember this. Thank you! 🙏💫

  • @rayna463
    @rayna463 Před 3 lety +21

    i totally relate - i have trouble living in the moment because of always thinking about the bigger better things i want to do. its not a bad thing to be a visionary, but i've been trying to live in the present more. because i don't want to look back in regret that i didn't appreciate where i was in my journey at any given moment.

  • @shanahope2663
    @shanahope2663 Před 3 lety +3

    I love the fact that I was watching this and thinking “FINALLY, I found another spirituality content maker who I think I can vibe with besides Trinity" and then you mentioned her!!

    • @shanahope2663
      @shanahope2663 Před 3 lety

      but on another note, thank you for this video!! I needed it

  • @joreneereads
    @joreneereads Před 3 lety +14

    From seeing a potential way "out" and imagining a life of freedom, I have definitely swung from complacent to overly controlling. I am never sure how much I "believe" in manifestation, but I think the idea that you will never be your true self while clinging and striving so desperately is something I definitely need to internalize.

  • @arat9573
    @arat9573 Před 3 lety +19

    after watching this video I just realized that I actually don't know what I want to do or who I want to be, that's why I don't do anything because I don't even know what goal I want to achieve and that's v sad to me. Thank you for making me realize this

    • @LynetteAdkins
      @LynetteAdkins  Před 3 lety +3

      I don't think that's sad! I feel like more ppl feel that way than actually admit it, there's just so much pressure to feel like we have to have ourselves figured out at such a young age

    • @LynetteAdkins
      @LynetteAdkins  Před 3 lety +2

      the fun part of life is learning about yourself as you change and grow!

    • @arat9573
      @arat9573 Před 3 lety +1

      @@LynetteAdkins thank you for making me feel understood

  • @alexyarmy6698
    @alexyarmy6698 Před 3 lety +35

    This is literally something I needed,I always imagine my future self to be this person who isn't underestimated, isn't misunderstood and someone with confidence but then I come back to my present and I always tell myself that I cannot make it while I know that constantly linking myself with negative affirmations isn't gonna take me to where I wanna be

    • @LynetteAdkins
      @LynetteAdkins  Před 3 lety +6

      Your thoughts hold sooo much power, I get those negative feelings too sometimes and have been learning to not just try to push them away, but sit with them and understand their root causes, like why do I feel like I can't make it to where I want to be? Why do I feel undeserving of that reality? etc

    • @LynetteAdkins
      @LynetteAdkins  Před 3 lety +6

      it's like breaking down limiting beliefs and exposing them as 'false'

  • @WendyLiving
    @WendyLiving Před 2 lety +1

    You’re right, and I’m taking the leap to go for what I want and leave what I thought I needed behind. Because I just have faith that what I want will come to me

  • @mysta_ry
    @mysta_ry Před 3 lety +4

    Omg 😳 you’re calling me out!! Every single word. I needed this. I controlled myself so much to where my content is good but the work I was putting in wasn’t matching because I was fearful.

  • @alyssasavory1348
    @alyssasavory1348 Před 3 lety +8

    This is gonna be a video I rewatch often, it really speaks to the type of situation I’m in right now. My future self is waiting for me to start being more productive and less complacent, there’s so much that I want to do and accomplish, and when I’m older I want to look back at it all with no regrets or what if’s. Sacrifice for the things you want now, so that what you want doesn’t become the sacrifice ❤️

  • @Ema...........................

    this made me realize soo many things. really thank you so much!
    bless everyone who is trying to get somewhere i believe in our abilities

  • @CreativepreneurJourney
    @CreativepreneurJourney Před 3 lety +6

    It feels good to have control of your dream. I agree most people are afraid of trying something different. I am not afraid. I am scared of living an unhappy life.

    • @mylifeasjessio
      @mylifeasjessio Před 3 lety +1

      i'm afraid of making the wrong decision and wasting more time headed down the wrong path

  • @moroblueh
    @moroblueh Před 3 lety +9

    So true 💞 letting go is just as important to manifestation as taking action

  • @jessicaann1
    @jessicaann1 Před 3 lety +6

    one day i wish to have a comment section as full of positivity as this

  • @alyalpaca
    @alyalpaca Před 2 lety

    anytime i’m feeling unmotivated, unsure of myself or insecure i go straight to your channel for a vibe check

  •  Před 3 lety +5

    Facts!! I absolutely love your content, the shoot-first mentality really helps one get out of the state of fear/caring so much about what other's think! The moment you DO IT without overthinking so much all of a sudden magic happens!

  • @IAmKNicole
    @IAmKNicole Před 3 lety +4

    I literally cried watching this video...thank you so much. I have already been doing these things and the past few days things have really started lining up and I’m now noticing. This video was the confirmation I needed!

    • @LynetteAdkins
      @LynetteAdkins  Před 3 lety +2

      Wow, it's crazy how timing works. Sending you my love❤️

  • @ismahanm1118
    @ismahanm1118 Před 3 lety +16

    Yes this is so relatable! it's important enjoy the journey because every stage plays a unique role in your success. Placing too much focus on the outcome can cause and anxiety and hinder authenticity. Great video and congrats on 50k!! 🥳

  • @Lexicalena
    @Lexicalena Před 11 měsíci +1

    Binge watching your videos has given me the confidence I needed to continue in my purpose you’re truly inspirational 🥺

  • @MindfulDivergent
    @MindfulDivergent Před 3 lety

    YESSSSSS!!!! I can't tell you how many times I've heard this from "gurus", life coaches, or even in self-help books. Sometimes it takes different people and more than one person to say something that just clicks and it finally clicked for me. I've been on my manifestation journey for over 5 years trying to leave a job I hate and wanting to live the life I have in my head. I would try to control EVERYTHING to make that happen. Nothing has ever worked out the way I have wanted it to and in some ways has pushed me back into old habits and beliefs derailing my forward momentum. I need to learn how to let go and get into that flow state and trust that things happen for me, not to me. I am so happy I stumbled upon your channel! Thank you for being real and honest. I'm so excited to see how much your channel is going to grow and flourish.

  • @SunRayBabyJ
    @SunRayBabyJ Před 3 lety +11

    This is a powerful message that really spoke to me. I feel like I'm on both ends of the two C's and you articulated so well that it really is all just fear.

    • @LynetteAdkins
      @LynetteAdkins  Před 3 lety

      It's crazy how many of us jump back and forth between the two sometimes! It can be like a cycle of those 2 feelings

  • @BeingSomila
    @BeingSomila Před 3 lety +2

    I really needed this ! I constantly feel stuck because I’m so focused on the future that I forget to act presently and thus become so overwhelmed. Thank you !!!

  • @ElizaWong
    @ElizaWong Před 3 lety +6

    Really cool that you compared control and complacency and their similarity is based on fear. Thanks for sharing your thoughts, it's great to have these ideas top of mind ❤️

  • @piasuzan
    @piasuzan Před 3 lety +2

    I've been doing everything in my life out of fear and music was and is my escape
    It's what I truly love and your videos actually help me see it
    Thank you so much
    I wanna do what I love and be happy

  • @KickinItWithTea1111
    @KickinItWithTea1111 Před 3 lety +1

    Wow, I needed to see this video because I'm obsessing over growing my CZcams Channel looking at the Analytics...it was meant for me to see this video 🧘🏽‍♀️💡 the fact that I've visualize how I see my future self lifestyle, family, and way of life I realize that if I can see it I can achieve it! 🧘🏽‍♀️✨ I have to Trust God, and The Universe to know that it'll happen in perfect timing 🙏🏽 best of luck to anyone whose on their journey! You can do it, believe in yourself, you got it! Like she said you can do so much research and even wish on a star but until you implement it you'll still be wishing!

  • @lisakchugh6328
    @lisakchugh6328 Před 3 lety

    This video SPOKE to me and I lowkey felt called out with the whole complacency mind set because you're so right. A lot of mine stems from seeing the success of others and wanting that same thing right away/ not feeling like I have the capacity to do what it takes. I love watching your videos because you make me feel like I can. Love watching you grow and LOVE YOU!!

  • @johannaa67
    @johannaa67 Před 3 lety +1

    I am shook to have found ur videos at this crazy time in my life; I appreciate them so much! I love how you speak from experience and share your wisdom

  • @felynnsoleil
    @felynnsoleil Před 3 lety +10

    Beautifully said, we can be our worst critics and it takes time to work through all the steps to get where we want to be. It's all about how bad you want it.
    Totally love this space you have created to really talk about these topics. 💛

  • @zariahantoinette1329
    @zariahantoinette1329 Před 3 lety +2

    This was so needed because I’m a real estate investor and other investors will make you feel like you need to grind grind grind all day and night all year to be succesful and I’m someone who knows i need my rest. I can grind and still do what i need to recover from all that grinding. Thanks for making this video. 💕

  • @DivineIlunga
    @DivineIlunga Před 3 lety

    I feel everything that you’re saying!! I’m currently working full time in my 9to 5 and I hate it... but I recently realized that I need to be happy with the present and the life that I’m living RN! I’m happy I found your YT channel in my recommendations, cuz you’re talking about real shit!! I know you gonna have everything you dream of💙 wish you the best, keep being amazing ‼️🧿🙏🏾

  • @chanaenae_99
    @chanaenae_99 Před 2 lety

    you literally one of the best youtubers i look up to. Thank you very much for the love and light you share

  • @TheNinjapancake14
    @TheNinjapancake14 Před 3 lety +3

    That last part is really important. Watching CZcamsrs living out your dream is important to get inspired but when are you gonna actually go out and achieve that dream yourself? 💎

  • @FoodShowFan
    @FoodShowFan Před 2 lety

    GOLD. 3:49-4:27
    This is the truth, the secret, the path! Thank you! 🙏

  • @FixItOnTheWay
    @FixItOnTheWay Před 3 lety +1

    10:20 The never ending balance between "the theory" and "the practice." Most people (myself included) are good at "theory" and bad at "practice." We get stuck in "theory" and never make it to "practice." You have to practice practicing. Get good at doing something simple before you do something big.

  • @royalctrine926
    @royalctrine926 Před 3 lety

    Thank you so much for uploading this video. I am becoming exhausted with feeling like I need to have control ALL THE TIME. AT times, It does really feel like the harder I try to achieve something the further I get from reaching that goal. But that's only because I tend to obsess over things and never go with the natural flow of the universe. I am so glad I found your video. It was a wake up call for me.

  • @Jennxevans
    @Jennxevans Před 3 lety +1

    It’s literally like you were speaking right to me, especially when you were talking about not obsessing over your dream life. I do that a lot and I feel like it has gotten to such an unhealthy state because I just end up sitting in my bed dreaming instead of doing. So thank you so much for this video!!

  • @ogyanabear
    @ogyanabear Před 3 lety

    this is so great 🥺 i was getting so annoyed with LOA videos & the concept of manifestation overall i guess because i couldnt relate to some of the other " teachers " & the things they were teaching regarding LOA .. i had this in my watch later & decided to click on it anyway 🙄 but im happy i did ! this resonated with me so much & i feel like its exactly what i needed to hear in this moment . so ty ! 💞

  • @Reesex360
    @Reesex360 Před 3 lety

    This video came along in my recommended and it was highly needed. I found your page when I wanted to improve my instagram photos and you helped now once again your here with gems 💎 that you can't get anywhere but from genuine soul, Thank you

  • @twotonetony8430
    @twotonetony8430 Před 2 lety

    Second time coming to this video because it really motivates me to keep going. I’ve been running on an irrational amount of fear and have been consuming a substantial amount of information on how to do what I love but have been struggling with going through with it. Maybe it’s the fear of making a mistake, maybe it’s because I’m a perfectionist and want my first video to be fantastic and stand out and look professional and what not. Whatever it is, your channel has really helped me look past that and to start doing things out of love and make those mistakes because without them I won’t be where I want to be, I’ll still be at square one.
    The sun doesn’t wait for nobody and the amount of time that has passed since I’ve been in school has been quite a reality check for me. My future self awaits like you said.
    Thank you for your content Lynette!

  • @zaddy131
    @zaddy131 Před 3 lety

    complacency/laziness has such a stigma in our capitalist society i’m so glad you linked it to control (which is glorified bc ofc capitalism wants us to work at the expense of our well-being) in that they’re both based in fear. someone said the two C’s which i love! i feel so much paralyzing shame personally from complacency but this makes me recenter and remember to tap into what genuinely excites me.

  • @Bymartinadiallo
    @Bymartinadiallo Před 3 lety +1

    Oh my, Lynette. Please believe me when I say that your content is SO authentic like wow. I can really tell how you're passionate about talking about these things 🤍 I needed this video so much, so actually thanks for being yourself and sharing your wisdom love

  • @Megan-sr4du
    @Megan-sr4du Před 3 lety +4

    OMG YOUR NAILSSSS🥺😍😍

  • @ohmisskeisyrodriguez
    @ohmisskeisyrodriguez Před 3 lety

    THIS. IS. GOLD.

  • @thatglowenergy
    @thatglowenergy Před 3 lety

    Yes! Manifesting from curiosity-what can I achieve?-as opposed to fear-i have to achieve-makes things happen fast.

  • @jamestran275
    @jamestran275 Před 3 lety +2

    Isn't this a hell of a journey? The concept of Wu Wei and The End in Mind is key here. I love how everyone on this journey is unique but similar. I wrote about this duality in my journal the other day. I found being "alpha" level productive actually knocked me out of alignment. I still get everything I need to get done, but 10x more easier, happier while in flow. More flow is finding things that really resonate with you and remove energy drainers. Ie social media, politics, games, porn and other forms of escapism. Cheers to everyone.

  • @simplyleonel7534
    @simplyleonel7534 Před 3 lety

    Idk why I just enjoy this girl's videos

  • @biancakealoha2226
    @biancakealoha2226 Před 2 lety

    This message is so beautiful and perfect for me right now.

  • @LandoftheIn-Between
    @LandoftheIn-Between Před 3 lety

    Uhhhhh I NEEDED THIS. I love your videos, they’re always so genuine and insightful.

  • @karimillett5758
    @karimillett5758 Před 3 lety

    Having Complacency really resonates with me. Though when you say it's out of fear, oooof that struck me. I see it and I agree. I just didn't recognize the stalling of action was fear. I'm ready now. I've been working hard on living from my Heart and choosing Love that I don't want to manifest more fear because I'm being complacent. Nope. Not anymore. I'm putting out that video that says I'm accepting and open to clients. THE video I feel the Universe has been waiting for me to put out. I'm doing it TODAY! I know and trust that I am Safe to put myself out there. I'm not waiting to be Ready. I'm posting it today. Thank you so much for Sharing! 💪💚

  • @DajaSnipes
    @DajaSnipes Před 3 lety

    this video was one of the best videos I've ever seen on comprehending the process of manifestation. Thank you!!!

  • @nikyiavaughn6407
    @nikyiavaughn6407 Před 3 lety

    I been running on fear for too long! I enjoyed this video thank you 🙏🏽

  • @maryamdawood1711
    @maryamdawood1711 Před 3 lety

    Been here since you made the college videos and you’ve grown so much since then love your new content and how authentic you became ♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️

  • @alexgroves893
    @alexgroves893 Před 3 lety

    Literally right now. Wow. Thank you sis

  • @daijasharon6082
    @daijasharon6082 Před 3 lety

    I really genuinely just want to tell you thank you 💕

  • @mekaylaarchives
    @mekaylaarchives Před 3 lety

    you are a blessing. 🌿

  • @livnicole9550
    @livnicole9550 Před rokem

    This is absolutely what I needed to here. I definitely struggle with over thinking. Thank you for the encouragement love! 😌🙏🏽

  • @caitlynmartin4020
    @caitlynmartin4020 Před 3 lety

    I love your manifestation/ bettering yourself videos. I’ve been binging them this week💗

  • @SimplyPinkKiwi
    @SimplyPinkKiwi Před 3 lety

    I never comment on vids, but I feel like this is one more confirmation its time for me to change my life!

  • @miatoribio7607
    @miatoribio7607 Před 3 lety

    Queen behavior👑 loved this video.

  • @martina_xoxo
    @martina_xoxo Před 3 lety

    Congrats on 50k, queen 👑💜

  • @korijones9092
    @korijones9092 Před 3 lety +1

    Thank you soooo much for this video! Much needed and perfect timing! I daydream constantly about my future self and where want to be every single day and so I make that my main focus, but I'm starting to realize I have really incorporate balance and self-happiness in order to really get there and not be burnt out when I do! And I love to see more videos in detail about manifestation! Love love your content! #NewSubscriber ❤️✨

  • @barbietxtv
    @barbietxtv Před 3 lety

    Mama you're a blessing.

  • @carlota1513
    @carlota1513 Před 3 lety

    thank you so much for being so raw and real💓

  • @star-xv7se
    @star-xv7se Před 3 lety

    I had to come to this conclusion alone in the darkness of my room at about three in the morning, whilst I cry about how excited I was to finally be free from my worries about the future. I had to allow myself to put trust in my OWN capabilities, and to release the fear that I held onto for so long. I always knew the Universe and my spirit guides were there to help and guide me, but I never listened. The fear and the shame I felt about failing to achieve my dreams became so overwhelming that I never bothered to listen to the signs and the help that was right there for me to take. I swear to god, letting go was the best thing I could have ever done for myself. Now, I am fully confident that I will be able to reach my ultimate goals and be the me that I have always seen within my mind's eye and I'm no longer afraid of my failure for it simply isn't an option anymore :). For the struggling souls out there, I know how hard it is to give up on that fear because it's been by your side for so long. Fear is comfortable and easy, but the moment you switch to freeing yourself and your mind, fear and negative thoughts become the hardest thing in the world to deal with. Letting go is so worth it, highly recommend.

  • @AnitaVargas
    @AnitaVargas Před 3 lety +1

    Girlllll ❤️I love you so much

  • @RS-eb1mc
    @RS-eb1mc Před 3 lety

    Much needed...was about to get into that control style again. I really needed to hear this

  • @AlyKat_XD915
    @AlyKat_XD915 Před 3 lety +2

    Watched your CZcams channel for the UT vid when I was in high school....now I’m in college and found myself back on your channel ! 😊 taking this as a sign I should learn from your journey

  • @itsvbitches
    @itsvbitches Před 3 lety

    yes I love these types of videos and im so glad you enjoy making them too

  • @Alexia124321
    @Alexia124321 Před 3 lety +1

    I really feel like you made this for me cause the way I just got read! 😂 I’ve definitely been complacent for like two years now, just watching people live the life I wanna live with little work to get there. Lately I have been getting tired of letting fear control me so I have taken some steps in the right direction. Thank you for the video! ✨

  • @woodbridgesfinest1904
    @woodbridgesfinest1904 Před 3 lety +1

    This was informative and encouraging. Thanks sis!

  • @keketsooarabilekomane884
    @keketsooarabilekomane884 Před 3 lety +1

    You’re becoming my fave CZcamsr 😭😩 there’s something about your energy that I love

  • @postgradisrad
    @postgradisrad Před 3 lety +1

    When you acknowledged the fear vs. laziness ugh I felt that soooo hard. Thank you for this video Lynette! I resonated with everything 💜

    • @mylifeasjessio
      @mylifeasjessio Před 3 lety

      yes! i finally stopped being fearful and started my channel last week!

  • @kjaxon95
    @kjaxon95 Před 2 lety

    See it took another Aries to set me straight, thank you! ❤️‍🔥

  • @victoriajayne1438
    @victoriajayne1438 Před 3 lety +1

    I loved this!! Honestly the inspo I needed to get up and start doing what I wanna do. Thank you 🤍🤍

  • @irineobarbosa3890
    @irineobarbosa3890 Před 3 lety

    this video came for my neckkkkk. love your content.

  • @katelynjoyce7214
    @katelynjoyce7214 Před 3 lety

    The motivation in this video is unreal!
    I do struggle with the idea of starting my business, I fall on the side of appearing to be “lazy” and I’ve even had someone tell me I was being lazy and not having goals for a career..
    When In reality I’m overwhelmed with the process of starting my business along with the fear of going in debt & still failing.
    I’m super motivated to start but fear definitely holds me back!

  • @caramacnally7059
    @caramacnally7059 Před 3 lety

    Amazing video, thank you so much! I am struggling a lot with taking risks and doing what I really want to do because of 'the fear of failure' but I know I am more than capable of doing these things, I just need to take the leap and believe in myself Xxx

  • @Myhealingarea00
    @Myhealingarea00 Před 3 lety

    the best video of the day , your like reading my mind
    this video need more views , you are doing good job keep up this type of contents
    i'am facing the same things now , i'am really focusing more on the futur not the present

  • @sakatakataaaa
    @sakatakataaaa Před 2 lety

    this is so honest. great job.

  • @joymae
    @joymae Před 3 lety +3

    Love manifestation videos. I manifested my move to new york city!!!

  • @AjiaLaNiece
    @AjiaLaNiece Před 3 lety

    This spoke right to me thank you!

  • @pherosarah
    @pherosarah Před 3 lety

    This video is exactly what I needed to hear! x

  • @tanaysiaw8438
    @tanaysiaw8438 Před 3 lety +1

    Love these motivational videos!! They always come right on time 💕

  • @alishadyke3356
    @alishadyke3356 Před 3 lety +1

    omg I was talking about manifestation with my sister and then I came on here and I saw this. Thanks for the video, I love your content

  • @indigosinsight
    @indigosinsight Před 3 lety

    So glad I came across your channel. Such genuine energy, and words that I really needed to hear. Much love!

  • @cherellemarie2979
    @cherellemarie2979 Před 3 lety

    So happy I discovered your channel!

  • @sozzzle
    @sozzzle Před 3 lety

    loved this, very inspiring thank you!!