7 REASONS Why Men PULL AWAY When Things Are Good
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- 7 REASONS Why Men Pull Away WHEN Things Are Good... In this dating advice video, I will give you the reasons why he pulls away when everything is great to help you understand men better and know what to do when he pulls away. I want you to understand why men pull away on the first dates, online dating, or somewhere in the dating process. Take heed of this dating advice, and make sure you watch the entire video.
If you feel him pulling away from your relationship, it would be best not to panic, feel confused, get frustrated, or blame yourself. I want you to know the real reasons why men pull away so that you can stop blaming yourself when men pull away from you. This relationship advice video will help you understand why a man will pull away even when everything is great.
I want you to know why he pulls away when he pulls away. I want you to be able to keep your calm and stay focused when he pulls away at whatever stage of the relationship or while dating. I want to help you to understand why men pull away and to know exactly what to o when he pulls away.
As a certified life coach, relationship coach, and dating coach, I want to make dating and relationships easier for you. I pray that you find this video helpful and you will be able to enjoy dating and have a fulfilling, healthy relationship.
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Yes rejection is God’s protection 💯
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So ture. God got your back.
Absolutely!
Facts!!!!!
Thx for your comment.
I need the support of that.
You know what's just as powerful as a good cup of coffee in the morning? Starting your day with some good, loving thoughts. It can change how your whole day unfolds.
Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback 🙏
Amen 🙏🏽
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simple, sweet wisdom. Thank you 🕊️
I just had this happen to me 3 weeks ago. Texted instead of face to face. We had no drama or issues. He said it was 100% him and not me. He went on to say how beautiful wonderful woman I am and caring spirit, but he can't continue with relationship. He said he can't give me the time I desire. We spent good time together. I made all types of time for him and with him. We had a hell of a connection. We poured into each other. His nickname was Handsome. Strangers complimented us because we had a glow. Broke my heart... now hearing these reasons.. omg!
He ghosted me for 2 months he stop calling me and stopped talking to me and I didn’t know why. He finally called and I didn’t answer. I prayed on it and ask god to please help me thru this. I saw him one day and he said hi and I didn’t even look his way and I kept walking and I heard him say hi but I kept it pushing
18 month relationship that was going great and had an amazing deep connection. Then he pulled away and ended things. Broke my heart. He had some personal issues going on that he let effect his worth. And I feel like he let it ruin our relationship and future together. When I was there to support him through his issues. Absolutely devastating.
I went throught the same thing
I’m so tired having these men who are not ready to offer what I believe really is the bare minimum ask approaching me for relationships. Men who swear they are ready for marriage…I’m tired.
I pray that you receive the man who is truly best for you, the man God has for you 🙏
@@MeetStephanSpeaks Thank you.
I took a vow of abstinence and celibacy since 2010 not playing with my heart and time. If a man want me go through God to get me.
For me, it doesn't matter why he pulls away. Even if he likes me very much and wants to marry me, it still says that he is not on the same page with me. I'm the kind of person who is only interested in a real, committed relationship. That means that despite having our own personal issues, we still have a relationship. For example, if my sister was going through bankruptcy, we don't stop being sisters and having a relationship. We have a relationship through it. If this dude has to put everything on pause then that tells me he does not have what it takes to be my husband or the father to our kids. My husband was never a bum like these men. He was always consistent.
yes, plain and simple! he wouldn't like it if you pulled away either
Thank you for that example. It helps explain commitment in a clear manner that I haven't heard before.
Interesting analogies.
This is why I date double..so when one fall back ..I push another one forward 😂
Thank you for your feedback, I appreciate hearing from you ❤️
@@MeetStephanSpeaks I love your wisdom
😅 that's a strategy!
@@thepaperedsleuth 🤣
Ahahahahaha go girl 😊😊
I wish folks would know/recognize that they need to heal BEFORE they start dating folks and getting them all involved, just to pull the damn plug later. Also, be honest.
*When we love, we always strive to become better than we are. When we strive to become better than we are, everything around us becomes better too.*
This is so relevant. Got dumped this year by a man who told me he was tired of disappointing me. Things were going great... or so I thought. Asked him if he was happy, he said yes and then proceeded to ghost me for the following 3 weeks. When I confronted him about it, he said he didn't know he was gone. I started cooking and preparing his meals for the week only to have him flake on me. I'm beyond pissed. I'm mad at myself cuz I should've been gone only to stay around to be dumped. I'm not sure what this illicit mixture of emotions I'm feeling is, but whatever it is, it need not follow me into 2024.
Stop cooking and cleaning after a man that's not your husband cos, they think you're desperate
@olaidejabar4380 he said he wanted to take meals to work, so I cooked. It isn't about being desperate. It's about hearing someone and trying to be helpful. It's a partnership. I can't expect him to give me what I ask for if I'm not willing to do the same. It's called loving and caring for and about someone.
Seems like you were investing more, and he could not/would not keep up with your efforts. Efforts/appreciation does not match, and then resentment can build.
@lcarp545 I know that but they see it as you wanting them more than they want you have been in the same position after my marriage ended and the first date I had after 7 years after my divorce. I did everything for cooking and all the days I couldn't he will be telling to try I walked away seven months into the relationship
I'm sorry to hear about that. I pray that you heal from all that you have been through and be able to keep moving in faith 🙏 ❤️
Connection and chemistry - all can be lost if there is a big disappointment towards him. I had both very strong with one man, like never before in my life, but everything disappeared when I heard his only hostile statement towards me during a year. I made my choice to cut off the connection with him.
It is hard and harder to forgive when you haven't done anything wrong yourself.
My point is that everything can be ended, including connection!
As the world turns
With men,nothing is guaranteed
Everything happens for a reason
It may take time and effort to comprehend
Ladies be not anxious about anything
Stephan,this was yet another well delivered video
Thank you for your feedback, I appreciate hearing from you ❤️
A man who loves you will never keep you in the dark. I would not take him back
Quote: Strong people lift others up.
Probably with proper words. Judging never lifts someone up, but inspiration does.
You're absolutely right!
What we really have to understand is there's no perfect human on this planet. You have to recognize reality verses illusions. Life isn't always sun shine. like the song goes "sunny days everybody loves them, can you stand the rain." If you don't come to this understanding, you'll keep making the same mistake and you continue to jump ship quick because like a human a relationship needs to mature.
Needed this. Thank you. ❤
Powerful message. Thank you. Blessings ❤
Hello Stephan. Thank you very much for this video, super useful. Blessings 🙏🏽✨️
I love your point about damaged people. In most cases they aren't bad, but we can't go beneath the surface and peal It layers after layers. We could ended up Lost and damaged too. Sometimes anyway, Is really difficult tò leave or let go because you see the good in that person and we have connection. It Is like abandon and animal or a child.
It definitely isn't an easy situation, but the focus needs to be on doing what is truly best 🙏
@@MeetStephanSpeaks got It. Thank you for your wisdom. I'm from Italy but I used to watch and listening your video and your interviews. 💛
Thank you for creating this. 🙏
I find your content to be worth listening to especially since its positive and relatable! Thank you for being so informative & making us knowledgeable! 🤝
You speak the truth! I stayed with my hisband because he was a good guy, but it wasn't enough. I was attached to him, I grew to love him, but we were never compatible enough. We ended up unhaopy together and are now getting a divorce....
Thank you Stephan
This helps a lot
I understand his actions now
I really needed to hear this . I haven’t put myself out there in a long time . I know I’m a genuine person . Thanks so much for your advice ❤
This video! ❤ thanks, amazing pointers guidance 🙏 ❤️
My pleasure ❤️
I felt the connection and he said he felt it also and said that he thought like I did that I was the one and he was the one, but he still pulled away. So there are things that both of us need to work on. Good information. We both even said that we would support each other for our purpose. He does live 4 hours away from me now.
This last one was big! Sometimes the reality is a hard pill to swallow but it's best to accept things as they are now to go through misery later! I have a lot of respect for yiu for putting the effort to share ur knowledge with women!
Could you please do a video on how the woman should move after experiencing this
Great suggestion, I will add it to my list to get it done!
Thank you for this message i receive it 🙌 Merry Christmas
My pleasure ❤️ 🙌
Real good Stephen..... thank you for all your explanations
Great information! Thanks for sharing.
My pleasure ❤️
Incredible 👏🏾🙌🏾❤️ you are spot on
❤️ 🙂 Thank you!
Your videos are amazing! You're insight, understanding & explanations of this very difficult subject feel so spot on to me!
❤️ 🙂 Thank you!
Thank you for your time. It's always good to listen to sound advice. You definitely feed many. God bless.❤
❤️ 🙂 Thank you very much and may God bless you as well 🙏
I agree with everything you're saying.
I'm dealing with a man now that we go way back but reconnected 3 yrs ago & its been quite the roller coaster ride with him! I've always loved him & his faults. I know he had 1 horrendous relationship & had just got out of another when we reconnected. He gets close & he pulls away...actually he ghosts!!! I can't make up my mind if he's a Narcissist or fearful avoidant? I've done alot of research on both. He's now came back to me saying he knows I'm what he wants & he's not gonna run. Do I fully believe that...I want to but only time will tell. He means alot to me & will always have a place in my heart no matter. Ty for the video! ❤️
Recently while scrolling through the comments on one of @stephanspeaks YT videos, one man made a simple, but sobering comment. He said, "it's sad that most women are just afraid to date men now."🤔
It definitely isn't an easy situation, but the focus needs to be on doing what is truly best 🙏
I hear you and I fully understand everything you say 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾🙏🏽💚💚🙌🏾
Thank you for your feedback, I appreciate hearing from you ❤️
Merry Christmas thanks for all your words.
Merry Christmas ❤ 🙌
deep , deep stuff , craves emotional intelligence and this gentleman seems to have lots of it
Thank you for your feedback, I appreciate hearing from you ❤️
Stephan thanks nice video season's greetings to you.
Happy Holidays 🙌
I watch you so much and I don’t comment much but I just wanna say that you are very wise and thank you for doing the lords work 😂😂😂
Thank you for this video. I just experienced this exact thing. I was blindsided after 2.5 years together and it destroyed me. This helps with healing.
I pray that you heal from all that you have been through and be able to keep moving in faith 🙏 ❤️
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Very informative ❤
Glad to hear that, thank you for your response!
Thank you for your goid words and guidance. I personally experience dating on completely different ream. I'm terrified of dating after 3 strokes 1 day apart 3 wks after 43 birthday. Entirely too much to but here
Oh I thought this video was an old one being suggested because of my recent algorithm - turns out it’s new! I’m even more so comforted by that & feel that God has been ever so gently taking me through quite a confusing experience. I appreciate the effort you put into your channel & videos. Peace & health ☺️
❤️ 🙂 Thank you very much 🙏
Why does a man run away all the time over 6 years of coming and running - when there is a clear connection. Deep love brings deep fear and resistance - would love to hear more about this topic. Thank you for your great insight and work!
Interesting video!
❤️ 🙂 Thank you!
I love you Stephan, honestly you have got me through some very hard times, I thank God that you exist. This video popped up exactly when this happened to me, after 2 months, feeling a great connection, he just disappeared, now I am just confused, disappointed, feeling like there is something wrong with me, I simply do not understand this world anymore... So, just a big THANK YOU Stephan, for all your support, you help me so much, God bless you! Greetings all the way from Romania 🤗🇷🇴
Your videos are so helpful Stephan! This is one that especially resonated with me. Thank you so much for all you do to help us women ;-)
I'm happy the videos have been helpful to you. Don't forget to share so that others can receive love, healing, and clarity ❤ 🙏
Absolutely, thank you for the reminder@@MeetStephanSpeaks
My ex of 3 years, was engaged, had an amazing trip to Hawaii a month later he talked about how good a ring was going to look on my finger then a week later he called it quits. Could not give me a straight answer as to why. Now he drinks a lot and says to numb himself. This helped understand a little more but still is the hardest thing to go through.
You are an angel! ❤
I think it all comes down to one simple thing: he's just not that into you
Thank you for sharing, I appreciate that ❤️
Not always , I think #2 is what happened with my ex. We loved each other but he was a mama’s boy so me wanting a house and kids was a lot of pressure for him
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No, definitely not. Fear, shame, overwhelm, attachment wounds, and other reasons are very real. Sometimes the more important someone or something is the more you withdraw.
If your position is correct, unless his mouth is broken, he can say what you said: "I'm just not that into you." It might hurt, but we won't die.
thank you for making this video and for often promoting people getting therapy❤ I think everybody should also know that regular therapists are not necessarily trauma informed and this was a big game changer for me. For years, I saw therapist who inadvertently caused more harm because they were not trauma informed, and they couldn’t help me which kept me from healing, even though I was technically doing all the right things. Seek out internal family systems specialized therapists. Do research, be compassionate with yourself, heal ❤❤❤
Healing is definitely key 🙏
Oh yeah I felt chemistry - it’s attraction .. but connection is people who you match their puzzle piece…you and that person are very similar. You know what they’re thinking and how they feel without them saying anything just a look.
Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback 🙏
Yeah I had all that with a guy, but he still wasn’t ready because he felt like right now in his life he had alot going on and he wanted to enjoy being single. He didn’t want to step up to the plate anymore. Sheesh this is wild because he did all the work at the beginning. Wrong timing I guess
@@misslacolebaby734I’m in a similar situation. I'm just as we speak going through this .
I was Matched up ( through mutual friends ) with a guy & he's the one who reached out to me . (we've been chatting for 12 days so far) & at first he seemed into me & I thought the conversation was going great . We'd text back and forth & whenever he'd asked me as question
I'd reply ( within 1-2 hr time mark. Just to not seem too desperate) and then he'd ghost me and not continue the conversation. & then the only time I ghosted him was 2 days because I was sick (& I explained that to him ) & he seemed cool about it. & so we continued the conversations . Then he'd text me back, I'd reply & he's ghost me for 1-2 days without explanation (not that I need any ofc) & then just these part few days, he stopped texting me . (I didn't want to tAke the initiative because I thought " why is it always me? & whenever I do, I don't hear from him ) & as much as it hurts me because I was staring to feel like this guy was genuinely interested in me . I said to myself " asi como llego, se fue . De la nada que llega, de la nada que se vaya "
In English: Just as it came, it left. "From nothing that comes, from nothing that goes"
If he didn't put in the effort like I tried to, why should I??
and I just stopped talking to him overall.
From rejection comes redirection. 😌
Great video Stephan thanks for uploading.
I agree with second chances, but I think a 20 second text message to simply indicate the guys situation/status (nothing more) may mitigate alot of that unnecessary pain for the woman thereafter.
Thank you for sharing your thoughts, I appreciate hearing from you ❤
I believe that
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This is all excellent insight. Might I also add, this same video can be geared to men as to why women pull away. This is a gender equal video. Very well spoken, Stephan.
good afternoon. very profound that you shared told knowledge coming from a man. bless all us here amen.
Can’t agree more the last one, finally Mr ex who doesn’t know what he want, got a new girlfrien, I was hurt at first then think it’s actually a blessing in disguise
Sometimes a breakup can be a blessing in disguise 🙏
Always.....rejection is protection .
I thank God for you❤
Merry Christmas 🎄🎄🎄🎄 To you And your 🎄🎄🎄🎄🎄Thank you
Merry Christmas
Merry Christmas Stephen
Merry Christmas 🎄🎄🎄 everyone
Merry Christmas and a happy new year!
I hear you @StephanSpeaks, but we are adults. I heard you say we should speak truth to each other, but making up excuses is unacceptable. We're too old for that. I believe people can handle the truth if their mates can handle being truthful. You KNOW the array of ideas that run through people's heads. We might not like it, but we certainly dislike vague answers that leave us trying to figure out WHAT we missed. Ijs . . . .
Made connection & had chemistry with a gentleman that stepped to me. I'm not pressed so I was able to be patient and give a widower some space & grace. Hiding behind work, maybe? Talking to a rack of women, maybe? Or phony or fake? Only God knows.
Thank you for your feedback, I appreciate hearing from you ❤️
I had a man say that to me. He came from a very bad marriage, and it's been two years since his divorce. He said he thought he was ready for a relationship, but he admitted he was not. What should I do? We really had something nice then overnight things changed. I'm blown away. He got depressed and had an out burst on me New Year Eve. Then he blocked me
You are truly inspirational and super insightful indeed. One of the very best coaches out there if not the very best. I’m right now experiencing scenario no1 and no5 and you gave me some clarity so that I know not to overreact which will drive him further away. Thank you. I need to keep watching this clip
My dear Steph
U just took me back on a horrid experience
With this baby father drama
Am wondering why this video was posted
On the exact day I was put to the test years sgo
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Bars too
Great information ❤but I’m never hurt by what a man does. I am great with moving on
Thank you for your feedback. I appreciate hearing from you ❤ 🙏
WOW! That Explains! I just didn't understand this situation! It made absolutely no sense to me! 🤔🤔🤔🤔
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Hi Stephen thanks for this information it's an eye opener f6r me so what I'm asking myself is why men don't just say it if they can't say face to face why they can't just send a message ❤👌💕
Yep! Amen ❤
Its more than a year building relationship with him, I thought he is the one. But after 4 weeks living in his apartment, he kissed me and send to the airport. Then for 2 days he didn't message me. No good morning and no good night. So I ask, "are you okay? I know you changed, we promise that we will say everything to each other.
His reply was" I don't know what is up with me ". And he never me for 2 weks.
After 2 week, he message again, good morning xx
Hows my love xx
As if nothing happened...
I'm hurting... This is the second time he dis this to me.
Merry Christmas ⛄🎁 🌲🎚️
Merry Christmas ❤ 🌲
I just turned on your channel and first three words I was sold
No.3 relates to my situation. Things were going well until he heard a rumor about me that I was entertaining other men in the event I attended of which it wasn't true. I tried to get him talk about it but unfortunately he keep saying he will talk when he is ready. I gave him a space, I don't know if he will ever talk about it or he just moved on
Thank you for sharing your experience! Hopefully, it will help others learn from it. I appreciate that 🙏
after 2 years randomly got dumped before halloween and then they immediately moved on to another relationship then i find out they were in the hospital for a panic attack 2 days ago. like wtf? should be happy with the new relationship.. ugh
merry christmas 🎄
Karma babes.
@@ena__we4205i guess. i’m still sad to hear it and the holiday makes it suck too
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Some men and women don’t reciprocate the same energy
Absolutely!
@@MeetStephanSpeaks I love your content 😘🫶🏾
When it comes to pulling away for personal reasons, beware. This person can be a narcissist who pulls a disappearing act on you. This just happened to me. Two months of love bombing, then pulling away with the excuse of serious financial turmoil, and when confronted after two months of silence I found that the mask had slipped off and there was a very small and cruel person behind it with no empathy or regard for my feelings. Beware, you might find a narcissist once he comes back or once you reach out to confront him. The love-boming phase can definitely look like a man "being nothing but good".
Also, there was another guy who I was getting to know him and everything was going well and he pulled away and then a couple of weeks later he told me he had a alot of death in his family and so, I gave him the space and he did come back and things are good. I know that different people handle death in the family different and how I would handled it, someone else wouldn't. I try to give people grace and see what happens.
I'm glad he was truthful, and commend you for the grace you afforded him.❤
12:11 Taylor Swift found the right guy that does not care about other people opinions
Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback ❤️
If a man is not in love with Christ, that man CANNOT love you.
Thank you for sharing, I appreciate that ❤️
Facts ....these men today 😮
A God fearing man just entered my life and I'm letting him guide me to him.
What do you mean when you said “if it’s not a known past”?
To my understanding, if it's a past only she and/or only a couple of people know about it.
I could understand now stephan
Why my man pull away when it was going good and he pops back up after 7months of no communication and he spoke to me at work and i didn’t respond. And u know i didnt know how to respond and i healed from when he pulled away from me nd i got a better understanding and the main reason was personal issues and yet im single and i dnt speak to him at work when he speaks to me or try to get my attention by calling my name at work
Thank you for sharing, I pray that you heal from all that you have been through and be able to keep moving in faith ❤️ 🙏
@@MeetStephanSpeaks thank you stephan
I love this video, I think there should be a spin off video on it❤.. 7 things men/women do to push away their future God ordained spouse😊
Great suggestion, I will add it to my list to get it done!
I do not want to play games….but whenever I am honest to a man…He pulls away. I would be willing to talk about it….but the only man I have met and He was not playing games…it was my father…men todays play games 🥺
Are there any REASONS Why Men Pull Away than coming back and so on and off ? 💘
Here's why he disappears on you and what to do when he comes back 👉 czcams.com/video/pcwkV5En0ZQ/video.html
Can you please enlighten more on the “chasing concept “ I think there is a lot of misguidance going out there on it.
We all have are problems. One thing in life we must never do is ingore are intuition its their for a reason and its to protect us
Always important to listen to your intuition
Intuition is basically a summery of your life experiences, it can guide you right but also wrong at times. It alerts us in situations that remind us of something similar we have experienced before, or situations that go against our values. We should listen to intuition but also be aware that there are new experiences that are still missing in our intuition-catalogue.
Belated Merry Christmas 🥰
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yes
IF A MAN DOESN'T WANT ANYTHING SERIOUS FROM JUMP AND HE'S MADE THAT CLEAR....WHY CHASE HIM? WHY RECIPROCATE WHAT HE'S DOING? I'VE ALWAYS BEEN A WOMAN WHO DOESN'T CHASE A MAN ..... PERIOD! I'M FROM THE OLD SCHOOL AND I LET THEM KNOW THAT FROM JUMP STREET. I LOVE HARD...WHEN I'M INTO A GUY ...AND LOVE AND RESPECT HIM I GO ALL OUT.
And if you break with someone that you have good conection?
It's his loss. Positive vibes only. Move on.
Thank you for sharing your thoughts, I appreciate hearing from you ❤
I am wondering how I should react when he goes through personal issues and disappears, as this is a very destabilising attitude for me
Hmmm 🤔 interesting.
Thank you for watching and sharing your thoughts ❤ 🙏
I'm done for now lol Jesus is my Husband and when he's ready to reveal my earthly Husband....then....that's when it will happen lol I have decided to give it all to Jesus. He obviously has someone very special for me, and THAT is who I want....all in God's timing, of course. Until then, I'm seeking God, studying the word and learning more about my Heavenly Father...my BEST friend. Seek God's Kingdom first. All these things will be given to me...I just need a liiiiil more patience, WHICH IS EXACTLY MY PROBLEM 🤣🤣🤣I'm working on it tho lol
I pray that you receive the man who is truly best for you, the man God has for you 🙏
Thank you so much Stephan! I know He will 🥰@@MeetStephanSpeaks
Ok meet dis guy n connection & chemistry are both strong but here's da thing we have much great conversations we understand each other well we r da same sign my heart fuller da thought of him, he said he luvs me n wants 2 marry me but we only known each other 4 three months now, the thing is dat he doesn't even know my name I'm like wats really going on
Tf.....men will say anything to hit that thang....men don't even fall in love that fast... 🏃
You sure he ain't a serial killer .....😂