Do Men Really Age Like Wine?
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- čas přidán 28. 06. 2024
- Macken Murphy has been making rounds on podcasts criticizing commonly used phrases in 'the red pill' community. Is he right that men do not, in fact, "Age Like Wine."
I answer this question and talk about what you can do as men to make yourself as attractive as possible
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40 year old men in good shape with slight status can still pull 20 year olds
They absolutely can. Key is to do exactly that stay in shape and have some form of status.
old men have advantages like having more life experience and typically better social skills, including flirting which is a must in relationships. some people would still believe "women just want looks and money" but reality is different.
If you're in good shape you can pull 24 year olds until you're 70
The average dude definitely doesn't get better
Man there are fat old men with young women so who cares what people think, just focus on yourself. And deal with people who like you regardless of age
If the conclusion wasn't clear I am saying, yes, men CAN age like wine. But you have to keep putting in effort to level yourself up. You will be much more attractive overall than you were in your 20's.
In my own life I have had little issue dating women younger than me and the women who used to turn me down when I was younger are very attracted to me now. I, however, are less interested in them.
I hope you do a video soon on which life is more painful for people who are about to die or pass away very soon? Having unbearable regrets while having freedom? Or life in prison?
Think of serial killers, should people who have unbearable regrets while they have freedom become serial killers so that they will go to prison for the rest of their lives if they are about to die or pass away very soon?
Just being mature alone is a huge attraction trigger to girls in my personal experience and a sign of high status.
With age comes wisdom and experience. Combine that with maintaining a strong, healthy and youthful appearance and it's game over.
@@OnderHassan Which is a more painful life to live when it comes to people who are about to die or pass away very soon? Having unbearable regrets while having freedom? Or life in prison?
@@antoniovella7756 Which life is more painful for people who are about to die to pass away very soon? Having unbearable regrets while having freedom? Or life in prison?
Thank God I decided to date in my 30s. I know age and maturity are not related, but a 30 year old mature person is better than a 20 year old mature person in the sense that the 30 year old has more life experience and knowledge. They also tend to know themselves better and know what they want out of life better than other younger people.
I believe with advancements in anti aging studies and skin care you can maintain your physical appearance into your 40’s with little change if you implement a strict diet and excerise routine.
I'm 33 and I can tell you I become more attractive every day. Key is fitness, lifting weights regularly, having your macros in line, drink water, don't eat processed food, don't drink alcohol (very important), and of course, keep your money and lifestyle on point.
What about your testosterone levels , libido and ferility. How do you feel
@@thalai143trt
@@dannyr.7566 enough motivation to hop on the cycle for me
I second that, currently 33 been lifting and eating clean since 18. Way more attention from women now compared to my 20s, especially with the increase in earnings as you age and gain experience in your field.
@@thalai143 All of those are great. Of course, T levels are not the same as when you are 20, they start to decline in 30s, but that doesnt mean they drop like a cliff dive, they drop slowly if you take care of your self. I mean, 33 is still pretty young though, but at this age is when you clearly start to see the difference between men who take care of themselves and men who don't.
They CAN, but you have to take care of yourself.
Neither men nor women age like wine. We can't just lay around doing nothing and expect to improve automatic.
I'm 35 and have noticed a significant improvement in various aspects of my life over the past few years. I receive attention, looks, and compliments from women of all ages. However, I find myself less drawn to women in their 20s due to differences in maturity, especially among educated individuals.
If you maintain yourself as I do, you may find it easy to attract women in their physical prime for casual encounters. However, if you value intellect, like myself or Lloyd, you might realize that such connections lack depth for long-term relationships.
Younger women, particularly in today's dating landscape influenced by social media and apps, may not tolerate shortcomings in looks, money, or status as readily as in the past. Merely achieving financial success won't necessarily compensate for being out of shape, lacking style, or struggling socially.
It's unwise to emulate men from certain "circles" who pursue much younger partners. Plenty of women within your age range take care of themselves just as you do. By doing the same, you can age gracefully. However, it's crucial to adjust your expectations as your options naturally evolve with time.
If anything, my goal is to age like fine wine like Chris Hemsworth. Not a superstar, but great and stable career while keeping my fitness and taking care of myself. So far, it’s been going well.
Better hop on some juice soon
Celebrities are almost inexistent and even they are more handsome in their youth. All men are ugIier at 35 than at 25 too. This is the reaosn why the oIder men are compared to the promedium 2.5 yeargap distrubted in GausBell, the least probabilities they have of getting a prime-year old girl who despite having the geatest power to choose a man of any age, still chooses boys 2,5 years okder the most.
Although 30yo men have more economic stabilitiy they have less probabilities. The reason is ugliness.
Celebrities are a super minority because being famous means being known by at least 100 000 people. Being 1 of every 100 000 people is not representative
I’m 38 now I will say this women tell me I look more sexier and handsome now than I did in my 20s and I feel more confident in myself and I take care of myself. I especially moisturizing follow a skin routine. And I’ve been sober for the last three years. Younger women or women much older than me tell me I look good for my age.
You look good with a shorter haircut.
He def went thru a glow up no homo.
I think we can all agree no one wants an older woman
Not to marry but to have fun hell yeah lol
Dunno about that one chief
And we young women do not want old men. All men are ugIier at 35 than at 25 too. This is the reaosn why the oIder men are compared to the promedium 2.5 yeargap distrubted in GausBell, the least probabilities they have of getting a prime-year old girl who despite having the geatest power to choose a man of any age, still chooses boys 2,5 years okder the most.
Although 30yo men have more economic stabilitiy they have less probabilities. The reason is ugliness.
Celebrities are a super minority because being famous means being known by at least 100 000 people. Being 1 of every 100 000 people is not representative
It depends, my gf is 7, almost 8 years younger but I hope we are still together in the decades to come even when she is older.
Brotha Lloyd can you drop a vid on your skin care routine ? I don’t ever do that stuff but i see the value in it
I’ll be 39 soon. The attention I get when I meet women when I go out is easier than when I was 28-29. I don’t have the baby face anymore, and I have more confidence and it becomes easier. Having access to sex is wayyyy easier. I’m currently dating a 28 yr old. Keep in mind I’m still attracted to 30 plus yr old chicks. At 37-45 why would any man be interested in girls in early 20s anyway? They’re too young anyway, they like boys, not men! Don’t chase the super models and you’ll be fine
Late 20's early 30's is a great age to look at when you get older. Recommend that to most of my older clients.
im 35 and everyone tells me i look 24-25. you need to get lean. dont go the muscular monster way if you get into fitness, you will look 10 years older!
"At 37-45 why would any man be interested in girls in early 20s anyway? They’re too young anyway, they like boys, not men! Don’t chase the super models and you’ll be fine." This makes no sense at all! Younger woman are far more sexual and fertile. I am 36 and date a 19 year old girl and a 21 year old girl. Why? Cause they have the hottest body around. Woman that are 30 plus look like old milk mate. After 30 it's done for 90% of the woman. 70% cause they have kids, had a lot of stress and did a lot of alcohol, and 20% cause they overdo the plastic surgery. Keeping 10% that look good, so 1 out of 10 of old (30+) woman look good. There are so many woman I dated years ago and I wouldn't even look at them anymore.
@@user-hl3qv8qg2s You won't, unless you do steroids. I maxxed out my natural gains and I look 10 years younger.
yes
Isn’t a woman being attracted to you for your resources not the same as a woman desiring you for your looks? It won’t inspire the same lust, no?
Women usually want you for what you have moreso than who you are. Just gotta bolster up whatever they want
Looks is a lot better and genuine. Old men lack looks.
@robertrichards4930 not 36. All men are ugIier at 35 than at 25 too. This is the reaosn why the oIder men are compared to the promedium 2.5 yeargap distrubted in GausBell, the least probabilities they have of getting a prime-year old girl who despite having the geatest power to choose a man of any age, still chooses boys 2,5 years okder the most.
Although 30yo men have more economic stabilitiy they have less probabilities. The reason is ugliness.
Celebrities are a super minority because being famous means being known by at least 100 000 people. Being 1 of every 100 000 people is not representative
All relationships have a transactional component. I am very tall and I can tell you that there are women who obsess about this a lot. As a child I found these things infuriating because I found unfairness in life more concerning. Now I don't because as you age you accept inequality.
benefits about getting older is you can put more time into your physique, which is something you don't really have when you are younger unless you take steroids. Gwily mcpugh is a great example of someone who took care of themselves and DID peak when they was older.
Any advice for young guys who aren't in college? I'm conflicted because I feel like I should be going due to many people my age (20) are in college but I'm not quite sure If going gets a person paid better in proportion to effort let alone being more hire-able besides in medical
How should I go about developing a social circle without school? (bonus points if their my same age).
I'm developing skills outside academia but I still don't feel great about not going to school even though it seems like the right choice for me because I feel like I'm slacking off
Focus on what's important to you then find other people who value the same things you do.
I love to surf, and in the grander scheme of things, love to be active, value my mental health and enjoy nature. I ended up making my best friends through surfing. I would travel with them, go to yoga with them, etc and of course I met a lot of girls I hooked up with and dated through that.
Keeping girls around and capitalizing on my leads is a whole other story and why I keep watching his videos 6 years later. It can always be better, I can always be better, it never ends
100% go to college, its worth the debt for the social circle/connections/experience. you get one chance to go to college and have huge access to top 10% girls, don't waste it because some redpill guru told you not to go. start female gaze maxxing, go to college, join a sports team or frat and enjoy buddy
Hey Lloyd, I’m 23 yrs old turning 24 this November and I want to maximize dating young girls as much as possible (girls from the ages 18- 20s). As soon as I’m done this engineering degree I’m planning on getting my own place and going out very aggressively. However, I have the thought that when I get older (aka 30s, 40s, etc) what if I’m not interested in dating women that are in that range like you said: late 20s and early 30s? What if I want to continue dating younger girls who are from the age 18 to early 20s? When you mention getting in shape, I have no problems with that: I’ve been hitting the gym since I was 14 and I never plan on stopping. Also in terms of money and status I’m working on that. Any suggestions?
Forgot to add: in terms of the status part I wouldn’t exactly know how to work on that because I’m not a famous celebrity like Justin beiber for instance lol
Bro I'm 31 and I've been seeing 22 year old chick. Don't worry
Don’t go out aggressively in your 20s if you want to retire early or have any money leftover, coming from a 25 yr old lmao
@@HookahDoncic98 why not he’s already set. U don’t have to drink to go out. In my 20s I would go out completely sober
@@HookahDoncic98 I care about girls more than money. I take after Lloyd, and plus: money ain’t everything, just a tool. It’s also diminishing in returns, after a certain point it becomes useless 😂
female gaze/pretty boy maxx, realistically the older you get the less chance you'll have to date younger girls so go all out while you can and keep clean shave/use drugs to keep hairline and low body fat % so you look as young as possible for as long as you can
This video is spot on, i think most men are delusional if they think they just automatically have higher value as you get older.
In my opinion if you work hard in your 20s, 30-35 should be your prime because you still look young and you should have money by then.
This doesnt mean if you work out you still cant pull 20 year olds well unto your 40s, but it just gets harder and I think you have to be more finanically successful.
Depends. Most men are average or worse, so it's on a case by case basis.
When it comes to 💰
One social meet up group I attended lately, one of the guys there told me he sadly didn't get his very first girlfriend until he was 30, while he is happy about having a girlfriend now, he still gets kind of depressed and bitter and resentful over having been single that long. Feels he didn't grow up having a normal youth because of being single that long. Causes him to envy and feel resentment and feel bitter when he sees couples out there younger than him.
He has the mindset that he feels if he had been born a woman at least an average plain-looking woman, then there is a guarantee he would not have been alone or single that long. Since women are always guaranteed attention or dating options because for all time women have always been on the receiving end of sexual attention. A lot of guys hate and resent how nature and reality dictates that men have to make the first move all the time and be the initiators and do the pursuing but unfortunately there's no other way.
Yet people think men still have the better end of the stick in the dating world than women do, especially when men are far more likely than women are to be single that long, be alone or single longer, or to have a lonely journey, yes men and women each have different difficulties or different issues to deal with but being alone or single later than normal is normally never an issue or never a problem for women.
He says he feels angry and mad whenever people and Society say that he should feel grateful that he has a girlfriend now and that he has no right to feel angry and bitter that he was single and alone that long.
Or why get angry and upset about what didn't happen in the past.
Well he has a right to feel how he wants to feel.
Probably because women are just a guaranteed options and attentions for just existing and breathing or having a pulse but it's not true if you're a guy or a human male.
Men have to learn all of these skills or behaviors or know how to talk and behave a certain way or act a certain way to attract women( I got even more pissed off when a guy said that men also have to learn how to talk a certain way and behave a certain way or act a certain way in order to get a job or get certain social ranking in Society), that pissed me off a lot because that's a different issue and that's a different matter and plus the way you talk and behave and act in order to get a job or get social ranking in Society is different than what it takes to attract women, women however since they play a passive role, I just don't understand why or how women have to learn any skills in order to attract men, I just don't get it, that doesn't require any learning or I just don't see how it requires any learning.
So yeah I get very mad and annoyed that there is even dating advice for women on how to attract men
But yeah I get very angry whenever people think men have it better than women do in dating.
I feel like I can relate to him because I didn't really have a breakthrough or a long-term relationship until my early 30s, I'll forever be sad and depressed and bitter and resentful that I didn't have a long-term relationship in my 20s.
Yet people still think men have it better than women do when in fact women have always been and always will be less at risk than men do at being chronically alone or single later than normal like I described.
It won't surprise me if you are the type of guy or the type of person who has the mindset that it's better to be a man than it is to be a woman at the end of the day.
Overall, I will forever be angry and bitter, resentful, that I didn't have a girlfriend until later than normal.
I remember when one person told me that I should just be glad that I was able to get a girlfriend or have a girlfriend now and enjoy the fruits of my labor and that just made me more angry and pissed me off even more it sounds like that person has the mindset or mentality that a guy or a man should still be happy that even if he finally managed to get a girlfriend even in his 50s or 60s or as a senior citizen.
Yeah I have the mindset that women are the only gender that are owed a relationship but men are not.
It naturally feels like women are owed a relationship but men are not, because when you're on the receiving end of sexual attention it means that you always have options and choices or it just means that you are in abundance by default for simply just existing.
You do;)
I can say with certainty that they do. I turn 40 in a few months and still look like a 24 year old lol
It all depends on how you take care of yourself during your 20s, which sadly most guys tend to squander with alcohol or with synthetic protein shakes and steroids. That's why gym freaks in good shape look like shit by the time they hit 30.
I've never drunk excessive alcohol, ate clean all my life and kept everything in moderation. If you do this and stay disciplined, you will continue to look great as you age.
He doesn't understand the saying. It isn't about physical attractiveness.
Not sure I believe this shit , I am more attractive at 29 than I was back at 23.. I look more manly (better muscle size , better beard , better style , yes there is very little wrinkles showing but it makes me look better oddly) if you look worse you are not hitting the gym , you are not doing cardio , you are not on your purpose , you ain't a man.
There is also a lot of evidence that women like the aging wrinkles of men because it indicates higher levels of maturity and the stuff I talk about in this video.
@@TheSingleGuy no, we don't, we have eyes to see how they look worse with age. All men are ugIier at 35 than at 25 too. This is the reaosn why the oIder men are compared to the promedium 2.5 yeargap distrubted in GausBell, the least probabilities they have of getting a prime-year old girl who despite having the geatest power to choose a man of any age, still chooses boys 2,5 years okder the most.
Although 30yo men have more economic stabilitiy they have less probabilities. The reason is ugliness.
Celebrities are a super minority because being famous means being known by at least 100 000 people. Being 1 of every 100 000 people is not representative
I fumbled the bag and was so close to ever having a girlfriend and now i feel like shit what do i do now?
Mourne the fantasy you had in your head of you two together. Accept the reality that happened when you two were together. Accept the reality now of you away from her. Then, accept the opportunities in your life right now to improve and grow.
I'm sorry to hear you're going through this. I remember the pain of fumbling the bag with so many girls. But eventually, a girl came into my life that truly loves me.
But that comes after you put yourself out there. Not your confident, charismatic, never-makes-a-mistake persona. But you're true self.
Put the person that makes mistakes out into the world, and go make some more!
Also additional information of being broke. Yes we men need tk have stable jobs or being financial stable because these days a lot lf women earn more than men who for example work in construction. I mean really beautiful women who studied and getting good jobs now. You need to match at least match that.
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Excuse me sir, something tells me that when it comes to people who are about to die or pass away very soon, meaning when it comes to people who are gonna be in their deathbed very soon, having unbearable regrets while having freedom is a more painful life to live than life in prison, can you please do a video about it?
I would love to do a video on this but I am a little confused about your question. What is your question?
@@TheSingleGuy Let's see if you can understand me like this, are unbearable regrets while having freedom a more painful life to live than life in prison when it comes to people who only have a few more years to live and then die or pass away after a few years are passed?
@@Bentoto97Huh??
@@Bentoto97 dude, simplify
@@Ghost-zm1rk Read what I commented and replied.
Your girlfriend seems to think so.......
I'm 42, The older I get the more wisdom I get. Also attracting women is much easier.
That so called expert is wrong. Listen to David Buss for a real expert.
This video was depressing
It’s all situational
First
I disagree,
To some extent wrinkles and grey hair make men look physically better...
There is also a lot of evidence that women like the aging wrinkles of men because it indicates higher levels of maturity and the stuff I talk about in this video.
No. All men are ugIier at 35 than at 25 too. This is the reaosn why the oIder men are compared to the promedium 2.5 yeargap distrubted in GausBell, the least probabilities they have of getting a prime-year old girl who despite having the geatest power to choose a man of any age, still chooses boys 2,5 years okder the most.
Although 30yo men have more economic stabilitiy they have less probabilities. The reason is ugliness.
Celebrities are a super minority because being famous means being known by at least 100 000 people. Being 1 of every 100 000 people is not representative
I’m 24 and I found myself a gorgeous 28 year old woman. I’ve got my shit all dialed down and she sees that, so do other people 😉 the sooner you get your shit together, the sooner you’ll get to enjoy the fruits of your labor. Like he said: yes you’ll age like fine wine IF you put in the work along the way.
I'm about to turn 24 wouldn't mind settling down with a late 20s woman. I need to get my sh!t together though. Dead end job, no skills, shy, little confidence, no social status etc.
@@insanoibro6331 Beautiful Woman at 28 and above can see you through like a book once they check you out and know you a bit. They can smell your insecurity even the tiniest bit. Even if you get a job now and get few skills. If you are not confident about any of these, they will now. Some even will straight up confront you about it. I mean like really beautiful late 20s women. They are no joke. They are like tamed lions and if you show weakness as a man they're gonna either dump you or move on pretty fast. I hope you get your life together and work on yourself as a person to get pure confidence about anything you do. Yes even writing that you have a sh!tty life is low confidence. Some dudes are confident about being poor and get women
Also additional information of being broke. Yes we men need tk have stable jobs or being financial stable because these days a lot lf women earn more than men who for example work in construction. I mean really beautiful women who studied and getting good jobs now. You need to match at least match that.
Also additional information of being broke. Yes we men need tk have stable jobs or being financial stable because these days a lot lf women earn more than men who for example work in construction. I mean really beautiful women who studied and getting good jobs now. You need to match at least match that.
Also additional information of being broke. Yes we men need tk have stable jobs or being financial stable because these days a lot lf women earn more than men who for example work in construction. I mean really beautiful women who studied and getting good jobs now. You need to match at least match that.