Things We Wish We Knew Before Getting Married At 20... (She Got Emotional)
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- čas přidán 9. 07. 2024
- Things we wish we knew before getting married at 20 years old... Jess got emotional...
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I'm wheezing. Jess is all emotional and crying about cherishing moments together and Gabe is like "yeah I love our moments with Jacko😍"
What time?
@@Emma-vr6qb 17:00
@Alessia 😡😡😡
“It’s not me vs her, it’s us vs the situation”
I preach this ALL THE TIME to my friends!!!! Y’all are reading my mind lmao I was vigorously nodding my head hearing you say that. Relationships are a TEAM effort and should never be a competition of who’s gonna “win” over the other person! Resolving conflict should never leave one person feeling defeated, because if one person “loses” then you both lose
Please pin this comment, can't i sub to this comment in any way? love this.
A resume of what they said:
- Financially on the same Table
- Have emotional Check up every Week
- Get to know the Family
- Choose to love not base on your feelings & emotions
- comunication is important
- In alignment with the heart desires ( when to have kids, where to live etc)
- learn eachother " fighting styles" & continue to go on intentional Dates ( quality time)
- Cherish every Moment, time goes very fast. Have slow moments and cherish them
You're so awesome
@@kwazzik5453 awww you are more!!! Btw I told Jess and gabe in person when i met them in Los Angeles that i will release a song about their love story to inspire people to wait in God's timing. Its coming out next year!!! 🙈🥰 Who will support me?
@@PatriStarlight I'll try my best to look out for it and listen when released😊👍 Wishing you all the best on your upcoming project.
We thank you! It's very useful!
beautiful, thank you! amazing video!
Jess cried because she was pregnant 🥺🥺 hormonal emotions!!! I remember watching this and we all had no idea
I'm gonna go ahead and say it. I need a Jess and Gabriel podcast called, "Another Day, Another Pod." If it doesn't happen soon I'm gonna be sad! lol. Just kidding. But for real, if Jess and Gabriel see this comment I love these! Your podcast would be on my weekly podcast listens on my way to work!
I agree. Please do a podcast!
@Himadri Maru This is an unnecessary comment. If that's the case, then no podcast is original and no business is original either.
I was thinking this. Maybe in the future they can wind down on the couple CZcams channel and make a video podcast instead and they can still make content for their individual channels.
Yes! A video podcast for those of us who aren’t auditory learners haha
omg this would be perfect
Love what Jess said “don’t invest so much into the wedding and not into the marriage”
I’m so happy to see you guys branching into deep topics in this way. Learned lots from you gabe
hi yusuf🐧
oh hey it’s yusuf
Now that I think about it. You guys got married realllllly young. Jess was 20 when she got married. And here I am 19 years old and studying for my majors. The idea of marriage doesn't even cross my mind, because I can barely just take care of myself 😅
I'm 19 too! I'm graduating from university next year, and I've never had a boyfriend!
@@oliviatownes8383 Same 😂😂😂 because I have never had a girlfriend!
Faaacts... but everybody timing is different yk. Just how I see it
Ikr. Back when I was in high school and watched them get married I was like that's so sweet I would do that if I met the right person, but here I am at 20 thinking I am in no way shape or form ready for that. I'm not saying it's bad that they got married young, but I do think it shows how incredibly mature they are and were. They're not that much older than us, but they've always been my mentors.
I’m 19 and just got married!! I turn 20 in February😅
I’m 20, and never had a relationship before, but I’m learning so much from them, especially the part where they mentioned to never invalidate someone else’s feelings just because you disagree. I honestly think this applies in many ways, and friendship-wise, I can totally relate to this. Thank you so much, Jess and Gabe ♥️
Hubby and I dated for 3 months, got engaged and married on the 4th month. Been married going on 17 years. And everything covered here is so true. I have to say, if you two have realized this in such a short time of your marriage, you guys are on the right track as long as you 2 continue to follow what you have learned. Not too many marriages realize these points until its too late. Marriage is hard work. It takes the 2 of you to work at it 100% of the time in order for it to work. Hubby and I say, marriage is like a full job. Almost 17 years and we are still in love with each other. Happy Anniversary!!
thats great congratulation
*“It’s not you versus the other person, but it’s each other versus the situation.”* This hits hard, and is such a very wise thing to remember.
I love how their content is getting more mature as they’re growing in the relationship. I feel like I’ve been growing up with then too
My husband and I got married just 6 days after you guys. One thing that really works for us is our ‘15 minutes’. Uninterrupted time with no distractions (phone, tv etc) to just talk every day for 15 minutes minimum. It can get hard sometimes with work and being busy to actually sit down and spend time only with your partner & it keeps us on the same page.
Watching this now after their pregnancy announcement and now it makes sense why Jess got so emotional 🤭
I'm thinking the same thing lol
i haven’t watched you guys in the longest time, but i’m so glad i clicked on this video. i’ve 100% missed you guys & im SO glad you still say “another day, another vlog”. i remember the video you guys started saying it!!
Same here ! 🖐️👏
Sameee
Omg same
“actually, we are still going through it…”
*proceeds to talk about values with having children*
the baby announcement makes this make so much sense 😂💛
I love how you guys show the real and raw side of a relationship! Love you Jess and Gabe 🥺❤️
As someone who has been married for 2 years, and now being 25 I really needed to hear this! Thankyou for normalising marriage and the real feelings and emotions that come with it! ❤️
This is just brightening up my entire day, especially in the Podcast setup 😍
This conversation is so pure and real. Many a time being in a relationship it's so hard to sit and have a heart-to-heart convo. because most of the time it's always lovey-dovey or just brushing away seems the most easy way escaping from argument. I love this couple . Am so happy to see this video . Thank you so much
This talk felt so relatable and mature and honest I’m in my early 30s so found this sooooo helpful!
This is so real & emotion, you guys are so down to earth! 💖🙌🏻
I loved this. It showed that even the couple’s most suited for each other still go through real life together and was very raw and honest.
I look up to you guys so much and watching vids like this one really just makes me wanna sit down with you guys and just have a deep convo about life or something😭 you’re really my role models I love u guys so much I cant believe it’s been 5 years!!
also major congrats on your 5 year anniversary!!! i literally remember watching your wedding video, how was that 5 years ago 🥲 forever thankful that i’ve known you guys for this time, you’re definitely my comfort people, thank you for these past 5 years 🤍
me too🥲
these videos are so so so so SO helpful. you should do videos like this regularly, or even consider starting a podcast. you guys have so much knowledge on how to have a successful relationship. it’s so inspiring and it’s also very reassuring when you guys talk about issues that you’ve had to work through together. it just goes to show that no relationship is perfect and there’s nothing wrong with hitting a bump in the road that takes some time to work out.
love yall
Jess’s personality is just soo pure I love how soft spoken calm and kind she is she inspires me to become a better person every time I watch her🥺💕
So blessed
This is so important. Thank you guys for talking about how real relationships work, and for reminding us that love is a choice that we make every single day. Being in a long term relationship demands lots of comittement and I appreciate you guys talking about such topics here ❤️ I started watching you in 2016 and I've seen you grow as a couple and it's beautiful to watch. Kisses from Europe 🤎
I'm getting married in a month and a half, and so all this content about being married/newlyweds makes me really grateful. I've been watching you guys' videos for a few years now and I really really appreciate this.
I just found your channel and truthfully, I am loving it ! The fact that you guys are able to sit down and talk about this on camera and FREELY is great! Fact that you guys do have conversations and do listen to each other most of the time while being calm and composed about it is awesome! That's a SUB from me. Loved the content. Not everything needs to be scripted- learnt that from this video.
I like the scene that Gabe moved Jess’s cup he’s literally gentle and I can see how he loves her💜💜💜💜
I really enjoy all their wisdom and advice you give us! Love how genuine and sincere you are, love you! ❤️😊
Im literally still a teen but i learned so much from this video. Ill come back when i get engaged! You guys are so cute and understand each other so well, i hope my marriage ends up looking something like yours 💗
You guys are a beacon with this grounding wisdom. And it hits home as someone navigating a long distance relationship with some important, big questions looming about next steps! Thank you guys for showing God's heart in how you lead with your platform!
i love that your channel has transitioned with your audience! i am 20 and in a long distance relationship and these videos are so hopefully and helpful!
My husband and I got married just a couple of months before y'all (10.08.16), so we just celebrated our 5 year as well (and we celebrated 10 years together in November)! I get so excited about landmarks like this because our happy and healthy marriage is something I'm so proud of. That being said, I feel I needed to hear Jess say, "Cherish every moment," because while 5 years ago feels like a different time, it also went by so quickly. I think that everyone needs to practice a little more of living in the now.
Podcast please🥺 Literally just listening to this while I did chores.
So amazing to see you both thriving still. Gabriel you gave me an interest in vlogging and CZcams back in 2013 and ever since then I’ve wondered if I could do it. Today, 8, nearly 9 years later I’m a 27 year old who just made a CZcams channel! Thank you so much and keep up the great work!
Much love,
Tim.
Love these videos, Jess and Gabe! So real, down to earth, and helpful for those to see what marriage at our age looks like.
Never in 5 years of me watching their videos regret watching their relationship grow and flourishing into what it is today. Love you guys and will always watch you guys till the day i die :)
i was just wondering, have you guys ever thought about a new intro? don't get me wrong i LOVE the one you have now!! but it would be so exciting to have something new, maybe in honor of your 5 years anniversery? :))
I thought about this as Well! Facts
They’re probably too busy
That’d be a great idea! 🙂
I think every video they do podcast like I say “this needs to be longer” I could listen to this all day long and topic like this can help so many people that are either in the road to marriage or are already married.
Thank you so much for this guys ❤ its exactly what me and my partner needed to hear! Exactly what we are going through with emotions and feelings and talking about them and finances!! Definitely a message sent from God to us ❤
First of all, congrats on 5 years!!! it's incredible :) I was wondering if you (especially Jess) could talk about the struggles of moving to the US, residency, being away from home and adjusting to life in the US. My boyfriend is from the US and I'm not, he's probably gonna have to go back next year and I wanna follow him but I would like some insight on how that went down for you and the issues you went through with visas and all that (marriage / fiancé etc)
Even though my husband and I have over 10 years on you guys, I always appreciate hearing your advice on marriages. I find myself agreeing with it all and I hope it helps others along their journey of marriage. It is NOT easy, but the joy and reward that comes from persevering is beyond words!
Please start a whole podcast. 😭 My heart and soul is ready for this.
LOVED THIS VIDEO! The sit down chats about deep topics is where it's at!! 😍
Honestly, I'm glad that you guys can share this kind of vídeo, I think that this is the right example for others of a healthy relationship. And ...WE NEED THE PODCAST PLEASE.
I’m so early!!!! I love that I got to start my morning off with you guys!💛 It’ll actually be almost a year since I first found you guys from watching Gabe’s VLog on surprising Jess in Australia. I love you guys so much, you both are so inspiring, and positive and actually real. You both are not afraid to talk about the hard stuff and that’s amazing! Great video like always, love you both so much!💛
Sending so much love and respect to you guys ♡ May your married life prospers with so much love, health , happiness and success . I truly admire you two .
You two are so amazing! I love your relationship and how real you are. Thank you for such an honest chat 💛
This was beautiful! These types of conversations are so important. This advice was perfect! Definitely very helpful. Coming from someone who is planning on getting married in the near future! ❤
aaa i love this not-so-podcast thing you guys did!! ❤️❤️
I love how open and how mature you are. About the financial part and the debts, its so important, I'm French, moved to Toronto few years ago, credit cards and debts are not a thing in France like it is in North America and I didn't realize at the beginning of my Canadian dating life that it was something major in a relationship because I never had this situation back home. Very smart to talk about it in your video! Have a good weekend guys!!
Aghhhhhh it’s been so cool watching you guys grow & thanks for bringing us along the ride these last 5 years love you guys❤️
LOVE LOVE THESE CONVERSATIONS, super real, and super helpful!
I seriously love you guys!! You are the perfect example of what a healthy relationship looks like
I have been married for 4 years now and we married very young. This year we got a child, all praise to God. It hit me when Jess said “cherish the moments” couldnt help but tear a bit. You two are incredibaly nice and well spoken people. So happy to see a young couple being so intentional about their marriage and the points you touched upon show how much wisdom you both have in yourselves. May Lord bless you and keep you protected from all the evil.
Your vlogs, and now your podcasts, are the best! 🥰
I remember seeing them when they first started I thought they were moving too fast but their vibe and energy with each other was so strong and I’m so happy to come here and see that you guys are still going strong ❤ I love it
I love this video and this conversation especially because I’ve watched you guys since your meeting, engagement and early marriage and the whole time, even tho I loved y’all, I could see the “honeymoon” and obsession with one another(which is totally okay and normal) and I was so curious to watch you guys go from that to the more comfortable and different side to marriage once that goes away!
Love this! I just got recently married and we’re both in our early 20s, thanks for this! 💛
seeing Gabe wearing new earth makes me so excited for my own new earth order to arrive!! (i live in the Netherlands, so it takes a bit longer to arrive :))
Hoi mede Nederlander ☺️
Hee nederlanderrss :))
Belgje hier 😆
wow I love the deeper convos. sometimes it seems like everything is just easy and perfect but I'm learning so much from you guys!
Thank you for being so real and truly sharing what you are going through.
I just wanted to say that these videos are so helpful for me. I am in a kind of new relationship and listening to what you guys have to say and the advice you are giving really helps me figure out and think about what I want and the important things in a relationship and in life in general!
Love the mature, deep conversation. Really appreciate this, and the openness.
this is the best advice I've ever heard. Im so grateful for you guys sharing your personal values!
I'll keep this video for ever in my life! Thanks for being vulnerable and share your experiences here 💖 God bless your life and fill you guys with His love. You're an example!
i loved this so much! and then when ya'll got emotional 😭💛
your videos are the highlight of my day, you two are so inspirational and educational in every sense - thank you ❤️
More videos like these please! I’m a newlywed and obviously there is no handbook for marriage and hearing great advice such a this really helps! ❤️
please can you do such videos more often? it is so eye-opening and touching. I love you, guys. hi from Russia.
I'm 21 and I got married September this year. It was also a long distance thing. It's still going very well.
I love watching these videos that have helpful conversations.
One doesn’t experience self-transcendence, the illusion of self only dissipates .🎈
I just watched your surprising Jess (your 1st time in Australia) & the engagement video & surprising your friends, surprising your Mom for her birthday & the Wedding video just before you posted this, WILD!!!!! I watch them a lot, gives me the feels!! Love you guy's!
ITS SO CRAZY! i started watching you guys the video after your wedding! i have been watching you guys for almost 5 years. Love y’all💗
I love these! Keep them coming!
This is so helpful, thank you for the great advice Jess and Gabriel.
I get your notification and I just know it's going to be a good one. Both of you are such an inspiration not just for the young couples or couples in general but for the singles out there too. God bless ❤
I feel like I’ve known you guys since forever. Its so wonderful to see you guys evolve into these amazing personalities❤️❤️
Jess out here making me cry again lol I’ve been with my husband since we were 16 and we will be married 3 years next year and together 9. And will be welcoming our first child into the world in June🥺 it’s like my dreams are coming true that I’ve had since I met him and it’s still so surreal to me 😭
i’m happy for you! 💓
Thank you, this was much needed :')
OMG, I’ve been following you since you were doing long distance and when Jess said “cherish every moment “ just hit me how much time has gone by and not even noticed, I just started crying 🥲 ly guys ❤️
I love you guy's conversation so much .. I got emotional when she teared up as well. And I have never thought about the idea "each other vs situation" until Gabriel talked about it. I learned something very helpful. Thank u so much 😍
I love how raw and real this is. Jess you have me tearing up too, you are so sweet! You are so right though..you always feel good after a little crying moment, you gotta let that stuff go to make room for more positivityyyy. I love you guys so much. Hopefully I'm able to meet you guys one day or be a guest on one of these podcast type vids and we chill and drink coffee and I can cuddle Milo :') a girl can dream
who else teared up when Jess did, because I sure did! this video was so adorable and such great advice not just for married couples, but i guess for any relationship! love you guys x
So glad you guys opened up about the conflict of where you want to end up. I moved to my fiancés country to be with him and because I had always wanted to live there, but since moving I've dealt with severe homesickness and culture shock - it's been 4 years and it's still so hard. I always wondered what Jess' experience was and if she struggled like I did, and it's also interesting to hear Gabe talk about how he felt guilty (same as my fiance). It feels like an impossible situation, but we've done the long distance so I know that the most important thing to me about where I'm living is that he's there.
Try and do some activities there - sign up for a dance class or art class or something. Get to know the country on your own, apart from your fiancé. Make some friends, create some relationships, and develop certain interests that are independent from your fiancé.
This is so important. 100% yes. Your explanation of each topic is so thoughtful and I love it. Plz make a podcast
I’ve been watching for almost 4 years. Crazy that it’s almost 5 years since the wedding! Also, really appreciate you guys talking about these things and being a good example to everyone!
Q&A version!!!!! My husband and I got married last month and loved watching this since we’re still newlyweds! I cannot believe it’s already five years for you two though!
So much wisdom in this video. Thank you!
So much wisdom in this video. Absolute legends!
I got engaged & married at 21, I feel like that’s very young & many people get shocked when I tell tell them. But these topics are a must to discuss before making this decision. Fortunately my partner & I did talk about a lot of these & we’re still happily married & in love 1 & half years later :) so don’t be afraid to dive deep & have these conversations with your s/o
*I really appreciate this video. This was a really great discussion.*
You two are so encouraging :) I always walk away from your videos feeling so refreshed. Thank you for being so strong in the Lord and such a beautiful example of a godly marriage!
Ahh when I get to marry someone someday, for sure I will going back to this video for ~guidance~ hahaha. Because this is really a good video! The way you guys deliver every point is very easy to understand and mature, and not in a way that make a person uncomfortable about 'marriage'. Please make more of this! Love you guys!!
I LOVED THIS VIDEO!!! Please please please do another one
Honestly, You guys need to have a podcast on Spotify or smth. This was so helpful!!!