"American men suck... ARAB & LATINO MEN WILL TREAT YOU RIGHT"
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Everybody wants the benefits of a "traditional" spouse, but don't wanna' be traditional themselves...
This. Women are being like: He needs to make six figures but we gotta hire a maid so she does all the housework even if I stay home. And the men are like: She needs to be a virgin and never call me out on anything whilst she does all the housework and I am unemployed playing videogames all day.
This.
@@cherryhazard8002 Where are the men saying anything remotely close to that BS you're claiming men want today?
@@torachan23 incel forums
@@cherryhazard8002 haha exactly
I'm a white European, Nordic man. This woman is missing the point of equality.
I'm not chasing a woman, period. Either she puts work into the courtship and relationship, or I am gone. If I am going to be in this for you, you better be in this for me.
Been in a relationship for 8 years, it works. There are rough patches. But we both do the work.
That’s the way it’s supposed to be both people investing their time and energy in each other.
That is how it should be. 😎👍
Funny thing is men literally just adjusted to what is happening in the world. Most of it started by women. Men got the list of things that made them toxic and now they have responded likewise. Men see no point in relationships anymore. If a man doesn't want a family he doesn't see the point. Even if he gets the family he's held hostage to the one thing he wants and can be destroyed at any moment.
Happy for you.
In an almost 2 year relationship with a white guy, we both put in the effort, I didn't play games and neither did he. Bam, almost a month later after meeting each other and we are dating.
He is a wonderful guy, but we have had our rough parches too, but the important thing is that at the end of the day, we are still together and companions.
Relationship means companionship.
This woman has never been to europe for sure 😂 wtf is she on about
I'm Latina and I haven't laughed so much in a while. Y'all speak the facts. When my parents got married my mom laterally told my dad "If you're going to cheat on me do it well, do it so at least I don't find out"🤡 I'm 120% I have some illegitimate brother roaming around somewhere in Colombia.
@@jonprince7489 what are you talking about, lmao what your saying doesn't make sense 100% incorrect
@@crisikingful get off your feelings.. then it will.
who have the highest incomes in America?
Asians.
you think culture doesnt matter? then why do mexicans eat more tacos than any other race?
again, EVERY CULTUTURE has their habits of living. Sadly for blackz.. they have mostly BAD habits.
@@jonprince7489 what the fuck? Africans in America are among one of the top earners and work extremely hard in academia and in the work force. My African parents immigrated here and set me up for LIFE, they gave me all the best things under the condition that I work hard in school. Sorry that your viewpoint on culture is so narrow that you reduce people to disgusting stereotypes. I dare you to go up to an African and say that to their face, with YOUR broke ass lmfaoo.
Colombia . Nuff said
@@jonprince7489 i grew up in a white Mexican household still more family oriented but no wealth to speak of lol
I've been with my wife for 10yrs. Married for 6. I still thank her for every meal, everything she does, specifically things she didn't need, or have to do. An she does the same. The little things make all the difference in the long run!
My ex husband was an immigrant from Iraq. He was okay at first but soon turned abusive and manipulative. My boyfriend now was born and raised in the US and he’s a wonderful man. My point: being an asshole is entirely dependent on the individual.
Did you provoke him?
@@rammos9171 lol
@@rammos9171 by not agreeing with him like everything he said was my new religion?
@@rachelkashmir7625
If it was so bad, why did you marry him?
@@xMaoxoaMx Not everybody shows his true colors at the beginning, especially middle east men.
Don’t you just love it what a woman tries to define what a “real man” is? 😂
Have you seen a manosphere video.....all they talk about is what a real woman is
ALL sexes need to stop doing this ish.
Even funnier when trans men define masculinity.
@@ventriced7608 no, they talk about what a real wife is. Two separate things IMO.
@@ventriced7608 yeah and they foolish too
I can debunk this woman's argument with one word. MACHISMO. Do you know how many Latin women avoid dating Latin men because of this trait alone? I don't need to say more.
What is that
@@khrisstake2210 machismo means that men like to play the tough guy who takes what he wants, never accepts the word NO, it's kind of an annoying trait for people to have, but he is not going to pull that hopeless romantic BS or even cook for women lol
@@khrisstake2210 it's the Latino version of toxic masculinity
Bruh i have so many aunties and cousins telling me to go after the "guerito" because they are so much liberal and less demanding than latin men. Im like omg STFU already 🙄.
that's that not true Brandon! , they chase Jose like crazy bro ! they be chasing they Latino man like crazy , they even make videos claiming Latino men are the best .
As an Arab man I would like to say that we do not in fact pursue women. That’s Haram 😂
😂😂😂😂😂😂
I love Aba's comment: "Your definition of effort is just presenting yourself and looking good. Men got to look good, put in the efforts, court you, say the right things, emotionally and financially invest on the whole thing. You just have to be present." And Preach saying: "No, no... And MAYBE, MAYBE you get a thing!" That little dialogue explains everything and hit the bullseye!!
"That little dialogue explains everything and hit the bullseye!!" it really does, you can essentially some up her way of thinking just by that comment
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Yeah l liked how they included that small fact. I always hated how women demanded so much from me and expected me to do this and when it the time came to ask them if they wanted something serious, they hit me with the “I don’t owe you a relationship just because you did things people in relationships do” and than you have that women ranting how about I’m shet and that I’m controlling and entitled while purposely leaving out all the good things I did and than you have her fellow woman say “yas queen 👸 💅” “you choose what’s best for you” or “yeah girl he’s such an incel” I think behavior like this is why men don’t approach much as they use to let alone give compliments.
And also, when aba said it’s important to be grateful, I tell that to woman all the time. I’ve seen woman complain about how men usually go to Starbucks or Dutch bros for the first date option and how cheap men are for suggesting like girl be grateful someone is into you that they want to spend their time with you. Than they complain when a man doesn’t pursue them further when they say no at first and get mad and creeped out when you keep trying. Man bruh why was I born a heterosexual smh 🤦🏽♂️
Ya and the funny thing is nowadays feminism has helped make presenting yourself and looking good not even a requirement. If that's expected it's misogynistic and they'd say "wow how dare you if I don't live up to your impossible beauty standards then too bad" now me personally, I'm not even like that, come as you are. But if women like this wanna act like this then this type of response is what they should expect 👀
As a gay man, I feel so sorry for you straight men, and the shit y'all have to deal with.
I never understand when people say you shouldn't praise a man for doing things their "supposed" to do. If my husband does something that I would otherwise have to do myself if I was single, he's going to get a thank you; just like he thanks me for things I'm "supposed" to do.
Your relationship sounds nice. That's good and not common on this days.
Exactly!
Exactly! My husband finds it weird when I thank him because he sees himself as a provider and what he's supposed to do. I am still fortunate and grateful for all he does.
That's just another example of a toxic mindset... ain't nobody 'supposed' to do nothing fo nobody, so the fact that your so does something nice fo you should be rewarded with at least a thank you, both men and women, if you just expect things ppl gonna get sick of always doing and never receiving... it's called mutual respect....
@@domm5715 idk if you're disagreeing but that is what OP was saying
My husband and I have been together for over 20 years. I have found, in order to have a healthy relationship, there needs to be compassion , appreciation and work. A lot of people think that once they have found that perfect someone, they can just relax and the fairytale will happen. Real relationships are built on not only having your needs met but also your partners.
I am Peruvian, which is in South America and I can confirm men cheat all the time and the women just turn a blind eye. Their husbands are the breadwinners and they are usually stay at home moms that enjoy the nice easy life of spending money and being homemakers but their husbands cheat on them all. The. Time. How do I know? My dad has cheated on my mom whenever he goes back to Peru to visit his mom and she knew about it. She just never brought it up. My aunt’s husband cheats on her everytime he goes back to his home village and she also never wants to talk about that (he gives her very generic, minimal details about his trip). And my mom’s best friend who is Peruvian was FaceTiming her husband and saw a naked woman behind him in bed. He didn’t realize he was on video. She quickly went to the hotel room, found them together, and he threw his wedding ring at her telling her that if she’s so miserable to just leave him. Of course, he said this because he knew she wouldn’t and guess what? She didn’t. She stayed and they’re still together.
My point is, as a Peruvian, I will never date a Peruvian. So this woman saying these lies about Hispanic men (please note that not all Hispanic men are like this. There must be lovely faithful Hispanic men too and I’ve met a few. I am just traumatized lol) is tripping. Regardless of nationality or ethnicity, it the man is unfaithful and an asshole, he’s just unfaithful and an asshole. They’re in every country.
"Men cheat all the time." Who tf are they cheating with then exactly...
I have lived in multiple Caribbean countries, NYC and in London. I can personally say men are men no matter where you go. There are good ones and bad ones and you cant paint everyone with the same brush just based on your personal opinion. Many of the times we attract what we are so if you're mean toxic and snobby dont expect to attract a loving, kind and wholesome man. We have to be the best version of ourselves in order to attract the love we desire. It has nothing to do with where you are only the mindset you take with you.
That's because she's a idiot.🤣
Get what you give. Check what you're giving by what you got not by checking people for what you gave.
Facts. The generalizations that she made were very offensive and really need her head checked.
Really? I feel like men are very different even in different states within the US, sometimes even different cities in the same state, based on the places I've lived. I totally agree with you about attracting certain types of people by how you act yourself being a larger part of the equation though.
I think she is right at some point. As an European I can see two main differences in the dating culture.
1) casual dating does not really exist in Europe,I mean in the same scale as in us. The idea that one person goes to multiple dates with multiple people and then chooses one to date is weird. So it's either people are invested into the one person and don't go to offer dates or its about sex etc... And not real relationship.
2) feminism means different things in Europe. There basically don't exist those angry feminists who want to blame men for everything and feminists acknowledge the differences between men and women, they just want the same opportunities and being treated with respect. They don't want to fight men or any like men
The first date my husband and I went on was a walk. No coffee no nothing just a walk. It was amazing we got to know one another. We went on walking dates for weeks before we even went to a restaurant. We spent hours walking and talking. When we finally went out together we went to the beach for a walk and went to Denny’s to eat it was perfect. To this day when we need to recharge our couple battery we take a walk and talk about whatever comes to mind. It’s a simple thing that brings us both back together and it is amazing. The love I have for my husband is so great I didn’t know I could love another human so deeply and immensely. I truly believe our relationship is a gift from the heavens!! Ladies don’t discount the simple things because ultimately married life is simple. With work, kids, and a household to tend to most of the time life is mundane. Find someone you can do nothing with and still be happy. Find joy in the little things and your life will be so much more joyful!!
Same story. We were both broke students our dates were gelato cappuccino or 1 euro pizza slice🤣🤣🤣🤣 n now I m a housewife to a HVM.
Not a woman but this is amazing advice.
That is wholesome as fuck
@@wolfzai786 what do you mean by high value man, like rich?
Great! Most of Women value only restaurants. You want to meet, restaurant, you want to talk.. restaurant. Walk and talk....hell no. Spoil me spoil me
This is so ridiculous, I only just returned to the US after twenty years living abroad in Brazil, Australia, Russia, South Africa, Abu Dhabi, Dubai, and several other countries. In fact my wife is Brazilian and I can tell you for a fact about Brazil in particular that men are especially spoiled and not expected to do anything in fact in a family with both a boy and girl child it would be normal for the mother to make e daughter help her clean the house and clean her brothers room and clothes even when they grow up with the men as old as 34-36 still living at home with mother and or sisters doing everything for that. I can say that because I have three children, one girl and two boys who were born and raised in Brazil so I had to deal with these practices from grandparents, aunts, etc. Boys are not expected to do anything IN GENERAL whereas girls are expected to do everything. I was shocked when the first Brazilian girlfriend I had started showing up an hour before dates to wash my clothes, and clean my apartment before went out. Then I found out this was normal, and if I went out with wrinkles in my clothes I literally heard a girls mother get all over her for letting me go out like that saying she was a terrible girlfriend because it was her job to take care of her man. And ALL the girls I dated there expected me to cheat “because I was a man and men can’t help themselves” but just told me not to embarrass them, apparently that was the rule. I also lived in Mexico city and found similar practices and Russia in the 90’s was even worse with lower expectations but that was freshly post fall communism so it is probably not a good example and all of these pale in comparison to the middle East. This girl doesn’t know at all what she is talking about. I killed in all these countries because I out worked locals. She is crazy American, Australian, and Canadian women have it the best in the world as far as dating is concerned. One of the reasons I moved back to the US was so that my daughter wouldn’t have to put up with this and so that my sons wouldn’t be spoiled.
damn!
It was really crazy sometimes. You would see beautiful BrZilian women doing everything fr guys that refused to move out because their mom still did everything for them at 34 years old. A friend of mine was a girl from France that met her Brazilian boyfriend while on vacation in Australia and he convinced her to come back and live with him in Brazil. So she took most of her money to buy the ticket to return with him only to find out that when he said come live with me he really meant come share a bedroom with me at my mom’s house. Guy was a lawyer and still living at home. When she got there her his mother hated her and told her she would have to get a job and pay rent but on top of that was expected to clean the entire house cook for her boyfriend, was his clothes, and so everything for him while he came home and played videogames after work. it took her almost theee years to save enough money to be able to buy a ticket to leave because she was having to pay rent (and buy all her own food on top of that, though they felt free to eat food she bought). Stories like that were common. Women do not have it easy, There was no way my daughter was going to grow up having to deal with that so after after almost two decades outside of the US I came back to raise her here. So again my point is to is woman doesn’t know what she is talking about.
@@erimoros wow
Frist part of your comment.. my mom did the same thing to me, except take responsibility for your own mess after the age of 11-13. Its called culture bro.. men are usually taught to be respectful which in turn should case men to be more responsible naturally but many things for certain men causes ppl to think they are spoiled when its just the norm. A men does this and a woman does that.. spoiled? Men who work, or have ways to hustle more than other ways..
It's the culture.
Women take care of the house and men go out hunting bringing home food.
Also it's Brazil you don't get a car and an apartment when you turn 18.
It's very common to have the family living in the same house. I mean the whole family.
You made sound more dramatic than what really is.
It's not feminism that is ruining dating. We in eastern Europe had feminism and equality before most of the world had it because of socialism and there were no problems. It's radical individualism and capitalism that is ruining dating. All I hear on social media is me, me, me. Relationships have became transactional, people even rate other people(higher or lower value) like it's product on the market. Stop obsessing over what you want and start working on what you can give and if the other person doesn't match your effort or your expectation you move on. Eventually you'll find someone.
It's because slavery is being brought back on a global scale.....
And the objective is to make those who will care weak and the rest full of so much resentment they don't....
So men can't define women's roles, but women can make whole ass videos talking about what "real men" are.....I hate it here.
She's wwatched way too many movies I think
Women: “Just fuck you in particular”
I don't know how you time traveled but teach me please. Also it's because they live in a patriarchy that they get to define a man's role and not vice versa. How do you not understand that?
There is a reason I stopped paying attention to a lot of what women say a real man is or should be doing.
@@stevenleblanc8146 Who lives in a patriarchy?
She is the perfect example of what I’ve telling people about women wanting a wedding and not a marriage, a baby not raise a child. I’m a woman I said what I said
Facts. A lot of women see the cute couple moments on social media, but they never show disagreements, conflict, or compromise. All of which are essential for healthy relationships to work out. In a good relationship, my happiness is your happiness, your sadness is my sadness. When I win, you win. When you win, I win.
@@legend-pq1qi beautifully articulated!!!! Too many people are focused on what they can get rather than give.
Wmn want guarenreed money.
@@am-vy1fb men want a maid
You're right, a lot of women are like that, and I'm a woman too.
There is BIG cultural differences in Europe. The north-western side of Europe in my opinion is more about progressive things and more about breaking gender roles. In the eastern-southern part of Europe it's still about traditions mixed with religion (both Christianity & Islam). The differences in gender roles are huge and you would know it, especially if you live in the more southern/eastern parts (especially in the Balkans) or maybe if you traveled through the continent. Like you guys said you can't cherrypick parts of one side and another but not be able to handle everything. Cultures are different everywhere. You either get used to it or don't try at all because not a lot of people are ready to tolerate your bullshit. Also eastern european men won't "chase you all the time" and the women also won't "always be submissive and follow orders" idek where these things came from in the first place when everyone is different. Men for example often get away with "disciplining" women where I'm from and not a lot of people get punished and crimes against women are often overlooked (a good example would be the domestic violence reports during Covid). And this is an issue so the whole fantasy of "perfect traditional family" has it's own issues that people who are not aware of or ignore don't get. You get the full experience or nah, your choice bubu
Truth. As someone who has lived across this country from North Carolina to Texas Nebraska Colorado Arizona it doesn’t matter where you just end up with a different set of problems.
The lack of self awareness is palpable she’s not even aware she’s the type of women that makes men stop wanting them (and for good reason)
🤣🤣
okay all the men under 6ft, with baggage or with a net worth less than 50k leave
wait where did everyone go!?!?
clow shit fr
@@HappyDragneels_page no one with a net worth less then a million should refer to their “net worth” lol
😂😂😂truesup
@@bobpope3656 😂😂😂😂 My net worth is a Honda Civic.... 2013 model
She generalizes all of the men due to her poor choices in Middle Eastern men. She already has a flaw in her logic so there’s no need to even think she’s correct at all.
aba and preach make it seem like all women are like her so i guess we quits
There are a ton of middle eastern men who beat their girls where i live.
Thats not rare.
No American men are too girly
Yeah it's so fucking weird, I seen some posts in women's circles saying they wouldn't date a certain race because this other race would treat them better lol. Zero self-awareness that they are being racist.
Don't be too hard on her. I bet she's just grumpy cause she can't a get a guy to stay with her, after the first night in bed. A lot women get like her when they can't hold down a long term relationship. My advice ladies stop blaming men for your problems its toxic. If you want to keep a good man, its simple- keep his stomach full and his balls empty.
It boils down to a person's preferences in their mate. Everyone's different in what they want. No need to bash a whole continent of men. Because we can easily lump her in a certain category.
These videos are exhausting for real
I’m an American born latino, and what I find hilarious about all of this are these feminists getting mad that men aren’t men, while at the same time shaming them for acting like men. Nobody wants American woke women, if you want a traditional man, act like a traditional woman.
My philosophy, traditional for traditional only.
based
Imagine if an american man said this about women someone tell me what happens.
Lol transitional men aren’t men in the true sense
Your latino. You should know that american men are lazy. Even among latino families. Especially dads. They talk about american guys are lazy. Thats a reality
I’m from Argentina, therefore I’ve only dated latino men and surprise, surprise; they are individuals with their own personality and complexity. I’m so tired of people generalizing men and women because of their nationality.
Edit: Cheating happens, no matter what country you live in. There are 33 countries in Latin America with completely different cultures but somehow it all comes down to latino men always cheating and latinas being loud and spicy. I know generalizing it’s a fun game, specially if you had a bad experience with someone from a different nationality or if you read some cool statistics online (which you should, the internet is 100% reliable) but in all seriousness, I don’t like attributing things like cheating to a person only because of their country because that’s not a cultural thing, that’s just a shitty thing.
I don’t really know where this info is coming from, but I’ve look it up and apparently the countries with more % of cheaters are: the US (71%) Germany (68%) UK (66%) Thailand (61%) and then Brazil (57%) Do I trust this? Nah, there where a lot of different statistics and I’m only bringing this one up cause it was the only one with a Latin country lol.
Conclusion? There are awful people all around the world. You need to stop watching novelas.
Is the stereotype of cheating true?
@@SWIFTzTrigger to an extent yes in more traditional areas. My parents grew up in Central America and it was relatively common. However it doesn't mean it's always the case.
i believe it, many Latino men treat their wife as if she were his child. She must obey him, his word is law - and the woman ends up becoming a passive cooking sex bot. literalmente
@@SWIFTzTrigger Sancho's
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Thank you Preach for that intro, I feel like I can like and move on to the next video already 💯
For me coffee dates are the best in the primary stage of a relationship cuz there are no pressure or complexity to the setting, it’s simple and the main point there is the people trying to know each other not the meal itself self
This chat just brings to mind all the men I've heard talk about getting an Asian woman because they're submissive, and they know how to treat a man...
I've been in different Asian households. I've seen how women act to their men. You'd think someone was being murdered with all the screaming.
I've even seen a video on CZcams way back in the day when white dude thought his Asian wife was telling him she loved him in her own language. Turns out, she was telling him straight to his face that she hoped he would die in his sleep or something like that...
It just makes me chuckle.
No one said all Asian women where the same. But there culture definitely doesn’t encourage behaviors that doesn’t help build a structured home. I mean no doubt there women who act outter pocket but definitely not more but definitely less than women who live in places where those family structures aren’t in place.
Look there's always people who fall into stereotypes , in every culture. That doesn't mean it's always like that. Every individual regardless of nationality or race has the potential to not fit in your box. It really depends on individual choices that person makes based on their character, which arguably is based on their..choices.
As an Asian woman myself, here women's lives are finished without husbands. So even if we hate them,we will wish them well.
@@ziyamalik1666 That's you though based on how you feel and choose to be. Not just " because you're asian"
@@ziyamalik1666 again. asia is a big place.
This woman couldn't be more delusional about Latin and Arab men. You ain't seen "toxic masculinity" like these men cook up.
Latin men are masculine and are not the same as arab men
@@chocoflan6672 and their own women don't even want them forreal. They'd rather be with someone from the States if they had a choice.
@@GoldenboySteroid not really no one is rushing to the US borders for american guys but what a coincidence when american and european women make girls trip its in a latin country MEXICO BRAZIL dominican Republic, cuba, etc I think ur confusing golddigging on an american as desirability it reminds me of 90 day fiance
@@TONYKG300 american are seen as tricks globally thats not my fault
@@chocoflan6672 I mean I know a few women who are from Mexico and they told me never date a Mexican and they both married white men. But they both had very abusive fathers
This video is spot on just like all the rest of y’all’s videos thank you and I love you guys
I was single for about 6 years bc I didn't think I wanted a type of guy from from where I was from. Went online and found a wonderful man from the same county I'm from. Stereotyping people in your own area, county, country, etc, does not mean that good people aren't outthere. We grow up and change perspectives. But don't blame where you are from is why you are unhappy. Check inside and change. Figure yourself out and be positive
Her narrative is so flippable. We can easily depict the big dinner on a first date as something done by entitled and lazy guys who try to set their expectations.
She likes the perks of women's emancipation and those of traditional gender roles. So, she imagined a paradoxical world where men are aggressive seducers because women have full control over the dating game.
How come your comment says 4 days ago but this video was uploaded today?
@@y.e.a.h5634 asking the real questions here👀
Patreon
@@y.e.a.h5634 This video mightve been a re-upload of some kind
Women always mirror men & try to pick up men's behaviors, thoughts, actions. Its sad but a lot of things women think or do can be explained from past guys doing it or them seeing & following the men.
The truth is when men see too many trashy feminist American women & begin going to other countries for wives or whatever it triggers deep insecurity amongst American women, they have all this entitlement still & keep getting older, versus the women who have no entitlement and a ton of submissiveness.
There’s a pandemic of people not seeing the opposite sex as human beings when dating. It’s so weird. Why would anyone want to be in a relationship where their “performance” is constantly being tracked and analyzed?
I'm gunna laugh if an epidemic of "passport hoes" begins lol
@@raidzeromattthere has always been passport chicks what do you think happens on those backpacking trips they have been getting their backs packed by foreigners
Haha i know right. Im european and have seen a lot of american women here and the first thing they do is find a cute guy/ guys to fuck wether they have a guy at home or not. Im finding myself is equal to im finding some random dick😂@@godemperorletoatreidesii6971
You guys are spot on!
Totally agree with you, I spoil the people I love too❣️ I agree can we just appreciate each other.... That's the problem in relationships, the high level selfishness.
She's in for a surprise when she gets to Europe, the kind of guy she's dreaming about either doesn't exist or comes with a hefty price she's not considering yet. Here in europe, the formula is the same, the further down you go, the more pursuing the guys will be, but also more traditional and follow gender roles more. The further north you go, the more progressive the guys become, the more they see women as equal, but that also means more like to split bills and expect some initiative from the woman's side. It's like that everywhere and this is just generalising, people are there own people. She ain't ready for the disappointing reality check coming her way
I don't think that south-north really applies.
Meanwhile African men :- HOLD MY DISCIPLINARY CANE
@@MrReset94 It’s true though
@@supremechadmaster2521 lmaoooooooo facts
@@MrReset94 it absolutely does. If you go to south-eastern Balkan countries, it's completely different from Scandinavian northern countries or north - western European countries
Women: persistent men are harassing women and should be considered sexual assault
Also women:OMG why aren't men persistent enough
Men:🤨
This aaaaaaaaaaaaaaaall day
That would be funny, but the men that you are talking about are in jail instead of being around their kids, having a good time and getting a job that helps society, instead we have these useless mouth breathers that consume and destroy.
feminazi's turned their men into beta cucks and chicks
@@sdaniel123 You're single and a teenager aren't you?
Glad we are on the same page. As soon as she said "persistent and consistent" I couldn't help but think that's how you get metoo'd.
Back in 2004-5 my friend was dating a girl from France. She told him she hated French men. They were obnoxious to her. The only think I was told she missed about living in France was the deodorant not being as fragrant as in the USA.
Hey Abba! I feel the same way. I'm happy to do the cooking and do domestic stuff, but dude literally told me its my job and never grateful
As an American man married to a Moroccan French woman I thought she was with me because of commitment and work ethic put in to making sure our family is safe and financially secure turns out she just with me because I’m a lazy American who has yet to achieve manhood.
Lol, saw what u did there
@@SWSW560 I don't get it
@@SeanKula he’s making fun of the video . Saying the first part of his comment is true the second part is not.
@@braveduck7068 Exactly
@@braveduck7068 Oh ok thanks lmao thats funny.
As an European man (specifically Italian), I've stopped chasing women long ago. If a girl is a catch, I'll do whatever I can to pursue her. If she's just hot and I have to put up with all this shit ("he has to court me, challenge me", etc.), then I'm out. If I'm the only one that has to do the lifting, you're not worth my time
But that is the crux of the matter: real/worthy men court, but only girls/women who are catches (as you said); and real/worthy women work to be a catch, and not just be ... present.
@@Lina-lq7jm Judging from the attitude of the girl in the video, I can see why men aren't looking to court her. Like you said, women have to do their part and be courtable. It's a 2 way street. Feminism completely intoxicated many women's outlook on men and that's the single most prominent issue in dating today.
@@wmasterss It's sad really.
On one hand I am glad that that part of life is over for me - I am married, with kids, etc. But on the other... when my boys grow up... I shudder to think about the girls who might be around them.
@@Lina-lq7jm I think half the battle is that fortunately you understand how messed up the game is which will help you point your sons in the right direction. Many young boys don't/didn't have that grace. They grow up being taught how to be simps. I think your boys are in a good spot.
@@Lina-lq7jm Not entirely; the crux lies in both genders' education: men have to chase, women have to be pursued. That is crazy talk, especially when it comes out of a person's mouth who claims to be a feminist (but really wants equality only when it favours her) or is for equality in general. There's no equality in all this. Personally, I look for and offer: trust, complicity, support, and understanding in a relationship; if I see the woman I'm trying to establish a relationship with act like a spoiled and entitled brat, I'm more than happy to show her the way out
I love aba, he’s funny af and he be opening my eyes on certain topics
These guys always nail it for both genders. You guys are awesome
You can tell she's living in a fantasy world if Middle Eastern men are the gold standard in her mind. It always is funny how stuff like the wage gap gets prime coverage in feminist media and dialogue, but the same people don't have anything to say about the actual suffering going on in other places,. That's probably because it would take actual effort to do something about.
They're entitled and privileged, that's why they say all of these things, and they have all of these fantasies.
My man preach said it in the beginning, it's because gender roles are very enforced, it's normal, woman stay home and cook and clean, and he'll provide outside financially wise especially, and their is no romance needed maybe in the begging to win her heart and that's it.
I'm an Arab, and why guys there don't do that shit and don't put in all that effort, because we have much more important responsibilities to take care of
I think it's fair that media covers the inequalities most relevant for their own culture... I think it's perfectly reasonable for media to cover the wage gap.. of course, certain types of women are stuck in this double mindset where they want the equality and freedom that feminism rightly brought them, but still play the childish role in relationships where they need to be chased and taken care of.
@@MaMastoast it is fair if it was just to cover the problem of inequalities, but the same people who are most outspoken about such problems are the most self-righteous.
If you wanna stay domestically you still have racism in 21 century, which exists nowhere else on that level, or globally instead of talking about fucking climate change and global warming and such bullshit problems instead of focusing on famine or the wars and deaths their country is causing.
I'm not saying everyone should it as a duty, but if you wanna be self-righteous and talk about global issues that we need to solve cut the bullshit
So much low hanging fruit in her statement. There’s sooooooo many countries where women get beaten, raped and murdered into submission as the status quo under her umbrella.
She's ignorant af. Bet she'll change her tune when she gets acid thrown in her face for looking at another dude.
Schrödinger's feminism: a woman is simultaneously a victim and empowered, until something happens. Then she chooses which state benefits her the most...
I'm totally stealing this lol
You won the internet ,respect.
Wow I hadn't heard it described so perfect b4 that's American women to a T
Lmao brilliant
Comedic gold. This deserves to be sprawled all over the internet.
If a man wants you he’ll show you and not in a materialistic way he shows tf up no matter where he’s from maybe the guys she’s picking ain’t picking her 🤷🏽♀️ i love what you said about men and woman convinced that they’re the prize and everything has to been done to please them nothing in life works that way especially in a healthy relationship both people are prizes and should treat the other and be treated as such
GODDAMN THIS VID……🔥🔥🔥🔥
Honestly... it's a blessing when a single person is delusional and runs their mouth. If they have more red flags than all of China - Stay Away!! It doesn't matter how cute and popular they are, or what they are wearing or carrying in their wallet!
On a positive note, maybe these fake and insane "dating experts" might make some singles see how special people with genuine character are. If you find an awesome person who is helpful, kind, and appreciative - you have something so much better than IG model pictures. Looks fade, but if they are crazy, that's not going anywhere!
as a Chinese, the more red flags than all of China line is hilarious. also according to this woman, now we're generalizing people from each CONTINENT now...?
Actually the crazy is going to get worse 🤣🤣
The problem is she is influencing other women with her bs
Thing is, I've seen her page. She does speak some truth but there's bitterness in what she says. And also, dating coaches have the tendency of seeing things from a single perspective, even when the situation may have different scenarios behind it. And ever noticed how they barely talk about their audience's responsibilities and always creating an 'us against them' mentality. I've seen this in the male spaces as well, but women always do that as well. Thank God for A&P and KS because a lot of these fake gurus' takes are always trash.
@@Igeltod Not the women you want to date either way.
I'm an Egyptian woman who lives in the US. Let me tell you, courting a woman doesn't mean they treat you right. Domestic violence towards women by their husbands is so common that when a woman complains about a man who isn't physically abusive, people will say, "at least he isn't physically abusive," as though to say they got off easy.
And it's not just perpetuated by men. It's also by women, mens' mothers who tell them they aren't a man if they don't "discipline" their wives. It's also perpetuated by using religion to validate awful behavior, both Islam and Christianity.
A woman walking alone in Egypt is likely to be groped, often by married men. Good luck trying to shop on your own, or take a random stroll, or ride a bike by yourself.
Are all men in Egypt and the Middle East like this? Of course not. But those who are like this are encouraged by the culture and lack of reprimands to continue this misogynistic behavior.
Sure, they take care of all the bills. But ladies and gents, let me tell you that I'd rather work everyday and be with a loving, caring, assertive man who didn't aggressively pursue me than to have a man and even the law view me as his property and face zero consequence for maiming me.
people are easy to teach
As an arab , i confirm
The sexual harassment rate in Egypt is so much higher than in the other middle eastern countries. It is kind of insane how prevalent it is cuz Egypt has some of the best men in the middle east.
@@mosaif_mudawi Yes, I agree. There are so many great men in Egypt.
@@sirfarticus7859 I'm from Sudan btw. Hello Neighbor!
I hope the sexual harassment stops in Egypt and of course in all of the world.
I think if one leader took this issue seriously it would easily be stopped. I don't think it's difficult at all to stop it.
I do expect that from my woman, however one I'm not stupid enough to let her know that's how I feel, and two the fact doesn't negate the fact that I appreciate every single thing and thought that she puts into our relationship! My grandmother told me a very long time ago Ain't nobody got to know everything that's going on in your mind.
Literally everything she's listed off can be flipped around and applied to women.
All of it. My wife is over here dead cracking up.
@@mastabla3ta684 not in a traditional sense everything she has said is based off of the 50 where men did literally all the hard work in relationships until marriage where the wife would then start doing house work and having children.
Literally ALL the things.
First, you can’t generalize men like that. It has to do with how they were raised and taught to treat others.
I was born in the USA by Cuban born parents. I learned and grew up in a traditional Cuban home. Women took care of the home and the man was responsible for financially taking care of the family.
Unfortunately some of these Cuban men (as well as other Latino cultures) also had the mentality that if I’m meeting my responsibilities then I can do whatever I want (ie…..cheating, physical abuse……etc.)
But in our case my mom also taught my sisters & I to be independent.
Our biological father was abusive to us but God blessed us with an amazing stepdad (also Cuban).
Bottom line do NOT generalize men, there’s good and bad in ALL people.
I'm sorry you had to go through that
@@solomondagod thank you for your compassion. I should also mention that with everything my biological dad did to my mom and us, our mom never spoke a bad word about him. Not from fear I can assure you, but her reasoning was “good or bad, he’s your dad and loves you very much”. He had a drinking and drug problem at the time. Thank God he sobered up years later and we had a wonderful relationship with him until the day he passed away. I admired my mom very much for being who she was and raising us as she did. We were very blessed that our parents and step-parents got along so well.
Amen
100% about how ur raised (and it sounds like your mom raised you amazing).
i thought it was basic af to know that individuals are individuals and their country/ethnicity/nationality/etc. is not a representation of who they are. i did not think we needed a f*ckin conversation for this. that woman irks me so badly because she can't stop and think for one second how terrible of a mind she has around this
@@jeanettedominguez1885 Bless your mom for her strength, and you for yours.
this video was fire
On point boys
Same energy as the guys who want to find a submissive Asian wife. Stereotyping a whole culture. There might be aspects of truth in there but be prepared for the whole package that comes with it like aba said.
Submissive Asian wives 😂😂😂 Westerners make me laugh.
If you know anything about Asian women… you will realize that the majority of them are dominant and tough as a nail
It's funny cause in Australia I find white girls way more submissive than Asian girls here. But white girls hit 40 and turn into karens
@@royaldecreeforthechurchofm8409 interesting! It all depends where you grow up of course.
Nah I just like Asian women because they're the most attractive to me.
Not even close
So some women are telling us to be persistent, if she rejects you just keep pursuing
And other women are telling us if she rejects you once and you keep pursuing, you’re creepy
So basically as a man we just gotta gamble 🤦🏿♂️
Never take advice on woman from woman.
No, just ask once. If she says no, bounce and don't look back. It saves you from any issues...
lmao... right? being persistent becomes "harassment" or can get you in jail nowadays. One or two messages and you leave her alone. Shes gotta open her mouth too. Were not mind readers
If she wants to play games in the beginning she’s gonna play games the entire time. Imo
True to an extent. Reality is that they don't want you to be persistent if they don't find you attractive. Thing is you as a man have no idea if the rejection is genuine or just a game where the woman wants you to continually try so most men just tap out after the first rejection
Only I can say is nobody's perfect man or woman you just have to deal with things that come your way to find a way to solve life's problems when you're together with someone and hope that significant other stays with you through good times and bad
People like this don't understand that in cultures where pursuit is the common dating practice there are more abusive rellationships cause the men that have to persue have to work hard for it, and if you work hard for something, you feel entitled to it.
As a Middle Eastern woman who’s in a relationship for over 6 years I just laughed at her. Because it all depends on the person you choose to be with not where you from. My husband is wonderful but a lot are not thats just the way it is anywhere. Though I agree with the gender roles aspects and I personally like it. Knowing whats on you and not makes it easier to grow stronger and trust each more
exactly personally i want a to be in a relationship where we both do our role(gender roles:i want to feel and be manly for her and be apriciated for that as i want her to feel and be feminine for me and be appriciated for that)if i meet a woman and she doesnt want that its okay i leave and look for someone who has the same points of views and common grounds as me you dont have to be with someone who doesnt see life the same as you and when it doesnt work you use the"abusif toxic relationship"card.
men and women are opposite and arent equal but have equal values i like to compare men and women to food and water you cant live without one or the other both are needed because they are not the same and the beauty is this difference why would i be with a woman if she isnt that much different from a man in terms of mindset or behavior?i dont care about her body i dont see women as objects.
I hope the best for your husband and you sister show him appriciation and love him for being a man.
It's funny she talks about middle eastern men like they all are the same. I've met dudes so religious they don't even go into places that serve alcohol period. Most people like her talk about how great these men are but never acknowledge the culture or what likely won't conflate with thier values. To me it's odd that they hype them up but I guarantee they will complain at the drop of a hat when they actually meet people from a very different background. Great people are great people, but also people like this chick put other groups on a pedestal without likely knowing what it means to date someone from a very different place. Also congrats girl wonderful hearing happiness I the world. Best to you and that wonderful man.
@Katy Cunningham In fairness I think its more that a good person can come from anywhere as much as a terrible one. Culture has a lot to do with it, but I think she made it more to the point of a person from the middle east, Europe or Latin America are equally as likely to be terrible people as any place else. Now culture effects a lot of elements of a person but just tlike any culture a good or bad person can come from a multitude of places.
Bless your soul maam appropriate that you share a name with my mom this idiotic notion that generalizes people based on ethnicity is beyond stupid.
Middle Eastern societies would do better to preserve a little traditionalism to avoid the mess that happens in the West ... in which neither women nor men are happy, at least not really happier than previous generations
The disdain for coffee dates really baffles me. I keep seeing them described as a red flag or something. While I was dating were my favourite though because it was such a pleasant, low stress way of meeting someone and seeing if you actually vibe or not. Surely the fun part of dating in the early stages is the banter, their sense of humour, gauging mutual attraction and just learning about each other, all of which require little or no money if both people are actually genuine.
I agree. It’s an easy and fun way to get to know each other
It’s an easy way to weed out the gold diggers
@@qjtvaddict THAT'S why it's a red flag to the garden variety 304. They recognize they dealing with a cautious snake charmer not a foolish "let's get out the jeep to take a picture" tourist.
@@RtistiqSkubie well do you want a 304
Coffee dates were my go to as well. It’s relaxed, you can do it during the day and it’s fairly low commitment, so you can bail if there’s no connection. The first date I had with my now gf was coffee too, but we just kept chilling and made it to dinner anyway.
When a woman has no valid argument they go straight to insulting your manhood. I love stuff like this. The fact that she is so frustrated, means the shit that guys are doing globally, giving up on dating, is working. It's straight up driving them insane. Which was the point.
The dating field should be about equality. The people who re dating should be considered equal. The fact that someone think it's entirely the other person's responsibility to handle all the pursuing, all the planning, all the cost.... as if their time is such a fucking prize. It shows you how clueless some people are, and the trends that have brought us to where we are today.
Dating someone, in my opinion, isn't worth my time. I'm far more happier just spending it with friends. The more names and insults these women thro at us, just further proves my point. Anyone who thinks one side should have all the power in a relationship, can fuck right off.
Aba from on my block
Most Arab & Latin men *WOULD NOT ALLOW* their spouses to have outspoken opinions like hers on social media platforms. She would have no voice in those respective countries. Women are currently fighting for a right to vote, she's applying Western opinions towards cultures that are Anti Western
As a Latina woman I can confirm
As an arab i confirm
the muslims are right. THe relationships between men and women is going south in the West. Look at marriage and birth rates. Giving women rights was americas mistake
A right to vote where? Bruhh there is no point to vote for anyone, the West (especially the US), just changes its puppets from time to time in these countries.
This is also another example of the nice guy fallacy. Guys that watch videos like this will think that all they have to do is spoil a girl and do everything for her, then she'll like them. But nah, she's dated a bunch of assholes, so clearly just being a good person isn't requirement for some
Female incels exist they are called feminists who make tik tok videos complaining about men.
@@realty634 The reality is, most people aren't taught how to vet. Women get with whoever they find attractive and just hope it works out. This is because they have so many options. A lot of men don't vet because they have so few. They'll take what they can get
Women tend to think any man that upsets them is an arse hole tho 😂
@@Ash_Wen-li ketchup
W0m3n today have been trained to not appreciate niceness.
I dont like coffee dates.
We're going on a walk, I'm making sure you can handle a little cardio
"It's so easy to observe the stars and see their beauty but when you are in one all you realise is the burning" - platos cousins brothers son or some shit
Aba hit the nail on the head there.
As a female, I have NOOOO problem doing the cooking and the cleaning and whatever else.
However, I DOOO have a problem when I'm expected to do it without any sort of appreciation.
I show appreciation for the fact that my man works hard, BY putting a nice dinner on the table and making sure to keep his work clothes clean for morning and rubbing his shoulders if he says he's in pain that day.
So if I'm doing those things to show appreciation for him, it'd be nice to get a little ass slap and a "Thanks love!" every now and then lmao.
This is the way.
I totally agree. In a relationship we should appreciate and take care of each other.
Hahahahahahaha.... your man shows you his appreciation by going out and working his azz off and bringing home his earnings to keep his home paid and stock.
@@equityjustice2695 Then it should be appreciated that I require a lot less than most women. All I asked for was an ass slap and a measly thank you.
Is that so hard, or are you still single too? Lol
The ass slap is the most important lol real talk
"I'm the prize" = "I'm coping with being alone and having overly high standards". Goes both ways.
*unrealistic expectations
More like it but yeah you're right
But what is wrong with high standard? Im a beautiful girl so i want a rich man but being independent still. Nothing wrong with preferences. If u are making minimum wage then im sorry but i dont see future with u. Its the same with man most of them dont want a fat ugly girl jeeez
@@divine6526 Beautiful girl according to who? You? You can date yourself if you want ...
I love you guys. For real.
When u expect kindness 🤬🤬🤬🤬👺💯 Keep preaching the truth brothers 🖤✊🏽
she's saying more about herself than she is about men.
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Yeah, she’s a typical spiked feminist who was told all her life that she was a princess and anyone who didn’t want her is at fault
LMAOOOOO as a Colombian, can confirm that the moms told me get a white chick cause she was not sure latina's could be trusted and said most of them are buggin 😂
100% true. 🤣🤣🤣🤣
As someone grew up hearing Latin mothers telling their boys to get a "white girl"... it's because the white girls are more submissive to their man, and will listen to the mothers more.
Bro bro beware of white girl false tears. That can get youkilled or locked up
@@pelosuelto70 Naw bro, it's just the underlying racism in Latino culture. I've seen it, homeboys from DR seen it and my girl who's Mexican seen it. They just like the whiteness.
If you wanted submissive, you look for Latino / indian or middle eastern women
@@shadyyogainstructor932 bruh, everybodys racist 😂😂😂
Can we get subtitles for preach when he goes off on his French rants cause they seem like he’s saying some funny shit
as someone who has dated in the states and in germany where i currently live. i did not pursue women nearly as much in the states as i did in germany. i did not change what i was doing at all the difference was the women i was meeting. in the states mostly all of the women i dated never paid for their share or even offer to contribute to a date, always wanted me to buy them gifts for special days (birthdays, valentines , christmas) without getting anything on those days in return. Most women that i dated in the states wanted to mooch off of me as much as possible and then when i had enough they did their best to guilt-trip me into staying in the relationship. For them it was like their existince was enough of a contribution and nothing else needs to be done. out of all the women I dated in the states maybe 30% had an actual job and even those with a job didnt contribute anything that was their money and my money was for us...
In Germany the women i dated had some bad apples sure but most of them always asked to contribute to the date buy paying their share or atleast asking to do so. these women would randomly see something in the store that made them think of me and get it for me (nothiing expesive of course) and present it at the next date as nice gesture not that i expected to get something but it was a very thoughtful gesture that made me want to contribute and invest myself more into that person. When we would meet up theyd ask how my day was and what ive been up to. If the relationship didnt work out it was very mutual we realized we were too diiferent or wanted other things out of life and most of the time no drama was involved in the break up. All of this made me feel like it was worth my time to put more effort into pursuing women because in my opinion the women i was pursuing were worth pursuing, and i felt that they were also pursuing me. In the states when ever i got out of a relationship i would feel relieved that it was over and took a long break before even thinking about doing that to myself again.
All in all i dont think its men that arent pursuing women enough i think that there alot of women in the states that just aren't worth pursuing or are too much of a headache to pursue. As we aren't getting anywhere near as much out as we are putting in.
As a latino man living in Europe, I have no idea wtf she's talking about, she trippin balls
Bro why tf do u have a video called nigga moment
U cant say shit abt tripping ball when ur racist
@@jasonakie2779 loool😂😂😂😂😂never heard of boondocks? And why do u think Im not black? Or do you think latinos can only be brown?? That would be racist
Please remember that women are breeding stock for these "real men". Being treated as prey isn't cute ma'am. Also yes true what Aba and Preach said about feminism not being prevalent in Arabic countries. As awful as the dating scene can be in South Africa at least I know what to expect. I don't think fantasizing about other countries' men is the answer to any dating challenge.
Has feminism worked in the west tho? It didn't really. So why should societies in the east adopt it?
Why is feminism the gold standard for equality
great point Pamella, it's almost as if they fantasize about foreigners because they do not want solutions. it's like having green grass and then looking to another planet and saying "look at their blue grass fuck your pathetic green grass if only we had blue grass"
I can't agree with this more!
Glad to see another South African outchea
PS, it takes just as much effort to meet for coffee as it does to meet for dinner 🤣 just less money and time if we're not into it. A relationship (not situationship, talking, fwb-ship) will 100% of the time include some dinners and higher effort dates. Just might need some effort on both people's part to get there.
We have to learn how to change some things in ourselves
She’s projecting her terrible experiences with men to the next man it will be a repetitive pattern in her life. However, No matter what she says, she needs therapy immediately.
exactly, the thing she brings to the realationship aside herself is baggage...
Yea she’s the problem tbh why is she complaining that much she should go find her men somewhere else then
Yeah classic projection. Just because you make terrible decisions in your own country, doesn't mean that all men outside of your country are somehow perfect. Turn the mirror on yourself for once.
Actually he’s projecting her self onto the men around her. Treat she’s describing how to traits she has in herself.
You guys hit a lot of good points..the whole FOMO when it somes to dating..people treat their SO like a car or an iPhone where they gotta upgrade every few years. Romantisizing, fetishizing what they dont have thinking it's better without putting things into context..
facts
Amen.
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Couldn't have said it better myself!
Damn straight
In her part 3 she tries to take alot of her blanket statements away.
I’ve traveled all over the world and one of my pet peeves (which I heard frequently) was whenever a person made a sweeping statement like, ‘the men/women in x country are so x,y,z”.
It’s so ignorant.
I'm a Swedish woman and this all sounds bonkers to me!! WHY is this courtship from men even needed? I truly don't even understand the premise of the problem she is describing? Why can't we just treat each other like human beings instead of trophies?? It amazes me how she oversimplified all cultures too, like they have the same culture in all of Latin America even? Or in Europe? 😂
@nismo510 Do you mean that it is the only aspect that affects this behavior? You know that Disney movies are translated into almost every language right? I've grown up with Disney movies, as has many people in other European countries too. I think the answer to this question is far more complex than what kind of movies you watch as a child, unfortunately.
If you can't even understand why courtship from men is needed, then you never will.
@nismo510 Well, congratulations,I guess! LOL
ANd how is it going? Are those women around you worth something, or are they just a short fun until the next comes along? Because that is the question.
Too much RomComs ruin the mind.
@nismo510 My feminist friends? Which ones would that be?
I was dating, first time in a long time, recently and she went to get a glass of water… guess what? She brought me one too, it was the most unexpected, but the most heartwarming thing. It had been so long since a selfless gesture had been sent my way. I hugged her on the spot and said thank you, that she had just made the world more sensible to me.
Never take for granted what others do for you..
You hugged her hahaha 😂 bruh ur ex must be some emotional damage
I'm really glad that both of you are appreciative of each other like that.
But I also gotta agree with the guy above that something must have occurred in your past so bad, that you would hug a person just for getting you a glass of water.
My parents divorced. I lived with my dad. My dad started teaching me young what I would need to do for a husband. As a teenager I would iron my dads clothes, do all his laundry, make his coffee, do dishes, vacuum, detail his car, and anything else that he asked. Btw. He had a wife but he was teaching me how to care for a husband. When a man came to our home I would ask them how they like they’re coffee or tea and make it for them. My dad taught me not to be a whore and just sleep with guys. I learned to have expectations of a man, and learned the expectations for myself. I am now happily married for 13 years. I was often called a tease by the men who didn’t want to have to wait and earn it. I have a healthy marriage, and I’m so happy that my dad taught me.
Parenting goes a long way, it's a shame not many people pit there have that kind of bond/love/upbringing in their childhood and we're seeing the effects of it today.
So dammnn true
When I first got into dating apps I matched and texted a girl consistently for 50 days (she liked snap streaks) cause she didn’t want to meet in person yet and “didn’t do calls”, i eventually realized I was just bored entertainment and stopped. After that experience I COMPLETELY stopped longing conversations that led to nothing and found someone who pursued me even more than I was pursuing her, we’re now 1 year in and happy. The effort should be coming from both ends, stop this I’m the prize nonsense. Expecting the other person to move mountains while you’re relaxing will leave you either alone or with some desperate creeps.
I want that dream mr pool
stop using apps, and enhance your charm and selfesteem, then go meet girls in real life. Trust me, I have a ton of experience. And then, after 50 girls you seduce in real life, go back to apps
I overheard a female co-worker say that "I'm the prize" BS and I face palmed so hard. Didn't say anything though since I was at work and it's not worth it in that setting so I just walked off thinking have fun being single for a while. Sad part is if she would fix her outlook she could easily get a long term relationship.
Yezzir
Lol you could have been messaging a dude
I'm a Saudi Arabic American, I don't think that this lady understands what it's like in the middle east. You don't get courted, you get sold off. Lmao
Smh
Isn't Jayanti an indian name?
@@KamalUddin-zd4cw yes, because I am Hindu. I just happen to be Arabic, I'm not a Muslim.
@@jayantiraphael8655 Larping k-f-r got caught.
PS: It's called "Saudi Arabian" not "Saudi Arabic". If you're going to impersonate them, at least be believable.
Saudi Arabic? Bruhh
I think there's a perception issue when it comes to foreigners all together. People who are willing to travel to another country tend to have a higher, low bar overall. The same thing happens with some foreign workers, these are the ones willing to move across the world for work. They'll tend to be better than the low bar in a country.
She a curb witch !!! Amen !!
As a representative of the Middle East and the European community, we chose to pass on this kind of women. Thank you 🙏
As a reprensentative of canadian caucasian community, we will also pass on this kind of woman, maybe the latino man community want to weight in?
As a representative of the Kabylian community,we pass on this woman who will certainly surround herself with cats very soon because they are the only living breathing creatures to bare her personality(or lack of personality rather)
@@zakiaitslimane658 Nordic Gang representative here and by degree of King and Country we send her to our Slav bros in the south before anyone get the idea to send her our way
As a representative of the latino/Hispanic and American community we would like to pass on this abhorrent woman.
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I love how a lot of people on the internet say that equality is the goal and fuck gender roles, but keep on pushing gender roles on men. Like its mansplainging for someone to say "a woman should do this, act like this etc" (which I agree with, I don't like people telling me how I should live my life) but its ok for women to say " men, you should do this, and be like that"..
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It's because they don't want to negotiate. They need these men to just accept the role usually foisted on them while women can do everything for a you go girl moment. It would give them power in the relationship they believe. If we accept our part they don't have to deal with demands back at them. Because we all know how feminists react to people that give them even an ounce of resistance.
The thing about equality, IMO is that men and women are completely different. We do have certain roles. BUT, equality means that my role as a woman is not less important than a man's role, which a lot of ppl believe. I'm not trying to be a man and I don't want a man who tries to be a woman..... however I'm not less than a man.
This society tells women that our roles are to fulfill that of a man simply bc he's a man. Why are we raised to be slaves to men and men are raised to treat us like we're less than and see us as sex objects....
This is the point of equality of the sexes. Ppl take it as completely something else as if women are trying to be men and play a man's role which is not the point of it all.
Well men are quite happy to cook and clean for themselves, which is the cliche gender role that feminist women scream about. But what's left after that? Okay sure, sex... but then what.... exactly what does a modern woman bring to my table other than inconvenience and irritation...? To disrupt my carefully curated routine, my peace and quiet and my freedom...? Because very few of them seem to respect men at all any more.
Mansplaining isn't at all about telling women how to act or what to do. It's about explaining something to someone as though they're idiots. Women can do it too. Back when we used normal words, we'd say that they (men or women) were being condescending.
I dont get why ppl cant just say there are dynamics they enjoy in relationships that sometimes align w gender roles? Personally I dont think a man should do anything for me or a woman, but if we're tryna stay in each others lives in certain ways there are things Ima want and ask for. And when I get those things Im gonna be grateful bc they were my desire, not their responsibility. And it should be the same vice versa. I love cooking & cleaning for loved ones lol always have, but if anybody takes that shit for granted i have no issue ordering in and not cleaning the dishes. I cook and clean for loved ones cause I enjoy seeing them happy and feeling like theyre seeing that im going out of my way to express love to them but if theyre not even receiving that shit wtf is the point?
I do agree that sometimes location Is a factor for example I’m not saying the women In my area are trash they just don’t like men like me where as UK women love me
Low key it’s because in America being Persistent and consistent can be “called” sexual harassment if the girl finds you unattractive.
Lol don't be fooled by this women. Being persistent is frowned upon in the country I'm in Europe too.
This is despite some women (in my country) on Twitter alleging that they like persistent men repeatedly. They say this so that men that they don't want fail.
If a woman finds a man attractive and wants him, there often isn't much that he won't get away with. Yeah she said these guys were persistent, but how do we know that she is telling the truth? Funny, just a couple of mins ago when I opened the link in the description box to see her TikTok video, it had been removed. I wanted to see what they were saying about the video in the comments.
It makes me feel that she isn't telling the truth. Or perhaps they were cooking her like Plantain in the comments and she couldn't handle it. 🤔
Don't forget stalker too...
Exactly, the same thing that she’s saying that she wants is the same thing that she’ll classify as creepy and harassment. This lady is not to be taken seriously.
Her: Be persistent
Also Her: No means no (when hitting on girls)
I just want to know what constitutes "hitting on girls". Is talking about touchy and/or sexual subjects hitting on girls? What constitutes creepy exactly? What is creepy for one girl might just be irresistibly sexy for another girl. (Or guy if the roles are flipped).
@@bensweeney5878 Just shootin your shot with cringey pick up lines. No touching, nothing really explicit.
I will say from my own experience women, especially older can get away with more explicit comments in the workplace than men.
Typical whamin logic
@@bensweeney5878 Unfortunately, the answer is whatever she's feels at the time.
There's an episode of Rick and Morty that address"s that last point. Too many options with online dating.
Ion get how your nationality/where you’re from dictates how you are as a person or how you treat others.
The REAL problem, is that some people are scared of rejection & don’t really know what they want in a partner/expect something unrealistic or unreasonable.