Nick Viall Wants You to End Your Situationship | Let's Be Honest with Kristin Cavallari
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- čas přidán 31. 10. 2023
- Podcast host, reality TV alum, and incredible advice giver Nick Viall and I discuss everything going on with men when it comes to dating from flirting on Instagram to when it's your responsibility to make the first move, how to tell if he's not into you, why to never ask a guy "what are we", guys' biggest dating insecurity, what percentage of men cheat, how guys fall in love, and what Nick blew my mind about.
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Tbh, Getting in a car accident on the way to a Coffee date and leaving the scene so you can see the Girl might fall under the "If he wanted to he would" category😊
Nick needs to write another book. He puts into words so easily what so many of us have a very hard time understanding in the relationship world. Fantastic interview.
I don’t know this guy but he talks a lot of sense.
This was a great episode! 👏👏👏 more like this!
Dang, this was a pretty good conversation. I enjoyed it and learned quite a bit. I think it’s pretty spot on.
Kristin asks the BEST questions!!
I love watching your podcasts.. and I am a fan of Nick Viall, he’s so adorable.. thank you for the advice and words of wisdom.. I definitely need to change my ways.
I’m a little older then Kristin and I’m also divorced. I feel that Kristin has been very male centred her whole life. She has always had male attention and I feel she has found herself single again and has come yo realise it’s a whole new ball game. Dating apps have made a huge change and women like Kristin are now not as sought after by men because now your just added to a roster. I have decided to jump off the ride and have decentred men. 5:57 I have had a couple of relationships since my divorce and tbh I would rather be spending my precious time with people I actually care about. I have come to the realisation that most guys are selfish.
She also has 3 kids now that she factors in, as opposed to Hollywood kristin who didn't.
I agree fully with what you said, Bois have put me thru so much bullshit an life is so short that I'd rather just be fuckin alone Instead of the constant heartache Bois give me an I say Bois cus I haven't come across any men since I was 16 til 37, just horrible Bois who haven't become men yet sadly!
Same. Dating is a whole different beast when you're mid-30s and beyond. Trying to find that needle in a haystack gem of a man is exhausting. I gave up years ago and find I am so much healthier and happier when I'm not stressing over relationships/dating/men. Spending time with friends, family, in nature and with my wonderful dogs is the path I intend to stay on.
I'm a little older than Kristin as well so I too remember when dating did not involve apps and all this crap. I do agree with it being like a dating roster. Everyone is looking for the next best thing. No one ever seems satisfied. I married in 2005 and I'm still married but I've always said if something were to happen to my relationship that I probably wouldn't make men a priority either. Today's dating world seems like so many mind games and I feel like I'm getting too old for this lol. The only thing I disagree with is that men are selfish. I'd upgrade that to people are selfish. It's very hard to find a genuine man to date or even a genuine female friend. Many people lack commitment and loyalty in relationships in general because they just seem too lazy to care. If you're someone like me who values a close connection whether it be romantically or from a friendship it can be very hard to find someone who is like-minded. It's quite sad actually.
Wow honestly Nicks advice is a lot better advice than I assumed!
Yasss this collab is lit😅
Kristen, I would love a podcast on healthy ways to resolve conflict?
I needed to watch this when I was 20 😂
Kristen your make up is flawless, absolute natural beaut😍
I wonder why this was deleted and reposted? I watched this on a previous day already
I was wondering the same thing
Good men are still out there! In that last year, my husband had to step away from two friendships after the men cheated on their wives. If you can treat your wife like that, how would you treat anyone else with respect?
The problem with modern day dating is we are all imperfect people looking for perfect people
Most of the ick stuff I've seen I've realized is women actually being scared of good guys. I saw one about a girl getting the ick because a guy said he liked cocktails and named one from a chain restaurant. If I liked a guy and he said that I would find it so cute and endearing. I really like seeing the humanity in people. life is hard and people are awkward and most people are mean. To overlook character for something like that is a bullet dodged for the guy because he'll find a girl who sees and likes his inner child and social awkwardness and it'll be his safe place. That's where you find the gems.
I love both of you!!! I'm wondering why this was deleted and re-upload tho? I already watched this earlier
Same.
It feels like she’s trying to figure out how to navigate the dating world as an adult. Things have changed with social media and dating apps, but it feels like her perspective and approach is the same as when she was in her early 20’s. It’s interesting, because if you’ve never been married or in a long-term relationship through your 20’s and 30’s your dating approach tends to mature.
I can see why it can be hard to jump back in to the dating scene if you’ve been out of it since you were early 20’s.
Her comments remind me of how I thought about guys and dating when I was younger. He was giving her a lot of good advice on how she should be thinking about dating now in her 30s.
When you first start dating you feel like there’s a VAST difference between men and women. But then you realize we’re all just people, and everyone has a different personality and likes/dislikes. It’s not necessarily men vs women.
I love nick viall
He reminds me of the bartender from “He’s just not that into you” with these words.
So good tho, dang, Nick Viall is surprisingly very deep haha🙊
THE QUEEF PART 💀
The part where he said “men don’t fall in love with you due to sex.” Well, it always happens to me, 3 times when I just wanted something casual and after 6 months and 💥 there goes his love confession. I realize I can’t be in a causal thing no more due that. So now I just take my time to be in a relationship and go from there.
It’s cause u were always ready to leave, never giving 💯. You were naturally putting up a chase, so it wasn’t the sex, it was that they had to woo you
It’s so complicated now.
I don't think the things about exes is true. I've had a very hard time breaking up in the past because of the friend compatibility but the relationship was completely gone. Once we decided we were able to remain friends we were able to break up and no fire ever ever rekindles. We were together for 6 years and the last two the sexual aspect was gone.
AGREE- blessing and a curse to have almost unlimited options at your fingertips with these damn dating apps....
I wanted to laugh when he said no ones ever accused me of having a small personality holy ego. Dude ur nothing special personality or looks sry
God bless.🌸
Romans 10:9
I so agree with Kristen. I've never msgd a dude on an app and will never slip into their dms lol.
I need me a dominant man.
most people suck but idk if it's anything new. however i guess dating apps make users feel like they have more options that's no matter your gender. people can go on a date or have a fling but if you're both open about it fine but also why would a man judge a woman for sleeping w/ him if that's what he wanted? plus some women DON'T necessarily care about the men they've had sex w/ however women are the ones who can get pregnant but then why would men slutshame the women after? relationships have too many rules and expectations though. no wonder so many people want out. also when it comes to making the first move, why play games? life is short but it can be hard to discuss feelings and be vulnerable and honest at times.
Nick and I chatted on FB and he liked a really old photo of mine from like 2011 😂😂 I wonder if he’s talking about me or if I was in his current “roster” of girls he did the same with. I’m betting the latter!
Blows my mind how someone his age can use the word “like” so many times when he talks. Makes himself sound unsure of the words he uses and the trouble he has articulating himself.
You interrupted him a lot. Please let them speak. Ugh. So many times he wanted to say things that were going to be so important. Also, were these questions for yourself?!!!!! Or for the listeners?!
I agree - the interruptions were frustrating (and unnecessary)!
Well since she does not know most of her listeners and cannot read minds probably for herself generally, but also with the hopes that it would help some others. Lose the attitude or just don't watch her channel freak.
She said she can't have sex unless she feels an emotional connection yet didn't she just say on her last podcast she recently had a one night stand? 😆
She probably had a really good interaction with him prior to sex that made her feel mentally safe with him enough to have sex. It happens
this guy gives off 🚩🚩🚩 Why would anyone listen to him about "relationship advise".
yea. there were few questionable answers
He's been chewed up and spat out through The Bachelor franchise. He has a podcast that centre's around relationships. As well as written a book. I don't always agree with him but he does give some good ole common sense advice, straight up and funny too
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sadly so many ppl lack common sense! thye shouldn't need to be told these things.@@glittering_trash_
That's BS . you don't sleep with a guy that quick. they will respect you more if you are not easy.
Then they are dumb as shit. And you shouldn't be with them anyway
So nick doesn't want to date a vegetarian. So him and his girl can have heart attacks together?
eating meat or fish etc doesnt guarantee heart attacks there are other factors or eating too much can lead to health problems. moderation is key.
We are literally designed to eat meat. It’s the healthiest thing for you. That’s why vegan look so horrible.