Yeah in mainland usa but in hawaii we mostly wear brighter colors and sometimes the aunties will wear mumus, but sometimes you will still be wearing black
@@Thatsomeone938 YES imma be chillin there in my coffin and everybody better be bopping to beyonce like "wE gOnNa fVcK uP tHe NiGht✨✨" also my coffin better be covered in glitter
If I were the oldest person at the table, I would either troll and wait way too long to start eating or forget that everyone can't eat until I do and unintentionally make them annoyed lol.
India is so much of a different case people don’t think of clothing much tho it has been shown in movie we wear white but it’s never like that!! It’s ur day to day wear nothing flashing in times of funeral for Hindus the funeral goes as long as thirteen days and the 13th day is a dinner event held for the person who died, people also bring fruits and sweets for the family because the stove isn’t allowed to used for few hours and many other rituals in all the ceremony here is a whole different case
Sounds really interesting. When my grandma died, I'm from a Mexican Catholic/Christian family, my older aunts held a two week rosary sessions. Or something like that. They prayed with the rosary for two or so weeks, i just remember they where here for a bit. No one in my fam cooked. My mom did but only for my other aunt's, grandma's daughters. When my cousins boyfriends family memeber died my mom made food for them too. My mom told me she does it to show respect to the family, because when someone dies no one really wants to cook since it's too exhausting.
Actually the first thing is, from which place in India you're from. Because, I am from Assam . Now, here, bright clothes are considered a no. It will surely leave a bad impression. However, it can be different in case of different types of people. My mom is Deuri, a tribe. They have a festive atmosphere in order for the soul to feel happy wherever it is, though people do cry. They even dance and sing for that. However, my dad follows a 11 funeral. So, it practically matters on the place you're from.
In Nepal we do the same. Its white for the first 13 days for the immediate family but, after that they the son or the husband wear grayish color for a year.
The same was true in Korean up until the mid-1930s or so, when a code of conduct for funerals was implemented by Japanese occupying forces, in line with Western attire. Before then, either white or off-white burlap hemp mourning clothes were worn by family members.
@@ultratwinah so the korean customs are influenced too, I did notice quite the similarities between the West nd Korea but then figured it was a religion thing like Christians are a lot in Korea ig so yeah.
@@lilmeowarmy4161 Yeah, I had thought it was a post-liberation practice in loosely Western attire and public appearance (like the suit-and-tie, in general), and was surprised to hear it was yet another introduction to more Western things via the Japanese, long before 1945...and only the burlap hat and armbands remain to this day in most of the peninsula. However, when I attended my wife's grandfather's 5-day wake in Jeju, all close of kin wore the traditional off-white garments.
It’s really interesting how different cultures in Asia have the “who eats first” rule. I know that in india, typically the kids eat first, and then the elderly. After which the adults eat (the ones who made the food generally eat last for some reason. I believe in Thailand kids eat first too, according to bambam. In those cultures, the elderly are given a lot of respect as well and there is a hierarchy similar to that of Korea, but kids get to eat first.
I lived in Uganda for a year and the first funeral I saw I thought it was a wedding. But I really like how they are celebrating the life of the person who passed away. It's such a touching thought
It’s the opposite in monotheistic cultures, children eat first, parents are supposed to sacrifice and be patient. Same goes to letting the old and fragile eat first AND with them. Giving company is highly encouraged
I’m live in Korea and they were most rude people I ever had a chance to see. • Women push me a lot, anywhere and never apologize, also when going in&out of subway both genders then are so aggressive with pushes. • Men don’t have the culture of opening the door for a girl, they don’t let a girl go first. • In shops, staff tend to comment customers’ looks but so are friends and family. It’s also the place where I get pushed the most by women. • People seem to compliment me but then talk about it like I just achieved that look unnaturally.
I think it's better if there's some explanation. Eating first (and finishing too) is considered respectful because they traditionally food was something very valuable and a tiny way to respect the elders was to let them try the food first. And while eating, you don't want anyone to feel awkward eating alone when everyone is finished, so it's just just simple table manners that you would kinda pace until the other person seems like they are finished. It doesn't have to be exact, but It's like you don't want to stare and pressure anyone to eat any faster.
My country : When the person is old (60 and above) we were white. And the others either dark color, black or red. POV: we normally pick out a particular cloth for people to buy and sow then wear them to the funeral (not compulsory) buh they say it shows that the person belong to a family 😊 Edit: I’m from Ghana 🇬🇭 (Africa)
I found the first spot to be interesting, because I don't normally think about the age of the people I have around I'm from Mexico🇲🇽 and it is not very common to go asking people the year they were born, so I found it hard to even know who the oldest person is in, for example, work dinners or with people that I am not the closest with. O have never been to Korea, so I find it to be very interesting cause I think I would mess up this one for being so distracted
In India where i live first we need do spend a specific day and time lamenting for the lost one But next day everyone shows up wearing bright dresses and jewellery and has a full on feast 💀👍 I have not been to many funerals but one in particular where an old man died.... Bro it was a whole party they had beverages, starters, delicious food
I heard that in some states in my country, funeral is almost a party, and I can see why, but the funerals I went were pretty heavy, and it was also the first time I saw my mom crying my whole life.
I still remembered when I read dangerous convenience store, joonie invited ahjussi to come over and waited until ahjussi started eating. Ahjussi got so offended because he liked joonie at that time 💀😭😂😂
That makes sense. My family always makes sure that the elders like my grandma are the first to get their food and then the rest can follow suite. Although this is only during large family dinners like at thanksgiving.
In the part of America where im from (I don’t know if other places do this), you can have a funeral where it’s sad and you wear dark clothes. But, we also have celebrations of life so you wear the deceased persons favorite colors and just celebrate them and their life. 😊♥️
In my family, it has always been the complete opposite, according to what my grandfather told me before he passed away, the order that the family has used since his great great great grandfather was born was as follows, first the children youngest to oldest, followed by the woman youngest to oldest, than the men youngest to oldest, and lastly the cook. As to make sure that those who were smaller would be able to grow well and stay healthy.
actually, about the oldest person has to eat first, it’s a rule my family also use and we aren’t korean. we usually wait for my grandpa to sit down then eat first so we can start eating out of respect. it’s also applies when i’m at home and eating lunch with my family, i usually wait for my dad to eat first, but i don’t think it’s rlly considered “rude” because some of the younger kids eat first if they’re rlly hungry but we still do it out of respect
Idk why your videos keep popping up on my CZcams feed but I think you are beautiful. I have always told my friends that Korean girls/women are probably the most beautiful out of all Asian types
i will always wear bright colors to funerals- everyone around me tells me to wear a bright color to their funeral bc they dont want their funeral to be dull. an yes i am korean but born in america so i never followed this tradition, nor the tradition of the eldest taking the first bite until very recently.
In ky culture you wear all white or near white to a funeral. No other clothing what ever might happen it has to be white . Because, white represents peace. We believe in praying for the peace of the dead , thats why white.
For us PH, as I remember, we can wear black or white. White if like, who died had a great life or was a great person or something. Black if opposite (correct me if I'm wrong, it's what I remember my parents said)
Our customs are almost similar. We have Koreans come to my village yearly to share food, culture, and spend time with our children and elders. They always tell us our customs are similar. Especially funeral wise. Nobody wears bright colors to our funerals/memorials. Since Covid we haven’t had the dancing, parade and door to door invitations to their hand made/served meals. I miss them dearly.
As I'm often the oldest person in my friend's group and feel very uncomfortable eating first or having attention paid to me of any kind ... I would hate this.
In India we always wear white since it represents peace and we pray for the soul to rest in peace and for the family to have peace in times of distress. 🙏
In Nigeria,we celebrate the life the person lived in a festive way. it's often a big celebration but if the person was young, it's often not celebrated
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‘Let your elders eat first’
Stray Kids: I.N EAT FIRST.
Edit: Yes, Maknae on Top, keep it going in the replies
i mean maknae on top am i right
MAKNAE ON TOP- WHOA WHOA
Imagine if the oldest member of any group is on a diet bc of the agency so nobody can eat…😳
@@daweirdooooo welp-
I.N IS the oldest yk there's nothing wrong
“unless your the oldest person, never take the first bite”
Stray Kids: *Y'all hear something???*
LMAO
LOL
nope, we don't hear anything at all
@@aditimishra5160 flops? lmao u must be blind and deaf 👀👀
@@aditimishra5160 it's not about brainless people as well, so shut up.
"oldest people eat first" Twins staring at each other awkwardly
Older twin: weelllll I am one minute older 😌
Adopted twins have a stare off, I guess.
"Oldest takes the first bite"
Stray Kids: Let's I.N eat first bite then dig in.
But IN is the grandma
@@rbvcan 🤣🤣😭😭
@@rbvcan IKR
@@rbvcan true that 😌
dont care + didn’t ask + flops can stfu
"the eldest person eats first"
Stray Kids: *bombastic side eye*
Sunoo, taking a bite of the ramen before everyone else: *criminal offensive side eye*
😂😂😂
LMAOOOO
well at least sunoo is the oldest in maknae line lol and for skz i heard their leader is foive so i.n is technically the oldest right??
In the US you wear dark clothes also
Hell yeah USA USA USA
Yep!
Yeah in mainland usa but in hawaii we mostly wear brighter colors and sometimes the aunties will wear mumus, but sometimes you will still be wearing black
USA isn't 1 culture.
I went to a funeral once where you were only allowed to wear white
Me being a stay and seeing all the comments about stray kids 💀
Same 😂
It must put relevant topics to the viewer t the top
Same ❤😂
Me too 😂
"the eldest one takes the first bite"
Stray Kids - Is it done like this-
they have no rules fr
skz maknae: call me the rule breaker
yep.
Yea pretty sure Chan waits till all are eating to start himself 😅 being a dad to 7 stray kids are hard
Fr
yep
not me watching all your videos before i go to korea bc my half korean self was not taught any korean manners
real
Don’t worry, you will probably be given a pass, don’t stress too much ❤.
Shut up we don’t care
Exactly same
Just bully someone first
In Latin America: feed the children first so they don’t bother us while we eat lol
African American culture too.
Lol same here in india😂
DONT FORGET IRELAND!
@@evelyn7881yep! Came to say the same about AAs. 🥰🥰
same here in bangladesh-
Nahhh. I have my whole plate finished before my grandma even sits down 💀
💀
Same here 😂
My granny used to force me to sit down and eat
'Elders eat first'
Maknae on top whoooaa whooaah ohh ❤
EVERYONE EATS FIRST EVERYONE
YESSS
When I heard the first one, my mind immediately went to Stray kids and seems like the comment section agrees too
i want everyone at my funeral to wear all pink + heart shaped sunglasses. as many rhinestones and glitter as possible would be preferred 😌
OMG SAME+blasting pop music
@@Thatsomeone938 YES imma be chillin there in my coffin and everybody better be bopping to beyonce like "wE gOnNa fVcK uP tHe NiGht✨✨" also my coffin better be covered in glitter
I like this idea! Nothing wrong with some levity.
@auto-tainment sounds good to me, i'mma ironically be something from (g)i-dle's "i never die" album
@auto-tainment heck yeah what are you putting
If I were the oldest person at the table, I would either troll and wait way too long to start eating or forget that everyone can't eat until I do and unintentionally make them annoyed lol.
If you did that I'd pick up my plate of food and eat in my room
🖕
lmfao i LOVE how many stays were summoned by this video XD
India is so much of a different case people don’t think of clothing much tho it has been shown in movie we wear white but it’s never like that!! It’s ur day to day wear nothing flashing in times of funeral for Hindus the funeral goes as long as thirteen days and the 13th day is a dinner event held for the person who died, people also bring fruits and sweets for the family because the stove isn’t allowed to used for few hours and many other rituals in all the ceremony here is a whole different case
Sounds really interesting. When my grandma died, I'm from a Mexican Catholic/Christian family, my older aunts held a two week rosary sessions. Or something like that. They prayed with the rosary for two or so weeks, i just remember they where here for a bit. No one in my fam cooked. My mom did but only for my other aunt's, grandma's daughters. When my cousins boyfriends family memeber died my mom made food for them too. My mom told me she does it to show respect to the family, because when someone dies no one really wants to cook since it's too exhausting.
It depends which part of India you're from. Because we do wear white in our culture.
Actually the first thing is, from which place in India you're from. Because, I am from Assam . Now, here, bright clothes are considered a no. It will surely leave a bad impression. However, it can be different in case of different types of people. My mom is Deuri, a tribe. They have a festive atmosphere in order for the soul to feel happy wherever it is, though people do cry. They even dance and sing for that. However, my dad follows a 11 funeral. So, it practically matters on the place you're from.
@@grapesarepurple2636 I am Chinese and we also wear white, this custom might come from India.
Frfr here (west bengal) we take tervi very seriously.
In India we wear White at a funeral most of the time but if you don't have full white clothes then we mostly wear very Dull colour
In Nepal we do the same. Its white for the first 13 days for the immediate family but, after that they the son or the husband wear grayish color for a year.
@@zhongli_lover-te9zy in India we only wear these for the antim sanskar
The same was true in Korean up until the mid-1930s or so, when a code of conduct for funerals was implemented by Japanese occupying forces, in line with Western attire. Before then, either white or off-white burlap hemp mourning clothes were worn by family members.
@@ultratwinah so the korean customs are influenced too, I did notice quite the similarities between the West nd Korea but then figured it was a religion thing like Christians are a lot in Korea ig so yeah.
@@lilmeowarmy4161 Yeah, I had thought it was a post-liberation practice in loosely Western attire and public appearance (like the suit-and-tie, in general), and was surprised to hear it was yet another introduction to more Western things via the Japanese, long before 1945...and only the burlap hat and armbands remain to this day in most of the peninsula. However, when I attended my wife's grandfather's 5-day wake in Jeju, all close of kin wore the traditional off-white garments.
Not skz breaking the first rule with their amazing maknae
frrr
That awkward moment when you realize you’re the oldest person at the table 😂
The thing about funeral its also in my country (Greece 🇬🇷)
Same here in Serbia
I’m pretty sure it’s the same in most countries. I’ve literally never heard about a colorful funeral before
@@NaishiYTyeah me too
It’s really interesting how different cultures in Asia have the “who eats first” rule. I know that in india, typically the kids eat first, and then the elderly. After which the adults eat (the ones who made the food generally eat last for some reason. I believe in Thailand kids eat first too, according to bambam. In those cultures, the elderly are given a lot of respect as well and there is a hierarchy similar to that of Korea, but kids get to eat first.
Funerals in Africa are like party
- CELEBRATION OF LIFE
I lived in Uganda for a year and the first funeral I saw I thought it was a wedding. But I really like how they are celebrating the life of the person who passed away. It's such a touching thought
Not in South Africa
It’s the opposite in monotheistic cultures, children eat first, parents are supposed to sacrifice and be patient. Same goes to letting the old and fragile eat first AND with them. Giving company is highly encouraged
Absolutely, children eat first. If anyone is going to eat last or go hungry, it's the adults.
@@livingwithbipolar2 I thought it the eldest taste tests the food for poison.
"Grandpa why r u not eating "
"I'm fasting for the next week"
"Hold up we did sign up for this!"
In our india we wear white for the person to show peace
I’m live in Korea and they were most rude people I ever had a chance to see.
• Women push me a lot, anywhere and never apologize, also when going in&out of subway both genders then are so aggressive with pushes.
• Men don’t have the culture of opening the door for a girl, they don’t let a girl go first.
• In shops, staff tend to comment customers’ looks but so are friends and family. It’s also the place where I get pushed the most by women.
• People seem to compliment me but then talk about it like I just achieved that look unnaturally.
I think it's better if there's some explanation. Eating first (and finishing too) is considered respectful because they traditionally food was something very valuable and a tiny way to respect the elders was to let them try the food first. And while eating, you don't want anyone to feel awkward eating alone when everyone is finished, so it's just just simple table manners that you would kinda pace until the other person seems like they are finished. It doesn't have to be exact, but It's like you don't want to stare and pressure anyone to eat any faster.
I love seeing all of the stays here😂❤
My country :
When the person is old (60 and above) we were white.
And the others either dark color, black or red.
POV: we normally pick out a particular cloth for people to buy and sow then wear them to the funeral (not compulsory) buh they say it shows that the person belong to a family 😊
Edit: I’m from Ghana 🇬🇭 (Africa)
In Nigeria we wear what ever we like and just go and eat a bunch of food
I found the first spot to be interesting, because I don't normally think about the age of the people I have around
I'm from Mexico🇲🇽 and it is not very common to go asking people the year they were born, so I found it hard to even know who the oldest person is in, for example, work dinners or with people that I am not the closest with.
O have never been to Korea, so I find it to be very interesting cause I think I would mess up this one for being so distracted
Omg am so Glad I wasn't the only one reminded of Straykids after hearing the first one 😭
Straykids everywhere all around the world 🫦💅
I think respect to elders is such a sweet acknowledged understanding of the honor they deserve from a life filled with more experience and wisdom ✨️
"things that are considered rude in korean culture": literally everything
Yall don't know how happy I am seeing almost everyone talking about Jeongin(I.N) eating first😂
MAKNAE ON TOP
True! One time I weared a bright shirt under my dress for the funeral of someone and I was so scared as some people where giving me side eyes😭💀
Absolutely loving how everybody thought of I.N stray kids
In India also only white or light coloured clothes are worn during funerals
Because black absorbs everything including the sadness. So to avoid it white is worn in hindu culture. 🕉
@@kookie7563 yes... Agreed... My mother told me this when I was in 6th
Nobody ask
I asked.
@@finalproject8821 I did whatchu gonna do now?
When she unintentionally and I mean did not even say the word , she just called all stays here
Things that are considered rude in Korean culture: Being dark skinned
Ah yes let the elders eat first to make sure that the food isn't poisonous.
We generally wear black here in Australia too, though my nan requested we wear yellow at hers and my mum wanted us to wear turquoise at hers.
I love how this video just summoned STAY 😭
In India where i live first we need do spend a specific day and time lamenting for the lost one
But next day everyone shows up wearing bright dresses and jewellery and has a full on feast 💀👍
I have not been to many funerals but one in particular where an old man died.... Bro it was a whole party they had beverages, starters, delicious food
It was because he must have died at very old age meaning he lived his life fully, and died naturally.
I heard that in some states in my country, funeral is almost a party, and I can see why, but the funerals I went were pretty heavy, and it was also the first time I saw my mom crying my whole life.
I still remembered when I read dangerous convenience store, joonie invited ahjussi to come over and waited until ahjussi started eating. Ahjussi got so offended because he liked joonie at that time 💀😭😂😂
Rember to break all these rules when you face your korean enemy. Somethings hit deeper then a full revenge story
"unless your the odest person never take the first bite"
"EAT EAT YOU EAT ITS OKAY YOU EAT"
LMAOOO Han really wants us to eat
Girl we matching tops. I actually wore that to a concert❤❤😂
That makes sense. My family always makes sure that the elders like my grandma are the first to get their food and then the rest can follow suite. Although this is only during large family dinners like at thanksgiving.
What if nobody knows anyone's age. I really got to discuss my age first... My cheeseburger is hot😂😂😂😂
Yeah they ask age 😀 first
In case u offend ahjussis
Me at the dinner table: “For God’s sake, old man, shut up and start eating!
It's a Korean belief that if a bride smiles during her wedding ceremony that is bad luck.
Her: “Unless you’re the oldest person, never take the first bite”
Straykids: “Ugh this bi-“
Thank you for sharing your culture with us.
In the part of America where im from (I don’t know if other places do this), you can have a funeral where it’s sad and you wear dark clothes. But, we also have celebrations of life so you wear the deceased persons favorite colors and just celebrate them and their life. 😊♥️
Skz:NOT IN SKZ I.N EATS FIRSST
In Uzbekistan too the oldest member eat first
Oh
In Portugal we also do that :D
Stray kids hearing the first one:
Those earrings are awesome.
For the first one what happens if the oldest are twins?
"Oldest person eats first"
Eldest Twins: *Slowly trying to eat at the same time*
OMG, your earnings are so slay
We have the same earring!!
In my family, it has always been the complete opposite, according to what my grandfather told me before he passed away, the order that the family has used since his great great great grandfather was born was as follows, first the children youngest to oldest, followed by the woman youngest to oldest, than the men youngest to oldest, and lastly the cook. As to make sure that those who were smaller would be able to grow well and stay healthy.
I love your shirt.
I love your outfits soo muchh
This is beneficial information.
Such a fashionable woman. I like your cute top 😉 and those earrings really bring out the light in your eyes.
actually, about the oldest person has to eat first, it’s a rule my family also use and we aren’t korean. we usually wait for my grandpa to sit down then eat first so we can start eating out of respect. it’s also applies when i’m at home and eating lunch with my family, i usually wait for my dad to eat first, but i don’t think it’s rlly considered “rude” because some of the younger kids eat first if they’re rlly hungry but we still do it out of respect
Here in the USA, funerals are also generally dark and somber occasions, but some people do want to put the fun back in funeral.
Idk why your videos keep popping up on my CZcams feed but I think you are beautiful. I have always told my friends that Korean girls/women are probably the most beautiful out of all Asian types
Yes I’m oldest so I always wait for a long time before I start eating to annoy my siblings- 😭😭
The first tradition even I do that my grandfather usually eats first
i will always wear bright colors to funerals- everyone around me tells me to wear a bright color to their funeral bc they dont want their funeral to be dull. an yes i am korean but born in america so i never followed this tradition, nor the tradition of the eldest taking the first bite until very recently.
I. N. Watching this video screaming at her 😂
It's similar in Morocco we do need to wait for the elders to start eating first
I.N - Maknae on top 😅
“Unless youre the oldest lerson, NEVER take the first bite”
Skz: **inserts the quack quack sound in awkward silence**
Lol i cant believe how many skz comments there are 😊
@@Felix__berry ikr
@@ChezBallz123 lol your name i love it! (´ω`)
@@Felix__berry thank you
The fact skz has a song called awkward silence
As a german thats actually the same😅
the funeral thing is also command in our country Ethiopia
In ky culture you wear all white or near white to a funeral. No other clothing what ever might happen it has to be white . Because, white represents peace. We believe in praying for the peace of the dead , thats why white.
I like her respect and kindness
Thank you so much ❤
In straykids the bite thing goes opposite
For us PH, as I remember, we can wear black or white. White if like, who died had a great life or was a great person or something. Black if opposite (correct me if I'm wrong, it's what I remember my parents said)
Our customs are almost similar. We have Koreans come to my village yearly to share food, culture, and spend time with our children and elders. They always tell us our customs are similar. Especially funeral wise. Nobody wears bright colors to our funerals/memorials. Since Covid we haven’t had the dancing, parade and door to door invitations to their hand made/served meals. I miss them dearly.
In Albania and Greece we wear dark coloured clothes too
You are really pretty
As I'm often the oldest person in my friend's group and feel very uncomfortable eating first or having attention paid to me of any kind ... I would hate this.
Me remembering those kdrama that did the opposite of this and now understanding why people had sm reactions
Thought I was the only one 😂
In India we always wear white since it represents peace and we pray for the soul to rest in peace and for the family to have peace in times of distress. 🙏
Same in Uzbekistan
In Nigeria,we celebrate the life the person lived in a festive way. it's often a big celebration but if the person was young, it's often not celebrated
Her earings give me anxiety 🤣😭
Seriously, you look like an Idol too!!
Love the top.