Taking A Break From Trying | Cole and Charisma

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  • @coleandcharisma
    @coleandcharisma  Před 3 lety +1023

    Thanks for watching everyone! We appreciate all of your support! ❤

    • @lovepassion5913
      @lovepassion5913 Před 3 lety +7

      @Rollwithcole&charisma thanks for the heart reaction for my comment.. I hv been waiting for that.. very happy.. my jaws r hurting 😁😁. ❤✌n stay positive

    • @deannawalsh6215
      @deannawalsh6215 Před 3 lety +10

      Thanks for sharing and always being so open with your lives :) And Charisma, you take those alone bath times lady! :D

    • @consuelacovington8169
      @consuelacovington8169 Před 3 lety +6

      Don't worry Charisma, your fans know how dedicated you are to Cole! This was a great educational experience.

    • @IAI369
      @IAI369 Před 3 lety +5

      Try watching the 'Lauren and Ari' video about what they did to have twins. They had a lot of good advice. Good Luck. You'll be great parents when the time comes!!

    • @rbroxton3068
      @rbroxton3068 Před 3 lety +6

      Just enjoy trying because the less schedule almost it will happen....and even with upcoming appointment and whatever way you both go down your make fantastic parents when the time comes. Xx

  • @deebo5475
    @deebo5475 Před 3 lety +2528

    Can we just take a moment to commend and acknowledge Charisma for all that she does...a strong Queen indeed💖

  • @PorshaLaVieBelle
    @PorshaLaVieBelle Před 3 lety +422

    He’s so handsome and she’s so beautiful. Beautiful couple

  • @stelas9307
    @stelas9307 Před 3 lety +261

    This girl is a champion. So positive and light, even though she is working so hard.

    • @Usapatriette
      @Usapatriette Před 3 lety +13

      Charisma is a bundle of joy and light! Cole too!! I can't get enough of these two; they make my day.

  • @stewart0721
    @stewart0721 Před 3 lety +252

    Hey guys! We are the Chavanas. We are an interracial and inter-abled couple as well. My husband has a c5-c6 incomplete SI. I love watching your videos because it reminds me of us when we were younger. We were going through the process to grow our family 3 years ago. If you ever need a community of people who are going through similar situations we are out here. Good luck to you all!!

  • @connievandenbroek7369
    @connievandenbroek7369 Před 3 lety +881

    Trying for a baby can be so stressful. My husband and I went through that, I said lets stop. Two months late I was pregnant, that guy is now 18 and heading to University. Don't Worry

    • @lawreenmkado8307
      @lawreenmkado8307 Před 3 lety +15

      I had the same experience when we stopped moved on....then buummmmm pregnant. I am now 6months ofter trying for 3 years.

    • @dianne-maeburgess2650
      @dianne-maeburgess2650 Před 3 lety +7

      Same with me too! I was ready to tie tunes..and at the appointment only did test and he will be 19 this year! It will happen when you least expect it..stress and worry can inhibit results...enjoy each other..you two are a gem!!

    • @jackiecolbert3915
      @jackiecolbert3915 Před 3 lety +2

      Congrats

    • @mon6745
      @mon6745 Před 3 lety +2

      Omg.. do sweet

    • @maiamiimaiam4343
      @maiamiimaiam4343 Před 3 lety

      That was us. Except we 7 months when we found out. Lol

  • @daphnet7078
    @daphnet7078 Před 3 lety +434

    Okay so this might be one of the weird comments you guys get, but watching your relationship has made me feel better about my break up. I just got dumped by my boyfriend of 5 years, and just seeing how nice you are to each other and how well you work to communicate and be mutually caring, it gives me hope and understanding that I wasn't in the right kind of relationship, and that it's going to be fine. Thanks guys.

    • @ramatoulietouray2729
      @ramatoulietouray2729 Před 3 lety +9

      That’s tough, hope you’re good❤️

    • @mercedesQ
      @mercedesQ Před 3 lety +6

      You will have an amazing rest of your life. Hold on to hope and trust that the best is yet to come for you 💜

    • @wunmikeji
      @wunmikeji Před 3 lety +6

      May the Lord be with you. Stay positive. Your own person will find you

    • @oratuwe8114
      @oratuwe8114 Před 3 lety +8

      Stay in God's love. Break ups aren't easy but you deserve the right love for you❤️❤️

    • @julietchristman1389
      @julietchristman1389 Před 3 lety

      @@oratuwe8114 there not breaking up. They are taking a break from getting pregnant.watch the video

  • @andrealucia4916
    @andrealucia4916 Před 3 lety +76

    Charisma is just one of the sweetes women in this world. Her heart is just too big

  • @FrancyDesir
    @FrancyDesir Před 3 lety +210

    My wife just got pregnant we started trying on june 2019 I'm so happy about it🤩

  • @celicamiller8643
    @celicamiller8643 Před 3 lety +156

    Charisma body = goals 😍

  • @priscillaarredondo9680
    @priscillaarredondo9680 Před 3 lety +110

    After 3 losses my husband and I stopped trying and just decided to enjoy the holidays. I was having a blast not worrying and just enjoying some holiday drinks this past December. Come January 5th, I found out We’re pregnant. I walked in egg eggshells until the 2nd trimester due to my losses but thank God here we are at 22 weeks. And every day with this little girls in my tummy is a blessing 💕
    I would say don’t stress and don’t listen to negativity. God has a way of finding the right time for everyone.

    • @jasonbryan9056
      @jasonbryan9056 Před 3 lety +3

      Hello how are you doing 👋☺️😀☺️

    • @tayperine8473
      @tayperine8473 Před 3 lety +3

      I hope your baby is so healthy and growing like a wild flower

    • @priscillaarredondo9680
      @priscillaarredondo9680 Před 3 lety +8

      @@tayperine8473 hello! I’m 31 weeks I’ll be 32 on Sunday. I’m so happy I get to feel my baby girl move and kick and although I get a good 3 hours of solid sleep at night I’m just so grateful I get to carry my baby 💝

    • @tayperine8473
      @tayperine8473 Před 3 lety +1

      @@priscillaarredondo9680 I'm so happy for you mama! And so glad your baby girl is doing well. I'm praying for your safe delivery. I had a few losses too before my son was born. I share the pain and the joy, it makes us cherish every moment with our baby. Rainbow babies are special. And Rainbow mamas are warriors ❤ lol sad to say you'll never sleep again but its alllll worth it 🤣

    • @io1681
      @io1681 Před 2 lety

      ❤️👍🤗💐👋🇮🇹

  • @lesliecrawford5517
    @lesliecrawford5517 Před 3 lety +173

    As a spinal cord nurse for 4yrs, I think yall are doing a fabulous job!!! keep up the positive vibes!

    • @jasonbryan9056
      @jasonbryan9056 Před 3 lety +1

      Hello how are you doing 👋☺️😀☺️😀😀

    • @chaoswilliams9037
      @chaoswilliams9037 Před rokem

      They do a great job as a couple and educating viewers as well.

  • @Frecks
    @Frecks Před 3 lety +635

    "People think they know everything" lol that's unfortunately the problem with society

    • @sheilan6959
      @sheilan6959 Před 3 lety +9

      That struck me. So true.

    • @gabrielavilla7308
      @gabrielavilla7308 Před 3 lety

      Theres always at least one person who tries to find something negative to be edgy

    • @Mike_Jones281
      @Mike_Jones281 Před 3 lety +1

      Unfortunately, society often teaches us to pretend to know things we don't know, or can not possibly know.

    • @gabrielavilla7308
      @gabrielavilla7308 Před 3 lety

      @@Mike_Jones281 that's true but for this kind of thing I think it just makes people feel safer to jump to conclusions because they don't like the feeling of uncertainty. makes them feel a loss of power so to regain it they jump to a conclusion

    • @micheiiefire4778
      @micheiiefire4778 Před 3 lety

      Micheiie LisBy 😇🦉🐬

  • @mimilaure5774
    @mimilaure5774 Před 3 lety +743

    Charisma, trying to conceive can be mentally and physically exhausting. I have been through that path. In fact, I have been trying since 2010 to be pregnant without any luck. From Oct 2015 to Nov 2016, I went thru two rounds of IVF, got pregnant but lost my babies (embryos). When I lost my baby or embryo for the second time, I was mentally and physically exhausted. I decided that being a mother wasn't for me until God decided otherwise. In July 2017, I realized that I was pregnant. I became pregnant naturally and now, my little man is turning 3 tomorrow. This to say that, I sincerely hope that the IUI works for you both as the steps for the IVF are hard due the hormonal changes that you will go thru. I'm hoping that the IUI works or that you naturally get blessed with a little baby. Blessings and wishing you both the best.

    • @tinafox1229
      @tinafox1229 Před 3 lety +30

      Charisma, I agree with@Mimi. I, too, went through failed IVF. Not trying to discourage you, at all, trying to encourage you to take your time. You are newlyweds, enjoy each other first then let the babies come. My son is 7 yrs old now and a joy. They will come at the right time.

    • @ugandansdeservebetter7550
      @ugandansdeservebetter7550 Před 3 lety +9

      Hallelujah 🙏❤️❤️❤️

    • @irenedavo3768
      @irenedavo3768 Před 3 lety +2

      ❤️❤️❤️

    • @kijuanageer3036
      @kijuanageer3036 Před 3 lety +8

      I feel if u stop trying and stop thinking bout it u get pregnant I had three miscarriage n was like I guess being a mother is not for me then boom a baby now I’m a mother of 5 thank you god

    • @mslonie2844
      @mslonie2844 Před 3 lety

      God Bless and Happy 3rd Birthday little one 💖

  • @BeeChance
    @BeeChance Před 3 lety +299

    To the people who are always passing judgment, criticizing, and being negative, keep your mouth close and put yourself in Charisma's shoes. I just can't stand people sometimes.

    • @lavallarogers7685
      @lavallarogers7685 Před 3 lety +3

      Yes I agree keep your uneducated rud comments to yourself shame on you

    • @jujuandwamwams165
      @jujuandwamwams165 Před 3 lety

      💯💯💯

    • @lovingmayberry2000
      @lovingmayberry2000 Před 2 lety +2

      Am I missing something, or are they just delating certain comments, cause I haven't seen a single negative comment! Love you C and C! 💙

    • @savannahtucker7936
      @savannahtucker7936 Před 2 lety +3

      @@lovingmayberry2000 theyre talking about the people on TikTok that kept telling Charisma to put him in the bath tub and lift him (which obviously didnt work). They mean that those people should relax because they dont know the situation

    • @jay248thekingcrepper3
      @jay248thekingcrepper3 Před rokem

      Foh real

  • @natashaletourneau5368
    @natashaletourneau5368 Před 3 lety +154

    Holding my 5 month old son makes me so proud that I waited 13 years for him!!!
    IT WILL HAPPEN 💙💙💙

    • @arianedavis4309
      @arianedavis4309 Před 2 lety +3

      Congratulations! 13 years waiting for my son, as well!! God comes thru!

    • @natashaletourneau5368
      @natashaletourneau5368 Před 2 lety +4

      @@arianedavis4309 awww!!!
      That’s so awesome & yes GODS TIMING!!!!
      My boy is 16 months old now 😭

  • @clboymom9467
    @clboymom9467 Před 3 lety +183

    Not a fail. Just a learning experience for everybody. I can’t believe anyone would come at Charisma for that. Super rude and unfair.

    • @janazezulova2669
      @janazezulova2669 Před 3 lety +2

      I agree, this is not a fail. And you don´t have to prove to anybody neither, so look at this challenge as an exercise check for yourself only. Still I appreciate you did this bath tub part to teach us all something. Thank you. Lots of love from me and my baby Fíbo (york) - he says hi to Sophie :-)

  • @beckagrace7499
    @beckagrace7499 Před 3 lety +420

    Off topic but charisma outfit is awesome!!

    • @shawnschillerstrom337
      @shawnschillerstrom337 Před 3 lety +2

      Agreed!!

    • @JRockkk1
      @JRockkk1 Před 3 lety +4

      100%😍🔥

    • @Hricks008
      @Hricks008 Před 3 lety +13

      And, SHE wears it well!👗

    • @marqueshamoore2135
      @marqueshamoore2135 Před 3 lety +2

      🥰🥰🥰

    • @zg8878
      @zg8878 Před 3 lety +5

      I was thinking the same thing. And she is so fit. People don’t realize how much she does for Cole. You can tell she loves him a lot.

  • @brenlandrum7321
    @brenlandrum7321 Před 3 lety +112

    Don't have to prove anything to anyone.Dont get caught up in social media and what they think .I took care my mother and work in the healthcare industry.Bless You Charisma for really loving him and taking care of him. Old Fan!

  • @StaceMase06
    @StaceMase06 Před 3 lety +16

    I just want you to know, after trying for 5 years, a miscarriage, then failed IUI, 2 failed IVF we finally stopped trying and I gave up and enjoyed life we then got pregnant naturally 2 months later!!!!! She is now 14 months and a blessing!!!

  • @PattyCakeCrafts
    @PattyCakeCrafts Před 3 lety +141

    I know that praying is a great way to guide you guys, give yourself time. I have faith that everything will work out for you guys.

  • @SuZQ4361
    @SuZQ4361 Před 3 lety +145

    Do what is best for you guys.

  • @LailahLynnTV
    @LailahLynnTV Před 3 lety +298

    💖💖💖 y’all are so Blessed 💞💞💞

  • @kristaparks191
    @kristaparks191 Před 3 lety +23

    I love how respectful you guys are of each other when the other is talking, taking turns and not interrupting ♥️

  • @karengilman8903
    @karengilman8903 Před 3 lety +175

    My daughter is due in June from IUI, after trying for a year, fingers crossed for you sweet folks

    • @coleandcharisma
      @coleandcharisma  Před 3 lety +14

      Congrats!! ❤️❤️

    • @CROSSTATT
      @CROSSTATT Před 3 lety +3

      Way to go!

    • @beverlylatimore3923
      @beverlylatimore3923 Před 3 lety +1

      Alrighty now!!

    • @jesuslovesme7440
      @jesuslovesme7440 Před 3 lety +1

      What is IUI?

    • @dorothywest6963
      @dorothywest6963 Před 3 lety +2

      I think this topic should be kept private. when she concieve she can surprise us with the announcement , there will be 4 of us. Don't tell us how you all been trying. Only God knows when this actually will happen, fully rely on his timing.

  • @robinnicole4649
    @robinnicole4649 Před 3 lety +170

    Whenever y’all start trying again, Don’t fix your mind on getting pregnant so much, just focus on enjoying each other and don’t think about it. I swear when you least expect, it will happen. My daughter turned 3 in Jan. 😂😂😂😂😂 I understand. After 6 months of trying I was soo burned out, and I just let it go and then bam, I got preggers. Y’all are gonna be awesome parents when the time comes. 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

    • @thepursuitofhappiness2126
      @thepursuitofhappiness2126 Před 3 lety +6

      Sadly, it doesn't always happen for many women. I do hope it happens for them

    • @sarahamos8783
      @sarahamos8783 Před 3 lety +6

      7 years ttc here. Relaxing and not thinking about it doesn’t always work for everyone. The average time I’m for a normal couple to get pregnant is 6-12 months x

    • @girlfromsouth214
      @girlfromsouth214 Před 3 lety +5

      I battled infertility for over a decade before having my second. Respectfully, telling people who are trying to conceive not to think about it, can be offensive. It's similar to telling people with any other issue, "Meh, don't worry about it." I know this wasn't your intention, but I think it's important for people who are unaware to know how some people facing infertility may feel. The truth is, whether they relax or not has no impact on whether a couple conceives. That's why even some people who are assaulted, who are under immense stress, might get pregnant.

    • @rosanagutierrez1640
      @rosanagutierrez1640 Před 3 lety +2

      @@girlfromsouth214 I believe they just meant not to stress about it as some things happen when you least expect it.

  • @boozoochamp
    @boozoochamp Před 3 lety +79

    Just remember you don’t owe the internet every answer to your lives. I feel like this is a more private topic, which if you wanted to share it that’s awesome, I just hope you didn’t feel pressure to share it with the internet. You guys are an awesome couple and trying for a baby can be extremely stressful and emotional, don’t feel like you need to take your followers along with that ride.

  • @wjbii872
    @wjbii872 Před 3 lety +27

    I love how Charisma looks at Cole with total love in her eyes and vice versa! You guys rock!

  • @karendeakin9628
    @karendeakin9628 Před 3 lety +69

    I retired from nursing here in uk 12 years ago amazed to see the old hoist is the same nice to see charisma having same nightmare I used to have!! Swinging patients !

    • @siouxgirl2703
      @siouxgirl2703 Před 3 lety +4

      I used a hoyer many years. I was getting a little nervous there with him sideways. I always turned it so the person's legs were straddling the vertical bar. It can get a little tipsy when moving with the hoyers legs closed. 😉 wish yous the best 💜

  • @lornabarker1983
    @lornabarker1983 Před 3 lety +252

    Take it from the old school don t stress out about all the temperatures and watching this and that. Go back to the old ways and just have fun and enjoy being together. It will happen when you don't stress out. Have fun guys

    • @angko-pe
      @angko-pe Před 3 lety +26

      I wish that was true for everyone. I would not have my 2 beautiful girls had it not been for science as both me and my husband have fertility issues.
      If I had a dollar for every time someone said to just relax and have fun, don't stress it, I'd be a childless millionaire.

    • @nobuhlendlangamandla4943
      @nobuhlendlangamandla4943 Před 3 lety +2

      True, when least expected.

  • @ugochijesus6862
    @ugochijesus6862 Před 3 lety +176

    My dear as I was watching this video I’m actually registered nurse, have been in the healthcare for longest, I really suggest you ask for a better Hoyer lift, I’m talking about the lift that is less manual for you, It has the buttons and you don’t have to manually do it, it is actually covered by most insurance but all you need to do is ask for it, I think you guys are doing a good job and are a great couple and team💗

    • @jackiehagler3321
      @jackiehagler3321 Před 3 lety +8

      My thoughts , also, she should have a better hour lift, push button

    • @mmgurlthatshott
      @mmgurlthatshott Před 3 lety +13

      They do have that one, but they needed the manual to try to get him in the tub. That’s why they went out to their garage where it’s stored.

    • @lal.6984
      @lal.6984 Před 3 lety +4

      Yes this is def the old model but I think this one takes up a little less space and easier to put away

    • @blackbutterflywiings
      @blackbutterflywiings Před 3 lety +5

      There's better floor hoists out there that are automated, for sure. Preference is a big motivator though

    • @oldwomanranting
      @oldwomanranting Před 3 lety +2

      I agree the electronic one was used at the NH where I worked. No way would that life been used on a daily basis.

  • @Its_just_Dave.
    @Its_just_Dave. Před 3 lety +43

    My wife and I tried for 7 years. Then finally we had our first son born June 17, 2020. He’s almost a year old now. Don’t give up trying just because it’s not happening as fast as you want it to.

  • @lorrainekleingunther5632
    @lorrainekleingunther5632 Před 3 lety +72

    The words are easy to say, stop trying but it is difficult. However I have to agree with others, just keep it between the two of you and it will happen sooner than you know, especially when you're trying so hard. Six months is a lot of trying. All your followers are so focused on you guys and watch your every move so just take it away and try to stop sharing with everything you do, and do only what suits the two of you. Go away for a weekend or week to a relaxing place and just take it as it comes. There are times that you just need that ME-TIME and shut off the cameras besides, the two of you keep everyone entertained all the time. So much pressure on you guys. Two wonderful individuals. God bless you both!

  • @koopnut
    @koopnut Před 3 lety +367

    Hey guys, get rid of the word trying. Just love each other and keep things normal and B4 ya know it, TWINS!!!!!!!! God has already blessed you with each other.
    How ya say, BEEEEEEEEE Positive and keep looking at each other the way you do. Wobble Charisma Wobble

  • @plaidpaisley5918
    @plaidpaisley5918 Před 3 lety +8

    These two are two beautiful people. Inside & out.

  • @florias7807
    @florias7807 Před 3 lety +16

    Charisma, love that you kept your desire to get dressed up even if you're just in the house. You look GREAT!

  • @MrsChildOfGod
    @MrsChildOfGod Před 3 lety +10

    Don't be discouraged!! My husband and I prayed every single day for 5 YEARS before I got pregnant. Always hold on to hope. Sometimes thats all we have, and thats enough. Y'all will be great parents no matter how you get there.

  • @uvee1015
    @uvee1015 Před 3 lety +84

    “Be still and know that I am God!”
    “When the time is right, I the Lord will make it happen”
    Just thought i should share these with you today ♥️

    • @dellriat9026
      @dellriat9026 Před 3 lety +1

      I’m very happy seeing Cole and Charisma together and it’s their desire to have a baby , but at the same time you have to think that it would be too stressful for her to take care of the baby and Cole . So don’t be disappointed because it didn’t work ,because God knows everything and whatever he does it’s all good and perfect and sometimes we are not to be too anxious for something so badly ,you just have to wait and if it is God’s will he will give it to you in due time .

  • @marissah3125
    @marissah3125 Před 2 lety +1

    My sister tried for several years before conceiving! She now has 4 beautiful daughters. Don’t lose hope! Pray! Pray! Pray! The Lord loves blessing his children! I’ll be praying for you too!

  • @trenicejohnson15
    @trenicejohnson15 Před 3 lety +63

    I get so annoyed when I’m taking a self care bath and my husband insists on getting in lol

  • @kaitlyn6485
    @kaitlyn6485 Před 3 lety +33

    The best piece of advice I ever heard was from my mom. I heard her tell all of my aunt's and uncles, so I took it when I was trying for my baby. She always says to stop trying. Don't track, don't worry about temps or anything, don't pee on a stick until you're late. Because like you said, it gets to be very stressful and doing the baby dance becomes too much of a chore, rather than something fun you do as a couple. Just have fun and enjoy yourselves. The only thing I did was made sure I paid attention to my ovulation dates by looking at my period tracker on my phone. Good luck you guys, it'll happen.

    • @wwashington270
      @wwashington270 Před 3 lety

      Kaitlyn you have a wise mother, mom's the good ones are great

  • @jeneferclarke2047
    @jeneferclarke2047 Před 3 lety +32

    Dont put yourself in danger trying to please anyone. Love you guys stay safe

  • @Woohchaiell
    @Woohchaiell Před 3 lety +12

    Charisma gives me body goals! Dang gurllll!

  • @plaidpaisley5918
    @plaidpaisley5918 Před 3 lety +1

    Health issues here...married at 31.5 started trying around 33, IVF 2x at 36. Baby Girl 2nd IVF. Then SURPRISE natural at 39, a son. So Thankful. Bless you on your journey. I was ancient.

  • @Sudique1
    @Sudique1 Před 3 lety +31

    You two - don't worry about the baby. The stress alone can wreak havoc! I'm willing to bet that once you both give yourselves a break about this, you'll be delivering the good news to your followers. In the meantime, enjoy this time together. Once you have a baby, your life will not be your own for MANY years.

    • @patriceduncan4892
      @patriceduncan4892 Před 3 lety

      Forget about trying and just enjoy your selves it will happen in time by the grace of God

  • @onelove5367
    @onelove5367 Před 3 lety +14

    OK I'm sure Cole is stressed too, he didn't look like himself in this video. Not just one of them. Trying makes things stressful, love each other, no time line, nothing and it'll happen. You guys are going to make such wonderful parents and I am praying for you both.

  • @muhddhihh1744
    @muhddhihh1744 Před 3 lety +8

    I’ve been trying for 5 years now. I don’t even think about it anymore. I try to enjoy my life and wait on God’s timing. Have fun trying, don’t let it consume you. Enjoy your life and it’ll happen. 💕

  • @cannabis1490
    @cannabis1490 Před 3 lety +2

    Look at the way she looks at him when he's speaking... all that love for him just pours out in her expression...You're both so blessed to have each other!

  • @theambershon673
    @theambershon673 Před 3 lety +5

    Charisma is beautiful inside and out...COLE IS SO BLESSED TO HAVE HER💞

  • @sunshinesunny5074
    @sunshinesunny5074 Před 3 lety +102

    When you’re not even thinking about it is when it will happen trust me mother of three❤️

    • @missgulliver4621
      @missgulliver4621 Před 3 lety +7

      That's so true, prayer changes things

    • @raisingthemsimply
      @raisingthemsimply Před 3 lety +11

      As someone who suffers from infertility this isn’t true for everyone and can be a hurtful comment. Just FYI, not everyone would take this comment kindly.

    • @MorticiaAttoms
      @MorticiaAttoms Před 3 lety +2

      This isn't always true.

    • @Craftitup64
      @Craftitup64 Před 3 lety +3

      Agree, not a comment taken lightly. Im a mom of two adopted children whom I love with all my heart but the path of infertility was very difficult.

  • @heatherfreeman5220
    @heatherfreeman5220 Před 3 lety +22

    I have a cycle every month on time as well, so I was under the impression that everything was “okay on my end” as well. But after seeing a fertility specialist I found out I have a blocked tube. For sure worth seeing someone but if Cole is normal I would def wait to see a specialist until you’ve tried for a year. I was so nervous to see a specialist but now I am super glad I did.

  • @gabbygabby386
    @gabbygabby386 Před 3 lety +1

    Wow! The love and admiration in her eyes are real!
    God bless you both!

  • @keishagardner1318
    @keishagardner1318 Před 3 lety +3

    I just love the way you cared for each other. Blessings

  • @brendah4689
    @brendah4689 Před 3 lety +8

    I worked in nursing for years. I know how hard it is! ❤️

  • @yvettemorant1493
    @yvettemorant1493 Před 3 lety +1

    Will keep you both in prayer, for rest, peace of mind and continued love and joy. Thank you for sharing your life with us. 💗

  • @jemimanabalayo225
    @jemimanabalayo225 Před 3 lety

    Bless you people. I wish you nothing but the best in that journey.

  • @loveisall5520
    @loveisall5520 Před 3 lety +8

    Charisma has done an amazing job at turning your house into a home.

  • @shantanaredman
    @shantanaredman Před 3 lety +13

    I love to see you guys showing person in similar position like cole, that no matter your condition you are NOT LIMITED TO ANYTHING in this world. #staypositive

  • @joicampitiello798
    @joicampitiello798 Před 3 lety

    Thank you for being so open about fertility issues and the process so many couples go through.

  • @LauraCastillo-ow9yu
    @LauraCastillo-ow9yu Před 3 lety

    It’s amazing how perfect y’all are together. You’re so in sync with each other. Beautiful couple. Bless y’all ,

  • @becauza
    @becauza Před 3 lety +126

    We weren’t lucky enough to have a child, but we never called it trying. My husband always said we were practicing and we would just keep practicing until we got it right. So, when you’re ready, practice a little. 😉

  • @karlylynn4676
    @karlylynn4676 Před 3 lety +30

    Babies are hard work, conceiving when you’re ready is the hardest part. I’m sending you sticky baby dust!!

  • @Sarablueunicorn
    @Sarablueunicorn Před 3 lety +1

    What a wonderful man and woman that have found eachother!

  • @ericagosier7041
    @ericagosier7041 Před 2 lety

    You guys are just pure love

  • @marylabelle803
    @marylabelle803 Před 3 lety +4

    I love you guys so much and im rooting for all your dreams to come true ,but relax for a while and dont ever change! You bring a smile to me as i worked with disabled individuals who were unable to communicate with me ,but how chill is cole when the hoyer lift had a malfunction! Oh my god! Love you two crazy kids!

  • @vernarosenblum1190
    @vernarosenblum1190 Před 3 lety +3

    That is most definitely NOT A FAIL- the laughter, fun, respect and care you show each other makes every experience a joy to see¡

  • @aaliyahrasheed9647
    @aaliyahrasheed9647 Před 3 lety

    She’s just an amazing woman, and I wish you all the best in everything you want to do. God bless abundantly.

  • @CrisCesco
    @CrisCesco Před 3 lety +1

    Your pure love inspires a lot. God bless you both tremendously. 💗

  • @jassantos7703
    @jassantos7703 Před 3 lety +20

    Sometimes people need to watch the video without all the negative. Stay blessed😍

  • @tonijones4018
    @tonijones4018 Před 3 lety +11

    I’m here for y’all. 🥰🥰

  • @olwethunodo384
    @olwethunodo384 Před 3 lety

    You such a big heart Charisma, you both love each other and it’s evident

  • @ellethestar9951
    @ellethestar9951 Před 2 lety

    So much love. I'm in tears

  • @nicolemitt1
    @nicolemitt1 Před 3 lety +3

    Guys just keep on loving each other and have it will happen just keep the faith guys

  • @livaarrestad3555
    @livaarrestad3555 Před 3 lety +15

    Hey Cole and Christina! I never comment on videos, but I hope you see this comment.
    My husband and I started trying right after our wedding. We were both 22. After a few months of trying, I just KNEW something was wrong, but all the doctors told us we were just young and it would happen.
    Fast forward 3 years later, and it never happened. They did the semen analysis at 1 year trying to conceive, and they found out that my husband’s swimmers had 0.01% motility-so they weren’t moving at all, and you needed at least 10% for IUI. He told us there is a 0% chance we would conceive on our own, and we’re told IVF was our only option. We were devastated.
    The year to follow would be the hardest for both of us. Not sure how to move forward, we completely stopped trying to conceive naturally. This actually took a big stressor off of our relationship, but also made us feel so impatient in the waiting game trying to figure out what the “next step” was.
    After considering IVF, foster to adopt, and traditional adoption, we came across embryo donation. Basically, you adopt remaining embryos from a couple who did IVF already and are done growing their family. Instead of discarding them, they choose life for them and allow couples to adopt them. It’s INCREDIBLE. And about $15,000 cheaper than IVF. I’m currently 3 months pregnant with our single babe that we transferred in January❤️ I could have never been a momma if that family didn’t choose us to be their biological children’s parents. It’s truly the biggest honor and biggest gift. Oh, and another thing! Even though our children won’t have our genetics, they will all be fully genetically related to each other. How amazing is that??? I’m glad they will have each other on this unique journey and start to life❤️
    I just want you to know this is an incredible option that most people don’t know about. Let me know if you want to connect about it for more information! Our website is broganandlivadopt.com.
    And lastly, nobody really understands how infertility affects you unless they’ve walked through it. Not saying that’s what you guys have, but just know that you’re free to grieve and feel all the feelings in any way you want. There’s no way to quite describe the feeling of empty arms after monthly disappointment and devastation. Yes you’re arms are empty, but the burden feels so heavy at the same time. It’s honesty the most excruciating journey I’ve ever walked through. And unfortunately, you will hear a lot of ignorant people say “oh just stop stressing it will happen”, “you’re young still, you don’t have to worry”, “I know a friend who......fill in the blank.... and it happened for them!”
    Those can be some of the most hurtful words. You just so desperately want people to truly understand what you’re going through, because then they would understand how deep those words can cut. Anyways, I just want you to give you the freedom to grieve in whatever way feels right. This journey is not for the faint at heart, and I commend you for being so open about it on this channel.
    Best of luck to you two!💕
    -Liv

    • @Escalated401
      @Escalated401 Před 2 lety +1

      Commenting so this goes a little bit higher

  • @helenmokom1569
    @helenmokom1569 Před rokem

    Beautiful couple in and out.A shout out for both families for bringing them up in a nice way.

  • @charjhean2011
    @charjhean2011 Před 3 lety

    Agreed with you both. Take a step back and breathe. It will happen. Much Blessings 🥰🥰

  • @glindaconard3554
    @glindaconard3554 Před 3 lety +3

    Yes take a break and relax, it may happen when you guys aren’t even thinking about it. Just keep having Fun the three of you ❤️❤️

  • @reginaroth2543
    @reginaroth2543 Před 3 lety +8

    When little charisma or a little Cole the time will be right no fuss no mush go with the flow luv ya guys

  • @wwashington270
    @wwashington270 Před 3 lety

    Blessings to all.

  • @Miss.Bri_
    @Miss.Bri_ Před 2 lety

    What a beautiful couple. You guys are truly a Blessing

  • @m.samuel6350
    @m.samuel6350 Před 3 lety +21

    “Each day brings new opportunities, allowing you to constantly live with love - be there for others - bring a little light into someone's day. Be grateful and live each day to the fullest.”
    Happy Sunday Cole and Charisma,
    Enjoyed watching this great vlog.
    You guys are so open and honest about your lives.
    Thank you for sharing this with us.
    Sending positive vibes your way.
    Stay safe and positive.
    You guys are such a warm and loving couple.✌🏻🙏🏻❤️

  • @lovepassion5913
    @lovepassion5913 Před 3 lety +5

    U guys r unbelievably awesome

  • @jeannerountree952
    @jeannerountree952 Před 3 lety

    You two are blessed. May God be with you on your baby journey!

  • @Ally-qu7cw
    @Ally-qu7cw Před 3 lety +1

    All the best you guys in trying to start your family, hope things work out for you, and you get your sweet little bundle of joy.😊

  • @jalynnneely5111
    @jalynnneely5111 Před 3 lety +7

    God will bless you two with a beautiful healthy baby!! Like you guys always tell us. STAY POSITIVE !! ❤️❤️❤️

  • @deborahswett3508
    @deborahswett3508 Před 3 lety +5

    I am now exhausted, I cannot imagine how you do it. Just take it easy. You are both wonderful, I feel so for you and I give you so much credit!!!!!!!!!!

  • @melisegauthier9984
    @melisegauthier9984 Před 3 lety +1

    You doing a good job Charisma God bless you for the kindness you show to him.

  • @petalblossom96
    @petalblossom96 Před 3 lety

    I am amazed at how open you're being about such a personal matter. That takes such courage - thank you!
    Just wanna add that I had my little boy naturally at 41 after 20 months of trying. Do whatever works for you and go at your own pace. But whatever you do, please know patience will be essential. God bless and all the best 🙏🏾

  • @RealSalica
    @RealSalica Před 3 lety +12

    Don't listen to people on the internet . It depends on the bath and the bathroom as well . Poor Charisma , take it slow ,don't want you to hurt yourself

  • @ednanelson1897
    @ednanelson1897 Před 3 lety +26

    God bless you both. Sometimes when you can relax a little bit, you get the results you want.

  • @graceabounds5688
    @graceabounds5688 Před 3 lety

    Enjoy your time together. Y'all make a great team from what I can see so I know you will be great parents. For everything there is a season! God bless you guys on your journey!

  • @nmont1994
    @nmont1994 Před 3 lety

    It's when you stop trying that a miracle usually happens! 🙏 for you both it will happen! Love you two.

  • @traceyjones9685
    @traceyjones9685 Před 3 lety +141

    Yes the break will be good and before you know it Cadence,Christian,Caleb,Christine,and Christopher will be on their way lol👍👼🙏🤗💙😷

    • @LydiLa222
      @LydiLa222 Před 3 lety +2

      😂 I LOVE those names!

    • @calypso7636
      @calypso7636 Před 3 lety

      Don't forget Carmen, Camille, and Cameron!

  • @ade3050
    @ade3050 Před 3 lety +4

    This video teaches one never to judge others when you don't really know anything about them. There is a lot that goes in to making videos on CZcams. Goodness!!

  • @babrahnanccy1669
    @babrahnanccy1669 Před 3 lety +1

    Wow Cole you are blessed with a true friend. Chrisma be blessed everyday.

  • @dianehoffman3508
    @dianehoffman3508 Před 3 lety +2

    Cole is shows a lot of courage to be so trusting. I admire you both!

  • @rebalynn3117
    @rebalynn3117 Před 3 lety +5

    I have a tremendous amount of respect for you putting such personal aspects of your life out there for everyone. Take your break and do what you have to do to stay healthy, mentally and phyically.
    On another note. Y'all showed how much more independent Cole's nighttime routine has become. Has his morning routine changed since any since the last one you posted?

  • @LadyY2U
    @LadyY2U Před 3 lety +6

    OMG! I was rolling when Charisma was talking about how people were talking ab her not wanting Cole to take a bath with her lol. God will Bless this Union, Trust In Him!

  • @brownsugar3335
    @brownsugar3335 Před 2 lety

    I commend you guys for all your strength. You are a match indeed made in heaven. I can see you standing the test of time at 100+ years old. Still as loving as you are. Thank you for sharing your stories and dear lives with us.

  • @chidinmaekwe3236
    @chidinmaekwe3236 Před 3 lety

    Praying hard for you two. God knows and answers. Stay positive.