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  • @mayn90s19
    @mayn90s19 Pƙed 2 lety +24211

    Man the way you tell the stories is crazy. I remember probably 80% of every video. Some bits and pieces get lost in the fray, but you honestly make these people known. They aren't just victims in your stories, but real people that went through horrible things.
    Thank you! But that poor like button..

    • @MrBallen
      @MrBallen  Pƙed 2 lety +6009

      I try very hard to focus on the humanity of the victims. It’s really something I care deeply about. Thank you

    • @lillipopswitch
      @lillipopswitch Pƙed 2 lety +561

      @@MrBallen you nail it every time. The stories are horrific sometimes, but the humanity is always there.

    • @Jaker2123
      @Jaker2123 Pƙed 2 lety +336

      @@MrBallen I can definitely feel your empathy in your videos. đŸ€

    • @zorrakas320
      @zorrakas320 Pƙed 2 lety +98

      What about the one video. I need help. What’s the one video where a guy has a fake life in his head after getting hit in the head at a football game? I’ve been dying to hear it again.

    • @zorrakas320
      @zorrakas320 Pƙed 2 lety +28

      @@MrBallen I need help. Please?

  • @johnnytwoshoes1964
    @johnnytwoshoes1964 Pƙed 2 lety +7765

    One of the most important rules I've realised: if you see the face of your attacker, fight for your life. They're not planning on letting you live.

    • @tarastandifer8660
      @tarastandifer8660 Pƙed 2 lety +85

      Yes. If you see their face they are going to try to kill you. No question. Also- NEVER get in to the car with them.

    • @LordWolfOR
      @LordWolfOR Pƙed 2 lety +249

      For sure you are taught never do as they say as far as going away with them

    • @KoSXxPotatisbarnetXD
      @KoSXxPotatisbarnetXD Pƙed 2 lety +288

      Always keep a gun with you

    • @GamingPigeon6942
      @GamingPigeon6942 Pƙed 2 lety +122

      A man of cultured profile picture, you are doing well my apprentice, however, you still have much to learn in the ways of the Pepe side.

    • @CairoFahrenheit
      @CairoFahrenheit Pƙed 2 lety +256

      Also don't be a woman alone.

  • @biggiechungus784
    @biggiechungus784 Pƙed 2 lety +4148

    Imagine you're hanging out with your partner, when they randomly get mad and leave. Later, you find out that they were mad because they wanted to kill you but couldn't because the gardener was around...

    • @melissabrown8878
      @melissabrown8878 Pƙed 2 lety +490

      Right. I was thinking the same thing. What it must've been like to find out that this man was going to kill you and your daughters but the gardener saved you once and his foolish mistake saved you the second time.

    • @shannsimms9072
      @shannsimms9072 Pƙed 2 lety +53

      I thought the same thing.

    • @gettingstartedwithpark2720
      @gettingstartedwithpark2720 Pƙed 2 lety +101

      I hate when that happens

    • @brookemckinley5709
      @brookemckinley5709 Pƙed 2 lety +159

      Yeah that is a crazy scary scenario and I bet that woman’s never been the same since

    • @Catquick1957
      @Catquick1957 Pƙed 2 lety +132

      I wonder what Cary's family thought of all this, having gone through their own personal hell when they were younger?

  • @kristoferhailes4627
    @kristoferhailes4627 Pƙed rokem +1774

    As tragic as this is, people need to realise that if someone is committing any serious crime and they reveal their face, then it’s safe to assume they have no intentions of letting you live as you are able to later identify them. Fight for your life, struggle hard, if nothing else don’t let them easily carry out whatever sick plan they have. Even a quick death will likely be better than what these bastards have in mind.

    • @mslascorpia
      @mslascorpia Pƙed rokem +78

      Agreed! A body guard for celebrities more than once, giving tactics for safety, stressed to if anyway possible never allow yourself to taken from scene A to scene B, as more than not scene C will be where your remains are found.

    • @msvonnegutpunch5384
      @msvonnegutpunch5384 Pƙed rokem +14

      @@mslascorpia Are you sure you’re not thinking of retired Chicago policeman, public speaker, and host of “Tough Target”, JJ Bittenbinder?

    • @Ms.Divine
      @Ms.Divine Pƙed rokem +2

      Well said

    • @joelschmierer3544
      @joelschmierer3544 Pƙed rokem +1

      First sign was letting a man i to your house when there was no way to stop him (no other men in house, no loaded weapons etc), and second sign was letting you get tied up, you are as good as dead if you ever agree to being restrained in any way

    • @SnowWhite_andthesevensnakes
      @SnowWhite_andthesevensnakes Pƙed rokem +1

      I would not let a gun be used to boss me around like that. I would tell him "shoot me then, motherfucker" Then fight back like a wild animal.

  • @kristinlee9485
    @kristinlee9485 Pƙed rokem +1395

    This story is a prime example of why you NEVER trust strange men ..no matter what. If a "maintenance man" wants access to your hotel room, call the managers first to verify, and always tell them you want maintenance done when you're not in the room. I work at a hotel, that is your right as a guest.

    • @heatherwilliams6558
      @heatherwilliams6558 Pƙed rokem +44

      You can’t always trust people men even you think they know them
      Know that fromexaperirncd
      Men and women both are valuable of hiding who they actually are

    • @kristinlee9485
      @kristinlee9485 Pƙed rokem +70

      @Kevin BurgerKing that's ridiculous

    • @boredas761
      @boredas761 Pƙed rokem +47

      @Kevin BurgerKing even if the comment is appropriated strange men and/or woman, the advice in that is on point. Maybe somebody will think twice and make a better decision đŸ€”

    • @3MGPLUG
      @3MGPLUG Pƙed rokem

      NEVER trust strange women
.no matter what. If a “normal woman” wants your help, don’t help them because you’re most likely being set up which is proven by probably millions of cases each year.

    • @gracepan2
      @gracepan2 Pƙed rokem +93

      @Kevin BurgerKing it's not sexist. As women, we are constantly monitoring for danger, and whenever we do experience danger it's usually a man. It's a collective experience, unfortunately.

  • @syd_j0
    @syd_j0 Pƙed 2 lety +3881

    It's amazing how that guy who was hired to mow the lawn basically saved the family's life by just doing his job.

    • @deed421
      @deed421 Pƙed 2 lety +234

      He saved one family life but another family life’s was devastated.. this was so sad Cary is a sick

    • @lapsysingh4186
      @lapsysingh4186 Pƙed 2 lety +86

      Yeah but his girlfriend and daughters were saved again before that monster was on his way second time

    • @ryveralexander8511
      @ryveralexander8511 Pƙed 2 lety +61

      His girlfriend and two children, their angel was working overtime, twice he wanted to kill them.
      This guy in Florida be friended this lady with two school girl, she ended up having relationship with this dude, the girls trusted him, one day he picks them up from school to told the girls, their can't do it and asked him to pick them up, once they were home, he raped the girls and killed them hide them in the attick, but the blood started to drift down the wall. Be careful trusting any sweet talking devils. Poor ladies! They're
      in Heaven!!
      đŸ’Ÿâ˜źïž

    • @asasheffield9971
      @asasheffield9971 Pƙed 2 lety +5

      @@ryveralexander8511 Nah fuck those angels, where were they for the other innocent family that was brutally raped and murdered? Your God and heaven do not exist. This is demonstrated in nature and our universe alone, but you acting like "angels" protected some woman and her children is just sick and borderline disturbing. What a twisted way to look at beautiful life

    • @na5567
      @na5567 Pƙed 2 lety +29

      @@asasheffield9971 lol edgy atheism. What's wrong with them counting the blessings of the ones that got lucky?

  • @celenasnow4107
    @celenasnow4107 Pƙed 2 lety +14816

    The fact that you're a hand talker, that you label when the photos are real, and do conversions for us (miles to kilometers) everything you do is the best

    • @Hippy-db7tf
      @Hippy-db7tf Pƙed 2 lety +219

      And sound effects! đŸ˜± I can’t stop watching! I love this channel! ❀

    • @alfredvictor4524
      @alfredvictor4524 Pƙed 2 lety +21

      @@Hippy-db7tf hello my friend

    • @alfredvictor4524
      @alfredvictor4524 Pƙed 2 lety +16

      @@Hippy-db7tf hello my friend

    • @alfredvictor4524
      @alfredvictor4524 Pƙed 2 lety +7

      hello my friend

    • @d-meth
      @d-meth Pƙed 2 lety +15

      I like the sound effects

  • @jenniferb.awesome
    @jenniferb.awesome Pƙed 11 měsĂ­ci +594

    Steven, Cary's brother, was an amazing person and had the empathy his brother completely lacked. He was abducted and held for 7 years being constantly raped and assaulted. It wasn't until the kidnapper brought in another little boy he just abducted that Steven knew he had to escape with the boy. He didn't want this little boy to go through the absolute hell he had gone through. He had given up when it was just him, but was so selfless and caring that the only reason he took action was to save someone else.

    • @hasal1234
      @hasal1234 Pƙed 10 měsĂ­ci +67

      I looked it up and his captor only got 7 years? And didn't even charge him for the sexual assault and ra..

    • @donnavaldskatingandfriends3908
      @donnavaldskatingandfriends3908 Pƙed 10 měsĂ­ci +37

      SO SAD THAT IT TOOK ANOTHER BOY TO BE TAKEN FOR HIM TO GET THE STRENGTH TO FIGHT. HE LOST ALL HOPE FOR HIMSELF. THAT IS A VERY SAD AND SCARY THOUGHT. MY HEART GOES OUT TO HIM...

    • @mathilda____7928
      @mathilda____7928 Pƙed 10 měsĂ­ci +44

      I remember his story. Sadly he passed away so young. He has a doc on HULU

    • @GerardVaughan-qe7ml
      @GerardVaughan-qe7ml Pƙed 9 měsĂ­ci

      USA is run by pedophiles and psychopaths. Hence $ is being ditched by civilization. Poor American patriots. Be well prepared for the Battle ahead.

    • @Sunlight1897
      @Sunlight1897 Pƙed 8 měsĂ­ci +36

      I wonder what kind of person Cary would have been if the kidnapper had taken him instead of his brother...

  • @cjwojoe
    @cjwojoe Pƙed rokem +1730

    Just hearing about women being sexually assaulted makes me sick to my stomach and extremely angry. I don't know how anyone can enjoy or get off on that. Anyone who does that should be castrated.

    • @JohnMiller-zr8pl
      @JohnMiller-zr8pl Pƙed rokem +108

      The same for the women who enjoy this kind of thing.

    • @antviper135
      @antviper135 Pƙed rokem

      @@JohnMiller-zr8pl Too bad the U.S. doesn't think a woman can sexually assault a man they usually laugh at men who tell the police. And when they do the woman gets severely less time incarcerated than a man.

    • @JohnMiller-zr8pl
      @JohnMiller-zr8pl Pƙed rokem +10

      @@antviper135 stunning and brave indeed

    • @cheezeberga
      @cheezeberga Pƙed rokem +166

      Castration is a slap on the wrist compared to what I would do to them.

    • @idgafumf
      @idgafumf Pƙed rokem

      They should be killed in the most Terrifying way. Death penalty is not so painful. This type of shitty killers should be killed slowly, Making Them suffer for days. They should realise what their victims went through. I wish I could change the laws.
      Give him to me!!! I will make him see hell!!!

  • @mannylugz5872
    @mannylugz5872 Pƙed 2 lety +2467

    Moral of the story: If somebody knocks on your room at night or any other time of the day and introduces himself or herself as working for the hotel, dont trust that stranger even if he/she looks like one. Instead, call the front desk and confirm if they did sent somebody.

    • @GlennaVan
      @GlennaVan Pƙed 2 lety +143

      If it was legitimate, the office would have called them and told them.

    • @conniepruitt3086
      @conniepruitt3086 Pƙed 2 lety +28

      But if it had been me I'd be dead because if he had identified himself as Cary Stayner I'd have let him in no questions asked for I would have remembered him from the reports and movie about his brother and would have believed I had nothing to fear. He was the last person I would have thought who'd do something like this.

    • @Kit1128
      @Kit1128 Pƙed 2 lety +62

      I never would have let him in the room without calling the front desk. Moral of the story, don't let any random guy walk up to you if you're in a vulnerable position where no one's around

    • @hollyweseloh6891
      @hollyweseloh6891 Pƙed 2 lety +16

      @@Kit1128 
 and jamb a chair under the doorknob
 The Sequoia Lodge is a well known landmark outside of Yosemite
 know it well. Never stopped there an prolly Never Will. 💔💔💔💔


    • @MartinGarcia-km4qs
      @MartinGarcia-km4qs Pƙed 2 lety +18

      Employees at hotels usually must wear a name tag. Why didnt these women notice this? Hell i worked part time at a nursing home and all employees were required to wear them at all times at work. If we'd forget our name tags we were told to go home and get them.

  • @deathvideogame
    @deathvideogame Pƙed 2 lety +1535

    A slow lawnmowing job saved three people’s lives. That’s insane to me

    • @salvy8705
      @salvy8705 Pƙed 2 lety +64

      Exactly! I would’ve been on the floor praying after that

    • @nayan7398
      @nayan7398 Pƙed 2 lety +102

      And improper interrogation got 4 killed.

    • @mmdaa4
      @mmdaa4 Pƙed 2 lety +36

      @@nayan7398 1 killed

    • @betterbetty3542
      @betterbetty3542 Pƙed 2 lety +50

      That’s one way to look at it
 Another way to look at it is a lawn mowing job took so long that it caused the death of three other women.

    • @2puffs770
      @2puffs770 Pƙed 2 lety +13

      @Bender Bending Rodriguez Then they just decided to kill anyone and everyone with covid-19

  • @anitat9727
    @anitat9727 Pƙed rokem +237

    Thank you for bringing a more humanistic way to listen to crime stories. Most people just talk about the murderers at the expense of the victims. You talk about the victims and re-humanise them.

    • @myrtlebeachsara
      @myrtlebeachsara Pƙed rokem +14

      Yes, I agree! So many people just focus on the killers and forget about the victims.

    • @andrediamond4374
      @andrediamond4374 Pƙed rokem +16

      A lot of the true crime content on YT has been turning into what is essentially torture porn. It's really sad to see, and even more sad once you realise that they only make their content this way because there is a huge demand. Wtf is wrong with people
      Like Simon Whistler always says, less saw, more CSI

    • @daishamouton1471
      @daishamouton1471 Pƙed 6 měsĂ­ci

      I totally agree but others like myself are just not too experienced at story telling@@andrediamond4374

  • @billsfan7883
    @billsfan7883 Pƙed rokem +24

    Your best attribute is that you give notoriety to the victims, while giving as little as you possibly can, while still getting the story across, towards the murderer.

  • @FrankieHiltz
    @FrankieHiltz Pƙed 2 lety +2743

    I'll never grasp how someone can kill someone so effortlessly and mentally uninvolved. If I see a kitten limping outside, I'll literally spend the day feeling sadly sympathetic. How can someone just not feel those things? Remorse, empathy, guilt, etc. The brain is one incredible and fascinating, yet utterly terrifying thing.

    • @koolkiller35
      @koolkiller35 Pƙed 2 lety +225

      Psychopaths just don’t have any empathy man it’s scary. 1 in 100 people in the world are like this. Most live very normal lives but some...

    • @igIoos
      @igIoos Pƙed 2 lety +30

      It sounds bad until you do it.

    • @mrsa9130
      @mrsa9130 Pƙed 2 lety +78

      They don't have a soul and lack empathy.They are like a machine and compartmentalize! Psychopaths run our world!

    • @saintdundee3820
      @saintdundee3820 Pƙed 2 lety +58

      I feel bad when i see injured or dead animals but I like animals people are mostly scum and so I feel very little when witnessing their suffering.

    • @n.t.b.network6558
      @n.t.b.network6558 Pƙed 2 lety +5

      Indifference that’s how

  • @sue-ellenlightbody2337
    @sue-ellenlightbody2337 Pƙed 2 lety +539

    Imagine being his girlfriend and finding out how close you and your kids came to being killed, by the man you loved and trusted, twice!! I feel so bad for all of his victims. What a nasty piece of work.

    • @angelbear_og
      @angelbear_og Pƙed 2 lety +1

      And to know that the day he planned to murder you and your kids he got impatient and found someone else to murder.

    • @PapaMouse-
      @PapaMouse- Pƙed rokem +10

      The guy was messed up on the head

    • @sk8ercaligirl
      @sk8ercaligirl Pƙed rokem +7

      The heart of mankind is deceitfully wicked. Who can understand it? Jeremiah 17:9.

    • @sk8ercaligirl
      @sk8ercaligirl Pƙed rokem +6

      I drove alone from Washington state to California and I had a creepy experience. I stayed at a motel in one of those small towns by the 5 fwy. For some crazy reason my motel key card kept malfunctioning. So I kept going back to the front desk. Finally, the guy in the front desk was asking me if he could come over to my room to “fix” the card. I declined politely and stayed in my room the rest of the night barricading it. It just felt wrong. Carole must have felt the creepiness when Cary Stayner knocked on her door with his lame “excuse.” It’s ok to test all things to see if they are true. It could save our lives.

  • @samanthafairweather9186
    @samanthafairweather9186 Pƙed rokem +156

    The saddest movie I've ever watched was "I know my first name is Steven." It's the story of the abduction of Steven Staynor, and it's so incredibly sad. It ends with his death from a hit and run accident. To know that his brother was responsible for the horrific deaths of these poor woman is absolutely devistating. I can't imagine how anyone could be so absolutely ruthless to do something like this, especially after what was done to his brother. I can only imagine how bad the Staynor family must have felt after learning of Carey's crimes. They ,too, are victims of what ultimately happened due to what Carey did.

    • @fabiwilliams4644
      @fabiwilliams4644 Pƙed rokem +8

      Perhaps he didn’t want his brother getting all the attention. He certainly knew nothing of empathy

    • @katiegarrison9414
      @katiegarrison9414 Pƙed 5 měsĂ­ci +2

      I watched that movie when I was very young. It was terribly sad.

    • @carolynjiminez1247
      @carolynjiminez1247 Pƙed 6 dny +1

      When this all happened and they revealed Cary was Steven Steyner’s brother, it was devastating. I think that family is cursed or something.

  • @AutisticAthena
    @AutisticAthena Pƙed rokem +157

    As a person who lives with PTSD, I would like to thank you. It's confusing to some people as to why I sleep with your stories playing.... and it's kind of hard for me to explain, but your voice is comforting, and as creepy as your stories are; they aren't my memories. One of my most disruptive symptoms is intrusive memories of the trauma at bedtime and you drown it out. The stories are engaging enough to distract my mind and your voice is soothing enough that I can sleep to it. I am quite sure that I am not the only person who uses your stories for this purpose, and I just want to say thank you. It's really very difficult for me to find material that actually works for me sleep wise (it seems to be exclusively creepy/true crime in story format with Male narrators). Thank you for uploading so prolifically. Sleep is essential for being able to manage my other PTSD symptoms, and it's the difference between being able to manage productively and everything going sideways. If I stop getting enough sleep, things get weird.

    • @crashkewl
      @crashkewl Pƙed rokem +13

      Same here. I’m having trouble sleeping before due to some depressing matters. Glad I came upon MrBallen’s stories. I could sleep easy knowing that there’s a comforting voice telling me bed time stories (as my mom did when I was a child). Also, I sometimes have to wake up at odd hours for my job. Use the same method to sleep earlier than usual. Thanks MrBallen. Love all your stories.
      On a side note, my sympathies to the families that are affected by this crime. 😱

    • @stwartic4296
      @stwartic4296 Pƙed rokem +6

      I sleep to MrBallen's stories too. There's something soothing and calming about his voice

    • @mzzodiacc
      @mzzodiacc Pƙed rokem +4

      ​@@stwartic4296
      He's an AIR🌬sign..🌬🌬👂😌
      They All have this affect on ppl!😊

    • @fredzzkid
      @fredzzkid Pƙed rokem +6

      This is so relatable...I also love horror movies - there's a catharsis there somehow. As you said, not my memories. When you know what real horror is, you're pretty much unfazed by anything else.

    • @caryn3688
      @caryn3688 Pƙed rokem +10

      I cried when I read your post because I have a PTSD too. I use it for the same purpose and reading your post gave me chills because I feel as you do about what people can’t or don’t understand about PTSD. When you said drown out thoughts - tears rolled down my face!! Thank you for your post. ❀

  • @DontTrustBarrows
    @DontTrustBarrows Pƙed 2 lety +2215

    Honestly, the moment someone goes to rob you and says "this is just a robbery" and tries to tie people up, is when you fight for your life. From watching another youtube channel I learned that most of the time, robbers just want a quick victim to steal from and get out asap. If something like this happens, there are way more bad intentions involved. My mom always told me, if someone tries to force me to go to another location or tie me up, fight for my life because thats all I got left, and nothing else waits for me, other than a bad ending.

    • @YohananYGO
      @YohananYGO Pƙed 2 lety +15

      How would you fight unarmed

    • @DontTrustBarrows
      @DontTrustBarrows Pƙed 2 lety +181

      ​@@YohananYGO They were in a motel room, which is a tight space. If all 3 of them had tried to counter attack they could have ripped the gun from him and turn the tables. That being said though, not everyone has the courage or empty handed skills to do such. But it still a very possible option rather than just being tied down waiting to die :\

    • @lordinquisitorstefanauster846
      @lordinquisitorstefanauster846 Pƙed 2 lety +135

      You'd be surprised. Humans in general when presented with a choice between life and death, they'd choose life and grasp at it with the last of their strength. Only giving up when there is no out.
      This is why psychopath goes out of their way to be friendly while tying people up to make them believe it is all just an inconvenience.

    • @edisonschlenker7294
      @edisonschlenker7294 Pƙed 2 lety +150

      @@YohananYGO Run from a knife, always charge a gun. And if you have fists or anything around you that is dense then you can incapacitate and kill them. Even if the have a "better weapon". I would rather die on my feet than live on my knees. You will always die if you don't fight, if you do then at least you have a chance of survival aside from miraculous rescue by law enforcement.

    • @lanazak773
      @lanazak773 Pƙed 2 lety +89

      Good comments here. Also start throwing things and screaming; create chaos and confusion. Easier to say than to do, of course. Confirm this visit with the front desk. We can at least learn from this and lessen our chances.

  • @kristenisreal
    @kristenisreal Pƙed 2 lety +1916

    This could save your life:
    Never, ever leave with your perpetrator. Bide your time, make the move. Do everything you can, even risking your life, to avoid leaving the abduction site. You have a near 100% statistical chance of death if you go with the perpetrator.
    Number 2: Never, ever trust your perpetrator no matter what they tell you. Especially if they sexually assault you.

    • @kamiamarievaldez8441
      @kamiamarievaldez8441 Pƙed 2 lety +192

      My dad tells me the same thing all the time and in my opinion he's right, I would rather die getting shot or stabbed or something than find out what my perpetrator will do to me later on.

    • @ninerzzz
      @ninerzzz Pƙed 2 lety +3

      Hh huh jjj hi pop pop poi pop pop ion

    • @jaggirl
      @jaggirl Pƙed 2 lety +65

      It's a bit difficult if there are more than one, and they have weapons too.
      But I totally agree.
      Once you leave the scene of the crime, it's difficult to find clues, as to where you are taken.

    • @Kit1128
      @Kit1128 Pƙed 2 lety +72

      Also mom should never have let him into their hotel room. She could have confirmed with the desk first. It's tougher to say with the other woman at her cabin, but considering how isolated it was, I don't think I would have let him walk up on me. Another good reason to carry a gun. At least it gives you a fighting chance against these monsters

    • @Kit1128
      @Kit1128 Pƙed 2 lety +70

      @Jax Haven't you been watching his videos? Every one of these psychopaths promised they weren't going to hurt the person.You absolutely don't know, and if you believe their lies, it will be too late by the time it plays out. Learn how to use a gun, carry one, use it if you have to. I'll take my chances by fighting, not by being submissive and begging, which is an aphrodisiac to them..

  • @APRIL916
    @APRIL916 Pƙed rokem +142

    I remember this all to well Cary Stayner was caught near where I was living at the time, in Wilton northern California. Very Rural area he was staying at Del Sol, nudist resort. What I found beyond disturbing was the fact that Detectives actually asked Cary to help them, he gave them blankets and a few other items that they needed for fiber comparison. Also, while being questioned by the FBI, never once did officers ask to look in the backpack that Cary had with him. Turns out the bag had numerous notebooks with outrageous violent drawings! If they would had just taken a peek, Joie Ruth Armstrong would still be alive! That still breaks my heart!

    • @xzonia1
      @xzonia1 Pƙed rokem +16

      At least they caught him before he went to kill his girlfriend and her family. They were incredibly lucky through all of this. I cannot understand how someone can go through the horror of having a loved one abducted, and then go do the same (and worse) to other people. His story is so disturbing.

    • @joelschmierer3544
      @joelschmierer3544 Pƙed rokem +5

      How are cops that dumb, any one can have any evil intention at any time, why do they think they can trust someone they don’t know well (like a parent, close friend etc)

    • @MM-jf1me
      @MM-jf1me Pƙed rokem +8

      @@joelschmierer3544 It wasn't really dumb to not search his bag. At the time he wasn't a suspect any more than any other employee of the hotel or park was. If the police searched through the belongings of everyone they ever talked to it would usually be a massive waste of time and would probably make people less inclined to talk to the police in general.

    • @gregorgiebel1377
      @gregorgiebel1377 Pƙed 9 měsĂ­ci +3

      @@xzonia1 I am almost sure that his experiences with his brother are somehow even the cause for his actions. I am no psychologist, but it doesn't seem unbelievable to me that the mind of one person could react in this way to the trauma. Violence leads to more violence...

    • @raielle
      @raielle Pƙed 8 měsĂ­ci

      @@gregorgiebel1377 A psuedo-stockholm-placebo effect or something yeah

  • @chrilpy
    @chrilpy Pƙed rokem +442

    Shout out to the high school students who gave Carole’s wallet to the police. Most kids would steal the money, cards, and just leave the wallet where they found it. Who knows, maybe it would’ve made a difference in the case if that happened. Wouldn’t be surprised if they took some cash but still better than most people

    • @jacksonrishel2644
      @jacksonrishel2644 Pƙed rokem +4

      He placed it on purpose near a high school to be found, so he likely left it without any valuable items to avoid it being stolen. But I get what you mean

    • @cottoncandiez8872
      @cottoncandiez8872 Pƙed rokem +15

      @@jacksonrishel2644 Their point still stands. Who would turn in an empty wallet to the police? Not many

    • @jacksonrishel2644
      @jacksonrishel2644 Pƙed rokem +6

      @@cottoncandiez8872 agreed

    • @personalcheeses8073
      @personalcheeses8073 Pƙed rokem

      I like the way you cast aspersions on kids, when prisons are full of fully grown reprobates

    • @personalcheeses8073
      @personalcheeses8073 Pƙed rokem +9

      @@cottoncandiez8872 I’ve lost my wallet four times in my life and had it returned with everything in it. One time I didn’t expect to get it back because there was an awful lot of money in it. But I got it back with every last penny in there

  • @kninemama6228
    @kninemama6228 Pƙed 2 lety +1655

    Just to clarify
Silvina was not a “long time friend” of Julie’s. She was an exchange student from Brazil that the family was very graciously hosting for a school term. Makes it even more tragic

    • @whimsygrove9971
      @whimsygrove9971 Pƙed 2 lety +82

      Oh wow how awful. Her poor family!

    • @JohnDoe-qy3up
      @JohnDoe-qy3up Pƙed 2 lety +203

      Sorry for being pedantic , but she was from Argentina.

    • @kninemama6228
      @kninemama6228 Pƙed 2 lety +116

      @@JohnDoe-qy3up Thanks for the correction. And, yes, I do recall that now.

    • @artsofthewood5748
      @artsofthewood5748 Pƙed 2 lety +76

      I wouldn’t consider it being pedantic, just clarification. Thanks

    • @Davidsavage8008
      @Davidsavage8008 Pƙed 2 lety +5

      Exactly not something you want to do is implicate foreign exchange shame

  • @tiffanymason2945
    @tiffanymason2945 Pƙed 2 lety +545

    What gets me the most is Carol had time to understand that her first reaction was correct and she shouldn't have let him in. I hate the fact that, that's probably one of the last things that poor woman had to deal with. What a monster

    • @katiezee2
      @katiezee2 Pƙed 2 lety +72

      The only thing that could have been worse for her in the realization of what was happening, would have been to see or hear her daughter be raped and murdered, although she knew it would be coming for the daughter too. But those poor girls had to hear it happen to mom, knowing they'd be next... We can't even imagine the utter terror they all suffered.

    • @fairladykd6734
      @fairladykd6734 Pƙed 2 lety +31

      @@katiezee2 I would have died fighting like a damn mama bear - I'd rather me & mine be shot dead then raped, tortured, stabbed, etc...

    • @MrStar700
      @MrStar700 Pƙed 2 lety +29

      When I am home alone I never answer the door if I am not expecting someone.
      My family, friends always call or text first it just habit.
      Once that door is open your done.
      I do not live in isolated place however crime is everywhere.
      If you decide to break in I am not going to hesitate to make sure I am not a victim so good luck with that.
      Not blaming her she was kind and trusting, tired as well.

    • @RepentfollowJesus
      @RepentfollowJesus Pƙed 2 lety +18

      @@MrStar700 i do live in a semi isolated place. I dont answer my door either. Like you. If someone comes in my pistol will be happy to make sure they don't stay long.

    • @MrStar700
      @MrStar700 Pƙed 2 lety +5

      @@RepentfollowJesus đŸ‘đŸŒ

  • @1stepcl0ser
    @1stepcl0ser Pƙed rokem +9

    the note that says "i had fun with this one" is one of the cruellest things i have ever heard. wth? how sick is that. what a monster

  • @freshsodaa7023
    @freshsodaa7023 Pƙed rokem +51

    I remember hearing this story from the point of view of his brothers case
it’s actually pretty sad..I mean people would assume that the boy being brought back would be a “happy ending”, but their whole family was actually affected & destroyed from it
it’s even more sad knowing that his brother had died later on too. It’s just insane how a tragic case connects to another horrible case
 from one boy being a hero to his brother being the complete opposite

    • @MimiYuYu
      @MimiYuYu Pƙed rokem +8

      Cary has admitted to having these violent thoughts even before Steven was abducted. I think he says he has been having these urges since he was 7 years old. When Steven was abducted, Cary was already a teenager

    • @tanyamckinnon5376
      @tanyamckinnon5376 Pƙed 6 měsĂ­ci

      I believe the trauma of Steven being kidnapped has a lot to do with Carey turning out the way he did.

    • @ethanbates7734
      @ethanbates7734 Pƙed 6 měsĂ­ci

      Their dad was also kinda pos. Didn’t support his brother Steven getting therapy after he escaped and molested his daughters. Obviously doesn’t account for Cary’s action but is just another unfortunate detail in this families history

  • @LonelySandwich
    @LonelySandwich Pƙed 2 lety +10933

    You’ve crossed a line with that like button treatment.
    Nobody deserves Pizza by Alfredo.

    • @Acefakeboo
      @Acefakeboo Pƙed 2 lety +268

      why do i always find your comments?

    • @MrBallen
      @MrBallen  Pƙed 2 lety +910

      Hahah

    • @Rebecca-qf7is
      @Rebecca-qf7is Pƙed 2 lety +233

      Hot circle of garbage.

    • @justindunlap1235
      @justindunlap1235 Pƙed 2 lety +103

      It's a hot circle of garbage

    • @biggiechungus784
      @biggiechungus784 Pƙed 2 lety +36

      @@Acefakeboo same! I've found them on videos that have nothing to do with topics like this

  • @smokinjoe32927
    @smokinjoe32927 Pƙed 2 lety +2066

    This was a tough watch. I feel horrible that these ladies met such a monster.

  • @DionneTuplin
    @DionneTuplin Pƙed 8 měsĂ­ci +3

    I "discovered" MrBallen about a month ago, and this story compelled me to comment.
    OMG, I just realized that Carey's brother Steven is Steven Stayner from that 80s TV movie, "I know my first name is Steven." There was an image of Merced in this story and that's what popped into my head.
    Then, MrBallen mentioned a brother, Steven, who was abducted for 7 years (by Parnell), and THAT'S when it hit me. I NEVER forgot about that movie and to know this connection literally made my heart jump.
    I can't believe it!!!
    Anyone else remember that movie? I'm literally shaking and almost sick to my stomach.
    MrBallen, you are quite the storyteller and now I do my best to watch my surroundings to ensure I don’t become one of your strange, dark and mysterious told in story format.😉

    • @BethanyMacmanusBooks
      @BethanyMacmanusBooks Pƙed 3 dny +1

      Yes, we watched that haunting TV series in my middle school home ec class. So disturbing.

  • @alexleigh33
    @alexleigh33 Pƙed rokem +93

    Imagine randomly hiring a handyman, and solely being alive because he was at your house that day. That poor girlfriend was probably so traumatized. The man she loved, the man that met her kids, spent time and probably holidays with, etc. was fucking fantasizing about raping, torturing, and murdering her and her family. What a bag of shit. I hope her and her kids are safe and healthy, and live the best, happiest lives possible.

    • @godnyx117
      @godnyx117 Pƙed rokem +2

      You are over-exaggerating. They may as well just met and got together a week before that. The woman was very very luck, she may as well date the handyman as a "thanks", lol!

    • @janetgrooms4577
      @janetgrooms4577 Pƙed 10 měsĂ­ci +6

      ​@@godnyx117
      First you think she was "exaggerating",THEN you say something so f'd up ABOUT HOW THE GF MIGHT AS WELL HAVE DATED THE HANDYMAN ~~AS A "THANKS" and you "lol"
      ...
      YOU ARE TWISTED AF.

    • @janetgrooms4577
      @janetgrooms4577 Pƙed 10 měsĂ­ci +1

      @alexleigh33 ❀For REAL and THEN I READ @godnyx117 reply, THAT SICK & TWISTED MF ~~whom thinks you are "over-exaggerating "!
      Seriously??
      Sounds like @godnyx117 knows EXACTLY WHAT & HOW RAPISTS and MURDERERS of women & young girls THINK and STALK THEIR VICTIMS/PREY..
      (bc he thinks you are "OVER-EXAGGERATING"!😳
      wow.

    • @godnyx117
      @godnyx117 Pƙed 10 měsĂ­ci

      ​@@janetgrooms4577 So, your problem is the world that I used? English is not my native language so maybe there are better word I could had used IF my level was better.
      What about catching the meaning of the comment instead of just replying for the sake of just doing it?

    • @janetgrooms4577
      @janetgrooms4577 Pƙed 10 měsĂ­ci +2

      @@godnyx117
      Let it go man! At the end of the day
      NOBODY GAF what ANYONE comments about,
      UNLESS of course, someone posts a comment that is offensive, extremely rude OR is just an internet troLL..
      My opinion regarding your post is of no consequence, what YOU posted bothered me because I'm familiar with that particular incident about the Mother, Daughter and the Daughters friend..
      I thought you were rather disrespectful, because you put a lol in your comment and there was NOTHING to laugh about what happened to the victims by thAt rapist/murderer..

  • @halldorherm
    @halldorherm Pƙed 2 lety +527

    I was born in the mid 80's, so I know life without cellphones. But just imagine "losing" your family and have no way of contacting them. Can hardly think of anything worse

    • @katiephalen3483
      @katiephalen3483 Pƙed 2 lety +15

      Anybody remember calling your parents collect using a false or your middle name to single them you were where you were supposed to be? Then your Mom or Dad would deny the collect call so we wouldn’t be charged?

    • @stormhawk1625
      @stormhawk1625 Pƙed 2 lety +1

      The first story happened in 1999

    • @ohionative5237
      @ohionative5237 Pƙed 2 lety +4

      @@katiephalen3483 I was born in the late 70s and I remember doing the exact thing you're talking about.

    • @Lily_of_the_Forest
      @Lily_of_the_Forest Pƙed 2 lety +10

      Older than that and I remember those days. It was nerve-wracking times. Cellphones are LIFESAVERS.

    • @mayn90s19
      @mayn90s19 Pƙed 2 lety +5

      @@Lily_of_the_Forest it could be nerve racking.
      There was also a sort of cadence knowing when you get off work, that's it. No one can bother you or contact you. Just you and your family for the good days. But I know where you're coming from.

  • @lindajeanhouse3795
    @lindajeanhouse3795 Pƙed 2 lety +518

    The friend of the daughter was actually an exchange student from Argentina. Can you imagine how her family felt and what they went through? So sad.

    • @wallnut5910
      @wallnut5910 Pƙed 2 lety +4

      My G was a Messi fan

    • @Silvia.Araujo
      @Silvia.Araujo Pƙed 2 lety +10

      So sad. Very disturbing.

    • @bgraunitz6175
      @bgraunitz6175 Pƙed 2 lety +44

      Yes, she was an exchange student.. I went to highschool w the 2 girls. I remember thinking at the time about the exchange student's parents. How horrible thinking u are sending your daughter for the experience of a lifetime.. I remember feeling crushed under the weight of sadness for her family đŸ„ș🙏😔

    • @f.f5771
      @f.f5771 Pƙed 2 lety +2

      @@wallnut5910 what?

    • @wallnut5910
      @wallnut5910 Pƙed 2 lety +2

      @@f.f5771 she’s from Argentina innit

  • @K1ngD_BH410
    @K1ngD_BH410 Pƙed rokem +19

    One of if not THE BEST story tellers on CZcams, Facebook, etc. The way Mr.Ballen explains these stories in as much detail he can along with showing pictures, the added sound effects, and his emphasis on certain parts and words in the story make it 100x better.

  • @kariwall2824
    @kariwall2824 Pƙed rokem +28

    Genuinely sad and scary. How many people do we pass on a daily basis that have these fantasies and opportunity to cause such harm? How many times when I have traveled alone with my children have I met folks like this man? đŸ˜¶ Thank God for grace, mercy and protection.

  • @johnmn3500
    @johnmn3500 Pƙed 2 lety +872

    Think of his gf finding out how close she and her daughters were to being killed.

    • @sandyclaws5247
      @sandyclaws5247 Pƙed 2 lety +47

      I hope for her safety they don't release him like they do so many others.

    • @MrBallen
      @MrBallen  Pƙed 2 lety +238

      Here is her reaction: www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-6632751/Woman-targeted-Yosemite-serial-killer-speaks-time-Cary-Stayner.html

    • @crisencrypted_ytv
      @crisencrypted_ytv Pƙed 2 lety +71

      So weird to think their lives were spared cause of a simple decision to hire someone to do some work around the house. Wonder if she was suspicious at all...

    • @markwilliamson6518
      @markwilliamson6518 Pƙed 2 lety +28

      @@MrBallen thanks for the follow up

    • @Agathanagatha
      @Agathanagatha Pƙed 2 lety +4

      @@sandyclaws5247twice at that

  • @sherryowens8251
    @sherryowens8251 Pƙed rokem +16

    I remember this story well. His brother saved Timothy White. The little boy was afraid to go in the police station alone so Steven had to walk him in. That's when the police ask who he was and said "I think my first name is Steven".

  • @ioanzatui
    @ioanzatui Pƙed rokem +21

    It's crazy how I didn't recognize who Cary was until you mentioned his brother Stephen; then, when it showed the picture of Stephen with Cary in the background, I remembered reading about Stephen's abduction case. It's so astounding to realize how these two cases were related to each other, and I can't believe Cary ended up being a serial killer after his brother went through what he went through.

  • @robswystun2766
    @robswystun2766 Pƙed 2 lety +1596

    That gardener was a hero and he didn't even know it.

    • @sleezyog1407
      @sleezyog1407 Pƙed 2 lety +17

      :( i would marry his ass

    • @nathankirby4612
      @nathankirby4612 Pƙed 2 lety +72

      @@sleezyog1407 his ass?

    • @marwan4358
      @marwan4358 Pƙed 2 lety +9

      @@nathankirby4612 lol 😂😂😂😂

    • @marwan4358
      @marwan4358 Pƙed 2 lety +6

      @@sleezyog1407 Yeah, me too, if I was a woman 😂

    • @elenarodriguez7809
      @elenarodriguez7809 Pƙed 2 lety +14

      The girlfriend hired him. She's the hero lol

  • @Patricia-hj2zo
    @Patricia-hj2zo Pƙed 2 lety +1393

    I knew the 3 women who were murdered. My daughter went to school with the girls.
    Thank you for the details, and the caring way you told their story.

  • @colehardman1661
    @colehardman1661 Pƙed rokem +49

    Crazy that his brother was kidnapped for 7 years and his family failed him when he returned

  • @zl6198
    @zl6198 Pƙed 6 měsĂ­ci +6

    you never let anyone tie you up. fight for your life.

  • @riddlec7697
    @riddlec7697 Pƙed 2 lety +1139

    That guy who was working outside of Carry’s girlfriends house basically saved there lives.

    • @coherentproductions7620
      @coherentproductions7620 Pƙed 2 lety +77

      I'm sure that's something she thinks about all the time.

    • @christofferhoff6669
      @christofferhoff6669 Pƙed 2 lety +65

      It saved three lives but also cost three other lives, as he wouldn't have had the time to kill carol and her family as they were going to catch a flight the next day.

    • @freedragon3050
      @freedragon3050 Pƙed 2 lety +52

      *their lives! - Grammar Police Special Agent

    • @viggianoj
      @viggianoj Pƙed 2 lety +28

      But unintentionally doomed the others at the hotel.

    • @liam9682
      @liam9682 Pƙed 2 lety +14

      their*

  • @MsNikkieMichelle
    @MsNikkieMichelle Pƙed 2 lety +817

    I cannot/ do not want to even imagine the devastation, pain and suffering a parent feels when losing a child/children, but to have your child murdered AND beheaded, that’s just beyond words.

    • @an_overlooked_comment_from
      @an_overlooked_comment_from Pƙed 2 lety +35

      John Walsh of America’s most wanted, his son Adam was kidnapped and beheaded. He’s been committed to putting these monsters behind bars since. People are sickening!!

    • @joek9353
      @joek9353 Pƙed 2 lety +9

      I’ve read his book about Adam. So unbelievably sad as to what happened.

    • @heidi459
      @heidi459 Pƙed 2 lety +21

      @@joek9353 My family watched the made for TV movie about Adam in the 80s. My Daddy was not a very emotional man but, he cried during the movie when the boy was found. I learned that there was evil in the world seeing it as a little girl. I'll never forget it.
      I did meet John Walsh in the early 90s at the restaurant I was working at and thanked him for being amazing for what he did.

    • @BriEMcN
      @BriEMcN Pƙed 2 lety +11

      I wouldn't be able to survive that honestly. The mothers that do survive have a level of strength beyond anything else.

    • @heidi459
      @heidi459 Pƙed 2 lety +5

      @@BriEMcN I lost my 25 year old daughter in July. She was my middle daughter and I had her little brother late in life and have a teenager at home who needs me and my oldest daughter was best friends with her sister. She needed me just as much as my son (he lost his Dad the month before!)
      I had to be there for my other kids but, I am struggling for strength. I've never been so sad . My life had changed forever. My daughter had many different friends from all over the Country where she traveled. It's been very hard to explain her death over and over to people who didn't know she had passed away at least once a week. I am still having nightmares. If I didn't have my other kids and my husband...I wouldn't be here right now. I was born to be a Mother and wouldn't want to be here if I didn't have my children.

  • @toniaapelar3969
    @toniaapelar3969 Pƙed 10 měsĂ­ci +6

    I actually new Julie. We met the begining of the school year and was cheerleading together. We won second place for the
    eureka loggers and all stars championship. Last I saw her we just performed our Christmas cheer at the bay shore mall. Then my father pulled me aside months later to tell me she was missing. I remember every time the news came on I would run to the TV hoping for an update. Sadly the update was something no one wanted. To this day, I am so sad to think that Julie and Sylvinia never got to grow up and become mothers, wives careers. Carol never got to meet her grandchildren. Jules Armstrong never got to live as well. To this day every December I still think of last time I saw her, our last cheer, her last smile. I'm hopeful that they are at peace and happy. Lots of love julie

  • @sonjarygg2331
    @sonjarygg2331 Pƙed 4 měsĂ­ci +6

    You somehow seem a lot more impacted by this story than some of the others. I remember this story well. I live in CA and at that time, I was in my 20s. The media coverage was crazy and everyone was shocked.

  • @ghstag0nyy832
    @ghstag0nyy832 Pƙed 2 lety +1541

    i literally felt a gut renching feeling the moment i heard "we had fun with this one".....how could someone be so evil

    • @alexcisneros2980
      @alexcisneros2980 Pƙed 2 lety +12

      Haven't watched the video yet I'm only wondering wtf that picture is. You turned a beautiful swedish nurse into a dunderhead 😭🙏

    • @diaryofarealmom3264
      @diaryofarealmom3264 Pƙed 2 lety +26

      I know that literally made my skin crawl. I imagine it was like the movie “I Spit ON Your Grave”. It’s super intense. Which is how I wish all the situations ended.

    • @thedesensitizedsympathizer5307
      @thedesensitizedsympathizer5307 Pƙed 2 lety +2

      Not me. I may not be a pedophile but that kinda sounds like something you'd hear from a video game or tv show. I just couldn't help but chuckle a bit when I heard that.

    • @claudelandi510
      @claudelandi510 Pƙed 2 lety +19

      @Jason Shults Trump being one of them...lying about the dangers of Covid19...and making it sound like it was a "nothing burger" even tho he talked to Mr. Woodward...and told him how deadly and dangerous it was...he continued his crusade(and to this day) still influences his followers to make the covid19 vaccine...seem like it is some kind of bad thing....

    • @andrewhoffman7879
      @andrewhoffman7879 Pƙed 2 lety +4

      Same. That phrase really messed with me.

  • @AlienAteIt.MyNoraTees
    @AlienAteIt.MyNoraTees Pƙed 2 lety +723

    LISTEN TO YOUR INTUITION, even if you might come off as "rude", she originally wasn't buying the handyman story.

    • @vaellyth
      @vaellyth Pƙed 2 lety +65

      Deadass. Late-night maintenance visits are sketchy AF. Always call the front desk. Don't be afraid to make a scene when you feel threatened!

    • @ZiIIous
      @ZiIIous Pƙed 2 lety +13

      Need more than that. I think he would have killed them anyway, he was so desperate and prepared.

    • @meganjonas3421
      @meganjonas3421 Pƙed 2 lety +46

      I had a Maintenance Man who I’ve never seen and I lived in my apartment for like five years at this point and I knew all the handyman and when he came in he locked the door behind him I freaked out grabbed a knife unlocked it and ran and called my boyfriend who came home and it turns out he was a legit he just had gotten hired but who the fuck lock the door behind a woman in their own apartment who they don’t know and I didn’t know anything about a repair yeah

    • @savagetv6460
      @savagetv6460 Pƙed 2 lety +3

      @@meganjonas3421 if he was black you'd be labeled a racist. Stop promoting gender stereotypes

    • @meganjonas3421
      @meganjonas3421 Pƙed 2 lety +36

      @@savagetv6460 wtf seriously??

  • @thewhitedragon7555
    @thewhitedragon7555 Pƙed 7 měsĂ­ci +6

    This story made me feel sick to my stomach and my daughter is hitting her teen years if anything happened to her it would destroy me. I'm glad you give as much focus to the victims as the perpetrator as their stories need to be heard

  • @hshawn00
    @hshawn00 Pƙed rokem +16

    I've said it once and I'll say it many more times, Mr. Ballen is a gifted storyteller. He is so engaging and makes stories that you've heard before intersting and new. I remembered this story as soon as he started. I remember it being chronicled on The Oprah Winfrey show when I was a kid and it has stuck with me ever since. It's so sad how someone can be having the time of their life in one moment and then thrust into the middle of their darkest nightmare the next.

  • @prettybrowneyez3338
    @prettybrowneyez3338 Pƙed 2 lety +493

    Survival tip: Next time someone tries to come in my hotel room at night, I'll call the front desk to make sure they sent that person and why.....

    • @Sassy-pants68
      @Sassy-pants68 Pƙed 2 lety +51

      Even if the front desk did send them never ever ever open the door

    • @prettybrowneyez3338
      @prettybrowneyez3338 Pƙed 2 lety +15

      @@Sassy-pants68 Oh, yeah, definitely!

    • @Janellabelle
      @Janellabelle Pƙed 2 lety +99

      Survival tip 2: Nah. If you don't recognize the person when you look out the peep hole, and it's the middle of the night, they can come back in the morning. If the front desk needs to get in your room at midnight they can send a police officer to speak with you about it. The front desk could easily be in on your demise so don't trust them either.

    • @KDMeowmmy
      @KDMeowmmy Pƙed 2 lety +15

      @@Janellabelle Excellent advice! I hadn't thought of that.

    • @codycevering2733
      @codycevering2733 Pƙed 2 lety +62

      Having been a night auditor at a hotel, I can assure you that we were strictly prohibited from entering an occupied room at all costs.
      If there was an issue, we essentially had to book them into a separate room and then address the issue after they had vacated the room in question.
      Unless the fire alarm is going off, a hotel staff member should never try to enter your room with you in it.

  • @megalodon8473
    @megalodon8473 Pƙed 2 lety +854

    Holy shit. As SOON as you said there was a knock at the hotel door, amazon knocked on my door to drop off a package. I must have had 12 heart attacks. I figure it was the Like button standing outside with a knife, disguised as the amazon delivery man.

  • @agdoren
    @agdoren Pƙed rokem +15

    I'm glad they had this really great trip and were just in a warm loving mood with each other. It's horrible that they were murdered the way they were but at least they had this really great time before the horrible things happened.

  • @rachelcornellier3690
    @rachelcornellier3690 Pƙed rokem +149

    Is it bad to listen to like 40 episodes in one day? I’m painting while listening but now I’m concerned about nightmares later lol.
    In all seriousness, good job!!!!

  • @jeremys7131
    @jeremys7131 Pƙed 2 lety +481

    The Girlfriend with her daughters that wasn’t killed because of the handyman that started THAT DAY...reminds me of No Country for Old Men and the random luck that can lead to whether you live or die, and you may not even know anything ever about it. Makes me wonder how many people on a given day avoid death by random luck without ever even knowing it.

    • @tschakatschada
      @tschakatschada Pƙed 2 lety +29

      I ask myself how often I nearly died or met some gruesome end. Without knowing.

    • @WeThePeeps13
      @WeThePeeps13 Pƙed 2 lety +20

      @Jeremy S
      I know, right? Can you imagine how terrifying it would be to know you and your kids were the target of a deranged maniac, after the fact? And THAT person was your own boyfriend? I wonder why that woman, to her credit, had contracted the help of some other person to help her with those chores, instead of her "handyman" boyfriend?
      Man, life's weird. And, scary.

    • @jontorres1991
      @jontorres1991 Pƙed 2 lety +9

      It’s very interesting I’ve met people who have killed others , they seem normal but you really can never know what crosses someone’s mind

    • @TheRealInky
      @TheRealInky Pƙed 2 lety +2

      @@jontorres1991 are they in prison..?

    • @okeydokey3120
      @okeydokey3120 Pƙed 2 lety +9

      Quote from a song:
      God only knows the times my life
      Was threatened just today
      A reckless car ran out of gas
      Before it ran my way
      Near misses all around me
      Accidents unknown
      Though I never see with human eyes
      The Hands that lead me home

  • @CocoCrispy_
    @CocoCrispy_ Pƙed 2 lety +522

    Word of advice, if a “robber” ever wants to tie you up/blindfold you, fight them. Idc if its to the death. If they tie you up they most likely will take you somewhere else and that can only mean terrible things. This story is so sad

    • @rizengoku8050
      @rizengoku8050 Pƙed 2 lety +73

      Good advice. If a gun is ever pointed at you, rush the robber. They won’t expect you to not comply and it will catch them off guard, ultimately giving you the upper hand. Though if you are woman, this might be easier said than done, but it is possible. Aim for the nose when you tackle them, this will cause them to be in a state of shock and then wail on them until they are either unconscious or dead.

    • @p1nkelephants
      @p1nkelephants Pƙed 2 lety +43

      I always tell myself, if I find myself in a situation like this, act like a crazy bitch and attack.

    • @tschakatschada
      @tschakatschada Pƙed 2 lety +44

      I think we all do believe that we would just rush them, even knowing we could easily die. But I think in the momemt you will have hope that this extreme risk is not necessary and the other peroson will not really harm you. Because if you rush someone with a gun (or a weapon), chances are you are dead or badly wounded befor you could do much.
      But I agree, if a robber wants to tie me up I would resist no matter what. At this point I would have to assume that I am dead either way. Beeing shot is hopefully faster.

    • @mrjon75
      @mrjon75 Pƙed 2 lety +24

      💯 in Krav Maga they say the same. Don't get in the car (or whatever they tell you). Once you are in the car it's over for you. Your chance is now.

    • @cellemac3014
      @cellemac3014 Pƙed 2 lety +11

      I would like to believe I would know how to respond in such circumstances, God forbid I ever have to. But I totally agree, they better fulfill their threat, cause they're not subduing me without a fight. Imagine how 3 of them could've maneuvered this without getting tied up, despite there being a gun held against them. So sad.

  • @laureneverhart3292
    @laureneverhart3292 Pƙed rokem +8

    I recently found your videos and I am hooked! I enjoy all the fine details of each story and how much emphasis you put into making every person stand out. You have a gift and please don't stop using it. Thank you for also being my "study buddy" during study sessions. I have a really hard time staying focused and these videos help a lot. I hope you have a wonderful day/evening/night wherever you are located.

  • @gabrieladeuschle3596
    @gabrieladeuschle3596 Pƙed rokem +18

    OMG @mrballen!! The minute you said his brother had been abducted and returned after 7 years, I had a feeling it was Steven's brother. Steven is the boy in the movie about his abduction, "My Name is Steven". I didn't realized until your said his full name That's crazy!! What great story telling. Those poor victims. Rest in peace.

  • @daisymazie9642
    @daisymazie9642 Pƙed 2 lety +815

    The murder was “treated like a homicide”? Well, a headless body would surely not be a suicide.â˜č

  • @barghast
    @barghast Pƙed 2 lety +262

    This is the most horrifying retelling of these events I've heard. I can't imagine the fear these women felt, or how his girlfriend must feel knowing how close it was to being her and her daughters.

    • @aaronpuckett2062
      @aaronpuckett2062 Pƙed 2 lety +16

      I try to take these things that are disturbing to watch and ground them in something objective, like using this as another reason to be intelligently conscious of things around me. Not just for being a victim, but for others who can be.

  • @KHAMOSH_CHONGA
    @KHAMOSH_CHONGA Pƙed 8 měsĂ­ci +1

    In this era of shorts and reels
    This guy can make us listen to stories this long

  • @Tink-wo4yy
    @Tink-wo4yy Pƙed rokem +12

    You are truly an amazing storyteller! Even though it gave me pains in my stomach to listen to some of this you made it incredibly real those poor woman my heart goes out to them and their families!

  • @vesh
    @vesh Pƙed 2 lety +3792

    This title deserves a reward

  • @amayathomas4281
    @amayathomas4281 Pƙed 2 lety +674

    Something about this one got me. The fact that carol probably didn’t fight back even during her assault because she thought it’d save the girls life is heart wrenching. And the fact that poor Julie had to spend so much time alone with the bastard confused and scared but still hoping she’ll be okay is just too much. Amazing story telling but incredibly sad, I hope all these women Rest In Peace

    • @PoochieCollins
      @PoochieCollins Pƙed 2 lety +37

      Also, I've read a number of comments and no one pointed out what a ditz the mother was:
      * Didn't bother to close the curtains all the way in their hotel room.
      * Allowed dude to schmooze his way into the room without first confirming his story with the hotel staff via phone.
      * Never noticed the dude tailing them most of the day.
      And then maybe not as ill-conceived, but the other woman was willfully staying at an isolated cabin without any people or dogs and unarmed. I have enough of a moral conscience not to feel they deserved to die for their mistakes, don't get me wrong. It's sad and disturbing. This story's a good lesson about being vigilant when traveling, especially if you're in an isolated area in a small group or alone.

    • @sunflowers730
      @sunflowers730 Pƙed 2 lety +23

      She never should have opened the door in the first place

    • @affettatoprosciutto7139
      @affettatoprosciutto7139 Pƙed 2 lety +89

      @@PoochieCollins doesn’t matter what decisions they made- the dead don’t deserve to be disrespected and called “dumb” and a “ditz” they were abused and murdered. What you’re doing is called victim blaming and it isn’t cute.

    • @PoochieCollins
      @PoochieCollins Pƙed 2 lety +8

      @@affettatoprosciutto7139 : did you stop reading before my last paragraph?

    • @affettatoprosciutto7139
      @affettatoprosciutto7139 Pƙed 2 lety +49

      @@PoochieCollins did you read mine at all? Despite you saying that they didn’t deserve to die. You still disrespected the dead and victim blamed by implying their choices and decisions are what got them killed. But no. What got them killed was that mans sick mind. Blaming their decisions for their death and saying they deserved to die are two different things. Please learn the difference. And you were still being disrespectful for no reason.

  • @miss-nomer
    @miss-nomer Pƙed rokem +12

    I’m going to be thinking about Julie and what she went through for a long time after watching this. That poor girl. It keeps brining tears to my eyes. I hope her loved ones, and the loved ones of all the women targeted by this piece of garbage, find peace.

  • @Jade_1872
    @Jade_1872 Pƙed 2 lety +271

    The ‘we had fun with this one’ instantly made my stomach drop

  • @lowdowngrittyngrimey
    @lowdowngrittyngrimey Pƙed 2 lety +354

    "we dont know what colour her hair is yet"
    that line made me shiver, i knew immediately why they didn't know

    • @adameddington4019
      @adameddington4019 Pƙed 2 lety +45

      I thought she might’ve been set on fire or something but I cannot imagine how the mother felt

    • @lowdowngrittyngrimey
      @lowdowngrittyngrimey Pƙed 2 lety +14

      @@adameddington4019 neither can i, and i'm glad i haven't felt that kind of grief. no one deserves to die that way, nor does anyone deserve to have someone they love die that way. i'm sure it did a number on Joie's mother, same for Carole's husband. i hope they're all doing better knowing the shitstain that took the lives of Joie, Carole, Juli, and Silvina will be rotting in prison until he receives his punishment.

    • @adameddington4019
      @adameddington4019 Pƙed 2 lety +29

      @@lowdowngrittyngrimey it’s just wild to me that people can do those things. It was just a “urge” that he had since he was SEVEN. How did nobody notice he was crazy.

    • @Pa8
      @Pa8 Pƙed 2 lety +1

      What

    • @matthewrobinson3048
      @matthewrobinson3048 Pƙed 2 lety +17

      @@adameddington4019 Some people are good at hiding who they really are, its disturbing to know that the person sitting next to you could be a murderer at any point.

  • @msboy4x4
    @msboy4x4 Pƙed rokem +3

    Props man, as a fellow 100% disabled Vet I love that you've found something after the service. Great job👍👏

  • @pandora4078
    @pandora4078 Pƙed rokem +5

    I will never forget this story. I am from Humboldt County and this story was huge news in our small town. My heart broke for both families..

  • @switchedeyes
    @switchedeyes Pƙed 2 lety +260

    Legend has it that one day this channel appeared randomly on your feed with strange, dark and mysterious stories and now you can’t stop watching it.

    • @sherrikirkland6318
      @sherrikirkland6318 Pƙed 2 lety +1

      Omg. Yes.

    • @sandiflinchum6925
      @sandiflinchum6925 Pƙed 2 lety +3

      I found this channel by accident and it's crazy how much I go back and binge watch those I've already seen. The caring and concerned voice for these families and the victims is heart warming. And the respect you give the victim as you tell their story is so appreciated.

    • @Joanne_uk
      @Joanne_uk Pƙed 2 lety +2

      This is not legend! It’s true! It’s happened to me. I’m now addicted


    • @kimberlywashington6818
      @kimberlywashington6818 Pƙed rokem +1

      Truth

    • @suttercane6718
      @suttercane6718 Pƙed rokem +1

      Precisely what happened lol can't sleep either, terrified lmao also there's a stalker in an opposite house

  • @PaulMichaelLevesque69
    @PaulMichaelLevesque69 Pƙed 2 lety +557

    The fact that he's still alive for nearly 22 years after that gruesome event is unbelievable waste of "people's" money.

    • @jazz-axy9924
      @jazz-axy9924 Pƙed 2 lety +51

      people like this make me wish for the days of public hangings back

    • @bigdaddyroy5382
      @bigdaddyroy5382 Pƙed 2 lety +36

      California has the death penalty. But way to many sensitive people complain and don't approve/convict for the penalty

    • @jaggirl
      @jaggirl Pƙed 2 lety +32

      Death penalties take way too long in the USA to come to fruition. đŸ€”

    • @PaulMichaelLevesque69
      @PaulMichaelLevesque69 Pƙed 2 lety +25

      @@bigdaddyroy5382 they'll approves it when this sh*t happened to someone who close to them.

    • @PaulMichaelLevesque69
      @PaulMichaelLevesque69 Pƙed 2 lety +2

      @@jazz-axy9924 Damn!! 😅😅😅

  • @OneSong411
    @OneSong411 Pƙed rokem +3

    I finally had a chance to show my Dad one of these Mr Ballen videos, and even he said like 3 minutes in that this guy is a really compelling storyteller. And my dad is a great story teller, so was his dad, so I think it's cool that I happened to find a guy that my dad would really enjoy listening to. So I felt a little proud at this complimentary statement made about Mr Ballen, not me lol, but it's like my dad WAS complimenting my own judgement while agreeing with that part of me that can't leave this channel alone. And his opinion carries a lot of weight for me, probably because he's really all I have at the moment. So thanks for impressing my father!!!

  • @RyanNyx
    @RyanNyx Pƙed rokem +5

    This is one of the scariest and most disturbing one of these stories I've heard, I hope that the families involved are healing, and that something like this never happens again

  • @cracky-patty113
    @cracky-patty113 Pƙed 2 lety +161

    ‘Pulled her up on her feet, told her “I love you” then slashed her throat and pushed her over the lake”
    That is the most disgusting, haunting thing I have ever heard. It made me want to puke.

    • @qhviananan-laul5159
      @qhviananan-laul5159 Pƙed 2 lety +5

      Many feel that way,
      But deep down wouldn't you like a night under the stars, giving back to nature,...
      Then go home and clean the dirt off the shovel .

    • @DevilsInBaggyPants1941
      @DevilsInBaggyPants1941 Pƙed 2 lety +7

      No there’s these two black guys, they held 2 women and 2 men hostage in Wisconsin, they made the men assault the woman, then they assaulted the woman, then shot all of them, then took a truck and ran over them. Then killed the family dog, one of the woman lived, that was some sick assholes, they were real brothers. And I guess still in prison now.

    • @AWGragg007
      @AWGragg007 Pƙed 2 lety +4

      I hear you...this was a really bad one.

    • @matthewreid5605
      @matthewreid5605 Pƙed 2 lety +1

      @@DevilsInBaggyPants1941 sound like a slave master treatment to one of his family of slaves. Just universal racism karma coming back to bite

    • @dirtbag3601
      @dirtbag3601 Pƙed 2 lety +7

      @@matthewreid5605 karmas put on who deserved it, not innocent...dummy

  • @Diana-ov9vp
    @Diana-ov9vp Pƙed 2 lety +280

    The girlfriend and her daughters were saved twice I wished all 4 women had been saved I’m so sorry for the families loss

    • @kipp5862
      @kipp5862 Pƙed 2 lety +7

      Ok ... so I'm gonna insert questions as they come up.
      Why didn't the husband, before he took a flight, have called the lodge?
      Use a payphone which the airports were lousy with them ... the "miscommunication" is an idiotic move.
      Back then everyone knew how to communicate without having a phone on you 24/7
      It was basic knowledge we all grew up with.

  • @user-en7tu3ij2g
    @user-en7tu3ij2g Pƙed 7 měsĂ­ci +2

    I was camping in Yosemite when Joie was murdered. When we heard about it we still had a couple days left before heading home. I was too young to be following the news on it and hadn't thought about it much since so watching this was really eye-opening. So glad they caught the guy.

  • @cbrasure925
    @cbrasure925 Pƙed 9 měsĂ­ci +1

    You have a very special way of honoring the victims in the way you tell these horrific true crime stories. The ID network and 20/20 is so sanitized which I understand is for the facts and based on evidence whether they are awaiting trial or have been convicted but when you tell these stories I can actually remember the victims names and relate to the anguish, despair and fear not just of the victims but their family and friends. My Uncle was murdered in 1986 hitchhiking his way back to the East Coast to visit my mother and meet my little brother who had just been born. The muderer was never found. No justice, no closure. My mother and I are the only members of the family left that remember him and not a day goes by without thoughts of him. Thank you.
    P.S. On a lighter note I enjoyed the reference to The Office in the beginning.

  • @fittedhatastro2476
    @fittedhatastro2476 Pƙed 2 lety +1793

    Legend says mrballen’s parents didn’t tell him bedtime story’s he told them the story’s😰

    • @princesskileyrae
      @princesskileyrae Pƙed 2 lety +78

      Legend says MrBallen's parents were terrified by his stories & often had nightmares.

    • @sharkbite5613
      @sharkbite5613 Pƙed 2 lety +18

      Hahaha LOVE this comment!

    • @tubainam1lgr4u75
      @tubainam1lgr4u75 Pƙed 2 lety

      czcams.com/video/6EmMzeH3vk4/video.html

    • @ryleighanderson663
      @ryleighanderson663 Pƙed 2 lety +11

      legend says that they had to enter psychiatric wards out of fear

    • @DeniseV78
      @DeniseV78 Pƙed 2 lety +19

      His kids are lucky😇

  • @trapzbn209
    @trapzbn209 Pƙed 2 lety +373

    I live in modesto and my dad and I went to mountains recently. He pointed a cross out to me and said this is where a car with 2 people were burned. Watching this, i come to find out that was the exact place this story takes place. Gave me chills

    • @popomomo12
      @popomomo12 Pƙed 2 lety +11

      Damn, never know what you find out there

    • @MYshamanEYE
      @MYshamanEYE Pƙed 2 lety +21

      This brings out a very dark side of me,..
      The death penalty is far too humane, punishment should fit the crime,... personally, I think people like this should be housed in an open dorm prison where they are left to do whatever they want to each other without interference for a minimum of 5 years ,..THEN execute them by injection of acid into their veins that take hours upon hours to kill them.
      I spent 22 years in the service doing very bad things to very bad people, understand the horrific nature of violence that most can't comprehend.
      But this is pure evil,.. and the only people that can return that level of inhumanity is their fellow like-minded peers.
      Does thinking that make me a bad person, maybe,.. but it's honest as to how I feel they should be dealt with.

    • @ivyleaguesupport
      @ivyleaguesupport Pƙed 2 lety +5

      I'm from Modesto to and always see the cross as well.

    • @JavierPerez-zr2ic
      @JavierPerez-zr2ic Pƙed 2 lety +6

      @@MYshamanEYE the comment didn’t even mention that wtf

    • @jessicadavenport2808
      @jessicadavenport2808 Pƙed 2 lety +4

      This story, above all others messed with me the most. I feel horrible and ecstatic at the same time. All these people were tormented and murdered. But the girlfriend and daughters lived.......wtf....no one wins......I guess? Or do they? I just.....awful all the way around.
      Except for the survivors. My head is wrecked by this whole story.

  • @OU812cheeto
    @OU812cheeto Pƙed rokem +42

    I can't even imagine being a male and not having to worry, every single day, about being victimized by a male. This is something we women live with ALL of our lives. It's not something that is constantly gnawing at you but it's always in the back of your mind. Always. It's how we live. Men have no idea that this is the way it is for us.

    • @jenniferb.awesome
      @jenniferb.awesome Pƙed 11 měsĂ­ci +7

      It's even worse when little girls are molested at young age, it's strips them of their innocence and they learn very quickly how monstrous some men are. So even little girls worry about it and it stays with them into adulthood. Nearly every woman I've met, including myself have been molested before the age of 10. It's so sad and absolutely disgusting how often this happens and how many men do this.

    • @emul9957
      @emul9957 Pƙed 11 měsĂ­ci

      rather you than me

    • @YukiTombo
      @YukiTombo Pƙed 11 měsĂ­ci +13

      And then they have the audacity to be offended when we don't want to talk to them

    • @JaKrispy388
      @JaKrispy388 Pƙed 11 měsĂ­ci +1

      What about my mother who used to beat me and my brothers?

    • @OU812cheeto
      @OU812cheeto Pƙed 11 měsĂ­ci +7

      @@JaKrispy388 I'm terribly sorry your mother was such a horrible person. There is no excuse for that and she never should have had kids. But what I'm talking about is different. It's the 24-hour a day fear of rape which you, traumatized as you were, still know nothing about. Now that you're out of her clutches, luckily, your threat has passed. Ours remains for a lifetime.

  • @sean19
    @sean19 Pƙed 10 měsĂ­ci +4

    Love your stories. The detail you come out with and the enthusiasm you have is second to none. Thank you 🇬🇧🇬🇧🇬🇧🇬🇧

  • @leppurdsmomma7926
    @leppurdsmomma7926 Pƙed 2 lety +433

    I can’t imagine how his girlfriend felt knowing it was inevitably going to be her and her children he wanted

    • @citizenjane2087
      @citizenjane2087 Pƙed 2 lety +2

      I believe he didn't kill then as he knew he would be a suspect then for sure (self preservation of a killer).

  • @lordgremlin580
    @lordgremlin580 Pƙed 2 lety +440

    So we're not going to talk about how bravely Joie fought for her life. The fact that she was able to focus on protecting her neck and not let the adrenaline affect her is beyond astonishing to me. May her brave soul find peace.

    • @ViaSolisSJC
      @ViaSolisSJC Pƙed 2 lety +31

      I knew joie when she lived in Chico and remember when this was on the local news.. This was so beyond comprehension..

    • @commonsense571
      @commonsense571 Pƙed 2 lety +10

      @@ViaSolisSJC đŸŒč

    • @anti-ethniccleansing465
      @anti-ethniccleansing465 Pƙed 2 lety +43

      She obviously was a fighter
 If only she had had a gun!

    • @joshbowen2717
      @joshbowen2717 Pƙed 2 lety +16

      The adrenaline would be what makes her protect her neck, her instincts kicked in.

    • @christophermartinez4693
      @christophermartinez4693 Pƙed 2 lety +1

      No

  • @FahqTyrants
    @FahqTyrants Pƙed 5 měsĂ­ci +2

    When I saw Cedar Lodge something registered in my head, then about 10 minutes later it all came back to me. I stayed there almost right after this happened & it was creeping us out.

  • @marlenet5115
    @marlenet5115 Pƙed rokem +7

    I remember hearing this story when it happened, and that the mom and daughter were from Modesto, where I live. Hearing that he was Steven Staynor's brother was devastating! Steven died in a motorcycle accident before that happened. What happened to Carrie to make him so evil? Modesto was the highlight of that Era for a lot of other crimes if you remember (Lacy Peterson, Chandra Levy and the Petit murders to name a few).

  • @The_Nightingale
    @The_Nightingale Pƙed 2 lety +238

    "we had fun with this one" That is just a new level of cruel.... I can't imagine the terror these three women endured....

    • @dollbabyy13
      @dollbabyy13 Pƙed rokem +14

      two of them were children

    • @mariaduszak9064
      @mariaduszak9064 Pƙed rokem +1

      @@dollbabyy13 young women,your point?

    • @dollbabyy13
      @dollbabyy13 Pƙed rokem +8

      @@mariaduszak9064 not women

    • @dollbabyy13
      @dollbabyy13 Pƙed rokem +1

      @Yerba Terro lol ok yerba

    • @RyanAmero
      @RyanAmero Pƙed rokem +1

      What about the 4th one!? That was the worst of all... 😰

  • @beepbop416
    @beepbop416 Pƙed 2 lety +168

    Not enough credit is given to Joie she put up a fight before she died she kept out the car protected her neck and almost made it out to her cabin I’m proud of her for trying ❀

    • @hamedhosseini4938
      @hamedhosseini4938 Pƙed rokem +22

      For real. She was a heck of a woman you could tell. Living all by yourself I'm a cabin in middle of nowhere. I myself wouldn't even if you give me money. Rip

    • @pedrokantor3997
      @pedrokantor3997 Pƙed měsĂ­cem

      That's because she didn't live, so it was in vain.

  • @keldrickdunn6430
    @keldrickdunn6430 Pƙed 11 měsĂ­ci

    Wanna take a second before diving into this story to applaud the creativity in ways that you say "hit/abuse the like button" lmaooo they can be extremely simple but witty or overly complicated but lighthearted. On top of the immersion and storytelling, this has been my favorite channel to stumble into. AMAZING work all around!!

  • @justinepurdham7128
    @justinepurdham7128 Pƙed rokem

    What a horrific story. I love the way you tell these stories. They are so well described just like we are there. This story is so sad ending the lives of 4 women. Keep up the great work! 💯😊

  • @kyleeshapiro3728
    @kyleeshapiro3728 Pƙed rokem +738

    Cary’s brother was labeled a hero for saving himself and a little boy. Interesting how one brother can be a hero, and the other bother a monster. Look up Steven Stayner if you’re curious about his brother’s story.

    • @abisanflowers9108
      @abisanflowers9108 Pƙed rokem +37

      His brothers story is so tragic!

    • @thecodson504
      @thecodson504 Pƙed rokem +64

      Just like the booth brothers, one saved a Lincoln, and the other killed one

    • @gwenscott4783
      @gwenscott4783 Pƙed rokem +35

      My mom worked at a suit shop and she fit Steven for his wedding tux. Sadly, not long after he died in a motorcycle accident 😱 there’s a lifetime movie too called I think my name is Steven or my name it Steven

    • @rebeccahanson308
      @rebeccahanson308 Pƙed rokem +16

      I'm just watching the story of Steven I had heard about it many years ago and saw the movie but didnt even connect them on watching this till I saw the documentary .... so crazy like you said one is a hero one is a monster

    • @twinkletoes6290
      @twinkletoes6290 Pƙed rokem +24

      @@gwenscott4783 that’s so sad. His story is so tragic. When he married and had his baby, it was like he was getting that happy ending and life. Only for tragedy to strike so soon after. I feel for that family so much. They’ve been through hell.

  • @contentofcharacter
    @contentofcharacter Pƙed 2 lety +172

    Never, ever let someone take you to a secondary location. Things will only get worse. I feel so bad for this guy’s victims. I truly hope there is a special place in hell for people like him.

    • @sonyawhaley739
      @sonyawhaley739 Pƙed 2 lety +11

      Yes the cops even say it's better to fight because more than likely you're not going to live anyway

    • @chaybodnar4488
      @chaybodnar4488 Pƙed 2 lety +8

      Exactly that's what John Walsh said I remember him saying that on America's most wanted. Never let them take you to second location . I'm now 44 years old crazy what you remember as a kid.

    • @RepentfollowJesus
      @RepentfollowJesus Pƙed 2 lety +10

      I learned that from the videos they used to make you watch when.you got a job in retail. They say fall down and dont get up. If they shoot you there at least you have a chance of medical saving you but if you go with them its almost guaranteed you are toast.

    • @TheHamilton26
      @TheHamilton26 Pƙed 2 lety +1

      Yup! Fight with all you got and do it in a situation where you’re at least familiar with your surroundings.

    • @fourever2ne1
      @fourever2ne1 Pƙed 2 lety +2

      Especially if you’re a woman.My parents engrained into my brain growing up.You fight like hell if they try to take you to another place,you use anything and everything you can as a weapon

  • @itagamble8777
    @itagamble8777 Pƙed rokem +2

    I totally got something from this video my friends tell me I'm TOO trust worthy. Based on this video I will change my game up. Thank u for posting this I received a possibly a life saving message from this video

  • @martinmatassa5120
    @martinmatassa5120 Pƙed rokem

    A lot of people comment about how great you are at narrating a story which is understandable.
    I would like to thank you for literally putting your life on the line in a war that wasn’t yours to fight but you did and nearly paid the ultimate price which I sure some of your fellow warriors did. All I can say is thank you sir and kudos for finding your way back and through all the challenges of returning to face all the damages to your mind and body probably being as much of a challenge if not more than you found while battle your opponents.

  • @miss.spent-youth1454
    @miss.spent-youth1454 Pƙed 2 lety +333

    The way the fibres were tied to the 1st suspects but once they had a confession from the 2nd suspect it was declared that "OH, actually it turns out that those fibres were linked to a very common blanket that could belong to millions!" It makes me wonder how many false convictions police have pinned on innocent suspects

    • @digitalphreak
      @digitalphreak Pƙed 2 lety +19

      Forensics is pseudoscience. There are very few types of evidence that are definitive. DNA and dental records are a couple that are.

    • @seanmccarty1176
      @seanmccarty1176 Pƙed 2 lety +12

      @@digitalphreak it's true. Hair analysis had been proven to be hit or miss, and so has bite mark analysis. Many people now believe that all forensic science is infallible. This is not the case. All evidence can be contaminated, degraded, or mishandled, which drives down the accuracy of forensic evidence.

    • @EmphaticNod
      @EmphaticNod Pƙed 2 lety +4

      Don't even get me started on polygraphs...

    • @injusticeanywherethreatens4810
      @injusticeanywherethreatens4810 Pƙed 2 lety +4

      ACAB!

    • @nasty_barbiewetwet1419
      @nasty_barbiewetwet1419 Pƙed 2 lety +1

      A wholeeeeee aloooooottttttt!!!! Baby

  • @aadityapandey805
    @aadityapandey805 Pƙed 2 lety +573

    As a 7 year old kid , I just wanted to be an astronaut.

    • @durratulaishah3703
      @durratulaishah3703 Pƙed 2 lety +7

      Good

    • @monotonepeach
      @monotonepeach Pƙed 2 lety +30

      Stay in school and steer clear of shitty people. You can do it, kid.

    • @Elite.Rockers
      @Elite.Rockers Pƙed 2 lety +18

      Its for mature audiences ..What are you doing here..???

    • @shoxx7671
      @shoxx7671 Pƙed 2 lety +73

      @@Elite.Rockers he’s trying to say when he was 7 years old. Not saying he is 7 years old

    • @chillbill1687
      @chillbill1687 Pƙed 2 lety +2

      It's a joke lmao đŸ€Ł

  • @Shawntizzle42
    @Shawntizzle42 Pƙed rokem +1

    Usually when I’m watching CZcams videos I read comments simultaneously but I’m so intrigued listening to ur stories I can’t read comments while your talking lmao your content is so intriguing.

  • @futurenovajay2285
    @futurenovajay2285 Pƙed rokem +1

    I’m a trucker so I just listen to all your videos while driving, thank you for keeping me entertained and making me job easier mr. ballen

  • @poppabear9279
    @poppabear9279 Pƙed 2 lety +41

    I just took 38 minutes off work. I told my customers they’ll have to wait, because a Navy seal was telling me a story. Works every time. 😎

  • @ncranger78
    @ncranger78 Pƙed 2 lety +193

    I can’t get around the fact that at 7 years old he fantasize about killing someone...like wtf! He’s 7 years old! Why is a thought like that in his mind?

    • @roadiejames
      @roadiejames Pƙed 2 lety +26

      His brother was abducted by a sick man who kept him from 7 to 14 years old and he escaped when the man brought another child. The kid said nope this ain't happenin no nobody else mfr. He escaped with the younger child on his back.

    • @GrandPrix46
      @GrandPrix46 Pƙed 2 lety +27

      A lot of people like to blame anything they can, but the truth is some people are born sick and evil. Just like some people are born good natured.

    • @joshbutler822
      @joshbutler822 Pƙed 2 lety +10

      @@GrandPrix46 What about those of us that are both? I love kids and animals among others. But "people" like this guy would be fun to get positively medieval on.

    • @dannydetonator
      @dannydetonator Pƙed 2 lety +9

      @@GrandPrix46 Nobody's born neither. You really are joining the ignorant side of the world. The ignorance IS the greatest evil in the world. And most of it is concentrated in US.

    • @mrsevelync6900
      @mrsevelync6900 Pƙed 2 lety +2

      @@roadiejames wow I wish his brother would've turned out to be a hero like him

  • @karenwetherall7890
    @karenwetherall7890 Pƙed rokem +2

    Another very sad but interesting story, amazingly well told!! So glad I stumbled across you!!

  • @christhummel2751
    @christhummel2751 Pƙed 2 lety +838

    The fact that he’s scared of a man speaks volumes. What a pice of work.

    • @eighthdoctor
      @eighthdoctor Pƙed 2 lety +209

      My thoughts exactly; he hadn't the balls to do this to a woman and her 2 little daughters when another male was present but was ok to go after a lone woman and a group of 1 woman & 2 teenage girls. He's a disgusting coward.

    • @harrietharlow9929
      @harrietharlow9929 Pƙed 2 lety +97

      @@eighthdoctor Exactly. Individuals like this are all cowards and pick vulnerable people as victims.

    • @jaggirl
      @jaggirl Pƙed 2 lety +10

      A real piece of work..👍

    • @imajellybean4709
      @imajellybean4709 Pƙed 2 lety +3

      Look into Carey's family history....

    • @imajellybean4709
      @imajellybean4709 Pƙed 2 lety +2

      Carey Staynor

  • @carlosdelacruz7522
    @carlosdelacruz7522 Pƙed 2 lety +112

    The fact that this was his fantasy at age 7 shows some people are born psycho

    • @negadoge
      @negadoge Pƙed 2 lety +8

      Born evil more likely

    • @shouryajain8847
      @shouryajain8847 Pƙed 2 lety +1

      he was traumtized because his elder brother was kidnapped

    • @oystersoup3434
      @oystersoup3434 Pƙed 2 lety +18

      I don't think his brother being kidnapped would've put these urges in him. That's a weak excuse.

    • @shouryajain8847
      @shouryajain8847 Pƙed 2 lety

      @@oystersoup3434 well maybe but that can cause people to have problems (specially kids)

    • @renataangelov9435
      @renataangelov9435 Pƙed 2 lety +1

      Well, we do live in a fallen world...people are evil, immoral demonic ,satanic