That's Not A Healthy Relationship | Therapy Thursday | Issac Curry
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- If you have to lose yourself in order to secure that relationship, you may need change directions. Because you can't self-abandon your way into a healthy relationship.
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He preaching here. Just ended my relationship the beginning of this year. I had to repent for trusting man over God. God is just so forgiving and so gracious to me. This is the most peace I’ve had in five years. Ladies, take God at his word. He’ll never leave you and what’s coming is better than what’s been.
You are not by yourself, this is my last time setting, I will wait, even if it never comes it’s better than heartbreak 💔
I also ended my relationship earlier this year. This video captures all of it. I still miss him but we couldn’t continue as I was sinning. I’ll pray for you and please pray for me 🙂♥️ God bless
I'm grateful for THERAPY THURSDAY!
I'm proud of all of you all Being Intentional about your life and growth!!
Amen my sister 🙏 I was there about 3yrs ago and God is gooooood
You know the relationship is not healthy…
1. When you have to force the relationship.
2.When there is no relational direction or clarity.
3.When you can’t trust your partners word.
4.When your character is compromised.
5.When you need to be in control.
6.When there is no self control.
7.When there is no trace of Gods presence.
You cannot self-abandon your way into a healthy relationship🗣🗣🗣🗣‼️‼️
This!!!!
Man, you be punching me in the face everyweek and I keep coming back😂❤
😂😂😂 that's what you call growth! May God bless you with great big blessings. I pray you experience intimacy with Him like you've never had before.
U knw it's unhealthy when u cnt recognize u. Mmmm thts DEEP 💯
This needs to be preached! Alot of women in the church are getting in TERRIBLE relationships not centered in God. Including myself, bc of wanting a husband n children. N it never ends good! This touched my spirit! Nothing not centered in God, ever works out! Learning to trust God!
This is better than my therapist. Tuning in every week! Life changing! It’s so needed. I’m ready!!!
Yea, because this is healing your spirit 😊a therapy can't do that
I can surely agree... I haven't been to mine in months since watching Therapy Thursday
This is my 1st time streaming
Welcome
Welcome 🎉🎉
Welcome. You are now one of the cousins officially. LOL. God bless. ❤❤❤
This was incredible and no coincidence I came to this. All God. I was actually coming back to an older sermon about heartbreak and Gods timing after experiencing my own heartbreak with the same man again. Knowing already we are in an unhealthy relationship for many reasons. This was the live topic for today. Amazing
This isnt just in marital relationships!
Yeah. We have to choose to know our worth and identity in Christ. Jesus took everything that HE took for us because we have value. A lot of people need to get free from codependency, abandonment issues, rejection issues, or whatever the case may be. I pray your strength in the LORD in JESUS' name. I pray that you choose from this day forward to see yourself as GOD sees you IN JESUS' NAME. THE NAME ABOVE ALL NAMES. AMEN. ❤❤❤
THE JOY OF THE LORD IS YOUR STRENGTH. AMEN.
Ended the toxic relationship in January. That pain/heartbreak was so intense during/after the relationship. I lost sight of me but God never did. Even though it still hurts most days, I needed to hear this word as a reminder of where I was and where the Lord has me today.
First time, and I thank God that I am here.
Welcome, I'm proud of you for seeking something to feed you positively this afternoon. God Bless 🤍
This was goooooooddddd I cried the entire time. Marriage is in shambles and God just removed more layers off of me to do something with the information given. Thank u pastor
When you find that thing that’s off limits to God you’ve found your idol. Jesus keep us free from idols. Let us stand bold in our need for you and only you!
We live in a generation where there’s no accountability whatsoever I would not be surprised many people commenting on these comments section are the reason of the toxicity in their relationship but lack self awareness. People just assume that the other person is the problem maybe some therapy Thursday on accountability would be great too. If you toxic and lack self awareness watching this video does not make your partner toxic, it’s feeding your ego. ACCOUNTABILITY
This is the best comment here
@@alexdelhierro8914 thank you! It’s sad though.
This comment though, facts; I always ask myself “what part did I play?”. A relationship takes two. It’s always easy to see the others side & their faults, but it’s odd & rare to look at your own faults. I believe a lot of people see their faults or the part they played. And some may truly not. But, it’s just easier for some to push all the blame on the other. Bc true accountability causes for you to look at yourself & uncover the parts that even you might not like about yourself or the hand that you had in it. You have to see the whole picture to really take accountability. And what I’ve come to find, is that many are not capable of doing this or don’t want too. True accountability is taking account for yourself, you can acknowledge their role. But you won’t point fingers bc you know theirs 3 more pointing back at yourself.
@@keelahcovington4185 absolutely
When someone has to do all the work, that’s not healthy! Unmet expectations were unexpressed, that’s not healthy! Impatience will have you settling for substitutes!!!!!!😮 Help
Me Lord!!😢
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I'm in this right now, please pray for me to leave without looking back
This message really spoke to me. It’s like I feel real comforted and strong while receiving the word, but I still struggle daily to apply these very things. I’m 40, single, and I don’t have any children. No lie, it gets hard. I pray that I don’t make an idle out of a man or the idea of marriage. I struggle in my flesh with sex (fornication) at times. I don’t want to keep living in sin. Yet, I do understand that marriage is more than sex. I pray for peace and God’s will in this area of my life.
1st time streaming. I'm ready!
Welcome
This is my first time streaming
Aren't you glad you tuned in
When relationship not healthy
1. When you have to force the relationship
2. When there is no relational direction and clarity
3. When cannot trust your partner words
4. When your character is compromise
5. When you need to be in control
6. When there is no self control
7. When there no trace of Gods present
You can’t loss yourself into a healthy relationship
Choose You!!
Goodness. This really pierced my heart. The Lord is working because this topic has been surrounding me. I’m so glad I tuned in to the Lord who led me here. PRAISE THE LORD.
BEST video I have seen so far! I struggle with this so much! I put God in control now and the amazing things I am seeing happen. I've been stuck in this nasty cycle for the last 3 years. AMEN. "THIS IS NOT HEALTHY".
Preaching because this was me, thank you man of god for helping me through it
JESUS LOVES YOU ALL KEEP SEEKING HIM BROTHERS AND SISTERS
Realizing almost all my relationships are unhealthy. Abandoned myself so much I don’t even know where to start picking up the pieces.
This!🙏🏾
I know I’m in an unhealthy relationship but I’m chained and cannot get myself out. I have tried over and over. God bless you - thank you for this message.
🙏🙏💪🏾💪🏾
I pray that God leads you exactly where you’re supposed to be. Exit is on the way, health is on the way. Love peace & kindness are on the way. I love you. God loves you & he’s right there with you no matter what.
🙏🏾Praying for God to break that Soul tie .
Thank you ladies. Your goodness touches my heart deeply. God bless you.
You’re right, YOU can’t get yourself out, but God can. Don’t limit God and don’t say those things over yourself. It may seem hard, trust me, but don’t allow for your circumstances to ignore the promises that God promises you like the Israelites did in Exodus when facing cruel slavery (Exodus 6:9)
Thank you for this message. This is growth for me and reflection. Holding myself accountable! Working on healthy !
Was in so deep in this relationship that I was blind but the holy spirit speak to me.
It's not worth it. I cannot lose myself into a healthy relationship. I tried it. It will not work. I want healthy. Today is the day I leave you for me.
I listen every Thursday.. I love it here ❤
My 1st time here...I'm on a spiritual journey and trying to heal alot to things and I want to learn about God ❤
it’s not my first time, but i’ve been watching and learning and God has been using y’all for my therapy!! You’ve helped me so much and God is SSSOOOO Good!!❤️🔥❤️🔥❤️🔥❤️🔥❤️🔥❤️🔥❤️🔥
I am so grateful tonhave listened to this today. I want a healthy relationship, and I am willing to wait for what God has for me. Lord, help me not to settle, help me to be manipulative, or be manipulated. I pray for myself and all who are watching to obey and honor God. Keep God first in all we do! Thank you for this message.
Perfect timing thank you
I praise God He's bought me from all these things to standing in Him alone. I've been a solo parent co parenting with Jesus for 2.5 years and now I'll be staying in God's path for me. It's the only place true love and freedom is found.
This helped me put my feelings into words, thank you. Before watching this I actually saw this video and scrolled past because I knew God would speak to my situation and I wasn’t ready but I watched it and I want healthy so I let it go while watching this. Pray for me ❤
First time here 🙏
First Time Here
Wow. This really ministered to me. I just ended a bond with my ex boyfriend of 5 5 1/2 years. We both did the same patterns. I had to make a choice, God first, or this destructive behavior. I ask prayers of strength.
5 and 1/2 years
This message was directly for me Bro. Isaac..🙏🙌🏾
Thank you for this. Thank you for breaking it down. I need this Therapy Thursday!!!!!!
First timer ❤
Amen. I touch and agree.. I needed this message. THANK YOU FOR BEING A WILLING VESSEL.
This is my first time streaming. \o/ I was introduced to Therapy Thursday just today by a good friend. Watching and listening with expectation. To God be all the glory.
I Want Healthy I Desire Healthy Lord🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿
Thank you for this ! I love therapy thursday! It’s going to be hard to move on but I definitely needed this word.
This is so good and right on time. Thank you my brother for this message right here.
I'm ready I'm ready let's get to the WORD. I'm ready to grow. Amen.
1st time other than Instagram shotlrt encouraging words.
AMEN to all of it!!! Exactly why I’m getting a divorce.
This is My 1st Time Streaming.... Watching from Nairobi KENYA 🇰🇪🇰🇪 East Africa 🙏🌍
Welcome 🙏🏿
@@ladynature5 Thank you 🙏
Thanks Pastor Curry for delivering a powerful message!! 🙏❤️ Genesis 38:11-25
Thank you for this. This brought me to tears because you did not hold back. You were clear and I heard you sir. Thank you
I’m ready I’m ready let’s get to the word
✋🏽1st time Saint streamer
I’m ready
I’ve changed more thru these sessions in months versus years of seeking counsel in my own community
This is my first time here
Lord display to us what HEALTHY IS ❤🙏🏾
Talking about Gods timing !❤
Speak Lord!!!!! 😩😩😩😩🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽
YES...I am going to grow...thx be to GOD
This was my 1st time, this was so good. Thanks for the teaching❤
Great word wow I cant wait till Gods timing..
This was so good. Phew. God help everyone working through all these dynamics and keeping God first.
I'm ready 🤲🏼
This message blessed me. Thank you for being called to share His Word with us in such a compelling manner.
Amen 🙏
God knows I needed this!!
I want healthy 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
This my first time😊
AMEN🙏🏽
Give me healthy
I’m ready today
Wheehhh chille I just got out of a relationship just like this I needed to hear this 😮
This was extremely powerful! Thank you 🙏🏽
So recently, my husband and I separated and it’s been seven months since the separation. I went over to his house with my son and my daughter was there who is a toddler of course. Well, I was there. His dad who is a pastor was there also. For some reason he is still trying to see if I can go back to my husband is what I’m assuming because he told me to look at second Corinthians 13, which talks about love. I’m so happy I came across this video now for some reason. I do follow this channel, but the last Therapy Thursday I looked at was about unconditional love. Now here I am and he’s talking about relationships. I have to take my time and listen to this one. My problem is that I can be brutally honest and it doesn’t come out right to people, so in that moment when my husband dad was talking to me I just wanted to tell him to leave me alone. Anyways, I can’t wait to listen to this video. I know it’s going to be good and I just like how everyone is sharing about their relationships on here. It makes me not to feel alone.
After listening to whole session,I have an answer to give to my father-in-law the next time I see. Thank you God for sending this message and guiding my steps because when my father-in-law was trying to tell me about love through 2nd Corinthians 13;I stumbled a little bit. Thank you God helping me understand that my feelings for valid and my actions have a mindset of growth. My husband and I made the decision to separate and it was for a good reason. We communicated with each about our expectations and how the trust I had for my husband was comprised repeatedly. My father-in-law may be a man of God and a paster,but that doesn’t influence my actions and deciding to chose me for once and be an example for my kids. This message is just perfect❤ God your timing is always perfect.
Yes LORD
This is my first time watching
I'm Ready.
Amen
God i thank you for this ministry i almost made a bad descion i thank God for mercy may God continue to lift you and preserve you for this generation
I’m ready let’s get to the word
I am ready!
You are speaking to me, it hurts so bad I'm trying to move on but can't let go of the memories. May God give me peace of mind and strength to move on forgive and forget.
This is my first time watching therapy Thursday.
I want healthy.
Oouuu "impatience will have you settle for substitutes" mannnnn hit the hammer on the nail with that one!
WOW.
First time streaming. Been watching Jerry flowers and found this along the way. Been dealing with a heartbreak. Thank you the message. ❤
Give me healthy anyday
Right on time, I really needed to hear this and I've ended that toxic relationship
I needed this!!
I’m ready!!!
First time. In major MAJOR NEED of this!
This is good!! ♥️ You are speaking truth! Work on self worth…and self control will follow! Amen
Amen!
Pastor thank you for this and breaking it down!
I want healthy and God has healthy for me🙌🏾