I canât lie, I was guilty of feeling the same thing. If my baby was sulking it would make me like đ„șđ âI hurt his feelings and now he hates me for parenting himâ
It's 2022 you can't tell children no anymore. That's "child abuse" in fact I'd remove "no" from your vocabulary now that we have that sorted can I have your credit card info?
What I love about this channel is you donât let these owners off with the bs or bad behavior they try and feed you. You have a beautiful way of calling them out without coming off as a jerk. Definitely training humans at the same time.
Yes and no. Tom did make the mistake of encouraging the dog to jump and then punishing him when he well, jumped. The dog wasn't sulking as much as he was stressed. He should have rewarded the dog for not jumping and continued with training and drills in situations that could have him want to jump and corrected there, then reward for having all paws on the floor or not jumping at all
@@erinnnx0940 I think you should rewatch it. What do you think making kissy noises, slapping your thighs while looking down at the dog and callingvhis name does? Go educate yourself dude.
@@juliamagnusson8670 he litteraly said he would repeat it and get him to jump to then correct him. Use your fucking eyes. When the dog didn't jump he should have rewarded
I love my dog. Its like he gets the temptation to jump onto people and just doesn't and never does. He does a little hop right infront of people but he never lays paws on anyone or knocks into them. He doesn't know his own size. Hes clumsy. But hes polite âșïž
@@kizzyrichards593 Thatâs what it can feel like for some. Doesnât mean they donât like dogs it could be a bad memory, bad back, illness - we donât know. đâïž
I had to teach myself sometimes I have to sound a little deep and assertive. I might sound like an ass to other people but now my dog has stopped barking, whining, pulling and has increasingly good recall. She gets praise constantly and has made her first trip to petco by herself yesterdayđ
âHeâs sulking.â Give me a break đ You have to be strict so they learn. The dog is still happy. It learns that it still gets affection but when heâs polite, stays calm & keeps all 4 legs on the ground.
Yes. Authoritativeness is necessary. So many people I know are to afraid to put any loud intonation in their voice when talking to dogs doing things wrong. Then they pet them anyways. Like this dog is just thinking at this point "oh I get sweet talk and treats for stealing food." đźâđš
Amen Tom !!! I love that you used the basic knowledge of training to fix a bad habit. He won't continue to sulk. It just hurt his feelings for that minute. But now he knows what he can't do. But he will still get his lovings. â€
So... "I want an educated dog, but I don't want to feel bad for being assertive" Yeah, no, sorry pal, you can't have both... Also, that dog is sulking because your lack of assertiveness got him confused. There's nothing dogs like more than follow clear, coherent rules. It's literally how their brain work. They NEED structure to thrive. Been there, done that.
Theres using aversives, theres assertive, and then there's structure and clear communication. You can 100% train a dog without using (harsh) corrections, in fact any research that has been done on the topic has shown that aversives cause stress, anxiety and even increase aggression, none have shown to be more effective.
Structure doesn't necessarily mean corrections. I'm not against corrections, however Tom was a bit irresponsible here where he acctivly told the dog to jump but then corrected when the dog obviously jumped. What he should have done is reward the dog for not jumping and later create a cue that allows the dog to jump and then a cue to get off. You also don't need aversives in most dogs to give them structure. You just need tk be consistent and catch them before they make a mistake aswell as learning behavioral management
â@@llamalady I'm going to correct you here, no peer reviewd studies have shown purely positive reinforcement to be more effective when it comes to re teaching a dog a behvior. When it comes to teaching something new like sit or whatever where the dog is learning or heel where the dog is learning then ofc you use positive only, because reinforcment tells the dog what you want vs punishment tells the dig what you don't want. You can use both and still be very effective, there is a reason military and working dogs are taught using balanced methods because it works better and its much safer out in the field
I have worked with dogs for years really like the way you showed the owner. Many times I hear my dog has been to training and did great, but they still have issues. Keep up the good work
Iâm a 15 yo girl who loves training my dog and I would love to have a future in dog training.I think Iâm doing pretty good and people say soo.Your my idol Tomâ€ïžLove you!
If you are good at it, you will have a very lucrative career. You might consider uploading training videos, but that is certainly not the only route you can take. Good luck!
@@littlewigglemonster7691 exactly thatâs what makes me happy and itâs never enough like I can spend a full day training my dog and not get tired I taught him some cool tricks too like doing math by barking and reading commands from papers
I'm 50 and Tom is also my hero. I'm learning about dog training at my age. I wish I was 15. Girl, you've got an amazing future ahead of you. This works on all animals. Check out Joseph Carter The Mink Man's training vids. He went from horses, to hawks, to mink and dogs.
This guy understands what it takes to teach a dog the behaviourable boundries. the dog will only sulk untill he learned that he's new behaviour gets him the acceptance and postive response he so desire, that is why he jumps, but people will mostly reject a jumping dog, by diverting the dog off and away, but when a dog approach a human in a comfortable and respectful manner, he will mostly expierence a feeling of acceptance, and will therefore become a more secure, happy an content dog.
The simplest philosophy to dog training is to work out what you want the dog to do and what command best suits that aim, and then work out various situations for which it would be suitable, and practice them. In this case 'off' is the best command. Off = all four paws on the ground. The 'off' command can be used when the dog is on the sofa, has his paws on the table, is jumping up at people, etc. Stand = stand up on all four legs without moving. The 'stand' command can be used when the dog is lying or sitting down and you want it to stand up, when you are about to cross a road and you want the dog to pause from walking for a few seconds, even when the dog is running off to visit a neighbour's dog and not listening to you calling him back - the stand command causes him to pause in what he's doing giving you the opportunity to get in a recall command before he has the chance to decide that he's going to continue being naughty. Leave it = that that has you attention - ignore it, pretend it doesn't exist. The 'leave it' command can be used for the standard treat trick, for when the dog is paying too much of the wrong kind of attention to other dogs or even cats, even for a dog that is going crazy to greet a visitor and is at risk of tripping them up.
As a dog behaviorist, I have a problem with this video. The lady is calling the dog over and tapping her legs. That is an invitation to invade her personal space and jump up on her. Recalling a dog means come closer, but not to jump. I have a problem with the fact that the lady was tapping her legs, the dog jumps up, and then the dog is corrected. This type of training will confuse dogs.
Which unfortunately is how a lot of people greet other ppls dogs. It is 100% necessary for him to put the dog in a position to want to jump so that behavior can be corrected... Otherwise how is it going to work? Patting the legs is also the way a lot of ppl signal a dog to come here, it doesn't necessarily mean "jump on me".
@@erinnnx0940 Wow! My comment was made 9 months ago. I had to view the video again to remember why I commented!! When I saw the video, pay attention to the girl calling the dog over to her. She repeatedly taps her thighs and she says in a high-pitched and excited, loving manner, "Hi!". These are all signs for a dog to jump up on someone. Humans point or tap where they want their dog to go. Her repeatedly tapping her thighs and calling the dog over is a clear sign for the dog to invade her personal space (because he got permission from the person) and jump up (due to the tapping).
This is actually how I taught my dog to jump up When I was younger I taught her it as "hug" I was young and I realized it was a bad habit never did it again I had to retrain her out of it and couldn't get mad when she did it lol I can't stand when dog owners Don't take any accountability for their part in their dogs behavior. There are no bad dogs just owners, there are some dogs that are more hyper than some Maybe more aggressive than some and it is the duty of the owner to look into that before bringing said, breed home.
I'm SO glad I came a crossed this amazingly talented dog trainer! His videos have taught me NEW applicable training techniques, after YEARS of 'learned' ineffective ones- from other dog trainers/trainings. His affective communication & training style (w/both dogs & people đ), enthusiasm & love for the dogs, are definitely a God given gift. THANK YOU for working w/dogs & their owners! Saving both the dog from rehoming/shelters/potential of being put down, & frustrated owners left broken hearted after making that choice - due to under or ineffective dog training elsewheređ
How would you stop scratching? I have a 16 lb dog. When he is excited he will jump up but will also repeatedly scratch similar to the scratching motion some dogs do to their bed.
I needed to see this training. Samething my sweet boy dose. Hes so huge people call him a horse. He's so sweet n friendly n loves to jump on everyone he gets so excited.. my sweet boy Ty for this video. đ đđđ€
Great videos I already knew the leash trick stepping on leash with a tiny bit of slack but this works just as good, Iâll be referring alooot of friends to this videoâŠ
I had an outside dog, she was a farely large dog with thick fur who whimpered when we had to put her inside like if it was way too cold or something, and people called the police because they thought she shouldn't be outside saying we didn't feed her (which we 100% did) they went out of their way to give her chicken nuggets, of all things, which caused her to start being over weight.
QUESTION- Does this also work for a dog off of the leash in his own fenced in yard? Everytime I visit my Grandma her dog Ollie jumps all over me or any visitor (new person or a known person to him) and he gets very excited and that's fine but he is big and knocks my 3 kids over (anytime they are with me) and he scratches us because he is jumping on us. I want to train him to stop jumping on me, my kids and my Granny because she is old and I am scared he is going to knock her down eventually and she will not he able to get up on her own or get to her phone to get help. Please help me!!! Thank you!!!
Keep looking up videos and don't give up! A big mistake is pushing dogs down and away because they see that as playing. Teaching the dog they won't get any attention if they jump whether that's turning away and crossing your arms and immediately rewarding with attention when the dog stays on the ground and sits. You could teach the dog that you, the kids, etc will not pet or play with it until he sits. You are right to be very concerned for your grandmother being knocked over
I have a very well behaved dog cause I'm strict when I need to be. Funny enough, the same ppl that say I'm too strict with my dog are also the same ppl saying "I wish my dog was that well behaved. How did you train your dog to be like that?"
Lmao same. I'm surrounded by idiots who don't understand the importance of unspoken languages and being strict where you need to be. The better the dog understands what's good and bad the more they can enjoy their life without corrections and people bring as strict. If you don't communicate with the dog what's expected of it you can't complain when it doesn't act how you want. Like the guy said in the video. You can't NOT let them know when they're doing something wrong and expect them to behave how you want or expect. Dogs are pack animals, they need a decisive leader. Not giving them a leader or alpha isn't good for them when living as pets, worse than being strict. So many issues I've seen with dogs from being violent or being scared could have been solved if you just took the role of leader and were more strict. Anyone reading this, don't forget to socialize your dog from a young age. If you want them to know what to do in a situation then they need to be put in that situation in order to learn. An inexperienced or unsocialized dog is often a scared dog. Dogs lash out when they're scared so do what you can to put your dogs fears to rest!
Same goes for young kids. Letting em get away with it cause your tired that day or don't want a scene at the store and give in to the fit your essentially teaching them you will let them do it they just need to figure out how to get you that fed up only they don't realize it's bad when you get so mad they get their way....cause that's what they wanted so The lesson learned becomes how loud and long must I scream for a yes and undoing that is harder than teaching no means no period.
Not here. Dog is telling him he is not willfully disobeying. The dog is saying he just doesnât know what to do. Dog gets excited because when you belly rub the dog the dog loses the scared feeling. That dog has a long way to go before it is himself again.
The dog is not following your cues or you giving the wrong cues and the dog does not trust you. This is very common when there is very little interaction with the dog outside the home. The dog doesnât know that you provided the home, paid the bills, bought the food, and can judge how to act because in that home there is no way for the dog to realize how capable you are. Getting them out and doing things will build their trust in you and relieve some of the boredom some breeds get from being inside so much.
A work colleague was telling me about the absolute frustration she was experiencing while training her staffy (Americans call them pit bulls but they're Staffordshire terriers). She had brought in a professional trainer who actually told her that she should NEVER tell the dog NO for any reason. She was trying to do the right thing, it was her first dog, and she couldn't figure out why the dog wouldn't learn not to do things. I asked her if she ever told her daughter no? Of course she did, how else would the daughter know not to do something? I sit and state at her, just waiting for the connection to be made. Oh. Oh. I'm not telling the dog no. It doesn't know it's not supposed to do that. My response, yeah... and get yourself a different trainer.
Small thing I did with my dog (probably not right, I am not a trainer) I taught him a command that would let him know he is allowed to jump on me. This way he knew the standard was to not to, but if I asked him he could. Loads of fun.
My dog taught me what word make her listen. It's "good" and "bad". "Down!". "no!" "Stop!". All that doesn't work and never has. I noticed after her not responding to that she responded to bad and good the best. So now all I have to do is say bad and she looks at me like oh shit ok I won't. And when she does good she gets happy and smiles. I don't have to give her treats now she just simply wants to please us that's it. She's such a good dog (30 something percent American pitbull 30 something percent staff and 20 something percent mini schnauzer)
â@@danae1326 some of you people are so incredibly dense. Why would you say "try that and let me know"? This short video very clearly shows that the dog quickly learned to stop jumping after Tom was assertive with his command and used a gentle tugging of the leash.. do you really need to be shown TWICE?
This is why kids don't act right- their parents are afraid to hurt their feelingsđ€·ââïžđ€Šââïž This pet parent has to realize that the initial training might hurt their feelings a bit, but the result is that more people will want to interact with your dog and pet him and give him love when he isn't jumping up (and ruining their clothes, scratching their legs, hitting them in the crotch), which is rewarding to him (and to you).
I need this whole lesson for my bad baby. She's a 2 years old, 70 lbs pitbull. She's solid muscle and jumpy. We've got a lot of behavioral issues, but this is the scariest one with a large dog and a bad reputation breed.
I shall try to put the lead on when someone comes in the house. Sheâs fine outside -just any guest who comes over will have her kiss their face as soon as theyâre in! Wish me luck!
I held my dog's front paws when she jumped until she was a little uncomfortable. She never jumped on someone again. But she was a very quick learner and wanted to do the right behavior.
Everyone says I'm being mean when I tell my dog to go sit down when she's in the kitchen and we're cooking or doing stuff, but I don't want her in the kitchen with the food and hazardous think like a hot stove and oil boiling water etc. But I'm just correcting her and telling her that I want her to go sit down.. she listens very well and she's a very good dog.
Let dogs be dogs. If you get a dog that has behaviors you don't like then you and that dog aren't a good match. Correcting behaviors is a lose lose scenario. Redirect the behavior and turn it into something that makes you both happy.
I don't understand why people have a problem with dogs jumping on them. unless you don't want your clothes dirty or the dog has sharp nails. I had 3 dogs and only 1 dog never jumped on me when I got home. He just looked at me. He definitely wasn't my favorite
Were not professional other anything, but when we got a Boxer Dane mix, we did NOT want jumping. So we just never encouraged it or rewarded it. So we have a dog that doesn't jump. When people see her running towards them, they think she's going to jump and they hold their arms up. No, she's gonna wiggle her body around your legs and give the doggy version of a hugđ
Dogs don't really sulk, though. A lot of the times the issue i see is people assume their dog is sulking if they tell them to not do something, when the dog's just redirecting its attention or showing they mean no harm by retreating. Like, in this case it looks like the dog goes down to show submission to make it clear it wasn't attacking and just wants to be friendly. Dogs don't rly have that sort of need to emotionally manipulate people to let them do what they want.
My dog would jump and I would turn my back to him everytime he did it, when he stopped I would give him alot of attention. Didn't take long and he stopped jumping on people
Make sure you're being assertive and also let the dog know when they've been good. I'd suggest getting as many people as you can to consistently make corrections to the dog. You gotta be stern in letting them know and also ensure it doesn't turn into some sort of game for them. Try starting off with a solid stern "no" and maybe even focus on getting them to do something else instead of jumping on people. Train them to go up to people and sit and focus on that rather than the jumping. It's sometimes difficult to get a dog to realize what not to do but it's also easier to teach them what to do. Try and swap out the jumping for a different behavior. Teach something new and correct the old. Even if it's just sitting. They may already know how to sit but if you condition them to do that when coming up to people then it'll start to become the new habit. Hope this helped some!
Consistency is the most important thing. Progress doesn't always come quickly. If you manage to prevent your dogs jumping for long enough and correct that specific behavior then they'll eventually forget it in the past. Tiring out your dog a bit before training is also a good idea. Sometimes their energy levels overtake their common sense. Being tired also helps prevent the jumping. If you reward not jumping and correct it when they do they'll eventually get it. Try calling them to you like this person did to convince the dog to jump up but correct it when it happens. The dog will eventually understand that jumping on you isn't what you want or what you're asking for.
I had a jumper and do I know how the guy feels. He's a Pointer so they're long and gangly (lol) so I was more worried about him hurting himself more than anything.
When you don't correct , you will not get results, Being told No is ok , they'll think the next time to do something differently, I agree, then love them after learning ..just like kids , they'll even love u more for that correction â€ïž
I need help with this. I have a boxer/walker hound. And she literally wants to climb people đ€Šââïžđ and I correct her but she just doesn't listen to me? How I do I be more assertive without scaring her?
Well granted itâs usually the owner(me) that needs to be trained more but our 5 month old lab is constantly jumping and nipping. Weâve used the word down not off and mean it esp w/the nipping and it doesnât / hasnât worked.
My German shepherdâs instead of jumping will come flying by and wave their paws in the air like a stallion rearing đ but they never make contact. After they do that a few times they will come over and lean on you though đ
But what do I do when people grab my dog and start hugging him when he jumps on them? Cuz I try to correct him and they just grab him and say they don't mind and I get so frustrated by those people and I try tp say really nicely to let him go and that I don't want him to jump.
Yeah I feel that. It sucks when youâre the only one trying to train your dog and it feels like everyone else doesnât listen so the training doesnât move forward
Very frustrating. I explain that I'm teaching manners. I invite distractions, my dog should only be concerned about what I want, not strangers. Practice with confidence. Best of luck.
I've learned be nice but blunt with facts (13years rehabilitating dog.) "I get you don't mind Fido jumping and thats great I'm glad you don't. Unfortunately Most people Do mind. It is also dangerous for him to be doing. So please stop hindering Fidos progress by giving him affection for doing a wrong/bad action/behavior. Most people go "oh" "I see" or something like that. For those that come at me for being blunt or claim i was rude. I say just say "If Fido jumps on the wrong person and Fido accidentally hurts them by scratching or knocking them over it's his life on the line and my pocket book. If I sound rude thats because those trash people exist. Unlike you Kind people who don't mind. TI thank you for understanding. Obviously the best solution is to be proactive and keep an eye out and change your walking path so you don't pass by people until this habitis fixed. Or Second best it place yourself between your dog and the on coming people. If they ask hey can I pet. If a yes. Say yes but we are working on some behavior if he jumps on you Please ignore him so I can correct him. This ones harder to do on the fly when you haven't been preemptively judging people who want to touch the dog for years. As I get this stuff over with before they are even within 15 20 feet of me most time. Body language reading is key.
Title: stop any dog from jumping in 1 second. Trainerâs opening statement: look at this, it took literally 2 1/2 minutes and heâs not going to jump again. đ
I tried this my pup I 13 weeks and I got him at 9 weeks he is jumping alot but afraid of men charges after food ALWAYS like a bullet. And nips. I broke him from.nipping me and the kids but he still losses his mind he is a crazy acting dog. H8gh strung like I never saw before in 60 years. Skidish as well. But loves me OF COURSE IM FEMALE. I'm have a hard time with this one. And I've watched all the videos from everyone and tried them all nothing is qorking
Dog are direct descendants of wolves.. wolves know there place in the pack.. you have to teach your dog his place in your pack.. that mean showing him right from wrong in his place in the pack
Tomâs comment is EVERYTHING! âIf you donât teach him whatâs wrong and right you canât complain when he does something wrongâ If this guy has kids I have a feeling he needs parenting advice too.
It's actually easy to teach a dog, it's the humans that are hard to teach because we don't want to be 'mean'. Not one of our animals bites, for any reason, and that's because of simply training. If you're playing and they start chewing on your fingers, you hold onto their muzzle with your other fingers for a second, just long enough for them to know they're not in control. No pressure, nothing that hurts. Do it 3 or 4 times and you can tell they're going...I don't like that anymore. And if they try again, you do it again until it stops. One of our cats actually licks when hes angry because our animals don't bite. Same thing with the leash tug, it's MINOR physical correction. They go..oh, that's not comfy, pair that with a verbal cue like a strong "Down/off" and now they're in trouble. Do that multiple times, correcting the behavior EVERY time, and they learn "My alpha won't like that, I don't want to get in trouble so I wont". They'll still need correcting periodically after, you just need to be consistent. Positive reinforcement after they do the right thing too, treats or praise.
It seems early for this situation. Maybe itâs just an edit problem. Using temptation to lock in behavior and actions is the cornerstone of all training. Once something has been taught and learned we add distractions to mimic real world. Especially distractions that tend to kick the dogs drives.
Ok so my step daughter has a Pitt and she literally does flying jumps into people. I have been working with her to not jump but itâs like her brain is in hyper drive how do I help her not do this. Iâm afraid that if she keeps this up she will eventually hurt someone bad and end up being put down. Sheâs a great dog when sheâs calm but sheâs got a lot of pent up energy
See the at the second it happens correction most canât understand how important that is. Really most people are generally bad at communication period and that is the issue. They are dead in that regard and are just floating by in life.
I think what he did was use the special correcting collar (it tightens inside when you pull) as well as being consistently assertive about the behaviour and rewarding the dog for getting it right. But can't be sure just from this.
Most of what Tom teaches is in his videos. Watch them all. But you'll probably need to watch other trainers too, Toms specialty is problem dogs. We all need to start with basic obedience. Best of luck. â€đđ
What about asking "WHY"? With cats e.g. they want your head and theirs on the same height. They don't do so when you go to their level/height. Would explain why he feels comfy with the girl kneeing, right?
Itâs not about what the dog wants. Itâs about the dog recognizing the behavior it is doing is not acceptable and the owner correcting that behavior to teach the dog to not only not jump up, but to listen to what the owner tells the dog to do and listen to the command without question.
Dog brain: wait, I can just lay down and they'll rub my belly? Deal
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win win
That had to be a brain blast for him. Like "woahhhh"
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âHeâs sulking!â Like any kid who gets told nođ€Ł
Not the same at all
@@staymadloser7754 I beg to differ, I work with kids a lot and no recovers the same reaction as the dogâs
They are developmentally kinda like toddlers đ
I canât lie, I was guilty of feeling the same thing. If my baby was sulking it would make me like đ„șđ âI hurt his feelings and now he hates me for parenting himâ
It's 2022 you can't tell children no anymore. That's "child abuse" in fact I'd remove "no" from your vocabulary now that we have that sorted can I have your credit card info?
What I love about this channel is you donât let these owners off with the bs or bad behavior they try and feed you. You have a beautiful way of calling them out without coming off as a jerk. Definitely training humans at the same time.
Yes and no. Tom did make the mistake of encouraging the dog to jump and then punishing him when he well, jumped. The dog wasn't sulking as much as he was stressed.
He should have rewarded the dog for not jumping and continued with training and drills in situations that could have him want to jump and corrected there, then reward for having all paws on the floor or not jumping at all
â@@the_sky_is_blue1239 maybe you should rewatch the video. Never once did he encourage the dog to jump.
@@erinnnx0940 I think you should rewatch it. What do you think making kissy noises, slapping your thighs while looking down at the dog and callingvhis name does?
Go educate yourself dude.
â@@the_sky_is_blue1239he never encouraged him to jump. Just told the owners to greet him as they normally would
@@juliamagnusson8670 he litteraly said he would repeat it and get him to jump to then correct him. Use your fucking eyes. When the dog didn't jump he should have rewarded
I love my dog. Its like he gets the temptation to jump onto people and just doesn't and never does. He does a little hop right infront of people but he never lays paws on anyone or knocks into them. He doesn't know his own size. Hes clumsy. But hes polite âșïž
Lol "lays paws on anyone"
You got a great doggo! Give 'em a belly scratch from me for being such a good doggo!
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Thatâs what it can feel like for some. Doesnât mean they donât like dogs it could be a bad memory, bad back, illness - we donât know. đâïž
@@kizzyrichards593keep your paws off people or youâre going to jail
I had to teach myself sometimes I have to sound a little deep and assertive. I might sound like an ass to other people but now my dog has stopped barking, whining, pulling and has increasingly good recall. She gets praise constantly and has made her first trip to petco by herself yesterdayđ
âHeâs sulking.â Give me a break đ You have to be strict so they learn. The dog is still happy. It learns that it still gets affection but when heâs polite, stays calm & keeps all 4 legs on the ground.
Yes. Authoritativeness is necessary. So many people I know are to afraid to put any loud intonation in their voice when talking to dogs doing things wrong. Then they pet them anyways. Like this dog is just thinking at this point "oh I get sweet talk and treats for stealing food." đźâđš
He, not it.
Exactly. This is how parents need to teach their kids too.
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@@heelercs stop it
Amen Tom !!! I love that you used the basic knowledge of training to fix a bad habit. He won't continue to sulk. It just hurt his feelings for that minute. But now he knows what he can't do. But he will still get his lovings. â€
So...
"I want an educated dog, but I don't want to feel bad for being assertive"
Yeah, no, sorry pal, you can't have both...
Also, that dog is sulking because your lack of assertiveness got him confused.
There's nothing dogs like more than follow clear, coherent rules. It's literally how their brain work. They NEED structure to thrive.
Been there, done that.
Theres using aversives, theres assertive, and then there's structure and clear communication. You can 100% train a dog without using (harsh) corrections, in fact any research that has been done on the topic has shown that aversives cause stress, anxiety and even increase aggression, none have shown to be more effective.
Structure doesn't necessarily mean corrections. I'm not against corrections, however Tom was a bit irresponsible here where he acctivly told the dog to jump but then corrected when the dog obviously jumped.
What he should have done is reward the dog for not jumping and later create a cue that allows the dog to jump and then a cue to get off.
You also don't need aversives in most dogs to give them structure. You just need tk be consistent and catch them before they make a mistake aswell as learning behavioral management
â@@llamalady I'm going to correct you here, no peer reviewd studies have shown purely positive reinforcement to be more effective when it comes to re teaching a dog a behvior.
When it comes to teaching something new like sit or whatever where the dog is learning or heel where the dog is learning then ofc you use positive only, because reinforcment tells the dog what you want vs punishment tells the dig what you don't want.
You can use both and still be very effective, there is a reason military and working dogs are taught using balanced methods because it works better and its much safer out in the field
Dog makes trade deal " I : give you no jumps, You: give me belly rubs "
I have worked with dogs for years really like the way you showed the owner. Many times I hear my dog has been to training and did great, but they still have issues. Keep up the good work
Iâm a 15 yo girl who loves training my dog and I would love to have a future in dog training.I think Iâm doing pretty good and people say soo.Your my idol Tomâ€ïžLove you!
If you are good at it, you will have a very lucrative career. You might consider uploading training videos, but that is certainly not the only route you can take. Good luck!
@@mistere5857 thanks a lot â€ïž
Good luck!
If itâs your passion and what makes you happy sink your teeth in and donât let go!
@@littlewigglemonster7691 exactly thatâs what makes me happy and itâs never enough like I can spend a full day training my dog and not get tired I taught him some cool tricks too like doing math by barking and reading commands from papers
I'm 50 and Tom is also my hero. I'm learning about dog training at my age. I wish I was 15. Girl, you've got an amazing future ahead of you. This works on all animals. Check out Joseph Carter The Mink Man's training vids. He went from horses, to hawks, to mink and dogs.
This guy understands what it takes to teach a dog the behaviourable boundries. the dog will only sulk untill he learned that he's new behaviour gets him the acceptance and postive response he so desire, that is why he jumps, but people will mostly reject a jumping dog, by diverting the dog off and away, but when a dog approach a human in a comfortable and respectful manner, he will mostly expierence a feeling of acceptance, and will therefore become a more secure, happy an content dog.
The simplest philosophy to dog training is to work out what you want the dog to do and what command best suits that aim, and then work out various situations for which it would be suitable, and practice them.
In this case 'off' is the best command.
Off = all four paws on the ground.
The 'off' command can be used when the dog is on the sofa, has his paws on the table, is jumping up at people, etc.
Stand = stand up on all four legs without moving.
The 'stand' command can be used when the dog is lying or sitting down and you want it to stand up, when you are about to cross a road and you want the dog to pause from walking for a few seconds, even when the dog is running off to visit a neighbour's dog and not listening to you calling him back - the stand command causes him to pause in what he's doing giving you the opportunity to get in a recall command before he has the chance to decide that he's going to continue being naughty.
Leave it = that that has you attention - ignore it, pretend it doesn't exist.
The 'leave it' command can be used for the standard treat trick, for when the dog is paying too much of the wrong kind of attention to other dogs or even cats, even for a dog that is going crazy to greet a visitor and is at risk of tripping them up.
As a dog behaviorist, I have a problem with this video. The lady is calling the dog over and tapping her legs. That is an invitation to invade her personal space and jump up on her. Recalling a dog means come closer, but not to jump. I have a problem with the fact that the lady was tapping her legs, the dog jumps up, and then the dog is corrected. This type of training will confuse dogs.
Absolutely!
Which unfortunately is how a lot of people greet other ppls dogs. It is 100% necessary for him to put the dog in a position to want to jump so that behavior can be corrected... Otherwise how is it going to work? Patting the legs is also the way a lot of ppl signal a dog to come here, it doesn't necessarily mean "jump on me".
@@erinnnx0940 Wow! My comment was made 9 months ago. I had to view the video again to remember why I commented!! When I saw the video, pay attention to the girl calling the dog over to her. She repeatedly taps her thighs and she says in a high-pitched and excited, loving manner, "Hi!". These are all signs for a dog to jump up on someone. Humans point or tap where they want their dog to go. Her repeatedly tapping her thighs and calling the dog over is a clear sign for the dog to invade her personal space (because he got permission from the person) and jump up (due to the tapping).
I noticed this right away too lol
This is actually how I taught my dog to jump up When I was younger I taught her it as "hug" I was young and I realized it was a bad habit never did it again
I had to retrain her out of it and couldn't get mad when she did it lol
I can't stand when dog owners
Don't take any accountability for their part in their dogs behavior.
There are no bad dogs just owners, there are some dogs that are more hyper than some
Maybe more aggressive than some and it is the duty of the owner to look into that before bringing said, breed home.
Heâs not sulking, heâs submitting. If you donât teach submission you wonât have a well behaved dog. â€
Beautiful
Thank you for these free lessons
YESSSS same thing with parenting!!!!
I'm gonna need the full episode of this.
Full video is on his channel uploaded about 4 weeks ago
I'm SO glad I came a crossed this amazingly talented dog trainer! His videos have taught me NEW applicable training techniques, after YEARS of 'learned' ineffective ones- from other dog trainers/trainings. His affective communication & training style (w/both dogs & people đ), enthusiasm & love for the dogs, are definitely a God given gift.
THANK YOU for working w/dogs & their owners! Saving both the dog from rehoming/shelters/potential of being put down, & frustrated owners left broken hearted after making that choice - due to under or ineffective dog training elsewheređ
You said "off" and that was it? That was the lesson?!
The small jerk of the leash and the tone of voice is what's important. Word association builds over time. Body language is also important.
Why didnât I think of that?!đ€Ł
No. This is why not everybody deserves to own a dog.
@@aBadWizard who are you talking too? You deleted the response tag...
@@gibblets17 your reply to OP doesn't have it either, genius....
How would you stop scratching? I have a 16 lb dog. When he is excited he will jump up but will also repeatedly scratch similar to the scratching motion some dogs do to their bed.
So cute dog
I needed to see this training. Samething my sweet boy dose. Hes so huge people call him a horse. He's so sweet n friendly n loves to jump on everyone he gets so excited.. my sweet boy
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Great videos I already knew the leash trick stepping on leash with a tiny bit of slack but this works just as good, Iâll be referring alooot of friends to this videoâŠ
I had an outside dog, she was a farely large dog with thick fur who whimpered when we had to put her inside like if it was way too cold or something, and people called the police because they thought she shouldn't be outside saying we didn't feed her (which we 100% did) they went out of their way to give her chicken nuggets, of all things, which caused her to start being over weight.
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that guy is what wrong with people now....a small correction and they feel bad
I hope he doesnât treat children like this.đ€ŠđŒââïž
Yeah i wonder what theyâre like as parents đ€Ł probably create spoiled little brats đ€Ł
Snow flake producers.
The problem is people treat dogs like children⊠like my wife does and REFUSE to recognise that dogs have different needs
Pathetic
Same issue with my dog!! So glad I saw this videp
QUESTION-
Does this also work for a dog off of the leash in his own fenced in yard?
Everytime I visit my Grandma her dog Ollie jumps all over me or any visitor (new person or a known person to him) and he gets very excited and that's fine but he is big and knocks my 3 kids over (anytime they are with me) and he scratches us because he is jumping on us. I want to train him to stop jumping on me, my kids and my Granny because she is old and I am scared he is going to knock her down eventually and she will not he able to get up on her own or get to her phone to get help.
Please help me!!! Thank you!!!
Keep looking up videos and don't give up! A big mistake is pushing dogs down and away because they see that as playing. Teaching the dog they won't get any attention if they jump whether that's turning away and crossing your arms and immediately rewarding with attention when the dog stays on the ground and sits. You could teach the dog that you, the kids, etc will not pet or play with it until he sits. You are right to be very concerned for your grandmother being knocked over
More people need to teach their dogs this. Not everyone wants a disgusting dog on them.
I have a very well behaved dog cause I'm strict when I need to be. Funny enough, the same ppl that say I'm too strict with my dog are also the same ppl saying "I wish my dog was that well behaved. How did you train your dog to be like that?"
Lmao same. I'm surrounded by idiots who don't understand the importance of unspoken languages and being strict where you need to be. The better the dog understands what's good and bad the more they can enjoy their life without corrections and people bring as strict.
If you don't communicate with the dog what's expected of it you can't complain when it doesn't act how you want. Like the guy said in the video. You can't NOT let them know when they're doing something wrong and expect them to behave how you want or expect. Dogs are pack animals, they need a decisive leader. Not giving them a leader or alpha isn't good for them when living as pets, worse than being strict.
So many issues I've seen with dogs from being violent or being scared could have been solved if you just took the role of leader and were more strict.
Anyone reading this, don't forget to socialize your dog from a young age. If you want them to know what to do in a situation then they need to be put in that situation in order to learn. An inexperienced or unsocialized dog is often a scared dog. Dogs lash out when they're scared so do what you can to put your dogs fears to rest!
Nice job Tom!
Same goes for young kids. Letting em get away with it cause your tired that day or don't want a scene at the store and give in to the fit your essentially teaching them you will let them do it they just need to figure out how to get you that fed up only they don't realize it's bad when you get so mad they get their way....cause that's what they wanted so The lesson learned becomes how loud and long must I scream for a yes and undoing that is harder than teaching no means no period.
So simple and effective!!! Negative behavior BAD!!!
Belly rubs GOOD!!!!
Not here. Dog is telling him he is not willfully disobeying. The dog is saying he just doesnât know what to do. Dog gets excited because when you belly rub the dog the dog loses the scared feeling. That dog has a long way to go before it is himself again.
Doggos so cute
Loved the full epi. Is your treat bag on amazon? Love the bright colors!
If you can get my dog to quit the baking constantly, loudly, even after people are in the house for a while. Even us, id be grateful forever
The dog is not following your cues or you giving the wrong cues and the dog does not trust you. This is very common when there is very little interaction with the dog outside the home. The dog doesnât know that you provided the home, paid the bills, bought the food, and can judge how to act because in that home there is no way for the dog to realize how capable you are. Getting them out and doing things will build their trust in you and relieve some of the boredom some breeds get from being inside so much.
Enzo is soo cute!
Love this!! Itâs a respect thing!
A work colleague was telling me about the absolute frustration she was experiencing while training her staffy (Americans call them pit bulls but they're Staffordshire terriers). She had brought in a professional trainer who actually told her that she should NEVER tell the dog NO for any reason. She was trying to do the right thing, it was her first dog, and she couldn't figure out why the dog wouldn't learn not to do things.
I asked her if she ever told her daughter no? Of course she did, how else would the daughter know not to do something? I sit and state at her, just waiting for the connection to be made. Oh. Oh. I'm not telling the dog no. It doesn't know it's not supposed to do that.
My response, yeah... and get yourself a different trainer.
Small thing I did with my dog (probably not right, I am not a trainer) I taught him a command that would let him know he is allowed to jump on me. This way he knew the standard was to not to, but if I asked him he could.
Loads of fun.
"Now he's sulking." I actually feel bad for dogs who have these owners because they'll never be trained properly. Dogs like having structure.
My dog taught me what word make her listen. It's "good" and "bad". "Down!". "no!" "Stop!". All that doesn't work and never has. I noticed after her not responding to that she responded to bad and good the best. So now all I have to do is say bad and she looks at me like oh shit ok I won't. And when she does good she gets happy and smiles. I don't have to give her treats now she just simply wants to please us that's it. She's such a good dog (30 something percent American pitbull 30 something percent staff and 20 something percent mini schnauzer)
too bad he didn't actually show how to teach the dog this. just stating "off" to the dog doesn't do the trick!
He was assertive in his command and in pulling the dog back with the lead at the very SECOND the dog attempted the unwanted behavior.
@@Jadebones yeah ok, try that and let me know
@Danae this is a small snippet of a much longer video, he does teach exactly how to do this.
Then watch his videos not the shorts. Problem solved.
â@@danae1326 some of you people are so incredibly dense. Why would you say "try that and let me know"? This short video very clearly shows that the dog quickly learned to stop jumping after Tom was assertive with his command and used a gentle tugging of the leash.. do you really need to be shown TWICE?
This is why kids don't act right- their parents are afraid to hurt their feelingsđ€·ââïžđ€Šââïž This pet parent has to realize that the initial training might hurt their feelings a bit, but the result is that more people will want to interact with your dog and pet him and give him love when he isn't jumping up (and ruining their clothes, scratching their legs, hitting them in the crotch), which is rewarding to him (and to you).
I need this whole lesson for my bad baby. She's a 2 years old, 70 lbs pitbull. She's solid muscle and jumpy. We've got a lot of behavioral issues, but this is the scariest one with a large dog and a bad reputation breed.
"He's sulking now"
He's a dog, dog. Chill out.
I shall try to put the lead on when someone comes in the house. Sheâs fine outside -just any guest who comes over will have her kiss their face as soon as theyâre in!
Wish me luck!
You train them with the leash, once taught they wonât jump off leash..
That last one she was crouched though.
I held my dog's front paws when she jumped until she was a little uncomfortable. She never jumped on someone again. But she was a very quick learner and wanted to do the right behavior.
This guy seems good
A dog is a reflection of his owner.
Unfortunately many ppl have dogs for the love and companionship. Just as there are no bad dogs, most ppl aren't bad either.
@@bettyvanderhooven-schmaasc4235 I stand but what I wrote. I did not say anything about people.
Just let go of old ways and beliefs..itâll serve you trust it
What equipment are you using?
Taught my dog this after watching this video, she learned in two minutes
Everyone says I'm being mean when I tell my dog to go sit down when she's in the kitchen and we're cooking or doing stuff, but I don't want her in the kitchen with the food and hazardous think like a hot stove and oil boiling water etc. But I'm just correcting her and telling her that I want her to go sit down.. she listens very well and she's a very good dog.
I missed that second where he explains what to always do
Let dogs be dogs. If you get a dog that has behaviors you don't like then you and that dog aren't a good match. Correcting behaviors is a lose lose scenario. Redirect the behavior and turn it into something that makes you both happy.
the difference in correction pops is a perfect example!
The dog owner needs training!đ
It's like Cesar millan used to say he rehabilitates dogs but he trains the owners lol
With my 75 pound (almost no body fat) basset hound, my family just bent over every time we came back to him. Works just as well.
I don't understand why people have a problem with dogs jumping on them. unless you don't want your clothes dirty or the dog has sharp nails. I had 3 dogs and only 1 dog never jumped on me when I got home. He just looked at me. He definitely wasn't my favorite
âMy biggest problem isâŠâŠbut I like itâ.
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Were not professional other anything, but when we got a Boxer Dane mix, we did NOT want jumping. So we just never encouraged it or rewarded it. So we have a dog that doesn't jump. When people see her running towards them, they think she's going to jump and they hold their arms up. No, she's gonna wiggle her body around your legs and give the doggy version of a hugđ
You can also knee the dog when it jumps if it doesnât understand off
Dog training dude - what cargo pants are those? Been looking for the ones w the security strap at the bottom
Dogs don't really sulk, though. A lot of the times the issue i see is people assume their dog is sulking if they tell them to not do something, when the dog's just redirecting its attention or showing they mean no harm by retreating. Like, in this case it looks like the dog goes down to show submission to make it clear it wasn't attacking and just wants to be friendly. Dogs don't rly have that sort of need to emotionally manipulate people to let them do what they want.
My dog would jump and I would turn my back to him everytime he did it, when he stopped I would give him alot of attention. Didn't take long and he stopped jumping on people
Interesting..
I've done this dozens of times, and my pup Still will jump up on people.
Sooo...
Is there something different?
Make sure you're being assertive and also let the dog know when they've been good. I'd suggest getting as many people as you can to consistently make corrections to the dog. You gotta be stern in letting them know and also ensure it doesn't turn into some sort of game for them.
Try starting off with a solid stern "no" and maybe even focus on getting them to do something else instead of jumping on people. Train them to go up to people and sit and focus on that rather than the jumping. It's sometimes difficult to get a dog to realize what not to do but it's also easier to teach them what to do.
Try and swap out the jumping for a different behavior. Teach something new and correct the old. Even if it's just sitting. They may already know how to sit but if you condition them to do that when coming up to people then it'll start to become the new habit.
Hope this helped some!
Consistency is the most important thing. Progress doesn't always come quickly. If you manage to prevent your dogs jumping for long enough and correct that specific behavior then they'll eventually forget it in the past.
Tiring out your dog a bit before training is also a good idea. Sometimes their energy levels overtake their common sense. Being tired also helps prevent the jumping. If you reward not jumping and correct it when they do they'll eventually get it. Try calling them to you like this person did to convince the dog to jump up but correct it when it happens. The dog will eventually understand that jumping on you isn't what you want or what you're asking for.
I had a jumper and do I know how the guy feels. He's a Pointer so they're long and gangly (lol) so I was more worried about him hurting himself more than anything.
When you don't correct , you will not get results, Being told No is ok , they'll think the next time to do something differently, I agree, then love them after learning ..just like kids , they'll even love u more for that correction â€ïž
I need help with this. I have a boxer/walker hound. And she literally wants to climb people đ€Šââïžđ and I correct her but she just doesn't listen to me?
How I do I be more assertive without scaring her?
Well granted itâs usually the owner(me) that needs to be trained more but our 5 month old lab is constantly jumping and nipping. Weâve used the word down not off and mean it esp w/the nipping and it doesnât / hasnât worked.
My German shepherdâs instead of jumping will come flying by and wave their paws in the air like a stallion rearing đ but they never make contact. After they do that a few times they will come over and lean on you though đ
I wish I could get better in training my dogs. Especially my rescue dog. Hopefully, I will learn a few techniques from watching you.
But what do I do when people grab my dog and start hugging him when he jumps on them? Cuz I try to correct him and they just grab him and say they don't mind and I get so frustrated by those people and I try tp say really nicely to let him go and that I don't want him to jump.
Yeah I feel that. It sucks when youâre the only one trying to train your dog and it feels like everyone else doesnât listen so the training doesnât move forward
You have to be assertive and almost a âdickâ. When they say they donât mind just say that YOU mind.
Very frustrating. I explain that I'm teaching manners. I invite distractions, my dog should only be concerned about what I want, not strangers.
Practice with confidence. Best of luck.
I've learned be nice but blunt with facts (13years rehabilitating dog.)
"I get you don't mind Fido jumping and thats great I'm glad you don't. Unfortunately Most people Do mind. It is also dangerous for him to be doing. So please stop hindering Fidos progress by giving him affection for doing a wrong/bad action/behavior.
Most people go "oh" "I see" or something like that.
For those that come at me for being blunt or claim i was rude.
I say just say "If Fido jumps on the wrong person and Fido accidentally hurts them by scratching or knocking them over it's his life on the line and my pocket book. If I sound rude thats because those trash people exist. Unlike you Kind people who don't mind. TI thank you for understanding.
Obviously the best solution is to be proactive and keep an eye out and change your walking path so you don't pass by people until this habitis fixed.
Or
Second best it place yourself between your dog and the on coming people.
If they ask hey can I pet. If a yes. Say yes but we are working on some behavior if he jumps on you Please ignore him so I can correct him.
This ones harder to do on the fly when you haven't been preemptively judging people who want to touch the dog for years. As I get this stuff over with before they are even within 15 20 feet of me most time. Body language reading is key.
@@restinwalken Thanks this is really helpfull!!đđ¶
Happy dogs don't need much affection. It's like adding fuel to the fire.
Did I blink? I 100 percent missed the training technique.
So I should be introducing my dog on a slip leash? My dog has a tendency to jump as well.
Pup protects the pickup .
Omg my name is Cayson too. I legit thought you were talking to me because Iâve never heard anybody elseâs name be cayson.
I'm Cayson too đ€
Casey to those who know me
Title: stop any dog from jumping in 1 second.
Trainerâs opening statement: look at this, it took literally 2 1/2 minutes and heâs not going to jump again.
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I have a stubborn doberman where are you located?
Iâm helping a neighbourâs dog with the same issue.
This is the MAJOR problem humans confusing their dogs. Take the middle path be firm and fair!
What dog collar is that?
I just wish it was that easy for my younger dog not to get jealous or overly defensive against my older dog.
I tried this my pup I 13 weeks and I got him at 9 weeks he is jumping alot but afraid of men charges after food ALWAYS like a bullet. And nips. I broke him from.nipping me and the kids but he still losses his mind he is a crazy acting dog. H8gh strung like I never saw before in 60 years. Skidish as well. But loves me OF COURSE IM FEMALE. I'm have a hard time with this one. And I've watched all the videos from everyone and tried them all nothing is qorking
P.s he is a labrabull
Dog are direct descendants of wolves.. wolves know there place in the pack.. you have to teach your dog his place in your pack.. that mean showing him right from wrong in his place in the pack
Tomâs comment is EVERYTHING! âIf you donât teach him whatâs wrong and right you canât complain when he does something wrongâ If this guy has kids I have a feeling he needs parenting advice too.
It's actually easy to teach a dog, it's the humans that are hard to teach because we don't want to be 'mean'. Not one of our animals bites, for any reason, and that's because of simply training. If you're playing and they start chewing on your fingers, you hold onto their muzzle with your other fingers for a second, just long enough for them to know they're not in control. No pressure, nothing that hurts. Do it 3 or 4 times and you can tell they're going...I don't like that anymore. And if they try again, you do it again until it stops. One of our cats actually licks when hes angry because our animals don't bite. Same thing with the leash tug, it's MINOR physical correction. They go..oh, that's not comfy, pair that with a verbal cue like a strong "Down/off" and now they're in trouble. Do that multiple times, correcting the behavior EVERY time, and they learn "My alpha won't like that, I don't want to get in trouble so I wont". They'll still need correcting periodically after, you just need to be consistent. Positive reinforcement after they do the right thing too, treats or praise.
Parenting 1:1,like with children ,đ
Don't be patting inviting him up, then fussing when he jumps up. Mixed messages.
It seems early for this situation. Maybe itâs just an edit problem. Using temptation to lock in behavior and actions is the cornerstone of all training. Once something has been taught and learned we add distractions to mimic real world. Especially distractions that tend to kick the dogs drives.
I wish it was that simple with mine.
Ok so my step daughter has a Pitt and she literally does flying jumps into people. I have been working with her to not jump but itâs like her brain is in hyper drive how do I help her not do this. Iâm afraid that if she keeps this up she will eventually hurt someone bad and end up being put down. Sheâs a great dog when sheâs calm but sheâs got a lot of pent up energy
You canât complain about your dog jumping and then not correct him just because he is âsulkingâ đ That just re-enforces that bad behavior lol
Gonna have to tell my sister this about her kids
See the at the second it happens correction most canât understand how important that is. Really most people are generally bad at communication period and that is the issue. They are dead in that regard and are just floating by in life.
So what did he do? or do i need to pay for a course or just subscribe
I am subscribed but I donât know the technique, either.
I think what he did was use the special correcting collar (it tightens inside when you pull) as well as being consistently assertive about the behaviour and rewarding the dog for getting it right.
But can't be sure just from this.
Most of what Tom teaches is in his videos. Watch them all. But you'll probably need to watch other trainers too, Toms specialty is problem dogs. We all need to start with basic obedience. Best of luck. â€đđ
@@wizardjokes there are 4 types of collars:
martingale, prong, electric and a training lead. Tom's vids explain them, but it's not all in one video.
What about asking "WHY"?
With cats e.g. they want your head and theirs on the same height. They don't do so when you go to their level/height.
Would explain why he feels comfy with the girl kneeing, right?
Itâs not about what the dog wants. Itâs about the dog recognizing the behavior it is doing is not acceptable and the owner correcting that behavior to teach the dog to not only not jump up, but to listen to what the owner tells the dog to do and listen to the command without question.