How to STOP CARING what others think, letting go of their judgement & becoming confident.
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- čas přidán 13. 01. 2024
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(I wrote this because I have free will)
(you have free will, too)
(maybe use it to hug a tree or smth)
(This was not written by a tree)
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I AUDIBLY SCREAMED OUT OF HAPPINESS LIFE IS SO GOOD WHEN YOU POST AND YOU LOOK GORGEOUS
Thank you my heart ♥️♥️♥️
@@Persephonesmindyou said your confidence is not because of others complement to you but it’s from your own but let’s add this too. You are awesome
@@Persephonesmind thank you, from the bottom of my heart, for being the lifesaver in my life.
“If you don’t know who you are inside, the world will tell you who you are and you will believe it.” This!!
That’s real!!!!!!
I bought an outfit a week ago. It's a cute black skirt that exposes my belly. I wanted to wear it to my boyfriend's birthday, but his family dislikes me. I put on this outfit and started to cry in my boyfriend's arms. He told me how beautiful I am, but I only cared about my fear of looking unattractive and that everyone could see my belly. Then I watched this video that reminded me that I actually like my belly. I had only cried because I thought they wouldn't like it. After watching this video, I told my boyfriend that I would wear my cute black skirt and that I no longer cared about their opinion. I'm sending a little piece of my positive energy with this comment to thank you so much for opening my eyes.❤
You did it right! Everything would be okay, love your belly😊❤❤
Earlier today I prayed to God to somehow teach me how to let go of people's judgements about me. I feel like He's answering me through this video ❤️
same !
Same !!
I deeply hope that you understand that no one and nothing outside of you defines YOU. Embrace yourself fully and let go of any judgement that is sent to keep you down. I love you and I believe in you. 🤍
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Needed this. I'm working on self validation.
For example I would stop wearing a perfume I really like just because my mother said it's not a nice scent. I hate being like this!
I mean, we are different. She only likes flower perfumes so everything not flowers disgusts her. By the way, she never wanted me to be feminine, care free and happy so everytime something feels good to me, she said it's wrong!
And she's not the only one to do that so it's huge red flag when people around you just want you to never shine.🌅
Thank you for this powerful message 🌟
please recommend a book to deal with social situations like this...social intelligence
@@free_mind_writes I recommend: How to win friends and influence people by Dale Carnegie. This will help you a lot, it is a good book for you.❤
The problem is that I've been trying my whole life to be more yk friendly looking so with different people I behave a different way and it's gotten so bad I can't choose for my self I dont have a personal opinion most of the times( one because as i already said i cant think for myself or two because I would understand both sides) and I define my self worth by others and I know I should stop and defy my self worth from within but how can i even do that when i dont know myself
@@bozhanatoneva1973 It's the million dollar question
1_ Accept the fact that you will be judged. 0:42
2_ your self worth is not attached to someones opinion or judgment about you . 1:22
3_ Don't let your confidence depend on other peoples opinion about you. 2:00
4_ you know who you are . No one needs to confirm it, and no one is able to destroy that. 3:26
5_ people only have the power over you that you allow them to have. 3:50
6_ stop ignoring your potential. You are here to embrace yourself. 5:47
7_ Transform their negative by imagining how every energy they lose by judging you is going to fill your cup positivity. 7:00
8_If you don't identify or agree with a judgment, if won't affect nor hurt you. 8:30
9_ We are all the villain in someones story. 9:59
10_ Some people project what they dislike about themselves onto others. 10:32
11_ whose thought is that? 11:26
12_You are not your thoughts .You are your soul experiencing your thoughts. 12:23
13_There's a thin line between hate and obsession. 13:15
Tysm! ❤
@@editsdharma108 welcome ❤
@@nxbxxha_1764(I’m a girl) and you’re not ugly baby you are so beautiful and gorgeous. (Judging by your profile picture 🩷) Don’t ever say stuff like that
Towards yourself. Even if you think you are ugly, if you keep saying that to yourself you would believe it. This actually worked for me and it’s to say your pretty/beautiful/gorgeous/worth it/cute etc in the mirror even if you don’t believe it at the time and you start to believe it after some time, it’s like your brain alters the way you think and stuff ifykwim. even when I think I look my worst I look in the mirror and still think I look beautiful like wow. On the other hand your gorgeous and it’s not an opinion it’s a fact 💗
@@nxbxxha_1764 you’re actually beautiful so idk what you’re talking about ….
This reminded me of something. In my religion, if someone talks bad about you they actually lose good deeds and those good deeds are given to you. Just shows you why you SHOULDNT care what they say. Theres a story about this ancient Arabian prince. Someone came to him and told him: This dude talks really bad about you. Then, he literally sent a plate full with delecious fruits and gave it to the guy. His people were shocked and they asked him why he did that. He replied: "Well, he gave me his good deeds that he worked hard for".
are you muslim?
EVERYONE WAKE UPP. THE QUEEN HAS POSTED😭🫶🏻
Last week i started posting my poems on my socials. At first i was scared but the most important thing is that i'm doing what i love. I know i will attract the people that like my content soon or late✨️
EVERYTHING YOU SAY IS FACTS, PERIODT.
loving you is easy cause your beautiful 🤍 loving you is all i wanna do ✨
You sweet soul, I love you too 🤍
I love you so much. Thank you for this reminder. I'm a teenager who can't do public speaking because of my fear of being perceived and seen, and it has affected me and my school performance quite a lot negatively. I have so much potential but I'm not using it because of my fear. Thank you so much Alessia for being like a big sister to me ❤️ You have no idea how much this video has helped me and your words. I'm getting better now thanks to you 💌 (these words of mine aren't even enough to express my gratitude to you)
You have changed my life. I know you would probably read a lot of these comments but fr you helped more then my psychologist who I’ve been with for years for this exact reason you should be so proud of yourself luv you always! I’m really happy I can present n calls and talk in class now!
My heart I am so proud of YOU 🥹♥️
Just a year ago, there was a group of people in my college who used to talk sh*t behind my back. They made a group just to spread rumors about me. One of the girl told rest of my classmate that not to share any notes to me. They used to make fun of me when I was studing in the class / library .How horrible you know? I have to face them each and everyday.
But I started focusing on myself. That's it. I know karma exists.
Imagine being that obsessed 😂 good on you sis, step into your power!!
@@slayfaee yeahh. Ikr ❤
AWW I'M SO FUCKING PROUD OF YOU BABE
Your self worth is defined just by yourself and not other's opinions. ❤
THIS IS EXACTLY WHAT I NEEDED I LOVE UUU💕
I needed this thank you 💕
JUST AT THE RIGHT TIME I NEEDED THIS SO BADLY, THANK YOUUU🌷💞
THANK YOU FOR THISSS AAAAAA I LOVE U !! 💗🎀
Thank you so much I really needed to hear this
Thank you so much for posting this I really needed this kind of video💗💗💗
Thank u so much for this❤️❤️
this is what enlightenment feels like, thank you alessia♥
AHHH ALESSIA AND ALINA'S CONTENT IS KEEPING ME GOING RNN
I NEEDED THIS SO BADLY THXXXXX I LOVE UUUU 💕💕💕💕
You always post what I need in the moment
Thanks
MY FAVOURITE VIDEO SO FAR, THANK YOU, BEAUTIFUL QUEEN!
Your videos are helping me so much. Thank you ❤️
love love love you alessia, you're an angel
i needed to hear this right now 💗
i really need this. tysmm❤
THANK YOU SO MUCH!! I really needed this and I’m so grateful for your advice, you taught me so much from all of your content! I’m so proud of you
yesss just what i needed! i love you so much Alessia 💝🎀
I love you so so much and everything you have ! I'm having fun watching your videos please always take videos for us queen
This video helped me so much thank you💞
Girl thank you so much. This is very helpful ❤❤
The point of views of this video is so beautiful and so true!!!Good job Ale!!
Thank you for your words and energy, so eye-opening
NEEDED THISSSS
You have no idea how much I needed to watch this video today, thank you ❤❤
Thank you for everything. I dont have a sister and whenever i need advice or feel lost or alone i find your videos really comforting and helpful. Thank you and i love u
i LOVE your videos and seeing you get more and more comfortable in each one. the passion in this video invigorates me so much! now i want to go and get stuff donee
you are such a good and generous friend!🥰
Thank you I will try to use this tmr ❤
Thank you so much for this video,I commented about this topic on the other video and I am so happy that you posted about it,thank you so much ❤️❤️❤️
My literal angel! You uploaded this when i needed it the most. You have no idea how much love i have for you, thank you 🤍
you are my mentor for real, I'm so thankful
love you, queen!! 🤍
Girl you are glowingggg you look amazing. This video is so well timed because I was thinking about this yesterday 😭
Omg i swear u have no idea how ur advices are effecting on me i love u sis ur words always show me the truth and make me feel sacrificed 🌹✨💗💗
omgggg thank you so much for your insights 🥹🫶🏻 i love you !!!
ALESSIA OMG THANK YOU SO MUCH ❤ i really needed to hear this right now
How can u have such a perfect timing gurll❤❤❤❤
Why is it always that, whatever you post is always exactly what i need, THANK YOU MOTHER❤❤❤
I love your videos
And we need more of it 😩❤
Thank you smm Alessia for this video. i wuv watching your videos, I have learn so much from u thank you
Thank you for this. You are so on point. Keep doing what your doing. Your videos are a blessing to enrich people
Hi queen!it seems that everytime I see you,you get even prettier!!
Perfect timing, God Bless You ❤
You’re an enlightened being and your words make life worth living. So grateful💐
Alessia sharing her knowledge with us is something i will never be not grateful for💗
You know you always motivate me, thank you for all, when you post I'm like WOW 🎉, finally I'm so happy, please keep it❤
I needed this thank u❤
oh my gosh i needed this sm
Thank you for uploading this topic. I really needed this to know I’m struggling from low self esteem when it comes to living my life without the fear of judgement from others.
honestly thank you, i'm a more gentle & calm reserved person and i've always felt i needed to be more "outgoing" and extroverted. don't get me wrong, i love talking to people but i am just more calm and can appear uninterested. and for years i thought i needed to be more loud or funny. i cared so much for years and it made me hate who i was & create this fake personality. now though, i've learned to just embrace who i am.
This video was really I was meant for to watch. Thanku soo muchh
Amazing. Exactly what I needed to hear.
alessia. this is actually getting scary. this is EXACTLY relevant to what is happening in my life rn. thank you alessia ily🌟🌟💌💌
This girl is awesome. God bless you
Omg I was waiting for my my BIG SISTER 😭. I love you with my whole heart and God bless you ❣️
i love u sm 🩷you’re so inspirational
I love you too 🤍🤍🤍
omg needed this so bad rn. Ly bro
I absolutely agree with everything you said! Thank you, Queen Alessia! ❤ And the best thing is - I have already started implementing this into my life ❤❤❤
Your ideas help, thankyou❤
Omg i really needed this!! I have been thinking about so much things nowadays as my boyfriend says i am a gold digger i am delusional this and you think you are better than others blah blah and i cant get it out of my head!! Thanks for this alessia❤
I smiled when i clikced on the video just in a few seconds of you saying positive words made my day!
girl im crying, your passion makes my heart melt
Thanks for one more lesson mother, just when we needed it. Love your intuition and our divine connection 🙏🏻💞
I OPENED MY PHONE AFTER A STUDY SESSION AND I SCREAMED "MOTHER POSTED!" AND JUST JUMPED IN HERE. YOU LOOK GORGEOUS I CAN'T STOP ADMIRING YOU MOTHER 🛐
I love the importance you spoke about knowing who you truly are!! It doesn’t matter what others think of you, it matters how you feel about yourself!
I was just watching one of your videos. Missed buuuh♡😭
6:40 wow, i've never thought about it like this! this is a fascinating and very helpful concept, people who talk about you actually lose their energy so it's their problem really. they are wasting their life and even sending you their life energy.
Your videos are always on point with what I need as a reminder 🥹
Thank you ❤❤
Queen, you're kinda wonderful tho. It's such a weird experience - to live nowdays. You help me to stay calm and undamaged. I mean, the whole world broke apart and you helped me to overcome through it.. so thanks, stay as healthy, beautiful, mindful and brave as you are now! Love y'all, have a nice day♥︎
THAT HAIRSTYLE LOOKS SO CUTE ON YOU 🤍🤍🤍
I can’t describe how much I needed to hear this video… I’ve been looking for someone to say this for months! I’ve been suffering from extreme social anxiety at work and this has opened my eyes
How mother post everytime when I'm in my luteal phase and I needed it most😭😭
Thank you so much, pretty lady. I've been down ever since my family didnt support me for my dreams and you boosting my confidence. Ily mother i hope nothing but well for you❤❤ may Allah protect you aamiin❤❤
Keeep posting queen we love ur videos!!!!
you're like my beautiful doll who came to life to heal me ❤
Sadly I used to care about what other people thought of me until I found this video I found my self worth and love. And I honestly don't care if people don't like me I not always their type and that's fine. I really love myself and my happiness can't be find by anyone else but myself. So for my girlies who went through this similarity I'm so sorry and I'm proud of you don't give up and be unbothered cause you are a beautiful queen. God bless you😊❤🫂
you always look pretty
omggggg i’ve been waiting for ur video and i literally am in love with ur channel. ur way too cool , i love ur advice you’re such an inspiration literally an icon. ur videos always makes my dayyy ahaaa
i was today very anxious because of the fear of judgement because I failed an exam and I thought everybody thinks that I am stupid😢 Thank you for this video ❤ It helps me a lot ❤
Yes. When people say woah you did a good job. I feel happy. But started that work , the whole progress by myself. I encouraged myself. I had fire within myself. That kept my passion alive. Others complement didn't boost my confidence. I know some people will judge me . And I know how to react
Thank you for sharing your voice darling, love you so much ♥️
You are my therapy 💗💗💗
Wallah this video holds so much energy
caring about what anyone else thinks about or says about you proves that you define your self worth by their opinion about you. your self worth is not defined by anyone or anything else outside of you but yourself.
don't let your confidence depend on other people's opinion about you.
my confidence came from within, and if your confidence is not coming from within, you will spend your entire life searching for someone else outside of you validating what you can't even validate about yourself
don't let anyone outside of you who doesn't even know you tell you about who or what you are.
you know who you are. no one needs to confirm it and no one is able to destroy that.
if you don't know what you are inside, the world will tell you and you will believe it.
you give these people the power they have. if u dont give them the power over your self worth, decisions, they are powerless. people only have the power over you that you allow them to have.
stop ignoring your potential.
if you don't identify or agree with a statement it won't affect nor hurt you. sometimes we subconsciously believe these things because our inner voice tells us this, and when we hear it from someone else we believe it.
if you believe you're not you're not good enough you're not pretty enough you're not smart enough and someone tells you these things of course they hurt you because they reflect your inner voice they reflect something that is within you that you don't want to integrate into yourself because you do not like that part of yourself. you need to heal and work on that part of yourself to build that confidence.
if someone says something abt you, it is their opinion about you. they don't even know who you truly are at the end of the day except you and Allah. so it doesn't mean that it's true.
we will be a villain in someone's story but if you know who you truly are it's not going to affect you.
most people are also projecting see we all have Shadow Parts about ourselves and the less we integrate this Shadow part into our conscious self the more we will try to fight it on the outside we don't accept that part of ourselves and whenever we see someone else representing this part that we deeply hate about ourselves this is where we fight it on the outside.
some thoughts are not yours, they are planted by others, doesn't mean it's true, and doesn't mean you should believe it.
if they are obsessed with you, they won't ignore you. when you don't liek a show you own't watch it. same with people. they like you enough or are obsessed with you to a point znd care so much they would spend their time and energy on you and your life.