Let’s Talk about Pretty Privilege.... Why Looks Matter + My Experience
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- čas přidán 11. 07. 2023
- Pretty privilege works on the principle that people who are deemed more attractive-based on societal beauty standards-have an upper hand in the world, and are afforded many opportunities and advantages that regular folks aren't.
People will judge you and have a perception of you on how you present yourself.
Looking good and taking care of yourself also make a huge difference on your confidence.
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This is so true! I work at a clothing store, and a woman came in to drop off her resume, and my superiors immediately told each other they didn't want to hire her because she came in wearing a hoodie, sweatpants, and a messy bun. If you wish to work at a clothing store, fashion should be a priority.
This goes for hairdressers, personal trainers, nail techs etc. You are a walking resume and should definitely dress to impress if you want the job.
oh damn they literally pay minimum wage as well lol
Sheesh, all this snobbery over minimum wage jobs. Crabs in a bucket.
Pose. Electra drops off a resume at a resturant and makes an impression. It was a starter job. She ends the series with unlimited money.
I agree
I started dressing nicely with beautiful skirts and dresses some time ago at work. It was difficult for me 'cause I don't want to to expose myself and look different. But I did it and I get so many compliments, mostly from woman. And the man start to open the doors and help immediately if you need some help, it is lovely! And now 3 other woman also dress more elegant and this is so nice to watch! We compliment each other and have fun looking well dressed, it is so nice!!!😃I wish I had done it years ago. But better late than never😉
Looking nice makes a difference. I’ve had men go out of their way to keep a door open or clear the way and then say “you’ve gone through trouble to look as you do and I’m honoring that.”
True, I think there is even a saying, "Beauty attracts people and personality will keep them beside you".
Is that meant to be attracts?
@katierosealexander8132 Oh, I just noticed hehe...thanks for telling 😅
The opening line from Marilyn Monroe...I had to replay it. So true. Like men will unashamedly date for looks / good looking women, yet we are shamed by the whole society if we DARE dating men with money as part of the package....So I will keep this argument for next time I need to justify myself and other women.
I like how you basically said being beautiful in the outside does not translate to being beautiful in the inside. So many ppl are literally miving like zombies with super unrealistic expectations of others just because of this pretty privilege movement. Alot of women go into friendship just based off looks, but be monsters on the inside. Thank you for teaching about one aspect of femininity.
My Mum always said make an effort each day with your body care and stand tall and be proud of how you present yourself to the World . And speak kindly to everyone.
dressing well, and looking nice, which absolutely everyone is capable of I will not be argued otherwise, is a sign of respect for YOURSELF and OTHERS
Amen. I totally agree.❤
Right it's just good manners. Nothing to do with privilege
In my personal opinion, it is very very rare for someone to be legitimately ugly on the outside. I think if everybody ate healthy with a good exercise and skincare routine, looking like models would be the new norm.
Yeah but some people are just plain ugly due to genetics! Have you not seen the winner of Mr Ugly contest lol! No amount of skin care, a good diet and exercise can fix that lmaoo😭
But yes I think having good skin and hair , nice bodies would be the norm! People are complaining but not doing anything to change it!
Exactly... beauty is something that can be enhanced
MOST MODELS ARE NOT BEAUTIFUL THEY ARE PHOTOGENIC
As Helena Rubinstein said - “There are no such thing as ugly women - only lazy ones.”
Oh, yes, it takes an enormous amount of time AND money. And the older you get, the more it takes! But the feelings you get when you look your best is so worth it!
YES !
No, I disagree. It is not a matter of money. Why do you think so? You can get a good figure and pretty skin only by eating the right things, no sugar, no wheat, no processed food etc. And by working out. OK, you have to be healthy to be healthy to be able to Work Out, but that also is no matter of money. You can find the most beautiful clothes in thrift stores for so little money. You have to have money If you need new teeth ore something like that but otherwise you can reach that goal of presenting yourself pretty without breaking the bank.😊
@@susannegiesen2114 What makes you ASS UME that I don't already do the things you mentioned? Doing so makes you look like an idiot doling out unasked-for advice. I am 65, and look like I'm 50. But for lack of money for a stem cell lift, botox and juvederm, I would look like 40. There are also less expensive things, like hair color and cut, nutritional supplements, nails, etc. It all takes money.
@@susannegiesen2114not true. Whole foods are less calorie dense and more expensive in prep and upfront cost than processed foods. Try living on a taco bell salary. Oops that's right, that was never an option to you
@@Speakup117 mh, I' m not sure if I understand your answer right. I'm from Germany 😊. I don't think that there is less nutrition in whole / natural food. Is it that what you meant? It is more time expensive to cook everything from scratch, that is right. But the food itself is not more expensive. But maybe it IS different in the US? I don't know. Here in Germany the prices got higher since there is war in the Ukraine but it is still possible to buy natural food. And yes, I eat loads of salad cause I had been a vegetarian for 15 years. Now I sometimes eat meat. But I realised that buying a steak is really expensive! Please Tell me If I misunderstood your comment. All the best to you 😊
I was made to feel like a deformed freak in high school, so I am not going to feel any guilt for any "pretty privilege" I might get now that I'm older and better looking! The cheerleaders and popular girls had their moment; now it's time for mine. And I don't mean in a mean way. I just want to enjoy myself in a way that I couldn't when I was younger.
Same here! I was an ugly duckling in middle and high school. Now that I became older, wiser, and better-looking, I am embracing my inner swan.
YOU definitely should embrace all you that are!! It's YOUR time .. i was also treated so low value in highschool so i can understand❤🎉❤🎉
Amen to this I feel the same 🎉 High school was the worst and I totally blossomed as I got further into my 20s. I feel zero guilt now for feeling as confident and beautiful as I now feel as I spent a lot of my life feeling awful about myself.
As you should!!❤❤❤
Same!!! And I’m enjoying the swan season without putting anyone else down or making them feel bad as I was made to feel. Love this season of life
Pretty privilege is very real. It can bite you too. I can't tell you how many times people have judged me for almost always wearing a dress and my makeup and hair always done. The compliments and kudos that I get happen way more though. So it outweighs it.
Oh my goodness, I'm similar to your situation. I believe I should dress best whenever I'm outside of the house. 98% of the time, I wear dresses and look neat. I do my own hair and nails. Women do judge me because I wear dresses, especially older women than me. I look good for myself, to feel confident and pretty. People are so weird. We can't please them all. Keep looking good!
Pretty priviledge goes hand in hand with:
- Guys objectifying you: you get the attention but the wrong attention. They finally choose the 'average' ones because they think beautiful is also dumb or unfaithful;
- Women's jealousy : women constantly feel the pressure around you and isolate you.
- Devaluation : out of jealousy and rivalry, both men and women feel the need to humble you if you have both beauty, intelligence and talents because that's too many gifts for one person. They look for your imperfections to bring you on your knees and on their level, instead of helping you be better;
- Idealization : you are on a pedestal, you are a fantasy. And nobody wants to be around a fantasy. It forces them to be the better person they can't be. Eventually, the beautiful person isolate.
- Fakeness / Light: everybody wants a part of the beautiful person because everybody wants that light but they see only the reflection of them in the beautiful person. They don't really get to understand her.
- Shrinking/ Power: holding so much power leads to Shrinking and finding balance in using this power. It takes years to learn to use it and find your place in the World.
- Bitterness/ Nastiness : 'ordinary' people dreaming about the pretty priviledge often feel the right to be mean to beautiful people just because they'll Never know what it is to get this attention. We think only beautiful people Can be mean/ cocky. Try the insecure ones. They are kind on the surface, deadly sneaky deep down. People, be careful, we often sleep with our enemy working in the dark to sabotage our lives.
Beautiful, ugly, ordinary - don't trust the surface, take the Time to get to know people's demons.
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Omg. So true.
Love seeing the other aspects mentioned. Thanks for showing a full picture. I'd like to add two aspects:
I believe that if we are authentic and not scared to show weakness and also are transparent with some (not all) hardships and issues, people won't idealise you and view you as one of them. People only idealis someone when they don't know some of the downsides of being in their shoes. If they see the negative aspects they most of the time don't want to be in your shoes and feel more comfortable in their shoes.
And to the aspect of people wanting to bring others down - there are always people who are intending on putting other human beings down and to make them feel bad about them. They try with beautiful people as well as with not so beautiful people. (In my opinion every person is in some way beautiful and is standing out in some way or the other) We need to deal with those people and don't let it get to our hearts or into our minds. You don't need to understand why someone is mean to you. They need to justify their actions - at least in front of themselves.
This!!!!
@@mariak9397 thank you for your words.
At my workplace, I asked for a favor, but my boss didn't do it. I had to ask several times and he "finally" did it but it was too late and it put me in a very difficult situation.
Someone said that men (and women) in power positions take their revenge on women they can't access to or that turned them down in their youth. Some women do that as well because they can't be like these women.
And in these kind of situations, if you speak your heart, you Will be guilty of acting out of control. They Will spread rumors on how ungrateful you are.
My boss knows my personal situation. So sometimes, giving them access to your weaknesses isn't always enough to calm their insecurities. On the opposite, they Will think they have power over you and Will do the Best they can to humble you.
As a beautiful women, we have to Master the discernement to know who we can rely on and who would want to take advantage of our weaknesses.
I had a similar situation in my academic life, my friends were envious about my good grades but I just thought that they can achieve that too, if they put in the effort.
I totally agree. Putting myself first and becoming my own dream girl has changed my life. I feel more confident and beautiful and people treat me better because i treat me better. I see pampering myself as self care and i dress up and look good for myself
“Glamour is created” ❤❤❤❤
I have noticed now in my 30’s that men are not friends with women that they don’t find attractive. I wasn’t beautiful growing up (On the contrary, I was awkward looking and kind of an Ugly duckling) but now at almost 31, I’m getting more attention from Men than I did when I was 21. I can’t say that I have pretty privilege because there are plenty of women that are way prettier than me but some men have been more drawn to me than other women because they feel more comfortable talking to me
Enjoy it while it last. Beauty fades on the outside.
@@amygalvin1799 Oh I know! Which is why I always say that you can be the most handsome guy/ beautiful girl in the world and still be an asshole. I went to high school with a guy (He was a baseball player) that all of the girls were after but he was a jerk to me and I work with a guy now that he’s handsome (a couple of my female coworkers are all over him) and he’s a gentleman.
Lisa, please make a video on how to dress/portray like a high value woman in a casual setting! I struggle with this when going the grovery store or running basic. I want to feel feminine but still be comfortable. I would love your input on this 💕
Yes! Please 🙏🏾
yesss
If you like wearing athleisure, a lovely matching yoga set and clean sneakers look beautiful. Personally I don’t wear athletic wear outside of working out. I love wearing casual dresses in the warmer months with espadrilles or sandals. In the colder months sweater dresses with boots. Top it with some simple earrings and your favorite scent. It’s not much but in the era of pajama pants and torn leggings you will look incredible.
Great suggestion! I don't see this much where I live but in certain countries like South Korea, it's expected you look partially put together even for grocery shopping and running errands. It can be stressful but it's a very lookism society over there.
I’m living in South Korea, and we are a very small over crowded society, that’s why that happens. Only half of your opinion are correct.
I completely agree with you! It is refreshing that women are moving in this direction. I live in a region where the non-style that women have, looks no different pre-pandemic than post-pandemic; sweatpants, ill-fitting jeans, no makeup, and barely styled hair is the NORM, even in the workplace. I really stand out among my peers and even younger women. Honestly, it’s disheartening when women tell me they don’t want to “fool with any of that!” Presenting yourself well is as simple as taking a little extra time each day for self-care. I receive good customer service and politeness everywhere I go and I am very successful in my job because I have the analytical mind that is required, but I know that my quick career rise in just a year had a lot to do with being able to put myself together well. I present a professional image that has given me a reputation among my co-workers and clients that appreciate the level of my standard. I am as conscientious in my job as I am with my appearance, and a high standard is expected when people work with me. Oh, and over-dressing is a very good thing! Empower yourself and those around you by RAISING THE STANDARD.
2 gems that resonate in me in this video full of wisdom: 1) to be hot, just decide that you're hot 2) people looking at me in the street: i just don't care. ❤
I’m a likable person, but I’m very unattractive looks wise. I take care of my appearance, but facially I’m just ugly lol. I’ve accepted it and feel peaceful in life.
Hun same, pretty privilege is expensive 😭
Nobody is ugly, why do you say that to yourself?? Dont treat yourself in a bad way. The only things you need to be beautiful physically is 1),Being fit 2), have a good hair cut, shining hair 3) good skin 4) nice outfit and 5) a beautiful make up. 6) healthy teeth
But the most important thing is the mindset. If you are telling yourself that you are ugly eventhough that you are a top model you will see yourself ugly. Remember that your womanhood is more that the clothes and make up you are wearing it is also your mind. Take care of your mind nd the rest is easier
This is kind of outside of this video, but many of the world's greatest seducers were ugly. Charm, wit, and dressing up put a sort of silk screen over 99% of people if done correctly. But also, confidence is sexy. Absolutely no self-depreciating jokes, people smell that a mile away - maybe some fun at your expense, but draw a line. If you're not confident with yourself, it is hard to project that on others
Honey you’re gorgeous get rid of those limiting beliefs
I was a very successful model decades ago wirh a top agency in NY city. People considered me gorgeous. No man ever stayed with me because of my looks. Ever treated me better. Its about character, intelligence, dignity and self respect. Being pretty got me stalked, harassed and alot of jealousy from petty women. Nevertheless, its nice to be put together. Overall though, pretty privilege means nothing.
Pretty privilege is a double-edged sword, but the pros outweighs the cons. The cons aren’t a compelling enough reason to give up pretty privilege.
People also have the misconception that pretty privilege goes away as a woman age. I’m here to tell you that it’s rubbish. At 51, I’m considered to be at the age where I’m “invisible”, but the facts are that I STILL experience pretty privilege, and I’m not invisible.
I do agree that ANYONE can get pretty privilege. I’ve seen women who are below average in the face counterbalance that with a sexy body, hairstyles that emphasize their best features, clothing that suit their body shape and skin coloring, and a magnetic personality. These “plain Janes” and “ugly girls” become “smoking hot babes” who get more attention from the men than their naturally conventionally attractive counterparts. As Helena Rubinstein said, “There are no such thing as ugly women - only lazy ones.”
Love how you are openly confident about your beautifull looks and aura. Sometimes when I feel beautifull, instead of being proud of it, I feel ashamed. Maybe I have to learn to just feel good about my looks without guilt.
Did you grow up as the “ugly duckling”? I sometimes feel very vulnerable when I am at my most beautiful. I get a lot of attention that I did not get in the past and I wonder if that may be what you feel ashamed?
We have to get used to being considered beautiful and desirable.
I feel the same way! I wasn't pretty growing up until I had surgery and lost weight. I do get a lot attention from women and men I dress up but I feel ashamed at times. I agree with you that we have to get used to feeling beautiful without any guilt!
I agree about ”” the beautiful models having a horrible love life because they lack cofidence.”” Men can tell when a woman has confidence within herself.
This is true. Look at Halle Berry, Cheryl Tweedy, and Paulina Porizkova, three women that are considered some of the most beautiful women in the world. Halle and Cheryl couldn’t keep a man, and Ric Ocasek treated Paulina horribly during the last 15 years of their marriage. On the flip side, Barbra Streisand and Gabrielle Sidibe, two women who are considered to be conventionally unattractive, have men that adore them. Heck, Barbra Streisand’s husband, James Brolin, was a heartthrob back in the day, and he left his conventionally attractive wife (Jan Smithers) for Barbra.
I wonder if pretty privilege can also work against you? I find that women can easily get jealous of other women who are perceived as "pretty" so they become isolated and it's hard for them to make friends. Like in the movie Malena. Women hated her. Men took advantage of her and didn't take her seriously. She had no friends. Even Marilyn, who to this day is still abused by the media and celebrities who think they can wear her dress and paint false information of her like in the movie Blonde.
I think in terms of self care it is beneficial to all women to encourage them to present their best selves. But in other cases there are definitely pros and cons despite what society promotes...
Very interesting question! I would also like to know how to deal with envy. ❤❤❤
Agreed! If you get too much attention other women can really start to be nasty, the claws come out : (
If somebody is jealous of me, rather than a friend with me, they are history.
I believe my beauty is more of a curse than a blessing because of what you said! Even as a child women were mean to me & men took advantage of me. It still continues as an adult & almost every job I’ve had there was someone bullying me so I had to report them to HR. You have to be strong to be beautiful or else you’ll be abused into a grave!!
Yes I had problems in the workplace with older envious women
I think it’s best to be a housewives
Great video . even when I take out the trash , I make sure I don’t look like a bum.
You could have hard time finding friends if you are pretty and atractive. Women can be so jealos and mean.I have that problem,a lot. Is very hard for me to have female friends. I dress modest and simple,but elegant and feminine. But still,women dont like me,majoriti of them. Men like me,but I am first of all married and dont have interest in them,and dont belive in men - female friendships.You have to be strong mentaly to be beautiful. And be more that beautiful outside. Be beautiful inside to. Be kind. Dont be like mean people. Be humble. And wise too.Have a puprse in life. Beatuy will fade over time.
Idk if you'd feel comfortable sharing this, but I'd love to know what shape wear/lingerie you'd recommend. Also what you do conceal straps/pantylines! I will be eternally grateful 🙏
Thank you so much for being honest and not sugar-coating this! First impressions are real and important. How you present yourself to the world dictates how you will be treated. If you look like you have no respect for yourself, why should you be treated with any?
I am soo glad I found ur channel! I am a beginner in the jetsetting journey and I want to elevate my lifestyle and be a feminine elegant lady! I am hoping to transform my life, let's see how much I succeed. ❤
Pretty has caused me so much grief at work. Unwanted attention from men and women commenting on my body shape even if positive is still unprofessional.
Lisa you are just lovely inside and out. It’s so nice to know that there’s like minded women out in the world❤
Love, love, LOVE this video ❤ since I have been watching more feminine content creators I have applied many ideas to my personal journey and it has been AMAZING! I feel so much more in balanced within and the benefits of it have given me a great sense of wellness. I wish I could have gone to Italy with you for the trip you offered us, but I have my fingers crossed that you will host another trip next year so I can be sure to join 🫶🏾💕
Excellent video! I have heard about the concept of pretty privilege but I liked how you dived deeply into the concept that it's not just about how a person looks on the outside but its what inside that is also accounted for. It's like how you mentioned about going on a job interview. You have to dress respectably, which is one thing that they will see, but after the interview, they will judge how you act and talk and your mannerism and I feel that's also the same with friends, family, and significant others.
Looking forward to your next video!
I love you, Lisa❤thank you for filming such inspiring videos!
Thank u Lisa!
I decide that I am beautiful ✨ 💅 ‼️
Not only are you stunning, you have incredible insights and self awareness which only amplifies your beauty ❤
Yes I do keep myself in shape and take care of my health as much as possible and also beautiful
Pretty privilege comes with a lot of hatred jealousy and ppl trying to sabotage their lives
…can confirm, (unfortunately).
most men in this world do not have access to the most beautiful women. It is known that rich men marry models. Natalia Vodianova a Russian model married a billionaire in the past and today she remarried to a wealthy heir Antoine Arnault son of the richest man in the world.This is called the beauty privilege !
True. Women's stock in society are their looks and men's stock in society are their resources, that's why. People don't have to like, agree, or even admit it but it's the truth. It's always been this way and most likely will always subconsciously be this way. A beautiful woman receives the same favor in society as a rich man equally.
Thank you for talking about it !!
I loved this !❤ It is soo true , I have experienced it myself . But it's sad how sometimes (mostly women and in my country some "men'' also) don't like you because they're jealous and feel threatened ..that's why is very important what you said 14th minute
Btw you have the most beautiful hair🤩
Yes please causal outfit ideas!!
I feel my femininity healing just by listening to you :) 💓💞💕
Keeping it real about its a lot of work! Congrats on meeting the Queen would love to hear that story. Also want to know if you workout?? Thanks dahling
You're the best.
I thank you for your help and being yourself.
It has changed my life.
Thank you for helping me
such a greattt addition to YT. so glad you're sharing what you see n know. love your insights & presentation. makes us feel great & warm & fun. i love the intelligence that you bring to this - subscribed!
Pretty privilege is real. They get lot of opportunities for many things in life, in addition to relationships/dating. Most people know they exist, but don't want to acknowledge or talk about it. I've also noticed the group that tend to be hyper aware of these are POC, cuz they aren't usually considered conventionally attractive by Eurocentric beauty standards.
Loved this video !! Thank you beautiful ❤❤
Yes please, I need the video for how to dress casually and nice
Completely agree. Our way of dressing speaks much more about you than your words. Beautiful post!!
just wanted to say your hair looks gorgeous!
J’ai quitté la Belgique pour vivre au Canada en 2017!! J’ai grandi avec une mère coquette et elle nous a appris à l’être aussi ma sœur et moi! J’ai donc pour habitude de toujours être apprêtée quand je sors mais alors le parfum est un must pour moi!! Je dois sentir bon et être belle!! Eh bien je n’ai eu que des commentaires au Canada du genre “ tu t’habilles comme pour aller à un mariage” “ Tu es trop bien habillé pour aller au travail” alors que je ne mets pas beaucoup de temps pour être prête et je me maquille très peu😁 c’est le style européen tout simplement qui fait cet effet, et je suis bien fière d’avoir gardé mes habitudes et de ne jamais sortir en pyjama pour faire mes courses comme beaucoup le font ici.
Lisa my sister really really love your style of your videos so so much and she is so so excited to watch this video and I wish you have a wonderful day always 💖💫😃
I love the way you said I think they look at me because I look fabulous ❤your confidence is gorgeous ❤
When I see a glamourous lady or a dapper man, it just makes me smile! It's nice to see someone wear color and have a style. It just cheerful to see them, like walking by flowers.
I also think that if people look at you, it's because they find you fabulous
Kisses from Nice
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Yes! Video on how to dress well casually!
Your tan looks so beautiful on you. Your skin is glowing!
She is North African and they are brown, nit white and tan easily
@@Chainbreak2023 i didn't know she is north african . I was curious about her roots
Love ur content....
Love you!
Sending u soo much Love and light
Pretty privilege does have advantages, but it can cause drama with women sometimes. Men do love to help beautiful women. You have to have a kind heart. ❤
There’s nothing wrong w/ exploiting and reaping the benefits of pretty privilege. I didn’t think I was pretty just bc I’ve dealt w/ bullies telling me how ugly & homely I was 🙄 & I didn’t believe a few adults who told me I was beautiful and that I should be a model bc my self esteem was that bad. I just didn’t see what they saw. I never saw my beauty & potential until I got older and started to revamp my femininity & style. That’s when I started to become a magnet 🧲 & I love it 😏
We all have an INNER GODDESS within us. We need to tap into it and embrace that. ✨💫 I love having fun with that type of energy/power by dressing up and just being that woman.
😍♥️iT was helpful and motivating
Yes a video for casual dress please.❤
Excellent perspective
Great video!
Pretty privilege and the halo effect is one of the major things that inspired me the start my image consulting business! These things have a major impact on your life’s path. Why not take advantage of it💎
yes girl, do that dressing casually pretty vid!
So true. happens all the time🥰
Couldn’t agree more 💋
I think it has a lot to do with posture and character. I use a wheelchair and usually only go to medical appointments or therapy in my leggings and without make up but people are always quick to help me and I’ve never gone out without being told directly or overhearing that I’m beautiful/pretty.
I would love to see a video on how to dress casually with that Je ne sais quoi. But also it would be great to learn how to dress for q corporate job but still feminine and not boring❤❤
I think a lot of the looks of ralph lauren brand look very nice. The looks are elegant and beautiful.
there is pretty privledge but if dont have it you can gain the outcome of it by manifesting it and trully beleiving your some goddess type like marilyn monroe or jayne mansfeild .society is only brainwashed to beleive looks matter its actually inside that attracts .
We're actually biologically wired to respond better to people that we find attractive. Our pupils dilate when we see attractive people and cute children subconsciously; we don't control that, and it's natural. This even happens with animals in regards to mating, and they are not influenced by any artificial media. Babies even do it! On a primal level, looks do matter and will always matter, even if we tell ourselves they don't to make ourselves feel better. Society does play a part, but to an extent.
Yes, it is amazing, people will say that Marilyn Monroe was a godess and absolutely perfect. She was a natural beauty for sure but I have known so many women who I think look just as pretty. So creating an image and an aura can make a big difference for sure.
I have always loved wearing dresses and looking feminine. I take care of myself and workout regularly. I do it for myself because it makes me happy but I notice men like that eye candy. They will let me cut inline and try to make eye contact with me and smile at me all types of different men😊
Hello lisa. Could you please suggest a few movies and books to enhance one's feminine confidence. I hope I asked the right question
9:14 Lisa could you please give us a video on this inspiring lady. The idea that women can recreate themselves and that beauty is created is so very powerful! We have the ability at our fingertips and between our ears.
You’re a lovely person. Your CZcams channel is fun and don’t let all this wokeness change you. Your above and beyond that!
Where is her dress from? I need to know 🤩❤️
I have found men are nicer but a lot of women are more bitchy towards me when I am dressed up/makeup and hair done
It's because they view you as competition; they'll never admit it though. Seeing a beautiful woman should inspire other women, not make them catty.
Just someone's gait can make or break a look.
You should not sound guilty because you have class!
You remind me of Bollywood actress Mallika Sherawat your voice too and she had a long term french partner
You are a gift to many 🎁
I want the video on how to dress casually with the je ne sais quoi, s'il te plaît 😊
I love to dress the part but I hate to overdress because it doesn't feel natural to me
Where do you buy all those beautiful satin and silk dresses??
I absolutely ADORE you Darling 🌹
Please do some vids of where you get your dresses, and the strapless bras you use. I need to know, lol.
Good looks matter even when you're a man let alone being a woman because looks and personality really closely intertwined
How? I think it's more about maturity and self confidence. I have known physically unattractive people who had great personalities and unattractive people with unattractive personalities; gorgeous people with lovely personalities and gorgeous people with horrible personalities.
@@timriehl1500 I used to be in a romantic relationship with someone who wasn't good looking and he was terrible he was cheating on me right in front of my eyes and lying to me as If I would never know at the end when I stopped putting up with his bs he gave up and broke it off and found his match
Yes casual fatale video ;)
Your video is spot on. Thank you for sharing your genuine opinion. ❤
I look very good for an older woman but I want to dress better. I have received pretty privilege all my life but in my estimation this has not made life a bowl of cherries. I have overcome many challenges. I did make more money, receive better treatment, and was admired by men. Women not so much. I go out of my way to talk to beautiful or pretty women and they often light up because they are often starving for female companionship, as am I. Once I met Pamela Anderson at a book signing. We chatted for so long people behind were giving me dirty looks. I felt strongly that she would have gladly left that scene to have a shopping afternoon with me instead.
I'm not sure why people worship pretty privilege so much when it doesn't guarantee happiness at all. I see many beautiful women with horrible lives. I always cringe when I see people put pretty privilege on a pedestal
I never was ever perceived as a real female because of my looks. Suddenly I'm 27, had a barely legal boy say he was in love with me, got dumped by a decent fox of a man for something that wasn't my looks (distance), and I think now I got a white country boy that's smitten with me?
He's not some typical 6ft statue but he is built like one. A Roman one... and he's actually nice to me. Like he knows all the fucked up parts I tried to hide and he's still here...
I... I don't deserve any of this. I shouldn't have this, if I couldn't go a day where I wasn't bein' beaten or screamed at back then... why would now be any different?
Why the sudden shift? That ain't fair...
Where was that love, that peace, that safety, that stability?
Where was it when I was a child?
Get therapy so you will deal and heal from your childhood trauma . Love yourself and get serious with him🥰
You sound incredibly confused
@@tessy28 are you trying to be condescending?
Cause you sound like it and that's just confusing me more :/
Shit man, sorry my ugly privilege plight bothered you so much...
I struggle to feel confident about my looks. When I was younger, like 18-20 I would get constant attention from men and yet still even then I struggled. Now at 36 the attention is a lot less and the struggle is even more even though I have a nice body and I know I don't look all that bad.. But I still compare myself to prettier friends and tend to feel bad about myself. I really wish I could get to the point of just feeling really confident.
Honestly the best way that I found myself to get out of that way of thinking was to say positive affirmations about myself and not compare myself to other woman (which is easier said than done 😂) once you do that eventually when you see other pretty woman you can think “she’s pretty but so am I “ another women’s beauty isn’t a deterioration
of yours if that makes sense 😂
For me, it’s the opposite! I’m getting more attention from Men now at almost 31 years old than I did when I was 21-22
Comparison is the theft of Joy. You are an entire package, it's not just about your looks. You also have talents and abilities and have done things that your "prettier" friends probably envy.
So, here's the key...stop looking for external validation before you love yourself. Respect yourself, take care of yourself and be concerned only with your own estimation of yourself. No one else is living your life, so why would you care if someone else approved of your job/outfit/face/fill-in-the-blank?
On the flip side, imagine you got a whole truck-ton of validation from external sources just for your physical appearance. So then what? Compliments or the feeling of acceptance is nice, but would that pay your bills? Do your housework? Fill the hole in your soul because you're not filling up your own cup? Probably not.
There's nothing wrong with you. Look in the mirror and pick out your 3 favorite features and create ways to accentuate them. Then, go be your fabulous self and attract the right people for YOU, not a fake image you think you have to aspire to in order to fit in. Trust me that you'll feel a lot better about life that way.
@kiaraeijo same for me. I get more attention now at 38
i love u so much i say this with all love ive noticed u say woman when talking about lots of them but its pronounced differently. The way u say it means one female. Its wee men. 🥰🙏🏻 I know you're french so just helping♥️
Pretty Privilege is real and I think the disdain comes from when people abuse that privilege to justify cruelty. That then opens the floodgates to a lot of defeatist and toxic ideologies; 'They look so good, they must be a narcissist', or 'they're compensating for their lack of smarts'. Yes, there are people who are pretty on the outside but rotten on the inside. However, I have had the honor to meet a lot of gorgeous woman and handsome men who are wonderful people on the inside. Basic cleaning up, putting on deodorant, and wearing clean clothes does wonders.
There is also that fear that those who have a pretty partner will set up impossible expectations for a good-looking person. I'm talking the expectations of looking like a million bucks for every activity in the day. If your partner needs a break, they deserve it. It's called putting your partner's needs before your wants. Is any of this making any sense?
can you make a content 'bout how to deal with mean ugly people at university? its so frustrating like they keep on spreading false accusations at school, as if it makes them prettier me. hope someone here give me advice.
Yes, exactly
You need to have a healthy self esteem high self esteem is a reverse low self esteem according to my life experience it's kind of similar to Blair Waldorf when she kept attacking her friend Serena van der woodsen because of her insecurities
pretty women bring it on themselves.