7 Things To NEVER Do On A First Date
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Timecodes (Episode #136):
00:00 - Intro
00:19 - Skip Intro
01:42 - Wootak And Jordan's Halloween Party
12:34 - Why Does Wootak Throw The Best Parties?
20:15 - How Do You Throw A Good Party?
41:37 - Drunk Alter Egos
52:25 - Jeremy The Serial Pee-er
1:21:33 - Oyster Girl
1:26:58 - First Date Etiquette For Women
1:46:42 - Have You Ever Left A Date Early?
1:55:06 - Dating Etiquette For Men
2:06:26 - Do Men Need A Roster?
2:17:44 - Outro
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I love ya’ll but I feel like y’all are always so quick to shut down Esther’s pov/opinion but expect her to conform to y’all’s opinions majority of the time. Keep in mind she’s the only person on the pod that can give you a woman’s pov/ thought process. Most of us women think like Esther, just take what she says and move on instead of shutting her down or telling her she’s wrong.
Nah bro if it's the first date thing it just shows which ones are just using guys or not
It’s mostly wootak that does this. I love this podcast but it’s not cool when he starts yelling when people have a different opinion…
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i can agree with that, but they are all close friends and adults so maybe that’s just how their relationship works. Idk maybe it’s just me
I agree with this, some improvement can definitely be made!
Poor Esther she was fighting for her life arguing with Wootak😭😭
You could really feel the lack of feminine energy in this video. Esther was out here fighting for her life.😵💫
Fr we needed more girls gaslighting the guys about why they're not entitled
I’ve noticed this happening more with each new episode lately
I ain't gotta lie, Esther was spitting nothing but facts about the first date scenario. She stood 10 toes down, even after they all disagreed with her and called her entitled. You're not entitled Esther and you a real one.
S*imp
she is.
That's sounded pretentious to me and I really like her opinions most of the time especially when it comes to food but not this time
Good job Esther. I know what you’re talking about. From the beginning my man would get genuinely annoyed/offended if I’d offer to pay because he’s not broke 😂 the girls that get it get it
I love you Wootak but people are allowed to have a different opinion than yours. It’s not always so black and white! Maybe Esther has a point too with how she was raised and her experiences as a woman. Relájate Papi!
wootak should take it down a notch. he can have his own different opinion from esther’s, but constantly repeating “you’re entitled, you’re entitled” towards her does not make his argument stronger. instead it makes him seem close minded and unwilling to engage in a constructive conversation. he could’ve conveyed his point with a little less hostility but that’s just me
this!
I love this podcast, but sometimes I wish I could be up there with Esther! Cause I know I can stand on business when it comes to my point of view. 😅 love Wootak I think he’s a great leader, and a dedicated passionate person, but should consider working on hearing out opposed POV with grace. His pride sometimes get too in the way of hearing out other perspectives. I’ve noticed this pattern in multiple episodes. With that being said we all have things we all need to work on🙂
He’s a Leo 😂😂
I agree on the issue with Wootak & pride. I think he feels so strongly about his ideas, that he is very quick to shut opposing thoughts down
This episode really showed why it didn't work out with Esther and Wootak. They say opposites attracts but their perception on relationship and dating is very different from one another. Since women are wired to be attracted to men who are protectors, providers and leaders while men are drawn to women who are nurturers, caretakers, and teachers (mainly on love). Which is why there are differences between Esther and Wootak, and why I agree with both of them to a certain extent. Esther doesn't want to date a bum and wants a gentleman with leadership qualities while Wootak wants someone to be his life partner that is caring, emotionally and physically there and can learn and grow with each other. It's female and male nature coming into play.
Eddie’s reaction to Esther killed me within the first minute Lmaoo
Kanyesther and JeremyKardashian are married at this point i refuse to believe otherwise.
I like the debate between Esther and Wootak. Yes , she's the only female but it's not like the guys bully her or anything. She holds her own and stands on what she says period. They don't try to coddle her or go easy on her just to appease the audience or nothing of that sort. She also doesn't change her opinions or feelings to appease them either. I love it.
In the good words of Jeromy ,
THIS IS A PODCAST 🗣
Nah I’m with Easter many men around the world hate the dinner dance they find it disrespectful if women offers to pay for a date
That’s most of my guy friends. They were raised by parents that told them that they should never let a woman pay so they hate when I try to pay 🤷🏻♂️
@@Kanyewesther Good job Esther. I know what you’re talking about. From the beginning my man would get genuinely annoyed/offended if I’d offer to pay because he’s not broke 😂 the girls that get it get it
I like wootak tbh but he be getting a lil too extreme w Esther, she be right a lot but just falls alone
Esther and Jermey announced they are dating and at 0:54 Esther sneaked in a “I love you Jeremy”
Esther needs to stand her ground like the first date scenario more often! Love to see it!
Debate with the boys!
I love this podcast to death, but at the same time you guys are giving advice to basically influencers from LA. Majority of every date is not wealthy. I don’t know that my two cents
poor esther always fighting for her life 😭 love yall tho
Eddie reaction at 0:51 is just hysterical
Esther needed help..lol I've had guys annoyed when I pay. Which shows their character, but it's not every man that wants you to pay.
It’s true! lots of my guy friends will toss my credit card if I ever tried to pay lol.
When the podcast starts off chaotic, you know it's gonna be crazy fun😂 love you guys❤
Love this podcast and I follow it on everything, but the backtracking on what y'all say in other episodes is getting crazy. Theres multiple episodes where you all agreed that if you don't have the bag up, do not date around because the one who is doing the asking out should pay. Sorry that in heterosexual relationships the majority of the time it is a man asking out a female. Wootak was just shitting on Esther for agreeing to the standard that men created then when she called herself different, it became an "in general" problem. You guys pushed Esther aside to form a statement based on personal experiences. If "99%" of the females around you are that shallow like Wootak states, SURROUND YOURSELF WITH OTHER WOMEN. Bless Esther for staying strong while Wooktak just screams around the word entitlement 😭.
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Ion think Esther is entitled for wanting someone who asked her out to pay for the date, especially knowing she said she’d get the next one. If you’re telling someone that and following through, I don’t see an ounce of entitlement in allat.
Esther funny asf😭 also no offense wootok but you gotta stop with that corny ass plushie ad😭
I love that Esther knows she is hilarious. 😂
Bro yall need to either add another girl to this or start being more open to different opinions.
Lmaoooo nah the comment about Viet not talking anymore and saying he should be a camera man instead got me crying. Its crazy because I binge watched a couple episodes and I'm like... Viet really isn't talking lmao like everyone else is chiming in on the questions and everything but I just didn't comment
I used to mostly listen to these but I’m so glad to watch. There’s so much body language that makes these 10x funnier. Ester and Viet straight up killing me!
ckckck poor Esther here. She’s actually spitting our women thoughts though
My husband has both a history of sleepwalking and also drunkenly peeing in spaces....he's peed in drawers, corners, and other things that loosely could resemble a toilet. He never remembers and also denies this habit. Sorry Jeremy.
First time i seen Esther so passionate on a topic
And as she should ‼️ They kept ganging up on her to make her opinion seem less valid.
Let her speak.
Esther jacked asf from carrying the weight of being the First Lady of UTI 😭🔥
Esther right whoever invites pays simple! men or women
eddie bringing some really great points to the pod! more eddie! eloquent guy
nah istg i remember wootak giving men advice ab not dating till u got ur money up but here hes arguing for the opposite😭
He’s lowkey a hypocrite
And did I not say I always pay on the date? Y’all do not have basic listening and word comprehension skills
@@barchemistry nah this isnt how i wanted to be noticed by u😭 all love, just im a religious UTI watcher so it was jarring to jump from an episode where u implied a woman IS entitled to a mans money on dates (hence money up) to this episode where youre saying women are inherently entitled for expecting that w negative connotations around it 😭 kinda out of pocket of u to basically yell at a woman saying ‘ur entitled then!’ repeatedly too😭
i j think theres a difference between having expectations and entitlement zz i get that you get it, but men who dont understand that and operate on the belief that women are inherently entitled to their money on dates can fall down the misogynistic incel pipeline rq yknow… all love still🤍
@@barchemistry it’s okay wootak, keep being you :)
A party with y’all would be so much ✨fun✨Also can’t wait to try the new Nectar flavors
Viet parties like he working a 9-5 🤣 "I don't think I'm going out tomorrow. Hopefully not" like he gotta wait for his time off to get approved lmaoooo
Oh Esther ateee. If ur really up u wouldn’t care about “the dance” 🤷🏽♀️
I love you guys! UTI is the best podcast ever, like that vibes around you like it's fire!😘😘😘
If I was a woman on this show, I would be so uncomfortable. Yay Esther!! Expecting a woman's body after paying for a meal is entitlement. That's male sexual entitlement. Why do you hate women, Wootak? I'd rather risk losing some money on a date (ESPECIALLY if the capitalist and patriarchal system favored me) than risk losing my life or body
calm down lmao who cares if it’s all consensual anyway, stop calling people misogynistic any chance you get you weirdo 💀 misogyny means hatred for women LMAO
if it’s consensual then nobody cares
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You’re nonsensical
This ep was funny asf, had to come here from Spotify to show love and to let it be known 😂
Definitely need more Videos with Eddie !!
Now I’m rewatching the old episodes after the reveal of jeremy and esther LOLLLL DAMNN
Literally the best podcast on the internet ❤
Why is wootak so rude about others opinions.
0:58 Eddie expression here is OURSssss tooo 😲😆
this episode was hilarious :') wish i lived by LA to party with yall
9:37 I’m sorry but Viet’s haters are actually so funny
UTI, my fav podcast!!
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My nana has been watching a bunch reality of dating shows, I think that y’all would be very funny on a reality dating show 😂😂
Esther’s laugh when Jeremy said to let the girl pay to test her… lol sounded like a dolphin lol
lol if a guy is truly a provider and capable to pay, he wouldn't even worry if the girl is offering to pay or not lol i get that its a show of character but why is it always related to money lol its not a minus point imO
This was a really good podcast lol
If you are asking the person out on the date, the person who is asking should pay for the date
a two hour episode? yall spoiling us
It looks like Esther respects Wootak's opinion and doesn't shun him while Wooktak lacks some open mindfulness and believes only his opinions are right (at least it seems). That's the thing though, opinions are opinions. They all come from one's perspective, beliefs, how they were raised, and your environment, etc. They both answered according to their life experiences and that's that, there was no need to keep pestering about the topic (on both sides). My take is that, I'm siding with Esther. You're not entitled babes, ya real.
I like how they’re talking about if you can’t throw a party don’t but I can’t even get invited to one 😂
Yall posting this and i just had date yesterday 😩😩😭
Viet got his thunder clappers OUT
Does that mean his thighs?
Eddie's expressions be hilarious lmaooo 😂
not Esther saying i luv you Jeremy when promoting Nectar the guy next her reaction HE WAS Speechless and the look she gave him like I know
noti gang
oh jeromy definitely pissed in that suit case
also i can see woo being either super fun and lovable or being angry and going in on everyone +/- swinging. there is no in between
And I love you jeremy - Esther 🤣
1:44:23 10000000000%%%%%% angreee with Esther in thisss!!!!!
Women who want the bare minimum, most gentlemen dating experience = Too Entitled - Wootak
As a woman, I have never been asked or expected to pay. Just drinks, didn't pay or wasn't asked. Dinner, lunch no matter what the meal I don't contribute. I went out once with a guy that I didn't really like, I felt kinda bad because he kept trying to go out with me so I did. He was so shy, I carried most of the conversation so that it wasn't awkward silence. Pulled my card out and he insisted to pay. Mostly men that are 7-10 years older than me end up asking me out. They are more established and have money. I promise you they are not expecting me to ask to split the bill. I've even turned down guys because I said "hey now isn't a good time for me financially" and they insist that it doesn't matter and they insist they're paying. Personally I'm not expecting to pay if I'm on a "date". I will always have my wallet and credit card and debit card just in case but I'm not expecting to use it. It's more so if the guy really couldn't pay then I don't want to be embarrassed at a restaurant, I'll just pay and go.
Edit: I agree with Esther
Edit: Last guy I went out with I actually did pull my card out but I wasn't entirely sure at first if we went out as "friends" or it was meant to be more. He did not let me pay and took me to two different places in 1 day.
The moment Esther had my cracking tf up within the first minute… I knew it was going to be a great podcast🤣🫶🏼
Finally!
I don’t comment much but listening to Wootak say Esther is 100% entitled was so distasteful. She is such a generous person with a lot of sense and validity to her reasons. If a guy invites me to the first date, he should pay, no offering needed. Just let the man be a gentleman. I just say “thank you for dinner, next one is on me”. Or pay for dessert or something if the date continues. And I would definitely offer to pay next time. But EXPECTING the girl to offer or else you’ll be disappointed is such an bad mindset. I hope you open your mind a lil Wootak.
best podcast
Eddie is such a wholesome guy!
Esther is such a baddieeeeeeeee 🤤❤️
Why did I relate to Viet so much in this episode…it’s heartbreaking on my part.
Wooktak the next 2nd cameramen. 😂
Y'all get your drinks in Florida and I'll try em
"When you drink alcohol, Livey sad. Livey frown. Livey put that smile upside down." 🔥😮💨
- Wootak Thee Stallion
only here for the leo gemini love between viet and wu
So, in the second scenario, Eddy was right. The guy had another reservation, but they missed it cause she was late, so they ended up going to the cheesecake factory.
How do i buy tickets to your parties from australia???!?!?
This is my weekly Eddie is so cute comment
Actually there are two types of conversationalists! People who ask questions to continue the convo and people who talk and want the other person to just chime in. I’m in the latter so to the former it may seem like I’m uninterested but rly it’s just more like I’m hoping for a better flow.
I get the same kind of migraines Viet it’s annoying af the sparkles
Wait… would super bonsai help with Asian flush 🤔
Jeremy was pissed about those pee allegations 🤣🤣
All the BYOB BYOW parties I use to see were usually HS kickbacks & house parties .
My dad used to black out and pee in random places. One day he came stumbling into me and my sisters room. He stumbled over my bed and pissed in our closet. (I was in elementary and my sister was in middle school. I thought this was normal until i started telling people about my family and they became standoffish) 🤦🏾♀️
Well shit it's not your fault that your dad acts like that 🤷 I would have still been your friend girl...but probably not come over for sleepovers 😅 don't want pissed on
I believe Jeremy!!! He did NOT piss in the suitcase !
yoooh yall have so many funny stories im literally having a jeremy moment.....yall are hilarious as fuck!!!
I love yall
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i like wootak but him getting heated about the date paying stuff is such a turn off. Esther is right!🤷
Earlyyyyyyy🙌🏽💚
Is it a running joke or is Esther & Jeremy actually dating?
Looks like they are..
last time i checked esther wanted him but i’m not sure if they’re an item
this episode is funny as fuck! 🤣💀
1:31:10 the story that Eddie and Jeremy were talking about is the same story
The guy made a reservation and told her about it, he went to pick her up told her that he was outside and to come out she kept telling him to wait a little bit (made his wait and hour) and because of that they missed the reservation and he took her to The Cheesecake Factory and she got mad and made a video of it and she wouldn't get out of the car so he then said that he would just drive her back home and she got mad and he said that had she been on time and ready they wouldn't have missed the reservation
They even did an interview somewhere to talk about it because the video went viral
What's ur guys thoughts on pickmes
okay , but Jeremy look good with this hair .
Cheesecake Factory is literally delicious and expensive. Y’all just snobby going for 200 dollar steak 😂 in this economy especially
Cheesecake Factory’s desserts slaaaaaaap though.