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Ending the Debate on Aisha (ra)'s Age-Dr.Omar Suleiman
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Early Marriage - Truth Vs Hype
If an 18-year-old man comes to you and says he’s getting married, you’d question his decision-making skills. You’d think he’s getting married too early. Similarly, if an 18-year-old woman tells you that she’s getting married, you’d ask her to do a “reality check” and may be even discourage her by telling her she’s too young, and she should go to college or build a career.
Even though 18 is the legal age most countries, does anyone today really believe that an 18-year-old is ready for marriage?
Does "one size fits all" really work for determining a minimum age? Should the fact that girls mature earlier than boys be taken into account? Or, should we just ignore biology and make it the same for both girls and boys in the name of “equality”?
The minimum age for marriage has been increasing worldwide. In all pre-modern traditional cultures, it wasn’t unusual for girls to consummate marriages between the ages of 10 and 12 and that was considered normal back then, but not today. No one found it surprising to marry a 10- to 12-year-old girl. In fact, if you read your great-grandmother’s biography, you’d be shocked and surprised to see how young she was when she got married! But that was the norm.
In modern societies, girls are highly discouraged from getting married early, even at 18. Early marriage is considered bad. They’re told that education and careers are far more important and beneficial for a young woman than marriage and having children. Movies and TV shows constantly show career women as happy, smart, and successful, and house wives and homemakers as miserable and losers.
In pre-modern cultures, girls would look forward to getting married and start a family. They did not see it as we see it today. They saw marriage as a benefit--social and financial benefit. They did not see it as a burden, like we do today. That was the norm for them. And this was true in all religions-Judaism, Christianity, Islam, Hinduism, etc. It was also true in also all countries, cultures, and regions of the world. No one thought it was weird. Late marriage was actually looked down upon.
Today, however, things are opposite. We find it weird. We don’t like early marriage. We’ve been indoctrinated in schools. We are told that it's always better for a woman to have a career and work than to have children and raise them. Women are taught to delay marriage for career.
And how has all this impacted woman? Are they happier now than ever before because they're so "empowered"? Just look at the statistics. Happiness is consistently going down. And men and children are also negatively impacted. The result is that most Western nations, which are champions of women's rights and empowerment, are in decline-population is imploding. Europeans are simply not having enough babies. Birth rate has fallen dangerously low to beyond replacement levels. Europe has no future. They need humans. They need immigrants to power the economy and pay taxes. But immigrants are hated in Europe. Marriage is ruined.
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Big business and politicians do not like early marriage because it’s bad for the economy. Women entering the workforce helps increase the supply of labor which in turns lowers wages. Businesses and corporations benefit when there are more women in the workforce. Women who work consume more and spend more. So, it’s good for business to have working women. The governments and corporations want to influence women for their own benefit. They don't want the fathers and husbands making decisions. That's why patriarchy is demonized. Women are told to not be slaves to their husbands and fathers so they can be more “empowerment”. But they only end up becoming slaves of corporations. Women are told that men will dump them and leave them poor. Thus, they should not trust them. Instead, they should trust the Big Biz and Big Gov! The Big Biz and Big Gov will take care of them better than their husbands and fathers! There's nonstop propaganda and indoctrination via education and mass media. We constantly hear of stories of abused women. This scares and terrifies women into distrusting men. It forces them into delaying marriage and pursuing careers to protect their financial future. The fear is real. Fear is the greatest motivator.
We’re told that it’s perfectly normal for a woman to have both a career and raise children at the same time. While this may work for some (a minority), it does not work for all women. It harms them and the society. Many women get burnt out trying to juggle jobs and raising kids. It's too much.
We expect women to work like they have no kids, and have kids like they don't work. We have put unrealistic demands on women. Stress, depression, and disintegration of the family. The statistics are there. It is unfair to women. Women have been tricked into believing that having a career and family are the norm.
Modernity and liberalism have changed everything. Today we find early marriage shocking, but the pre-modern people lived in a very different time period. They didn’t go to schools or colleges. They didn’t pursue careers as there weren’t any to begin with! Rich women invested their money into businesses by hiring men. They weren’t exactly your CEOs or “boss babes”. Women are celebrated and praised for being CEOs, but never for being mothers or wives.
In pre-modern societies, girls did not care much about careers because there weren’t any to begin with! There was no vocational or job training for any jobs because girls didn’t get jobs.
The million-dollar question is this: For such a girl (living in pre-modern world), why won’t she get married, enjoy sex with her husband, and have children who love her?! Why on earth would a pre-modern girl refuse to get married early? She had much to gain, and little to lose. Her husband was her boss. Why not sleep with your husband-boss and be happier? Why wouldn't a pre-modern woman raise her financial and social status by marrying? Hypergamy was a thing in the past. And hypergamy is still a thing! Women don't marry lower status men. Marriage is still, yes, it’s hard for our liberal minds to accept it, the best option for women.
Early marriage was not only the norm, but also the most sensible and financially beneficial thing to do. That was then. Still, we have many poor villages in India and Africa where this works. As long as there’s no harm, let them do it.
Liberalism has brainwashed us into rejecting early marriage. Girls are denied the freedom to marry early. Yet, girls are told they can sleep with anyone they want, have sex with anyone, “discover”, and even change their gender any time without parental consent! Liberalism is stupid, dangerous, and destructive. It’s ruining lives, families, communities, and societies. Why is the population in almost all secular liberal states in decline? Most Western nations are in decline-population is imploding. Europe has no future-thanks to liberalism! Most Europeans do not want to have children. They prefer to raise dogs and cats. In America, there are more pet dogs and cats than children!
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You have gone through a lot trying to protect a book for of bull CRAP name Hadith that makes Islam and Muslims look bad !
why don't you just GET RID of Those insane books and stop calling them SAHIH??
If Abu Bakar gave his little 6 years old daughter to a man over 50 years old ,he must have been either STUPID or Drunk. and most certainly;y a LAUGHING STOCK in the neighborhood!
Now you can post all that bull that you want ,nothing will convince a non-Muslim to stop attacking the messenger of Allah and Islam on this issue!
This particular debate will never end.
@dollishillwork We Muslims and scholars never refer to this issue to Quran. This is why the debate never ends.
@@muhammadislaam9911 Not quite. The debate will never end because it is both a controversial and embarassing (for Muslims) issue and non Muslims will never let go this matter.
@dollishillwork You are right. This is because Muslim Scholars always refer it to unreliable narrations. If they stop this and quote verses concerning this matter every time, it will be resolved automatically. The Non- Muslims will get befitting replies every time. This is if they stick to Quran varses and stop quoting unreliable narrations.
Theres a plan to increase age of consent to 24. If this increase gets approved, I wonder if they will also criticize those who get married at 18.
Prolly not. They always just want to find mistakes
You acting like 9 is somehow comparable to 24, or 18 for that matter, is ridiculous.
It’s irrelevant to speak to anyone about this.
1. This was 1400 years ago and these types of marriages happened MANY times
2. In the United States, since 2000, over 300,000 child MARRIAGES happened alone.
Do you ever hear any American talking about that? No. They just talk about 1400 years ago, without ever mentioning what’s happening in their own backyard. Frauds.
Reference for this "plan"?
Dr Suleiman could have been a bit more succint in his response - 1400 years ago the life expectancy was much shorter and people aged very quickly. A'isha's age was estimated to be around 9. Probably that was still very young, even at the time. But from the Sunnah it is certain that she has a place of the highest regard in confirming what the Prophet (pbuh) actually said while alive or not and certifying related stories of his companions. The Prophet pbuh also deferred to her in many matters. 9 years of age of today was probably 14-15 in those times. It is said that the marriage was consumed years later so she probably was at an age equivalent to our late teens when she consorted with the Prophet pbuh. Not something we would considering doing at this day and age obviously but we need to remember the different context. Edit: I just checked, and the life expectancy in the Middle Ages in Europe was just 33 years.
Based on what was she 9 at marriage?
The Qoraan The Perfect and fully detailed Word of Allaah The Almighty The Creator of all The Most Just The Most Loving The Most Merciful...is NOT for arrogant people with a disease in their heart.
It’s a lie to suggest children were different 1400 years ago. That’s just not true.
I see a lot of disgusting justification for sleeping with a child so I’ll ask anyone reading this.
Do you think it’s ever ok to sleep with a 9 year old?
Firstly, it is traditional scholars who made this issue by believing and promoting unreliable narrations. Whenever this question is asked or the topic discussed, they directly go to unreliable narrations. The Muslim Scholars never refer to this matter to the Quran the Furqan the criterion between truth and falsehood. They give strange explanations. Ask these scholars wether they would give their own six year old or nine years old daughter in marriage?
The truth is only in the Quran Surah An-nisa verse three and six, and this is the per Sunnah. The reason being in Surah Al-Anam verse number fifty and many other places Muhammad ( peace be upon him) says 'I only follow what is revealed upon me'. Surah An-nisa verse three the word An-nisa is used meaning women not girls. The explanation this Scholar gave is incorrect because Messenger of Allah ( peace be upon him) is sent to the whole of humanity, not just for the Arabian Penisula. May Allah give us guidance. Ameen
Its kind of a weird defense to say well no one criticized it before so lets just all forget about it.
Its interesting there is absolutely zero evidence regarding early puberty. In fact the evidence points to the contrary ie puberty occurs earlier NOW than in previous centuries.
Aisha ra was a controversial figure about whom all sorts of traditions abound that paint her in a negative light esp her role in the first fitna. I dont believe any of them. It is a naked attempt to smear her and her age at marriage being young was intended to paint her negatively as well. Its unfortunate that critical scholarship in Islamic studies is so severely lacking
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Didn’t she waged a brutal war against Ali that killed thousand of “ Sahabah)”
She did more damage to Islam than Crusades !😮
Message to the whole world.
STOP talking. It's enough. It's Time.
Following pagan ahadith books claiming it's from
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The Qoraan is The Perfect and fully detailed Word of
Allaah ❤❤❤The Almighty The Creator of all.
Allaah ❤❤❤The Almighty The Creator of all Will INTERVENE.
This is a promise from
Allaah ❤❤❤The Almighty.
Woe to the mouchrekeen.
Don't believe me....just watch.
It's enough
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Benefits of marriage of rasulullah salallahualayuwasallam and aisha radiallahuanha
Firstly we found out what the correct criteria for marriage is its not about being 18 16 12 all ages used in west rather it is about a women puberty physical mental maturity and readyness to get married regardless the age womenhood is based on puberty and physical mental development not age alone a 12 year old still may not hit puberty yet a 9 year old may have hit puberty and her mentality will be different to the girl who hasnt gone through puberty due to hormones and mental boost along with physical development
Before going to the next part response to even some muslim is that she was not 18 19 at marriage infact she couldnt have been anything older then 12 at marriage so those muslim trying to impress the west you need to fix yourself according to three authentic narrations her age was 6 to 9 at engagement 9 to 12 at marriage and 10 to 13 when she moved in with the prophet salallahualayuwasallam she wouldnt have been anything younger or older those are the possiboe ages, in those days age dispute was common, fatima radiallahuanha the daughter of prophet salallahualayuwasallam narrations show she was born 5 years before or 5 years after prophethood both these are unlikely the more agreed possible date of her birth is born on the year of the prophethood or a year after prophethood had started her husband ali radiallahuanhu its said he was 6 9 or 10 when prophethood began so theres a 4 year gap in his age, uthman radiallahuanhu had a 3 year difference for his year of birth you will see for many sahaba their age is slightly disputed but we have a rough idea on how old they couldve been but no doubt she was nothing older then 12 at marriage and 9 minimum
Second benefit of her young marriage was she was of a similar or same age as fatima radiallahuanha the daughter of prophet salallahualayuwasallam depending on which narrations you accept, when she moved in with the prophet salallahualayuwasallam he moved fatima in the same house as aisha radiallahuanha where she quickly became friends with her and would remain close to her even after the prophet salallahualayuwasallam death, also she aisha radiallahuanha got the best of examples to follow there was prophet of allah the best of creation and there was the daughter of the prophet who was one of the four perfect women, she aisha radiallahuanha living with these two great people was a great learning experiance for her in every way she saw how their relationship was their manners good behaviour and in fatima radiallahuanha she had a women to look upto for all this
Last benefit to mentioned she lived upto her 60s or 70s where she narrated the second most hadith of sahaba and spread knowledge
Nonsense
@@pellesvanslyou're closed minded