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0:00 Entitled Mother says she will exile me from the family if I don’t pay off the thousands of dollars’ worth of debt she lost to a Multi-Level Marketing Scheme. (u/Additional-Quote6601)
4:27 Am I the Jerk for agreeing to split the bill on a double date which is starting to lead to my best friend’s relationship falling apart? (u/OkDream6816)
7:18 Am I the Jerk for refusing to make pizzas for everyone at my sisters graduation party at the last minute? (u/Heavy_Pudding_1578)
10:28 My wife walked out on me and my daughter two years ago, and now out of nowhere has suddenly returned and wants to act like nothing happened. (u/Top_Significance4678)
14:10 Am I the Jerk for refusing to pay for my ex-girlfriends plane ticket? (u/ProfessorBig5078)
17:29 Am I the Jerk for not wanting my family to come to my graduation all because they skipped out on my brothers graduation? (u/UnlikelyAd8799)
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On the second story: Its my understanding that the typical ediquite is : the person who extends the invitation pays the bill.
Firstly, etiquette* sorry I just had to throw this out.
Secondly, you're right. Generally speaking, if you invite someone out somewhere, unless it's talked about in conversation beforehand, the one who invited typically pays up the bill.
Women like that because they will never ask so they can get free shite. Feminism won. They can pay their own.
Women only like specific parts of equality. They don't want it in whole because then they can't scam men for free shite. Sorry women. Feminism won. Pay for your own food and drinks.
v.v.o. men only like specific parts of equality. They don't want it in whole because then they can't scam men for free shite. Sorry women. Feminism won. Pay for your own food and drinks.
V.v.o. men only like specific parts of equality. They don't want it in whole because then they can't scam men for free shite. Sorry women. Fem i nism won. Pay for your own food and drinks.
I had something similar happen to me as story #3. I make tamales once in a blue moon, and my mother's friends demanded(not asked) that i make them the next weekend. I told them no, that I had plans. They tried to make them themselves, and I heard they were TERRIBLE! A couple of months later, one of the ladies asked if i could teach her how to make them, and I spent 12 hours at her house making tamales. If they had just asked me, I would have done it. They are not entitled to my cooking.
story 1: Narrator said most of it except... "Your husband won't notice his money is gone"... what the actual fu...
oh, and the brother can't help because his kids are in private school? and "But I just can't leave this neighborhood..." how entitled are these people anyway?!
OP should just tell his whole family what his mom is threatening him with, let them take sides and then block her supporters, let them pay off HER debt instead...
Extremely
Story #2: It REALLY sounds like the friend's just a food dater! Someone that just goes on dates to get free food.
Story #4: She thinks of him as the nice, safe guy, who will 100% take her back. No questions asked! Now that she's done traveling around the world and getting all the "sausage" that she wanted. It makes me wonder if she ever even liked the guy!
Well said there on #2.... its what i was thinking too.
Definitely. I despise those sort of people.
I was thinking the exact same thing with story 4. As soon as she was done getting pumped and dumped for her two year hot girl summer, she came back to the husband she left and hoped he would accept her back like nothing happened. She doesn't need to go back to him, she needs to go back to the streets.
Yeah screw multi-level marketing. My mother got entangled in Amway back in the day. Pretty much bankrupted her.
In my day we called it Pyramid Scheme. But yeah Amway and other ripoffs out there are appalling.
Story #3: seriously this family literally needs to tell OP these things ahead of time like a couple weeks in advance about these things bcuz when it comes to Pizza it takes a few hours for the dough to rise and everything else
People like that just expect people that can cook or who are cooks to be able to make something at the drop of a hat. Its super annoying.... speaking from experience.
I have made pizza before and it takes like five days to make pizza
With the grad oarty; it takes 8 to 12 hours to 'proof' the dough. That sauce can be made that day. The cook time per pizza is approx. 40 minutes So for a home oven that's 2 pizzas at a time. 15 people may be 6 pizzas
As some1 else already commented: We dont even know if the family got all the ingredients OP would need, some people use some special flour or semolina. Also I wouldn´t like to make dough for such a big party by hand or in a normal "homestyle" kitchen machine.
And I totally agree with you that a good dough isnt rlly possible in under half a day, after that it only gets better (for some days, if you handle it right).
But finally: Is OP the guest at his sisters party, or just some free laborer for his family...?!? The way they treat him is just disgusting!
story 4: I wouldn't necessarily know, but maybe walking out is forgivable. Coming back and pretending like everything is great and you didn't just cause irreparable harm to both the husband you vowed to and the child you created is not.
8:44 LMAO she said 14-15 is massive. My mom has 9 siblings alone
This stories keep getting crazier
story 3: I mean, I'm no chef, but even if OP did agree to make pizza, how is it logistically possible to make several truly homemade pizzas for a party that is actively happening right now. I mean did they even bother to get all the ingredients OP would even need? There's prep time, proofing time for the dough, assembly time, cook time... and I'm guessing the house doesn't have a giant industrial pizza oven to cook like 5 at a time. Just wth were they even thinking?
People who arent chefs don't think or consider all the things that go into cooking like that....and don't care too. People like that who are friends or related to cook/chefs make lame requests like this all the time.... speaking from experience.
@@QuickManEXE Gross. If I ever have a chef friend, I will endeavor to not be a jerk.
@@michellecoleman5577 Thats good. As a cook/chef, the 2 most common questions i hear are "what do you like to cook" and "when are you going to cook for me".
Man these stories especially the woman leaving for two years makes me QUAKE.
About making pizzas I'd tell them "so do you have the money for the labour payment ?"
Passive aggressive
Story 3: Even IF OP did agree to make pizza, without having anything prepared the first pizza is MAYBE ready for the oven (not even cooked) by the time all head home. So no, OP cannot be the jerk because it is physically impossible for him to do it in that short of a time, unless he already has the dough ready to go and has a professional pizza oven that gets extra super hot, cutting the baking time considerably.
To make pizza at a home setting you need a LOT of time and preparation beforehand.
AND: Who is even to say they have all the correct ingredients ready for him and in the correct amounts?
8:27 Bruh 14 or 15 in February we had a big family gathering with like 35 people we my parents and siblings almost 30% percent of them
Last story: on the one hand, people did not decide to move the date of the graduation. They had other things to do and depending on when the change was communicated, maybe it was hard to change their plans last minute. So them not coming is not necessarily them not caring to come.
That said, it is clear that the brother is not over that yet. But exactly for this OP SHOULD talk to him about it. Avoiding the topic to spare his feeling might lead to miscommunication, it is way better to clear the air and ask the brother about his opinion in the matter.
Story 6: OPs dad is correct ... life moves on ...they cant stop everything just because the brothers graduation date changed....
OP can be considered selfish for denying their family from seeing 2 graduation...
I was 22 buying my first house, and I lost it because I was giving my mother the mortgage money, and she was actually buying inventory for her "business " and actually got scammed. Years later of her doing crap like this, and even the worst things were the reason I went with no contact with her. We haven't spoken to each other in 6 years.
OP IS the jerk in the graduation story. His brothers graduation ceremony date was foolishly changed 3 days before it was supposed to happen, so that absolutely means all bets are off on attending. Yes it is sad for his brother, but it is not the family causing the harm here, it is whomever changed his graduation date 3 days before that have caused the harm.
I'm on my mom's loft listening to this it's a vibe
For the grad partyone,as a fellow professional chef,I'd have said sure, and given them a price tag double my standard rate.
Story 3: so the OP's wife left all because she "was traveling the world to find herself"? Like that is the most BS excuse I've ever heard. It more seems like she couldn't handle the stress of being married and the responsibility so she just up and left. Sadly that is how most relationships end.
Anytime someone tells you that they need to "find themselves", you can almost be guaranteed that they are actively cheating or want someone else.
You're going to exile me from the family?!?!
Promise?
Story 1. You will never see that money again, so if your happy to gift it to her go for it. I wouldn't do it
story 3 your family are the jerks here they told you at the very last minute you’re cooking the pizza for everyone and not giving enough time to make them tell your family no there’s not enough time to make pizza they can order pizza for 15 people 🤔🤬🤬🤬😡🍕🍕🍕
I would go to the store and buy a bunch of frozen ones, just to spite them.
@@QuickManEXE yeah great idea buy cheap frozen pizza and over cook them or the worst rated pizza and give that 🍕😆😁🤣😂😅
@@sophietierney-jf6el Get the frozen ones.... that way the OP can say that they made them.
story 1 your mother is the jerk here not you you’re mother was told this was a money making scheme and she won’t listen but now she is in debt she is going to get a job or de clear bankruptcy and maybe her husband tell her get a job to help out or get a divorce it might be the only way to make her understand 😡🤔😤😡🤬🤬💴💴💴
There is NO making this type of person understand, neither is it possible to rescue this type of person financially, because even if you tried, they have a talent for making money disappear and then asking for more and it never ends.
Exiled from the family? Explain to me how’s that bad?
You can't lose. Either they stick with that piece of garage, and show that their delusional or more likely they just ignore her and cut her off because it was all her fault.
For the last story, I think the narrator must be losing his marbles or something because the story quite literally explains what the brothers facial expressions were when the father was talking about the op’s graduation that means no he has not moved past it. Four year-old could’ve figured that out.
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I hope u reach 2 mil before the end of this year
*Story 1:* Mother is crazy! Why would she insist that her children pay her debts that she got herself into? She's the jerk in this story, and no one else. What, if anything is she thinking?
On the third story about the pizza I understand why he didn’t want to make it as I’ve made pizza from scratch and it’s hard as your supposed to make the dough like a day ahead as it is supposed to proof overnight because of the yeast so the family is a jerk for not telling him
Not just jerks, plainly stupid.
Tell mom have a garage sale put the oils.
Wow the mother in story 1 is seriously DELUSIONAL.😮😂
On the second story Amy was just upset because her boyfriend got a glimpse of how much of a gold digger she really is.
Tell mom she needs to file bank rupt.
First story: op needs expose what she will do if she doesn’t pay her mom back and op needs to tell her off and shut her down
Your friend is the jerk. Your friend just want a free meal
trip story i think i get what she means because yeah, she IS the only one losing money
no a holes
What was the game un the background,looks interesting and dam, imagine a family member being in dept and blackmailing you to paythe dept
Story one you said you're pregnant right so this sword is a double-edged sword tell your mom if she cut you off from the family she'll never see any grandchildren through you ever, and then tell her to go ahead and Exile you because your siblings are going to be 18 and they're going to come have contact with you but she'll still never get to see your kid ever if she tries this Power Trip you'll win in the long run remind her of that
I could've very easily skipped my own graduation if they would've skipped out on my brother...
For the graduation story it was read like all the reasons the family had for not going to the moved event weren't reasonable. They totally were. I feel bad for the brother but OP's idea rubs me the wrong way.
"Work and Wedding" do not sound unreasonable to me either. If the people already adjusted their work to make it they can't last minute always switch things and around. And what going to a wedding that you agreed to go to because someone is graduation is also not unreasonable. If the family didn't feel like going that's one thing, but those were very reasonable. Also it sounds like OP just didn't want his family there and using is bro and a reason to say don't come.
12 min os crazy
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Story 2 im offended as a man
story 1 : OP'S MUM didnt listen , to op & her brother. ITS HER FAULT not op's OP's mum needs to pay it back and get a danm job.her demanding OP to pay for her depths is mad
st1: ditch the bee… tch 😆
What anime is this?
Dude your wife took off for 2 years to find herself which we both know that means screwing around with every guy she can get her hands on and now she comes back and she wants back in your life because what she ran out of money she can't support herself she needs you Mr ATM to support her hell to the no man why would you do that don't disrespect yourself that way I would never get back with a woman who took off on me for 2 years I would tell her she can have a relationship with my daughter if my daughter allows it but she's not going to come back in my life with some kind of relationship with me that's never going to happen go on with the new girl she sounds more reliable at least she didn't take off and leave you for 2 years when she had a kid with you, you know they call that spousal abandonment and it's against the law you know😮
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I understand that depression is bad but exactly how long does it take for the blame to ship towards them for not trying to fix it or picking and choosing when they decide to try to fix themselves not trying to sound like a dick but if you been depressed and sad anddown has a effect on everyone else in the family or I guess in this case used as a reason why she abandoned her own child etc. there needs to be a fine line between what is considered acceptable and OK now you’re just using the depression as an excuse
No your ex/-girlfriend is the jerk because if she want the trip will op ex pay b&b most likely not. I think op ex want to break up with op and free trip.
The OP mother are in the wrong she needs get job.
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I’m doing this just to annoying the way to sensitive people that’ll get made at stuff that dosnt effect them sad
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