I've had this all my life (26 years) and never once had the bravery to tell anyone I know, let alone post it on CZcams. You sir, are a legend. It's actually reassuring to see someone similar to myself talking about this (British too, I seem to only find American vloggers). I hope all is well now dude, and that you're back on track. Thanks for the video!
I think it's because America is a bigger country haha also I know a few friends of mine that vlog about their colostomies haha If you want I can send you a few links but yeah thank you for your nice comment man! I hope all is well with you man! how are you coping with the bad then bro? is it going well? feel free to share your experience!
Hey man, thanks for the reply! If you could send over those links that would be really helpful! Cheers! How do I cope with it? Right now it sucks! Having major issues, in all honesty I want it gone! Sounds silly saying this after 26 years, but it's gotten to the point where I want my life back! I understand it works perfectly for some people and gives them a renewed life, but sadly not for me.
+SimmerJonny hey man its cool her name is Thaila Syke! I've known her for a while on here now! Here's a link to one of her videos czcams.com/video/oCflG_IBIUQ/video.html ... Go check her out she's awesome! But I know it can be struggle, I guess some people have it worse than others... I mean even the reversal, it wasn't going to happen at one point because my colon started leaking... But these things happen you just gotta stay positive! X
+SimmerJonny hey man its cool her name is Thaila Syke! I've known her for a while on here now! Here's a link to one of her videos czcams.com/video/oCflG_IBIUQ/video.html ... Go check her out she's awesome! But I know it can be struggle, I guess some people have it worse than others... I mean even the reversal, it wasn't going to happen at one point because my colon started leaking... But these things happen you just gotta stay positive! X
Once your stoma quite shrinking, it'll always be the same size. At this time you can ask your suppliers to pre cut your stoma hole and not need scissors anymore.
That is a freaking beautiful washroom! I know that shouldn't be my first point, but just saying.. Anyway, I think it's really brave of you to make a video like this, and I love how you can put some humor into it. I was diagnosed with colorectal cancer when I was 20 years old, and had many sessions of chemo and radiation for about four years and was finally in remission. I was so excited that I was clear, that I didn't realize the havoc the treatments caused my body (mostly my large intestine). I've since been struggling with I can only describe as IBS times 1000. I go through periods of time where I'm okay, however, my life revolves around visits to my GI doctor and using the bathroom. For almost three years after being in remission, I'm still suffering, and my doctors suggested thinking about getting an ostomy. I was really open to the idea, especially after a recent "accident" where I was standing in the queue at the bank and had to pass gas. I didn't feel anything, but the guy behind me said "there's blood dripping down your leg!" It was a lot of blood, and by a lot, I mean to the point where I felt faint. He took his sweatshirt and wrapped it around me and walked me to my car, where he called an ambulance. After that event, I was thrown into depression, where I quit my job and stayed in my room for weeks. I started thinking about the osotomy seriously, and am still seriously considering it. I've done tons of research and heard many stories of people similar to mine who's lifestyle significantly improved after getting the procedure. I was just wondering your thoughts (or any thoughts). I am open to anyone's opinion.
Thank you for your lovely comment ! How have you been coping with it all so far then? it's great to hear from other peoples experiences! I am so sorry for the late response but that is incredible! for one that guy was awesome for helping you out I can't believe that happened though! personally I wouldn't know how to cope if I had blood dripping down my legs without knowing! It's good that guy was actually decent and told you other than let you continue like it! Have you come to a conclusion on what you want to do next? have you got the bag? Trust me it also comes with a lot of benefits... I was able to skip every line at Thorpe Park because of the "inconvenience" :)... but also I too went into depression after having the bag, to the point that it wasn't only affecting me but the people around me. But with counselling and the support from my friends and family I was able to fight through it and here I am today all happy go lucky again!
No worries! No need to apologize for a late response. Any response at all is extremely nice of you! I have not gotten the bag yet, but I have got some consultations. I'm in the US and my insurance will only cover 80% of the cost of the procedure itself (anesthesia, staying in the hospital for recovery, tests/labs, medications, etc... they are all out of pocket) so it's a lot to digest.. no pun intended. I'm pretty sure that I am going to go ahead with the procedure, but after Christmas/New Years, so I have time to recover in peace. I still have some questions/concerns that I haven't been able to find answers to. Like, for example, I am about your size, except less muscle. With the bag, would it be more difficult to gain weight and muscle? Is it difficult to exercise with the bag? Also, does the stoma itself hurt? Is it sensitive to touch? And my final question is about intimacy. You said your girlfriend was very supportive, which is awesome. My boyfriend is also pretty supportive of everything, but I'm afraid the bag will change how we are when we get intimate. We like to touch a lot. I'm just wondering, does the bag stay on? Is it okay to take off for a little while when I'm "in bed"? Do I have to worry about stuff coming out of the stoma when the bag is not on? Will I be aware of the stoma "emptying" when or before it happens? Or will it just empty without me feeling anything? Again, thank you so much for your response. It truly means a lot.
sdesai1989 I'm in the same situation--chronic radiation enteritis, getting progressively worse to the point I really can't leave the house any longer. And my insurance situation is the same--very frustrating. I want to absorb some of the positive attitude of Jack Atkins here. I'm not in a good place right now and my doc says this might help, it just seems like one more thing to deal with when my health plate is already full. I suppose there are quite a few advantages as well. I wonder...if my problem is not only the bathroom, but also the extreme indigestion and pain, does that go away as well with an Ostomy bag?
Ps - when I was on prednisone, I was a monster too, I'm amazed my hubby and family still speak to me! It's a horrible medication, and because of it, I now had osteoporosis and osteoarthritis! But they don't you about the side effects until afterwards. Because of it, I've have to have surgery on both shoulders and both hands too, such a piss off! Btw, great video!
My mum has just had a permanent one fitted after everthing had to be remove because of cancer. Your video was great and has inspired us. Learning to laugh and have a sense of humour really helps.
Please guys, feel free to scroll through the comments and help each other out! I'm sorry if I take a while to respond! I am so happy with the outcome! you are all awesome!
I know you hate having a stoma. Which I do too. I've had mine now for about 2 yrs. now. I. finally found a bag that doesn't leak, like my my old one did. But I Still have accidents where my poop ends up on me and on the toilet and on the bathroom floor. When I go to empty it. Especially when I do it in the middle of the night and I'm half asleep. It is a pain in the butt. ( no pune contented) But hang in there it does get easier! You should sit on toilet in case it leaks out some when you are changing it. Also there are a lot of different products out there that helps with leaks or whatever you are dealing with. So hang in there it does get better. So I like your video, but I. can tell you still have a lot to learn. And you will! from one stoma person to another...Good luck! Laura
ATTACHING POUCH: 1. LBF Barrier spray around stoma 2. Paste around stoma 3. Paste around inside adhesive hole of pouch 4. Pouch, tight fit; 15-25mm, push down hard around stoma, especially up underneath (lift bottom of pouch up), get ring flat on stomach! 5. Elastic tape X2 around edge of pouch (use 2 extra top/bottom if extra activity) - Absolute key if going swimming.
Mate, you're a star! I'm learning about this as I'll admit I'm completely clueless! But someone in my life deals with this same as you every day and I thought I'd best figure out what goes on without being a doughnut. Top lad, wish you all the best fella :)
I wish I had the creativity and bravery to have done this, following rectal cancer in 2012 at the age of 37 I ended up with a permanent colostomy. Hat off to you, your stories are true for all new stoma patients as they adjust to their new function, yes, it's depressing and makes you angry and then you realise those around you that care for you and remain to support you. I too have awoken to comment to my wife "why do you have shit on your nose!". I just showed her this video and we were both crying with laughter, WELL DONE and thank you for no doubt helping may others. Life moves on, you can manage and you do adjust.
I am so glad you showed your wife and you both liked it! I try my best to make a fool out of myself but sometimes it just comes naturally... without even controlling it ;) haha but yeah back to the ostomy point, yeah It was a funny point in my life having it! I mean life in a way was easier. Now I have it reversed I kind of miss it. However, if you want to share more of your story please feel free buddy! Thank you for your lovely comment! I really appreciate it!
wow! 11K views! thank you everyone for the support! I have received so many lovely messages from you great people! unfortunately at the moment I am caught up in some work! I will try to reply to each and everyone of you when I can! but why not check out my other videos whilst your around :) much love! x
Just wanted to drop by and say thanks for this video. We talk a lot on our channel about chronic illness and mental illness, and it can be a very difficult thing to share and you do it beautifully and with just the right humor and light. I had very little knowledge of ostomy bags, etc. before watching and I really value the knowledge I've gained from this video, to be able to open up a discussion about it in our community as well as just for my own knowledge base. Thanks again, hope you are having a great week. - Kate
Hello Kate! Thank you so much for your comment and sorry for the late reply! I have been a little busy but I am glad you liked my video! It was a tough year for me having the Ileostomy, I have recently had my reversal surgery and in a way I kind of miss it haha ;) if there is any questions il be happy to answer them for you the best I can :) x
I hope life is treating you well post reversal surgery! And thank you - I'm sure some things will come up on our channel and I'll definitely take you up on answering some of our questions when they come up. Hope you are having a wonderful week. I'm off to binge watch some more videos now haha :) x
Such a positive and good sense of humor about your bag and I love it! I have a bag as well! I always feel awkward explaining it to people but this made me feel so comfortable about it! I'm hopefully getting mine reversed within the next month! Hope all is well!
Great video, I am a fairly new ostomy patient, March 2014. I live a normal life. Some people can't believe it when I tell them I have one. I share and even let them see it so they understand more about it. I had colon cancer and I'm cancer free now. Thank you for sharing. Kerrie
You have really lifted my spirits because I just got one and I am 59 years old. To watch your video and see you so young, hot, full of life and uplifting brought my spirits WAY up! I've had 3 accidents since I've been home and just got more and more into self pity and when you told about yours, I felt like cleaning the bathroom AGAIN. My friend gave me a good idea of changing it in the bathtub. It's amazing how small it looks in the bag but apparently a little shit can go a long way :( Thank you for cheering me up :)
I like you're attitude. I hope you continue making vlogs like this. I don't have a colostomy but I have many other health issues and up beat blogs with explanations and how to's really makes a big difference. Hell. I bet this video has helped at least one person. Plus it's helped me gain insight on this as well.. My step grandma has an ilieostomy which is similar but on the other side, so its always great to learn more about things in my life that effect others people I know as well. Keep up the great work mate! And stay strong and live your life and most of all, stay as healthy as you can be. Lots of love from down here in Canada.
+Morgan M hey Morgan! Thank you for the amazing comment! I really appreciate it and I am glad my video did you well! I had what your grandma has! I no longer have the Ileostomy as I had a reversal but I am willing to share any knowledge I know with you both! I am in preparation to making more videos in future it's just work gets in the way and girlfriend hahaha that's life I guess hahaha! I hope all is well ! Jack x
I am 21 and have recently had surgery which has left me with a stoma, I am finding it hard to adjust and I am terrified that it will be for life as I am only 2 weeks in I’m soo amazed you are as confident as you are and quite frankly jealous hahaha
Bud I'm 31 And just had a proctocolectomy due to colorectal cancer and it beats the hell out of having chronic pain from a blockage and getting rid of the cancer was great too I'm glad reversal is possible but you can live well with this if you have too keep positive thank you for making me laugh you got a great attitude
This video had me rolling, Jack!! I am scheduled to get a permanent ileostomy later this month and this was just the video I needed to see to make me feel better about it. Thank you for sharing and for bringing a smile to my face!!
I just had colon surgery on Aug. 23rd 2016 so if you see this comment please reply back. I'm a very athletic guy and I'm having a hard time with the bag.
I have Crohn’s disease and I have had surgery on surgery I ended up with sepsis and ended up in emergency surgery and woke up with a colostomy bag. They say it’s temporary but I am so much happier and healthy with it! Even though it took forever to come to grips and adjust it was a major blessing in disguise
Im glad to hear you're coping well! I was exactly the same as you, got so used to it I could see myself living with it. When do you have your reversal surgery? :)
Video made me cry. I have very young children and my colitis is terrible for a while now. Once the opp happens I worry that my little ones will not be able to jump on me due to getting covered in shit. I am so sorry you went through that with your girlfriend. Credit to you for being so honest.
Hey man, don't you worry it is definitely not as difficult as you may think! There are things you may need to be wary of... Like the bag filling up with air because of passing gas and what not but it really isn't that difficult! Please keep me updated on how you do! Xx
This video is absolute gold. Today my grandfather had a colostomy and it was so hard to see him go through that because he had no other option. This really cheered me up and I can teach him how to use his bag 😁
Thank you so much for your lovely comment! I'm glad it cheered you up! Is your grandfather okay? My grandfather also had the bag before I did so after finding out I'd be having one... I was a lot more chilled because it isn't at all bad to live with xx
He actually just passed away yesterday. The infection that took his colon ended up spreading. 😧 but he's not in pain anymore and he was always such a positive and wonderful person to be around so I'm sure he wouldn't want us to be too sad. I keep watching your video cuz it really cheers me up. Thanks for that!
thank you so much, just got mine done a month ago (colostomy) hopefully temporary. I'm still coping and trying to get used to it, and it's videos like this that make it it a bit easier day by day. thank you!
Nice message about your Stoma (ostomy) situation and great to see you're showing you can dress fashionably in a tight t-shirt and jeans. It's inspiration like this that has started my CZcams channel!
I don't know if you have figured this out but if you eat marshmallows before you change the bag the output doesn't come out as much, when you wash it in the shower if you use head 'n shoulders then it helps with the skin.
Yeah I was I had mine since I was 18 and I am going to get it reversed in April for the second time the firs time it was bad and they had to but the bag back on and I had about five surgeries so many crap surgeries just had some bad luck but I am hoping in my sixth surgery goes well in April
Oh man, the steroids turned me evil too. ;) I like how you explained your surgery and whatnot. Just remember; a colostomy is using your colon, an ileostomy is using your small intestine (the generic term for all types is 'ostomy'). I can't wait to see more videos :)
Hahah ooh I see I see... the bloooooomin consultant never made it clear to me :L yeah Steroids were the worst! how long were you in hospital for? :O there will be more to come don't you worry haha
No problem! The media always reports it as a colostomy as the generic term, which doesn't help! ;) I was in hospital for two weeks in Feb 2010 (blood transfusions, antibiotics, fluids, vitamins, Modulen, steroids & Azathioprine) and then for a month in March-April 2010 recovering from the operation (problems with my mid-line wound popping back open... yummy...)
Carli smith I don't know why he had it for a year, but I've had my ostomy for a while because of surgical complecations. things need to heal and settle down before you can attempt a successful reversal.
What happen happen if someone tugged down on the bag. Also how didn't you smell your shirt covered in crap You should have kept the see through one for summer. Carrying your poo around is the next trend
Hi Jack, my brother was sadly diagnosed with Ulcerative Colitis today, and he's been put on a HUGE amount of medication including steroids. If the medication doesn't work they have given him the option to remove the colon and have the baggy thingy to get rid of waste externally. I have a few questions if you have the time you could maybe answer for me?: 1) Does this effect you going swimming ( such as on holiday), and if not what can be done to cover up the intestine? 2) Half way through 2015, are there different ways once the colon is removed to get rid of waste NOT externally? So he doesn't have to use the bag? 3) Were you put on medication such as steroids, and if so did you put on a lot of wait but lose it again very quickly? Lastly: 4) If the colon is removed, I know that the ulcerative colitis will be gone. Does that mean the chance of getting bowel cancer reduces? ️Thankyou for your help if you do read this. It will mean a lot to me as I'm so scared for him and I want him to be healthy for the rest of his life x x x x
I've had ulcerative colitis for 7 months now. I found that living life as normally as possible, whilst taking Health Aids 5000mg Aloe Vera capsules, probiotics and making myself a juice from organic Carrots, Apples and Napa cabbage have made my symptoms so bare able that I'm pretty much back to complete normality. I take no medicine or drugs AT ALL. Also, believe it or not, smoking just 4 cigarettes a day will completely suppress the symptoms, possibly even cure Ulcerative colitis. Nicotine does something that no one can work out. Only 2% of ALL Ulcerative colitis sufferers are smokers, the rest are non smokers. And only 4 cigarettes a day will hardly effect your health at all.
Hi Jack. It must take an awful lot of balls to put something like that up. It looks like I'm going be in the same situation in the near future and this vid really helped with coming to terms with it. A big thank you for doing this man!
Hey man! Thank you for the lovely comment! It's cool man, you get used to it after a while, if anything it makes you much more cleaner than most people because you won't suffer from "dirty arse" anymore haha :) but yeah man keep me updated on how you get along! If there is anything you want to ask give us a message :)
I had started to have lower back problems that I thought were a result of work.Line of work is rough.However,it began to spread to below my waist down to my lower crotch.My sitting began to be uncomfortable.I let that go for months.Than one day I got what I thought was the flu.However it lingered for several weeks.My right leg began to swell.I became unmovable.I was rushed into surgery.Once in the morning.Another one later the next day.I ended up with a collostomy bag.It really was painless.However,I was in the hospital for two months.I really became accustomed to being there.The being taken care of,I suppose.I left.And had a training team of nurses support for several months.It was rough wearing it out,due to possible accidents.Im lactose intolerant.I learned the hard way,the first and last time.My love life went down the tubes.Nobody knew till I told them,so yeah,it probably would've weirded me out,too.However,after all was said and done,I had my reversal.I am one of the lucky few.I know the interruptions it causes.And my hope for everyone,that they can recover from whatever ailment they face.It was a brief time in my life.However,time is never over.Godbless.
thank you for sharing your story! I have u.c and i am not at the point where i need surgery yet but my treatment options are sort of limited and i understand that surgery may be an option down the road in the near future and being able to see videos like this is really helping me cope with that fact! keep doing what you are doing.
I’m just after having my permanent colostomy done a month ago - thanks for sharing. I’m paralysed and do manage my own bag changing but the farting is a real pain in the stoma as at least the wheelchair cushion muffled it a bit but not anymore, lol! Your a great character and good luck with the reversal - I don’t have that option as most of it’s gone now. Keep up the great videos your a great character. Talk soon, MarkC
Hello, I've had my ileostomy for almost 20 years......I had my colon removed at 13, and my rectum removed at 16, I'm 35 now. I know your video will help a lot of people!
you are amazing !! i have Ulcerative colitis and im having a flare up , and luckly i havnt got a bag yet no one who i know has the same thing i do soo you have made me feel like i am not the only one !!:) thank you so much for making sometimes a not very nice thing into a light hearted funny thing !! fantastic video !!! :) hope you are well :)
Hey! Thank you for such a lovely comment! I am glad you liked this video and I hope it made you feel a lot better! Always here to talk I put my email in description so always good to make friends on CZcams! X
+69roadr heeeey man thank you I hope I cheer her up if she is feeling down! It's all about staying positive and remembering there is more to life than being down :)
This is a popular video - and no wonder - Jack chats about the positive side to having a stoma, how to change it and how it doesn't effect living a "normal" life.
I agree with everyone else here, really brave and heroic to make this video. Can I ask you something though, and you don't have to answer, but what are the biggest challenges with something like this? Can you live a normal life, or is there some things you need to be extra careful of?
good video man, I was diagnosed with UC 3 months ago and I'm probably around the same age as you, but yet to have my colon removed (if I do ever get it removed). Was super reassuring that if it comes to that, that it isn't so bad.
You will honestly be fine! Life for me turned out to be alright, I don''t have the bag anymore however, if it were to come to it... I wouldn't mind too much going back having it again :) You got this buddy!
I've had an ostomy for almost 8 months, however my surgery went horribly wrong and my wound still hasn't healed. every time my ostomy leaks, it leaks into my open wound which obviously makes me freak out. so out of necessity I got really good, really fast at applying bags.
Hello, my name is Barbara. I also wear a colostomy bag. I've had it since 2012. I'm from New Jersey. I suffer from severe chrons disease. There are days where I wake up depressed and I can't deal with it. Luckily, my beautiful wife of 12 years has been very supportive. I thank you for sharing your video. You are more than welcome to request me on fb. May God continue to bless you. You give me hope as much as my wife does. Thanks again. I'm looking forward to speaking with you soon. Take care.
I have IBS and its painful at times acually all the time. I'm gonna ask my doctor if I can get one of these done cause my problem comes on at any time of the day no warning it sucks ....I'm afraid to leave my house.
Cori, I haven't looked back since getting a Stoma. Times were bad with Crohns flare up and dealing with it everyday for years. Like many people, having a Stoma is a great relief to the body and you can feel "normal" again. Good luck finding your answer.
Thank you for making this video. You did an amazing job and your optimism is so contagious. I'm curious, are you able to absorb your nutrients normally? Thanks again.
That's a good question because usually your body absorbs everything from your large intestine... I mean a bit is still taken away from you small intestine just your large one takes most of it. I was advised by my surgeon to eat more and try and try more fluids !
hey! I'm now 48 and I've had a colostomy since I was 30. Sometimes I have issues with it , but I think you like myself and probably others find humour with this change in our bodies! just wish they sometimes don't sound like a crisp packet! 😂🤗
I watched this video last night, I never had the problem of my bag like exploding but literally after watching this, it exploded when I laid on it 😂 thank you for making this, had I not watched this, I would have handled that situation much worse than I did, I'm very new to an ileostomy, but in one month I will have it reversed 🙏🏽🙏🏽
+Suriah felix it happened to me atleast 2-3 times a month... I was useless with it hahaha but you live and you learn and I soon got used to it! I've had it reversed also now so all is good! Good luck in the reversal though keep me updated!
+Suriah felix it happened to me atleast 2-3 times a month... I was useless with it hahaha but you live and you learn and I soon got used to it! I've had it reversed also now so all is good! Good luck in the reversal though keep me updated!
1 month with this bag and I feel super depressed. I can’t sleep and feel so terrible everyday. I’m told 6months to get it reversed and it feels like that’s so far away.
Hey thanks for this film. So good to hear you joke about leaks, I laughed myself. I'll think about this the next time I am experiencing leaks. Thanks Sincerely TJ from Norway
Hello, my brother recently had the same procedure done to him and in a couple of days he will be released from the hospital to live back with us. He... isn't too happy it came to this conclusion, but in 3-6months he will be using his anus again. Anyways, Should there be anything that we need to dramatically change? Like how clean we need to keep his room and such. Diets? Tips? I really appreciate you being open and comical about the matter, it helps a lot even when I'm not the one dealing with it.
I have chrons disease and I almost had to get one cause I was extremely inflamed but since I’m in high school my dad didn’t want to put me through that while I’m still in school but it’s gotten really bad again and if my infusion doesn’t help this Thursday then I may have to get a colostomy bag
Thank you for Sharing. Question, Does this limit your Lifting ability, such as Carrying Groceries? or working in the yard, or climbing a ladder or daily working in an office job? Thank you , so much for sharing such a personal story.
Thank you so much for making this! I have a stoma, and getting a colostomy bag is becoming more and more likely for me, unfortunately. I hope you are well ☺
+sarah hobson heeeey Sarah! Oh well if you are in pain then maybe it's for the best... Trust me it's easier than it looks! Keep me posted on how it goes! X
I know it's been a while, and thought I'd let you know how things went :D I didn't end up getting one, even though it came very close. It was due to a complication that I encounter every so often that my washouts weren't working (I have an ACE for my bowel issues). All is well now, thank God, lmao :) Hope you're okay!
I feel you on many levels I'm 23 and I've had a colostomy bag my whole life I also wear adult diapers cause I can't control my bladder so I have a small stoma to let the urine out. I'm just now trying to connect to people with this issue. I have a drawstring bag I take everywhere with me with my colostomy supplies and extra diapers also the draw string bag is handy when I have too much stuff. When my bag leaks or gives me issues I'm like 😒😒😒 again I'm only pissed cause I'm wasting my time on it. I used to freak out when I was a kid I would break down crying. Much love for u bro. I have the HD ultra clear vison bag 😂 shit don't bother me anymore
I've had my stoma bag for nearly a month now and it's so hard to take care of, I'm 16 and just starting college so I'm scared that it might leak whilst I'm in class. You make it look so easy I'm jealous😂x
You will adjust! You will eventually lose that overbearing nagging self-conscience nagging in your ear. You will succeed! I have had mine now for three years. I remember my first month and all the trials and tribulations I had trying to learn the process. It was rough and I will not even try to sugar-coat it, but you will get better at each and every time. Learning your routine and technique will take a bit of time to get a handle on, but you will do it!
Thanks, its got slightly easier now and ive been told I can get it reversed next year so I guess I have that to look forward to! Also, do you use any special plasters to help your stoma stick more? Mine always seems to leak when im asleep or sit in a funny way and I cant seem to find a way to stop it:(
Billie470 hey ! you are a soldier my friend! don't worry though time will fly and you will definitely get used to having it :) I kind of miss mine! you get a lot of benefits, for example last year I was able to skip all the queues at the Theme park that's near where I live 😅 just because I had a stoma :) how awesome is that?!? as for plasters, I didn't use anything around the stoma... it was more for the scar! keep us updated though!
Billie470 hey ! you are a soldier my friend! don't worry though time will fly and you will definitely get used to having it :) I kind of miss mine! you get a lot of benefits, for example last year I was able to skip all the queues at the Theme park that's near where I live 😅 just because I had a stoma :) how awesome is that?!? as for plasters, I didn't use anything around the stoma... it was more for the scar! keep us updated though!
I use the strip paste. It is slightly more tacky and works better for me. I still have the occasional leak spots sometimes that if I can catch them in time I can patch them up with tube paste, to buy an extra day. I am accustomed to taking my daily showers with the bag off. With the strip paste I can keep a wafer on for 3-5 days with daily bag-less showers. I truly hope that you can get yours reversed. I wish you all the best. I was not so lucky, but I am stil here and still trucking along!
Like this vid. Have had mine for 11 yrs. sucks some times & having skin issues now. So, did you get reversed yet, & if so, how did it go. I have that option but am afraid.....
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Hi Jack, love the video! I have an ileostomy as well which is temporary, I was diagnosed with crohn's disease. Are you on any meds for it? I was put on Humira to calm it down for my reversal
Hey Dan! So sorry for the late reply I have been a little busy but really? Oh man how are you coping? Yeah I was on meds but was let off them a few months after the operation. I have now had the reversal and have done a Vlog on it also! When is your reversal? X
Well I had it last january, I'd spent Christmas eve, Christmas, new years and my birthday in hospital. Finally got a reversal date I'm in Christmas eve to have it done, nice Christmas present for me! Haha Can't wait! How long did it take you to recover after your reversal?
I've had this all my life (26 years) and never once had the bravery to tell anyone I know, let alone post it on CZcams. You sir, are a legend. It's actually reassuring to see someone similar to myself talking about this (British too, I seem to only find American vloggers). I hope all is well now dude, and that you're back on track. Thanks for the video!
I think it's because America is a bigger country haha also I know a few friends of mine that vlog about their colostomies haha If you want I can send you a few links but yeah thank you for your nice comment man! I hope all is well with you man! how are you coping with the bad then bro? is it going well? feel free to share your experience!
Hey man, thanks for the reply! If you could send over those links that would be really helpful! Cheers!
How do I cope with it? Right now it sucks! Having major issues, in all honesty I want it gone! Sounds silly saying this after 26 years, but it's gotten to the point where I want my life back! I understand it works perfectly for some people and gives them a renewed life, but sadly not for me.
+SimmerJonny hey man its cool her name is Thaila Syke! I've known her for a while on here now! Here's a link to one of her videos czcams.com/video/oCflG_IBIUQ/video.html ... Go check her out she's awesome! But I know it can be struggle, I guess some people have it worse than others... I mean even the reversal, it wasn't going to happen at one point because my colon started leaking... But these things happen you just gotta stay positive! X
+SimmerJonny hey man its cool her name is Thaila Syke! I've known her for a while on here now! Here's a link to one of her videos czcams.com/video/oCflG_IBIUQ/video.html ... Go check her out she's awesome! But I know it can be struggle, I guess some people have it worse than others... I mean even the reversal, it wasn't going to happen at one point because my colon started leaking... But these things happen you just gotta stay positive! X
Once your stoma quite shrinking, it'll always be the same size. At this time you can ask your suppliers to pre cut your stoma hole and not need scissors anymore.
That is a freaking beautiful washroom! I know that shouldn't be my first point, but just saying..
Anyway, I think it's really brave of you to make a video like this, and I love how you can put some humor into it. I was diagnosed with colorectal cancer when I was 20 years old, and had many sessions of chemo and radiation for about four years and was finally in remission. I was so excited that I was clear, that I didn't realize the havoc the treatments caused my body (mostly my large intestine). I've since been struggling with I can only describe as IBS times 1000. I go through periods of time where I'm okay, however, my life revolves around visits to my GI doctor and using the bathroom. For almost three years after being in remission, I'm still suffering, and my doctors suggested thinking about getting an ostomy.
I was really open to the idea, especially after a recent "accident" where I was standing in the queue at the bank and had to pass gas. I didn't feel anything, but the guy behind me said "there's blood dripping down your leg!" It was a lot of blood, and by a lot, I mean to the point where I felt faint. He took his sweatshirt and wrapped it around me and walked me to my car, where he called an ambulance. After that event, I was thrown into depression, where I quit my job and stayed in my room for weeks.
I started thinking about the osotomy seriously, and am still seriously considering it. I've done tons of research and heard many stories of people similar to mine who's lifestyle significantly improved after getting the procedure. I was just wondering your thoughts (or any thoughts). I am open to anyone's opinion.
Thank you for your lovely comment ! How have you been coping with it all so far then? it's great to hear from other peoples experiences! I am so sorry for the late response but that is incredible! for one that guy was awesome for helping you out I can't believe that happened though! personally I wouldn't know how to cope if I had blood dripping down my legs without knowing! It's good that guy was actually decent and told you other than let you continue like it! Have you come to a conclusion on what you want to do next? have you got the bag? Trust me it also comes with a lot of benefits... I was able to skip every line at Thorpe Park because of the "inconvenience" :)... but also I too went into depression after having the bag, to the point that it wasn't only affecting me but the people around me. But with counselling and the support from my friends and family I was able to fight through it and here I am today all happy go lucky again!
No worries! No need to apologize for a late response. Any response at all is extremely nice of you! I have not gotten the bag yet, but I have got some consultations. I'm in the US and my insurance will only cover 80% of the cost of the procedure itself (anesthesia, staying in the hospital for recovery, tests/labs, medications, etc... they are all out of pocket) so it's a lot to digest.. no pun intended. I'm pretty sure that I am going to go ahead with the procedure, but after Christmas/New Years, so I have time to recover in peace.
I still have some questions/concerns that I haven't been able to find answers to. Like, for example, I am about your size, except less muscle. With the bag, would it be more difficult to gain weight and muscle? Is it difficult to exercise with the bag? Also, does the stoma itself hurt? Is it sensitive to touch? And my final question is about intimacy. You said your girlfriend was very supportive, which is awesome. My boyfriend is also pretty supportive of everything, but I'm afraid the bag will change how we are when we get intimate. We like to touch a lot. I'm just wondering, does the bag stay on? Is it okay to take off for a little while when I'm "in bed"? Do I have to worry about stuff coming out of the stoma when the bag is not on? Will I be aware of the stoma "emptying" when or before it happens? Or will it just empty without me feeling anything?
Again, thank you so much for your response. It truly means a lot.
sdesai1989 I'm in the same situation--chronic radiation enteritis, getting progressively worse to the point I really can't leave the house any longer. And my insurance situation is the same--very frustrating. I want to absorb some of the positive attitude of Jack Atkins here. I'm not in a good place right now and my doc says this might help, it just seems like one more thing to deal with when my health plate is already full. I suppose there are quite a few advantages as well. I wonder...if my problem is not only the bathroom, but also the extreme indigestion and pain, does that go away as well with an Ostomy bag?
Ps - when I was on prednisone, I was a monster too, I'm amazed my hubby and family still speak to me! It's a horrible medication, and because of it, I now had osteoporosis and osteoarthritis! But they don't you about the side effects until afterwards. Because of it, I've have to have surgery on both shoulders and both hands too, such a piss off! Btw, great video!
My mum has just had a permanent one fitted after everthing had to be remove because of cancer. Your video was great and has inspired us. Learning to laugh and have a sense of humour really helps.
I'm glad this video has made an impact on you guys! stay strong! Living with an Ostomy bag isn't as bad as people imagine! x
Please guys, feel free to scroll through the comments and help each other out! I'm sorry if I take a while to respond! I am so happy with the outcome! you are all awesome!
I know you hate having a stoma. Which I do too. I've had mine now for about 2 yrs. now. I. finally found a bag that doesn't leak, like my my old one did. But I Still have accidents where my poop ends up on me and on the toilet and on the bathroom floor. When I go to empty it. Especially when I do it in the middle of the night and I'm half asleep. It is a pain in the butt. ( no pune contented)
But hang in there it does get easier!
You should sit on toilet in case it leaks out some when you are changing it. Also there are a lot of different products out there that helps with leaks or whatever you are dealing with. So hang in there it does get better.
So I like your video, but I. can tell you still have a lot to learn. And you will! from one stoma person to another...Good luck!
Laura
ATTACHING POUCH:
1. LBF Barrier spray around stoma
2. Paste around stoma
3. Paste around inside adhesive hole of pouch
4. Pouch, tight fit; 15-25mm, push down hard around stoma, especially up underneath (lift bottom of pouch up), get ring flat on stomach!
5. Elastic tape X2 around edge of pouch (use 2 extra top/bottom if extra activity) - Absolute key if going swimming.
Mate, you're a star! I'm learning about this as I'll admit I'm completely clueless! But someone in my life deals with this same as you every day and I thought I'd best figure out what goes on without being a doughnut. Top lad, wish you all the best fella :)
I'm 20 and just got a ileostomy and colostomy bag I was told they would be reversed but it's still hard adjusting
3 years on, how have you been ? have these past three years been okay for you?
I wish I had the creativity and bravery to have done this, following rectal cancer in 2012 at the age of 37 I ended up with a permanent colostomy. Hat off to you, your stories are true for all new stoma patients as they adjust to their new function, yes, it's depressing and makes you angry and then you realise those around you that care for you and remain to support you. I too have awoken to comment to my wife "why do you have shit on your nose!". I just showed her this video and we were both crying with laughter, WELL DONE and thank you for no doubt helping may others. Life moves on, you can manage and you do adjust.
I am so glad you showed your wife and you both liked it! I try my best to make a fool out of myself but sometimes it just comes naturally... without even controlling it ;) haha but yeah back to the ostomy point, yeah It was a funny point in my life having it! I mean life in a way was easier. Now I have it reversed I kind of miss it. However, if you want to share more of your story please feel free buddy! Thank you for your lovely comment! I really appreciate it!
wow! 11K views! thank you everyone for the support! I have received so many lovely messages from you great people! unfortunately at the moment I am caught up in some work! I will try to reply to each and everyone of you when I can! but why not check out my other videos whilst your around :) much love! x
Hey Jack I have an ileostomy bag and would love to talk to you sometime about my story, I am from Brighton and am looking for a friend to chat to x
Hello Nicole! I have just seen this! sorry it has taken me so long to reply! how is life? are you coping well? x
Nicole Harris-Gotting hey!will you be my friend.?..I'm from London..
Just wanted to drop by and say thanks for this video. We talk a lot on our channel about chronic illness and mental illness, and it can be a very difficult thing to share and you do it beautifully and with just the right humor and light.
I had very little knowledge of ostomy bags, etc. before watching and I really value the knowledge I've gained from this video, to be able to open up a discussion about it in our community as well as just for my own knowledge base. Thanks again, hope you are having a great week. - Kate
Hello Kate! Thank you so much for your comment and sorry for the late reply! I have been a little busy but I am glad you liked my video! It was a tough year for me having the Ileostomy, I have recently had my reversal surgery and in a way I kind of miss it haha ;) if there is any questions il be happy to answer them for you the best I can :) x
I hope life is treating you well post reversal surgery! And thank you - I'm sure some things will come up on our channel and I'll definitely take you up on answering some of our questions when they come up. Hope you are having a wonderful week. I'm off to binge watch some more videos now haha :) x
Such a positive and good sense of humor about your bag and I love it! I have a bag as well! I always feel awkward explaining it to people but this made me feel so comfortable about it! I'm hopefully getting mine reversed within the next month! Hope all is well!
Great video, I am a fairly new ostomy patient, March 2014. I live a normal life. Some people can't believe it when I tell them I have one. I share and even let them see it so they understand more about it. I had colon cancer and I'm cancer free now. Thank you for sharing. Kerrie
You have really lifted my spirits because I just got one and I am 59 years old. To watch your video and see you so young, hot, full of life and uplifting brought my spirits WAY up! I've had 3 accidents since I've been home and just got more and more into self pity and when you told about yours, I felt like cleaning the bathroom AGAIN. My friend gave me a good idea of changing it in the bathtub. It's amazing how small it looks in the bag but apparently a little shit can go a long way :( Thank you for cheering me up :)
I like you're attitude. I hope you continue making vlogs like this. I don't have a colostomy but I have many other health issues and up beat blogs with explanations and how to's really makes a big difference. Hell. I bet this video has helped at least one person. Plus it's helped me gain insight on this as well.. My step grandma has an ilieostomy which is similar but on the other side, so its always great to learn more about things in my life that effect others people I know as well. Keep up the great work mate! And stay strong and live your life and most of all, stay as healthy as you can be.
Lots of love from down here in Canada.
+Morgan M hey Morgan! Thank you for the amazing comment! I really appreciate it and I am glad my video did you well! I had what your grandma has! I no longer have the Ileostomy as I had a reversal but I am willing to share any knowledge I know with you both! I am in preparation to making more videos in future it's just work gets in the way and girlfriend hahaha that's life I guess hahaha! I hope all is well !
Jack x
Keep smiling Jack! Everybody is so proud of you. :) x
Tarnya Louise I have just seen this :O why thank you very much Tanya :) you are awesome x
I am 21 and have recently had surgery which has left me with a stoma, I am finding it hard to adjust and I am terrified that it will be for life as I am only 2 weeks in I’m soo amazed you are as confident as you are and quite frankly jealous hahaha
Bud I'm 31 And just had a proctocolectomy due to colorectal cancer and it beats the hell out of having chronic pain from a blockage and getting rid of the cancer was great too I'm glad reversal is possible but you can live well with this if you have too keep positive thank you for making me laugh you got a great attitude
Hey man! thank you for the awesome message! I hope you're well! keep me updated on what happens! together we are am army ;) haha
Bless you for posting this. I can't help but cry when I think about people who have to use these. Especially permanently.
This video had me rolling, Jack!! I am scheduled to get a permanent ileostomy later this month and this was just the video I needed to see to make me feel better about it. Thank you for sharing and for bringing a smile to my face!!
amdurham11 you are beautiful..keep smiling..
What was the distance from anal opening ?
Fantastic video! I've been living with my ileostomy for 2 weeks now and this video really helped.
I just had colon surgery on Aug. 23rd 2016 so if you see this comment please reply back. I'm a very athletic guy and I'm having a hard time with the bag.
I have Crohn’s disease and I have had surgery on surgery I ended up with sepsis and ended up in emergency surgery and woke up with a colostomy bag. They say it’s temporary but I am so much happier and healthy with it! Even though it took forever to come to grips and adjust it was a major blessing in disguise
Im glad to hear you're coping well! I was exactly the same as you, got so used to it I could see myself living with it. When do you have your reversal surgery? :)
Video made me cry. I have very young children and my colitis is terrible for a while now. Once the opp happens I worry that my little ones will not be able to jump on me due to getting covered in shit. I am so sorry you went through that with your girlfriend. Credit to you for being so honest.
Hey man, don't you worry it is definitely not as difficult as you may think! There are things you may need to be wary of... Like the bag filling up with air because of passing gas and what not but it really isn't that difficult! Please keep me updated on how you do! Xx
This video is absolute gold. Today my grandfather had a colostomy and it was so hard to see him go through that because he had no other option. This really cheered me up and I can teach him how to use his bag 😁
Thank you so much for your lovely comment! I'm glad it cheered you up! Is your grandfather okay? My grandfather also had the bag before I did so after finding out I'd be having one... I was a lot more chilled because it isn't at all bad to live with xx
He actually just passed away yesterday. The infection that took his colon ended up spreading. 😧 but he's not in pain anymore and he was always such a positive and wonderful person to be around so I'm sure he wouldn't want us to be too sad. I keep watching your video cuz it really cheers me up. Thanks for that!
Please keep making videos 😊
Dude, your my hero! I am so active I sometimes break or leak 2 bags a day. I have to carry 2 changes if clothes all the time. Love your humor!
thank you so much, just got mine done a month ago (colostomy) hopefully temporary. I'm still coping and trying to get used to it, and it's videos like this that make it it a bit easier day by day. thank you!
Nice message about your Stoma (ostomy) situation and great to see you're showing you can dress fashionably in a tight t-shirt and jeans.
It's inspiration like this that has started my CZcams channel!
I don't know if you have figured this out but if you eat marshmallows before you change the bag the output doesn't come out as much, when you wash it in the shower if you use head 'n shoulders then it helps with the skin.
Its been five years and two weeks since I had my surgery.
you're so cute omg
Yeah I was I had mine since I was 18 and I am going to get it reversed in April for the second time the firs time it was bad and they had to but the bag back on and I had about five surgeries so many crap surgeries just had some bad luck but I am hoping in my sixth surgery goes well in April
I'm barely under recovery from surgery on mine and it HURT A LOT to laugh hahahaha but it was worth a watch thanks man thumbs up for a good vid!
+Pablo Lopez (Glitch) glad you're recovering fine! :) it won't be long trust me man! X
Oh man, the steroids turned me evil too. ;) I like how you explained your surgery and whatnot. Just remember; a colostomy is using your colon, an ileostomy is using your small intestine (the generic term for all types is 'ostomy'). I can't wait to see more videos :)
Hahah ooh I see I see... the bloooooomin consultant never made it clear to me :L yeah Steroids were the worst! how long were you in hospital for? :O there will be more to come don't you worry haha
No problem! The media always reports it as a colostomy as the generic term, which doesn't help! ;) I was in hospital for two weeks in Feb 2010 (blood transfusions, antibiotics, fluids, vitamins, Modulen, steroids & Azathioprine) and then for a month in March-April 2010 recovering from the operation (problems with my mid-line wound popping back open... yummy...)
Hey Jack, how is life without your bag? I know it was meant to be for 3 months but you had it for a year, may I ask why?
Carli smith I don't know why he had it for a year, but I've had my ostomy for a while because of surgical complecations. things need to heal and settle down before you can attempt a successful reversal.
What happen happen if someone tugged down on the bag.
Also how didn't you smell your shirt covered in crap
You should have kept the see through one for summer. Carrying your poo around is the next trend
How about I put a see through osmotic bag full of my crap in your gym bag that's in the back of my car Ben? ;) hahaa
Hi Jack, my brother was sadly diagnosed with Ulcerative Colitis today, and he's been put on a HUGE amount of medication including steroids. If the medication doesn't work they have given him the option to remove the colon and have the baggy thingy to get rid of waste externally.
I have a few questions if you have the time you could maybe answer for me?:
1) Does this effect you going swimming ( such as on holiday), and if not what can be done to cover up the intestine?
2) Half way through 2015, are there different ways once the colon is removed to get rid of waste NOT externally? So he doesn't have to use the bag?
3) Were you put on medication such as steroids, and if so did you put on a lot of wait but lose it again very quickly? Lastly:
4) If the colon is removed, I know that the ulcerative colitis will be gone. Does that mean the chance of getting bowel cancer reduces?
️Thankyou for your help if you do read this. It will mean a lot to me as I'm so scared for him and I want him to be healthy for the rest of his life x x x x
I've had ulcerative colitis for 7 months now. I found that living life as normally as possible, whilst taking Health Aids 5000mg Aloe Vera capsules, probiotics and making myself a juice from organic Carrots, Apples and Napa cabbage have made my symptoms so bare able that I'm pretty much back to complete normality. I take no medicine or drugs AT ALL. Also, believe it or not, smoking just 4 cigarettes a day will completely suppress the symptoms, possibly even cure Ulcerative colitis. Nicotine does something that no one can work out. Only 2% of ALL Ulcerative colitis sufferers are smokers, the rest are non smokers. And only 4 cigarettes a day will hardly effect your health at all.
Hi Jack. It must take an awful lot of balls to put something like that up. It looks like I'm going be in the same situation in the near future and this vid really helped with coming to terms with it. A big thank you for doing this man!
Hey man! Thank you for the lovely comment! It's cool man, you get used to it after a while, if anything it makes you much more cleaner than most people because you won't suffer from "dirty arse" anymore haha :) but yeah man keep me updated on how you get along! If there is anything you want to ask give us a message :)
I had started to have lower back problems that I thought were a result of work.Line of work is rough.However,it began to spread to below my waist down to my lower crotch.My sitting began to be uncomfortable.I let that go for months.Than one day I got what I thought was the flu.However it lingered for several weeks.My right leg began to swell.I became unmovable.I was rushed into surgery.Once in the morning.Another one later the next day.I ended up with a collostomy bag.It really was painless.However,I was in the hospital for two months.I really became accustomed to being there.The being taken care of,I suppose.I left.And had a training team of nurses support for several months.It was rough wearing it out,due to possible accidents.Im lactose intolerant.I learned the hard way,the first and last time.My love life went down the tubes.Nobody knew till I told them,so yeah,it probably would've weirded me out,too.However,after all was said and done,I had my reversal.I am one of the lucky few.I know the interruptions it causes.And my hope for everyone,that they can recover from whatever ailment they face.It was a brief time in my life.However,time is never over.Godbless.
Your energy and optimism is very inspiring. Hope you're well.
Thanks for the wonderful video, your sense of humor is amazing. Many hugs.
thank you for sharing your story! I have u.c and i am not at the point where i need surgery yet but my treatment options are sort of limited and i understand that surgery may be an option down the road in the near future and being able to see videos like this is really helping me cope with that fact! keep doing what you are doing.
I’m just after having my permanent colostomy done a month ago - thanks for sharing. I’m paralysed and do manage my own bag changing but the farting is a real pain in the stoma as at least the wheelchair cushion muffled it a bit but not anymore, lol! Your a great character and good luck with the reversal - I don’t have that option as most of it’s gone now. Keep up the great videos your a great character. Talk soon, MarkC
My grandma died from vowel cancer last year and had that bag. It's nice to get an insite into what she had to deal with as I never asked.
Great video, very funy! I didn't realise there was other vloggers with stomas.
+Joseph Greenly there's a lot more people out there with Stomas than you think! I've spotted loads of people :)
great video- informative yet realistic. Thanks for being brave. Thanks for sharing!
Cheers man ! I hope this video helps a lot of people see the lighter side to having an ostomy bag :)
Hello, I've had my ileostomy for almost 20 years......I had my colon removed at 13, and my rectum removed at 16, I'm 35 now. I know your video will help a lot of people!
You're brilliant. I love your positive attitude and that you have the courage to laugh about this. Stay strong :)
+Chaos Emerald Awh thank you! I appreciate the comment! Have a question for you! Is your CZcams name inspired by Sonic The Hedgehog by any chance? 😮
+Creativity by Jack Atkins It most certainly is! :D
you are amazing !! i have Ulcerative colitis and im having a flare up , and luckly i havnt got a bag yet no one who i know has the same thing i do soo you have made me feel like i am not the only one !!:) thank you so much for making sometimes a not very nice thing into a light hearted funny thing !! fantastic video !!! :) hope you are well :)
Hey! Thank you for such a lovely comment! I am glad you liked this video and I hope it made you feel a lot better! Always here to talk I put my email in description so always good to make friends on CZcams! X
Colostomy 2011. Never had I had a bag explode. It does not happen but everyone is different. Off to Sweden!
hey Jack, i love your sense of humor on this subject! my wife has an ostomy as well. i'm going to let her watch this.
+69roadr heeeey man thank you I hope I cheer her up if she is feeling down! It's all about staying positive and remembering there is more to life than being down :)
This is a popular video - and no wonder - Jack chats about the positive side to having a stoma, how to change it and how it doesn't effect living a "normal" life.
Just get the SALTS XND1352 and use a SECUPLAST washer underneath. NO LEAKS!!
48 years with an Ileostomy. Crohn’s from early teens.
I agree with everyone else here, really brave and heroic to make this video. Can I ask you something though, and you don't have to answer, but what are the biggest challenges with something like this? Can you live a normal life, or is there some things you need to be extra careful of?
Hey I have had a ostomy bag for 7 months now and i about to have the reversal in a month I can totally relate to this video.
Me too! Have a bag for 9 months now and will have a "repair" next year. I'm looking forward to the operation. But thanks for this beautiful video.
good video man, I was diagnosed with UC 3 months ago and I'm probably around the same age as you, but yet to have my colon removed (if I do ever get it removed). Was super reassuring that if it comes to that, that it isn't so bad.
I had a stoma around 3 moths ago now and really hurts when I change it but it helps a lot because before I felt like dieing it hurt so much:-(
Thank you for making this video. I am close to having the same surgery and don’t know what life will be like
You will honestly be fine! Life for me turned out to be alright, I don''t have the bag anymore however, if it were to come to it... I wouldn't mind too much going back having it again :) You got this buddy!
Hope so. Been a rough year leading up, discussing with dr on Friday. Hopefully get my life back on track after
@@hijeans1103 You will :) keep us posted on how it goes!
I've had an ostomy for almost 8 months, however my surgery went horribly wrong and my wound still hasn't healed. every time my ostomy leaks, it leaks into my open wound which obviously makes me freak out. so out of necessity I got really good, really fast at applying bags.
thank you bro. yuve made me more confterble with my bag
+Miguel Romo I'm glad this video did wonders for you bud!
Hello, my name is Barbara. I also wear a colostomy bag. I've had it since 2012. I'm from New Jersey. I suffer from severe chrons disease. There are days where I wake up depressed and I can't deal with it. Luckily, my beautiful wife of 12 years has been very supportive. I thank you for sharing your video. You are more than welcome to request me on fb. May God continue to bless you. You give me hope as much as my wife does. Thanks again. I'm looking forward to speaking with you soon. Take care.
I have IBS and its painful at times acually all the time. I'm gonna ask my doctor if I can get one of these done cause my problem comes on at any time of the day no warning it sucks ....I'm afraid to leave my house.
Cori, I haven't looked back since getting a Stoma.
Times were bad with Crohns flare up and dealing with it everyday for years. Like many people, having a Stoma is a great relief to the body and you can feel "normal" again.
Good luck finding your answer.
Thank you for doing this video.
You're very welcome:)
Thank you for making this video. You did an amazing job and your optimism is so contagious. I'm curious, are you able to absorb your nutrients normally? Thanks again.
That's a good question because usually your body absorbs everything from your large intestine... I mean a bit is still taken away from you small intestine just your large one takes most of it. I was advised by my surgeon to eat more and try and try more fluids !
YayYayYay!!! Great job explains the realities.
Thanks for sharing ...you are such a lovely person ....hope you stay well and as positive as you are. xxx
+sandra ellis thank you for your lovely comment I hope you're well! :)
hey! I'm now 48 and I've had a colostomy since I was 30. Sometimes I have issues with it , but I think you like myself and probably others find humour with this change in our bodies! just wish they sometimes don't sound like a crisp packet! 😂🤗
I watched this video last night, I never had the problem of my bag like exploding but literally after watching this, it exploded when I laid on it 😂 thank you for making this, had I not watched this, I would have handled that situation much worse than I did, I'm very new to an ileostomy, but in one month I will have it reversed 🙏🏽🙏🏽
+Suriah felix it happened to me atleast 2-3 times a month... I was useless with it hahaha but you live and you learn and I soon got used to it! I've had it reversed also now so all is good! Good luck in the reversal though keep me updated!
+Suriah felix it happened to me atleast 2-3 times a month... I was useless with it hahaha but you live and you learn and I soon got used to it! I've had it reversed also now so all is good! Good luck in the reversal though keep me updated!
Jack Atkins i had my stoma reversed and I'm now 100% okay besides the uncontrollable gas and learning how to fart again!😂 I hope all is well with you!
1 month with this bag and I feel super depressed. I can’t sleep and feel so terrible everyday. I’m told 6months to get it reversed and it feels like that’s so far away.
Thanks for sharing and I hope all is well with you! You help a lot of people with these post:)
This was so helpful and he's well fit 😍
Rachel O'Pray haha! Thank you I'm glad you found it helpful 😁
Hey thanks for this film. So good to hear you joke about leaks, I laughed myself. I'll think about this the next time I am experiencing leaks. Thanks Sincerely TJ from Norway
Hey man! Brave soldier you are haha :) leaks were a night mare for me! My poor girlfriend having to deal with it also hahaha hope you're okay bro!
U help me threw my whole ordeal with this situation thank u,
I'm glad to hear it bud!! I hope you're well
Hello, my brother recently had the same procedure done to him and in a couple of days he will be released from the hospital to live back with us. He... isn't too happy it came to this conclusion, but in 3-6months he will be using his anus again.
Anyways,
Should there be anything that we need to dramatically change? Like how clean we need to keep his room and such. Diets? Tips?
I really appreciate you being open and comical about the matter, it helps a lot even when I'm not the one dealing with it.
:0 you just peel yours off? I use an adhesive remover!!
+kateellenberry I'm 'ard I am ;) haha was difficult at times specially when I would have small hairs underneath the sticky part haha
I have chrons disease and I almost had to get one cause I was extremely inflamed but since I’m in high school my dad didn’t want to put me through that while I’m still in school but it’s gotten really bad again and if my infusion doesn’t help this Thursday then I may have to get a colostomy bag
You have a great personality!
Just wanted to say Thank you for this video! Do you suffer with any stomach cramps with the bad?
God bless you. You are hilarious!! :D
Thank you for Sharing. Question, Does this limit your Lifting ability, such as Carrying Groceries? or working in the yard, or climbing a ladder or daily working in an office job? Thank you , so much for sharing such a personal story.
Thank you so much for making this! I have a stoma, and getting a colostomy bag is becoming more and more likely for me, unfortunately. I hope you are well ☺
+sarah hobson heeeey Sarah! Oh well if you are in pain then maybe it's for the best... Trust me it's easier than it looks! Keep me posted on how it goes! X
I have an appointment with the gastro-nurses on the 5th of July, so my parents and I will be bringing it up there :) I hope you're well
I know it's been a while, and thought I'd let you know how things went :D I didn't end up getting one, even though it came very close. It was due to a complication that I encounter every so often that my washouts weren't working (I have an ACE for my bowel issues). All is well now, thank God, lmao :) Hope you're okay!
@@jackatkins I was able to recover slowly and no longer have my ACE stoma! It was one hell of a journey, but I wouldn't take it back for anything.
I feel you on many levels I'm 23 and I've had a colostomy bag my whole life I also wear adult diapers cause I can't control my bladder so I have a small stoma to let the urine out. I'm just now trying to connect to people with this issue. I have a drawstring bag I take everywhere with me with my colostomy supplies and extra diapers also the draw string bag is handy when I have too much stuff. When my bag leaks or gives me issues I'm like 😒😒😒 again I'm only pissed cause I'm wasting my time on it. I used to freak out when I was a kid I would break down crying. Much love for u bro. I have the HD ultra clear vison bag 😂 shit don't bother me anymore
I have an Ostomy to ive had it ever since I was born
Marie Palza 😘😚😍
Now how old r u
That is a very good question!
I've had my stoma bag for nearly a month now and it's so hard to take care of, I'm 16 and just starting college so I'm scared that it might leak whilst I'm in class. You make it look so easy I'm jealous😂x
You will adjust! You will eventually lose that overbearing nagging self-conscience nagging in your ear. You will succeed! I have had mine now for three years. I remember my first month and all the trials and tribulations I had trying to learn the process. It was rough and I will not even try to sugar-coat it, but you will get better at each and every time. Learning your routine and technique will take a bit of time to get a handle on, but you will do it!
Thanks, its got slightly easier now and ive been told I can get it reversed next year so I guess I have that to look forward to! Also, do you use any special plasters to help your stoma stick more? Mine always seems to leak when im asleep or sit in a funny way and I cant seem to find a way to stop it:(
Billie470 hey ! you are a soldier my friend! don't worry though time will fly and you will definitely get used to having it :) I kind of miss mine! you get a lot of benefits, for example last year I was able to skip all the queues at the Theme park that's near where I live 😅 just because I had a stoma :) how awesome is that?!? as for plasters, I didn't use anything around the stoma... it was more for the scar! keep us updated though!
Billie470 hey ! you are a soldier my friend! don't worry though time will fly and you will definitely get used to having it :) I kind of miss mine! you get a lot of benefits, for example last year I was able to skip all the queues at the Theme park that's near where I live 😅 just because I had a stoma :) how awesome is that?!? as for plasters, I didn't use anything around the stoma... it was more for the scar! keep us updated though!
I use the strip paste. It is slightly more tacky and works better for me. I still have the occasional leak spots sometimes that if I can catch them in time I can patch them up with tube paste, to buy an extra day. I am accustomed to taking my daily showers with the bag off. With the strip paste I can keep a wafer on for 3-5 days with daily bag-less showers. I truly hope that you can get yours reversed. I wish you all the best. I was not so lucky, but I am stil here and still trucking along!
Fair play mate, decent stuff!
It's not easy or a joke I struggle with the Idea of a reversal ,...
WOOOOW you got 11k bro!! :D Well done !!!
You put the fun into this,,,so cool
I absolutely love your personality omg
Awh thank you so much! :) haha you gotta be happy, even in the bad situations
Jack Atkins so true :)) My nan has an ostomy bag and your vlog made her laugh haha
@@catrinwilliams3016 awh I'm glad it put a smile on her face! If anything it makes life a lot easier, specially for clean freaks such as myself haha!
Jack Atkins I’m sure it would tbh. Best to laugh about it than to be sad and and depressed about something you can’t change
Like this vid. Have had mine for 11 yrs. sucks some times & having skin issues now. So, did you get reversed yet, & if so, how did it go. I have that option but am afraid.....
Your'e a very brave man. keep it up.It helps us all.
New ostomy/reversal life video coming soon! In the mean time check out my CZcams channel and some of my recent videos :) don't forget to leave a like and subscribe!
I'v Had A Bag Since I Was 4 I Spent My 5th Birthday In The Hospital I'm 12 Now.....
Hi Jack, love the video! I have an ileostomy as well which is temporary, I was diagnosed with crohn's disease. Are you on any meds for it? I was put on Humira to calm it down for my reversal
Hey Dan! So sorry for the late reply I have been a little busy but really? Oh man how are you coping? Yeah I was on meds but was let off them a few months after the operation. I have now had the reversal and have done a Vlog on it also! When is your reversal? X
Well I had it last january, I'd spent Christmas eve, Christmas, new years and my birthday in hospital. Finally got a reversal date I'm in Christmas eve to have it done, nice Christmas present for me! Haha Can't wait! How long did it take you to recover after your reversal?
u seemed a bit nervous, a nervous laugh, but I enjoyed ur video, u have a good sense of humor, I guess u have to!
I'm genuinely a nervous guy sometimes hahah :) I'm glad you enjoyed the video though! hahaa x
+Creativity by Jack Atkins :)
Where can you get the covers from because i have a colostomy bag as well and i wanted to know
they sell the covers on ebay..lots of different colours and designs. My mum has a permanent one.
I wanted a sonic the hedgehog one at the time... it sucks because there wasn't any! haha
Thank you for letting me know what I'm in for.
Good for you..and thank you - my wife has had one today. It won't matter to me.
very good video! :) keep it up!
keep up the positive attitude!
Love ur vlog .. ab fab!
thank you so much!