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  • čas přidán 13. 01. 2021
  • She's never spoken a word but she has no problem getting her point across. She's also very good at receptive communication (she understands what we are saying).
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Komentáře • 421

  • @patriciabruce4284
    @patriciabruce4284 Před 3 lety +139

    Abbie’s communication was on point today. Very definite about what she did not want.💕

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      @pierceedwin5273 Před 2 lety

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  • @lillybell2008
    @lillybell2008 Před 3 lety +57

    Sometimes you just don’t want an apple 🍎

  • @amaaanster
    @amaaanster Před 3 lety +96

    LOL she said ‘nope, put those apples back’ 😂😂😂

  • @lifeonlowbatteries8153
    @lifeonlowbatteries8153 Před 3 lety +69

    I just had cereal for an afternoon snack. It can be done. 😂

    • @stephpartin3939
      @stephpartin3939 Před 3 lety +4

      Cereal is my go-to snack, but I get it that some parents don’t want such sugary things for snacks!

    • @2l2q36
      @2l2q36 Před 3 lety +8

      Well not for Abby. Her parents watch her sugar intake during the day so it doesn’t interfere with bedtime.

    • @reganstandlick7520
      @reganstandlick7520 Před 3 lety +2

      What does the membership perks do?

  • @lauraharmon2721
    @lauraharmon2721 Před 3 lety +37

    That was some hard passing on the apple plan and the seatbelt lol .. but also you could tell she knew what she was doing. So much growth recently

  • @letsbereal906
    @letsbereal906 Před 3 lety +11

    “I heard your complaints I will not do the crazy fish eye thing” 🤣🤣🤣

  • @roxannemccue6509
    @roxannemccue6509 Před 3 lety +21

    Oh my gosh that was AMAZING communication when she wanted the cereal! You go girl💕

  • @mirandalustig921
    @mirandalustig921 Před 3 lety +24

    Her looking at Cilla thinking she can get her to give in. Lol

  • @Baachoo143
    @Baachoo143 Před 3 lety +42

    That " look" when she told you no for the third (4th) time. I could almost hear her sassiness... what don't u understand about no apple! I want cereal. She was definitely understanding. Such abbitude today!

    • @Dovejep
      @Dovejep Před 3 lety +2

      Abbitude today for sure! lol

    • @2l2q36
      @2l2q36 Před 3 lety +3

      I think she’s always understood.

  • @darijonnson6246
    @darijonnson6246 Před 3 lety +8

    When asa was like do you want an apple? And she went all the way back and said cereal again. I lost it😂😂 the girl didn’t want an apple😂

  • @sherrysvesnik7711
    @sherrysvesnik7711 Před 3 lety +6

    Abbey clearly said no to Priscilla when she told her to buckle her seat belt. And when she pushed the apple bag back toward the fridge with a no head shake, I just giggled with joy!! She is clearly getting her point across!! Loved this video. Also Asa , I really like that cool camera!!

  • @kat2441
    @kat2441 Před 3 lety +7

    I’m glad I’m not the only one who thinks cereal is snack. I’m with you Abbie!

  • @elizabeii
    @elizabeii Před 3 lety +54

    Abbie’s like “I said what I said”. 😂

    • @fabulousrulz
      @fabulousrulz Před 3 lety +3

      Abbie was like DID I STUTTER..? ahahah this girl knows what she wants!

  • @vikky1376
    @vikky1376 Před 3 lety +27

    Priscilla... You need to ask Sandy where your flip flops are

    • @533134
      @533134 Před 3 lety

      @Gold Glitter not all Americans do.

  • @BeatriceHooper
    @BeatriceHooper Před 3 lety +29

    I love how when Abbie walked down the steps to the living room she looked at Isaiah as if to say “I know you’re not in my spot right now..🤨”

  • @hannahJR
    @hannahJR Před 3 lety +38

    Abbies use of the Ipad amazes me every time. Asa moving it to a different page and she moves it straight back to cereal seriously impressive. But she really didn't want those apples!!

  • @lolablueskies8269
    @lolablueskies8269 Před 3 lety +5

    Her little strop with the seat belt. Bless her 💞

  • @blaw_0147
    @blaw_0147 Před 3 lety +24

    I really love her persistence, it’s makes me laugh 😂♥️

  • @colleenkelly4215
    @colleenkelly4215 Před 3 lety +18

    Haha her face when you opened the fridge. 😂😂 She was like “no dad, cereal.”

  • @ellieeargle
    @ellieeargle Před 3 lety +3

    So sassy!!! Loll love her 😭😂

  • @camarojai6832
    @camarojai6832 Před 3 lety +3

    Abbie has been rocking it out in communication. She’s been so happy in these last videos, our ray of sunshine. Thanks for explaining that camera, I thought I was going crazy lol

  • @maddie0619
    @maddie0619 Před 3 lety +6

    She’s like mom I just want a doughnut 🍩 from Dunkin.

  • @savidge-gardner5583
    @savidge-gardner5583 Před 3 lety +3

    Love love love watching abby communicate so well! She truly knew what she wanted all day. O how much she grows each and every day ❤️

  • @mrs.hollerbredkennels-jana7891

    I love how excited she gets! She is just precious!

  • @williamprice7948
    @williamprice7948 Před 3 lety +6

    I used to argue with my parents growing up my mom spent half of my life getting me to talk and spent the other half to not get me to talk back

  • @ChickNGuitars
    @ChickNGuitars Před 3 lety +6

    That 360 is so cool!!! Thanks for explaining. My mind is still blown 🤯 No complaints! It worked really well for all the action and scenery! I loved it but my logic derailed when I didn't see a pole!

  • @lucillecohon2520
    @lucillecohon2520 Před 3 lety +72

    Abbie being a typical teenager! She doesn't say anything, but she doesn't need to! Abbitude!

  • @tracyhiggins8981
    @tracyhiggins8981 Před 3 lety +4

    My first thought when I heard Cilla say she can't find the left flip flops....Sandy has them!!😁😆💙

  • @ninablum4875
    @ninablum4875 Před 3 lety

    Thank you for the excellent captions today!❤

  • @rain-wanders
    @rain-wanders Před 3 lety

    I agree with both of you, that outfit was too adorable! It had a 70's-80's vibe to it without being over stated. It was also really cool to see that you guys are working on adding complete thoughts / sentences for her, so she could list multiple things she is wanting. Progress!! Yay Abbie!

  • @char25900
    @char25900 Před 3 lety +2

    If you ask her what she would like for a snack then listen to her answer. If you are going to decide for her anyway then just put the food in front of her. She must feel so frustrated and unheard.

    • @fatheringautism
      @fatheringautism  Před 3 lety

      When children learn to communicate do you do everything they say and give them everything they request? Of course not. As parents we teach all children that “no” needs to be an acceptable answer, that compromise is necessary in basic human interaction, and that we don’t get everything we ask for.

  • @notme7410
    @notme7410 Před 3 lety +5

    😂 It’s a teenager thing.. cereal for every meal.

  • @amandap7678
    @amandap7678 Před 3 lety +16

    They’re “Untidy Joseph’s”. 😉

  • @Its.vape.zebra24.7
    @Its.vape.zebra24.7 Před 3 lety +1

    I love your channel! Abbie is awesome with her communication device. And little stinker with the seatbelt. Haha. You as a family are amazing.

  • @littlemissy1669
    @littlemissy1669 Před 3 lety +3

    I'm very happy she has y'all and her family 😊

  • @letsbereal906
    @letsbereal906 Před 3 lety

    Abbie you are KILLING it with those communications- your voice is heard girl !🤍

  • @InMyHonestOpinion1
    @InMyHonestOpinion1 Před 3 lety +6

    “I mean it can get really weird” (and it gets *really* weird). That’s a clip to make and keep!

  • @helenfranceswilliams5973

    I wonder how it is you can love someone you've never met?? It's TRUE I love your family(including Summer) so much that if you messaged me me saying "hey I really need your help with this...I'd be there in a heartbeat!❤ I've been watching from the beginning and watching Abbie and Isaiah grow up its like I feel like part of the family!! Thanks for all you do and thanks for some of your tips to make me a better caregiver for my mama!!! All of you are so special in your own way!!! Much love from wintersville Ohio!!!

  • @weir_family
    @weir_family Před 3 lety +6

    Why can’t she have cereal?
    Why ask her if you are just going to give her what you want?
    It’s probably frustrating and confusing to her.
    Just present what you want to give her and I bet she is fine. Seems like she is disappointed the other way.
    Not trying to judge or be mean, I am honestly curious about the logic.
    Thank you!

    • @fatheringautism
      @fatheringautism  Před 3 lety +2

      Because we are teaching her communication every minute of every day. There are yes and no answers to requests in the real world. She is first taught that using her communication device is how she get what she wants. Then we have to teach her that you don’t get everything you ask for and “no” is an ok answer to a request. If yes was always the answer imagine the results of not getting what you want when you’ve always been told no. As far as the cereal...it’s basically nothing but sugar including the milk and it causes her to be even hungrier later as she burns through it quickly. We have also reduced her dairy intake because it affects the absorption of her medication and we end up with sleepless nights thus rough days.

    • @fatheringautism
      @fatheringautism  Před 3 lety +1

      @@shanonvasquez2035 Her drink is caffeine free and she gets one pump of caramel. Autistic persons that have commented on the coffee topic have actually reported that caffeine helps them to calm. Many times stimulants have an opposite reaction for some people.

  • @manic8213
    @manic8213 Před 3 lety +1

    I've been in a bubble of anxiety and depression lately and haven't seen your videos in forever. Glad I decided to lay in bed and binge! You guys definitely lift me up a bit

    • @fatheringautism
      @fatheringautism  Před 3 lety +1

      Hope you feel better!

    • @manic8213
      @manic8213 Před 3 lety +1

      Oh wow... thank you so much. I'm on the spectrum myself and love you guys so much. I've been in therapy and such and I do feel a bit better. Your family and your videos help alot when I can't sleep or think straight , love y'all!

  • @autismfambam771
    @autismfambam771 Před 3 lety +4

    Oh sweet abbie love seeing you get things done

  • @TheoriginalANGEK439
    @TheoriginalANGEK439 Před 3 lety +7

    🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣👍👍👍 the iPad ! She is doing ok considering she was up very early ! 👍💜👍

  • @kittenanime9921
    @kittenanime9921 Před 3 lety +1

    This is so wholesome. I love your videos.

  • @addanner84
    @addanner84 Před 3 lety +7

    Nothing usually bothers me on this channel ever but what's so bad about cereal for a snack? Worried she won't want it for breakfast tomorrow? Why give her the option and then turn it down like she asked for dessert or a chocolate bar...or dunkin. I would be frustrated too if I were Abby about that. She repeatedly asked for it. What's the harm? Worried it will ruin her appetite? Give her a smaller portion. But knowing her appetite, nothing will ruin it lol

    • @alinaporter3846
      @alinaporter3846 Před 3 lety +2

      It’s about the sugar intake. If she has a bowl in the AM then she can’t have it for a snack. They have been working on limiting her sugar sense the old house. For Ab sugar and ice cream later in the day effects her sleeping. They have also cut back on donuts...only twice a week. You also have to remember that throughout her day she works for “edible for re-enforcers”...a lot of the time that is candy because it is highly re-enforcing for her. 😊
      Children on the spectrum are either too picky and never eat OR they eat anything and everything and are NEVER full.
      By this default they are more susceptible to health issues such a diabetes and obesity OR malnutrition depending on the child’s habits.

    • @livewiiiiire
      @livewiiiiire Před rokem

      She does have cereal for snack sometimes (like dry cheerios) but her usual cereal is Cinnamon Toast Crunch, which has a ton of sugar and they try to encourage her to have healthier snacks (since they have to bribe her with cookies and doughnuts so much)

  • @carriebowlen3785
    @carriebowlen3785 Před 2 lety

    I love you so much!! Thanks for sharing your lifes with all of us. How is everyone? Thanks for always spreading kindness and love to all of us in our communities!!

  • @kzngirl1
    @kzngirl1 Před 3 lety

    I love how much Abbie is communicating . You go girl.

  • @hackenshmitable
    @hackenshmitable Před 3 lety +1

    I enjoy the action shots and the change in filming style and photography. Go crazy Acer.

  • @lesliehyde
    @lesliehyde Před 3 lety +23

    Cereal can totally be a snack. Sometimes it's the best one.

    • @mandalee1980
      @mandalee1980 Před 3 lety +7

      Leslie Hyde. Abbie parents only want her eating one bowl a day because the ones she likes are high in sugar and they have started trying to cut her sugar intake.

  • @diaryofaplantkiller
    @diaryofaplantkiller Před 3 lety +1

    This girl makes me so happy! When she put her lunch dishes in the sink I wanted to "YYEEEEEESSSSSS"!!! Way to go. Also, I am a cereal snacker. I go to the DT and get that dollar bag of name brand cereal to munch on. If cereal were only for breakfast at my house I would die. lol. Thanks for the happy, Abby.

  • @Renee4ever68
    @Renee4ever68 Před 3 lety +5

    Okay, from now on out I’m calling sloppy joes, Disheveled Joseph’s! LOL

  • @ariellebachrach4796
    @ariellebachrach4796 Před 3 lety +6

    Love your videos!! Love her!

  • @tiffiebundy6497
    @tiffiebundy6497 Před 3 lety +1

    Abbie is so beautiful! I mean she has always been a beautiful little girl but as she is growing up into a young woman, she is so absolutely beautiful that I find myself being so thankful that she does have such a caring and observing family to protect her.

  • @lizmorris260
    @lizmorris260 Před 3 lety +1

    Abby’s communication and cognition seemed to be on fire. Her pure joy of the return to school, and her defiance (buckle issue) with Cilla was inspiring! Thanks for the explanation

  • @diyandmorewithsam2278
    @diyandmorewithsam2278 Před 3 lety +2

    Awww when she got home from school and seen dad 💕 💕

  • @louiswasik9370
    @louiswasik9370 Před 3 lety +4

    Thank you so much on the explanation of the new camera. I really thought a small drone was following you around...lol..all the best to you and your family and thank you for the videos. Very helpful on understanding special needs people.

    • @lindsaysheffield
      @lindsaysheffield Před 3 lety

      Do you know what camera is that he's using? Looking at getting one myself...

  • @flowergleamandglow9317

    She said “Put that thing back where it came from or so help me” 🤣

  • @erickamoysey8596
    @erickamoysey8596 Před 3 lety

    Lots of awesome communication! Way to go Abbie!

  • @autismfambam771
    @autismfambam771 Před 3 lety +3

    Yes i feel you when you get to bed late and we are the first once up when the kiddos get up early

  • @dawnbailowich8476
    @dawnbailowich8476 Před 3 lety

    She was want cereal really bad but I love how she can tell u what she want n need to do n love see her so happy n she as come long away with stuff like put her lunch bag stuff away n know where it go I'm so proud of her n u guys are amazing patents love u guys

  • @connieheitz8982
    @connieheitz8982 Před 3 lety +1

    Ahhh Abby was so excited. I smiled all the way through the vlog with her. Her excitement her antics. And she sure didn't want that Apple. I thought it was funny when she put it back in the fridge. 😂😂😂😂😂

  • @williaroberts2945
    @williaroberts2945 Před 3 lety +2

    Thank you for explaining the camera thing and I couldn’t figure out who was holding the camera LOL

  • @andreabennerakaandi9256
    @andreabennerakaandi9256 Před 3 lety +5

    Give the girl feral! Haha. I know you have to stay on a pattern and certain things. My kids eat cereal all day every day. Haha

  • @Mel-ij3hq
    @Mel-ij3hq Před 3 lety

    i love the fisheye thingy cause it shows your creativity and enthusiasm with your videos, i guess you could always put little warnings before you do them and a time to skip to for people with motion sickness! if you enjoy it you should keep going!!

  • @xXEdgeKnowlXx
    @xXEdgeKnowlXx Před 3 lety +1

    Love that camera and software program. I think that is a great idea for getting great shots that look drone like!

  • @RoseMiah9191
    @RoseMiah9191 Před 3 lety +1

    Respect to the family and all their love and support.
    It must be exhausting... i‘d prolly lose it from time to time...

  • @autismfambam771
    @autismfambam771 Před 3 lety +5

    I love seeing that when you tell her to do things she doesn them and love seeing how excited she gets

  • @jasonyaw5464
    @jasonyaw5464 Před 3 lety +5

    Oooo she did not want that apple lol. Way to persist Asa.

  • @paulamoreau1948
    @paulamoreau1948 Před 3 lety +6

    I wondered about what was up with the camera shots. I can't watch it because I have epilepsy and it was messing with me. Love you guys.

  • @roshondabowens9809
    @roshondabowens9809 Před 3 lety +4

    Hey Abbie and family,are y'all ready for the weekend, hope y'all are having a wonderful thursday and stay safe out there ❤️🤗❤️🤗❤️🤗❤️🤗❤️🤗

  • @NickyJohnK219
    @NickyJohnK219 Před 3 lety +6

    I Love You Guys So Much ❤️❤️💙💙

  • @karlysaeks7718
    @karlysaeks7718 Před 3 lety +2

    I really enjoy watching your vlogs and your family

  • @jamiewarn8024
    @jamiewarn8024 Před 3 lety +1

    As a vertigo sufferer thank you for no more weird camera shots

  • @carolmartin2091
    @carolmartin2091 Před 3 lety +4

    Amazing family you really are.keep me smiling all the time I am watching you guys.enjoy your self at school today abbie.make sure abbie had her mask with her.Hi everyone.🐱🐕🐶🐠🐢

  • @beckycoffman20
    @beckycoffman20 Před 3 lety +1

    I love the fish eye stuff. I also have autism and I love your blogs. Thankyou for what you guys do for us who have autism.

  • @tinafields7139
    @tinafields7139 Před 3 lety +5

    I LOVE your hair with the crimper Priscilla!

  • @Darkbunny456
    @Darkbunny456 Před 3 lety +1

    I've missed the students in my school as well, we started back this week with a bubble of kids doing full-time as they are children of keyworker and vulnerable children. This week we will have 2 part-time bubbles starting on both sites (one doing Mon, Tues and one doing Thurs, Fri) Not all of the students in my class are back till this week as one is in another bubble and two have decided not to come back yet. I work in a school as a Learning Support Assistant for children with Cerebral Palsy and other motor disorders.

  • @donnab3040
    @donnab3040 Před 3 lety +3

    That totally a bribe with the seatbelt....want music🤣

  • @RainPariss
    @RainPariss Před 3 lety

    Wait Priscilla is looking flipping incredible!! Like holy sheeeesh!! I saw all the peloton vids and I mean whatever your doing is working fab for you girl!! Gorgeous!! Love you guys!!

  • @Iamaangel2.0
    @Iamaangel2.0 Před 3 lety +1

    I laughed when she said no and put the apples and put them back he attuide in the car with her mum also made me smile I was like that when I was me when I was her age bless all U guys
    Greetings from new Zealand ❤️❤️💯

  • @ygw.bullwrom2707
    @ygw.bullwrom2707 Před 3 lety +2

    Our schools r closed rt now. Missing out on aba therapy and speech therapy 😥 but we r still trying to learn at home. Luv our non verbal agreements. They r the best parts of our day sometimes lol

  • @anniekolbe2
    @anniekolbe2 Před 3 lety +1

    Love you guys!
    ❤❤❤❤❤

  • @linnsoltwedel
    @linnsoltwedel Před 3 lety +3

    I am a "normal" (Not at all, haha) 35 year old nurse and I rock to when I am in pain.

  • @susanharris1285
    @susanharris1285 Před 3 lety +11

    Abbie understood you she was just in her feelings today Teenager!!!! Love you girl

  • @abbigailbaum6948
    @abbigailbaum6948 Před 3 lety +1

    Wow that stubbornness was something fierce 🔥!
    But she seems to be doing great with her routine it’s so amazing watching her progress❤️

  • @Kelly-jn4cp
    @Kelly-jn4cp Před 3 lety

    I think it's awesome!!! I love those shots!!! VERY COOL!!!💜💜💜

  • @suegoulding1341
    @suegoulding1341 Před 3 lety +1

    I think you're doing great with Abbey.
    I started watching your channel to see what the fuss is about after hearing negative comments.
    Actually you're real and you have her future to think about. She's happy and that's the main thing.
    She's a very gentle girl.
    Wish other parents with special needs children are attentive as you.
    Love the way you involve your pets.

  • @RealKevGotEm
    @RealKevGotEm Před 3 lety +3

    From the last time I watched you guys it’s been awhile. She has improved so much. The littlest things she has

  • @priscillarobertson
    @priscillarobertson Před 3 lety +6

    I love learning from Abbie every video.. thank you for sharing your lives with us❤️

  • @Tuty42063
    @Tuty42063 Před 3 lety

    It gives me such great joy watching Abigail get so excited .♥️🤩🙏👏😄😘👑🌸🤣💕😆

  • @launasimon3853
    @launasimon3853 Před 3 lety +2

    Abby was a little feisty today with the seatbelt lol 😆

  • @beckparks3861
    @beckparks3861 Před 3 lety +2

    We called them “Untidy Josephs”. 🤷🏼‍♀️😆

  • @amcl8125
    @amcl8125 Před 2 lety

    Yeah, those are apples no thanks 😂😂😂 I love her persistence

  • @1981namo
    @1981namo Před 3 lety +2

    Love you guys

  • @Tamellax
    @Tamellax Před 3 lety +1

    can we have the link for the 360 camera, I've looked in the Amazon Files you have linked and I can't seem to find it, Thank you

  • @Andy-fs3us
    @Andy-fs3us Před 3 lety +4

    Loved the Vlog well done on Communication Abbie! I do have a question did Abbie want cereal as a snack because its 'crunchy' re texture maybe, or did she want Cereal as a snack

  • @catherinek8903
    @catherinek8903 Před 3 lety +6

    I can relate to Abbie wanting to put the ice pack in the cabinets. It’s one of those “wait what was I doing again?” moments 😂

  • @junegroves7295
    @junegroves7295 Před 3 lety +10

    Too cute!!! I’m glad she is back to her routine!!❤️❤️❤️

  • @brendahayath1488
    @brendahayath1488 Před 3 lety

    I loved it!! How she kept trying to quietly unhook her seatbelt...100% teenager and Priscilla had the perfect recipe!! Music!! Abby I s such a beautiful young lady!

  • @demiselenafan54
    @demiselenafan54 Před 3 lety +2

    It is just amazing watching how far she has come! It amazes me to watch and these vlogs are an amazing reminder of her hard work. Makes me smile every vlog!

    • @mandalee1980
      @mandalee1980 Před 3 lety +2

      Liana Reif. Abbie is just an amazing young person, I’m so proud of her on how she never gives up on things. My motto is “if Abbie can overcome things in life I can do it too” Abbie is such a great example for all of us.

  • @carriecarr9796
    @carriecarr9796 Před 3 lety +1

    Thank you so much for showing that cool camera 360 gadget thing!! I was wondering how you got those cool shots! Can you show more of your cool camera gadgets? I would love to start vlogging with my family and my youngest has severe autism also😀🧩