How to Make Friends at a New School & AWKWARD Middle School Stories!

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  • A few people have asked me for advice on making new friends when moving to a different state/ a new school. I've lived in 5 different states and went to 5 different schools before coming to college, so I understand what you're going through!! ENJOY :)
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  • @LizziesAnswers
    @LizziesAnswers  Před 11 lety

    I agree. That's why I said "it doesn't matter," because I want to prevent people from being scarred by exclusion.

  • @LizziesAnswers
    @LizziesAnswers  Před 11 lety

    It just brings me so much joy.

  • @averywowrose1414
    @averywowrose1414 Před 10 lety +8

    New school tomorrow :O

  • @LizziesAnswers
    @LizziesAnswers  Před 11 lety

    Aww, I love you Courtney!! :) I hope life is treating you wonderfully

  • @itsrickilaurennn
    @itsrickilaurennn Před 10 lety +8

    im moving after 8 years of being at my school and im so nervous and im moving to florida and im really shy help I don't walk up to random people im to shy

  • @TheJazz3698
    @TheJazz3698 Před 11 lety

    you are so blessed with the ability to feel so confident being single. Wish i had that strength.

  • @katelynknapp7296
    @katelynknapp7296 Před 9 lety +7

    All she's doing is talking about her history when she moved. She's not giving advice

  • @LizziesAnswers
    @LizziesAnswers  Před 11 lety

    Make sure to get involved in awesome activities!! And remember that even if it's tough dealing with something at the time, looking back years later you'll be able to view it as a positive thing :)
    Best of luck when you start school this fall! You'll do GREAT!

  • @LizziesAnswers
    @LizziesAnswers  Před 11 lety +1

    I already made a video EXACTLY like what you're asking! It's called "Life Doesn't Go My Way" :)

  • @eloiseoconnor373
    @eloiseoconnor373 Před 8 lety

    guys are awesome when it comes to moving schools, they're so chill. This is why i'd dread moving to an all girls school.

  • @shortycakes21
    @shortycakes21 Před 11 lety

    This helped me so much, Lizzy!
    I'm homeschooled, but this fall I'm going to public school for the very first time! And, it's 8th grade. I love your videos and how you openly share your faith with the internet!:)
    Xoxo, Ashley

  • @LizziesAnswers
    @LizziesAnswers  Před 11 lety

    Yeahhh!! Thank you for watching & I love you SOO much

  • @LizziesAnswers
    @LizziesAnswers  Před 11 lety

    I don't run track in college, but I've run everything from 800 to mile to 2-mile: LONG DISTANCE!!

  • @Juliusmith91
    @Juliusmith91 Před 11 lety

    I love being the new guy because you get the change to be a celebrity for like a day.

  • @LizziesAnswers
    @LizziesAnswers  Před 11 lety

    SORRYYY!!! I get so busy with school & friends & it's so hard to balance everything. I'm uploading every Monday & Thursday over summer!

  • @geostelar6182
    @geostelar6182 Před 9 lety

    Thank you so much Liz! Your videos have helped me so much and Inspired me to be more outgoing! I'm leaving a school that's generation's of my family have gone to, and I have gone there 9 years, but we can no longer afford it. I'm quite excited to try a new school, but I had no idea how to make friends. Thanks so much for the help!

    • @dommcmx7060
      @dommcmx7060 Před 9 lety

      I feel you bro, I have never moved school apart from my move to high school. I'm moving again and am starting in a new school after the summer. Im so scared D:

    • @geostelar6182
      @geostelar6182 Před 9 lety

      im sure you will make it bro! new school means new friends! and a chance to make a new reputation! so just put yourself out there and just have fun! im sure you will do good :)

  • @korinnd6008
    @korinnd6008 Před 8 lety +1

    next year I'm going to a different highschool than my friends are and I can't bear it because this so called school is HUGE and I'm so scared they've told me how hard it is and I'm crying just thinking about when this school year ends I Dont want to go there honestly

  • @sarahemill
    @sarahemill Před 11 lety

    I can relate about seeing new people at my school or just people who are alone. There was one guy at a dance and he was just standing alone so I suggested to my friends that we should talk to him, and they said no. I would have myself, but I'm one of those people who is really shy if I don't know you. But a lot of the time me and my friends go talk to the people standing alone and we make new friends!

  • @LizziesAnswers
    @LizziesAnswers  Před 11 lety

    You are SO awesome!! This makes me super happy :)
    Tell me how it goes!

  • @lesleypearce1154
    @lesleypearce1154 Před 11 lety

    I've been homeschooled for all my life. I don't know how it feals to move to a different school but, I do know pain. I understand whatever a person is going through. And I agree. My friend was getting bullied just for being adopted! I think it was so stupid. I'm adopted so I understand what it's like. Funny thing though. Most people don't know I'm adopted and it makes a fun surprise. My saying is : " There is always an upside. No matter what."

  • @skywriter-vp3mf
    @skywriter-vp3mf Před 9 lety +1

    I moved from Texas to newyork and it's a super hard transition 😭

  • @beckhugs
    @beckhugs Před 11 lety

    i moved around a lot in elementary through high school too! 5 times! i loved it though. glad i got to experience so much!

  • @KLagler222
    @KLagler222 Před 11 lety

    In my school the guys start all the drama...it's weird, all the girls are pretty chill with each other, and I'm friends with almost everybody.

  • @fff4583
    @fff4583 Před 11 lety

    I moved from Portugal to Spain but a bunch of kids started talking to me and they are all my friends

  • @ShotSimple
    @ShotSimple Před 11 lety

    i love you, you make ma smile after horrible day in my school. Thank you

  • @mshafer61
    @mshafer61 Před 11 lety

    yes because ive learned that all those popular people in highschool, once they get into college, they arent popular because in college people truly do not pay attention to you. and all those people who were popular in highschool arent going to be use to the new atmosphere of no attention so i guess you could say its kinda good to not be popular :)

  • @bieberfever3756
    @bieberfever3756 Před 11 lety

    I actually just found out that Im moving for the third time now, and im also going to a new school. My mom thinks that this shool is better for me, because they have more activities, and yeah. I just wanted to thank you for making this video. :)

  • @cloverromanov4959
    @cloverromanov4959 Před 11 lety

    I've never had many friends, and I don't know why. I actually had practically no friends since this kid who lived next door to me who moved until this year. Unfortunately, none of my friends listen to me when I talk to them. I know I'm not bossy, and I don't talk for a really long time. I also always listen to my friends, so I don't get why they talk over me in the middle of a sentence. I don't even talk that much. Most of the time, I just stare at my hands.Like, I sit at the same table as

  • @user_not_found4403
    @user_not_found4403 Před 8 lety +1

    thank u for this video I just moved from Illinois to Connecticut

  • @Crazyinnerblond
    @Crazyinnerblond Před 11 lety

    I totally know how you felt in 8th grade. I was home schooled till 8th grade and i barely knew anyone. I also know how you feel with moving and stuff, i am a military brat so i know the separating from friends. It got worse for me because once i got friends in school i soon found out i was moving near the end of freshmen year so my last grade period was horrible.

  • @faithh2908
    @faithh2908 Před 11 lety

    Omigosh this helped sooo much I'm starting a new school in September and it's my last year of middle school too!!! And I'm really scared thanks Lizzie

  • @LizziesAnswers
    @LizziesAnswers  Před 11 lety

    I've just never been in a serious relationship before, so I don't really have anything to compare being single to. I don't think being content is any sort of special ability, haha :)

  • @JasmineScott252012
    @JasmineScott252012 Před 11 lety

    Dear Lizzie,
    Could you do a video on transitioning from high school to college? Like going from being super involved in high school activities, to college where maybe there isn't as much to do, and how you would handle it. =)

  • @CrysShadow
    @CrysShadow Před 11 lety

    I'm going to be a freshman at my town's high school next year and it feels like I'm going to a new school because my small group of friends I did have all went to a high class prep school and I couldn't afford it even with the $8,000 scholarship I got for art and design. I just can't afford to pay for the books and uniforms and $5 lunches. This video helps a lot, so thank you! ^-^

  • @hkgeekygirl
    @hkgeekygirl Před 11 lety

    Can you do a video on how to let go of grudges and anger when it comes to dating, relationships, and friendships?

  • @LizziesAnswers
    @LizziesAnswers  Před 11 lety

    Thank you so much for watching :) love youu!

  • @lailatheteenagewitch3542
    @lailatheteenagewitch3542 Před 9 lety +2

    I'm going into eighth grade and I'm moving to Florida after i finish the school year

  • @coolkid8193
    @coolkid8193 Před 7 lety

    This gives me a lot of hope, thanks 😀😚

  • @LizziesAnswers
    @LizziesAnswers  Před 11 lety

    I love you too ♥♥♥

  • @RachelWorld333
    @RachelWorld333 Před 11 lety

    dear lizzie, can you do a video on situations and how they turn into something beautiful and teaches you life lessons and can you tell stories like you did in this video?

  • @maddierose8144
    @maddierose8144 Před 11 lety

    I was a military brat so I moved a lot. After a while you learn too not attach to anyone

  • @athenas5959
    @athenas5959 Před 7 lety

    I'm not moving, but I'm going to a different middle school (I'm in 7th grade) in the middle of the year and IM SO NERVOUS! The school I went to was with all the people I grew up with and my besties since preschool.

  • @helenkeller8892
    @helenkeller8892 Před 8 lety +1

    Thank you so much

  • @sarahmiller5460
    @sarahmiller5460 Před 9 lety

    Thank you, I really needed to hear this. :)

  • @robbycharters1
    @robbycharters1 Před 9 lety

    "Guys are so cool" why thank you

  • @flyingpighs
    @flyingpighs Před 11 lety

    nvr say tht it doesnt matter. kids can be scarred for life bc they didnt have friends in school....

  • @LizziesAnswers
    @LizziesAnswers  Před 11 lety

    SO COOL! Thank you for subscribing :)

  • @chloejones8348
    @chloejones8348 Před 9 lety

    Next year i'll be in middle school so I watched the videos so i'll be ready

  • @cloverromanov4959
    @cloverromanov4959 Před 11 lety

    anything I say. What should I do?

  • @haleypottker5664
    @haleypottker5664 Před 11 lety

    LizziesAnswers ik how it feels to sit at a table all by myself 3rd grade sucked i was mainly by myself the whole time I've never moved but I'm still losing basically all my friends from my school their either going to TSA or moving completely it sucks

  • @EcriverEtre
    @EcriverEtre Před 11 lety

    Willie the wave is DEFINITELY my best friend

  • @genesissepulveda3890
    @genesissepulveda3890 Před 9 lety

    I have have crutches cause I broke my ankle then I had to move to a new school. I was totally alone and didn't have any friends. It is hard to find anyone to sit with at lunch.

  • @eliftufan1817
    @eliftufan1817 Před 11 lety

    Helped so much thanks!! :)

  • @animegirl61701
    @animegirl61701 Před 11 lety

    I needed that because I just moved schools

  • @alicekingsley4334
    @alicekingsley4334 Před 11 lety

    So there are two of my friends who fight over me and hate eachother. Wht should I do

  • @emilygarcia6424
    @emilygarcia6424 Před 11 lety

    You are so helpful and inspiring.. thanks!

  • @leslielopez8290
    @leslielopez8290 Před 8 lety +3

    thanks for this video 😘😍 i love your videos . tour super nice . lets see how i go in 7th grade this year ☺😜 wish me good luck 👍👌

    • @SenjuTheSlime
      @SenjuTheSlime Před 8 lety

      GL!

    • @crkbbbullet1235
      @crkbbbullet1235 Před 8 lety

      good luck!! 😂

    • @leslielopez8290
      @leslielopez8290 Před 8 lety +1

      +VideosWith Courtney aww thanks 😊💕 and it went gread i found new friends and my old friends

    • @leslielopez8290
      @leslielopez8290 Před 8 lety

      +VideosWith Courtney great

    • @leslielopez8290
      @leslielopez8290 Před 8 lety

      +Extosus-XXX - Mobile and PC Games aww thanks 😊💕and it went great i found new friends and my new friends

  • @erynj5966
    @erynj5966 Před 9 lety

    I am a military kid yet I still have difficulty moving... this years move will be the hardest for me because I will be leaving the Netherlands and going back to America. I am super nervous to be starting 10th grade at an actual high school because I go to a K-12 International School so it doesnt really count...

  • @martinaaletta2424
    @martinaaletta2424 Před 9 lety

    so I guess I've changed schools a lot. I spent kindergarten and 1st grade in the same school, then I moved to another school where I went from /bs grade to the middle of 5th grade. The last half of 5th grade I spent at another new school. Then I went to another town for half of 6th grade and went to another middle school for the other half. Then I went back to the school I spent the first half of 6th grade at, I spend my whole 7th grade year there. Then last year I moved again and went to another middle school for all of 8th grade and now we're moving again so I'll have to make new friends once again on my first day of high school :/

  • @LiveLaughhSingg
    @LiveLaughhSingg Před 11 lety

    My dad was in the Army and I have been to eighteen different. Saying five schools is a lot is hilarious to me.

  • @tannerhodges6181
    @tannerhodges6181 Před 8 lety

    Thank you i needed this.

  • @israaemad2439
    @israaemad2439 Před 10 lety

    Thank you ! That really helped

  • @jordanauburger162
    @jordanauburger162 Před 11 lety

    Okay so there's this guy, and I watched your 13 signs if a shy guy likes you, but he talks to this girl & is realllllly close with her, but she's dating his best friend. I sit next to him, but we never talk. So my question is how do I spark up a conversation with him?

  • @artlesssummer5622
    @artlesssummer5622 Před 8 lety

    you're so nice, thank you for this video

  • @thry4557
    @thry4557 Před 9 lety

    This year I had to go from a private school, to a public one. I was ok with the idea, but when people there found out I came from a private school, they started treating me in a different way! They believe that kids who go to a private school are snobs and bossy but that's not true! I'm neither snob nor bossy and I am also really nice to them, but they still treat me differently! I'm just a normal girl! How can I convince them they are wrong? Please help me!

  • @meglolcat
    @meglolcat Před 11 lety

    I have moved 18 time sometime back to the same place (its so freaking when we moved back to the same house and my room had pink walls) so I know what it is like and I still get bullied just because where I come form

  • @stinessy
    @stinessy Před 10 lety +1

    I'm moving to different city soon. When this summer ends, I'm going into 7th grade, which is the first year of middle school. I've made many friends at the school I was at, but since I'm going to be living in a different city and moving to a whole new different school, all the people there are strangers. Most of the kids there already knows each other from elementary, I'm super scared and nervous. What should I do?

  • @hectorbarbossa1292
    @hectorbarbossa1292 Před 11 lety

    You look lovely! I love your dress and your hair!

  • @janekrause5192
    @janekrause5192 Před 11 lety

    for a second I didn't realize you were replying to a comment, and you got this from the video.... but i agree with you

  • @shahadkhan1
    @shahadkhan1 Před 11 lety

    Lizzie I love u soo very muchh! ♥♥♥♥ thank you for everything ♥♥♥ :")

  • @angelwhite5544
    @angelwhite5544 Před 11 lety

    I applaud how much you get involved with god,reading the bible,and memorizing verses.

  • @ivycheung3111
    @ivycheung3111 Před 11 lety

    Thanks this helped me a lot!

  • @codygreen8380
    @codygreen8380 Před 9 lety

    i moved schools and made a friend, he invited me to his lunch table and I don't really fit in the group. Im just awkwardly sitting there eating my food:/

  • @hkgeekygirl
    @hkgeekygirl Před 11 lety

    Lizzie, I need your advice. My "friend" didn't know who my crush was so he sent me a link to a love calculator. I just put random people as my crush, but one of them was my own friend. So what ever crushes I put he will find out since his e-mail was connected

  • @nicky123456ish
    @nicky123456ish Před 11 lety

    Could you do an advice video for how to deal with your parents getting divorced??? Pleasee

  • @BranchsTree
    @BranchsTree Před 11 lety

    I'm a guy I Whatch ur vids cuz there encouraging to me cuz I am a christan and I live in Germany and it is so hard when u DONT know german and the teachers a like freaking out at u cuz u don't know SOMTHING and I just really am encouraged by ur vids thank u so much for what u do!!!!!

  • @lovecristeeopara3184
    @lovecristeeopara3184 Před 10 lety +1

    I have tomove and I have had these friends since I was born how am I going to leave them

    • @anniepennie5976
      @anniepennie5976 Před 7 lety

      love, cristee opara how was it? did you make new friends?

  • @janekrause5192
    @janekrause5192 Před 11 lety

    can you do a video talking about how to reject a guy? I just had to do it today and it was horrific

  • @thirdlynephilim
    @thirdlynephilim Před 11 lety

    Isn't St.Petersburg in Russia? Are you a missionary kid or a militarily kid? Your stories really remind me of my experiences moving around. Reverse culture shock is the worst.

  • @bff1tv
    @bff1tv Před 11 lety

    omg thanks for the vid im going to a new school and scared out of my mind

  • @gigglegal360
    @gigglegal360 Před 11 lety

    i just moved a couple of months ago and i miss my friends like crazy we try to text and facetime but we have diferent school and after school schedules. i guess ive made some friends but not even close to the ones from before. and i hate this school i hate the dress code, and so many people are mean or annoying. also i try to make friends but everyone already has friends. what should i do?!

  • @hannah1torres
    @hannah1torres Před 11 lety

    Hey can you do a video on the best books for a christian. Cause i really like to read and i also want to grow closer in my relationship with God.

  • @michellevargas8256
    @michellevargas8256 Před 8 lety

    its easy for me to make friends there was this new school i asked her to play i was her first friend in the school then another girl and then she is still my bff today!!

  • @katrinaewald7676
    @katrinaewald7676 Před 11 lety

    I have question what would you do if you are obsessed with a guy and they love you back is it k for girls to ask guys out? we both like each other so I think maybe I can ask him out is that ok

  • @lunawillows4126
    @lunawillows4126 Před 11 lety

    What if you have tried to be friends with the new person but their a jerk to everyone

  • @Allyblue37
    @Allyblue37 Před 11 lety

    I'm start middle school in a new school.I am so nervous!

  • @taylorcalkinz9074
    @taylorcalkinz9074 Před 11 lety

    Wow I was the 55,000th follower! Cool!

  • @firefly-class-tardis2508

    I'm not moving house but i am moving school becuase the school I'm at now is terrable but I am terrified, I have never been the new kid and I am a shy nerd ... so problem detected ! help !

  • @darrenkwalsh
    @darrenkwalsh Před 11 lety

    I double-liked this vlog!

  • @Ayjjyegeggwrg_gwgwrgg_23467

    I'm at my new school and I haven't made a lot of new friends and it's been a week 😪

  • @abasah
    @abasah Před 11 lety

    Good vibes from you young lady.

  • @alexismeyer8859
    @alexismeyer8859 Před 9 lety

    Ok i used to be in this school in elementry then i left and moved every where now im in middle school and i jave four schools around me that i can choose too go too but i dont know what school my old friends are at? And there not around all the time so i cant ask them. Can you help me

  • @amberescalante4380
    @amberescalante4380 Před 8 lety

    No offense but asking people to join them and asking to sit with them ends badly... i tried that once and this girl laughed and started bullying me... i wait till class and sit by someone and eventually we start talking and hangout

  • @Viktoriya556
    @Viktoriya556 Před 11 lety

    Well, I have a question. I moved to another country and I'm gonna go soon to a school there. ( i'm 16 btw) And it's a totally different language. And I'm not that good yet. So what should I do? :(

  • @cloverromanov4959
    @cloverromanov4959 Před 11 lety

    my friend Victoria at Lunch, but she never sits by me. I ask her sometimes if she can sit near me for once, and she always has some excuse for sitting with Jaylinn. So I still sit at the table, but I sit across from a couple of girls who are nice to me but I can tell don't like me. I could sit with my guy friends Adam, Billy and Tony, but this boy named John has started sitting there recently, and he's a pervert and insults me to my face a lot. Really, people in general don't ever listen to

  • @mshafer61
    @mshafer61 Před 11 lety

    where the heck did u get THAT out her comment...

  • @brookeyoungren7782
    @brookeyoungren7782 Před 11 lety

    thanks i think it will help me a lot thank you soooo much

  • @puzzledninja
    @puzzledninja Před 11 lety

    can you make a video about dating in college, advice and tips :)

  • @candyjannah645
    @candyjannah645 Před 8 lety

    well i usually skip lunch and just eat lunch at the mall or somewhere else after school i just go to the libray or the comlounge because the wifi is free there but few years later they placed free wifi tru out the whole campus (p.s the school is fucking huge ... ) i will just hang out any where or i'll just stay in the room

  • @LizziesAnswers
    @LizziesAnswers  Před 11 lety

    Yayyy! :D