OUR ABSTINENCE STORY - TIPS ON ABSTAINING #01 || Soila & Curtis

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  • čas přidán 5. 08. 2024
  • #abstinence #patreon #soilaandcurtis
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    Hey people. Finally one of our most requested video, Our Abstinence Journey. This is a 5 part series that details our journey and how we were able to handle the whole process. Enjoy. Don't forget to become a Patreon and get access to more exclusive content.
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Komentáře • 193

  • @SoilaandCurtis
    @SoilaandCurtis  Před 3 lety +41

    Thanks guys for staying tuned and enjoying the content. We have so much more aligned for this year. However, we will only post snippets of a few selected episodes on CZcams. To get the full episodes as well as exclusive bonus content, kindly consider becoming a patron by joining us on the Patreon Platform. This way, you get to support us as we put up a team to assist in creating wonderful content we have planned for you. www.patreon.com/soilaandcurtis

    • @KAIZORIANEMPIRE
      @KAIZORIANEMPIRE Před 3 lety

      the lady is lucky, this man is very intellligent and looks like a competent leader. Be ready for a decent life and the man is lucky, she follows his every word yet is also very competent. She will support and multiply what you create, ;) x

  • @joybaariu5786
    @joybaariu5786 Před 3 lety +101

    The first Kenyan couple that is making sense to me so far ..'if representing Jesus was a couple'

  • @chepkorirfayth
    @chepkorirfayth Před 3 lety +18

    Soila still looks at Curtis the way she did years ago❤️❤️

  • @estheraruka6374
    @estheraruka6374 Před 3 lety +8

    "Sometimes religion tries to scare people into doing the right thing."
    There is a lot to unpack here.
    Wonderful discussions.

  • @geraldgichuhi9573
    @geraldgichuhi9573 Před 2 lety +2

    Not me subscribing, turning on the notification bell and commenting using a friend's account bc i want them to watch the next video.

  • @winnieachieng2764
    @winnieachieng2764 Před 3 lety +43

    Am really willing to abstain from sex till marriage....... Sasa kupata mtu ako willing to go through the journey with me in a clean n healthy way ni challenging.Huku gulf, 😝😝😝wacha tuu, u meet a guy speaking in tongues on his way to heaven, but the first thing you discuss on the first date is how can I see u in private....?? Sasa unashindwa... Doesn't he know sex out of marriage is wrong, then Kuna prolonged periods of dryspell..... 🤔🤔🤔I tell u when a chance presents itself🤐🤐🤐.... Kuabstain requires real self discipline. Then we hv pretenders encouraging u to abstain while he is busy doing practicals on the other side of internet..... Only God can see us through n help us to lead a holy life.

    • @missliz_
      @missliz_ Před 3 lety +2

      Well said

    • @SoilaandCurtis
      @SoilaandCurtis  Před 3 lety +1

      This is funny and serious at the same time. 😂😂😂
      True story though, one must really have a personal conviction as to why they want to abstain. Otherwise, if its just something we want to do without really considering all the factors, it's going to be tough for sure. Stay tuned for the rest of the episodes to learn more. We pray you make it through because we believe you can. 🙂
      We will only post snippets of the next few episodes on CZcams. To get the full episodes as well as exclusive bonus content, kindly consider becoming a patron by joining us on the Patreon Platform. www.patreon.com/soilaandcurtis

    • @bellaolum9768
      @bellaolum9768 Před 3 lety

      😄😄😄

    • @wairimu625
      @wairimu625 Před 3 lety

      @@missliz_ liz from Wordpress, i see you. 😀😀😀 kumbe uko hku pia

  • @samsonkariuki1979
    @samsonkariuki1979 Před měsícem

    I just discovered this channel. Seems like it's one of those 'hidden gems', let me see what's up.

  • @distihat
    @distihat Před 3 lety +10

    Didn’t know you guys from before. I nearly skipped but I’m so glad I didn’t. Long story short, I am now a subscriber😁. Really good content! Thanks.🙌🏾

  • @cesscess856
    @cesscess856 Před rokem +1

    I can't imagine have never clicked on your videos till date10th Oct 2022. Your content is amazing

  • @lindahkavere4102
    @lindahkavere4102 Před 3 lety +9

    Anatomy will not kill me I need soilas smile to refresh my mind

  • @n.Luyali
    @n.Luyali Před 3 lety +13

    The wisdom in this couple, just amazing. Soila has a beautiful voice

  • @teddymugambi
    @teddymugambi Před 3 lety +1

    Super stoked for this. 🔥

  • @mwesigwalinatte5935
    @mwesigwalinatte5935 Před 3 lety +3

    The purity of the heart..❤️❤️

  • @IShalomKay
    @IShalomKay Před 3 lety +1

    This is beautiful & refreshing

  • @esthermaina9279
    @esthermaina9279 Před 3 lety +7

    I love the way Curtis brings out the term 'Systems'..Soila hiyo make up iko onpoint.mnanibariki sana😘

  • @muthonithuku1887
    @muthonithuku1887 Před 3 lety +2

    Thank you so much for this. I needed this.

  • @alishagibson439
    @alishagibson439 Před 3 lety +2

    I love this

  • @marcusndungu6090
    @marcusndungu6090 Před 3 lety +1

    Always a pleasure.Wisdom reloaded.!

  • @irinechech2377
    @irinechech2377 Před 3 lety +1

    Wow! Such an interesting Soila and Curtis. Personal conviction is needed for this abstinence.

  • @rebeccakabura8018
    @rebeccakabura8018 Před 3 lety +3

    Soo educative

  • @marthaharriet1706
    @marthaharriet1706 Před 3 lety +1

    Am so happy for the new content and podcast too, this discussion is so eye opening
    Really appreciate God bless you
    Lotsa love.

  • @georgemasibo140
    @georgemasibo140 Před 3 lety

    Wow , Amazing.

  • @ashafox29
    @ashafox29 Před 3 lety +1

    Great insights. Thanks for sharing.
    Those bloopers at the end had me dying 😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @ben3769
    @ben3769 Před 3 lety +2

    Just when I needed to hear it.

  • @joygathoni8454
    @joygathoni8454 Před 3 lety +1

    Beautiful, so much wisdom!

  • @agneswanjugu5494
    @agneswanjugu5494 Před 3 lety +1

    This was🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥❤️

  • @brendamoraa7556
    @brendamoraa7556 Před 3 lety +2

    The word you're looking for is reimbursement,,I love this series you guys are so practical I can't wait for the next episode

  • @debranjeringeru7891
    @debranjeringeru7891 Před 3 lety +3

    Amazing topic! One of the topics closest to my heart currently. One advice from a creative to another I think it’s best to look directly at the camera. The reason you are doing an online podcast is because you also want to get a CZcams reach. So looking at the camera involves your CZcams audience. When you look at each other it feels like it’s a discussion between the two of you and for the podcast listeners. That said this is your channel and I am offering my opinion with respect. Oh and props to doing a podcast! So much work yoh!

  • @kamyrnzheroll2160
    @kamyrnzheroll2160 Před 2 lety

    Truly this was enlightening .May God bless ur union.

  • @millicentorenge3716
    @millicentorenge3716 Před 3 lety

    Such depth!

  • @LightBulbMomentsKE
    @LightBulbMomentsKE Před 3 lety +3

    It's the bloopers for me😂😂😂. Content creation is WORK!

  • @shamimmauto7653
    @shamimmauto7653 Před 3 lety

    Great people, great content 🥰

  • @halipoa6828
    @halipoa6828 Před 3 lety +3

    You guys I just love your hard work and content!! I loved the last 5 minutes. Will join the Patreon just cause of you :)

    • @SoilaandCurtis
      @SoilaandCurtis  Před 3 lety

      Glad you are enjoying the content Hali. We'll be glad to have you as our Patron. Karibu sana. Thank you.

  • @puritykarimi6113
    @puritykarimi6113 Před 3 lety +10

    Hapo kwa lack of opportunity 🙄🙄😂
    My first time here and I love you guys already

  • @christanishimwe1469
    @christanishimwe1469 Před 3 lety +2

    This series is 🔥🔥 indeed!

    • @SoilaandCurtis
      @SoilaandCurtis  Před 3 lety

      Glad you are enjoying it. 🙂 We will only post snippets of the next few episodes on CZcams. To get the full episodes as well as exclusive bonus content, kindly consider becoming a patron by joining us on the Patreon Platform. www.patreon.com/soilaandcurtis

  • @kenyatoday1
    @kenyatoday1 Před 3 lety +3

    I agree with Curtis, your content is made for us, so look at us coz you are engaging us....at some point it felt like I am eavesdropping on your conversation 😂😂😂

  • @teddymugambi
    @teddymugambi Před 3 lety +12

    I like how you've deliberately taken time to unpack the misconceptions in what essentially is a gospel-centric way. It exposes legalistic nuances that we are bound to meet in discussions regarding celibacy and abstinence. It does really help to painstakingly undertake such discussions; and with both the appropriate & sound language; because perspective is everything and it shapes how we get to experience the decisions we make and the steadfastness to stick to them to their very end. God bless you both for this series, can't wait to see how it unfolds.

    • @SoilaandCurtis
      @SoilaandCurtis  Před 3 lety +1

      Thank you for your sentiments Teddy. I like how you have broken it down. Sounds very intellectual, like it's a book review. 😄😎
      We will only post snippets of the next few episodes on CZcams. To get the full episodes as well as exclusive bonus content, kindly consider becoming a patron by joining us on the Patreon Platform. www.patreon.com/soilaandcurtis

  • @annahetori5365
    @annahetori5365 Před 3 lety +2

    I wasn't ready for the wisdom that was poured . Thank you so much

  • @eddahwambui4596
    @eddahwambui4596 Před 3 lety +2

    Every time I get to your videos am sure of these ; depth, edification and some good laugh!
    Amazing guys.

    • @SoilaandCurtis
      @SoilaandCurtis  Před 3 lety

      Thank you Eddah. Glad you are having a good time here. 🙂

  • @tabulousdivine7951
    @tabulousdivine7951 Před 3 lety +2

    Blessed 🙏. I am expectant for the more that is to unfold on this series 💖. Thank you @soila and Curtis. You are a grace and a great help. Love you guys💖

    • @SoilaandCurtis
      @SoilaandCurtis  Před 3 lety

      Glad you are finding the content helpful. Be blessed. 🙂

  • @rachaelachieng3542
    @rachaelachieng3542 Před 3 lety +1

    Waiting eagerly...God bless you for the content you give...it's not in vain..I personally appreciate

    • @SoilaandCurtis
      @SoilaandCurtis  Před 3 lety

      This is good feedback Rachael. God bless you too. 🙂 We are glad you are finding the content beneficial.

  • @mukami_kinyua
    @mukami_kinyua Před 3 lety +1

    Mahn this is so powerful. Much needed conversation 😊

    • @SoilaandCurtis
      @SoilaandCurtis  Před 3 lety

      Glad you are enjoying it. 🙂 We will only post snippets of the next few selected episodes on CZcams. To get the full episodes as well as exclusive bonus content, kindly consider becoming a patron by joining us on the Patreon Platform. This way, you get to support us as we put up a team to assist in creating wonderful content we have planned for you. www.patreon.com/soilaandcurtis

  • @jolynnnyakio8397
    @jolynnnyakio8397 Před 3 lety +3

    This video is simply a life-changer. Thank you for this. 😊

  • @theuntoldstories.3952
    @theuntoldstories.3952 Před 3 lety +1

    So much wisdom from these two❤❤... My first time here and I've really fallen in love with your content..

    • @SoilaandCurtis
      @SoilaandCurtis  Před 3 lety +1

      Thank you for coming on board Wanyora. Stay tuned. 🙂

  • @Inhispresence801
    @Inhispresence801 Před 3 lety +1

    Enjoyed this topic can't wait for the next session

    • @SoilaandCurtis
      @SoilaandCurtis  Před 3 lety

      We're happy to hear you are loving it. 🙂
      We will only post snippets of the next few episodes on CZcams. To get the full episodes as well as exclusive bonus content, kindly consider becoming a patron by joining us on the Patreon Platform. www.patreon.com/soilaandcurtis

  • @reflectwithsarah6889
    @reflectwithsarah6889 Před 3 lety +3

    So much wisdom and insight here! God bless you guys.

  • @allthingslifebyc.2391
    @allthingslifebyc.2391 Před 3 lety +2

    Super educative ... thank you for the information ..i’m praying to that God gives me a God fearing man who will be in to abstainance idea 😊 asanteni

  • @hellenirungu8542
    @hellenirungu8542 Před 3 lety +24

    Notification for this came when I was in class. Zoom... Karibu ni left only that I need the degree! I love you Curtis and Soila

    • @SoilaandCurtis
      @SoilaandCurtis  Před 3 lety +4

      Hahaha. Hellen please don't skive class. We won't be able to give you the answers during the exam. 😅

    • @hellenirungu8542
      @hellenirungu8542 Před 3 lety +2

      @@SoilaandCurtis I won't. But I'll be camping here, forever and always ❤️.

  • @anngathogo3610
    @anngathogo3610 Před 3 lety +2

    I love the series 🔥🔥🔥

    • @SoilaandCurtis
      @SoilaandCurtis  Před 3 lety

      Thanks for watching Ann. We will only post snippets of the next few episodes on CZcams. To get the full episodes as well as exclusive bonus content, kindly consider becoming a patron by joining us on the Patreon Platform. www.patreon.com/soilaandcurtis

  • @kemigishajesicca8332
    @kemigishajesicca8332 Před 3 lety +1

    Wisdom 👏Reality👏 Love❤️Goals👏👏👏👏👏

  • @wairimukariuki948
    @wairimukariuki948 Před 3 lety +1

    Soila wanting eye contact 😂😂
    I love you guys. Mko na content inaflow.. you guys don't force. Wisdom🔥

  • @georgekamau2217
    @georgekamau2217 Před 3 lety +1

    Educative.
    Love you !

  • @lizkim9900
    @lizkim9900 Před 3 lety +3

    Great topic,God bless you.

  • @estherphilip7211
    @estherphilip7211 Před 3 lety

    Thanks guys I really wanted this 🥰🙏

  • @joywangui8918
    @joywangui8918 Před 3 lety +2

    😊Love your content. The bloopers were fun🤣🤣

  • @alicemutheu8425
    @alicemutheu8425 Před 3 lety +2

    My first time to come across this couple, I must say am already in love with you. Am not missing your next videos, for this video and more to come.
    Be blessed as you shed light into the world🤗

    • @SoilaandCurtis
      @SoilaandCurtis  Před 3 lety

      Thank you for coming on board Alice. Glad you love the content. 🙂
      We will only post snippets of the next few selected episodes on CZcams. To get the full episodes as well as exclusive bonus content, kindly consider becoming a patron by joining us on the Patreon Platform. This way, you get to support us as we put up a team to assist in creating wonderful content we have planned for you. www.patreon.com/soilaandcurtis

  • @redia8264
    @redia8264 Před 3 lety +3

    Idolising abstinence 🎊🎊very true .and doing it without a conviction.Looking to learn

  • @wangechimurage2295
    @wangechimurage2295 Před 3 lety +4

    Soila's laughter heh...This was a good session, a great lesson.

  • @tianajay1686
    @tianajay1686 Před 3 lety +5

    This is very timely for me, i love this

  • @christinemumo5738
    @christinemumo5738 Před 3 lety +2

    Thanks Sana for this. You are always a blessing.
    Baraka Tele

  • @estherkinuthia144
    @estherkinuthia144 Před 3 lety +1

    This year Soila ameamua..she is looking goooddd.

  • @ishimweliliane930
    @ishimweliliane930 Před 3 lety +1

    this is so informative. am in for all series

    • @SoilaandCurtis
      @SoilaandCurtis  Před 3 lety

      Thanks for staying tuned. 🙂
      We will only post snippets of the next few episodes on CZcams. To get the full episodes as well as exclusive bonus content, kindly consider becoming a patron by joining us on the Patreon Platform. @t

  • @mercyayodele5305
    @mercyayodele5305 Před 3 lety +5

    This was really rich, we are waiting for the next

    • @SoilaandCurtis
      @SoilaandCurtis  Před 3 lety

      Stay tuned. We will only post snippets of the next few episodes on CZcams. To get the full episodes as well as exclusive bonus content, kindly consider becoming a patron by joining us on the Patreon Platform. www.patreon.com/soilaandcurtis

  • @ruthkoki3517
    @ruthkoki3517 Před 3 lety +6

    Your level of wisdom is Intense!!!! Woooow... never heard this topic explained with so much love and humility.

    • @SoilaandCurtis
      @SoilaandCurtis  Před 3 lety

      Thank you for your sentiments Ruth. Barikiwa sana.

  • @princessjd24
    @princessjd24 Před 3 lety +5

    CZcams recommended this channel and I'm hearing of this couple for the 1st time. Worth watching and thanks for encouraging the Body of Christ on this matter whilst explaining it.

    • @SoilaandCurtis
      @SoilaandCurtis  Před 3 lety

      Welcome aboard Princess. Thank you and we're glad you are enjoying the content.

  • @boobeah
    @boobeah Před 3 lety +2

    Bless your hearts and may God continue to bless your marriage as you continue to gives us (unmarried) insight and keeping it light at the same time. Much love and appreciation ❣️

  • @mayadiamond106
    @mayadiamond106 Před 3 lety +2

    Getting Mike Todd's vibes...I love you guys😍🥰🥰🥰🥰

  • @enyasani1796
    @enyasani1796 Před 3 lety +1

    I love the bloopers!!😍😂😂

  • @marioncherotich8435
    @marioncherotich8435 Před 3 lety +2

    You guys are a blessing😊

  • @dorahmulinge3800
    @dorahmulinge3800 Před 2 lety

    Love your content ❤️

  • @Reubenprince
    @Reubenprince Před 3 lety +1

    Curtis kuna pahali ulipeleka soila 😁😁😁 juu that flow ya kuingereza.... Though you have the content.... God bless

  • @carolinem8565
    @carolinem8565 Před 3 lety +2

    My all time favorite couple ...this was informative

  • @MissGathoni
    @MissGathoni Před 3 lety +6

    Enlightening content!
    Soila can sing 😍 or is it just me?
    Love you guys ❤❤❤

    • @SoilaandCurtis
      @SoilaandCurtis  Před 3 lety +1

      Oh, yes i do sing. 🙂 rarely in public though.

  • @sharonbidaly9954
    @sharonbidaly9954 Před 3 lety +5

    Was seriously waiting for this topic.. God bless you guys i cannot thank you enough...a real eye opener. Looking forward to many more topics on such. Abstinence is really a struggle wah

    • @SoilaandCurtis
      @SoilaandCurtis  Před 3 lety

      Glad you are enjoying the topic Sharon. It's a struggle for sure, but there are tips we are about to unleash throughout this series so just stay tuned. You have to make it through. 🙂
      We will only post snippets of the next few episodes on CZcams. To get the full episodes as well as exclusive bonus content, kindly consider becoming a patron by joining us on the Patreon Platform. www.patreon.com/soilaandcurtis

  • @Kate-ot7ib
    @Kate-ot7ib Před 3 lety +8

    I love you guys😂😌 I know you probably get told this a lot😂, but I do really appreciate that I came across the channel

    • @SoilaandCurtis
      @SoilaandCurtis  Před 3 lety

      The pleasure is our Kate. We are really glad to have you onboard. 😄

  • @AllInOne-fc7yx
    @AllInOne-fc7yx Před 3 lety +2

    May God bless you for this

  • @kevinkariuki239
    @kevinkariuki239 Před 3 lety +2

    I love the couch.

  • @shirokamau2058
    @shirokamau2058 Před 3 lety +3

    I just penda you people. Teaching this to the fourth generation..

  • @howsuecsit.5185
    @howsuecsit.5185 Před 3 lety +2

    Soila your hair.. Maama yoooh!!! Please share with us your natural Hair care!

  • @keziahmwangi9920
    @keziahmwangi9920 Před 3 lety +2

    I've come here to give a like...hiyo thumbnail iko poa😂😂

  • @smilielizzy115
    @smilielizzy115 Před 3 lety +1

    i just love you guys

  • @susannabalayo4358
    @susannabalayo4358 Před 3 lety +10

    No one:....
    Soila- you look at me, I want eye contact
    😂😂😂
    Insightful conversation

  • @kennylean4652
    @kennylean4652 Před 3 lety +3

    Wow, oh God knows how much i needed to hear this. In this generation ukisema body count is 0,you are considered wierd

    • @SoilaandCurtis
      @SoilaandCurtis  Před 3 lety

      Yet, you are not weird at all for having a 0 count.

  • @lindavis9724
    @lindavis9724 Před 3 lety +3

    My all-time loves'♥️♥️❤️👌

  • @agneswaiyego2685
    @agneswaiyego2685 Před 3 lety +4

    I just love you people 😊.

  • @georginaasangre4645
    @georginaasangre4645 Před 3 lety +4

    Okay there was a time I said this talks ain't it ..but.i take back my words.These segments are really building.

  • @peshnjoki6469
    @peshnjoki6469 Před 3 lety +1

    Thanks soila and Curtis for sharing this it's really helpful especially to us watu wa early 20's😂😂

    • @SoilaandCurtis
      @SoilaandCurtis  Před 3 lety

      Glad you are being edified. 🙂 Enjoy your 20s kabisa.

  • @ireneawinda1452
    @ireneawinda1452 Před 3 lety +4

    One of the most sane couples on CZcams. Your contents are very enlightening, always a plus plus plus.
    You both look amazing.

  • @mwesigwalinatte5935
    @mwesigwalinatte5935 Před 3 lety +2

    ❤️❤️❤️

  • @estherhaddasah763
    @estherhaddasah763 Před 3 lety +1

    My favorite couple 💞💞

  • @atieno5687
    @atieno5687 Před 3 lety +7

    She's smart 😊you are one lucky person man👏

  • @africanqueenmo
    @africanqueenmo Před 3 lety +3

    Soila you look like a doll so pretty. Great topic guys especially the idolization of abstance. certainly there's the best place and time for sex. Great teaching. 🦾. Curtis congrats for silently listening to Soilas points

    • @SoilaandCurtis
      @SoilaandCurtis  Před 3 lety

      Thanks for watching Mo. I plan to silently listen some more. 🙂

  • @marvinogutu735
    @marvinogutu735 Před rokem

    Latest fan 🔥 where have I been?

  • @chicwithchrist5117
    @chicwithchrist5117 Před 3 lety +14

    Soila look at us

  • @immanuelmathari4862
    @immanuelmathari4862 Před 3 lety +1

    You guys are just amazing
    Lots of love

  • @i_oduor
    @i_oduor Před 3 lety +4

    I learnt, God continue blessings you two,your union and your son 🔥🔥

    • @SoilaandCurtis
      @SoilaandCurtis  Před 3 lety +1

      Thank you very much Ibrahim. Much blessings to you too.

  • @Karimi.410
    @Karimi.410 Před 4 měsíci

  • @eunicechege6802
    @eunicechege6802 Před 3 lety +12

    😄The thumb nail tu..Holy hugs.

  • @frederickjackson7756
    @frederickjackson7756 Před 3 lety

    I haven’t seen you guys for a long time, Curtis you have a very beautiful lady,Please continue to take good care of her,don’t drop the ball..Soila are you pregnant and how many kids do you guys have now.. Beautiful family

  • @lan2580nokia
    @lan2580nokia Před 3 lety +1

    It's cute how serious Soila is akiexplain mambo ya podcast kwa bloopers 🙈🙈😂😂