Dating A 20-Year-Old Virgin in the Philippines
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00:00 - 02:00: Introduction to the Topic of Virgins in the Philippines
02:01 - 05:15: Comparing Western and Filipino Views on Virginity
05:16 - 09:30: Financial and Cultural Dynamics Affecting Filipina Virgins
09:31 - 13:00: Personal Stories and Experiences of Dating Filipina Virgins
13:01 - 16:55: Advice for Foreigners Dating Filipina Virgins
Explore the unique cultural dynamics of dating a 20-year-old virgin in the Philippines. This insightful video delves into the traditional values, societal expectations, and personal decisions that lead many Filipinas to remain virgins into their twenties. Learn about the challenges and considerations when dating in the Philippines, especially in conservative, rural areas. Understand the significant differences in dating culture between the West and the Philippines, and how financial and familial influences shape these women's choices. Whether you're curious or planning to date in the Philippines, this video offers valuable perspectives on navigating relationships with respect and understanding.
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Wait a minute. She can be a virgin and still go down on a man or let him in through her "backdoor" and still be a virgin formally. So, men can never know what she did...
I agree with you 100%. My wife worked 10-12 hours a day 6 days a week. She had never been with anyone. She was a virgin in her late 30’s.
👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👌👌😊
i really find that hard to believe
@@pete531
You are thinking like the Westerner you are.
Only marry a virgin, she has demonstrated the self-discipline and morality to make a marriage last. On the other hand, if you’re just looking to mess around, leave the virgins alone, don’t mess them up with false promises by taking advantage of her trusting nature.
There really is not a hard and fast rule to that unless you are stuck on it. The gal I married was engaged before and he was her first. She was 24 and I was 49. It fell through with him because she did not like his character when he drank, and he liked to drink. I married her and she has really been a wonderful gal, totally faithful going on 15 years now, and we have two daughters. I helped her to become a nurse here. I did have a friend, and he married a gal in her early thirties, and she was a virgin. I know, hard to believe, but that is the girls from the smaller provinces for the most part.
Msulims do this all the time.
In the US it is not uncommon for a girl graduating high school having a double-digit body count. My Filipina wife saved herself for marriage. It totally blew my mind. Like Rekay stated, it was totally incomprehensible to me as a Western man. It was not something I was seeking or even on my mind, but it was certainly a very precious gift that she gave to me. It spoke volumes about her character and self-discipline ... and removed any doubts in my mind about committing to her. I trust her completely, which was not the case with Western women. It is a an amazing foundation for a marriage. I was never recreationally dating, so it was a perfect fit.
Spot on and great comment. That first guy creates a very special bond for them, and if a guy handles it correctly, she'll be the most trustworthy woman you've ever met.
@@andrewcarlson2178 Yes, the bond is amazing. I'd heard some men speaking about it, but I could never conceptualize it until I experienced it myself. Biggest and best foundation for a successful and lasting relationship. Western women loudly scream that it is all about being a controlling man ... its not, and they threw away their best chance a true happiness.
thats awesome. I thnk.....LOL.........you are definitely right about the western woman.....first t ime in seast asia was last year in thailand. i have been there 3 x in the past year. Phillipines for me in jan 25 for a month. cant wait. I do love America and probably wont leave full time but i can def see doing southeast asia 4-5 months of the year. the people , the culture and the cost of living is amazing. Still love America though.
How long you are married?
Gap of age?
Worst thing that a man can do to a woman is lie. That cuts both ways. Be a Gentleman, not a sucker or worse.
Exactly.
Facts. Do not become what you always hated (as a man): fuckboys, liars, cheaters, etc...
My filipina wife had just turned 23 when we met and she had never kissed or been intimate with anyone till our wedding night, so definitely not impossible.
Ya there parents taught them to be god fearing that’s why
Congratulations to those girls who stood by their parents's Christian upbringing. Well done 👏👏👏
@@adamsty1728 That's correct. I have 4 aunties, 3 of them already died but were still a virgin. They were afraid of men. The last one now is 86 years old. During their time, their parents were so strict so the guys felt scared to court them. That was how I was brought up.
where to find them ?
Noice!!!
My filipina wife was 28 when we got married and she was as pure as a new white snow!
Good for you!
😂😂🎉🎉🎉1 from 10 Millions
mine was a month short of 28...more than 20 years later and us with two little kids, she still doesn't look a day over 20... something to be said for a christian, clean-living filipina
This is a great message. If you’re not looking to get married then leave the good girls alone. The west has been destroyed by a complete lack of respect for virtue and decency. You’re going to a far off land to escape this stuff. don’t bring that wretched behavior with you.
Exactly: complete lack of respect for virtue and decency.
You just say the truth.
Simps and betas are ruining the Philippines
I married a 36-year-old virgin, which is not unusual.
50 year old virgin for me here.
Great video spoken from a real man! I was in a situation when i was younger about 22 and the girl was 21 a virgin. I could have taken her virginity but i knew I was not going to have a serious long term relationship with her. We did not have intercourse because of me. I did not want to be selfish and just thinking about having fun. I told her to save her virginity for the man you believe you will marry. I am 62 , to this day I would not take a women's virginity if i knew it was not going to be a long term relationship with a real opportunity for marriage.
My wife is gorgeous and God fearing. I was her first BF when we found each other online while she was 32..She had basically been a slave to her family since birth..I took her away and the rest is history..
Before how many years you take her ?
Just love your transparency. I know that you have come under sharp criticism in the past as a sex fiend, serial predator by those who do not know South East Asian culture.
Notwithstanding the above, as a 78 year old who's been round the bloc many times in the last 17 years there, you just opened my eyes. When I thought I knew most of it, you just zapped me by reinforcing my adage "the more you know, the more you know you don't know."
I now realize that this is what happened to me on my last trip to Thailand 3 months ago. In her late 30s, she was strongly traditional and moral. We spent 6 hours together. She spoke almost no English. She immediately wanted to take me home to meet her parents. I respected her morality and let her go.
But many years ago, the "brother" thing almost happened to me in Cebu City. I had invited a traditional Nuat Thai masseuse back to my hotel. In short, her husband had picked up her phone, called me, and barked out "I kill you". Fortunately for me, I had not yet given her the name of my hotel.
On life's journey, one never stops learning. Thank you Reekay.
the criticisms come from adult-toddlers that can't handle topics discussed among adults. these are the same guys who have zero game so they lead with their wallet and date bargirls or prey upon underage girls.
they know they are losers, so they hate anyone who has the balls to do it right. they simply aren't up to the task.
Solid advice. Love the part about the brothers. Definitely something worth giving serious consideration to. You're fooling around in the providences in PH, disappearing and never being heard from again is a serious possibility, and remember, they have the home field advantage.
Excellent advice. Think with your head and your heart, not what is in between your legs. Your advice and insight is always appreciated.
Right on
I went on a 1st date and entered the "talking phase" with 2 different twenty something year old virgins in the Philippines. One (23) one (25) ultimately I decided to pass on both girls because I'm not ready to get married yet.
I would feel like a dirtbag for pursuing them and breaking their hearts down the road. I don't need that Karma on my soul.
but...
It was such a "breath of fresh air" to know that people still have morals in today's corrupt culture.
The last time I heard a girl was a virgin in the US, was over 2 decades ago when I was in high school...
They're out there guys.
Great character move. It's nice to see guys out there respecting these women.
Congrats for respecting their paths.
Respect. This is the mature/correct way
God bless you Keith
My Filipina wife was absolutely gorgeous in every way, 22 years old and in her 3rd year of college when we got married.
She was what she called an “Absolute Virgin” 🎉
She had never done anything before, nothing intimate, no kissing, no holding hands, nothing.
She said dating is what you do when looking for a spouse.
So why date in high school at all? 😊
Most people, especially in the West, don’t understand how a man feels when he knows his wife saved herself for him.
Its not about pride at all.
It’s more like it elevates his love for her and he feels that he has a duty to be the absolute best husband possible.
Something in him values her in a way that is difficult to explain.
I had 15 amazing years with her until she passed from a terminal illness. 😢
Before she passed she made me promise to not go through life alone, meaning she wanted me to remarry.
She told me I would have to go to the Philippines to find a wife good enough for a man like me.
By the way her parents were from the Philippines but she was American born.
That is a heart-wrenching story. God bless her soul.
Sorry for your loss.
Oh mate I'm so sorry.
Respect to you both
That's amazing! ❤
Slow Salute
Good point at 14:00 ! Don't mess with a virgin. This is NOT a game. It's a "human" being's life you could be ruining. AND it's bad Karma. ALSO how are you going to feel in the next world when God asks you how you treated people when you were alive. Get married first and then sex is great! ...and the whole point of sex is to glue you together, AND have children.
I can confirm. Got to know a beautiful, conservative, well-spoken 25-year-old virgin.
Good advice to recreational daters. I suspect that I was probably Filipino in a previous life. As a western man, 43, and still a virgin, I can relate. Nothing wrong with me, just sacrificed a lot to help my family and always felt that I wanted to wait until I found the right one. People's choices about such things should be respected. I certainly respect a person's willingness and ability to wait. My soon-to-be Filipina wife is the same, and I am grateful, although should would probably accept me either way.
Great content. I've found some Eastern European Slavic girls to be the same way, especially the Orthodox ones. If you're going to mess with a virgin, be mature about it. Like Reekay said, there is a special bond with their first, and that's a woman you can fully trust. Be a decent human being and spread good karma.
Where have you been? Because I know that the rhetoric is very traditional, the reality is usually completely different.
Numbers don't lie. Look at the divorce and abortion rates, which are incredibly high in Slavic Orthodox countries. And the trope of the Eastern European gold digger did not come out of nothing. It did not originate in countries like Poland.
@@CS-ox9hna lot beautiful women eastern europe are virgin is just be a winner to find the correct one ❤
Mostly, once you dated a Filipina, she is expecting to be your GF and once you have a relationship together, she is looking towards a marriage and have children. They don't want a trial-and-error relationship even if sometimes their partner was bad, they will try and work for it to turn into a lasting relationship.
Really like the format with you in the corner plus the pictures of girls. Best of both worlds. To me it always has a bit less impact and credibility if I can't see someone's face when they are talking.
Hi
I know a very educated woman with a good job she is 36 years old now.Last time we met in may this years she confessed me that she still pure and a virgin.She had boyfriends but never had sex.She is a very beautyful and georgeous girl .I
Know that she never would lie to me or talk BS.Now I understand why she is a bit reserved.She is kind of the Boss of her whole family in a town in Mindanao.She intodruce me to the family.I talked with one of her brothers and he told me that I'm the first one who she was bring into the family.So nothing is impossible there!😎👍
By the Way very good advice from you for guy who look not for a woman to marriage!
Your reasons are why i waited to get intimate with my girlfriend, because i did not want to just get intimate and send her on her way. I know it will be difficult to not do but guys should only cross the intimate line with a filipina that is inexperienced if ready to comit for them its not just nothing. Not just intimate if you taking her on dates and taking her places you are giving her experiences that are imprinted on her for the rest of her life. For me any guy who comes to the Phillipines and takes a woman virginity on purpose and knew beforehand she was a virgin should be forced to marry her , because its just wrong to just rob someone of that for your pleasure.
That will be with all virgins women. In any country. It's respect to her and her family honor.
I too met a 22-year-old gorgeous virgin in Bacolod who wanted me to be her first but I didn’t see it ending up in a long-term relationship so I moved on. And then heard that three weeks later she went back online and immediately got her pregnant, but then he left her to go to another city to have another virgin. It’s very sad that there are such dirtbags out there breaking girls hearts. It wrecks it for the many good men coming over to the Philippines.
The girl I’m dating For almost 1 year now is 20 years old (I’m 24). She has chosen to remain a virgin because she promised her parents and late grandparents that she wouldn’t give her virginity before marriage. Additionally, she promised and is committed to finishing her education and earning her certificate before getting married. I fully respect and support her in keeping these promises. I even once had to refuse her advances to help her stay true to her commitments (we do participate in some sexual activity, but I’m referring to her actual virginity here). Since that day, she feels confident that I am the one for her. Now, we are patiently waiting for the next 3-5 years until she completes her education and fulfills her promises. While many things can happen in these years and nothing is certain, one thing is clear: I will never stand in the way of her promises to her family. I will actively encourage her to keep and complete them. Overall, I respect her choices and it aligns with what I’m looking for. I’m not seeking pleasure but love and commitment. I may be a bit old-fashioned, even though I’m only 24, but I have no issues with it.
it's refreshing to hear this from a person in your generation. i commend you. it gives me a small spark of hope for humanity again.
I hope guys take this to heart , very true words ❤❤
Province girls. Many, as they say "single since birth". Some in mid 20's if not older.
Excellent video. Your a standup guy 💯💯 much respect my friend.
on point, i agree 100% with you advice. canada girl was such an interesting and weird story
I agree with you. Don't take something you can't give back. If a good time is all you're after that's found quite easily in the PI.
Sound advice and on point with young family oriented phillipino
Yeah so true Reekay… Thanks for all the great videos and I enjoy your personal stories as well….😊
thanks! more on the way. :)
This guys telling the truth, i got cousins like that on both sides of the spectrum.
it's good advice. why have drama and sadness when you can create happiness and harmony?
Very good advice 👍
Excellent video and perfect timing. Can we all say “Lifesaver”…
I beat you all guys...I'm 56, I just married a 50 yo virgin woman in Mindanao. There is nothing wrong with her, she is petite, slim, pretty looking and very independent and intelligent. She was raised by a very strict illongo father and she grew up not wanting to be a slave wife / mother at home so she stayed away from Filipino men...but then as I understand, she was afraid to grow older and alone and she asked God to send her a good man 👉 Me 👈 😆.
dang I am loving your advice. Glad I found this channel. It is very insightful
@reekay its like a dream come true, its so nice to see you in your videos again, im loving it
Even older I know of a 30 year old lady that's still a virgin, its just how they are, they save them self's for the man that will marry them.
filipinas can even reach 50's never have a boyfriend. so mid 20's is pretty normal for virgins. its just the way it is because they are conservatives
17-18????!!!! Try 13-14…. When I was in school most girls lost it in 12th grade, summer or 1st year college; yes 17-18--That was another planet called America!!! Today the vast majority of 9th graders have lost it… jus sayin
the majority of 9th graders in the states when I was in high school lost their bodies in 6th, 7th, and 8th grade!
@@careystravelstalking to my 14 year old son he said MOST of his classmates are NOT virgins. He thinks it is quite unfortunate being a devout Christian... the girls are REALLY after him too. It's sad.
Love these videos. Great info!
More to come!
very accurate explanation, you seem to understand the culture by now, keep up the good work
Thanks! 😃
Good advice
Good you are promoting respect for people !
you are full of wisdom sir. Very interesting the cultural differences in other countries
You are absolutely right, good blog Reekay
That is the way it should be and only after marriage are you to come together in that way!
Hi, i consider this the best, very best recomendation I heard, keep it up my friend, young guys nowadays we have lost good thinking, its all fun.
Good advice.
Very good presentation, after hearing your explanations and the fact that there is no government assistance, it all makes sense.
I really like the content of this CZcams. Expats need to behave honorably.
100% agree!
Yes, I do believe it. My Filipina wife was 28 and never with a man. Prior to meeting her, we had an online friendship. I believe that made our future relationship stronger
. Her father sent all the kids to college. The only condition was that there wasn't any dating until after graduation. It wouldn't have mattered to me either way. I was shocked that at the age of 28, and still a virgin. Here in the US, you have chance finding a unicorn 😂.
it's a hard thing to believe until one has lived here a few years and dated a lot. but yes, they do exist here in the PH.
That is very good info thanks
Phenomenal content!
Great video sir. I keep telling : girls should date to marry! Not something especially girls from the west want to hear. But if you as a woman dream about marriage, save yourself for marriage. The most beautiful wedding gift you can give as a women is your first experience to the man who truly wanted to be with you.
Based on what I know about the Philippine’s view on contraception, condoms, birth control, etc; if a chick doesn’t have a kid I would totally believe her if she said she was a virgin or had a super low body count because if she was out there having sex the probability of getting pregnant is high as hell lol.
Very good advice, Good job
that girl who want you as her bf while she is going to Canada, she is very smart. you are just a back up plan for her hahaha...
I can’t judge I have an uncle. Who was way older marry a young virgin. Who was like 17 and him 40 but this man looks 50 years older than this woman I don’t know bro my family here tho Mexican. Would beat the shit out of a old man doing this
Great insights into a subject barely mentioned... Unfortunately, there will be a**holes who will lie just to brag that they got the prize with no concern for the victims..
Similarly to the aunt in your example, I'm supporting 2 students with the same deal... They'll be entering 4th year college this coming semester.. so far so good 🤞
I must say you picked the right thumbnail 😂
This is my 2nd comment -
I am glad to hear the advice to guys who are recreational dating to leave the virgins alone. 👍🏻
Guys who are just trying to put another notch in their belt make me angry in a way that is visceral. 🤬
In the area of the Philippines where I spend my time we keep an eye out for guys like that.
There are several of us expats, all former military and/or law enforcement, who together with the local Filipinos have a sort of community watch 😮.
We don’t let these “players” get away with anything here.
When we see a stranger arrive we make sure they understand the local rules.
We all hate how some foreigners think the Philippines and a few other SE Asian countries are their personal brothels or playgrounds.
Of course it helps that the local officials and police are part of our group 😅.
I did hear one of them mention some pre-dug holes out in the forest 👍🏻.
Players beware! 😮
we need more that. let the players keep to themselves, leave the decent women alone if the expat is just playing.
Like Reekay, I don't like the players either. I met plenty of them when I worked in SE Asia. However, you think you are mighty big with your talk of pre-dug holes in the forest. If that is true then you are a hundred times worse than any player. You don't take the law into your own hands over the matter of a girl being deceived by some low life. It's certainly ok if her brothers knock him about a bit. But it's none of your damned business, and it's plain wrong for anyone to kill over this.
You're, a good man !
Great advice Reekay, I agree as much as we westerners want to find and have a virginity. Something we cannot find in the west anymore. To be the one to take her virginity and not commit to her for the rest of your life is dishonorable and makes that guy a total scumbag/Loser. Like you said there are plenty women at bars who will let you sleep with them after showing the a good time
Great video.
Glad you enjoyed it
100% agree!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I waited until marriage - but never found a girl who did. This is promising at least hah
Thank you for the intelligent and nicely articulated video. Who was the cute girl in the shots behind you? I was in the Philippines for a month and I never met a young woman who looked THAT good. Maybe I went to the wrong places?
Thanks!
Good advice. So many women are damaged after too many relationships and impossible to deal with.
Yeah. Here in america that's very hard to imagine. But I have sister in laws who are surprisingly attractive in their mid 30's late 20's who are still single never had a boyfriend and are still virgins.
Yes agree but now a days its very rare now to find young pilipina virgin. Am telling the truth
My wife was 23 when we met so yes it's true.
Maybe you've covered this before. I'm 76 and hoping to stick around for the medical advances that are coming in the next 10 years. IF - and of course that is a big if, I arrive in the islands and just want to get away from the Winters, and not partake of the buffet of young women, Virgin or Fun Loving, is that an option or will I be swimming in Shark Invested Waters, Part Of A Feeding Frenzy? I have experienced it on the Dating Site Plenty of Fish, back in about 2003. Just a question.
Lol no one is going to force you to do anything. At 75+ you probably won't have to worry about fighting off the virgins, unless you look 50 and are in great shape. That's a pretty massive age gap, even for the Phillipines. Most guys that snare that age gap have to lead with their wallet.
Really good advice, especialy for there. They are very old school in their ways, and yes their family is very close too. My lady was like that and she was 40 years. If all you want is sex, go to the red light places and don't play with a young girls heart. They all talk too, so going to another town wont help you escape either. My ladies family treated me like honered family from the start, and yes, i got the Aunties talk (interview 😁😄😃😉) at the table too, along with her younger lady cousiens too. But within minutes they all had to have photots with me and were so genuine with how they talked to me, I really felt like they were family already. Yes, I had already decided to marry her too if all went well, I just didn't say or hint at that. Now I really feel I won the lottory with my lady, and my family love her as much as I do too.
a good one, thanks, I agree, don't ruin her life.
I have met the same but they aren’t very open n distinct about there’re desire n plans 🙂
Those AI girls are well endowed.
I have been trying to find and meet a virgin girl for three years. Still searching 🥺
Go to the provinces, they’re there.
well said
LOL! You missed your chance to have an LDR with a girl living in Canada. J Edit: Great point about the family stepping in.
I HOPING GOD WILL BLESS ME WITH ONE OF THEM ! I FOUND OUT MOST WOMAN OVER THERE HAVE CHILDREN BUT I DO LOVE CHILDREN
Unfortunately the right nice guy will be hard to find now days
I know of a 40 year old virgin in the Philippines
You are the KING of thumbnails....this girl has nothing to do with your video. Most likely not even a Pinay. But we all love your videos anyway....
Pure native Filipinas have their own physical features each depends on their languages and dialects and there are also those mix blood of black, white, red, yellow... so many types to choose
She is only sweet 20 years old. Never been kiss, never been touch. All she needs is candy, ice cream, teddy bear and lollipop
I wouldn’t do that, my intention to move to the Philippines is for another adventure in my life and hopefully meet someone to spend the remaining years I have left to be a great person and hopefully a great husband. I want to be that person that my wife’s family comes to visit when I’m gone ( on All Saints’ Day) . 😊😊
True
Been there, done that 😂
I never asked but I had a hunch with my wife who I married before sex. I believe it's so important and what has destroyed the West.
Who would want that headache. These guys think a virgin is going to be good time 😮. Well i guess they'll find out..
last year i found 2 women over 30 that were both vary good looking and had never been kissed... both wanted a GOOD guy and were not just looking to play around ,,
A dream ‼️‼️
thats the damn truth. im 62. and getting ready to move next month to dumaguete made a few trips already but im nervous about meeting and dating any girls. yes i probably would like some company but what if i decide i dont even want to commit to live in the phils after a year . most girls i think will get serious and attached very quick. i would not really even date any girl that young anyway. twenty something virgin. heck no. not even fair to them. i might consider half my age with a child already but i will be steering clear of collage age women although im sure it is tempting .
Too many foreigners in Duma.
nice house!
Pinays/Pinoys rarely use the word VIRGIN. To indicate no experience Pinoys use the Spanish word "innosente". Or MORE politely....Do YOU have a SERIOUS Pinoy boyfriend before? If yes then ask what age? If she does have serious Pinoy BF B4....then ask Do you have CANO (foreigner) BF B4? If yes say "what country is he from?" Don't ask these Questions when you see INK or Piercings. YouRwelcome