Can you please write a book so we can hold this knowledge without needing electricity ? Your videos are wonderful man n are helping me get back to the good person I use to be
You say what I think; please write a book about this strictly important matter ! And You are a fantastic teacher, well formulated, profound and Very open about Your own ecpriences ! Thank You so much. Namaste❤
Thank you for being part of my journey. Your words are uplifting, wise, and encouraging. I like how you use personal examples; they show you are walking the path with us.
Wow!! I have never heard it like this. Forgiveness means to give up. Giving up hope that he could change. Giving up the future that I imagined with him. Giving him up.
yes ive been working on this a year my wife wont tell my son im christain decent she is a narsisist im pretty sure ive cried a lot of tears jesus has helped me with this giving up and walking off from her seems like a breath of fresh air thank you for your coment i will think about this no more argueing i sure will be glad to meet an impath byeeeeeeeee
I also examined my resentment and came to realize that it wasn't the other person or family member, but myself I was angry with. I discovered my anger and resentment had to do with me letting myself be treated the way I was treated, allowing it to continue for many years. I once held the belief that forgiveness meant reconciliation with that person or persons. At 66, I'm alone with my wife. We cherish each other deeply. The friends I once had are a distant memory. Even my immediate and extended family members no longer exist in my life, and I'm happy and content. Thank you for this.
Living with the understanding that we can get past experiences that cause us pain and anxiety in moving forward with our lives and using the hurts to learn from and to put our energies into the process of learning from the experience and understanding that the actions that have contributed to this frustration, difficulty, disappointment and pain are not about how I choose to be and that I am stronger in my life as I learn to be more confident and balanced in my own life from the experience. To bless the power of love in my heart to be able to know that the truth is that I am free to be joyous in my own energies. It is that person's life and learning that is not up to me to endure or solve. It's a life that you have the power to create where you put your time into and bless their moving forward with out losing your own path and being present in love and joy. Release them from your mind and get on with your own life and learn from the experience. Staying in the attitude towards removing yourself from whatever is not kindness and understanding.. Peace and compassion for all people. Realize that we all make mistakes and discern what you think about the situation at hand. No resentment and just seeing what you want to be around and expose yourself to. Move on and don't give it energy. Be love and respect your truth.
When I am angry about another person then I am actually angry about myself because I cared insufficiently for my own. The same person, a similar situation, but an appropriate reaction on my part - and I don’t get angry.
@@beytoote5039 wow, that sums up my whole life😔. I have always wanted to know how been loved by someone feels like and i have sabotaged myself from ever knowing how it feels. In the past i used to think its impossible for me to find love in the world. But i know that love comes from within not from outside.
@@beytoote5039 same to you. I hope we all find peace within ourselves. I hope i learn to love myself and find peace. I know it would be difficult but it will be worth it.
We are all spiritually sick people. That’s helped me a lot to have compassion for those who I perceived to have hurt me and then let go of the resentment
Absolutely true ! Our hurt feelings have no effect whatsoever on the person who hurt us . They go on their merry way and we just keep hurting and self harming . Tormentors rarely show remorse or bother to self analyse so we should stop analysing our wounds
Really really powerful and insightful & 100% accurate about the inner process of forgiving. It's even life saving thank you, thank you🙏...I know I need to forgive others & myself but am struggling with myself & what I allowed myself to be manipulated into doing & being. Out of my neediness, naivete & vulnerability. I feel that the person/ identity that I felt I was, was taken so much advantage of which has created resentment & a lot of suffering. The worst is my anger at myself for not being strong enough to walk away from 'being used' sooner....looking back though I see my family of origin has no real sense of self worth its all ego and bullying & status with pecking orders...ugly ugly stuff...so it's easy to see why I was easy prey to a 'taker'....& why it was hard to gain the necessary insight into what was done to me & what I did to myself The understanding is crucial...you're so right...no one that I've listened to for help with the need to forgive explains it as well as you have...👏👏👏👏👏👏👏 Do put this in a book as another person suggests if you feel so inclined...I reckon it's a direly needed message...all blessings & love to you &thanks for your recovery & shares 🙏❤🧡
I think a lot of my resentment about my family stems from not being able to see them as they really are and it taking so long to piece everything together. I so wanted them to be good people that i turned a blind eye to all the red flags until they were coming so thick and fast i couldn't ignore the toxicity anymore.
Very true we can forgive but cannot forget...forgiveness is let go ur resentment...trust has to b earned... once broken its extremely difficult to restore it back👌👌 ...
Thank you Nada, thank you so much. Your videos on forgiving have given me a real revelation, a weight upon my shoulder was lifted. Thank you so much. Be blessed.
Wow , this video is just amazing my friend. This morning I woke up feeling conflicted where i googled searched “can I forgive someone while not trust them” I couldn’t find the right resources where it’s messaged help , but hours later I came across this video and it was exactly what i needed. Thank you for sharing your wisdom from your own experiences. Blessings
I have been healing some past resentment and im fluctuating every now and then from letting go and beating myself up,not literally for allowing and playing my part in a toxic situation . Iam taking responsibility and learning from the experience .Thank you for your wisdom 😊🙏
Thank you! Your words bring emotional balance to me. Your words and guidance is being applied to my daughters. The anger and guilt had disabled my ability to think. The HEART can be your worst path toward self destruction! Thank you. OM SHANTI, SHANTI, SHANTII.
So heart ❤️ touching for me as I was really struggling with some situations where I have to forgive and forget but not able to do it. Your talking made me understand everything very clearly and I am sure that I am going to succeed to forgive and forget and move on with my life. Thank you 🙏 very much for sharing all your wisdom in your journey of life. God bless you 😊
so correct I feel the exact same way!! feeling so angry at myself for letti g people take advantage of me and steal cheat and lie to me!! I'm doing good for myself eating healthy staying active and working, found a mentor and found your channel on CZcams!! awesome content!!!
I have had ENOUGH, of holding onto resentment/anger, for those that I am not even a memory!! I am 59 yrs wise now, right now!!! This man may look like a mortal/human.... but I see his halo and wings. You are a gift to those of us that need you. TRUTH PEACE.
I'm so glad to have found you! Perfect timing in this awakening process of course! Thank you for your personal examples as they help me to be kinder and more gentle with myself. Namaste. 💗🙏
Wow especially the last part👏🏻 thanks for explaining the process it really shows sm. I don’t need to see more vid for now I totally understood the concept of resentment and can be able to work on it. Thank you again🙏🏻🙏🏻✨✨
I tell myself I have forgiven people and let past hurts go but deep down I know that’s not true. I’m always carrying It with me and struggle to know how to fully forgive. 🥺 wise words
You always give such brilliant advice to help us live a better life without senseless sufferings. I wish I have found your channel years ago. You are the best spiritual teacher I’ve ever come across on CZcams. Please know you are greatly appreciated!
Thank you 🙏 your words and wisdom are incredibly clarifying and liberating. It’s much appreciated and very helpful. Feel like I’ve returned to a loving, peaceful and authentic space Bless you for sharing 🌟⭐️💫
Ur talks v much resonate what Sw. Dayanand Saraswati says in his bk 'Morning meditation prayers' where he talks on forgiveness & letting go. A must read for all.
This is a huge issue in the spiritual journey. If you are not on that journey,you cannot understand. This is real explanation of ‘karma’. Changing blue prints,patterns,taught behaviors. Figuring this out for years now,and still couldn’t grab the last piece of it. Years ago I did a lot of deep forgiving,but it shows we still need to work on it because it comes back all the time. The triggers of the ego come by when situations arise. Pretty tricky,because you see it,you know it. I realized,because of this process I was blaming myself probably. You forgive others,but the most important part is to forgive yourself. If you don’t,forgiving others can create an inside lack of boundaries. I even didn’t want to cause pain on people who deliberately hurt me. Also knowing these people show up because of you learning your lessons. Now I finally know it works both ways,if they choose not to forgive you (thus not themselves) it’s their part. Its their wound,but you have to work on yours. Thank you so much for this ✨🕊
This sounds good, but I am struggling applying this to narcissists and the manipulative behavior that comes out of them. This seems difficult to do because I have to interact with people daily. I prefer to be alone many times over being the subject of 'love bombing' and other toxic manipulative behavior. I leave and it's okay with me to be with myself. Thank you for your experience. I am thinking.
I really struggle to drop the resentment I have with an elderly family member who lives with me for the past 8 years. She has taken so much from me personally and has no real remorse about it. When she says Im sorry I took your home over she really means that shes sorry that I am not happy about it. I find this incredibly hard to deal with.
But has she brought a nice financial package with her? Are you benefiting from her money? If so then maybe she feels as if she's being taken advantage of and needs to assert herself in the house. Aside from that It's never a good idea to take in elderly relatives. It always causes trouble and destress. Especially amongst women. On the upside, it won't last for ever.
OMG this is the most valuable piece of information ever as i have been struggling to forgive somebody for some time with out recieving any apology, remorse or acceptance on there behalf, after causing me extreme pain & have recently tried to make contact still with no apology, this is priceless information & THANKYOU SO MUCH!! Your channel is life saving & deserves so much more credit, I am extremely GRATEFUL!! 🙏🙏 PS How do u forgive or deal with somebody if u don't know if there behaviour/actions were/are concious or unconcious?? Can u please do a video on this or similar🙏🙏
I struggled with this concept for a very long time. Do people learn this tactic from someone or is it naturally developed? I am EMBARRASSED that I discovered this so much later in life. It seems like some people gain this knowledge and some of us learn the hard way. Thank you for providing knowledge and helping me understand further.
When ppl use you its only because of the selfishness of what you want. Even just wanting friendship ,looks harmless but it is a trap. For what can they give you that you or they don't have for them selfs
I made a note that my little brother was untrustworthy when i was 9 i forgot and forgave him that landed me in jail in his place 15 years later. Started to actually heal after that took years only for him to enter my life against my will. He then tried to kill me and worse. Not everyone has the option to cut the people that have ruined their lives out of their lives.
To tell them 'its okay' basically lets them off the hook so they can go on, absolved and care free. Why would you do that? Even if you do come to some level of forgiveness, why give them the benefit of that release, especially as all the effort and grief has been on your side. Letting go of your resentment to benefit your own well being is the best thing you can do. But see toxic people for what they are and stay well clear is the sensible thing to do. If they've craped on you once, they'll do it again and in the long run they'll end up lonely as others figure them out, and perhaps being alone is what they need to be evolve. I think its important to realise that the only person you are responsible for is yourself. All the time you feel you have to be responsible for the evolution of others and telling them 'its okay' to help them feel better, you are harming yourself and not helping them. Give then nothing. Do not acknowledge forgiveness or anger that they can see. Go grey rock. No emotion. No nothing. That's how you deal with toxic people...
Perennial. The words are so small and common, to forgive. But here in my little world is the answer to your question, "what is enlightenment?". We begrudgingly condescend to tolerate a mistake but do we let it go? But what of ourselves and our absent God. To forgive is to let go the blocks to love. What of our self fear? What of our sense that life is unfair and God is evil or perhaps there is no such Being, no safety no free lunch. Can we say that to forgive is the same as surrendering or awakening? I am looking for a love so big it can forgive all the evil in the world.
I am having the hardest time forgiving my youngest, for selling my land that was suppose to stay in our family. The topper was coming 500 miles to take back the car she gave me. I raised her youngest but he now lives with her. Im done with her. I do want to run far far away from her. I fall into her trap everytime. Why she wants to hurt me so bad is a mystery to me but Im so done with her.
Wise descision.....totally let it go.....or it will occur again because you have let it.....!!!! I had to do the same with my only daughter.......it was a hugh thing to overcome ,,,but doable ...
@@WVSCROUNGER thanks. I feel relieved. I was doing a exercise that wanted me to bring all that was borhering me to surface. This was a result of that. Its not until I let go of it, that I can move forward. I feel today, I can forgive and move forward.
I needed this. All I can offer in return is a like and a thank you. Thanks!
Can you please write a book so we can hold this knowledge without needing electricity ? Your videos are wonderful man n are helping me get back to the good person I use to be
You say what I think; please write a book about this strictly important matter ! And You are a fantastic teacher, well formulated, profound and Very open about Your own ecpriences ! Thank You so much. Namaste❤
Thank you for being part of my journey. Your words are uplifting, wise, and encouraging. I like how you use personal examples; they show you are walking the path with us.
I will never get tired of this definition of forgiveness, finally someone said it as it is, thank you Nada 🙏
This channel should have millions of subscribers 🧡🙏
Wow!! I have never heard it like this. Forgiveness means to give up. Giving up hope that he could change. Giving up the future that I imagined with him. Giving him up.
yes ive been working on this a year my wife wont tell my son im christain decent she is a narsisist im pretty sure ive cried a lot of tears jesus has helped me with this giving up and walking off from her seems like a breath of fresh air thank you for your coment i will think about this no more argueing i sure will be glad to meet an impath byeeeeeeeee
Humbleness 🤍 Clearing your own wounds,which are probably older than this person) so you can wish everybody well. Feeling unconditional love 💕
Yes giving up the idea of him.
I also examined my resentment and came to realize that it wasn't the other person or family member, but myself I was angry with. I discovered my anger and resentment had to do with me letting myself be treated the way I was treated, allowing it to continue for many years. I once held the belief that forgiveness meant reconciliation with that person or persons. At 66, I'm alone with my wife. We cherish each other deeply. The friends I once had are a distant memory. Even my immediate and extended family members no longer exist in my life, and I'm happy and content. Thank you for this.
Feels like Bob Marley speaking into my heart but this time, not just in song but in heartfelt words of healing ♥
Living with the understanding that we can get past experiences that cause us pain and anxiety in moving forward with our lives and using the hurts to learn from and to put our energies into the process of learning from the experience and understanding that the actions that have contributed to this frustration, difficulty, disappointment and pain are not about how I choose to be and that I am stronger in my life as I learn to be more confident and balanced in my own life from the experience. To bless the power of love in my heart to be able to know that the truth is that I am free to be joyous in my own energies. It is that person's life and learning that is not up to me to endure or solve. It's a life that you have the power to create where you put your time into and bless their moving forward with out losing your own path and being present in love and joy. Release them from your mind and get on with your own life and learn from the experience. Staying in the attitude towards removing yourself from whatever is not kindness and understanding..
Peace and compassion for all people. Realize that we all make mistakes and discern what you think about the situation at hand. No resentment and just seeing what you want to be around and expose yourself to. Move on and don't give it energy. Be love and respect your truth.
Splendid Perry
When I am angry about another person then I am actually angry about myself because I cared insufficiently for my own.
The same person, a similar situation, but an appropriate reaction on my part - and I don’t get angry.
I relate to him on a deep level. I have been used too alot and when i stop giving or doin favors for ppl the relationship ended
Same here.
Same here :(
@@beytoote5039 can you explain i want to understand a bit more. How are givers affected by their abusive parents
@@beytoote5039 wow, that sums up my whole life😔. I have always wanted to know how been loved by someone feels like and i have sabotaged myself from ever knowing how it feels. In the past i used to think its impossible for me to find love in the world. But i know that love comes from within not from outside.
@@beytoote5039 same to you. I hope we all find peace within ourselves. I hope i learn to love myself and find peace. I know it would be difficult but it will be worth it.
We are all spiritually sick people. That’s helped me a lot to have compassion for those who I perceived to have hurt me and then let go of the resentment
Absolutely true ! Our hurt feelings have no effect whatsoever on the person who hurt us . They go on their merry way and we just keep hurting and self harming . Tormentors rarely show remorse or bother to self analyse so we should stop analysing our wounds
Thank you for using language that is clearer to understand.
Really really powerful and insightful & 100% accurate about the inner process of forgiving. It's even life saving thank you, thank you🙏...I know I need to forgive others & myself but am struggling with myself & what I allowed myself to be manipulated into doing & being. Out of my neediness, naivete & vulnerability.
I feel that the person/ identity that I felt I was, was taken so much advantage of which has created resentment & a lot of suffering. The worst is my anger at myself for not being strong enough to walk away from 'being used' sooner....looking back though I see my family of origin has no real sense of self worth its all ego and bullying & status with pecking orders...ugly ugly stuff...so it's easy to see why I was easy prey to a 'taker'....& why it was hard to gain the necessary insight into what was done to me & what I did to myself
The understanding is crucial...you're so right...no one that I've listened to for help with the need to forgive explains it as well as you have...👏👏👏👏👏👏👏
Do put this in a book as another person suggests if you feel so inclined...I reckon it's a direly needed message...all blessings & love to you &thanks for your recovery & shares 🙏❤🧡
I think a lot of my resentment about my family stems from not being able to see them as they really are and it taking so long to piece everything together. I so wanted them to be good people that i turned a blind eye to all the red flags until they were coming so thick and fast i couldn't ignore the toxicity anymore.
This 😢
Thank you so much for this. I've had some awkward times with close family that have no respect for me and it's been a painful path.
Very true we can forgive but cannot forget...forgiveness is let go ur resentment...trust has to b earned... once broken its extremely difficult to restore it back👌👌 ...
Thank you Nada, thank you so much. Your videos on forgiving have given me a real revelation, a weight upon my shoulder was lifted. Thank you so much. Be blessed.
Wow , this video is just amazing my friend. This morning I woke up feeling conflicted where i googled searched “can I forgive someone while not trust them” I couldn’t find the right resources where it’s messaged help , but hours later I came across this video and it was exactly what i needed. Thank you for sharing your wisdom from your own experiences. Blessings
I have been healing some past resentment and im fluctuating every now and then from letting go and beating myself up,not literally for allowing and playing my part in a toxic situation .
Iam taking responsibility and learning from the experience .Thank you for your wisdom 😊🙏
Thank you! Your words bring emotional balance to me. Your words and guidance is being applied to my daughters. The anger and guilt had disabled my ability to think. The HEART can be your worst path toward self destruction! Thank you. OM SHANTI, SHANTI, SHANTII.
BLESS UP URSELF🙏🏽🙋🏽♀️🥰 & RASPECT 4 ALL THIZ ANOINTED INSIGHT🤲🏽⬆️❤💛💚
So heart ❤️ touching for me as I was really struggling with some situations where I have to forgive and forget but not able to do it. Your talking made me understand everything very clearly and I am sure that I am going to succeed to forgive and forget and move on with my life. Thank you 🙏 very much for sharing all your wisdom in your journey of life. God bless you 😊
so correct I feel the exact same way!! feeling so angry at myself for letti g people take advantage of me and steal cheat and lie to me!! I'm doing good for myself eating healthy staying active and working, found a mentor and found your channel on CZcams!! awesome content!!!
I have had ENOUGH, of holding onto resentment/anger, for those that I am not even a memory!! I am 59 yrs wise now, right now!!! This man may look like a mortal/human.... but I see his halo and wings. You are a gift to those of us that need you. TRUTH PEACE.
'Weaknesses mentality ' - I liked that one
Wonderful teaching 💜💜
So important learning Not hurting oneself....
He first step 🌻
Love you Nada
You really NAILED it! Truer words were never spoken, thank you for sharing. :)
Very powerful.. Thank you x
You're a blessed soul! Such wisdom!
Absolutely true! What you say is so sensible and i really needed it! Thanks again!
You are truly amazing🤩 🙏 🙏🙏
I needed this, thanks 🙏🏼
Súper helpful, thanks!!🙏🙌
I'm so glad to have found you! Perfect timing in this awakening process of course! Thank you for your personal examples as they help me to be kinder and more gentle with myself. Namaste. 💗🙏
Thank you 💚🙏🏽
So true....subscribed, thank you for sharing
So good!🙏🙏🙏
Thank you for all the insight
I love this! I needed to see this. This video was super helpful and really opened my eyes.
I can relate so much to this, thank you for sharing 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻
Finding that one video that answers all your questions 🙏
Thank you for the invaluable support and advice - I love your gentle no nonsense approach ❤️
listening to you is so therapeutic ❤️🙏
Thank you for this powerful message and realization. Keep our hearts be healed🙏
Your amazing, God bless
Thanks for the lace up OG
Wow this guy knows my life. 😢
This has really helped me. Thank you so much for your words.
This channel is so awsome. I thought i knew things now I see how much there always is to learn.
I have been struggling with this. Thank you 🙏 you are truly God sent❤️
Beautiful explained thanks for sharing 🌺
Wow especially the last part👏🏻 thanks for explaining the process it really shows sm. I don’t need to see more vid for now I totally understood the concept of resentment and can be able to work on it. Thank you again🙏🏻🙏🏻✨✨
I tell myself I have forgiven people and let past hurts go but deep down I know that’s not true. I’m always carrying
It with me and struggle to know how to fully forgive. 🥺 wise words
💯 needed this!
You always give such brilliant advice to help us live a better life without senseless sufferings. I wish I have found your channel years ago. You are the best spiritual teacher I’ve ever come across on CZcams. Please know you are greatly appreciated!
Thank you 🙏 your words and wisdom are incredibly clarifying and liberating. It’s much appreciated and very helpful. Feel like I’ve returned to a loving, peaceful and authentic space Bless you for sharing 🌟⭐️💫
Ur talks v much resonate what Sw. Dayanand Saraswati says in his bk 'Morning meditation prayers' where he talks on forgiveness & letting go. A must read for all.
Thank you 🙏
Thank you
Perfect explanation. Understanding and conscious living is the way i move forward.
Thank you. Timing is always as its meant to be. 🌸
Straight up. No bs.
Very wise words!
beautifully said, really appreciate you and this video 🙏 helped me gain new perspectives on this topic
Wow awesome thanks
Thanks!
Thank you Nada😊
wow so helpful, thank you
I am really enjoying your content. Thank you.
Well taken.
Enough Said!! 👏👏👏👏👏👏
This is a huge issue in the spiritual journey. If you are not on that journey,you cannot understand. This is real explanation of ‘karma’. Changing blue prints,patterns,taught behaviors. Figuring this out for years now,and still couldn’t grab the last piece of it.
Years ago I did a lot of deep forgiving,but it shows we still need to work on it because it comes back all the time. The triggers of the ego come by when situations arise. Pretty tricky,because you see it,you know it. I realized,because of this process I was blaming myself probably. You forgive others,but the most important part is to forgive yourself. If you don’t,forgiving others can create an inside lack of boundaries. I even didn’t want to cause pain on people who deliberately hurt me. Also knowing these people show up because of you learning your lessons. Now I finally know it works both ways,if they choose not to forgive you (thus not themselves) it’s their part. Its their wound,but you have to work on yours. Thank you so much for this ✨🕊
Thank you again Nada
This sounds good, but I am struggling applying this to narcissists and the manipulative behavior that comes out of them. This seems difficult to do because I have to interact with people daily. I prefer to be alone many times over being the subject of 'love bombing' and other toxic manipulative behavior. I leave and it's okay with me to be with myself.
Thank you for your experience. I am thinking.
Word.
Thank you 🌸
Beautiful😍😍😍😍😍
I really struggle to drop the resentment I have with an elderly family member who lives with me for the past 8 years. She has taken so much from me personally and has no real remorse about it. When she says Im sorry I took your home over she really means that shes sorry that I am not happy about it. I find this incredibly hard to deal with.
But has she brought a nice financial package with her? Are you benefiting from her money? If so then maybe she feels as if she's being taken advantage of and needs to assert herself in the house. Aside from that It's never a good idea to take in elderly relatives. It always causes trouble and destress. Especially amongst women. On the upside, it won't last for ever.
OMG this is the most valuable piece of information ever as i have been struggling to forgive somebody for some time with out recieving any apology, remorse or acceptance on there behalf, after causing me extreme pain & have recently tried to make contact still with no apology, this is priceless information & THANKYOU SO MUCH!!
Your channel is life saving & deserves so much more credit, I am extremely GRATEFUL!! 🙏🙏
PS How do u forgive or deal with somebody if u don't know if there behaviour/actions were/are concious or unconcious?? Can u please do a video on this or similar🙏🙏
I struggled with this concept for a very long time. Do people learn this tactic from someone or is it naturally developed? I am EMBARRASSED that I discovered this so much later in life.
It seems like some people gain this knowledge and some of us learn the hard way.
Thank you for providing knowledge and helping me understand further.
When ppl use you its only because of the selfishness of what you want. Even just wanting friendship ,looks harmless but it is a trap. For what can they give you that you or they don't have for them selfs
That is the wisest thing I have heard in a very long time. You have been a great help. Thank you!
❤❤❤
I made a note that my little brother was untrustworthy when i was 9 i forgot and forgave him that landed me in jail in his place 15 years later. Started to actually heal after that took years only for him to enter my life against my will. He then tried to kill me and worse. Not everyone has the option to cut the people that have ruined their lives out of their lives.
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Wow
Who down votes these videos XD I feel bad for them and hope they find their path
Yes I dersev for give ness
To tell them 'its okay' basically lets them off the hook so they can go on, absolved and care free. Why would you do that? Even if you do come to some level of forgiveness, why give them the benefit of that release, especially as all the effort and grief has been on your side. Letting go of your resentment to benefit your own well being is the best thing you can do. But see toxic people for what they are and stay well clear is the sensible thing to do. If they've craped on you once, they'll do it again and in the long run they'll end up lonely as others figure them out, and perhaps being alone is what they need to be evolve.
I think its important to realise that the only person you are responsible for is yourself. All the time you feel you have to be responsible for the evolution of others and telling them 'its okay' to help them feel better, you are harming yourself and not helping them. Give then nothing. Do not acknowledge forgiveness or anger that they can see. Go grey rock. No emotion. No nothing. That's how you deal with toxic people...
If it was intentional then they should be held accountable.
No nicey nicey.
Pay the price.
Such is Karma such is the hand.
....they reap what they sow
Sabiendo que cada uno ha sido siempre uno mismo haciendo lo que creia
Perennial. The words are so small and common, to forgive. But here in my little world is the answer to your question, "what is enlightenment?". We begrudgingly condescend to tolerate a mistake but do we let it go? But what of ourselves and our absent God. To forgive is to let go the blocks to love. What of our self fear? What of our sense that life is unfair and God is evil or perhaps there is no such Being, no safety no free lunch. Can we say that to forgive is the same as surrendering or awakening? I am looking for a love so big it can forgive all the evil in the world.
yes ..forgive.....then stay away from the dogs.
Is there anything you can do to not allow the commercial advertisements breaking in?!! I'm intent on listening and then rudely interrupted!
Thanks but this is the logical approach to forgiveness, it it is almost always in emotional level people can forgive.
Honest mistake ??? ... When a person is presented with the truth... at that very moment, they are either no longer mistaken ... or no longer honest.
Excellent. Very well said, and very true.
I was verbally abused by a rude racist woman ( someone I dont know thankfully!) but the anger I feel is really hurting me. It’s really hurting me...
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I am having the hardest time forgiving my youngest, for selling my land that was suppose to stay in our family. The topper was coming 500 miles to take back the car she gave me. I raised her youngest but he now lives with her. Im done with her. I do want to run far far away from her. I fall into her trap everytime. Why she wants to hurt me so bad is a mystery to me but Im so done with her.
Wise descision.....totally let it go.....or it will occur again because you have let it.....!!!! I had to do the same with my only daughter.......it was a hugh thing to overcome ,,,but doable ...
@@WVSCROUNGER thanks. I feel relieved. I was doing a exercise that wanted me to bring all that was borhering me to surface. This was a result of that. Its not until I let go of it, that I can move forward. I feel today, I can forgive and move forward.