Rainbows, bonfires and vulnerability | life at my rural cottage

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  • čas přidán 29. 06. 2024
  • In this weeks video I share some of my personal feelings with you, finally start building an enclosure for the guinea pigs and enjoy a beautiful sunset in the countryside, with a bonfire on the first summer night. Subscribe to follow along on my tiny house and country life journey and get your weekly dose of cottage core!
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Komentáře • 198

  • @l.5857
    @l.5857 Před 14 dny +22

    98% of the channels I watch have posted about the negative comments they get. One person really summed it up perfectly in his reply regarding the negativity: “If you dislike me, my channel or my life, then don’t watch my channel. I’m sure with all the channels out there, you will find something you like. If you continue to badmouth me, you will be blocked as I refuse to allow your negativity to touch me or my viewers who enjoy my channel.” I personally love your channel, your animals and your talks with us. Please continue to be exactly who you are.

    • @nikkydegraaf
      @nikkydegraaf  Před 13 dny +3

      You are so right. Thank you! It really helps. ❤️

    • @susanmurphy1986
      @susanmurphy1986 Před 7 dny

      Good response!! Don’t like negativity… life is too short

  • @SassyPieHole999
    @SassyPieHole999 Před 14 dny +14

    Some things for you to consider…
    You’re young, you’re beautiful inside and out, you’re capable, you’re resourceful, you’re brave, you’re different, you’re smart, you’re articulate, you’re kind, you’re real.
    When you put yourself out there with so much honesty, there are some people who cannot cope with it. For them, you mirror back to them all the things they are not. This wounds them, and so, they lash out. It’s the human condition. It’s not personal about you, it’s personal about them.
    In a weird way, they are giving you a compliment. They are telling you that you shine so bright and they can’t deal with all that light reminding them of their darkness. It’s their issue, not your’s.
    So carry on enjoying comments from those of us who see your light and reflect it back, and say a silent blessing to those who are unable to do so.

    • @LoremLipsumz
      @LoremLipsumz Před 14 dny +8

      What a lovely comment and I agree whole heartedly with everything you wrote! ❤

    • @nikkydegraaf
      @nikkydegraaf  Před 13 dny +4

      Thank you so much! Your words really help, it means a lot to me. Your compliments made me smile. I will come back to read it again if I need it, but it made my day already and it gives me new energy and motivation to make the videos a little bit better every time, but also to just be myself. Thank you so much for taking the time to write this. I really appreciate it. ❤️

    • @SassyPieHole999
      @SassyPieHole999 Před 13 dny +2

      @@nikkydegraaf it’s you being yourself that brings people to your channel. You have a rare gift. Cherish it. 🥰

    • @L0U1SE
      @L0U1SE Před 12 dny +1

      ❤ keep being you ❤

  • @christinedelfino5322
    @christinedelfino5322 Před 14 dny +10

    Negative comments are from people who are jealous and want your life. You can’t please everyone and besides it’s your life and you are just doing great be happy and enjoy the beauty of it all.❤❤

    • @nikkydegraaf
      @nikkydegraaf  Před 13 dny +2

      You are probably right, thank you so much! ❤️

  • @teresaboyd5267
    @teresaboyd5267 Před 10 dny +2

    I’m so pleased your channel is growing and people are enjoying your content. The fact you have chosen to share your life and are so honest, is refreshing. 😊

    • @nikkydegraaf
      @nikkydegraaf  Před 10 dny

      Thank you so much, that means a lot! I try my best ❤️

  • @Kitty-mq2dw
    @Kitty-mq2dw Před 14 dny +14

    Please don't let the negative people discourage you. I love watching your videos. Those people that do that are very unhappy with themselves. You have a very interesting life. Your a very lucky person to be surrounded by all that beauty. ❤😊

  • @jennyruth5620
    @jennyruth5620 Před 14 dny +7

    Hi Nikky! 🙋‍♀️ New subscriber from Illinois, US... Currently I'm rebuilding my life after some major changes and I find it comforting and inspiring to watch such an open, capable woman. Tysm for sharing your beautiful life. ❤🥰

    • @maryscott3037
      @maryscott3037 Před 14 dny +3

      I'm from Michigan.

    • @nikkydegraaf
      @nikkydegraaf  Před 13 dny +1

      Hey, welcome here, thanks for watching and subscribing! Your kind words mean a lot, thank you for taking the time to write a comment. I really appreciate it. ❤️

  • @Dana548
    @Dana548 Před 14 dny +15

    I don’t know why people are negative, its most likely because their life is negative and they feel the need to bring others down, don’t worry about them, you’re a lovely person with so much beauty around you, I’m an animal lover also and Im jealous how many beautiful souls you have around you, you just do you and don’t worry about the negative trolls!

    • @nikkydegraaf
      @nikkydegraaf  Před 13 dny +2

      Thank you, your words mean a lot. I try not to worry about it and comments like these really help, it gives me so much joy to read. Thank you so much, I really appreciate it and it really helps me. ❤️

  • @carolynstage4308
    @carolynstage4308 Před 8 dny +2

    Nikky you are an inspiring woman!
    I can't imagine why people would say hurtful things...unless of course... because hurting people hurt people. They are jealous of your strength, positivity and the lovely person you are. You set your mind on something and you do it! I am a 65 woman and have been through a lot in my life . I found you and I'm totally inspired to pick myself up and enjoy life again! You make each day a new experience and love each moment you are in!
    God bless you ❤
    Carrie ❤

    • @nikkydegraaf
      @nikkydegraaf  Před 5 dny

      Hey Carrie, thank you so much! It really means a lot to me. I'm so happy I'm able to inspire you and thank you for letting me know, I really appreciate it. ❤️

  • @karenbee1898
    @karenbee1898 Před 14 dny +6

    Your porch looks so pretty, the flowers are doing so well and the lights are such a perfect touch. I enjoy your videos so much and the genuine person you are. You are a beautiful person living a beautiful life!

  • @LeonaMcLinden
    @LeonaMcLinden Před 14 dny +9

    Once upon a time we would never have even imagined how someone lived across the ocean. People now feel it’s appropriate to hide behind something they say in a comment section that would never be spoken to your face. Just be you… they will be themselves.

  • @gregganderson1454
    @gregganderson1454 Před 14 dny +9

    You’re doing great, Nikky! Don’t worry about the haters. They hate everything. Especially themselves!

  • @StringfieldRidgeFarm
    @StringfieldRidgeFarm Před 14 dny +6

    I don’t know how anyone could have a negative comment on your channel. You are beautiful, smart and talented. Keep doing exactly what you’re doing. I really enjoy your videos. Thanks for sharing your life with us.

    • @nikkydegraaf
      @nikkydegraaf  Před 13 dny +2

      Thank you, it means a lot to me and your kind words really help.

  • @Neferkit1
    @Neferkit1 Před 14 dny +4

    I think you are a delightful and interesting person. Thank you for sharing your life with us. I really enjoy your videos. They are beautifully done. Please don't listen to the negative comments. They are made by people who have nothing better to do than to try to spread their own misery. Lots of love and big hugs from the Oregon coast, USA.

    • @nikkydegraaf
      @nikkydegraaf  Před 13 dny +1

      Thank you so much, I'm so happy you enjoy my video. I try to improve every week. Thank you again for taking the time to write this comment, I really appreciate it. ❤️

  • @judymartius7779
    @judymartius7779 Před 14 dny +3

    Please don't stop videoing cuz of the haters. I so look forward to your channel. It's so inspiring, relaxing, & I learn things from you. Best wishes & keep the videos coming.❤

    • @nikkydegraaf
      @nikkydegraaf  Před 13 dny +1

      I'm definitely not planning on stopping soon, I'm just getting started and all the nice comments everybody writes for me, really help! Thank you so much! ❤️

  • @traceyh8660
    @traceyh8660 Před 14 dny +2

    You can really see you love your animals. ❤ Also i love that you appreciate farmers working and their noises. Really enjoying your videos, keep them coming.

    • @nikkydegraaf
      @nikkydegraaf  Před 13 dny

      Thank you so much, it means a lot! ❤️

  • @LouGreen-vd4ov
    @LouGreen-vd4ov Před 14 dny +5

    Beautiful beautiful view of the countryside and rainbows!!! Thank you for taking us along on these beautiful adventures and views!!! You are such an awesome vlog host and an inspiration!!

  • @caroledegginger6928
    @caroledegginger6928 Před 14 dny +3

    Your videos are beautiful and your commentary is lovely. Ignore the small and petty comments of people who make themselves feel better by putting out negative remarks.

  • @villagecottage2418
    @villagecottage2418 Před 13 dny +1

    Dont apologize for who you are. I love watching your videos. You are an inspiration to those of us who want that same peace you are living. There's no judgement here. Keep up the good work. God bless you.

  • @Dstew57A
    @Dstew57A Před 14 dny +5

    It is so true what the song says haters gonna hate…no matter what..I work in a job where I help the public and regardless of how I do help people there is always people who will criticize ..no matter what and they can personally attack me. I have learned to brush it off and go about my day. I do wonder how these kind of people live being so nasty and negative…you carry on please. You are a beautiful woman inside and out. Thank you for being you and sharing some of your life with us😊

    • @nikkydegraaf
      @nikkydegraaf  Před 11 dny

      You are so right, I try to ignore it as best as I can and kind comments like yours really help me! Thank you so much, your words mean a lot to me! ❤️

  • @LoremLipsumz
    @LoremLipsumz Před 14 dny +3

    You are amazingly talented, brilliant and kind. I love your videography and the style of your videos including the music choices and how you use it. You are adorable and I’d love to have you as a neighbor and friend. ❤

    • @nikkydegraaf
      @nikkydegraaf  Před 13 dny

      Thank you so much! I try to improve every week and I'm so happy you enjoy my videos and took the time to write a comment. It helps, and it makes my day. Thank you ❤️

  • @GrandmaSandy
    @GrandmaSandy Před 14 dny +5

    Hi my sweet friend. Thank you so much for another great video so glad I found your channel. Always love watching your videos.

  • @StephanieJongsma-cw5jp
    @StephanieJongsma-cw5jp Před 14 dny +4

    I've just recently found you! I love your videos, they are so beautiful, calming and I love your life! My grandfather immigrated to America from Friesland. We have a lot of red hair in our coloring and in our family. My dream is to visit Holland! I have another channel I watch and he deletes and blocks people who are negative on his channel. You don't need to subject yourself to that. It is all over the internet and can overshadow the beauty of what you are doing. It does hurt! Please keep sharing your beautiful story. We need you!

    • @nikkydegraaf
      @nikkydegraaf  Před 11 dny

      Hey, thank you so much! It's so nice to read a comment like this, I really love to hear from you guys. It's so motivating for me. You are very right about the negative people, I try my best, I'm learning every day. Thank you so so much, it means a lot that you took the time to write this for me. ❤️

  • @veronicashipley9123
    @veronicashipley9123 Před 14 dny +4

    Sending love and light once again from the UK Nicky ☺. Ignore the negative people, they judge and speak and yet they don't know you, your life. Your love for your animals 🐎 is obvious, horses have to be managed according to the land and weather. They probably think everything comes easy to you, but clearly you put the work in behind the scenes for your family, whilst continuing with your own life and hobbies etc.
    Don't fret, be happy 🐎🐶🐈🐌🐾🐾 xx

    • @nikkydegraaf
      @nikkydegraaf  Před 13 dny

      Thank you so much! I try my best to ignore them and nice comments like these really help me! Thank you so much for taking the time to write it, I really appreciate it.

  • @Jana-kz9lj
    @Jana-kz9lj Před 13 dny +3

    Dear Nikky, you are a beautiful person with a beautiful life. Its clear you love animals and nature. Dont let the negativity online or offline effect you, its the times we are living in. Millions would love your life. Thank you for sharing your life with the world, its a honour for us. Remain free and enjoy! Much love n blessings ❤

    • @nikkydegraaf
      @nikkydegraaf  Před 13 dny

      Thank you so much, your kind words mean a lot to me and I really appreciate it. ❤️

    • @Jana-kz9lj
      @Jana-kz9lj Před 13 dny +1

      ​@@nikkydegraafKeep shining brightly, you are lighting up the world. You owe no one any explanations. You are loved and the world needs your light more than ever now. ❤

    • @nikkydegraaf
      @nikkydegraaf  Před 2 dny

      ♥️

  • @graceinthegarden9151
    @graceinthegarden9151 Před 14 dny +4

    Please do not allow negative people to get to you. Your life is amazing and beautiful. Thank you for sharing.

  • @MichelleM-ud1hx
    @MichelleM-ud1hx Před 14 dny +5

    Hello Nikky:
    The double rainbows!! For the minutes your videos play on my computer screen, and I hear you in my headphones....
    these are moments that I can escape my horrid life and problems. I only wish that I could stand there, seeing the
    view, hearing the birds and nature around you. Your images, and gift for editing, are wonderful. I look forward to each
    video. I thank you. M.

    • @nikkydegraaf
      @nikkydegraaf  Před 13 dny

      Wow, thank you so much, it means the world to me. I'm so happy I can make videos that you enjoy, I try to improve every week. Thank you so much ❤️

    • @susanmurphy1986
      @susanmurphy1986 Před 6 dny

      @@MichelleM-ud1hx me too! I live in the country but live on a major East - West road with heavy traffic. Or at least heavy dump trucks as there is a quarry nearby. Only 2 lane road where people live by me the speed limit is 30… either side is 50 mph not many slow down…

  • @Mgoblue1
    @Mgoblue1 Před 14 dny +3

    Thank you for showing the double rainbow. Beautiful!

    • @nikkydegraaf
      @nikkydegraaf  Před 13 dny

      You are very welcome, thank you for watching ❤️

  • @gingermolinero8386
    @gingermolinero8386 Před 14 dny +4

    This was a wonderful vlog, thank you. You put a lot of effort into creating a life for yourself, I’m glad you are getting to enjoy your home

  • @jocelynebenoist9576
    @jocelynebenoist9576 Před 14 dny +4

    vous etes une belle personne, continuez vos vidéos merci de les partager

  • @patkilmurray4702
    @patkilmurray4702 Před 14 dny +4

    Stunning photography Nikki,I loved the rainbow and also seeing your horse rolling around in the grass, I've never seen that before! I do understand that you are a private person and I think your channel must be therapeutic in a way to get your thoughts and ideas in order. Your vlogs are so lovely to watch, the scenery is stunning and I love all your animals but the star of the show is yourself with your beautiful smile, enough to make anyone's day. Ignore the inevitable trolls, they are simply jealous of your lovely life.❤

    • @nikkydegraaf
      @nikkydegraaf  Před 13 dny +1

      Thank you so much, I'm so happy you liked it! It means a lot. I think you might be right, it is a bit therapeutic in a way and sometimes its good to do something to grow as a person. I try to do that with CZcams. I'm so happy you enjoy my videos, I really appreciate it. ❤️

  • @boldpicturesgardeners
    @boldpicturesgardeners Před 14 dny +6

    Hi Nicky I love your camera angles 'perfect recording. You are a great inspiration ❤❤

    • @nikkydegraaf
      @nikkydegraaf  Před 13 dny

      Thank you so much, I really appreciate it! ❤️

  • @debbiesittard7653
    @debbiesittard7653 Před 14 dny +4

    Misery loves company don't let these unhappy people steal your joy. They don't like themselves so it's not possible for them to like anyone else. at At 61 years of age I have developed thick skin where negative unhappy people are concerned. I really enjoy your videos and look forward to each quaint visit. You have a lovely lil cottage.
    When GOD sends rain just get your wellies on and splash in the puddles. Very beautiful rainbow.

  • @mello3214
    @mello3214 Před 13 dny +3

    Your such a sweet and beautiful person,God bless you ❤🙏🦋🌻

  • @sherryallen4537
    @sherryallen4537 Před 14 dny +3

    Thank you for sharing this video! I have a similar personality as you, I admire your honesty and bravery. You are a hard worker! It must give you a nice feeling of satisfaction once you complete a task! The view of the rainbow is amazing! All the best to you and your animals from Massachusetts!😊🌲🌳

  • @Pauline-m9m
    @Pauline-m9m Před 14 dny +4

    Such a lovely video, from beautiful rainbows, to perfect spiderwebs and everything in between. The music was gorgeous and absolutely suited your camera shots. Poopoo to the negative people, they should just scroll on, no one is forcing them to watch, it’s clearly their choice. Keep up the beautiful work. I think you are very brave and we are the privileged because you want to share a part of your life with us. Pauline

    • @nikkydegraaf
      @nikkydegraaf  Před 13 dny

      Thank you so much, I'm happy you enjoyed it so much and you like the music aswel. I try to make my videos better every week and your nice comments really mean a lot! I try to ignore the negative people as much as I can, I just need to get more used to it and I will be fine! Thank you so much again, your comments are appreciated. ❤️

  • @wandamullins2290
    @wandamullins2290 Před 14 dny +4

    I love your videos, I appreciate you sharing your life with us. 💜

  • @justmouse..
    @justmouse.. Před 14 dny +5

    You are such a natural on camera❤. I love your videos, animals, farm and how you speak You're very insightful. You are able to put feelings into words really well. Yeah, the negative people and comments are always there. That is life and that is people, you have to just let them and keep moving forward like you are doing. You'll be a big channel I feel like. You are living authentically a life most of us dream of living. More private people are going to You Tube to share their life's. It seems like it wouldn't work but it does work somehow better than for extraverts . Great cinematography and accompanying music❤

    • @nikkydegraaf
      @nikkydegraaf  Před 13 dny +1

      Thank you so much! It means a lot. I don't feel like a natural yet, but I'm trying. I'm very happy you enjoyed the video and I think you are right, it's just how people are. I just need to get used to it a bit more. I'm so happy you think the channel will be big one day. I really hope so, but I'm happy with all the views and comments I get. Thank you so so much, your comment is really appreciated. ❤️

    • @justmouse..
      @justmouse.. Před 12 dny

      ​@@nikkydegraaf of course!! I watch a lot of video's about off grid living, farming, homesteading, building. What I have noticed about the negative people who post hurtful and mean comments is that when they notice a channel growing and the creator getting positive attention and positive comments, they make negative comments to get the attention away from the creator and to themselves, either by the creator or by the other viewers commenting on their mean comment. They are the mosquitos of You Tube, so that's a good way to look at them. They do it to all channels, especially the newer ones or the ones they notice growing and it's not at all about you or what you are doing. It's about themselves and their issues. If I was a Content Creator I'd just block them since I couldn't smack them like I do the ones that always find my ankles to bite when I'm outside. Just remember, for every mosquito that lands on your comment section there are 50 viewers ready to give them the smack down because we know authenticity when we see it and we love having a glimpse into a life we've had, thought of having, plan to have or wish we did have when we were young . Great videos Nikky and appreciate all the work you put into everything you do. Love your love and care of your animals .❤❤

  • @tamirose8562
    @tamirose8562 Před 14 dny +4

    Wow, you have beauty all around you.👍

  • @joannekelly8550
    @joannekelly8550 Před 14 dny +4

    What did you pour over the strawberries?
    Don't worry about the small minded people that have to say ugly things to others just to make themselves feel better. You're getting more love from all of us and that's all that matters.

    • @nikkydegraaf
      @nikkydegraaf  Před 13 dny

      It's some sort of vanilla yoghurt, it tastes great! Thank you so much!

  • @maryscott3037
    @maryscott3037 Před 14 dny +2

    Someone may have already pointed this out. There was a double rainbow in your sky/video. Yes very beautiful.

    • @nikkydegraaf
      @nikkydegraaf  Před 13 dny

      Thank you! I love those beautiful things in nature. ❤️

  • @fsh57
    @fsh57 Před 4 dny

    you are an simple honest person, kind with animals and living a simple life in the nature....l like natural person....they have a beautiful soul....... you never bored of it. Good Luck

  • @zoepatterson3643
    @zoepatterson3643 Před 14 dny +2

    Ì think your vids are beautiful ,you are such a caring soul ,thankyou for replying to my comment it made my day .I hope you are happy forever .

    • @nikkydegraaf
      @nikkydegraaf  Před 13 dny +1

      Thank you, your comments really help me, it motivates me and makes me very happy, so I'm happy to respond. I really appreciate it. ❤️

  • @MarkNieuwenhuizen
    @MarkNieuwenhuizen Před 14 dny +3

    Leuk ook om een meer lokaal voorbeeld van homesteading te zien. En je doet het leuk!

  • @katherineellison1809
    @katherineellison1809 Před 14 dny +3

    So enjoy the scenery and your sincere sharing of your life and thoughts.
    I enjoy watching how you spend your days, and it soothes my soul to see you tinkering in your garden.
    Watching your videos helps me to reconnect with my former self before moving to the city. Thank you !!!!

    • @nikkydegraaf
      @nikkydegraaf  Před 13 dny

      Thank you so much, it means a lot to me! I try my best and I love comments like yours. Thank you again!

  • @Jess-wj7cc
    @Jess-wj7cc Před 14 dny +3

    Thank you for your videos☺️ I just found you and enjoy your authenticity and love for nature.
    It's inspiring as I am getting ready to be in the public eye too. I'm also private and quiet.
    Thank you for your videos and lovely personality 💕

    • @nikkydegraaf
      @nikkydegraaf  Před 13 dny

      Thank you so much, I appreciate the comment and the fact that you took the time to write it. ❤️

  • @Craftylisa69
    @Craftylisa69 Před 10 dny

    It made my heart hurt to think people say unkind things to you . I really enjoy my time spent with you and there are so so many of us who gain such joy sharing your days in your beautiful home. Please only share what you’re happy with , we are very grateful for your videos . I’m Sending a gentle hug xlisax

    • @nikkydegraaf
      @nikkydegraaf  Před 10 dny +1

      Thank you for the hug, I appreciate it! I try my best to just ignore the negative comments, I'm so lucky with people like you, that are so nice to me. That's more important and means the most. ❤️

  • @beverleeshaw853
    @beverleeshaw853 Před 13 dny

    I just really like watching you and love the way you approch life . You really care about your animals and show it in everything you do. Just keep up the great work. Panama City, Florida 7/1/ 2024.

    • @nikkydegraaf
      @nikkydegraaf  Před 13 dny

      Thank you, it really means a lot and I appreciate you take the time to write a comment. It really motivates me. ❤️

  • @char72
    @char72 Před 5 dny

    Miss Nikki I enjoy your beautiful videos. The rainbow was gorgeous!!!
    Please don’t be offended by negativity from people.
    I believe you can set your viewing audience and cut out negative comments.
    I’m in Ohio, USA. A small town of 3000 population.

    • @nikkydegraaf
      @nikkydegraaf  Před 2 dny +1

      Thank you so much, I really appreciate it. I try my best to just ignore the negativity, but comments like yours really help me. ❤️

  • @ravenscoven228
    @ravenscoven228 Před 14 dny +3

    Het was weer heerlijk om naar te kijken! Ik heb er erg van genoten. 😊❤

  • @Vee_Macdonald84
    @Vee_Macdonald84 Před 4 dny

    I like your lifestyle and it makes me feel calm to watch your videos. You come across as very authentic. I’m not a fan of country living videos where women try to show a perfect life. They put on their pretty flowery dress, walk through a meadow, put on a weird whispery fairy voice, and proceed to show you all the ways you should wish you were them. Thank you for you authenticity.

    • @nikkydegraaf
      @nikkydegraaf  Před 2 dny +1

      Thank you so much! I try to be as honest as possible and I'm happy you like it. It means a lot. ❤️

  • @nicolemabie2111
    @nicolemabie2111 Před 6 dny +1

    ❤ thank you so much for sharing your life I enjoy your channel so much

  • @tullophile
    @tullophile Před 14 dny +2

    You are a lovely lady and I admire your courage. I don't think you should be affected by negative comments. I expressed concern about the Guinea Pigs being housed outdoors (because it can get very cold where you live) and your reply was that you have kept Guinea Pigs outdoors before. I was concerned about them being kept in temperatures below 15 degrees C, but you would most likely give them a heat source. That comment was made out of genuine concern for their comfort, and was not a negative comment about you. I appreciate the fact that you were not defensive or unkind in your reply to me. I have worked in animal advocacy for decades and I have seen animal neglect that is heartbreaking. Thank you for sharing your life with us and for being honest and kind.

    • @maryferebee-zg6zo
      @maryferebee-zg6zo Před 13 dny

      Hi Nikky, I love your channel. You are a very
      Sincere person. I enjoy your animals and the
      beautiful landscape.Thank you for sharing your life with us.

    • @nikkydegraaf
      @nikkydegraaf  Před 13 dny +1

      Thank you so much! I know that your comment was not negative at all, thats not how I see it. It's helpful and you think about my animals and thats something I really appreciate. I would indeed give them a heat source or even let them live inside my cottage if it's too cold. I want the best for my animals, as we all do. Thank you! ❤️

    • @tullophile
      @tullophile Před 13 dny

      @@nikkydegraaf Thank you for being genuine and kind. I love your vlog. It is interesting to see how people so far away from us live. We live almost exactly the same way!~ We have two dogs, two horses and spend the majority of our time outside. We are not TV watchers. Thank you for sharing those beautiful rainbows! I loved the looks of your sandwich on homemade bread!! I know that was tasty.

  • @sweetjesusbyfaith3988
    @sweetjesusbyfaith3988 Před 14 dny +3

    Love the videos!! When you said you speak Dutch I got excited lol I live in Iowa where it's a Dutch colony migrated from the Netherlands !! In orange city Iowa there is a tulip festival every year and they actually make original clothes of the Dutch orders for the queen and her court . Street sweepers and a huge parade look it up to see the beautiful display !! So quiet and beautiful where you are at !! Do you ride your big horse ? They were happy to be put on the grass. I can't wait to see the guinea pig enclosure when it's finished. Looking forward to the next video ❤

    • @nikkydegraaf
      @nikkydegraaf  Před 11 dny +1

      Thank you so much! That's so cool! I love to hear those things, I would also love to visit one day. I'm training the horse right now, but taking it very slowly. I'm always busy and can only do it in summer time when the fields are not to wet. Thank you again, your comments really mean a lot to me! ❤️

  • @pon1952leod
    @pon1952leod Před 9 dny

    The trolls are annoyed by people loving their lives…don’t give them the time of day. You are setting a beautiful example….just keep on being you 😘👋🇨🇦

  • @ellagottlieb376
    @ellagottlieb376 Před 16 hodinami

    Beautiful channel!
    A pleasure to watch!

  • @KariEngblom-Youkey
    @KariEngblom-Youkey Před 13 dny

    I just found you a few weeks past.I enjoy your videos so much! You also inspired me today. I am very private but do enjoy sharing and interacting with people around my passions... Most of the people I watch on CZcams say they are introvert or private too. Thank you all for braving your vulnerability and sharing your creativity and things you love😊

    • @nikkydegraaf
      @nikkydegraaf  Před 13 dny +1

      Thank you! I'm so happy I'm able to inspire you, that means a lot to me. Thank you again ❤️

  • @barbaraOHara-m4r
    @barbaraOHara-m4r Před 8 dny

    I recently found your channel and am sitting in my sunroom in North Carolina .....I am mesmerized "living"your country life. The one thing I have to say....your are absolutely charming!

    • @nikkydegraaf
      @nikkydegraaf  Před 8 dny

      Wow, thank you so much, it means a lot! ❤️

  • @anneliesjoss
    @anneliesjoss Před 12 dny

    Hi Nikki, like you, I prefer time by myself, and with my loved ones. As I’ve gotten older, I made a conscious decision not to give my time to people I don’t care for. I’m very much an introvert, which I didn’t realize until recently, and it explains my childhood and younger adulthood so much clearer to me. I’m also a people pleaser, and I’m trying hard to just take better care of myself.
    Thank you so much for this insightful video 🥰
    All your animals are living their very best, happy life 🧡

    • @nikkydegraaf
      @nikkydegraaf  Před 10 dny +1

      I understand how you feel, I'm very happy you enjoyed my video and I really appreciate your comment. Thank you so much! ❤️

  • @moshonkonri
    @moshonkonri Před 13 dny

    You now my favorite girl, distegard negativity, they have a lousy life and can't help themselves. You keep being you, you are smart ,cute and beautiful

    • @nikkydegraaf
      @nikkydegraaf  Před 13 dny

      Thank you, it means so much to me! ❤️

  • @marycerullo8455
    @marycerullo8455 Před 13 dny

    Good day Nikky. I must comment on your absolutely lovely hair. Now that you finally have some sunshine, the auburn colour and texture was even more apparent. Fabulous!

  • @claudinevandamme4809
    @claudinevandamme4809 Před 14 dny +4

    Please don't pay attention to those idiots...your a cool girl..and I love watching your calming video's...your place is a great pleasant place..(meschien wat jaloers ) zeg mij. Was dit yoghurt of custard boven op de aardbeien?? Lijkt heel erg lekker ontbijtje...dank u voor fijne filmpje...

    • @nikkydegraaf
      @nikkydegraaf  Před 13 dny

      Thank you! Ik heb vla op de aardbeien gedaan, is heerlijk!

  • @NatureInspiredSnipsnSnaps

    You really got a great view of the rainbows, and a beautiful doorstep to relax and chat from, and very skillful and creative. You are doing great and its only natural to have the feelings you do, its harder for empaths and kind souls, you feel you have to adapt, but really you don't, its not easy because we always try to fix everything , but some things are broken and take away our good energy, just keep being you and keep enjoying and sharing your wonderful journey with us, look to your bright future you are building and all the joy your place gives you and the goodness that comes through in your channel. Take care, shine bright.

    • @nikkydegraaf
      @nikkydegraaf  Před 10 dny +1

      Thank you, I really enjoyed the rainbows, they were so beautiful. I'm glad I get to share it with you. You are very right, thank you for your kind and inspiring words, it means a lot! ❤️

  • @estherwolf110
    @estherwolf110 Před 14 dny +2

    Watching it now❤

    • @nikkydegraaf
      @nikkydegraaf  Před 14 dny +1

      Thank you so much, I really hope you like it. ♥️

    • @estherwolf110
      @estherwolf110 Před 14 dny +1

      It was fantastic! Your old dog is such a sweetheart. ❤
      And your bonfire under the trees, dreamy!!

  • @CharlotteUnser
    @CharlotteUnser Před 12 dny

    Wonderful video....Being true to your self and all that you love and sharing it with others is delightful....(A friend in the U.S.)

  • @barbaraOHara-m4r
    @barbaraOHara-m4r Před 8 dny

    I recently found your channel and enjoying sharing your country life. The one thing I have to say.... you are charming!

  • @heidevanness2788
    @heidevanness2788 Před 7 dny

    I really enjoy your videos. Thank you for sharing your life and it's a real pleasure getting to know you!! Much Love 💕

  • @CharlotteUnser
    @CharlotteUnser Před 8 dny

    I just had to watch this lovely video again~ Your love of nature and self expression is so refreshing. Keep going!

  • @carolynstage4308
    @carolynstage4308 Před 8 dny

    By the way you are adorable with your hair up as you did working on the ship!! You are a wonderful person.

  • @ellybehappy4202
    @ellybehappy4202 Před 8 dny

    Hey Nikky, ik zie twee regenbogen; 1 hele heldere en daarboven een vage . Prachtig dat je dat zo hebt kunnen opnemen . Je maakt zo ie zo geweldige video's . Zo dankbaar dat je dit alles met ons wil delen ❣❤❣

    • @nikkydegraaf
      @nikkydegraaf  Před 6 dny

      Dankjewel, ik vind het zo leuk om te horen, dat doet mij echt goed! ❤️

  • @kathleenlankford6027
    @kathleenlankford6027 Před 9 dny

    Rainbows are so amazing. You live in a very beautiful place❤ thank you for sharing.

  • @ahitchcock6557
    @ahitchcock6557 Před 13 dny

    Hi Nikky! WOW those double rainbows! Stunning! I am so thrilled to see your channel growing, I understand the vulnerability one would get from sharing your life. I think people are drawn to your natural life, and your truly kind personality, your love for nature and the earth and your animals. Your videos are always calming to me when I watch them. You truly make it look easy but I know how hard you work on every detail of your homestead. Some negative people just like to be internet trolls and I don't understand why people enjoy being unkind to strangers. Your life is something many dream of in this crazy world, I would just delete them and luckily they are few. I could not believe after you put the walls up to the guinea pig enclosure how NICE this is going to be, I couldn't envision it till I saw the walls. amazing! 100 is hot, we just went through that a few weeks ago, it was so hot you couldn't breathe. I do have 2 questions. One , what did you pour over the strawberries? And 2, in your big towns by you, do you have Mcdonalds and all of the popular places we have here in the US? The aerials you close with are so beautiful Nikki, one can't believe how large your property really is! ( I am going to send you the picture on instagram of my cat watching you and your cat on the big tv) so you'll know its me...lol...so cute, I couldn't believe she heard your cat meow and was actually watching you! hahaha. See you in the next video!

    • @nikkydegraaf
      @nikkydegraaf  Před 11 dny

      Your comment made me so happy again! Those rainbows really were amazing. And yes, I'm so happy the channel is growing, but it's definitely scary aswel. Your kind words really help me, every time. It means a lot to me. Thank you! I think the guinea pig enclosure is coming along nicely, I had an idea in my head and sometimes it's hard to explain, but I can't wait to show you when it's completely finished. The thing on the strawberries is called : vla in Dutch. It has vanille taste and is a bit similar to yoghurt. I really like it. And yes, we do have a McDonalds in the bigger cities close by. We have most things pretty close by, because the Netherlands is a pretty small country. But locally we have more small shops, like fresh farm shops. Thank you so much! I will take a look at instagram and thank you again for your comment, it means so much to me! ❤️

  • @ingridfaganova
    @ingridfaganova Před 12 dny

    Thank you Nikky for another lovely video, I really enjoyed it, the ending was so peaceful with you and Zenno sitting by the fire 😊

    • @nikkydegraaf
      @nikkydegraaf  Před 10 dny +1

      Thank you! I loved that moment with Zenno, it was so nice to be able to enjoy an evening outside with a beautiful sunset.

  • @MsLele41
    @MsLele41 Před 14 dny +1

    I just found your channel and been following you for week. I Love it. Please continue.🙂

  • @donnalefevre4625
    @donnalefevre4625 Před 14 dny +2

    You are lovely.

  • @lorisnell4290
    @lorisnell4290 Před 11 dny

    Im a lot like u. Alone and dont hang around a lot of people.,actually none 😂 but i love to be outside and love animals. I have 7 cats and dream of owning a tiny cabin with a woodstove. Your videos are perfect. They relax me and i love to watch even just the simple every day life. Ur doing great 😁👍❤

    • @nikkydegraaf
      @nikkydegraaf  Před 10 dny

      Thank you so much, I'm happy you enjoy my videos and I really appreciate you wrote this comment. ❤️

  • @Annazelfvoorzienendleven

    Hoi Nikky, ik heb genoten van al je mooie beelden die je hebt gefilmd, je hebt er duidelijk oog voor. Hieronder staat in het Engels een heel mooi comment over hoe te handelen met negativiteit. Het is hier jou kanaal en jou content, dus bevalt het niet, dan gaat iemand maar ergens anders kijken, ze zijn niet verplicht hier te blijven hangen. Ik vind het mooi dat je Nederland zo aan de rest van CZcams wereld laat zien. Ik dacht ook nog, voel je niet verplicht al je gevoelens te delen, het is hier niet privé, deel gewoon waar je je veilig en goed bij voelt. En ik begrijp je verhaal over dat het een soort onwerkelijk voelt dat zoveel mensen meekijken in je leven, terwijl je juist niet veel onder mensen bent. Ik heb datzelfde gehad met mijn kanaal, dacht als ik er 100 heb die meekijken is het al veel :) Ga lekker zo door en doe wat je leuk vind, je cavia plek wordt leuk, lekker speels, juist niet perfect, is veel leuker zo. Groetjes

    • @nikkydegraaf
      @nikkydegraaf  Před 10 dny

      Wat ontzettend leuk om te horen, dat doet mij goed! Je hebt helemaal gelijk en ik doe mijn best om het ook altijd op die manier te bekijken, maar ik moet denk ik nog even wennen aan al die mensen die kijken en daar dan natuurlijk ook op kunnen reageren. Ik ben ontzettend blij met alle positieve reacties, die zijn veel waardevoller! Heel erg bedankt voor je reactie!

  • @X3Jane
    @X3Jane Před 11 dny

    You’ve made a masterpiece of your life. Bravo.

  • @ritacarlson9522
    @ritacarlson9522 Před 12 dny

    I just recently discovered your channel. Your video's are beautifully filmed and I throughly enjoy your way of living. I grew up on my parents farm in Texas and watching you brings back many good memories. Looking forward to following you for many years to come. Take care...talk again soon.

    • @nikkydegraaf
      @nikkydegraaf  Před 10 dny

      Thank you so much, it really means a lot. ❤️

  • @beccahoyledaniels284
    @beccahoyledaniels284 Před 13 dny

    I’ve only just found your channel and I’m really enjoying watching it. Thank you for sharing your story with us, the double rainbow is beautiful x

  • @melindajohnson8586
    @melindajohnson8586 Před 11 dny

    Your videos are beautiful! Thank you!

  • @labdian
    @labdian Před 14 dny +2

    I was waiting for this video! ❤

  • @CharlotteUnser
    @CharlotteUnser Před 8 dny

    I made a small pond in our little yard....It is so important to have a good pump and careful set up. I made the mistake of putting my pond under a tree which looked very nice, but always there were too many leaves falling into the pond and clogging up the pump!

    • @nikkydegraaf
      @nikkydegraaf  Před 5 dny

      Thank you for the tips. I have some experience building larger ponds and I will probably not start working on this in the next weeks. It will be just for aesthetics, I will not put any animals in the pond and it's going to be very shallow.

  • @sherrylong946
    @sherrylong946 Před 11 dny

    I loved this video! The guinea pig enclosure is looking great. You always seem to have good ideas and then you’re so good at putting things together from your mind to the finished product. I think you’re a very brave person to open yourself and your life to us. I love seeing how you live, what you’re up to and hearing you talk to us. I feel like I’m visiting a friend when your video comes on. There will always be negative people in this world, but don’t even give them a thought. Usually they are just miserable with their own lives and this is why they feel the need to try and bring others down. You’re amazing. How’s mama cat doing? Is she ready to have those kittens? Keep up the good work and please keep sharing. Your friend from WV, USA - Sherry

    • @nikkydegraaf
      @nikkydegraaf  Před 10 dny +1

      Thank you so much! Most of the times I just try things out for the first time, sometimes it works, sometimes it doesn't, but I always learn from it! Thank you so much for your kind words, it really means a lot to me. You are so right about the negative people, I just need to get used to it a bit more, it's still all very new for me. I'm so happy you like my videos. Well, about the mama cat... I have an update in the video coming this Sunday. A very big update. Thank you for following along! ❤️

  • @terryjones6636
    @terryjones6636 Před 13 dny

    Your videos are so beautiful & enjoyable 😍Keep them coming 👍😍

    • @nikkydegraaf
      @nikkydegraaf  Před 11 dny

      Thank you so much! I will post a new video every Sunday, thank you for the support! ❤️

  • @mhopi9744
    @mhopi9744 Před 14 dny

    I enjoyed the video. Kp up the beauty, bold n confidence 🙏🙏❤❤

  • @SharonGeorge-kb9wu
    @SharonGeorge-kb9wu Před 11 dny

    I love the flowers on your porch, and I have never seen that stuff you put on your strawberries?. I find your videos really relaxing x

    • @nikkydegraaf
      @nikkydegraaf  Před 10 dny

      Thank you! In Dutch we call it: vla. It has a vanilla taste and it's a bit like yoghurt. I'm happy you like my videos ❤️

  • @TheUnnur81
    @TheUnnur81 Před 9 dny

    Wow 😊 Beautiful place you've got there❤ I just subscribed, and send you and your animals mucl love from Iceland 😊❤

    • @nikkydegraaf
      @nikkydegraaf  Před 8 dny

      Thank you so much! I really appreciate it! ❤️

  • @susanmurphy1986
    @susanmurphy1986 Před 7 dny

    You just showed up in my CZcams feed this week… most likely because I was watching some videos of a man & his wife building an off grid cabin. Nice to meet you, I’m Susan and I live in the US in Wisconsin. I’m recovering from an injection in my hip and also have 3 back fractures.. one is almost 29 years old and gives me the most trouble…

    • @nikkydegraaf
      @nikkydegraaf  Před 6 dny +1

      Hello Susan, I'm happy to have you here, thanks for watching and leaving comments, it means a lot to me! I hope you feel better soon, it makes me sad to hear you don't feel well. ❤️

    • @susanmurphy1986
      @susanmurphy1986 Před 6 dny

      @@nikkydegraaf thank you, that’s very kind. I am trying to sit more today and will attempt a shower. Your English is very good by the way! 💐

    • @susanmurphy1986
      @susanmurphy1986 Před 5 dny

      @@nikkydegraaf it’s a little better today, thank you! I hope to walk outside and look at my beautiful flowers 🌺

    • @nikkydegraaf
      @nikkydegraaf  Před 2 dny +1

      That makes me happy, thank you for letting me know ♥️

  • @JanOGran-pf8kl
    @JanOGran-pf8kl Před 13 dny

    🤗🤗🤗

  • @joannekelly8550
    @joannekelly8550 Před 14 dny +2

    I think I've asked before if you have a veggie garden?

    • @nikkydegraaf
      @nikkydegraaf  Před 13 dny +1

      No veggie garden yet, only the greenhouse to learn a bit about it. Just taking my time with it.

  • @MarkNieuwenhuizen
    @MarkNieuwenhuizen Před 14 dny +3

    Kiddos too for your English. Clearly not native but above average even in spontaneous talks

  • @Brenda-m4g
    @Brenda-m4g Před 3 dny

    Please get someone to filter your negative, crappy, troll comments and block the shit because you are very good in every way in my opinion.

  • @susanmurphy1986
    @susanmurphy1986 Před 7 dny

    Your strawberries look delicious, unfortunately I am allergic to them… was curious what was in the carton you put on top… a type of yogurt?

    • @nikkydegraaf
      @nikkydegraaf  Před 6 dny +1

      In Dutch we call it: vla. It has vanilla taste, and it's a bit similar to yoghurt.

    • @susanmurphy1986
      @susanmurphy1986 Před 6 dny

      @@nikkydegraaf I get my milk in cartons like that, to put in my morning tea ☺️ I just googled it, it seems to be like the UK 🇬🇧 custard with vanilla. My father was born & raised there. 💐