Retirement Success: 10 Questions Every Retiree Should Be Asking
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- čas přidán 29. 05. 2024
- Are you getting close to retirement? Just thinking about retirement? Years away, but dreaming about retirement? Here are 10 questions you need to answer to make your retirement a success.
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Joke i heard - how do retirees tell it's the weekend? There aren't any doctor's appointments
For some sadly, it's kind of true
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So true! 😂
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Though my husband passed away in 2022, I finally went through his desk this Memorial Day. The good Lord kept me at this task that I had evaded for all this time. It truly was a day of memories. My husband was a Vietnam Vet, a community college administrator, proud dad, and loving grandfather. He took ALL your points very seriously and worked very hard to secure a comfortable, enjoyable retirement. He even had a file on improving his golf strokes as well as the use of his cameras. I am so thankful he enjoyed his retirement even as his health was declining.
Your insights and reflections are right on. Thank you for sharing.
My condolences on your loss. 💔
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I'm so sorry for your loss- if it helps, it sounds like you did a better job than I did. My husband passed just prior to 2018 and I had to clean out his office within 2 weeks- which sounds longer than it seemed, given the circumstances. I did a terrible job, & when I went back into his office to 'congratulate' his replacement, there on the top shelf of the replacements bookcase was a small frame I immediately recognized & had missed. It's a very unusual frame- one my husband bought to put my photo in. I couldn't say a word about it- he had a photo of his daughter in it. I went into the walk-in closet where they had 'stored' all my husband's books (not something I wanted) and they were just thrown in, some torn. My friend was with me, which was fortunate because I burst into tears...all I could think of was the books were treated disrespectfully, as was my husband's ill body, as medical mistakes made was the reason he passed. He worked where he passed, in his hospital. I pray your heart is soothed more each month that goes by. ❤️💕
@@Good-DaySunshine praying for your peace of mind (and heart) regarding the handling of your deceased husband's things under such time constraints. Praying that your good memories will replace these harder ones. You are kind to share. Thank you.
I started water colour painting when I retired. I also go to the gym group classes. I like meeting the other people and I’ve found my gang of people who look for me to show up. So I work out but I also have a social aspect of physical fitness.
I start my class today.
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Great video. Another guy I watch about retirement top tips is “Retire to something, not from something”
Great advice!
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My biggest adjustment was figuring out who I was. My identity had always been tied to my career. I went through a sort of grieving process but by employing some of the things you mentioned I got through it. Now I don't know how I found time to work. 😂
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Once I was in my 50s, I feared being layoff. That was the major reason I saved so much money. For me, it was never a career, it was a job. A job that served its purpose, financial security.
My father died at 60, I planned to retire asap.
Take small steps, evaluate previous steps, then plan the next steps and where the steps lead you. Smaller and slower steps get me to my best future. It's ok to be the turtle, I will be happy, thankful, and comfortable.
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Hi, Tim! I enjoy your videos very much. For every person who retires there are that number of ways to make it work. As my sister always says, "You, do you!" I'm thankful God will never let me go through anything in my life, alone. He was with me through severe injuries, cancer and more. I have no fear he is with me in retirement. Thanks for the words of encouragement and have a lovely day, Tim!
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I have only posted two comments on CZcams and I need to get better at that because I have learned a lot from content creators. You have a phenomenal way on speaking to real life. I am 57 and looking to retire at 60 and your channels resonate with me. You hit a lot of real people points whether it is minimalism, retirement thoughts, living life through a lens of not make believe social media life is the real deal. I appreciate your content and what you do has an impact on people like myself. Real life is the way to being happy. I look forward to all of your videos on all of your channels. While I am not a photography enthusiast I enjoy your work and how you explain it. Just real stuff and I really enjoy your work.
Thank you!
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I retired 11 years ago and have NEVER looked back or regretted doing it. My husband and I traveled internationally in the beginning but are unable to do so now due to his health issues. But, roadtrips within the US are still possible. I started a hobby crafting business with my bff. I dove into gardening, something I was not able to do while I was working. I stayed connected with work friends, reconnected with my middle school group by joining their breakfast club which meets once a month, and stayed active with my siblings (7) doing community volunteering. Since I am safekeeping my granddaughter's piano while she works on her 2nd masters degree at George Washington University, I decided to learn how to play it. Some people think I'm nuts for creating a cleaning schedule for my home which enables me to spend a few hours on it daily and then the rest of the day is mine to do as I please. By Thursday, my home is clean and I now have Friday, Saturday and Sunday to "play". However, I think I checked all the boxes except the Legacy question. I hadn't thought about that. Thanks for bringing it up! My oldest son will retire in a year and I will share your list with him. I'm sure it will be helpful. Thx Tim.
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I retired from the school system 2 years ago at 62. That wasn't my original plan but the sudden onset of a health issue necessitated early retirement. I'd based who I was with my job - which I suddenly didn't have any more. These two years have been very eye-opening...and I'm still not sure who I am (lol) or what day it is. Baby steps.
Thank you for your words of wisdom. Have a wonderful Thursday, or Friday, or...whatever day it is 🤔 13:47
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The first year of retirement sucked big time. I missed being the go to for fixing problems. I’m adjusting but slowly. Hobbies are I’m an artist and enjoy painting. I’m in an exercise class four days a week. Purpose is still a fleeting thing. I’m retired from Department of Transportation. I did love my job.
You say “Hermit” like it’s a bad thing.
Great video that I have flagged to watch again. I’m getting very close to retirement and may use these question as checklist to building a healthier retirement. ( After I’ve gone hermit for a short while and unplugged!)
Temporary Hermit can be a good thing!
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Before I retired, I had taken multiple training classes on preparing for retirement. Secretly I laughed at the idea that anyone would feel lost and unsettled as I have a number of hobbies and interests. But guess what? When I was retired, I felt depressed and adrift. Fortunately, after a couple of months, I got a part-time job that was fulfilling. I consider myself a retired person with a part-time job. If they still want me after my contracted term, I will ask for fewer hours though. - As far as routine, unless I'm ill or had a big event the previous day, I'm up by 7 AM. I love mornings, and they are the most productive for me. I downsized many years before retiring. I came to your channel for the decluttering videos, as I am currently re-decluttering. Maybe not quite "Swedish death" level, but if I have to leave upright or feet first, there will be little for anyone to have to bother with.
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I re-sell on E-Bay. I did it the last 5 years of working mostly things around the house but a year before retirement I started going to thrift stores to find things to flip. Now I go to yard sales and estate sales too. This keeps my driving, computer, accounting skills active as well as my brain. I learn the streets around town and what is good to sell. I love retirement. I was so bored working for someone else. Now I work for myself.
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@barbarkin Very smart. Maybe you can start a CZcams channel, people have sales in live chats, others show what the bought and how much profit they made. That type channel draws in a lot of people! If you want the channel names just let me know.
ive watched you since retirement and am impressed how you are mKing the most of your retirement.
I too make sure i do something mental, physical, spiritual, and have found much joy in painting travel and ballroom dancing.
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This was a great video. I'm your age and I'm right where you are. I use to be an extravert now an introvert.
Honestly, I'm ok with mundane chores and day to day stuff. I'm a minimalist with a passion for gardening but with the way the culture is, I just don't have a desire to go be "busy".
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Congrats on reaching 50k subs! What a great accomplishment!
Thanks so much!
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Thanks so much for this, it is very helpful for where I am right now. I retired two months ago, and we have transitioned to a retirement community that is coincidentally in the city where my wife and I were born and raised. I will use these questions to help me better negotiate this major transition. Many Thanks,
Like you, I retired from education one year ago! I think that's why your videos came up in my CZcams feed. It's been a journey so far. I've been grateful for your channel!
Thank you!
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I “retired” from being a stay-at-home mom 10 years ago and I still feel like I am somewhat wandering around aimlessly. I’m still doing a lot of the things I’ve always done but minus two kids and school stuff. I’ve done this and that throughout the years and I have my hobbies but I still feel like I’m wasting time. I need to get a wiggle on and focus on some of the things you talked about and, hopefully, feel a little less aimless. 👍🏼🙆🏻♀️
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Great update. Very thought provoking. Thank you 🙏🏼
I just love your videos! Thank you for doing these
Great video Tim, fully agree with your 10 items. I recently heard a term to replace the word retirement which for me is a negative word. I'm embracing entering my "third age" suggesting a growing purpose in life. Steve
I like that!
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This is so helpful, thank you
Thanks Tim! Nearly nine years in (unbelievably) and I can say it's been a journey, something of a roller coaster to be honest. Covid didn't help. I think the hardest of the 10 questions for me is purpose. [I don't really think about legacy figuring I'll be dead and won't care--ha ha.] But purpose is challenging because you can't really ignore it--you do need a reason to roll out of bed. Throughout my life, ego tended to drive my sense of purpose and yet in these years, I feel I should try to lessen the ego's influence and allow for a more well-rounded personality to emerge. It's not easy. Dealing with structure (or lack thereof) has also been an issue for me. I score a bit better on some of the others, but retirement can be a challenge, no doubt. I liked when you mentioned that you plan in order to increase your ease of mind. That's something I am striving for more and more. And finding balance as you also mentioned.
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Appreciate your insights as we approach our retirement. All good suggestions to consider. I’m one of the women who worry that my husband is planning on no self-imposed structure and looking at his purposes beyond retirement. I don’t want to see him stop learning but not really sure he’s thinking of these types of things and I want for us to remain “young” in our mind/body as long as possible. Your video gave me conversation points! Thanks
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Excellent advice! One needs to have something to retire TO. ❤
Schedule naps. Priority one.🤓👍🏻 good video Tim .
Great video. Thank you for validating and the advice.
Thanks Tim. Will share this
well said great suggestions
Appreciate your thoughtful chat!
Thanks Tim bery timely.
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Congrats on 50k !
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Thanks for sharing! Have a great weekend! 🙂😘❤
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Congratulations on your 50k! 😊🎉
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Good job my friend I retired back in Feb. loved every second of it. Many good tips. Keep up the good work. You are truly making a difference 😎👍
Great video, Tim! I'll probably take a photography class at UTC when I retire. Come on 2028! :)
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This video was perfect! I was just starting to feel discombobulated a little (5 months into the process) and this really helped ground me. You amaze me with the videos. I really don't know how you do it. Thanks for sharing. ❤
Glad it was helpful!
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I’m so grateful that I’ve always had an intense curiosity. I enjoy learning and gaining what I call the wisdom in life. Thanks for the straight talk! Xo
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My husband and I joke because we don’t know how we managed to work. Retirement is busy. We have a slew of grandkids and I have my sidekick school nurse job one day a week. But we do have times we get bored. We love to camp and hang out with my sisters and brother-in-laws. Our moms need us at this point so that gets thrown into the daily mix too. This was a great video and gave me a few things to think about! It is apparent you put much time and thought into all you do! Thank you❤
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This is very insightful information. Makes me think about taking watercolors class. I start my gym class today at local park district. Thanks for making the video. I feel your helping others.
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Congratulations on 50K.
Thank you!
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Hi Tim, this is the first time that I have seen one of your videos. I must say that I found it at just the right time and you have inspired me. I am semi retired and in the process of getting my house ready for sale in preparation for my downsizing. I'm finding the choice of where to retire to overwhelming . You have given me some food for thought, so thank you. I shall subscribe and hopefully use your good advice as I make my next moves.
Thanks and welcome!
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Oh NO! Are we going to have a pop quiz about this, T.T.?
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I work 3 days a week on average which seems perfect. I am a very routine person, i try to have one day a week where i have nowhere to be, no appointments, and do whatever i want on that day, even if that is yard work all day, it is what i feel like doing. I fo like my alone time and need that. Most people, family included think i am an extrovert, but I’m not. I like people and consider myself a people person and can pretty much talk to anyone. But i like more one on one, small groups of people i know. Your points in this video are spot on 😊
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My first year off work was 2020. It was October before I chose to take a full year off to avoid sickness, and it took the whole time to get used to being off. But you made a ton of very good points
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Love the idea of auditing a class
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Blessed to be able to retire early, and two months away from retiring from a very stressful corporate executive position I have held forcalmost 20 years. I look forward to my time being my own, but know I will need to find another way to feel like I am making an impact. Thank you for your thoughts and suggestions.
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I'm learning French and play two or three different word games
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I relate to everything you have said in this video. Motivation is sometimes hard to start, but these 10 questions are a start. Most I have done, but a few are just hard to start on. Great videos
Thank you.
RETIREMENT = FREEDOM "🙂"
EXCELLENT VIDEO TIM. MAYBE MORE, WILL TRULY PUT SOME THOUGHT INTO GETTING O-F-F THAT OLE' HAMSTER-WHEEL. 🐀
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Your sound has a bit of an echo today☺️
Not on my iPad…hmmm
Interesting. 🤷♂️
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That was fun❤ I am so far from retirement, is not even funny... But never too early