How To Overcome The Fear Of Success
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Have you ever found yourself on the verge of success and noticed things starting to fall apart? You might have the fear of success. Listen closely to Multi-Millionaire, Dan Lok, on how to overcome this fear.
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I think this video missed one thing that is to mention my name, most of your words described exactly what I going through,
This video along motivate me to act now for something ready from a while but I wasn't know why I'm procrastinate, please Mr.Dan continue on this subject to learn more about overcome this fear..
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Fear of success is something that I think people don’t think about. I think most people just believe there is fear of failure, but fear of actually doing well and not knowing how to handle it is something that I feel I have.
Exactly Dylon.
and Fear of the unknown and unfamiliar
Spot on brother
harooni22 exactly! I never had the words to explain what it was I felt. "I feel problems come with more money" well put. Diagnosis is a step closer to cure.
Again true, with success you are on unfamiliar grounds: "now you have money and now you have to know where to put your money to get 1. more tax deductions 2. More interest 3. protect it from scammers etc. etc.
Addicted to drama, sounds scary, but true. Please do more videos on how to get comfortable with success. Thank you.
I feel like I have this fear of success because sometimes when I find out that the method I have tried works I suddenly freeze and get scared. I start to overthink and my doubts start to creep in..sometimes I feel relieved when someone cancels a call because I'm not confident in doing calls but I know I have to overcome that fear for me to become truly successful..I want to be successful for my family and for myself..it's like a battle I always have in my mind..appreciate your videos, Dan.
Same here 😐
sameeee until onetime I tried to cancel the appointment but my internet went out then they called me and at that point I thought I was f*cked but god was doing his miracles
You got it right out of me.
That's the description of my experience.
Same:/
It's funny because as I continue on my path I think what scares me the most is the success of dissolving my identity. It's almost like throwing away everything you've spent so much time building. How can I just throw "myself" away like that? The attachment. The resistance to change. Resistance to evolution....
@@jewbacca7777 nicely explained..loved it 💙
@@jewbacca7777 this has helped me better than the videos. Thank you.
You are you. It's the criticism and down pulling by your parents, teachers and other people who have given you the identity of smallness. But you're expansion allow your expansion.
I am aware of my sabotage. Relationships dont last. You nailed it right on the head. I think the only thing that is holding me back is fear of success.
Holy Shit! You've hit the bull's eye Dan. I'm spiritual, I meditate and stuff, read and follow a lot of self-help books and materials,.. But nowhere I got this blatant TRUTH. I've been struggling all through my career, full of highs and lows, always sabotaging when I got what I struggled for - by messing with supiriors' ego, getting low and over confident, getting into unnecessary trouble at work place, and what not. All this while I thought it's my lack of discipline, and I'm always working on it (forever), been so hard on myself. I am a high IQ multiple talented person, and for me to be struggling all the time, when i should be doing "real stuff" makes me sick to my stomach.
And you tell me this. Just like that.
I think today is the day that will change my life. God bless you.
Love, Vinita. 😃
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I think some people become addicted to failure as a way of life because there is so much social proof of it everywhere and most people just want to fit in. Our identity can be a terribly hard habit to break. Ironically, people who feel inferior often do better because they are trying to compensate for their shortcomings and then work harder at success. People who have experienced trauma may associate the excitement of success with the same physiological reactions as trauma. They avoid subjecting themselves to excitement-inducing circumstances, which causes them to be almost phobic about success. There are many more reasons including the most obvious which is that most people are just not intelligent enough to be successful. Either way, everyone, no matter who they are, can always do better if they simply commit themselves to self improvement as a way of life. Thanks Dan for your continuing great advice!
Well said Louis
That success fear is real! Omg everytime I'm about to move onto the next level, something happens. Dan please do a video.
I was thinking about that just today, I was consumed by the thought that success must be overwhelming and intimidating. And Dan, as always your words fall right in place and suddenly everything makes sense. Self-esteem is the foundation of all success. We all would really appreciate it if you can touch more on the subject. The content you put out is absolutely PRICELESS! Thank you so much.
When you have ups and downs its not only fear of success. Its loosing the intrinsic motivation by reaching a set of a goal. When you are low on money and high in debt, you aim to get out of debt and finally break even. But when you reach the motivational turning point of breaking even and dont have your goal actualized from running away from something daunting to running towards something positive like akkumulating assets and still raising your income, you will loose motivation and enter disorientation. Like a runner reaching his goal and pausing. As soon as you near your turning point, adapt your navigation and set your new course.
My father was that type. He succeeded so much but was addicted to struggle and he didn’t have enough self esteem to continue! I learned from him. I learn always; from what he did right and from he did wrong for me not repeating his same mistakes. I love my father ❤
I need to eliminate the lack of self-esteem and grow my self-love, and have the feeling of deserving success in all areas of my life. thank you! you really helping me!
I believe the social structure flourished ( and still does) by promoting beliefs of unworthiness, giving people feelings of low self esteem. If people don’t feel good about themselves they will never rise above their allotted station in life.
We all have a inbuilt spirit who’s purpose is to move us towards our higher calling.
Moving past the struggle into the flow, requires us to become aware of our self sabotaging beliefs, then pay attention to what we THINK, SAY, & DO, becoming conscious is the greatest step towards self growth.
When we think of success, the image can create excitement, but it will bring to the surface our greatest fears, and this can stop us in our tracks.
It’s like moving from slavery to freedom, slavery is the old benefits, freedom the new, so in order to move, come back and plan some small doable goal, then bit by bit like building a house one brick at a time, a new reality will be manifested.
Success comes from overcoming obstacles, one day at a time, one step at a time.
Life is a journey let us enjoy the process 😍
There are so many people who are afraid and fear to be great especially me because it seems like the whole world 's burden will be on you
Dan, can you make a video about the difference between "working" and "hustling", cause I found that a lot of people mix between the two!
Youssef, watch this czcams.com/video/SKIu0fcEh9s/video.html
And also my behavioural pattern for fear of success is one of the things you said. “Always waiting for things to be perfectly aligned to take action” I literal got all the tools, education from top entrepreneurs and start up money to start my business but I find my myself not taking action and my excuse is “it’s not the right time” lol
Thanks for this Dan. I discovered a month ago that I was afraid of success. I will love to know more about how to overcome it. It's really affecting my life and education.
Hello Ngum Abi! I'm like you, it's so frustrating!!! I wish you can be successfull too, you deserve it, we all deserve happiness and success!
I started out being scared of success, and even know I still work full time and the business is still in its infancy I welcome whatever comes because I’ve been liberated from complacency and my clients ROCK
I would a hundred million percent love you to talk more on this topic and about getting comfortable with success.
I have always felt afraid of success, and still struggling. The most annoying thing about it is that people think it's silly and dramatic, but it's so real and scary to me. Besides, I haven't just decided to be afraid of success; it is rooted in my subconscious because of early associations of success with negative outcomes.
I'm working to overcome it one step at a time.
Yes please, more ways to get comfortable with success!
Yes Dan please make more videos on this. Thank you. ❤😀
The topic of my paragraph called, “Believing in the Dream of Success”.
Love 💕 all your powerful wisdom, knowledge, talents, etc. that you share with the global community.
I’m also a Karen refugee Immigrant from Thailand. All your contributions have a positive impact on my life. I do see my success in future, but haven’t reach it yet!
Thank you so much Mr. Dan Lok. God bless you and your family with peace and prosperity. 🙏🙏
This video hits me personally right between the eyes. I have actually been contemplating this subject for a while and I know where the root cause comes from, the fear of the kind of person that I would become if super successful. Every word you mentioned about the fear of success in this video is true. If I didn't know better, I would think that I just had an real conversation with you about the subject. Thank you for this video.
Addicted to the ups and downs and the struggles. It is so true, I was here for 1-2 years after dropping out of college. And it was exactly by developing my self-esteem and confidence did I got out of this. Fantastic video. You're helping people through the most insightful videos. They're uniquely one-of-a-kind. Thank you, Dan!
Very deep stuff sifu!!
Total eye opener !!
Thank you for sharing
Fear of failure is the fair of success because every successful person has a painful story behind...
That's why I will never surrender no matter what happen....
Your videos is very helpful to guide me how to become successful....
Dress for success!
It's not the addiction to struggles its that they don't feel worthy of receiving riches so they block them. You touched on it with the self-esteem/self-worth.
Yes, Sifu Lok, please develop the video on becoming comfortable with success.
I would like to see the video on the fear of success, please.
This is probably one of the most important videos from you sir that I've watched. I've struggled for decades with fear of success and at this point of my life (I'll be 55 April 19th) I'm more than ready for a change. I've had some good successes in my life but I know I want more. I'm beyond tired of sabotage myself and I want to be successful. Mr Lok can you please do more videos on how (strategy wise) to overcome fear of success. I have taken notes while watching this video (i.e. Dress for Success on a daily basis and change my mentality). I've already downloaded your F. U. Money book & awaiting the release of Unlock It very soon. Thank you sir for your time & wisdom. Looking for towards watching more of your videos & reading your new book.
This video is so profound. Thank you. "Addicted to the struggles". I am that person who is waiting for something to be perfect. I am working on a blog and have been working on it for years now without making it public. It is getting ridiculous. :-) I am now trying to work on the things that are holding me back. I think I am afraid of success...PLEASE do talk about this some more.
The first step is to recognize it. The second step is to watch this video: czcams.com/video/tilA5Y-MUB4/video.html
You're awesome. x Thank you.
I am addicted to finding the truth about success and how to solve problems but once I got the answer I don't take actions because I seek more truth and more answers instead. I also make friends primarily on how much they can validate my intellectual discoveries instead of how much they can help me succeed. Now I am working on changing. Dan is one of the first person who introduce the concept about self esteem to me that make sense I never really understood it before. Low self-esteem cost me a lot I was never believing I was ready so I kept seeking more knowledge instead of sieging the opportunities as they come
Thanks man. I've never watched you before but this was something that's been on my mind as I release my first video game, and it really helped break down some of my feelings and behavior lately.
If I'm working for myself I give it 16 to 20 hours.I don't wait for profection. I will take a chance. So, I don't see myself as afraid of success or failure. But, I don't like dealing with banks. They're not going to give a loan. I have financed two businesses out of my own pocket and looking for a third. However, that doesn't mean I couldn't use a mentor, because I don't know everything. I remain open to learn.
I needed tk see this, I started a fitness Instagram and was about to quit at 3500 followers bc I was afraid of what I didnt know... Great Video again Dan Loc I will continue it what I needed
Just hit 4.5 k still going strong 💪🏽 Thanks Dan
I wrote that in my book. Self-image is your foundation. Confidence, power, success, and fulfillment are centered around your self-image.
Damn Dan! That was probably the most powerful video that I have watched. Thank you for taking the time and making these videos. At first I was put off by the level of confidence that you portray. I've been watching your videos for about a month and I can really see your personality. I believe you give more insight and understanding on the mindset and thinking than any other motivation speaker or professional sales trainer that I have seen or heard. I would like to know your thoughts on when someone is so successful and they know whatever they put their mind to it will be successful but yet lack the motivation to do that. I don't know if I'm making sense. I wish I could afford the phone call to you. Thank you again and please keep it up.
Welcome Don.
Thank you Dan for everything. God will bless you🙏 I haven’t encountered anything like this online before.
I was struggling for almost a year trying to make money online, I got customers but was always broke. Then when I encountered one of your videos about high ticket sales, I recently decided to start my own luxury brand online.
And I followed all your steps for my website. I literally read FU Money everyday to change my mindset and get motivation because most people around me aren’t supportive. It’s hard to get support.
So many people try to remind me of where I come from yet I’m so excited about where I’m going.
If I manage to make my first sale, I’ll defiantly pay for the high ticket sale course because you helped me. And hopefully one day I’ll meet you to thank you. 🙏
Great video Dan. It's crazy that people just get comfortable in the struggle/failure. That's their area of certainty and the possible success upon success is the uncertainty so they avoid it at all costs. When you are at home doing work, are you also wearing a suit?
I came here because thats how i feel today . I kinda fear of success . Thank you Dan for having this video . I learn that SELF ESTEEM is the foundation of SUCCESS. I deserve success. Cheers to everyone who are aspiring to be successful.
This video was really impacting!!! Can you do more on this topic? I would really appreciate it
Hey Dan, Liked, Subscribed, been watching your stuff for two weeks now. I share them with my friends, I rewatch a video at least twice to let it soak in, I will admit that I have fears that have been holding me back. I had a history of stumbling but I'm not going to let it happen anymore. Your advice is something I use as my inner voice at work, and it's helping me grow more. And it's not a push (getting rid of addiction to the struggle). It's taking action. It's showing results little by little already. You're doing a great service to people, Dan. I'm going to be a very regular follower of your work, and most importantly, your teaching. Much love from Trinidad & Tobago 🇹🇹
Excellent.
TALK ABOUT THE THINGS DO TO OVERCOME THE FEAR OF SUCCESS
FIRST TIME WATCHER, impressed by your insight on this, I’m a lawyer & been fighting a MULTI- Million Dollar corruption case, I’m at the Supreme Court Level & I’ve been writing & writing & writing & I assumed my block was “Learned Helplessness”, illl check out more, but this is literally a fight of GOOD vs EVIL!!!✊
Definitely..sir only watching video willnot give us success...action is needed in the direction which you told us
Running a business is an action adventure, the struggles are action and the progress and success is the adventure. I am addicted to the action and never move on the the adventure of consistent progress, more income, more power of myself, more comfort.
Do you have a podcast?
Listen to them here: www.shouldersoftitans.com/
Lok's channel is the only channel that I can give likes+thumbs up without even watching the videos 💯🔥👌
This dude is gold 😆🤘
Thank you
Yes,here I am.I'm addicted to the struggles and not always comfortable with good things and really want to change it and wish me luck.
Dan Lok you have laser vision into the psyche behind success at so many levels. You are a man of wisdom beyond most. And of course, this is the reason for your success in the various areas of life. I appreciate that you have set yourself up in a way that shares what you know. Who would have guessed that people are afraid of success, it is counter intuitive but REAL. Much gratitude for all that you share.
Mr. Lok, you are on fire🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥!!! Please do more videos on the fear of success AND overcoming the fear of success!!!
The emotion and the feeling that comes with looking better just simply takes out the obstacle, now one doesn't have to worry about how people judge you for the way you
dress....and that takes one a long long way. Recognise it and make it work to your advantage.
By dressing well, you have already distinguished yourself....people already think you are SUCCESSFUL !
Dan, I like you said:’ get comfortable with success. Believe this is something, its part of who you are. It’s your identities.”. I like you every video I watched. Thank you so much for you made them.
When I saw the title of this video I thought, seriously? Who's actually afraid of success? But having listened to you explain it I realise, maybe I might be?
This video was talking directly to me. I am very competent and overdue for success but my fear has been holding me back due to the new unknown responsibilities and a way higher plane to fall from grace flat on my face. To have everyone in my family counting on me in a major way gives me anxiety if I ever reach success.
I used to think I was afraid of failure and had zero fear of success. Until a friend came up to me with a guaranteed successful business. And I panicked. I literally had a massive panic attack that left me unable to function. Now, I know that's a fear of success. Thank you for this video. I have to work on getting rid of that self-sabatoge because I'm so done being poor.
I know this has been me. I had believed -- for so long -- that I was bout worthy of success. I am slowly changing that....and I do wear a suit most days....for the very reason you stated. Thanks for putting all of these videos out there...they are much appreciated.
I think I have fear of success , not because of addicted to struggle, but because of self sabotage. I start with lots of motivation then when something starts to go well, or I get close to finishing something, something goes wrong and I stop. Not just in business but other areas of my life too.
Thanks, Dan. You've finally filled in the blanks for me.
I realised that the harder I worked to improve my ex-fiancee and me's lot in life - and we were reaping the rewards socially and materially - was the harder she tried to stifle our progress. And this never made sense to me.
We'd always spoken about me (because she expressed a desire to sit it out) building our financial empire - and the realer the dream was becoming, was the more fights (from random things that weren't even our problems, relationship-wise) surfaced.
At least now your explanation makes sense to me why I always thought she was self-sabotaging, to the point that it was affecting me negatively.
After ruining things several times, she'd always go out of her way to play hero. But she'd also always find a way to play victim during our most monumental successes.
Izzo, appreciate you sharing your story. I'm glad you were able to understand more of her psychology.
Wow "addicted to struggle" hit me hard out of no where that describes me perfectly. I need to change that now.
Fuck yes, Dan.
My father has had low self-esteem for most of his life and it made him terrified of success. It’s awful to watch someone you love, but also someone you can’t really respect.
This makes me want to put my comfort zone into the unknown, so that I can attract what's good for my success and make success my identity.
I can see this becoming the most popular series you make on youtube; a simple concept of taking a car ride, talking one on one listening to some of the most valuable straight forward answers to burning questions about how to be successful. This is a gem of an idea.
People say: there is no such thing as fear of success.
I used to be that person, now i realise that, people that say that never came close to success.
Because I'm having that feeling right now.
I won't fuck it up, I'am doing my best to ignore this feeling.
Just Looking at Dan. I See What it takes to be successful. Maintaining that Same Level of Hardwork that we don’t like. Looking Good all the time, showing up everyday to your business. It reallly is something to be feared about. Because you have to show up and maintain that success for the rest of your life or else it will all go away.
I believe fear of success ties in with guilt, guilt of advancing and not lacking while others around you are not advancing and are lacking in many ways.
My biggest fear is losing myself. I’m definitely not afraid of failure because I have done it many times and fixed the situation. I want to stay grounded.
I lost being fearless when I was a freshman in high school all because I let someome talk down on me every little fuck up I did when I was trying to do my best at practices. I never gave it my all ever since then but was still part of the team and teamates looked at me as a captain cause of my voice and yelling and just feeling the need to dominate the fuck out the other team, I ended up getting injured my last year of high school and couldn't play my last tournament of the season and all because i wasn't fearless...I hate regreting but Ive been exploring the entrepreneurial world from good to bad cause I feel the need to stop being shy and yell and let my story be out there to always be fearless and just fuck it go all in! Thanks Dan for the videos you and your team create!
Nicolas, don't let anyone hold you back from success. Especially haters. Go all in.
Being addicted to the struggle, « challenging and hard way of life » is my issue. My parents always taught me hard work, but there’s actually smart work too. I realized that after starting my career as an employee...
I didn't realise this at all. Thank you Sifu Dan. #Believe There was a time I got famous, got praised and was supported. But with these it comes with the haters. I was hugely affected by it when I was young at 16. I didn't know all these success brought me so much "pain". I didn't want to be special but soon I realised people says what they want to say. You cannot change their own beliefs but you can control what happens in your life. We should not struggle to fit in but be at ease with being ourselves. Be who you really are and be at your best potential, those who will stay will stay. Thumbs up Sifu.
It is not exactly fear to success but the horror of reach it and then lose it...
The fear of the pain of lost the things they love and want, fear of lose the control.
But they are not aware that the control of everything beggins in the self knowledge
I just asked you this yesterday and this showed up.... I can realy feel how youtube is spying on people. Thanks Dan.
You are absolutely right. Something that we even fear to accept that we actually fear the success.
Since i started watching your Videos my fear of success disappeared.Thanks Dan😘😘
This is me on everything, unfortunately. I broke up with my boyfriend because I was afraid that it was going too well and I didn't know what was going to happen next. I regret it but now I can't go back. I have a bad tendency to do this with school and work-related situations as well. Thank you for this mind-opening video.
As strange as it may sound, this video is one of the best videos by Dan Lok, it touches on the subject of a strange and somehow incomprehensible and inexplicable behaviour of “fear of success” and the subconscious sabotage of success.
That wearing a suit thingy is real good. Gets you comfortable with success. Also the addicted to struggling part. I'm gonna write these two things down, I can't forget them. Sometimes you do and it's nice for someone like Dan to remind you.
Thank you darling. I just found you today because I'm trying to understand my brother who is afraid of life. I see him like a Angry Ostrich. You just helped me so much💋
I was doing this. Fucking up every interview. I'm an excellent programmer not gonna lie and source of my confidence is my skills. I was applying for very high pay positions and once some rounds would clear I would start feeling terrified and discontinued from the process myself. I was feeling that feeling just now with yet another interview process and the thought occurred to me ― Am I feeling fear of success? Then I looked it up if fear of success is even a thing and stumbled upon this video. And just admitting that my fear is a fear of success and not failure made me very confident. Thank you so much. I'll give my all in this interview process no matter how much things change after that.
Thank you Dan I was once struggling and suet being the fixer I would call myself.. Now that I worked to become success it's been hard for me to embrace the new success I have incorporated into my life. I didn't realize I was fearing success. Wow I feel so much better. Now I have my answer from you. I finally can go forward and not being in fear of success.THANK YOU DAN:)
Oh master I've never think like that! You are always telling things that never told before. And I know I have to think and realize those things on my own, in my whole life. But this one was the real deal, like no one asks themselfs "What if I am not as smart as I consider?", the question about fear of succes is the same way. Nobody would admit that at the first try. Thanks a lot, there is so much value in this video, with your words.
Hi Dan. I have been watching your videos for some time now and up until seeing this one I had no idea that I had “fear of success”. I originally was going to start a business with my close friend but she kept holding us back, causing delays and shooting down all my ideas. But I’ve now decided I’m going to do it on my own because I did all the research, I put in the hours and I came up with the idea and the financing. I’m so glad that you make these videos as you have helped me so much. I’m going to get incorporated this week after over a year of preparation and waiting. Thank you so much!!!!
I'm experiencing this since long, actually I use to procrastinate nd when I start doing well m just overexcited like I can win this world or what if i get higher grades . But whatever it's self destruction 🤧🤧🤧🤧🤧 I wish no one feel in same way
I am addicted to the struggle its right. And I fear success. But now I am going to be comfortable with success
Good Kue.
Omg this is it. I once had someone tell me that people who are dependent, the people that support them, are also addicted to be depended on. Wow how true that being dependent on the feeling of lack. Wowow
I had no idea why I'm acting exactly like the examples in the video. No one was perfectly honest like you untill this moment. Thank you for the different point of view and I want more videos of how to be comfotrable with success.
all what you said ... i could relate to that...
because when i don't struggle or work really hard on my project or business deliveries... i feel that i have not done enough and i could do better... whereas .. so many times it is not required only...
many thanks for this video sir...
It is easier to dream about success rather than take a chance and get it. Then maybe lose it all! I have a poster that says 'Stop worrying about what can go wrong and start getting excited about what can go right'
So true! Success is an acquired taste. Give up the addiction to struggle. If the company dress code is jeans and corporate T-Shirts, wear some fly ass shoes, have a great hair cut and on point personal grooming!
Some people fear success, because they have experienced sudden loss or betrayal that was out of their control. They sabotage their future successes because the loss was then at least caused by themselves, rather than some force outside their control. They don't trust that the success will last, so they destroy it to avoid the trauma of it happening when they least expect it.
Everyone can be successful but not everyone can be handsome. Thx for the videos and the book Dan!
It’s insane how many of these concepts apply to fitness. Just had a long session with my group coaching clients on self sabotage and we talked about this exact topic about how many people are afraid of body change and then immediately self sabotage once they see results.
Very powerful message. Fear of success is something few talk about. It is usually more the fear of failure. I’ll make a change
It's scary how much of what you says actually apply to me. The fear of the unknown, never thought of it that way.
Powerfull Dan! That's the strange paradox: fear of success because success is unknown! Being addicted to struggles can become an identity, that is known and 'safe'. Make success your identity!
Exactly Olaf
Dan. You speak of being comfortable with success when others speak of being uncomfortable to reach success. Your idea of becoming comfortable with first being uncomfortable is really a different twist. Please elaborate on how to do that. Thanks again for your wisdom.
Yes initially I thought what you say felt arrogant but I asked myself and try to confront my inner demons, and you are absolutely RIGHT! I am afraid! F**king coward me of my own success. I had small successes but why am I always playing the second fiddle, always the best man never the groom? I feel there is a cap, a ceiling I have always averted and avoided to move onto the next level. Maybe its maturity or fear now of being stuck in the middle class, I have watched a number of your videos online and slowly but surely I feel a small change, and I want to go forth and leverage more and more. Please do share with us what else can make us feel that success and be comfortable with it! Thanks man! Bless you and your crew 8)
Appreciate it Tee. Good self-reflection.
It sounds weird, but it is true. I don't know why but some people do seem to be addicted to hardship. As a language teacher, time and time again I get questions from some students about how to learn quickly and effectively, and when I show them the fastest, easiest way to do it, they are taken aback because "it can not be that simple" and stuff.
Getting comfortable with success is a needed video.