Former Connexions Coach Paige Hanna Breaks Silence! + Ruby & Jodi’s Book
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- čas přidán 25. 06. 2024
- Link to Paige’s video will be in a pinned comment 🤍
CHAPTERS
00:00 Intro
02:47 Paige Hanna’s video pt 1 reaction
18:45 Ruby & Jodi’s book
43:10 Paige’s video pt 2 reaction
01:01:09 My email exchange with Paige
01:09:42 Outro
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For the full video check out Paige Hanna’s CZcams Channel “Under the Rug” here: czcams.com/video/fHsERZzKj8s/video.htmlsi=wU6inLoMBspAJoj0
Please don’t send her hate if you want to email her - just do it for genuine questions if you’re interested in knowing more.
You are doing the damn thing!
Excellent content. Pleasant to watch , yet factual and great context. Can you find info on Jodi's kids? Why she didn't get custody?
@@lilorneshare3809 lovelly Paige !
You’re my favorite tuber. So glad you take the time!
I think it should be common sense that if our parenting isn’t coming from a place of truth, honesty, courage, respect, humility, love or wisdom; that we are not doing our jobs! These are the 7 Sacred (Grandfather) Teachings! One thing I noticed was Ruby’s face on the day she was arrested compared to the day she spoke in Court! While Chad her son says he believes her, I have to question the motives of both Ruby and Kevin! There is a big question I have. I was a legal assistant for 26years and know that her lawyer would have advised her that if you’ve done something and the evidence is clear and you plead not guilty, you get more time! I listened to videos of her and Kevin’s calls! They spoke privately when she said go get the kids! He went to police station and in first interview said he trusted both Jodi and Ruby yet in the second interview I saw, he disclosed how he was kicked out, had to stay on a floor while Jodi and Ruby slept in same room, then was kicked out, I get he could have been shamed re pornography, but he clearly knew what happened in his home at the time he said he trusted them. Those things alone without the abuse of children would be enough to not trust! So now he wants a divorce and I question whether he is motivated by wanting custody of children, and if that has anything to do with not wanting the children to go to another family and more of the full truth comes out! I don’t think it’s all been disclosed! Also, Ruby and Jodi’s time in jail has not yet been established and ALL Ruby’s calls were more about how long she’d be in jail, how Jodi was denying, how Jodi had brainwashed her! Has there been any calls where she asked how her children were? I haven’t seen her do that! She is self serving and I believe Kevin and her talking prior to the arrest was filled with Ruby thinking ahead, she was caught and wanted the evidence (the children) picked up, even though she kicked Kevin out of the house and their lives claiming he wasn’t worthy!
I'm a therapist and a stay at home mom and have been following along with your coverage. You are spot on about the booklet.... there's no discussion of developmental appropriateness. You should have age appropriate expectations for your kids and support them and guide them to learn coping and emotional regulation. The tactics Jodi was using unfortunately work in creating a trauma bond, not genuine affection and love. Demanding perfection and blind obedience from children just proves you are a parent that doesn't have control of yourself. If you need your children to bear all the responsibility and burden of your demands and you can't tolerate mistakes or emotional outbursts from your children, it just tells me you need to seek your own therapy. Your children should not be responsible for your mood or the peace in your own head. Kids need to be allowed to fail, they need guidance and unconditional love not punishment and conditional love. What's most annoying is we know this. There's mountains of research about effective parenting and child development that Jodi just ignored because she was delusional. She thought she knew better despite her own mental health problems being in control. As a therapist I have no issue with nuance, thus I can have empathy for all of these people while not discounting that they are accountable for their actions. Mostly I blame the church for promoting inappropriate beliefs about mental health and refusing to denounce things like visions of glory or the way "personal revalation" is being used to justify all sorts of abuse. It breeds cult leaders and abusers and the children who have to live within it will continue to suffer.
Ahhh!!! As a therapist, and also a stay at home mom (although my kids are in 1st, 2nd, & 3rd grade now), just wanted to second everything you said!!! I was excited to see your comment❤ SPOT ON!! Are you in Utah? Or used to be LDS too?
@@BoyMama87 nah, no first hand experience, I'm in Oklahoma. I was raised catholic but I've had lots of experience with fundamentalist Christianity both personally and professionally and was always really against posting kids online. Most of my focus when I was practicing was in treating PTSD and BPD. I've just been following this case pretty closely since the initial controversy around 8 passengers came up. Even 10 years ago I would sit down all my clients and have a talk about social media, teaching all the teens about privacy settings and dangers of sexting. I'd always recommend to parents not to share personal photos or private family details online because I saw the damage of it in some of my teen clients- not trusting parents because their privacy wasn't respected, bullying at school etc. There's a lot of old school authoritarian families around here, especially some of the grandparents who became foster parents to my clients. I spent a lot of time in family sessions explaining things like "actually, taking the door of the hinges won't in fact improve this teenagers behavior." Anyhow, I've followed Mormon Stories and a few other exmo creators for years which is where most of my knowledge of the LDS church is from. I miss work so I hope to go back once both my kids are in school. Just not looking forward to redoing all my hours and testing.
Beautifully worded! I think you are spot-on. Cult leaders are narcissists have a lot in common. Narcissists are just cult leaders with a smaller group.
My sons are in their 50’s now and I have always said I loved each stage of growth more than the one before. I LOVED the toddler stage but I loved the teen years even more….it’s all a wonderful, wild ride!
The toddler stage is absolutely amazing. I love it so much and I’m trying to just soak in everyday as much as I possibly can 🤍
Me too! Good Job Momma - l loved every stage & miss my 30ish kids being little But know that l did a Fantastic job - they are happy well adjusted adults probably like your children ~ l guess we should of wrote some books 😛
Absolutely!! My only son's voice just dropped. 😍😭😍He is 14. I love the little man to pieces, even though he is a moody teenager right now, that is no longer thinking his mom is cool. 😅❤
Yes!! I too still enjoy the company of my 3 adult kids! I quit my awesome job easily to raise them and never regretted it...never!
Well done for doing a great job and enjoying it while you were at it 👏 I was trying to get my head around the fact that you have around 30 kids and that you just have a general idea of how many kids you have when I realised that you were meaning you have 30ish year old kids 😂
I found her credible. Not perfect but I believe she changed her mind about Connextions and really feels bad for the children. I haven't felt that way about Ruby's sisters so far. I hope she continues to reveal the truth about Jodi and Ruby.
Same here, I jump down people’s throat too fast sometimes because I hate the fact that they are in a CULT with the LDS to begin with..the sisters need to shut up and Pam B!! who really gets under my skin needs to start telling the truth!!😮 but I believe Paige because she got out a while back, still don’t have to like her though 😢 and people that are complaining about her shutting off comments!! LOL, I don’t blame her because people can be brutal… proof… read some comments on here!!😂
I agree
I agree with that
And to think you had just a few thousand subscribers 6 months ago and now you’re at 23K. UGh forever in awe with your dedication, the quality of your work. Just EVERYTHING. I’ve said it before & I’ll say it again I cannot waittt until you have a few million bc you deserve it!!!
Agreed! Love watching from the beginning. That how it feels warching Julie1985s channel doit too!
Thank you so much 🥲 I really wish I could get more content out right now but it’s a struggle. Grateful for you and this comment 🤍🤍
@@Jessssicadanielle take your time!! You give us enough with you high quality in depth content. I wouldn’t mind waiting however long necessary to ensure you have a good work/life balance. Family first always :)
She is great, I thought she had more than a 100k. She will be there very soon. Her videos were recommended to me.
@@Jessssicadanielle this is the first video of yours I’m watching. So I don’t know how many kids you have, aside from what you’ve mentioned here. But don’t even worry about getting more content out. It is difficult to get anything done with young kids. What you’re doing already is more than enough!! Thank you!
I do think the Hannas tried to warn Ruby because Kevin even talked about how they told people that Jodi stayed with them for six weeks and it was hell and they had to kick her out, she tried to seduce the husband, but depending on whose version you believed. Jodi was telling people they kidnapped her and she escaped.
I think they did try to warn people once they realized what was going on with Jodi and they didn’t fully realize until they had her in their home. The thing about Jodi is she’s a very talented psychopath, as her nibling Jessi has told people. And she also uses the 12 steps as part of her therapeutic model, which is a very helpful method. It combines cognitive behavioral therapy with other modalities and it can really change your life. But of course that’s just to lure you in. Then she brings in “distortion” and “shame” and that’s when the cult aspects begin to rear their ugly head. It’s just like how Scientology starts. In Scientology they go in for auditing, and it’s basic cognitive behavioral therapy too, and it helps them and they get better at first. So that’s why they don’t think it’s a bad thing and definitely not a cult.
Ruby had already cut off her whole family who tried to warn her. And as Kevin said also, Ruby was very competitive and jealous of the Hannas and their relationship with Jodi. So you know she was more than happy to replace the Hannas in Jodi’s affections. And so she blinded herself to any and all warnings about Jodi. Plus Ruby is a sadistic psychopath herself so why is anyone surprised she didn’t listen. I do believe the Hannas tried.
In your first 3 lines you use the name “Ruby”. Don’t you mean “Jodie”. You also say “nibbling Jessie” Was she chewing on Jessie. Jessie is Jodie’s niece. ❓
No I meant Ruby. Paige said she tried to warn Ruby about Jodi.
Nibling is the non-binary term for niece that I believe Jessi Hildebrandt prefers as they use they/them pronouns. Jessi is non-binary. It’s like sibling with an n.
I just noticed it autocorrected to “nibbling” when it should say nibling like sibling.
@@olderwiser64You need to reread & edit your post. The other commenter was right.
@@quicklykay I saw one Ruby that should have been Jodi & fixed that.
None of these wackjobs did anything to save those kids except Sheri. Every one who knew that those kids were being abused and did nothing should have to pay those kids.
Afraid to face the wrath of the "church endorsed" institutions.
Yes and they immediately turned on Shari… that speaks volumes
@@jeanetter3053 yup
@@jeanetter3053 yup 💯 right
Who has turned on Sheri? And how did you know they turned on her? I have been following this story and I haven’t heard anything like that
Jessica your updates on the Ruby Frankie case are very impressive. You have become one of my favorite CZcamsrs. Thank you for all the time and effort you put into each video.
I was so impressed I recommended her channel to Joel at Surviving The Survivor. Her work is exemplary. She deserves a huge following. 💕👍
I am new subscriber, she is very good. Very impressive work.
I also got help after having my daughter. I was so worried about creating the same hell for her that I felt I was in growing up. There should be ZERO shame for that. Zero. Thank you for being vulnerable about that Jessica! ❤
Wishing you the best! This isn't an easy job. It really does take a village.
I’m disgusted at women fearing having a daughter your sick like Mormons are
I was raised & baptized in LDS as a child - and I don’t mean this to be offensive, but has anyone else noticed the “Mormon” talk?? Like, the way sooo many of them speak? Seriously, close your eyes and just listen to the way this woman talks - and tell me you don’t ‘hear’ Ruby Franke, or her husband Kevin, even. Such an odd phenomena!
Exmo here. I noticed it too. I'm from CA but lived in Utah for 7 years. I do think it's more common in Utah but yes Ruby and Paige both def have it.
Yes - they use a lot of mormon buzzwords, and the passive aggressive tone.
There’s apparently an observable accent spoken by women raised in American fundamentalist churches. How women are supposed to speak (sweet, pray, obey) in these circles has resulted in a noticeable accent like a Boston accent would be developed in someone raised in Boston. I wish I could remember where I saw the linguistic breakdown but if you Google it you can probably find something on it. I’m not very good at picking out accents because my local accent in Canada is very similar to northwestern American accents, so other than the religious gobbledygook, I can’t really tell.
@@simplyixia3683 Yes I've heard about this! Like soft and meek and mild. Like Michelle Duggar. I don't think Utah LDS women do it as badly as quiverfull or maybe the polygamists, but there is definitely a "way" of speaking they have.
Yes-Paige sounds so much like Ruby, and uses the same language patterns.
Thanks @Jessssica for taking one for the team ❤ I'm a horse trainer and wouldn't ever treat my fur babies the way these people taught parenting. What a dangerous program 😡 thanks for all you do!!!
I had an awful mother, not physically abusive but just didn’t care much about me. She loved her three boys. I have two wonderful daughters and we are close. As I didn’t follow y mothers parenting.
Kevin mentioned the Hannahs are in a different cult now. 😮
Yeah….”joining the two cults together”. Wonder if they had to do this to not get excommunicated or something.
@@WyattRyeSway None of what you just said makes sense. It's fine if you don't make sense. I'm concerned about the 11 likes you got in agreaance.
@@Nopety-Nope Well, what about the comment didn’t make sense to you?
@@RendaJane The word "excommunicated" we all know is rather synonymous with the LDS church. In the instance of Jodi and Ruby, they need to be excommunicated for their own good. To not be held to some responsibility they aren't ready to have. Like being decent and humane people at the most basic level, for example.
What I want to know is what "two cults" is this commentor talking about and how on earth do they think people at Connexions are trying to join said cults in an effort to avoid excommunication? That just sounds like a very weird assumption and a complete lack of knowledge on both religion and cults.
These psychos from Connexions can not tie their evil Corp to the LDS church. They obviously tried, and they failed. There is no bringing groups together to make some sort of plea deal to avoid excommunication.
People agreeing to the comments tells me, and I know there might be more possibilities, that they have zero clue about how anything works, or they just want to be in solidarity with strangers under their own kind of hate for a group of people. Which is not far from any other misguided people willing to make others suffer or feel small... just like Jodi and Ruby.
He's quoting what Kevin Franke said in his interview@@Nopety-Nope
23:42 Seeing them write that allowing mistakes is distorted thinking made me think of those moments in Ruby’s journal when both RF and EF at different times tripped or collapsed obviously from being so weak and ill and yet Ruby says they were intentionally doing so because in her head there is no such thing as a mistake. It’s so so sad. She truly believed this and almost killed her children with that thinking.
and the prosecutor actually believes she has seen the error of her ways. For Ruby to become deprogramed it would take a lot longer than a few months away from her leader, Jodi.
Thanks for taking one for the team Jessica 😂 Loved this video and always enjoy your commentary. I’m not at all surprised that Paige replied to your emails. You had the best deep dives into this case before others. Your work is incredible and I personally feel she has respect for you. Wished she came forward sooner to clarify however I also see why she would wait.
Some self-proclaimed 'gods' go to prison. Apparently.
Yep, Nature Boy aka Eligio Bishop recently as well
Ironically she believes she’s in prison to spread the word of what ever creepy god she has created in her head ! Of course there is no room in prison for her lion but we will have to see how that goes for her !
I feel sorry for her new prisoners who have no where to run.
@@candykane4271 A captive audience.
I'm sure she views it as a trial to prove herself or something. In her phonecalls she was comparing herself to Jesus' apostles being persecuted...
Jody had people working for her as therapists that had no credentials or training. Was Connextons an MLM for healthcare? Did Jody sell the title of therapists to people who gave her money?
Jodi was using the term "life coach". There is absolutely no regulation for these coaches and it’s completely legal in Utah for someone to become one.
@@sierrawilliams7275And Kevin stated that Ruby had to pay $ 10.000 to Jodi to be certificated... Like all of the wannabe coaches. So Ruby had a point when she said in court, being a "business partner" for Connexions was misleading. She apparently was never paid by Jodi.
Thanks You, Jessica, for clarifying who the Hannah's are.
It's hard to think this is not a CYA podcast. It's possible the Hannah's were not aware of the abuse, but that's a stretch. Notice that after Kevin had lawyered up, which was immediately, his entire story and demeanor changed. All of a sudden, he becomes a victim of Jodi's manipulations. These could easily be the words of his spotlight-loving lawyer, Randy Kester. It's so disturbing that Kevin hasn't been held responsible for abandoning and neglecting his children. I'm concerned that since it's Utah, Kevin might get custody of these severely abused children. The two middle girls may not have received physical punishment, but they were emotionally and psychologically damaged, just by being aware of what had been done to their 2 younger siblings. The entire system in Utah abandoned these kids.
Witnesses of violence, are also victims of violence.
From listening to the numerous coverage of this case it seems that the worst effected mentally were the two middle girls being older and always wanting to pls Ruby they have been brainwashed the worst I believe Kevin in the accusations in his latest law suit that the children are severely changed that’s why Sheri had to hand them back to child services as she could not cope. Also if your interested do a bit of digging into Utah law regarding the treatment of kids it’s a pretty low bar probably because the LDS church have so much control in state matters
A CZcamsr had a guest explaining that the Utah laws really are different from most states when it comes to parenting duties. I sadly don't remember who it was.
Apparently it's not against the law to leave children alone at home (even overnight) as long as there's someone of 12 years or older present.
So that could explain why the Franke's were never charged for neglect of the youngest children R and E, perhaps also A at the time. Because J and Chad were over 12 years old at the time of the welfare checks
She has the same cadence, intonation and delivery as Ruby & Jodi. You could easily mistake them. It seems creepy.
OMG i was wondering if anyone else saw this too!!!!! I immediately picked up on this creepy imitation of speech and demeanor. Absolutely brainwashed by the cult.
I think it's just because they are from the same area. I don't think it was creepy. I felt a genuineness from her. The part that is really creepy is the fact that Ruby didn't hear any of her warnings. I'm starting to think, based off of things her siblings have said about Ruby, that she gets really fixated and obsessed on things. It's almost like she has addictive personality. She had to be the best CZcamsr and when that was over, something else had to control her obsessiveness. Now in prison she will find a new obsession.
I absolutely agree the voices would be difficult to tell apart
LOL it's exactly what I said it was bugging the crap out of me! I kept looking to see if it was Ruby speaking, they sound identical
It has a lot to do with growing up in the cult of mormonism. It's the brainwashing.
Thanks for taking one for the team and buying the book. Hopefully it’s set up in a way that the money can go to those who are needing to get proper therapy.
Thank you for doing such an honest and vulnerable job covering this topic. You do a great job covering these issues. Parenting is not easy, and I’m the mom of two littles who struggles to make all the right decisions amidst the technological world we live in. I’m invested in this case because I believe it’s important to keep parents from falling into a trap like this. Jodi was a master manipulator who found people struggling and sought to make money off their struggles. And, based on what her niece testifies to, she seems to enjoy inflicting pain on children. I so hope to see justice served. And, btw, I’ve watched many of your videos, which I think are very well done, but I never noticed your breathing. I hope you see a medical professional about that to make sure all is well with you. Thanks again for all you do. Your research is so thorough and your presentation is amazing. 💕
Thank you so much 🤍 I think it’s one of two things: either my endometriosis has spread to my lungs or because I’m at my heaviest weight I’ve ever been at not pregnant. Which honestly either makes total sense.
@@Jessssicadanielle you look great and you’re making very good quality work 💕 Just please take care of yourself. I say that with all the love and concern in the world immediately after taking care of family members who don’t like going to the doctor. I’m not a nosy Nancy. I just genuinely care.
Here is the thing: Nobody with six kids under the age of eight is going to be in peace. That is way too many kids to have. And this is part of the problem. That church is pushing this role for women. Are there exceptional women with great mentoring who can get lucky and do this well? Yes. But it isn't just ability and work. It is luck. Ruby was so blessed to have six healthy kids. What would have happened if she had a child with a chromosome imbalance? Or cancer?
My mother had five children, seven and under. Our household was never peaceful before or after divorce.
Good thoughts here. 🤍
I’m so sorry 😢
That's kind of a blanket statement.
And that was back at the time she was talking about. Now she has 8 kids😲
The "terrible twos" is a normal stage in a child's development in which they learn to become independent. This will continue throughout a person's life unless someone kills their will. I loved it when my children started showing their independence. Why would anyone think this was terrible?
Because they want a follow not a thinker❤
Because they want them to be anything but independent. Teaching kids to be independent thinkers would decimate their cult which is nothing but a multi-billion dollar business. Their members tithe 10% of all their earnings to the 'Church'. It's scandalous that these businesses continue to enjoy tax-free revenue under the blanket of being religious organisations.
Jessica, you always put out these friggin' GEMS lol. You go the extra mile to cover more in depth of the stories that everyone wants to know more about. Awesome job with this video and your channel in general.
I don't think this woman was like Ruby and Jodi. I think she wants to be a good person and a part of an exclusive club but the two don't always mix.
Oh for sure! Paige doesn’t seem anything like Ruby or Jodi. There’s nothing egotistical or aggressive about Paige, like some others ….
I thoroughly enjoy your videos. No matter how much the topic you discuss is talked about, I always find interesting information in your deeo dives and appreciate your take on them. Thank you for your effort.
Fascinating!! Your work confirms a lot of behavior analyst work I have done on this case. After the journal, I don't know why they weren't charged with attempted murder. Thanks for the great content you have collected on this case. It has been the best, most insightful, place to gather/learn information. I appreciate your hard work!! XXX Great job.
They were never charged with attempted murder because that couldn't be proven in any way. They would have walked freely. So no one of the prosecution would consider it an option
“Don’t punish children or they will punish you back” ok how right were they on that one😂😂😂😊
I absolutely abhor the word “punishment.” I came to be a public educator through a group home for children who were court ordered into our facility for “delinquency.”
We always used the word ‘consequences.’ Whatever action you take, there are consequences of your decision. Sometimes the consequences are not fair, but that is how things fall at times.
Teaching people, especially children, that there are consequences for what we do, good or bad, teaches them to be accountable and accept responsibility for outcomes.
If you make pro social choices, your outcomes will be more positive.
Of course, things happen that are out of our control and that is also a life lesson.
@@dtschuor459 I really really liked your comment. Very wise. Thank you for sharing it.
I am going to write a book. If Chad Daybell and Ruby Franke can, SO CAN I! 😂
Ikr 😂
If people want to find her they will and the fact that she tried to warn ruby is a huge red flag she knew what was happening i dont think enough people in this are arrested 😢
I agree with you. This is very similar to the Lori Daybell case. Many other people should be in prison!👍🤪🤢 poor little babies 😢
Me either
It’s a miracle they didn’t end up unalive
The same for Chad and loris case, many knew exactly what happen to zombies and did nothing to help.
Why did Jodi stay with these families for 6+ weeks when she had her own mansion? She really wanted to ruin these families.
Evil spirits I think. Or maybe a way to control them because it wasn’t working from a distance?
My son and daughter were very different people growing up. What worked for the one, did not work at all for the other. Therefor, they needed different parenting. So I do not believe in "if you do this then..." guidance. As a mom you have to know, love and guide your children according to their needs. In my opinion.
Agree.
Agree
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👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽yes!!!❤
I started to cry when you were reading the list of things that they thought were "not true". Having two children, one disabled and one a graduate of MIT and a PhD.... and having chosen to work with preschoolers in a Montessori School in Vermont, children are tough, but they are also a joy. The relaxed atmosphere of that school, which my children attended, made them both curious and they still find learning something new (at their level) exciting even as adults.
Thank you for sharing! 🤍 Vermont is beautiful, I went there May 2019 and loved it!
As a therapist, it sounds like Jodi took basic CBT (cognitive behavioural therapy) and changed the words around a bit and twisted it to her agenda.
Also a therapist here.. not sure where I heard it, but she has trauma because she was sexually abused as a child… so we both know how badly that affects your brain… and then, when that person doesn’t heal.. and is trying to use their traumatic response to take back control.. but becomes a therapist so that they have a title.. 🤦🏽♀️ such a recipe for disaster!
well, isn't that a mormon belief, that they will be god's and have their own planets? imo these people are covering their own butts. Paige is pathetic, she's using Daybell's language calling people dark or zombies. This woman is just now coming out, how convenient.
I actually don’t know this. I haven’t looked a lot into the Mormon faith. But thanks for sharing!
Yeahs they become deities over their own planets, I believe.
Exactly. Yes, I grew up mormon and we were always taught we would have our own planets, be Gods, and practice polygamy for eternity.
We also believed God was once a man like we are, on another planet. They've tried to stop talking about some of the crazy teachings because Young people are getting too smart to fall for it when they have the Internet now.
@WyattRyeSway yeah something like that although it's difficult to get them to admit that to outsiders
The LDS church taught this in the 90’s, as it was part of the teaching I received - but this would only be for those who reached the highest level of the Celestial Kingdom (basically, the highest level of heaven). You had to be Mormon and be sealed In your marriage to achieve this level. My understanding is that they are shying away from and no longer teach this. But, they definitely did!
Girrrrrl you ALWAYS get the scoop!!
Thanks again for this deep dive! I really enjoy watching your videos on this case!
I don't even know where to start to say how awesome and thorough this video was. I feel bad that I judged Paige at first. I think I was filled with emotion for hurt for those poor children. I feel bad she is tied in with this and I do believe the intentions started out good at first.
I really related to your fear of having a daughter. I always worry I am doing the best with mine. And then I also loved that you sited scientific facts about children's prefrontal cortex. Jessica honestly one of your best videos! Not only did it explain Jody's crazy teaching, but what I got out of it more is how all of us parents are in this together. This sure isn't easy and we can ultimately do our best, teach them good examples and love them with all of our hearts. I mean how can we go wrong. Best to you! ❤
If you’re worrying if you’re doing your best, you most likely are. Bad parents don’t worry. You’re amazing 🤍
@@Jessssicadanielle 💕💕💕💕
My gosh your research is so thorough. It really shows the time and commitment you put into your videos and it seems with your family too. Binge watching your videos now!!! Thank you so much for sharing!!!
Thanks for such great quality vids and bringing this to light
I've been watching your videos on this terrifying subject - nice to finally see a your face. You have a new subscriber. I respect your vlogs and approach.
Thanks for being here! Oh that was just a massive evidence release. It was important to me to just get the info out without my face. I did plenty of face content before the release 😂
@@Jessssicadanielle Well, now I know~!!~
Thank you for this very informative video. It's obvious you put a lot of time into gathering information and collating it all together in a way that helps us to understand. 💖💖
You did an excellent job!! Thank you❤❤❤
Love me an hour long video! Snuggling in for this one, lesssgo.
I feel at times she was choosing her words carefully. Took her a long time to respond about their involvement with connexions. Thank you!
Your authenticity and accurate information is impressive. Thank you, Jessica!❤
Love you and all the diligent work you do researching everything!!!
Excellent video. Love the research you do, I appreciate the details I don’t find anywhere else (including the new CZcams stuff).
Is it so wrong to want hear just how bad Ruby is finding it in prison
No but it's not gonna match what they did to those kids
No but I doubt they’re having a rough time. I’m sure they are with people who did similar things
Kid abusers are not liked in jail/prison I believe...
I’m just digging that she took Chads bed and now she has a mat to sleep on. Took his bathroom door apparently, now she doesn’t have a door or walls. She took the kids food, now she gets prison food (at least it is food). Sent Chad to a camp for troubled teens and now she could do 30 years in prison…..you know, camp for troubled adults. That karma thing is a B isn’t it????
Oh and she seems pissed at Kevin. Well…..he was trying to explain craziness and now she is too.
This “dark” thing tho is too Chad Daybellish for me. Shudder
She made some comments about this during some of her jail calls that have been released. They range between her saying that it's not bad and she'll do well there to her complaining about how "torturous" it was for her to have to hear one of the other inmates crying out all night (sounded like they were likely crying in pain or crying for help, but it wasn't clear what had happened).
She was raised in a highly controlling religion - prison will be easier to adapt to and may even be seen as giving her the structure she needs to stay on track with her religion.
Thank you for all your research and dedication you put into your videos!
Jessica your a great researcher.👍👏
This video is awesome Jess!! 👏🏻
I am so excited for you and watching how your channel is growing! YOU DESERVE IT!
I know how hard it is and you put A TON of work into it!
Also your breathing is FINE!
I sometimes do this too when I listen back to my videos I hate when I hear my pauses or when I have to take a breath and I think it’s just us being critical of ourselves!
Omg I would love to read that book absolutely keep sharing things in it! This is so interesting to me and I know others would probably be curious as well!
Thank you! 🤍
My parents were SO strict with me - it made my behavior worse. I split at the age of 14. I had some severe emotional issues - and my folks didn't have the insight on how to deal with me. Ruby kept saying that R was sneaky and stealing water. It's kind of strict to NOT allow ones child water. I find that "Strict parents create sneaky kids" is on that list, very contradictory for those two and doesn't align with the abuse. Go figure.
I just found your channel and I really enjoy it. Thank your for your diligence and work here!
Girl… you’re killing it! Also a momma of two littles and your coverage on this case has been by far the best. My first ever money spent on CZcams. You way earned it. I hope you’re little one is feeling better! Thanks lady!
Thank you SO much. This is such a nice comment. I appreciate you 🤍🤍
So glad youbare doing this! ❤I subbed!
Cults achieve coercive control from an early age through constant repetitive narratives, punishment, deprivation, isolation and fear.
No disrespect or disobedience can be tolerated.
Listen to Chad Daybells adult children. They sound monotone; emotionally immature and programmed robots. Incapable of seeing reality.
I love your channel! Love the amount of research and how you focus on facts/truth! You are very good at what you do.
You should have so many more subscribers! The amount of super-detailed research you do is incredible. There is no rehashing here. Well done. I hope your channel grows like it should. All the best, Jessica! 😊
Great work you do: Im impressed: you shed so much light to this case- lifestyle - and circumstances leading to this horrible crime 😢
You are a very thorough researcher in all your videos! And that clip of Jodi at the end I have never seen and if you knew me you’d know that’s impressive LOL. Good job as always.
Yessss a nice long video ❤️❤️❤️ thank you!!!!!!
I wrote a supportive email to Paige because given the right circumstances, anyone can get pulled into a high pressure group/cult/MLM. I wrote on my email I did not need a reply but wanted to show support. She wrote me back saying thank you.
The principles as explained by Paige sounded good. It made sense. I listened to Coach Kristi who the Berry's and Hanna's have been associated with and I liked Kristi. It was not all word salad.
I think Paige comes from a place of helping others.
Jodi and Ruby came from a place of low self esteem and gained meaning in their lives by acting superior and forcing their views on others. Who can be forced, starved, imprisoned and beaten? Children who are smaller and have no resources to flee.
I am waiting for the Fight of the Century! Who will Jesus come to 1st when He returns for the Second Coming? Chad Daybell? Jodi Hildebrandt? Tim Ballard? I think Jodi and Chad need to have a boxing match. I am betting on Jodi, she has so much bitterness and hate stored up inside, she would unalive Chad for sure.
As Chad Daybell's attorney John Prior might say, Quite Honestly, I do not know how you made it through that book/workbook. I have a shameful confession, I ordered a couple of Julie Rowe books. I think since they were second hand Julie did not get anything from my purchase. The shameful part is one of the books came from AVOW. They did get a little bit of money from me.
What does Tim Ballard have to do with this? It's so bizarre that he gets so much hate for getting kids out of trafficking. Very bizarre.
@Nopety-Nope
You’ve obviously missed the disclosure that Ballard is a fake
Along with his organisation. He also followed the ‘visions of glory book which seems to be a Bible for sociopathic Mormons. Ballard is not a good guy and conned so many people by the ‘save the children’ con that seems to point away from the actual abusers in our world, when it’s they themselves that are the criminals. . So Ballard I believe has been excommunicated by the Mormon church, which they rarely do, so that carries weight that he really is not who you think he is. Try listening to Mormon Stories Podcast and search for his name. Or other true crime podcasts, it’s everywhere apart from those channels that spread the usual Q crap and disinformation.
Jodi and Tim spoke at the same conference eternal core. They’ve since removed their CZcams channel but you can google it
The details DO matter so much! Thank you Jessica
Thank you for such an in depth video. It's plain to see that you put a lot of work and effort in what you do, and I like how you are just a relatable, lovely young lady 😊
I hope more people speak out. I hope this brings change to the Mormon community! Also I just wanna say that you are an awesome CZcamsr! Very thorough , I can tell you work very hard and enjoy what you do. CZcams needs more people like you!!
I hope she does more videos like she said she would do. Yes this was a start but we need more details about what happened when Jodi stayed with them and apparently they had to ask her to leave and that’s when Ruby got her chance to be #1 and had Jodi move in with them.
I'm so glad I came across your channel. I really like your style, the way that you go over the toplc, as horrific as it is, but you can still point out that there are things that you can relate with. (Paige Hannahs fear of raising a baby girl.) I'll definitely be watching for your next video
Jodi cutting those strawberries like an absolute menace
Wow what a GREAT channel!!!
You just got a new sub from Texas ❤
Just FYI I love your videos, they are factual, you show proof, if you inadvertently get something wrong, you say it and apologize. Thank you
Ok so the main “vocabulary “ is passive aggressive? I have a degree in psychology but anyone with average intelligence should hear the manipulation in that statement t from the jump! 🤦🏽♀️ it is also baiting an argument and putting your significant other on the defensive immediately! Jodi hates men full stop! All of this is nothing more than her being a destructive person. She destroyed her own life but sees herself as a victim and seeks to do the same to those around her! BUT Jodi is no where near innocent! I believe she resented her children and her perceived loss of identity (8 passengers channel?)and I don’t believe for a second that she is sorry for anything other than being caught! It is obvious the way she turned on Jodi!
Appreciate all the hard work you put into this case to get the facts.
I’m so psyched that you found that lawyer!! I’ve been so curious about him. When he said that line about how “so the boy lied” and Jodi very quickly says “the police are right here” and quickly redirects him, it just really made me wonder about him. I would love to know what that guy thinks now-but also wish I could have seen his face when he saw-assuming he did see-the photos of what those evil monsters did to poor R. She said her lawyer told her the pictures would destroy her basically, but I think that was her current criminal attorney, not good ol’ Adam. So can’t wait to hear what you have on him!
Thank you!
You are really good at describing how things work here and in cyberspace. Thanks!
Thank you so much! 🤍
I liked this video, thanks!
Jessica, you are so good at this. I am really enjoying your content. You don’t need to apologize for anything (being out of breath- I get winded easily too, especially this time of year with allergies). Anyway, just wanted to say you are doing an awesome job and you don’t ever need to apologize for things. ❤
@Jessica firstly, thank you for all of your hard work bringing so much of this to light. It’s heartbreaking and fascinating. Also, super random but; I paused your video to tell you I have that exact coffee cup! It’s literally my favorite cup! I got mine at a Pete’s coffee shop in Millvalley, California 30 years ago🤯🤣
Amazing!
I'm fairly new to ur channel, I have really enjoyed all ur vids that I've watched. They all have been very well put together, ur points have aligned w/my own thoughts n feelings on topics. Ur very kind,caring n intelligent nature comes across n all ur content. Yeah I think she shoulda made this video months ago, but at least she did make 1. I do wish she woulda did a interview on a podcast ch like DCP, r Mormon Stories, where specific questions could b asked n answered, so myself n others could get a better insight into the relationship w/Jodi, Ruby, n connections, n also to gage her character better.I really appreciated the emails u included for that very reason 😉💞
Thank you! Yes I do wonder now if someone will reach out to interview her since she’s willing to answer questions. I bet it’s in the works.
Thanks for making this video 👍👏🌻
This book was written by women whose religion dictated to them that their lives would center around raising children, and the more the better. More kids=more tithes eventually. Jodi and Ruby were frustrated with this, but could not even admit it to themselves because they’re “good Mormons”. So they deeply resent their children, all children, and took out their frustrations on them. You can bet they’re not the only women raised in cults who have these feelings. It’s extremely dangerous as children are our future.
Great insight.
Yes, fantastic insight. I was struggling to understand in modern society why Ruby and Paige had so many children, one after the other and then complained about not being able to cope. You'd have to be superwoman! Although, I think she did say she had a nanny.
I think you are correct, the Hanna’s would have looked better if they had spoken up earlier.
Great job again, Jessica 🫡
I was waiting for this video! 💗The whole not wanting a girl because of the relationship with own mother! Wow i can relate to that! Really interesting video thanks 😊and ps yes I am a subscriber 😁 I'd seen ur other video on her and knew this would be of interest to you , love your videos
THANK YOU for letting me know about it. Without you I would have been late to the game lol.
Who wouldn't be depressed with 6 kids under 8. Then add two more kids.
Luv from South Africa keep up gud work. Keep safe. ❤❤❤❤
The fact all these people keep acting like Ruby wasn't abusive BEFORE Jodi is ALARMING! She starved them, she gaslit them, she psychologically and emotionally tormented them, etc. She was already horrible before Jodi, they just made eschother worse!
Great work Jessica! I would have never seen Paige's video had it not been for you.
And I wouldn’t have seen it for a while had I not received a comment from someone!
Ruby referred to Jodi in her journal as G. Jo, as in Grandma Jodi. I can’t remember exactly where I heard that but I think it makes the most sense.
As far as I'm concerned they are all guilty. How in the hell could you work for those monsters and not know something was way off.
Love the details, great channel!
oh my god, that last clip of Jodi trying to vlog. That was painful.
I've seen people cut strawberries a lot of weird ways, but that video with Jodi talking about the subscription while cutting strawberries was super stressful for me. I'm surprised she didn't cut her finger off while doing that.
Paige Hanna may be the Leah Remini of Connexions. Leah was 💯 Scientology until she saw some injustices. Then she blew up her life to try & stop the abuses. I don’t think everyone associated with Ruby, Jodi, & Connexions is automatically evil & abused children or allowed abuse of children to continue. If anyone else needs to be held responsible, it should be Kevin Franke. Neglect & abandonment are legally child abuse in many states now & for good reason. Kevin Franke still didn’t care about his children & only cared about Ruby once the cops told them of the abuse. He tried desperately to get Sheri arrested for getting some of the kids’ belongings from the house. He even went so far as to threaten to sue the cops for refusing to arrest her. In my opinion, his only concern is getting those 2 youngest abused kids back under his control so he can start brainwashing them to retract their statements about Ruby abusing them, testify before the parole board on her behalf, & get her out of jail so he can be Ruby’s knight in shining armor. Kevin is a horrible parent & should lose his parental rights permanently as should Ruby.
Thank you for this extremely thoughtful and thorough reaction; the footage you included from ACTUALLY accredited professionals highlights just how dangerously wrong connexions’ approach was/is-that kind of parenting guarantees tragic results.
Also, you and your husband are correct: I’m a southerner, and “if mama ain’t happy, ain’t nobody happy” was quoted a lot in my house 😂
Also, I think Jodi’s nickname in the journals was “G Jo” (as in “Grandma Jodi?) not G Lo.
I’m a southern girl. FYI
Just a fun expression , not to be taken seriously. the full quote is:
If mama ain’t happy
Nobody’s happy
If daddy ain’t happy nobody cares🤣😂
Yes please :)
Dude who taught Jodi to cut strawberries?! Towards the end there was a video of Jodi addressing her viewers while cutting strawberries, and holy cow! I couldn’t watch it it was so bad
Came to say the same thing - who cuts things in mid air???!