I think that hate comment could be about usual stuff people can say to multiples : "you're a liar, DID doesnt exist" or "you're a liar we are a system, stop mocking us" that kind of bullshit from people who can take into acount only their own point of view, I think it's the basis of youtube's hate comment, narrow minds... And I a agree with you, all the entropy system looks so nice and fun. (im french, not totally fluent in english, so the concept of cinnamon roll is a bit blurred to me, sorry ^^)
@@wtnv Merci beaucoup !!! il est très bien ton français ^^ (You're english is right, thank you very much for answering me ! The sentence you wrote between parentheses is totally understandable, every french speaker would totally understand without a problem. But I want to help you since you look like someone who studdy french, a frenchie would have said "j'espère ne pas avoir fait de fautes" or "j'espère qu'il n'y a pas d'erreur dans mon message"... it's just the way you said things that seems a bit unnatural, but there's no grammatical or vocabulary mistake at all ^^, just the way to say it ^^ Frenchies tend to use more the expression "il n'y a pas de....." than the preposition "sans". To say more, because I'm a future teacher and i like too much to teach things xd, frenchies can contract the expression "il n'y a pas de" and say "ya pas de". even in the affirmative version, saying "ya de/du..." instead of "il y a de/du...". It's not grammaticaly correct, but you might see it very often so I tell you ^^. ) Sorry to have written that much ! ^^
Kit's energy is so so different to both Wyn and KimKim. Initially I was totally spaced and heard "K" and assumed the video was being done by KimKim, but quickly realised it was Kit just from her energy haha
Lilee another tell is the miniature figures in the beginning of (some of) the videos. If it’s the one that’s on this video, it’s Kit, if it’s got white and black hair, it’s Kim Kim. Such a cute idea of them!
OMG literally me when you described how when you’re living alone it’s so easy to just scroll endlessly down the internet cuz no one’s there to sort of remind you that you need to be productive. They don’t have to force me to do anything, their mere presence is a push for me to be productive instead of wasting my life away.
I can relate to this one step further, I don't know if people who are not DID experience something similar to this, but being DID myself, when I'm alone some of us fit into that role of lazy, no encouragement or authority as such. But, other alters will come out and do things or will encourage the other alters through passive influences. So ultimately our alters sometimes play the role of other people getting on to us. Like we live alone now, and theres a few alters that are really lazy don't clean up much will even pile up a full lot of rubbish in the bedroom and lounge areas... other alters come out and are upset by this, some will clean up, others just dissociate, and some will verbally target the alters that are making the mess and tell them to clean up. So some of our alters take on authoritive roles
Lol I feel like we are on the opposite end of this. We’ve been living alone pretty much since we were diagnosed two years ago, so we got very used to self soothing and management and all that, but we also just. Switched kinda whenever? Certain people enjoyed certain things more, but it was really nice to be home and just be? Let the littles front, be authentic without feeling judged. Now that we have housemates, most of our switches happen in our room and stay there. Housemates know about our DID and have met a few of us, but for the more anxious alters or the littles, there is a big desire to just stay in our room and not face other people. So we are slowly working on that. We’ve also had not great reactions before, as a lot of us deal with, so there’s that fear of housemates freaking out and such. Bleh. I appreciate the help with rent and such but we didn’t realize how little we cared about different people fronting until we weren’t alone in the house.
Kit thank you! NO ONE understands my extroversion and why I hate being alone. I've lived alone for 2 years now and it's so bad for my depression :/ People think it means I want to party or that i'm clingy or loud or unintelligent but I'm just painfully lonely. And I wish I had a partner just to be in the same space. Keep giving off the positive energy and honesty. It helps to know I'm not alone in this ♡
To be fair, I'd consider myself an introvert and I feel pretty lonely, too. It's not easy when you don't get to spend quality time with those you like the most.
Glad to see you back Kit!! I would love for Kit or Daniel to do a video about how it felt to be "trapped" on the inside and not being able to front when the body was sick, and only Wyn and Kim Kim could. I would love to hear it from their POV since we heard from Wyn and Kim Kim.
So happy Andrew is back home and that you all have been able to come together as a system and tackle such a big obstacle together. You all give our system hope! You all are amazing and wonderful and pure!
So glad you've found out more about the system from this experience. General 'rules' for Instagram is: post about once a day, no more than 3 times a day. Stories disappear so if you see something cool you can put it on there & the feed is for something you want to 'stay'. I use stories to post multiple pictures at an event for example & then I might post my favourite picture from that event to my feed. Stories are also good for things like ComiCons & trips (like Japan) to show lots of little moments you have experienced. Watch other people's stories & then check out their profile to see how they are using it. Good luck 😊
If most of us are super stressed and can't be the one to fall asleep inn the body because, for us, stress=trauma nightmares, we have an adult paci so one of our littles, Mickey (who has no trauma memory) can fall asleep in the body. Plus, we have a GIANT teddy bear we sleep with every night that helps. I'm super glad you guys found a way to cope and function. - Casper from System Default
Man I don’t know what a normal Instagram feed is meant to be either, it scares me a bit to post, but a rule of thumb for posts vs stories I think is stories are good for little things like if you see a cool flower or want to do the equivalent of retweeting something (by sharing posts to your story). What you post is honestly unique to you guys, so go for what your comfortable with posting! Don’t worry too much about spam, if it bugs anyone they can sort it out for themselves.
I use to get nightmares all the time when I was younger... like every night... That is until Pierre showed up... I didn't even know he was an alter at first but he kept showing up in recurring nightmares just before the scary part of the dream would normally start to happen and then he'd steer the dream into a different direction. I still get nightmare some times like if it's a dream I've never had before then I guess he doesn't know that he needs to show up but recurring nightmare don't happen anymore.
Hey guys :D I'm glad you are talking about living alone today. (Always happy to see you, Kit ^-^) I have a roommate, but we are barely interacting or spending time together which is why I am quite isolated when I'm not visiting friends or family...And especially now, that work and uni are taking a break, I am quite lost in my own system. Currently, after days of switching, I am finally back and we are still figuring out what to do to make our system work. We went through quite a lot of changes (I, for instance, can appear as 13- and 26 yo, depending on the situation) and the power between our parts changed when our two new members arrived. We've lost quite a lot of time and now have to rush with assignments, but we are managing it somehow. Just wanna thank you, Entropy System, for being so open and communicative. It really helps having someone to identify with. We wish you lots of fun in Japan
I'm so proud of Daniel! Good on him for taking initiative to help the system. It can really be difficult to get out of bed when you don't want to or you're depressed.
This is honestly so relatable 😂😂😂 totally is so easy to lose track of time on the internet!!! moved into our own apartment a year ago and it’s a big change.
I REALLY REALLY want to show you around Japan! I would happily take days off for you all and be your tour guide and translator. Or at least be available as an emergency contact. I’m just so happy and excited that y’all are coming.
i dont have DID but I totally feel this because i have had to live alone a lot. learning to cope in various ways was totally a learning experience and hard
I'm so glad y'all got to experience this, although I don't doubt it was stressful it sounds like this was actually great for y'all. It's funny how good things so often come in these packages. Keep on growing!!!! And enjoy yo man being home, reunions are the best!!!!
Finally all caught up. Like even though i dont have DID myself these videos have bee a big help understanding and coping with my own anxiety and depression. I cant wait to see more of you guys.
I live alone as a singleton. Occasionally I can have an existential crisis because of my own mental health, and your thoughts about what your purpose is made me imagine what it would be like to have several alters having existential crises at the same time :O I've definitely learned more about myself since living alone, and have changed and matured from that. I definitely enjoy my personal space, but it would be nice to have friends to come over every now and then.
I love you guys I'm so glad you guys figured stuff out for you. Also extra hugs for you Kit bc you just need all the hugs I know having person gone is hard
Hey guys, this might be an odd place to ask, but does anyone have any advice for me? I split today, and while the new alter is sweet, enthusiastic, loving, kind, not easily scared, and refuses to give up, he also... only speaks... Russian. Obviously becoming fluent in a language whose alphabet I just introduced myself to today is not going to happen over night, same for him learning English. Does anyone have a good way I can communicate with him while we work together? We got a language learning app, so I could introduce myself, and I tried my best to explain what was going on, but any advice is greatly appreciated. Thank you so much to anyone who replys!!!
i'm not too sure how this all works as i dont have DID/OSDD but i can try to help! maybe try drawing things and see if he gets them? say one of you draws a fish, you say 'fish', and if he understands he can say 'fish' in russian too. for more complicated things try google translate until you can communicate those things properly without help. you could also draw to help him learn the layout of your house. you mark a bedroom with the drawing of a bed, you mark the kitchen with a drawing of a fork, etc. again, i'm not too sure how this works as ive never had to fully communicate with someone i had a language barrier with, but i hope i helped a bit :)
Sounds like getting a translator app would probably be the best, also possibly communicating with pictures. Get a bunch of pictures together that represent different nouns, verbs, concepts (good, bad, sick, need, etc) and just string a bunch of pictures together. Worked for the cavemen. Out of curiosity, do you know if the body has been exposed to Russian? Is it possible that another alter has learned the language to some extent and could act as a go-between? For that matter, was English the bodies first language? That would be another area to investigate because it sounds like from your comment that you have little to no experience with this language and that's totally valid! But the idea that an alter could develop that fluently speaks a language the BODY has little to no experience with is...unlikely.
@@nuniyoa Wow, this is awesome!!! I will definatly be drawing him a map of our house now. The idea for teaching him english words with pictures is good to! He wouldnt technically be able to teach me russian (since he doesnt *actually* know it, but only perceives himself as knowing Russian and not English), but translation apps will be helpful. Thank you so much for your help!!! help!
@@BeAwesomeful We've been making due with google translate so far, as well as a language learning app. (I learn the Russian, then say it to him, then say the English. The first word was house, and once I got him to understand he ran outside and pointed at our house yelling "this is a house!") Pictures are also a good idea, and we will probably be able to build up a good way to speak much faster with that than with anything else. It will still take time for complex conversations, but still. It's something! And the body has had no exposure to Russian, and English is our first and pretty much only language... It seems that he doesnt *actually* know Russian, because he will forget it if you ask him for a word, and cant say anything that means something to an actual Russian speaker. However, once I put an English and Russian word next to eachother, he will understand both. I think hes learning just as much as I am, but doesnt know that himself. It does seem like an unlikely thing to happen... but I suppose it makes at least a little sense... if you have any thoughts I'd love to hear them, I dont think I quite understand how this is working either
I'm jealous you all get to go to Japan. I want to go there one day. But I can't read Kanji, so it would be difficult for me to find my way around, and if I go to a business where one of the workers doesn't speak english, I would be SOL because my language skills in Japanese are lacking.
Final Fantasy King I went to Japan for two weeks without knowing any Japanese besides “hi” “thank you” And “excuse me” and I had a great time!! Definitely ordered food without knowing what to expect but it was still wonderful!
Thank you so much, Kit! I was sat alone in the car crying, but after watching this, I have a huge smile on my face! ❤️ and feel free to spam instagram as much or as little as you want!
The baby in the headspace reminds me of Daisy's baby in great Gatsby, because I always forget about them both. But I'm glad that y'all were able to connect to the baby and that you're starting to maybe get so clarity as to their purpose
I just love you, all of you. No one should be mean to you!! Each one of you is way too nice for anyone to be mean too!!! I say so!!! I Kit is just amazing. I swear she is like the girl version of my younger brother. She reminds me so much of him!!! I just smile every time I see her! Then afterwards I always call my brother!!! Thank you for sharing yourself and making videos Kit!!! ~ Rachel Ann!!!!
I still live with my parents and would probably face a lot of the same struggles you did in adjusting to living lone. Even with reminders to be productive I have laid in bed all day or scrolled mindlessly through the internet for hours at a time.
2:32 Thats such a mood.. Also I couldnt imagine going 6 months apart, thats really strong of you guys :) Im sure your week is going lovely now that hes back
AH I'm so jealous! Japan is my favoruite place, you'll love it. We just moved away from home a week ago, having hobbies is definitely a good thing as far as distractions go, but also just doing chores helps.
I told you, guys, Leia wants to participate more! Kit, I missed you! Good news you're friends with Daniel now.♥️ I hope you all have fun in Japan. About the Instagram. I think 3 pics a day is good. Even better if each one of you cold control the Instagram in different days, then we would have different content. I'd like to see stories in Japan, of course.
You guys were in the army? Have you ever done a video about that? I don't know if this is a trigger, I hope is not I'm so glad you got to learn to experience loneliness in such a healthy way 🖤 All my love to all of you
less than 15 stories a day is totally acceptable. Love that you get an Instagram finally and I already set the alarm for your updates in Instagram ❤❤Lots of love
We adore you kit keep up the positive outlook and have fun in Japan really hope you have an amazing time. Getting a solid night sleep kinda works the same for us. We only ever seem to sleep super solid with something to hold onto and cuddle a pacifier and some super simple background noise to just calm everything down before bed letting things be super super simple and blurry.
As far as posting on instagram, I know a lot of people try to aim for 1 post per day, or every other day. Stories are typically used for small, uneventful things that you still would like to share, but tbh? It's up to you! Have fun with it! I personally hardly ever use the story function on my personal instagram, but tend to use it a lot for my cosplay instagram. I hope andrew made it home safe! And have a wonderful time in Japan!!
Omg this is me right now. My bf has had to take a contract job in a different city because of lack of jobs here right now for the next 5 months, and we've never lived alone. We're struggling. Just working, and i don't have a therapist right now either :( my cat yells at me a lot when i just lay around.
So glad Andrew is back! I know the feeling of just like wanting to do stuff because you don’t want to be sad. I’m glad KimKim is in cosplay now. I hope she likes it because it is very fun! -Ary
Well yes you and Daniel share a soul , so its only natural that you should become friends. Living alone is a huge step up in an adult life. You just weren't used to that. Sometimes we are forced into things that seem very scary but are actually necessary for internal growth
Congrats on living alone. I personally don't know if we could handle it (especially at night) but hope to one day see if we can. Can't wait to hear about your Japan trip - Travis ^^
I know I'm late, but I am glad that this video was uploaded when it was. I have been planning to move out on my own despite being terrified, and this put a lot of my worries at ease in a sense. So, thanks for this video Kit! PS: love the shirt ✨
my favourite instagram actually posts kinda rarely and don’t follow “etiquette”, they just share cool things they do when they happen, or a funny thing their baby did, or excitement about something regarding their youtube channel
Hey Kit! Good to see you again, I thought we hadn't seen you for a while and wondered how you were doing. I'm glad that these 6 months have been a vehicle for some positive changes but sorry it's been tough also. You must be so happy Andrew is home safe ^_^ Would love to see the video about / with yourself and Daniel sometime if you're happy to make it. Obviously this isn't about me but I wanted to say I really related to you here Kit. I'm a singlet but I am super extraverted and it can be really tough sometimes. There's a lot about how tough it can be as an introvert but you always have yourself. You don't always have people around you and when that's where you get your energy or mood boosts from, it's easy to slip into a lonely, depressive funk. I also found that I throw myself into being busy, so I forced myself to start reading and cross stitching again to learn to be in my own company.
@@TheEntropySystem "Yeh, I guess that would be kinda cool," she replies, as she kicks the ground nonchalantly trying to contain her excitement. She then slowly saunters from the room closing the door tightly behind her. You suddenly hear a distant jubilant, "Yes!", from a room nearby which distracts you for but a moment longer, before you simply shrug your shoulders and leave to return to your vacation. 😉
Yes! We have this same problem =\ We also haven't lived alone for more than 6 months, and that only happened once xD it's so different and really hard to keep on a schedule as a result.
Heyyy kit I heard you asking tips on instagram! I'm no expert but as a consumer I find every day posters to be highly annoying after awhile. No shade at all 😂 how about a few times a week or once a week? You also don't want to exhaust yourself trying to please the masses. You guys in the system matter most, not the fan base :) sending good energy and positive vibes ❤️
Instagram is easy, you just post pictures of things you feel like posting, adding in the caption what’s going on, you can post once or twice a day and it’s definitely not spammy! You can post as much as you want on your instagram story! It’s fun for us to watch things going on in your life besides set up videos ☺️
Honey I'm just going to say this once people on Instagram to see see post spontaneously they post all the time or the purse most or little bits of the time it just depends how you feel and how comfortable you feel during it
have a wonderful trip to japan, in regards to instagram, they usually are pretty relaxed, keeping a balanced presence on the app usually results in you not being harassed by the moderators of the app, they like to know that real people are using the app, so avoid spikes in activity and dont use the same hashtags for months on end. ( they think that spikes in activity are robots).
just in case: if your pacifier isn’t made for adult bodies, please get one! a smaller one can really mess up your teeth/jaw! i’m glad you guys figured out coping mechanisms that help you though!
Entropy solution to trauma nightmares: Pacifies themselves with a pacifier Mine: Pacifies with alcohol until the dream is forgotten Ya know a pacifier is probably the better of these coping mechanisms 🙃
Hey I love your videos so much all of you make me so happy and I bounce off your energy. Would you consider making a video about being in the army and your experience as a system? This is the first iv heard of it in your videos and it would be nice to maybe know some more. Xx
My advise for Instagram: post the stuff you want save/keep in your feed and the rest in your stories. So big moments in your feed, small in your stories.
Who on earth would leave you guys hate comments?!?! Each of you are a precious cinnamon roll and I will fight anyone who says otherwise!!!!
I think that hate comment could be about usual stuff people can say to multiples : "you're a liar, DID doesnt exist" or "you're a liar we are a system, stop mocking us" that kind of bullshit from people who can take into acount only their own point of view, I think it's the basis of youtube's hate comment, narrow minds...
And I a agree with you, all the entropy system looks so nice and fun.
(im french, not totally fluent in english, so the concept of cinnamon roll is a bit blurred to me, sorry ^^)
@@wtnv Merci beaucoup !!!
il est très bien ton français ^^
(You're english is right, thank you very much for answering me ! The sentence you wrote between parentheses is totally understandable, every french speaker would totally understand without a problem. But I want to help you since you look like someone who studdy french, a frenchie would have said "j'espère ne pas avoir fait de fautes" or "j'espère qu'il n'y a pas d'erreur dans mon message"... it's just the way you said things that seems a bit unnatural, but there's no grammatical or vocabulary mistake at all ^^, just the way to say it ^^ Frenchies tend to use more the expression "il n'y a pas de....." than the preposition "sans". To say more, because I'm a future teacher and i like too much to teach things xd, frenchies can contract the expression "il n'y a pas de" and say "ya pas de". even in the affirmative version, saying "ya de/du..." instead of "il y a de/du...". It's not grammaticaly correct, but you might see it very often so I tell you ^^. ) Sorry to have written that much ! ^^
i realize I'm pretty off topic but do anybody know a good website to watch new movies online?
@Alden Leo i dunno try flixportal. just google after it :D -drew
@Drew Ernest thanks, I signed up and it seems like they got a lot of movies there =) I really appreciate it !
Awww Kit and Daniel are friends now
I'm so happy about that too! It seemed like such a shame they weren't close before.
Kit's energy is so so different to both Wyn and KimKim. Initially I was totally spaced and heard "K" and assumed the video was being done by KimKim, but quickly realised it was Kit just from her energy haha
Lilee another tell is the miniature figures in the beginning of (some of) the videos. If it’s the one that’s on this video, it’s Kit, if it’s got white and black hair, it’s Kim Kim. Such a cute idea of them!
@@20Unbelievable06 Wow I have NEVER noticed those before! Whoops. Thanks for showing me haha
Lilee I was busy making myself a sundae and missed the first part of the video and was so confused about who was out until I saw your comment.
Have fun in Japan guys, so happy for you that Andrew’s back from deployment
Love the upside down 7 in "ourself" lol, very smart
LOL thanks :P -Wyn
OMG literally me when you described how when you’re living alone it’s so easy to just scroll endlessly down the internet cuz no one’s there to sort of remind you that you need to be productive. They don’t have to force me to do anything, their mere presence is a push for me to be productive instead of wasting my life away.
I can relate to this one step further, I don't know if people who are not DID experience something similar to this, but being DID myself, when I'm alone some of us fit into that role of lazy, no encouragement or authority as such. But, other alters will come out and do things or will encourage the other alters through passive influences. So ultimately our alters sometimes play the role of other people getting on to us. Like we live alone now, and theres a few alters that are really lazy don't clean up much will even pile up a full lot of rubbish in the bedroom and lounge areas... other alters come out and are upset by this, some will clean up, others just dissociate, and some will verbally target the alters that are making the mess and tell them to clean up. So some of our alters take on authoritive roles
Lol I feel like we are on the opposite end of this. We’ve been living alone pretty much since we were diagnosed two years ago, so we got very used to self soothing and management and all that, but we also just. Switched kinda whenever? Certain people enjoyed certain things more, but it was really nice to be home and just be? Let the littles front, be authentic without feeling judged. Now that we have housemates, most of our switches happen in our room and stay there. Housemates know about our DID and have met a few of us, but for the more anxious alters or the littles, there is a big desire to just stay in our room and not face other people. So we are slowly working on that. We’ve also had not great reactions before, as a lot of us deal with, so there’s that fear of housemates freaking out and such. Bleh. I appreciate the help with rent and such but we didn’t realize how little we cared about different people fronting until we weren’t alone in the house.
I hope that life with roomies gets easier soon and that your system goes back to feeling comfortable with switching
The Entropy System thank you! I’m hoping we get there sooner rather than later, but ya know. Anxiety. 😅
Every time I switch with one of my littles, they get judged by their voice and how they act :
Kit thank you! NO ONE understands my extroversion and why I hate being alone. I've lived alone for 2 years now and it's so bad for my depression :/ People think it means I want to party or that i'm clingy or loud or unintelligent but I'm just painfully lonely. And I wish I had a partner just to be in the same space.
Keep giving off the positive energy and honesty. It helps to know I'm not alone in this ♡
To be fair, I'd consider myself an introvert and I feel pretty lonely, too. It's not easy when you don't get to spend quality time with those you like the most.
Glad to see you back Kit!! I would love for Kit or Daniel to do a video about how it felt to be "trapped" on the inside and not being able to front when the body was sick, and only Wyn and Kim Kim could. I would love to hear it from their POV since we heard from Wyn and Kim Kim.
So happy Andrew is back home and that you all have been able to come together as a system and tackle such a big obstacle together. You all give our system hope! You all are amazing and wonderful and pure!
So glad you've found out more about the system from this experience. General 'rules' for Instagram is: post about once a day, no more than 3 times a day. Stories disappear so if you see something cool you can put it on there & the feed is for something you want to 'stay'. I use stories to post multiple pictures at an event for example & then I might post my favourite picture from that event to my feed. Stories are also good for things like ComiCons & trips (like Japan) to show lots of little moments you have experienced. Watch other people's stories & then check out their profile to see how they are using it. Good luck 😊
Agreed! (Granted, I don't post to my Instagram very often.)
You fancy. Love you Kit. I'm so glad Andrew is back, and you all feel strong.
If most of us are super stressed and can't be the one to fall asleep inn the body because, for us, stress=trauma nightmares, we have an adult paci so one of our littles, Mickey (who has no trauma memory) can fall asleep in the body. Plus, we have a GIANT teddy bear we sleep with every night that helps. I'm super glad you guys found a way to cope and function. - Casper from System Default
Man I don’t know what a normal Instagram feed is meant to be either, it scares me a bit to post, but a rule of thumb for posts vs stories I think is stories are good for little things like if you see a cool flower or want to do the equivalent of retweeting something (by sharing posts to your story). What you post is honestly unique to you guys, so go for what your comfortable with posting! Don’t worry too much about spam, if it bugs anyone they can sort it out for themselves.
We figured out recently that we sleep a LOT better if a little fronts during bedtime and falls asleep
I use to get nightmares all the time when I was younger... like every night... That is until Pierre showed up... I didn't even know he was an alter at first but he kept showing up in recurring nightmares just before the scary part of the dream would normally start to happen and then he'd steer the dream into a different direction. I still get nightmare some times like if it's a dream I've never had before then I guess he doesn't know that he needs to show up but recurring nightmare don't happen anymore.
Hey guys :D I'm glad you are talking about living alone today. (Always happy to see you, Kit ^-^)
I have a roommate, but we are barely interacting or spending time together which is why I am quite isolated when I'm not visiting friends or family...And especially now, that work and uni are taking a break, I am quite lost in my own system. Currently, after days of switching, I am finally back and we are still figuring out what to do to make our system work. We went through quite a lot of changes (I, for instance, can appear as 13- and 26 yo, depending on the situation) and the power between our parts changed when our two new members arrived. We've lost quite a lot of time and now have to rush with assignments, but we are managing it somehow.
Just wanna thank you, Entropy System, for being so open and communicative. It really helps having someone to identify with.
We wish you lots of fun in Japan
I hope things get better soon. Wishing you lots of comfort -Wyn
@@TheEntropySystem Thank you :)
It sounds like you guys came together in a lot of ingenious ways in this time period. I'm happy you guys had a lot of positive internal changes :)
I'm so proud of Daniel! Good on him for taking initiative to help the system. It can really be difficult to get out of bed when you don't want to or you're depressed.
Leia reminds me so much of my childhood cat Squeekers. I love seeing her pop up💜🖤
This is honestly so relatable 😂😂😂 totally is so easy to lose track of time on the internet!!! moved into our own apartment a year ago and it’s a big change.
Hi hope you have a fun time at Japan :D
I REALLY REALLY want to show you around Japan! I would happily take days off for you all and be your tour guide and translator. Or at least be available as an emergency contact. I’m just so happy and excited that y’all are coming.
i dont have DID but I totally feel this because i have had to live alone a lot. learning to cope in various ways was totally a learning experience and hard
Do you guys have a video on y’all’s different relationships with Andrew? I would be very fascinated by a video on that!
I'm so glad y'all got to experience this, although I don't doubt it was stressful it sounds like this was actually great for y'all. It's funny how good things so often come in these packages. Keep on growing!!!! And enjoy yo man being home, reunions are the best!!!!
Finally all caught up. Like even though i dont have DID myself these videos have bee a big help understanding and coping with my own anxiety and depression. I cant wait to see more of you guys.
I live alone as a singleton. Occasionally I can have an existential crisis because of my own mental health, and your thoughts about what your purpose is made me imagine what it would be like to have several alters having existential crises at the same time :O
I've definitely learned more about myself since living alone, and have changed and matured from that. I definitely enjoy my personal space, but it would be nice to have friends to come over every now and then.
🎶 all by ourselves 🎵
I like how you personalize that little thing for each video, it’s really cool 👍🏼
I love you guys I'm so glad you guys figured stuff out for you. Also extra hugs for you Kit bc you just need all the hugs I know having person gone is hard
"I designed all of them bc I'm good at things"
love that lol
Hey guys, this might be an odd place to ask, but does anyone have any advice for me?
I split today, and while the new alter is sweet, enthusiastic, loving, kind, not easily scared, and refuses to give up, he also... only speaks... Russian.
Obviously becoming fluent in a language whose alphabet I just introduced myself to today is not going to happen over night, same for him learning English. Does anyone have a good way I can communicate with him while we work together? We got a language learning app, so I could introduce myself, and I tried my best to explain what was going on, but any advice is greatly appreciated. Thank you so much to anyone who replys!!!
i'm not too sure how this all works as i dont have DID/OSDD but i can try to help!
maybe try drawing things and see if he gets them? say one of you draws a fish, you say 'fish', and if he understands he can say 'fish' in russian too. for more complicated things try google translate until you can communicate those things properly without help. you could also draw to help him learn the layout of your house. you mark a bedroom with the drawing of a bed, you mark the kitchen with a drawing of a fork, etc. again, i'm not too sure how this works as ive never had to fully communicate with someone i had a language barrier with, but i hope i helped a bit :)
Sounds like getting a translator app would probably be the best, also possibly communicating with pictures. Get a bunch of pictures together that represent different nouns, verbs, concepts (good, bad, sick, need, etc) and just string a bunch of pictures together. Worked for the cavemen.
Out of curiosity, do you know if the body has been exposed to Russian? Is it possible that another alter has learned the language to some extent and could act as a go-between? For that matter, was English the bodies first language? That would be another area to investigate because it sounds like from your comment that you have little to no experience with this language and that's totally valid! But the idea that an alter could develop that fluently speaks a language the BODY has little to no experience with is...unlikely.
@@nuniyoa Wow, this is awesome!!! I will definatly be drawing him a map of our house now. The idea for teaching him english words with pictures is good to! He wouldnt technically be able to teach me russian (since he doesnt *actually* know it, but only perceives himself as knowing Russian and not English), but translation apps will be helpful. Thank you so much for your help!!! help!
@@theinfernosystem1323 Oh, well then disregard the second half of my comment :/
@@BeAwesomeful We've been making due with google translate so far, as well as a language learning app. (I learn the Russian, then say it to him, then say the English. The first word was house, and once I got him to understand he ran outside and pointed at our house yelling "this is a house!") Pictures are also a good idea, and we will probably be able to build up a good way to speak much faster with that than with anything else. It will still take time for complex conversations, but still. It's something!
And the body has had no exposure to Russian, and English is our first and pretty much only language... It seems that he doesnt *actually* know Russian, because he will forget it if you ask him for a word, and cant say anything that means something to an actual Russian speaker. However, once I put an English and Russian word next to eachother, he will understand both. I think hes learning just as much as I am, but doesnt know that himself. It does seem like an unlikely thing to happen... but I suppose it makes at least a little sense... if you have any thoughts I'd love to hear them, I dont think I quite understand how this is working either
I'm jealous you all get to go to Japan. I want to go there one day. But I can't read Kanji, so it would be difficult for me to find my way around, and if I go to a business where one of the workers doesn't speak english, I would be SOL because my language skills in Japanese are lacking.
Final Fantasy King I went to Japan for two weeks without knowing any Japanese besides “hi” “thank you” And “excuse me” and I had a great time!! Definitely ordered food without knowing what to expect but it was still wonderful!
i would try to brush up on basics, but a lot major cities that are common for tourists to visit have signs in english
Thank you so much, Kit! I was sat alone in the car crying, but after watching this, I have a huge smile on my face! ❤️ and feel free to spam instagram as much or as little as you want!
I'm so glad that someone else had a similar experience.
Also so happy Andrew is back! Have fun in japan Entropy! ❤❤
Hope y’all have an amazing time in Japan! 🇯🇵 I’m so jealous!!
The baby in the headspace reminds me of Daisy's baby in great Gatsby, because I always forget about them both. But I'm glad that y'all were able to connect to the baby and that you're starting to maybe get so clarity as to their purpose
As a system we are so glad there is someone to relate to on CZcams, thank so so much for showing the internet
Great video topic. We are afraid the wheels will fall off the second we live alone.
Thank you for sharing! Very insightful.
I just love you, all of you. No one should be mean to you!! Each one of you is way too nice for anyone to be mean too!!! I say so!!!
I Kit is just amazing. I swear she is like the girl version of my younger brother. She reminds me so much of him!!! I just smile every time I see her! Then afterwards I always call my brother!!! Thank you for sharing yourself and making videos Kit!!!
~ Rachel Ann!!!!
I still live with my parents and would probably face a lot of the same struggles you did in adjusting to living lone. Even with reminders to be productive I have laid in bed all day or scrolled mindlessly through the internet for hours at a time.
Oh yay! Have a GREAT time in Japan! 😍😍😍
2:32 Thats such a mood..
Also I couldnt imagine going 6 months apart, thats really strong of you guys :) Im sure your week is going lovely now that hes back
AH I'm so jealous! Japan is my favoruite place, you'll love it. We just moved away from home a week ago, having hobbies is definitely a good thing as far as distractions go, but also just doing chores helps.
I told you, guys, Leia wants to participate more!
Kit, I missed you!
Good news you're friends with Daniel now.♥️
I hope you all have fun in Japan.
About the Instagram. I think 3 pics a day is good. Even better if each one of you cold control the Instagram in different days, then we would have different content.
I'd like to see stories in Japan, of course.
You guys were in the army? Have you ever done a video about that?
I don't know if this is a trigger, I hope is not
I'm so glad you got to learn to experience loneliness in such a healthy way 🖤
All my love to all of you
I can’t work out why you don’t have millions of followers. I have loved this channel for ages.
less than 15 stories a day is totally acceptable. Love that you get an Instagram finally and I already set the alarm for your updates in Instagram ❤❤Lots of love
I love the septum ring !! Super cool
I didn’t get to experience Japan in person but it’s really nice from memory. The long flight is going to be good for headspace stuff.
We adore you kit keep up the positive outlook and have fun in Japan really hope you have an amazing time. Getting a solid night sleep kinda works the same for us. We only ever seem to sleep super solid with something to hold onto and cuddle a pacifier and some super simple background noise to just calm everything down before bed letting things be super super simple and blurry.
As far as posting on instagram, I know a lot of people try to aim for 1 post per day, or every other day. Stories are typically used for small, uneventful things that you still would like to share, but tbh? It's up to you! Have fun with it! I personally hardly ever use the story function on my personal instagram, but tend to use it a lot for my cosplay instagram.
I hope andrew made it home safe! And have a wonderful time in Japan!!
The all by ourself in the background is perfect for this video and made me laugh so hard😂
Omg this is me right now. My bf has had to take a contract job in a different city because of lack of jobs here right now for the next 5 months, and we've never lived alone. We're struggling. Just working, and i don't have a therapist right now either :( my cat yells at me a lot when i just lay around.
So glad Andrew is back! I know the feeling of just like wanting to do stuff because you don’t want to be sad. I’m glad KimKim is in cosplay now. I hope she likes it because it is very fun! -Ary
So nice to see you, Kit
Your videos are so incredibly informative, ES. Thank you so much for making them!
Well yes you and Daniel share a soul , so its only natural that you should become friends.
Living alone is a huge step up in an adult life. You just weren't used to that. Sometimes we are forced into things that seem very scary but are actually necessary for internal growth
Believe it or not, you validated an idea of mine for how to get a "Little One" to sleep. Thank you.
Congrats on living alone. I personally don't know if we could handle it (especially at night) but hope to one day see if we can. Can't wait to hear about your Japan trip - Travis ^^
I know I'm late, but I am glad that this video was uploaded when it was. I have been planning to move out on my own despite being terrified, and this put a lot of my worries at ease in a sense. So, thanks for this video Kit!
PS: love the shirt ✨
Instagram. 12 pictures should look good together. Sneak peeks of your life with filters. A way to explore emotions with photography.
Wow! I didn't realize Andrew was on deployment. I'm glad he's back and that you get to go on a trip to Japan! You guys look so fit! It's awesome =)
oopboo7 I don't think she mentioned it anywhere except Insta.
my favourite instagram actually posts kinda rarely and don’t follow “etiquette”, they just share cool things they do when they happen, or a funny thing their baby did, or excitement about something regarding their youtube channel
we miss you :'(
Hey Kit! Good to see you again, I thought we hadn't seen you for a while and wondered how you were doing.
I'm glad that these 6 months have been a vehicle for some positive changes but sorry it's been tough also. You must be so happy Andrew is home safe ^_^ Would love to see the video about / with yourself and Daniel sometime if you're happy to make it.
Obviously this isn't about me but I wanted to say I really related to you here Kit. I'm a singlet but I am super extraverted and it can be really tough sometimes. There's a lot about how tough it can be as an introvert but you always have yourself. You don't always have people around you and when that's where you get your energy or mood boosts from, it's easy to slip into a lonely, depressive funk. I also found that I throw myself into being busy, so I forced myself to start reading and cross stitching again to learn to be in my own company.
Japan? That's so exciting!! Have lots of fun!! Bring me back something good! 👋😉👋 But seriously, get yourself something cool, you deserve it 😊
We're bringing back a vlog of the trip, does that count? :P -Kit
@@TheEntropySystem "Yeh, I guess that would be kinda cool," she replies, as she kicks the ground nonchalantly trying to contain her excitement. She then slowly saunters from the room closing the door tightly behind her. You suddenly hear a distant jubilant, "Yes!", from a room nearby which distracts you for but a moment longer, before you simply shrug your shoulders and leave to return to your vacation. 😉
Im so glad Andrew is back and that you’re feeling better!
Trauma nightmares can be treated with a low dose of Prazosin. Talk to you doctor about it, it really helped my loved one.
Yes! We have this same problem =\ We also haven't lived alone for more than 6 months, and that only happened once xD it's so different and really hard to keep on a schedule as a result.
Could y'all do a video about being a system in the military?
You guys have been in my dreams 3 times now...mostly Daniel, but I wish I knew what it meant.
I love your little sign in the background XD
2:33 this is me basically every day 😅
Heyyy kit I heard you asking tips on instagram! I'm no expert but as a consumer I find every day posters to be highly annoying after awhile. No shade at all 😂 how about a few times a week or once a week? You also don't want to exhaust yourself trying to please the masses. You guys in the system matter most, not the fan base :) sending good energy and positive vibes ❤️
omg i’m so happy to hear kit and daniel are friends now
I think that's awesome that you all have discovered how to sleep like a baby. ^_^
Instagram is easy, you just post pictures of things you feel like posting, adding in the caption what’s going on, you can post once or twice a day and it’s definitely not spammy! You can post as much as you want on your instagram story! It’s fun for us to watch things going on in your life besides set up videos ☺️
Lots of Love guys, Have fun in Japan 😍❤❤
Honey I'm just going to say this once people on Instagram to see see post spontaneously they post all the time or the purse most or little bits of the time it just depends how you feel and how comfortable you feel during it
have a wonderful trip to japan, in regards to instagram, they usually are pretty relaxed, keeping a balanced presence on the app usually results in you not being harassed by the moderators of the app, they like to know that real people are using the app, so avoid spikes in activity and dont use the same hashtags for months on end. ( they think that spikes in activity are robots).
Oh, I had no idea that mods were looking out for that kind of stuff! Thanks for the heads up! -Wyn
Okay never did anything on the internet so fast as I followed your instagram! YAY!
You look so nice in this vid, Kit! I love your makeup :))
Fuck me that calling out @ 2:45 was legit painful lol
Omaha, huh? I was born and raised very close to Omaha, and both my siblings live there as well. 😁
just in case: if your pacifier isn’t made for adult bodies, please get one! a smaller one can really mess up your teeth/jaw! i’m glad you guys figured out coping mechanisms that help you though!
I've been asking where you were! Hey we missed you!
Entropy solution to trauma nightmares: Pacifies themselves with a pacifier
Mine: Pacifies with alcohol until the dream is forgotten
Ya know a pacifier is probably the better of these coping mechanisms 🙃
I play with my own hair to fall asleep when nothing else works. (A single with complex ptsd))
Hey I love your videos so much all of you make me so happy and I bounce off your energy. Would you consider making a video about being in the army and your experience as a system? This is the first iv heard of it in your videos and it would be nice to maybe know some more. Xx
A 200 pt kill team For The Greater Good in 8th is a pain. Oh, and safe travels ^_^
My advise for Instagram: post the stuff you want save/keep in your feed and the rest in your stories. So big moments in your feed, small in your stories.
I love you guys so much 🥰💕
Did anybody else notice the spider on the bookshelf
2:36 if this ain't me
have fun in japan!!!
I loved this video but the lightbox was distracting me until I finally figured out the L in ourself is an upsidedown 7!
We ran out of L's and had to improvise XD -Wyn
Your makeup is on POINT!
reasons I love you. You are good at things. To be fair, you'd be awesome even if you were mediocre at things