Being Bisexual In Relationships | Q & A

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  • čas přidán 8. 09. 2024
  • Hello boys and girls today I'm doing a Q&A answering as many questions as I can, we are talking about bisexuality in relationships, some of my hobbies, what's my perfect guy and so much more.

Komentáře • 178

  • @lumiao1685
    @lumiao1685 Před 5 lety +65

    'she said she didn't mind' .. I WISH I met a man who told me he was bisexual..

  • @aquariusnot_real6491
    @aquariusnot_real6491 Před 6 lety +22

    I love seeing that you posted I genuinely get happy. When you started questioning your sexuality you and your friend explored it together my friend just kissed me and we never spoke again the difference between us.

    • @Courtney-Jai
      @Courtney-Jai  Před 6 lety +2

      Sometimes it can make things very awkward or it can make you understand one another on a level most people can't

  • @Courtney-Jai
    @Courtney-Jai  Před 6 lety +39

    sorry my lights are a little bright

    • @darron1969
      @darron1969 Před 6 lety +5

      In the US that is slang for my nipples are hard. Sorry but it made me laugh!!

    • @Courtney-Jai
      @Courtney-Jai  Před 6 lety +2

      darron1969 haha that might be the funniest thing I've heard

    • @meljundadag4483
      @meljundadag4483 Před 3 lety

      Hi

  • @ibruceeasily1728
    @ibruceeasily1728 Před 4 lety +6

    Tb to when my girlfriend held a grudge against me for a year because I told her I was bisexual and she thought that I was into guys more. And she made me feel like a piece of shit for it for a while. Kind of my fault I didn’t tell her for a year and a half. But at that point I’d only told one other person. We’re good now.

    • @Shark97281
      @Shark97281 Před 8 měsíci

      Mind if i ask how are you and your girlfriend doing now?
      Do you feel like you are missing out because you are not with a man? Do you see yourself being exclusive to her for the rest of your life? Be honest.

  • @mavexx
    @mavexx Před 6 lety +13

    I love your videos, I'm bi too and your videos helped me so much. Keep it up💗💕

  • @Courtney-Jai
    @Courtney-Jai  Před 6 lety +42

    my question to you guys is what do you want most in life

    • @mavexx
      @mavexx Před 6 lety

      Same

    • @aliceagren2670
      @aliceagren2670 Před 6 lety

      Courtney-Jai travle

    • @kennethbullard4225
      @kennethbullard4225 Před 6 lety +11

      To be myself without fear of discrimination and to make enough money to live happily!!!!
      Also, find someone to share a life with!!!!

    • @robertjazz3613
      @robertjazz3613 Před 6 lety +1

      Living happily with my lumbersexual man in our minimalistic house, and pursuing my acting/filmmmaking career.

    • @kevaunthedreamer5810
      @kevaunthedreamer5810 Před 6 lety +2

      I would like to become a famous actor/writer.

  • @OLDS98
    @OLDS98 Před 6 lety +1

    Congrats on your new apartment. You are making progress in your life. You are looking great too. You addressed the question about your girlfriend and about you being bisexual and about you being with a man. I did not ask the question, but I wondered. That is great what your mom did. That is a memory you can cherish.

  • @pancakesrbombford8313
    @pancakesrbombford8313 Před 6 lety +12

    I CAME OUT LAST YEAR. IT FEELS GOOD NOT TO HAVE TO HIDE MY FEELINGS

    • @Courtney-Jai
      @Courtney-Jai  Před 6 lety +1

      It the best I always compare it to wearing a mask all your life and finally being able to change it

  • @jiliandepaz2275
    @jiliandepaz2275 Před 3 lety +1

    I have a bisexual bestfriend. We made into relationship but later on he realized that we aren't fit to have deeper feelings for he is not yet ready to enter relationship with girls. So yeah, I'm still waiting for him to realize that I am the one

  • @SteveJFrost
    @SteveJFrost Před 6 lety +1

    It has been a while. Great to see you again.

  • @semschop3056
    @semschop3056 Před 6 lety +2

    Always love to learn more about you, and for my answer on your question what I want most in life is to just be able to do as much as I wand in the way I wand it wen ever I wand it if that makes any sense💜

  • @jamiefordx
    @jamiefordx Před 6 lety +2

    Missed you on youtube! I’m hype that you watch Game of thrones! ♥️ What’s your favorite house? :)

    • @Courtney-Jai
      @Courtney-Jai  Před 6 lety +1

      Well I don't really like any of the houses I think they all have their down falls but but I like tiryan and aura (think that's how they are spelt) ones just cocky and clever the others a total badass

  • @HelloKittyGal16
    @HelloKittyGal16 Před 5 lety +1

    I want to be understood and I want to understand myself wholeheartedly.

  • @surmaster4618
    @surmaster4618 Před 6 lety +1

    Just wanted to say your channel has great content 👍🏼 & you're really handsome 😍

    • @Courtney-Jai
      @Courtney-Jai  Před 6 lety +1

      Just want to say thank and I hope the new content to

    • @surmaster4618
      @surmaster4618 Před 6 lety

      Courtney-Jai thank you. what do you do to have such glowing skin?! What do you eat? Any specific skin care products?

  • @tiktokcok6107
    @tiktokcok6107 Před 6 lety +4

    You are so freaking CUTE! HOLY COW :)

  • @zachevens4271
    @zachevens4271 Před 6 lety

    Missed ya glad you are back :)

  • @Fletch_18
    @Fletch_18 Před 2 lety +1

    I wonder why so many bisexual men especially never come out!? 🤔
    Great video.
    Can I ask something, as a bisexual man you're clearly attracted to the feminine form, however with mem are you attracted to more feminine men Or more masculine looking men?.....
    Have a great day!

    • @Courtney-Jai
      @Courtney-Jai  Před 2 lety +1

      I'd say more masculine men Henry cavill , Michael b Jordan but the main reason alot of bi guys don't come out is because they are probably the most scrutinised from people within the lgbtq+ and people outside of it. To other queer people bisexuals can walk that line of appearing straight and alot of queer folk don't like that. See a bi guy with a man he's gay when he's with a women he's straight or lying he's gay generally how bi guys are viewed. As for women they tend to be over sexualised as bisexual unfortunately thats down to media and such.

    • @Fletch_18
      @Fletch_18 Před 2 lety

      @@Courtney-Jai thank you. That's Interesting.
      Have a great day!

  • @RD-kw7mk
    @RD-kw7mk Před 4 lety +1

    I’m always afraid to tell a woman I’m dating I’m bi. I have some deeply seeded fear theyd leave me because of it

  • @mavexx
    @mavexx Před 6 lety +3

    Youre so cuuttteeee😆😆😆❤❤

  • @morgannyhan6875
    @morgannyhan6875 Před 6 lety +3

    Omg shit the bed orange juice and pizza are my favourite foods too 😂

  • @Sasha.studios_official
    @Sasha.studios_official Před 6 lety +3

    Courtney i missed you

  • @_echointhevoid_
    @_echointhevoid_ Před 6 lety

    Yes more Q&As!

  • @johnmoon3848
    @johnmoon3848 Před 5 lety

    You're a very wonderful and beautiful person!! ⚘

  • @Juliana-xe4rr
    @Juliana-xe4rr Před 5 lety +1

    so hi, i know this video is kind of old but i need help, ive been dating this guy for about a month and he told me last night that he was bi, i still love him im just not happy that he waited to tell me, and advise ?

    • @Courtney-Jai
      @Courtney-Jai  Před 5 lety

      If anything you should be very happy it means he feels safe with you , telling people you are any sexuality from what's considered the norm is very hard and we only do it if we feel a true connection with someone so don't be mad with them respect them because he's no different from the day before and making him feel that way will only make him regret his decision to open up to you

  • @BOKsOo95
    @BOKsOo95 Před 5 lety

    Love it 😍

  • @jimkaragkounis4750
    @jimkaragkounis4750 Před 5 lety +7

    I though i might actually be straight but then I saw him in that shirt

  • @parkheeso7165
    @parkheeso7165 Před 5 lety

    I am a girl who inlove with my bisexual guy who is my bestfriend.. Please help me because i know he is not interested in me and fuck i can't control my feelings anymore..
    Last night i asked him many things about his past relationship with both man and women he ever date and he really open with me.. What should i do now? I don't want to ruined our friendship but i inlove with him..

  • @kayjay6238
    @kayjay6238 Před 6 lety +2

    Whoa didn't expect you to be an orc, a pretty solid choice tho. Also good choice on OJ and pizza

  • @Isa-cr7fd
    @Isa-cr7fd Před 6 lety +5

    I said yes daddy I do 😛

  • @ollyhendrickx7901
    @ollyhendrickx7901 Před 4 lety

    🤟💛 thanks Courtney J’ai

  • @Alex_Dra
    @Alex_Dra Před 6 lety +1

    Who do you think is a handsome girl? (Girlfrend does not count)

    • @Courtney-Jai
      @Courtney-Jai  Před 6 lety +1

      haha not sure I can answer that one without messaging her, I think any girl can be attractive different aspects make someone handsome/attractive personality , nice teeth , pretty eyes I'm not to bothered about height hair colour breast or bum size I just need to like the girl and then see where it goes from there

  • @janmichaels8550
    @janmichaels8550 Před 6 lety

    You’re awesome love your presence you’re totally cool wishing you the very best thank you Jan Michaels

  • @ruvenw4317
    @ruvenw4317 Před 6 lety +1

    Love Italian food too because my grandma is Italian✌🏻👍🏻

    • @Courtney-Jai
      @Courtney-Jai  Před 6 lety

      Nice does she make fresh pasta cuz that stuff is amazing

  • @oriolsalvador
    @oriolsalvador Před 5 lety +1

    Ryan Reynolds 👍🏻 🔥

  • @EddieBryan
    @EddieBryan Před 4 lety

    Into any meditation? Any vegetarianism? Astrology, reincarnation?

    • @Courtney-Jai
      @Courtney-Jai  Před 4 lety

      I like the idea of recantation I have meditated in yoga and I like having a varied diet wouldn't mind going vegetarian in small periods but I don't think I would stay as one.

  • @jannygravanto3705
    @jannygravanto3705 Před 4 lety

    i want to have a relationship with respectful person and i want to travel with them in other country

  • @julianbaumann9500
    @julianbaumann9500 Před 4 lety

    My bf is bi and i'm just kinda scared he might not like girls the way he likes boys and idk what to do

    • @Courtney-Jai
      @Courtney-Jai  Před 4 lety

      Talk to him thats the point of being in a relationship with someone if you can't talk to them , then there a deeper problem there.

  • @Idrick-fu7sz
    @Idrick-fu7sz Před rokem

    I have a crush on a dude and I want to get close but don’t know how to talk too him scared he turn me down

    • @Courtney-Jai
      @Courtney-Jai  Před rokem

      Well talk to him as friend would most important thing to find out is if he's queer

    • @Idrick-fu7sz
      @Idrick-fu7sz Před rokem

      @@Courtney-Jai he is a queer wat I love about him

  • @klodegarazeval8813
    @klodegarazeval8813 Před 5 lety

    He's so handsome

  • @ham__za7833
    @ham__za7833 Před 6 lety +1

    I'm in love with you ....I'm bi to 🔥😉

  • @yewani4018
    @yewani4018 Před 6 lety +1

    Hi

  • @zorgodiffusealveolar4406

    I'm 11

  • @najeebirfani6676
    @najeebirfani6676 Před 4 lety

    HI BUDDY CAN YOU PLEASE GUIDE IN PRESENT COVID 19 PANDEMIC CORONA VIRUS DOING SEX WITH PARTNER IS HARMFUL OR NOT

  • @clossbm
    @clossbm Před 6 lety +1

    He is so freaking cute :3

  • @mithzynelson3110
    @mithzynelson3110 Před 5 lety

    Cute!

  • @surmaster4618
    @surmaster4618 Před 6 lety +1

    Hey Courtney I have a question,
    Do you date other bisexual women or men? Or you date gay guys? I would like to understand your perspective.

    • @Courtney-Jai
      @Courtney-Jai  Před 6 lety +2

      I've actually answered your questions. By making a video about it thought it was an excellent topic to talk about so thank u

    • @surmaster4618
      @surmaster4618 Před 6 lety

      Courtney-Jai awesome, sweet! I'll be sure to check it out. Thanks man! What would it be titled as?

  • @harkapas5601
    @harkapas5601 Před 5 lety

    Cool

  • @MarioPerez-ro1rm
    @MarioPerez-ro1rm Před 5 lety

    God! You’re handsome

  • @Pradeep_889
    @Pradeep_889 Před 3 lety

    Hi, Indian here.

  • @simonluigiphillipson90

    I wish I had a boyfriend like you jai 😢😭

  • @vasilymoskalenko5682
    @vasilymoskalenko5682 Před 5 lety

    Commando 😍😍😍😍

  • @Vizible21
    @Vizible21 Před 6 lety

    So do you still have gay sex while being in a relationship with a girl?

    • @Courtney-Jai
      @Courtney-Jai  Před 6 lety

      No I don't have an open relationship I like monogamy

  • @patricksiege1965
    @patricksiege1965 Před 6 lety +1

    how old are you?

  • @kristoffigdalino1951
    @kristoffigdalino1951 Před 5 lety

    hu babe i love you 😊😊

  • @hyakintos
    @hyakintos Před 5 lety +1

    You are like these all gay men from regious organisations who say that they are gay but can be with woman because of romantic attraction and their sex life is "fabulous". They don't say that all is one big fake.

    • @Courtney-Jai
      @Courtney-Jai  Před 5 lety +2

      Grammar. If you're going to be a twat, at least learn how to spell.

  • @Not-Ap
    @Not-Ap Před 5 lety

    Do you do video request?

    • @Courtney-Jai
      @Courtney-Jai  Před 5 lety

      Depends on the video idea if I like it I'm happy to do a video on it

    • @Not-Ap
      @Not-Ap Před 5 lety

      Courtney-Jai Ok fair enough. Would you consider doing one on the difference between guy who's just experimenting vs a full on bisexual?

    • @Courtney-Jai
      @Courtney-Jai  Před 5 lety

      @@Not-Ap yeah sure sounds like an interesting enough premise

  • @Growvloggiepolkadots
    @Growvloggiepolkadots Před 4 lety

    Do you have a bf right now or a gf?

    • @Courtney-Jai
      @Courtney-Jai  Před 4 lety

      I have a gf all though it's funny how you put only a gf somehow insinuating that's a down grade

    • @Growvloggiepolkadots
      @Growvloggiepolkadots Před 4 lety

      @@Courtney-Jai That was a blunt typing error .I corrected . I was just curious .No bad intentions here .

  • @bingleblorp993
    @bingleblorp993 Před 6 lety +1

    Ryan Reynolds is my fucking father uwuwuwuwuwuwuwuwuwuwuwuwuwuwuwuwuwuw

  • @spawnofhell4981
    @spawnofhell4981 Před 5 lety

    Going for deadpool

    • @Courtney-Jai
      @Courtney-Jai  Před 5 lety +1

      Deadpool is pretty awesome my fav super hero is spawn

    • @spawnofhell4981
      @spawnofhell4981 Před 5 lety

      Ya plus Reynolds acting made dead pool 1-2 my favorite marvel movie spawns my 2 next to dare devil

  • @jhonclarkmendoza1959
    @jhonclarkmendoza1959 Před 4 lety

    I love crush!! Pleas accepted me gay love ❤️

  • @sherwinmapalo7624
    @sherwinmapalo7624 Před 5 lety

    iloveyou

  • @ishkibable
    @ishkibable Před 5 lety

    Gosh you're cute, and that accent...

  • @xnellsbellsx
    @xnellsbellsx Před 4 lety

    God your gorgeous

  • @michaelsegovia9531
    @michaelsegovia9531 Před 2 lety

    damn this guy is hot where are the guys that look like him lol 🤤

  • @AarmOZ84
    @AarmOZ84 Před 5 lety

    Dammit! The good looking ones are always taken. 😣

    • @Courtney-Jai
      @Courtney-Jai  Před 5 lety +1

      But there's always a better one who's single

    • @AarmOZ84
      @AarmOZ84 Před 5 lety

      @@Courtney-Jai Thanks for the message of hope.

  • @nindoyaga2316
    @nindoyaga2316 Před 5 lety

    There is always that one guy to dislike the video

    • @Courtney-Jai
      @Courtney-Jai  Před 5 lety

      Of course there is but that's the internet for you

  • @blockieran
    @blockieran Před 6 lety +1

    Can you change your intro to be more inclusive of nonbinary people?:) Example: boys and girls and nonbinary pals

    • @Courtney-Jai
      @Courtney-Jai  Před 6 lety +2

      Yeah I suppose or possibly I could say hello people's that might work better that way I'm just addressing everyone then anyone specifically

    • @Courtney-Jai
      @Courtney-Jai  Před 6 lety

      My Friend its cool ive already spoke with noemi and ive changes my intro its no biggy and if it makes everyone feel more welcomed to the channel then im happy to do so

    • @Imnotallergictopeanuts
      @Imnotallergictopeanuts Před 6 lety

      I understand you want inclusion but you also need to understand some people might not believe or agree on it, not saying I don’t believe in it but you never know.

    • @Courtney-Jai
      @Courtney-Jai  Před 6 lety

      万里Hyukoh I really don't mind I can everybody this means my content is for everyone I'd hate to exclude someone simply because of an intro which is easily changed

    • @Imnotallergictopeanuts
      @Imnotallergictopeanuts Před 6 lety

      Courtney-Jai that’s fair enough, I totally agree it’s good to include people but a lot of people aren’t tolerant still.