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  • @rominacarter
    @rominacarter Před 4 lety +1248

    you walked into the room and now my heart has been stolen
    you took me back in time to when I was unbroken
    now you're all I want
    and I knew it from the very first moment
    'cause a light came on when I heard that song and I want you to sing it again
    I swear that every word you sing, you wrote them for me
    like it was a private show, I know you never saw me
    when the lights come on and I'm on my own
    will you be there to sing it again?
    could I be the one you talk about in all your stories
    can I be him
    I heard there was someone but I know he don't deserve you
    if you were mine I'd never let anyone hurt you, no, no
    I wanna dry those tears, kiss those lips
    it's all that I've been thinking about
    'cause a light came on when I heard that song and I want you to sing it again
    I swear that every word you sing, you wrote them for me
    like it was a private show, but I know you never saw me
    when the lights come on and I'm on my own
    will you be there to sing it again?
    could I be the one you talk about in all your stories?
    can I be the one
    can I be the one
    can I be the one
    oh, can I, can I be him?
    won't you sing it again?
    oh, when you sing it again
    can I be him?
    oh, sing it again,
    oh, when you sing it again
    can I be him?
    I swear that every word you sang, you wrote 'em for me
    Like it was a private show, but I know you never saw me
    When the lights come on and I'm on my own
    Will you be there, will you be there?
    Can I be the one you talk about in all your stories
    can I be him?
    can I be him?
    can I be him?
    can I be him?

  • @ashleysharp6041
    @ashleysharp6041 Před 4 lety +2662

    i just want a hug at this point

  • @poltergeist8425
    @poltergeist8425 Před 4 lety +1894

    It's not the lyrics that make us cry. It's the person we think of while listening to the lyrics.

    • @barbie7191
      @barbie7191 Před 4 lety +33

      。oʟɨʋɛʀ 。 i dont have a person rn yet i’m balling my eyes out... so it’s definitely the emotions that the lyrics give out. i need a hug
      ;((

    • @calebloganeditz7120
      @calebloganeditz7120 Před 4 lety +3

      True

    • @syifaanabb8814
      @syifaanabb8814 Před 4 lety +3

      SO TRUE

    • @savannahhall7429
      @savannahhall7429 Před 4 lety +3

      and thats a fact right there

    • @courtneyblommer6483
      @courtneyblommer6483 Před 4 lety +2

      I feel that. And remember all of you matter. You all are worth it.

  • @ariannaruvalcaba2738
    @ariannaruvalcaba2738 Před 4 lety +2173

    why is everything sadder when its slowed down

  • @callmeali5610
    @callmeali5610 Před 4 lety +1024

    it hurts to be treated as a second options or ignored when they are your only priority and number 1, right?... notice me

    • @kenziegrossenbacher226
      @kenziegrossenbacher226 Před 4 lety +5

      if this aint fax idk what is

    • @avalanche.3333
      @avalanche.3333 Před 4 lety +21

      im not as pretty as she is
      and im not as skinny as she is
      or as smart
      or as funny
      or as happy
      or as popular
      or a dancer
      or a cheerleader
      but i love you!
      and you love
      her.
      yeah? im the second too, girly. i was talking to him earlier and he said sorry it took so long, he was talking to *her*
      but its okay, and know im thinking bout you!!:)))

    • @havensegovia1370
      @havensegovia1370 Před 4 lety +11

      Avalanche. 33 but you are as pretty as her, dont chase someone that doesn’t treat you like the amazing person you are. you deserve so much more than being a second option, because to someone else you’re already their first. don’t chase someone that doesn’t see your worth. you deserve only the best and you shouldn’t lower your standards! you’re worth it and you’re beautiful! there’s someone out there for you, just wait on it

    • @avalanche.3333
      @avalanche.3333 Před 4 lety +5

      Haven Segovia this made my day. thank you

    • @havensegovia1370
      @havensegovia1370 Před 4 lety +4

      Avalanche. 33 of course! enjoy the rest of your day :)

  • @vomitwrld
    @vomitwrld Před 4 lety +582

    songs slowed down hits different

  • @nadiaaliyyah7659
    @nadiaaliyyah7659 Před 4 lety +595

    here's to never being good enough :/

  • @briannaramirez2368
    @briannaramirez2368 Před 4 lety +323

    i wanna be friends w everyone in these comments bruh. i’d give all of u guys hugs🥺

  • @jamieshepherd7473
    @jamieshepherd7473 Před 4 lety +739

    Is anyone
    Sitting in a room
    Crying
    Wiping the tears way so your parents don’t see
    Acting fine, when really you’re hurting...
    No? Just me? Great...

  • @elodie5026
    @elodie5026 Před 3 lety +210

    hey future me.
    I know its pretty hard, but you don't wanna show it.
    Its ok if you wanna leave.
    But dont tell anyone, you cant really trust them with your secrets.
    I know it feels like your gonna be alone forever, but you won't.
    you just have to hang on because some day, some way it will all be worth it.
    the tears, emptiness, yelling, fights, dreams, it will all be worth it. ❤

    • @arianagrande4623
      @arianagrande4623 Před 3 lety +2

      someone tell elodie i love you . things will get better , times running out for me , remember me . goodbye honey but please . stay here for me

    • @elodie5026
      @elodie5026 Před 3 lety

      @@arianagrande4623 you hand in there as well hun. It will all be okay, someday. ❤

    • @georgia3219
      @georgia3219 Před 3 lety

      I love you

    • @tengkusarah6155
      @tengkusarah6155 Před 3 lety +1

      hey it's 8 months later, how have you been? :)

    • @jewelrhea
      @jewelrhea Před 3 lety

      Hey it’s 8 months later!!

  • @bailey.h
    @bailey.h Před 4 lety +243

    I've never been first choice.

    • @pouking5015
      @pouking5015 Před 3 lety +12

      Same I’m always last when I put them first

    • @karlakang5915
      @karlakang5915 Před 3 lety

      same when i know im gonna be second choice i just dont make an effort

    • @georgia3219
      @georgia3219 Před 3 lety

      I love you

    • @georgia3219
      @georgia3219 Před 3 lety

      @@pouking5015 I love you

    • @georgia3219
      @georgia3219 Před 3 lety +1

      @@karlakang5915 I love you

  • @sugarfart8832
    @sugarfart8832 Před 4 lety +139

    Yo that phrase in the picture hits deep if you think about it. Like most people are a bit happier during the day when the sun is out and shining brightly and beautifully. But,when night rolls around we have our 'Sad Hours' and cry our hearts out for whatever reason. When the moon is also shining brightly and beautifully as well. And in that reason,the moon sees us crying and can see your pain and sorrow and the moon will find out your deepest secrets that you most likely never told a soul. Damn.

  • @aohlywud
    @aohlywud Před 4 lety +339

    when he’s all you think about and you don’t even cross his mind so you get sad at 4am so you turn to this song because you relate so much and it makes you sad because you know he’s missing out on so much and you could love him so well and show him what real love feels like but he’s fucking around with so many girls and you know it but you don’t want to think about that so you turn this up so loud to drown out those thoughts. hehe, me? nah

  • @williamclark7569
    @williamclark7569 Před 5 lety +104

    This song is one of my most favorite song

  • @averyschilling4949
    @averyschilling4949 Před 4 lety +104

    this song makes me want to hold someone's hand

  • @lianadiomampo-wico5790
    @lianadiomampo-wico5790 Před 4 lety +134

    hi there,
    i donʼt know you, and you donʼt know me either. i know youʼve been hurting. you are very strong. howʼd i know? see? youʼre reading my comment. i love you, please smile. please know youʼre worth it. youʼre beautiful. inside and out. take care and have a great day ahead! :))

  • @chelsealovestrand5662
    @chelsealovestrand5662 Před 4 lety +72

    "If you were mine id never let anyone hurt you" 😔💔

  • @darleneatla9342
    @darleneatla9342 Před 3 lety +72

    seeing your crush with someone else and holds hand, was really hurt :")

    • @arianagrande4623
      @arianagrande4623 Před 3 lety +2

      the someone else , is my bestfriend . they dont know abt me crushing on him . chile anyway so keep your head up , our crown's falling

    • @darleneatla9342
      @darleneatla9342 Před 3 lety

      @@arianagrande4623 tell him your feelings,or you can get hurt :"(

    • @haleighroberts135
      @haleighroberts135 Před 3 lety +1

      every dayyy my mood just drops as soon as I see him and his gf

    • @uhdiva
      @uhdiva Před 3 lety +1

      but at the end i still support him because his happiness is most important :

    • @darleneatla9342
      @darleneatla9342 Před 3 lety +1

      @@uhdiva :(

  • @erikaridleyy
    @erikaridleyy Před 3 lety +74

    Dear Mum,
    I need you,
    i need you now,
    i need you to hear me
    But you dont,
    you dont hear me crying
    You dont hear me screaming in pain whilst i rip my hair out to pieces
    You dont hear me try and breathe calmly
    I need you to see me
    See my numb face that shows im not okay
    I need you to see how i truly feel
    But i feel nothing
    I feel alone
    I feel scared
    Im scared to die
    Im scared to live
    Im scared to smile
    Im scared to express how i feel
    But i hear you
    I heard u say theres nothing wrong with me
    I heard you say u would send me to a hospital or a phycotic ward and leave me
    You would leave me?
    But i think u did ages ago
    Im sorry im not enough, im sorry i dont make u smile anymore
    Im sorry i annoy you
    Im sorry
    Why cant u hear me
    Why cant u see me
    Why cant u help me.
    I need you
    I need you to wipe my tears and say its okay
    I need you to hug me until all my tears are let out
    I need you to hold me in your arms and say i love you
    But you dont
    But i love you Mum 🥺
    ~Erika~

  • @miloluvr555
    @miloluvr555 Před 4 lety +140

    this really makes me want to hear someone say ' it'll be alright , im there for you ' and just ugh-

    • @lenxmxurx3343
      @lenxmxurx3343 Před 4 lety +1

      itll be alright, im there for you

    • @miloluvr555
      @miloluvr555 Před 4 lety

      @@lenxmxurx3343 hell yeah omg you made my day

    • @ash-gw7es
      @ash-gw7es Před 4 lety +1

      it’ll be alright, i’m always here too, rant in the comments anytime girly

    • @benedettacosta7123
      @benedettacosta7123 Před 3 lety +1

      It'll be alright , I m there for you ❤❤❤❤

    • @user-mf4bh6zp5r
      @user-mf4bh6zp5r Před 3 lety

      IT WILLLL BEEEEE ALRIGHTTTTT or maybe It is now? I WILL ALWAYS BE HERE FOR YOU :3 HOWWW AREEEE YOUUU NOWW?

  • @kendranelson1135
    @kendranelson1135 Před 4 lety +456

    Can I be her? You treat her with love and affection and don’t realise I’m sitting right here just for you... Why can’t you just look for once. I love you. You don’t realise it. I will treat you better, I have heard conversations you haven’t. She’s going to break your heart, come with me. She’s only with you because if your bestfriend. I want you more. I promise that I’ll treat you right. But I guess it’s what it is. Nobody realises I’m here, that I’m alive. I don’t blame them.. after all, I’m just going to end it. The phrase ‘they only care about you when your dead’ applies. I’ll die, lets see. Will I see my family? I miss them. They were my everything but turned into ash in a car accident... If you won’t love me, what’s the point in hating myself. At least I’ll have my baby sister.... I love you. Don’t forget me/ remember me...
    Goodbye world

    • @kenziegrossenbacher226
      @kenziegrossenbacher226 Před 4 lety +18

      This hits tho

    • @kendranelson1135
      @kendranelson1135 Před 4 lety +7

      Kenzie Grossenbacher 🥺

    • @Yara-us5ey
      @Yara-us5ey Před 4 lety +13

      u have no idea how much i relate to this

    • @gracesheehan6110
      @gracesheehan6110 Před 4 lety +51

      please, please don't do it you have so much time left to live

    • @claireelizabeth4787
      @claireelizabeth4787 Před 4 lety +46

      stay alive please. even though you don’t know me, i love you. it’ll all be okay, and in the end, you have so much to live for. it’s gets better, i promise.

  • @Gothic_Loser04
    @Gothic_Loser04 Před 4 lety +138

    You walked into the room and now my heart has been stolen
    You took me back in time to when I was unbroken
    Now you're all I want
    And I knew it from the very first moment
    'Cause a light came on when I heard that song and I want you to sing it again
    I swear that every word you sing, you wrote them for me
    Like it was a private show, I know you never saw me
    When the lights come on and I'm on my own
    Will you be there to sing it again?
    Could I be the one you talk about in all your stories?
    Can I be her?
    I heard there was someone but I know she don't deserve you
    If you were mine I'd never let anyone hurt you, no, no
    I wanna dry those tears, kiss those lips
    It's all that I've been thinking about..
    'Cause a light came on when I heard that song and I want you to sing it again
    I swear that every word you sing, you wrote them for me
    Like it was a private show, but I know you never saw me
    When the lights come on and I'm on my own
    Will you be there to sing it again?
    Could I be the one you talk about in all your stories?
    Can I be the one
    Can I be the one
    Can I be the one
    Oh, can I, can I be her?
    Won't you sing it again?
    Oh, when you sing it again
    Can I be her?
    Oh, sing it again, yeah
    Oh, when you sing it again
    Can I be her?
    I swear that every word you sang, you wrote 'em for me
    Like it was a private show, but I know you never saw me
    When the lights come on and I'm on my own
    Will you be there, will you be there?
    Can I be the one you talk about in all your stories
    Can I be her?
    Can I be her?
    Can I be her?
    Can I be her?

  • @beccasellwood
    @beccasellwood Před 4 lety +54

    I can’t stop thinking about you

  • @RIOTPUNK1977
    @RIOTPUNK1977 Před 4 lety +54

    Sounds clean.

  • @riplvr
    @riplvr Před 4 lety +192

    Can I be her? Skinny beautiful slim pretty blue eyes pretty blond hair under 150 pounds can’t I just be happy average height/ weight and everything can’t you tell I stare at you for minutes you just end up walking with your ‘’ girl’’ and it breaks my heart to see you with her and be happy and look in her eyes like she’s everything you have I’m here too can’t you tell I’m sorry I’m not good enough sorry for being worth it I’m sorry I’m not pretty enough I’m sorry I’m not pretty I’m sorry for being fat I’m sorry that I don’t have a beautiful body I’m sorry that I’m build in that way I’m sorry for staring and thinking about you all the time I’m sorry for to love you even if I don’t even love myself
    I’m sorry.
    I’m sorry.
    I’m sorry.
    I’m sorry.
    I’m sorry.
    I’m sorry.
    I’m sorry for being a failure and being who I am.

    • @brianphoon8481
      @brianphoon8481 Před 4 lety +11

      Has anyone told you that they love you today? I love you

    • @avasmith36
      @avasmith36 Před 4 lety +7

      Itss. Your.girlll you’re not a failure you’re perfect they way you are you don’t need to change yourself for anyone there’s nothing to be sorry for if they can’t except you for you they aren’t the one remember that

    • @juliario8832
      @juliario8832 Před 4 lety +5

      Girl DONT APOLOGIZE. You are SO worth it! I understand how painful it is to not have someone love u the same but if he doesn’t realize how worth it you are and how beautiful and caring you are than that’s definitely his loss. You aren’t even close to failure, never tell yourself that. And guess what, u don’t need to have any of those features to be beautiful or enough bc u everyone is different and so unique and So are you. He’s missing out on a caring girl who sounds like she’d treat him amazing. His loss bby

    • @slowedreverbed.6630
      @slowedreverbed.6630 Před 4 lety +4

      DO NOT SAY SORRY. you’re beautiful. look at yourself. you’re unique and different. which is for the better. you’re worth the world and more princess!

    • @leri4958
      @leri4958 Před 3 lety +2

      you are perfect to me

  • @calebloganeditz7120
    @calebloganeditz7120 Před 4 lety +41

    3:01 is so calming when he say "can I be the one"

  • @s3v3nupurs85
    @s3v3nupurs85 Před 4 lety +42

    You know I haven't heard this song in a while, the first time I heard this song I was fairly happy. Now, looking back I wish I felt that way again. I miss the old me and i'm tried of crying. All I do is help people and I don't ask for help, I don't want people to go through the pain I am... I just want a hug :(

    • @babyfacecrysti7994
      @babyfacecrysti7994 Před 3 lety

      Sending virtural hug ❤️ 🤲 czcams.com/video/wJO-MTh6NNo/video.html

    • @_.lyvia._
      @_.lyvia._ Před 3 lety

      I feel the same way, I'm so tired of crying every weekend. Here's a virtual hug🥺🤗

  • @kenjieate
    @kenjieate Před 4 lety +83

    I miss you so much ethan… im sorry I never came back.. I told you it would get better. Im so sorry ethan, im so sorry.. You were not a burden to anyone around you. The purest of souls. I hope you get to be an engineer like you always wanted and I hope youre making trinkets for everyone to enjoy. I hope youre with your kitten. I hope you don't miss home. Im going to paris, just like we planned. Ill see the towers and the lights, just like you wanted. I miss you buddy, Please watch over everyone who might have the same fate as you. You were such an important part of my life and I will never forget your smile.

  • @jei8877
    @jei8877 Před 4 lety +63

    Why can't he just see that I'm here?

  • @capixrahim7371
    @capixrahim7371 Před 4 lety +53

    Im your options while u are my priority.
    Yes its hurt
    Loving someone who in love with someone else.
    But still
    I love u to the deepest
    Please god help me.
    I just wanna lay here and cry

  • @hannahelkins9724
    @hannahelkins9724 Před 5 lety +40

    my favorite song 😍

  • @sxpreme.yehyeh1365
    @sxpreme.yehyeh1365 Před 3 lety +20

    :( it hurts when we listen to this song cause we think if a certain someone in our life and we cant have them and it reminds us that we aren't the right one for them 😣

  • @kiraanastacio3506
    @kiraanastacio3506 Před 4 lety +69

    can i be her? can i be the one you wake up everyday to? can i be your best friend, your partner in crime? can i be the one who sees the real you, the vulnerable part? can i be the one to love you and be the one to worship you? can i be the one you want to have a happily ever after w and have kids and grow old? i j have one question... can i be her?

  • @marielcansancio8950
    @marielcansancio8950 Před 4 lety +36

    Am I the only one who is crying here? It’s 1 am and I’m so sad listening to this thinking of her.

  • @johncarlbalgua9064
    @johncarlbalgua9064 Před 3 lety +10

    Sending a virtual hugs for the one's whos facing deppresion♥️

  • @kirstenpalma1396
    @kirstenpalma1396 Před 3 lety +8

    I'm listening to this on repeat. It's really great!

  • @pinkpunkbgyoaces7981
    @pinkpunkbgyoaces7981 Před 2 lety +3

    Im still addicted to this song

  • @Yara-us5ey
    @Yara-us5ey Před 4 lety +40

    i wish i could be her 😟

  • @katrinamay9659
    @katrinamay9659 Před 3 lety +3

    Huh, now that was a lot of damage.

  • @elliek2352
    @elliek2352 Před 4 lety +5

    Now this hit different 🥺

  • @kay-hx5qi
    @kay-hx5qi Před 4 lety +17

    This is better than the original 😳👋😊

  • @anyakorczak6322
    @anyakorczak6322 Před 3 lety +5

    Can I be the one you talk about in all your story’s just hits different

  • @angelimdani2768
    @angelimdani2768 Před 4 lety +7

    this songs relates too that new girl your ex crush has and ur thinking if "he would stay with me a bit longer" you can make him feel the luckiest boy in the world and instead his with her and u wish u were her but u also are happy cause you felt that love and joy from him now its her turn to be the happiest girl

  • @dafa7779
    @dafa7779 Před 3 lety +3

    2:38 best part from me

  • @apphia3204
    @apphia3204 Před 3 lety +11

    in real life, we just need to accept the fact that we're the second lead of our own love story.

  • @farhakalbi3993
    @farhakalbi3993 Před 2 lety +1

    playing this while raining hits so diff

  • @thenamelessxylophone6289
    @thenamelessxylophone6289 Před 3 lety +16

    yk, this is reminding me about how i like my best friend, but i know for a fact that he would never like me back, cause im just the "best friend"..honestly im not surprised i wouldnt want to date me either. 🙂

  • @Meow-dx8vu
    @Meow-dx8vu Před 3 lety +4

    It really tickles my soul when a sad song is slowed . Goosh🥴

  • @kl40shng
    @kl40shng Před 3 lety +3

    I always remember Han Seojun every time I listen to this song.

  • @mariamartinez5253
    @mariamartinez5253 Před 4 lety +13

    I just want to feel like myself again at this point

  • @lemonsaresourashell3493
    @lemonsaresourashell3493 Před 4 lety +25

    i really like you, and it’s killing me everyday to see you like her. at least i think you like her, because why would you like me? nobody does.

  • @gracie1401
    @gracie1401 Před 4 lety +3

    i miss the old you.

  • @chloemartin8880
    @chloemartin8880 Před 4 lety +27

    why didn't you ever come back? i waited and waited and waited, each and every day begging for my phone to light up. you were off with them, after everything you chose her over me. i was there for everything. through everything, all the good and bad, and you left me in the dark by myself. and now i can't get you out of my head, again.

  • @hiraeth1635
    @hiraeth1635 Před 4 lety +7

    can i be her :(

  • @user-lj9vi4cw7w
    @user-lj9vi4cw7w Před 3 lety +51

    ayo, single check :,)
    although you are a stranger to me,
    you will have me and if you hate me, i still love you.
    also comments be making me cryy 🥺🥺~

    • @rebeccalee5888
      @rebeccalee5888 Před 3 lety +1

      stay single, it's not worth all the heartbreak.

  • @oliviax5763
    @oliviax5763 Před 3 lety +1

    i love him.

  • @gayprince3282
    @gayprince3282 Před 4 lety +21

    Can I be him pls I don't want u to wait for that guy to think about if he's gonna go back with u bc ik when u walk in that classroom ur my whole world but when u aren't there im down 😣 u prob think he deserves u but be doesn't I don't want u to get hurt anymore... Can I be him pls 😢

  • @hannahelkins9724
    @hannahelkins9724 Před 5 lety +18

    yessss

  • @savannahducote5673
    @savannahducote5673 Před 4 lety +3

    i miss him.

  • @imogenhaddrill2664
    @imogenhaddrill2664 Před 3 lety +8

    This is to anyone who is heartbroken of someone they thought would love them forever, or someone that doesn't even like you back, yes probably you. Keep listening
    Bro they don't like you okay, but are they really worth crying over, yeah maybe they have a great smile, amazing eyes, perfect hair, anything you want in a person, but why cry over someone when there are so many other amazing people just like you wanting someone to love, to hold hands with. Trust me they aren't worth because your happiness is worth it, when you are truly happy you won't need someone to make you happy, cause youll be the only happiness you need, so take care of yourself. You'll realise they are probably just big jerks, you can be doing so many amazing things rn and you choose to cry, that's lame, get up and do something, do something for you, that person is stopping you from achieving so much and do you really want someone stopping you from doing your dream, no so get up and stop crying damn it, They are NOT worth it, wipe yo tears now, you are to damn special to cry over someone bby🥺 I've been through it and it's not worth it I promise, stop delaying on doing things that will make your life worth it, you might want to look like her or him but you are so unique and special don't change to look like them, everyone has insecurities and that's okay but don't let them destroy you, you are worth more than that, yeah ik I keep saying worth alot but that word can make such a difference like you can If you go do something productive, He or she is not thinking of you so why let them be in your mind when you aren't in there's, maybe you'll end up with them but if you two are meant to be together it will happen eventually but while you are waiting for that find someone else that could possibly be your other half or do something for you, and don't wait for people forever, move on, you won't get anywhere with them, let it be, you deserve so much.
    Keep your crown up queen/king. Never forget you are worth so much more than anyone will ever know.
    I love you.
    Stay strong.
    Have a great day.
    🥺💖✨☺️

    • @isa.226
      @isa.226 Před 3 lety

      sometimes you cant move on tho. ive liked him for over a year :/

  • @bhavini2345
    @bhavini2345 Před 3 lety +3

    _"now you're all i want, and i knew it from the very first moment"_ :)

  • @pastel.dreamers4484
    @pastel.dreamers4484 Před 3 lety +1

    I just wanna hug from him 😭

  • @c.maaniii
    @c.maaniii Před 3 lety +1

    i just miss him.

  • @lucymaexx4994
    @lucymaexx4994 Před 4 lety +12

    People say I have so many friends. But I feel like I’m drowning and everyone else can swim, but nobody will come and save me, they just want to get themselves to the shore. Everybody is fake, only trust yourself babes x

  • @karlakang5915
    @karlakang5915 Před 3 lety

    These are the type of people to be friends with, we're all strangers and out here supporting one another, this is the community we need, no one here even knows each other but yet we feel comfortable telling our stories, now we all have/had that one person in our life that we were afraid to let go, keep fighting, you are good enough-----

  • @sedraalgohary
    @sedraalgohary Před 3 lety +3

    the first time i cried while listening to this song, i was afraid of loosing my boy crush because of a girl in my class, and because i thought he would leave our school. now, im crying over that girl, she's my best friend. im loosing her because she's moving schools. im gonna miss her so much.

  • @willowboo3303
    @willowboo3303 Před 3 lety +8

    I used to feel really shitty and hurt inside when my best friend fell for someone else and not me.. He'd always flirt and tell me everything, I'd always get a bad feeling when something was wrong. The bad feeling would always lead me to him.. Then he said he liked someone else and Idk I just shattered.. I would cri to this song every fucking night.
    Well move two months later from that and I have a bf now, we love eachother a lot. But he just has this one friend which he always wants to talk to , always calls her, and ik for a fact he always talks to her. So I still cry to this damn song. Even tho shes taken I always feel something more between them.. Shes beautiful, great personality, and everyone enjoys her company.. Her voice isn't even scratchy and everything she does is adorable. I know its bad to compare myself to her, but if she really wanted to she could take him from me. Shes everything I'm not, he prefers her company. When him and I are in a call he always asks her to join.. So I know for sure I'm not interesting, I'm boring as fuck and shouldn't let him tell me I am. I love myself, I love myself a lot.. But seeing their relationship be better than ours is just hurting me inside to know that one day, even tho he reminds me everyday we'll be together until the end, I still feel like I'm not enough. He's amazing, funny, and amazing. Everything a girl has ever wanted, he told me that hes showing me a side of him he never shows. I opened up and here I am. A INSECURE DUMFUK WHO DOESN'T WANT ANYONE TO SEE THROUGH HER, BUT IN REALITY ONLY ONE PERSON HAS!
    Anyways, thank you for letting me vent and thanks for reading my insecurities towards his best friend and how I've been broken once by someone! Also how I still wish I was her even in a relationship. :)

    • @slowedandreverbedsongs3909
      @slowedandreverbedsongs3909 Před 3 lety +2

      Awh if he can’t see how good of a person you are drop him because you deserve a lot more better bby❤️

  • @aidaherrera_
    @aidaherrera_ Před 4 lety +6

    Omegod man so guuddddd

  • @alexiaasf
    @alexiaasf Před 4 lety +8

    i'm very introverted and i have social anxiety so its hard for me to give enough attention to my extrovert boyfriend and i always miss him when hes not here but when he is here i tend to push him away and i dont feel like im good enough at all im going insane ❤️

    • @alexiaasf
      @alexiaasf Před 3 lety

      wow its a year later and im out of that relationship and i have a thing with someone else, i dont feel this way anymore and i think im at my happiest :')

    • @smaytaganya1446
      @smaytaganya1446 Před 2 lety

      @@alexiaasf happy for you 🙏🏾❤

  • @wonderwall7175
    @wonderwall7175 Před 4 lety +6

    when u finally catch feelings for someone after 4 yrs but he happened to like your friend : )

  • @icebear1422
    @icebear1422 Před 4 lety +7

    I talk so much good about someone who cares so little about me:(i just want my life to be okay

  • @jackgander3724
    @jackgander3724 Před 4 lety +9

    I can’t do this for much longer... I’m losing my grip and once I let go I’ll be gone. I’ve been through this before and got through it, been through it yet again and got through it. The damage both those experiences left me with has drained me of my energy, I can’t keep up, I’ll be Gone within the week 💔

    • @xlcver
      @xlcver Před 4 lety +1

      Hey i just wanted to let you know that its not worth leaving okay? please let me know youre still here!!

    • @xlcver
      @xlcver Před 4 lety +1

      ik you wont believe me. but i really do care about you!

    • @xlcver
      @xlcver Před 4 lety +1

      please dont go, ik it hurts but talk to me. ill listen

    • @ash-gw7es
      @ash-gw7es Před 4 lety +3

      I really, genuinely hope it’s not too late and that you’ll read this in time; please, just try getting through it again. You succeeded TWICE; you will succeed again. Just try. Think about all the things you’ll miss if you decide to end it; think about the people who will be extremely heartbroken, believe me there’s someone out there who needs you in their life.

    • @jackgander3724
      @jackgander3724 Před 4 lety +1

      eilishavxcados hey I’m sorry, I only just saw this... Your support means the world, Thankyou.

  • @benedettacosta7123
    @benedettacosta7123 Před 3 lety +7

    Never thought this Song could never be sadder😣
    Can i be him?
    Why I can't be him.
    Why
    Why she is straight
    Why I love mer so much
    Why I m gay

  • @eve.911
    @eve.911 Před 3 lety +2

    im spending my friday night crying into my pillow to this song and balling my eyes out, somebody please hug me.

    • @willowboo3303
      @willowboo3303 Před 3 lety

      I will give you all of my hugs my guy, might not know you but you need to know that you are dearly loved! :)

  • @hayden6174
    @hayden6174 Před 3 lety +4

    it hurts when u think ur annoying the only person u wanna talk to 🙆🏽‍♀️

  • @jaemingf1190
    @jaemingf1190 Před 3 lety +1

    i need a hug(:

  • @scarlettdavis1491
    @scarlettdavis1491 Před 3 lety +7

    This is the first time I've heard this song and I kid you not a tear is about to fall down my cheekboufryvwotrfv

  • @englishwithpati
    @englishwithpati Před 4 lety +4

    "A problem is a chance for you to do your best."

  • @daniellefogg3010
    @daniellefogg3010 Před 2 lety

    This is what i need tbh

  • @liezelleborgonos9258
    @liezelleborgonos9258 Před 3 lety +1

    "The hardest love to forget is the love that never happen"

  • @carlgianan4020
    @carlgianan4020 Před 3 lety +5

    I need some hugs. Days are dark, no one's even there for me when i needed someone to talk. And it's so hard to hold still

    • @user-mf4bh6zp5r
      @user-mf4bh6zp5r Před 3 lety

      HEYYY AREEE YOUUU OKAAAY NOWW? ik it's hard sometimes but yk it's okay you have yourself and me :3 just keep trying okay wel ik Idk you but I care about you okay :3

  • @kyliexoxo819
    @kyliexoxo819 Před 3 lety +1

    I love this so much!!!!!

  • @chrisemely9424
    @chrisemely9424 Před 4 lety +5

    this was uploaded on my bday🥺

    • @ambergroenewold4989
      @ambergroenewold4989 Před 4 lety +1

      Ik its late but happy birthday

    • @chrisemely9424
      @chrisemely9424 Před 4 lety +1

      Amber Groenewold actually its next month since the video was uploaded last year so you’re actually early , but thank youu

  • @nikkivdlinden1981
    @nikkivdlinden1981 Před 3 lety +7

    for every1 who's hurt or scrolling in the comments:
    damn, were second choices, how do we know? everytime you're 'bestfriend' doesnt get attention from the girl shes talking the most to she goes to you because than she can prove 'look i have my bestfriend by my side'.
    its not that you can choose. like tf.

  • @josscarrillo5655
    @josscarrillo5655 Před 3 lety +3

    i saw this picture of a puzzle piece and under it, it said "everyone fits in somewhere". My immediate thought was "unless you were accidently put there and used as a replacement."

  • @lynniepooh000
    @lynniepooh000 Před 3 lety

    " when the lights come on , and i on my own will uu b there . ughhhhh 🥺🥺💕💯

  • @johannamariegica6387
    @johannamariegica6387 Před 4 lety +2

    it feels happy to be home in someone's arms but he doesn't feel the same way! how sad

  • @muti5610
    @muti5610 Před 3 lety +1

    i was never been someone's first choice

  • @lailaedukonis1871
    @lailaedukonis1871 Před 3 lety +1

    Can I be the reason u wake up in the morning ?

  • @nnlila8492
    @nnlila8492 Před 3 lety +1

    3:40 KILLING PART

  • @rebeccalee5888
    @rebeccalee5888 Před 3 lety +2

    Fuck growing up. It hurts so much. Why didn't anyone tell 5 year old me to stop wishing I was 18. I hate being alone and sad, I just want that little girl to come back. What happened to me?

  • @lancelotonly2585
    @lancelotonly2585 Před 2 lety +1

    4:02 The lyrics are very nice to listen to alone accompanied by the rain

  • @foreverminee
    @foreverminee Před 3 lety +3

    I want you to be him.

  • @carlyklein5052
    @carlyklein5052 Před 4 lety +2

    i'm in a relationship and i really care about her but sometimes we feel like a minimalistic friendship.
    she said she'd do all that she could to make us feel closer despite the distance, but all she's been doing is pulling away.
    It's hurting far more than it's helping :(

  • @adam8702
    @adam8702 Před 3 lety +2

    i feel sad but i cant cry im tired .

  • @kasyadasuol6102
    @kasyadasuol6102 Před 2 lety

    this song she makes me feel everything at the same time

  • @yolk8468
    @yolk8468 Před 3 lety +1

    My freakin mind started playing the memories we had like those old movies. Shit.

  • @olani9268
    @olani9268 Před 4 lety +3

    it hurts when someone promises they miss you and love you too but the second you say "hey you really dont care" they're ready to admit it and say goodbye but you're not.

  • @calebloganeditz7120
    @calebloganeditz7120 Před 4 lety +3

    Why am I crying

  • @elilulu5114
    @elilulu5114 Před 4 lety

    this song feels like being inlove to someone who doesnt know you and all you can do is imagine that person beside you, singing for you, hugging you and much more because you know you cant have them. all you can do is love them from afar.