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thanks for making another 1 i think u saw my comment and made this one thanks jamie:)
Nice video, Jamie!
@@dustygania2425 Maybe that one demographic is getting more acceptance.
And I don't see how a percentage can exceed 4,000, let alone 100.
What a random sponsor! Lol no hate, just what lol
Love how you said 7 labels. I been done 70 at this point lol 😭😢
“Asexuals want shiny things, world domination, and cake”
Considering we basically worship dragons already, would it be a stretch to think of us like kobolds?
We might be dragons
@@JDM-is-my-name or gods
@@watermelon.. dragon eldritch immortals?
@@procellae6572 yes
Checks out
I don't see why you have trouble with the 'transparent' joke - it's perfectly clear.
oh my- aaaaaa
*drum rimshot* ❤️
I’m glad you decided to see this joke through.
There was coffee in my mouth. Whyyyyyyy.
I live for dad puns on the internet
"A cake? Oh, something asexual is about to happen."
I feel seen, and I feel heard!!
Yes
me toooo
Love it!🍰
Yesyesyesyes
"A cake. Something asexual's going to happen."
Never heard something more accurate in my life. 😂 And yes, we do want shiney things, lots of cake, and world domination!
Also, the gaydar noise was adorable.
I'm ace and I hate cake lol... but I would love ace world domination
Yup. I’m ace and I just eat cake or pizza or whatever tasty thing I managed to find and plan for taking over whole continents, while my friends are gossiping about their crushes… not having those is very helpful in planning for world domination.
I'm aroace and also on the autism spectrum combined with Childhood trauma. Due to this relationship thing not being relevant in my life, I have enough time to bake cake. And bribe people with cake. To take over the world and create personal space! I hate garlic bread though. Garlic makes me nauseous from the smell alone. But I love cake and Anime. This is the first time I heard about the asexual scheming for world domination though. Must be because I never go outside.
Very much! As an acoace y✨e✨s
im asexual and i only like some cakes not all of them😭
Also, as an ace, the ace ball being the most chaotic ball is perfect representation
y'all don't have to deal with sexual attraction so you have free mind space to think about Worlddomination and such
I use that energy to compensate my aceness by making the crudest jokes this side of the equator 😌🤌
I so agree. As an Ace I too am quite chaotic! Also two of my younger friends just recently came out as Ace and I honestly should have known because those kids used to join me in being rambunctiously chaotic on the daily. LOL ❤️
@@magicalgio aroaces are even more powerful because we don't have romantic attraction to worry about either. We focus that preserved energy into the specifics of the plans for world domination.
Also baking cake and garlic bread for everyone.
I’m not ace, but my best friend is and tbh I support the aces in world domination. Bi ace solidarity 👍🏻
As per the rule of dad jokes, the meaning of the joke changes on what would achieve maximum funniness. so a dad being 'trans-parent' could be a trans parent, or a parent of a trans kid, depending on what is needed to make the joke land
Schrodinger's Dad Joke
Pretty ambiguous, that joke, isn't it? You could almost say it's...
not _transparent_ at all.
(I will see myself out)
Before I do, I would like to point out that I made the joke before I reached the referenced part in the video. Just for transparency.
Fuck autism is so apparent here
@@aprilmichel7816 oh, you
What if they're a trans parent of a trans kid?
A friend once made the joke: I have a photogenic memory. I may not remember everything but I know I looked good.
6:05 that is the best line I have ever heard in a CZcams video. "Something asexual is about to happen".
Hi! Etymology nerd here!
The reason aromantic and aromatic are pronounced the way they are is because of their roots
Aromantic is the prefix A- and then “romantic” so it’s a-romantic; a lack of romance
Whereas “Aromatic” comes from “Aroma,” which is an entirely different root. Aroma means smell, so “Aromatic” is something that smells nice- something that produces an aroma
Wow, thanks dude
@@weee2861
You’re welcome! Etymology is a fascination of mine so I enjoy taking excuse to share my knowledge
@@starlightmoone
That is VERY cool.
I dont know if that falls in the category of your field of interest, but we have multiple (i think two) books at home with lots little articles, on the origins of sayings, in them. (german sayings though) They are also very interesting.
Sometimes the origins of the sayings are quite obvious, but sometimes they are really not intuitive, but totally different than what I assumed.
I love etymology, not to be confused with entomology. It really bugs me when people mix those up.
@@sportenapfeltorten2095
Oh that absolutely does that sounds very very cool
The LGBallT Subreddit is such a delightfully weird but cute domain lol
Am a ball
am sphere
Am spherically shaped colors
Too bad the mods suck
@@kathfitz7441 why do mods suck?
7:57
i remember the first time i (as a trans man myself) used the mens bathroom at a public library, and i was comfortable doing so since i was with friends and the library was very vacant bc we lived in a rural area. and i came out after using the restroom and this guy stopped and looked at me, probably saw all the pride pins i was wearing (including one that said "i'm TRANS") and just gave me a thumbs up and walked out. idk who he is but he is the kind of ally i wish everyone else could have 😭
We shall thumbs up in his honor 👍
For real though, that’s so wholesome!
@@ladyscribbles6134 👍 to the thumb-man
@@ladyscribbles6134 🙇♀️👍
ok
Oh my god that’s my literal DREAM! The little things really matter.
Well, as the parent of a trans child who is myself trans I am happy to be able to clear this up. I am a transparent trans-parent, thank you for coming to my ted talk :)
Good god, I can see through you twice!
T h e p r o p h e c y i s c o m p l e t e
Thanks for making this *clear* :D
That's so cool.
do you exist then, you are clearing the unclearable
These comics are a really good way to bring spotlight to sexualities and genders that aren't talked about, and they're entertaining
What more do you need in life?
@The Werewolf Of Tasmania If you don't like it leave. (Or if you do and you're just thinking literally then that's fine, I'm not great at picking on that sort of stuff)
@The Werewolf Of Tasmania most of the comics were about aces. We don't sleep with anyone lmao
@The Werewolf Of Tasmania Ok that's cool, I get paranoid easily
Food, I guess.
As someone with a sexuality not many ppl, seeing all of it makes me smile
Here's a wholesome story about my dad and I. I'm a trans man, and I have a sister too. We're going on holiday soon, and we decided to wear matching clothes with someone else in the family. My sister and my mum are both getting French braids and matching shirts whilst my dad and I are wearing our Queen (the band) shirts. He insisted that us two match because we're both guys :,)
Awwe
Cute! You certainly won’t get lost from the group with the uniform.
your dad wating you to wear matching Queen tees sounds made in heaven
AWWWW that’s so sweet 😭😭😭
i’m not trans but i would like to swap dads
"It's either both or neither, so you may as well take both."
-Jammidodger fulfilling bi stereotypes
5:34 I thought the dad was gonna say 'i have no son'
Wait this isn't my house
I just love how chaotic aces are in these! We just aren't bothered with any sexual nonsense and are utilising the time that would be spent with that for doing actuall nonsense.
aren’t we taking over the world?
ok
That nonsense likely is still ultimately the product of some sort of breeding heuristics. Gathering food and valuables and allies, etc.
There are only two types of asexuals:
- shiny things-cake-asexuals
and
- garlic bread-world domination-asexuals
I'm both
I'll have all of the above please
where's the all of the above option?
I am absolutely both!
I'm a shiny things-cake-garlic bread-asexual...
Thank you for the brief "Pansexuals aren't biphobic or transphobic" validation Jamie. It made my morning. :)
7:14 Oh, it's _totally_ supposed to be you, Jamie.
As an aroace-spec person who is frequently complimented for their smell and has always really liked shiny things, world domination, garlic bread, boxed juice and cake, I can confirm that, sometimes, stereotypes can be pretty accurate 😂
It's kinda spooky how accurate it is! I want some cake and a juice box right now!! 😭
@@AlottaBoulchit Here they are! 🍰🧃
The difference here is that those were stereotypes that were created by our community. That’s why they are great they double as in-jokes and a bit more accurate than something that wasn’t like say we are all naive about sex.
@@sezzac155 You do have a point! I've never realized that stereotypes made by out-groupers tend to be different from those made by in-groupers.
Non-ace aro people like those things as well. When I achieve world domination, I intend to massively increase the number of bakeries to produce more aromatic cake and garlic bread displayed on shiny crystal stands. Funnily enough, though, I don't particularly care for juice boxes.
And yeah, getting my phone to quit auto-corrupting aromantic has been a thing.
6:22 This will never *not* annoy me when I get the "misspell" squiggle! No, I'm not talking about being _aromatic,_ and it's long past time these various online dictionaries learned the damn word *aromaNtic* exists!
Also, I love every one of the ace cartoons here. I think it was your videos from this sub that inspired me to print some door signs at work with ace, aro, and agender flag color themes in them. 💜
At least we can update the dictionaries ourselves
@@sluttyMapleSyrup Fucking autocorrect doesn’t give a damn shit about my existence and will gladly say I’m not a real person.
Jamie's blush at the 7:10 mark is delightful
4:45 I want to see these two balls being best friends and also maybe being each other's wing person.
once i had a appointment with a doctor who wasn't my regular one, and she was absolutely infuriating the whole time. at the and she asked me to "voluntarily" participate in a research, and asked me if i was het, gay or bi. i said no, I'm asexual, and explained it, and she looked at me like she was super annoyed, like "just say an option i have a checkbox for", so absurdly rude
LMAO “just pick one” oh so you want me to lie? You want me to pretend to have sexual attraction? Get in line, buster, my parents and everyone else did that first. Smh.
Its like telling bi people to “pick a side.” That’s just not how it works.
...that's bad research if there's no "other" option
“Do you like girls, boys, or both”
Me: ✨neither✨
ok
How dare you not fit into their list of boxes! 😂
Me, a transgender pansexual person. People online: "Pansexuality is transphobic." 😑
Wait, I thought people said bisexuality was transphobic? Are they forgetting who they’re supposed to be against? 🫣
wait how could that even be considered transphobic
The whole point of pan for me is that I can love anyone regardless of gender. I really don't understand why we're being called transphobic...
@@janavanbellingen8531 I thought the intention was to break up any solidarity between bisexuals and pansexuals.
@@fauxhuman0 Just because people misunderstand what pansexuality is.
8:39 *confused straight noises, confused straight noises, these are the noises of the straights being confused*
You mean pretty much everyone and the people solely responsible for the continued existence of humanity?
It's already cringe to hear such language applied to a fringe minority, but when you're trying to apply it to the supermajority, it's just you living in a fantasy world.
9:23 this just reminds me how my cousin wanted to name me “juice box” when I was a baby, they were 3 and liked juice so yea
oh shit that was foreshadowing
foreshadowing for me not them
I don't know if Jamie planned to upload this on father's day cause of the couple of dad jokes from the supportive dads, but yeah! Always enjoy these, and happy father's day to all the good dads and anyone who has good dads!
ok
These comics are all so cute. This is coming from a bisexual and I’m okay with the bisexual erasure in LGBallT 😂😂 I love your channel Jamie!
The way I see it, bisexuals stand for all, which is the opposite of erasure.
LGB-All T could be interpreted as trans Lesbians, Gays, and Bis, so I guess it doesn’t have to be bi erasure! Honestly, trans and bi are just the best combination.
and ghe comics are free to make.
ok
One thing I really love about LGBallT is that because they're all balls, they don't have humanoid bodies. So anyone can look at them and feel comfortable relating to the identities based on the flag colors. Obviously sometimes a few traditional gender signifiers come in handy for storytelling purposes (i.e. using a hair bow for trans ladies), but overall someone reading doesn't have to think about their body shape, size, level of "passing," clothing/fashion choices, etc and just be the ball! I dunno, I just find it pleasant.
Also Jamie, that Jimmy Dooder comic was definitely a tribute to you! I see tons of folks in the comments of your videos who have been helped by your wonderful insight and experience. I hope you keep doing the fantastic work you're doing!
7:30 right at this moment something started loudly beeping outside
Run
My grade 8 class visited Toronto and I had 3 litres of water in less than 10 hours so one of the teachers brought me to one of the restaurants nearby. They only had a men's washroom and a women's washroom. I had somewhat of a panic attack and the teacher was nice enough to take me to a different restaurant so I could use the gender-neutral washroom they had there.
Potato, a strop due to a perceived entitlement brought about by a social contagion, propagated by people like Jamie, who are paid to push this ideology is not a panic attack.
@@alexanderryanhigbee4005 Dude chill. OP is just sharing a thoughtful story about their identity. Everyone has different struggles.
That's so lovely! I hope one day that gender-neutral restrooms will be the norm. I mean, we have them in our own homes, so why not in public places?
That teacher wins at Allyship
@@veilbreak5867 Interesting concept but exactly who is paying them then if you are so educated. Also, why are you gaslighting an eighth-grader about having a panic attack? This channel is a safe space for people. It doesn't affect you so just leave it alone.
Always remember to change the gender fluid in your car every 20000 miles. It's an often neglected fluid.
I laughed so loudly I made Grumpling jump.
3:10 And some *aromantic* coffee beans!
"So asexuals want world domination, shiny things and lots of cake."
As an asexual, can confirm. Love me some shiny things and cake (no comment on the first part! lol)
World domination sounds nice, but that's a lot of stress. Shiny things and cake are good.
And garlic bread
@@neurodivergentlyblog8882 Yes! I love garlic bread 🤤
Yes, I find this extra funny as I was just eating a plate of garlic Bread earlier.
I texted my best friend to tell her I was aromantic and she told me to just put on deodorant...
Haha
She a lil confused
Man I went from being straight to bi to pan then back to straight and then finally realised I'm Ace
Attraction Speedrun
I mean just experienced all of the spectrum 😅
Relatable! For the longest time the only thing i knew for certain about my sexuality was "not straight". So not having a better answer i usually went with bi and later pan when someone asked me about it. Figuring out im ace cleared so much up for me!
Personally I always knew that I was mspec, but would switch between ace, pan, and bi for years. I finally learned that aceflux and BiPan are labels and am BiPanAceflux!
@@junebunny0712 oh that's neat, bipan. I consider myself pan(ace), or just bi+
5:45 “I have no son.”
Instant dad energy at 5:25 (and to be fair Jamie loves a dad joke!)
I love the joke of we ACEs can take over states and countries is still around. Plus yes for cake!
I love the meme that aces want to invade Denmark. It has in fact spread so much that it's a meme in German non-lgbt circles because you guys would have the easiest route through our north. Your allies are waiting for you.
@@Vickyeverythingelsewastaken Yea, sure... haha... a "meme"
*looks around nervously*
@@MrVisualHigh 👿
@@MrVisualHigh >:)
Any country that lacks ADA (Anti Dragon Artillery) would be pretty easy pickings for us.
6:00 As a disabled enby I feel like the one thing I have got going for me is the toilet situation, because the accessible toilets are always gender neutral.
A lot of the times the accessible toilet is just a stall in either bathroom, which are usually gendered in my area.
@@junebunny0712 That's a shame. They are rarely gendered over here since they take up quite some space and companies don't want to invest the money/space to make two.
4:53 i really needed that. ive been struggling to find the right label for a really long time, and it's been really frustrating. so thanks for making me feel less bad about it
I'm closeted and Jammidodger's videos have been my only way to feel like I actually belong in the LGBTQ+ community... Thank you Jamie for being a ray of sunshine :D
The title of this one makes me think of having a little pet straight person in a see-through box on a table like a gerbil and confusing them with pride merch.
•confused person noises cuz my gerbils are fcking selective mutes•
But in all seriousness that is a brilliant analogy.
😂
Ooooooooooooooooooooooh
That is very cute, but I am also kind of sorry for the small straight person. All locked up and confused.
:D
:o(
Als, im not gonna be the person who destroys the glorious number of 69 likes.
Ey
Gerbils Also can be gay, you know?
-Owner of two Gay Gerbils
I feel as if I may be in the wrong here;
But is your pfp half- Aperture logo?
(Sorry; portal nerd here- heh-)
"something asexual is gonna happen" - my friends whenever i enter a room
Jamie is serving adorable dad vibes with this outfit, which is very fitting as it *is* Father's Day 😂🥰
I love how almost every time is Ace’s are mentioned it’s like, one of these things are not like the others. Like always something chaotic. It’s adorable!
My school has 2 gender neutral toilets since recently and that still makes me happy and i use only these. It gives me euphoria ^^
My school locks them. They’ve never been opened. It’s very much the “supportive but not really” thing schools do to pat themselves on the back.
There’s a pizza place that I love that I just learned has **only** gender neutral bathrooms. The pizza place is only big enough to have maybe 20 people, but they have **4** GN bathrooms.
@@CraftyVegan honestly, I really thing this should be the norm going forward. Single stall, gender neutral bathrooms. Doesn't matter who you are, and takes away a lot of the controversy there's been about bathrooms and trans people. I've seen this at a few places (like 6 single stall bathrooms and that's it), and I think this should become the "new normal".
My school has one too, but it's so far away from most class rooms, that it takes like 15 minutes to go there and back :/
Ok, that Egg Cracking One was actually quite genius. A very clever concept. Also, ‘Strawberry Shortcake’ (Cartoon Programme) is Sapphic Canon. Orange Blossom and Strawberry Blossom combined make the Sapphic Flag.
I love the chaotic ace representation XD
These comics are so cute :3
I made a pity laugh at 2:38 when at first I thought intersex was skipped over. That was an awkward ordering.
as an aroace person, yes we do want garlic bread, cake, shiny things, and not world domination bc we’re good children right everyone? *winks*
also i have never heard of the juice boxes thing either…
World domination is a very alarming term for people... what i want is world optimisation, really - and all the cake, cake is great!
@@MyAnanin you have explaining to do, young Timmy.
Genuinely curious:
I identify as pan and I never got why pansexuality is considered biphobic and transphobic.
I’m attracted to people regardless of sex or gender. I’m a person who likes people.
And no, I’m not attracted to everyone like some people think. I have a type, but it’s mainly their personality that can make or break attraction to me.
I explained this in a different comment, but it basically comes down to a stubborn misconception about pansexuality that came about because of how SOME pansexual people have defined their pansexuality in the past. Basically, some pan people have said 'I'm pan and not bi because I like trans people', implying that 1. you need a specific orientation to be attracted to trans men, trans women and nonbinary people, and 2.) bisexuality automatically excludes those people when it doesn't. Both of which are biphobic and transphobic things to say.
Of course, It's entirely unreasonable to hold what _some_ pan people have ignorantly said against an entire orientation, and I find the only people who say this are people who are ignorant about what pansexuality actually means, or who like picking fights for dumb reasons lol. But I genuinely do not think most people (hopefully?) think that.
This is a new thing for me to hear. I had only ever heard people say Bisexuality was phobic because it "denied other genders." The most I heard about Pan was that it was "Bi erasure" and some folks considered it to be a replacement for Bisexuality considering there's more than 2 genders.
Never heard of pan as being transphobic before!
It's cause it was originally made by an exclude who didn't belive trans and non binary people fit into bisexuality, despite them clearly being a part of and included in the bi movement
@@Lisa_Flowers That's partially correct. You see pan was originally made by an exclude who didn't belive trans/non binary people fit under bi, so made pan as a full on new orientation to include those two. Which then later lead to the harassment of bi people who would get called transphobic for not using the pan label as well as just general transphobia towards binary trans people for implying that they aren't really their genders.
Elder millennial with some history here. It use to be back in the 00's that bi mislabeled to be trans phobic and pan was not. I don't know why or how being pan would be biphobic. I grew to understand that whatever decision you want to identify as either bi, pan, or omni is up to you and is in no way phobic to anyone. But then again I'm old so I should probably go yell at the kids on my lawn.
3:50 HOLY SHIT IM IN A JAMIE DODGERS VIDEO
Is that your art?
If yes that is hilarious
@@yourfriendlyneighborhoodmu2374 it is!!
I love how inclusive LGBallT memes are. It's rare to see asexuals and aromantics in meme videos, but these memes even included them multiple times as well as including other less represented identities. It made me very happy :)
4:19 Bisexual here, can confirm that being bisexual is not in fact transphobic (last partner was a trans girl, I’m now interested in a transmasc nb)
I am trans and i came out to my friend a few days ago!
I was really scared but she she reacted pretty good.
Without your videos i would probably not come out yet..
Happy pride my friend
Congratulations!
Good for you!
I'm so happy for you and proud of you! You are loved!! ❤️
his videos helped me come out to
Hi Jamie! You're adorable and delightful as always! "Aromantic" and "aromatic" are pronounced differently because the root word of one is "aroma" and the root word of the other is "romance". The "a" at the beginning of "aromantic" is a negating a. A prefix. The"a" at the beginning of aromatic is part of the main word.
Cheers from a friendly elder enbybi!
Words are pretty cool tbh
“Something Asexual’s going to happen” is my new favorite phrase, thank you
You are one of the only youtubers I see showing genderfluid memes, thank you.
7:49 this is so funny to me because the first character I have ever clocked as asexual is James from Pokemon, who is well known for... many things and lesser known for collecting bottle caps
I like how we somehow came to the universal belief that asexuals are this strange cross between crows and dragons. dunno where it came from but I like it.
There’s one restaurant I love because of its general accepting vibe, but I only recently noticed the toilets are “staff” and “whatever the fuck you feel like today”
8:50 - *confused straight noises* *these are the noises of confused straights*
One topic!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!👏🏼
Nice reference
Quote of the Day: “The weirdest stuff makes me emotional.”
I'm still learning about all this, and don't know all the flags. Without you to explain it, I'd be totally lost in this comic.
5:13 is how it went for me except i texted her and she said we’ll talk at home I got so much anxiety I thought she would yell and hate me but she didn’t she picked me up from school I started crying like” I’m sorry I didn’t tell you earlier. you have the right to be disappointed and hate me forever” we got home she looked at me and said “ don’t cry it’s okay I will love you no matter what, alright I’m not disappointed and I will never hate you. I will always love you, Okay!?!”
I opened this video and the first ad featured what appears to be a cishet couple trying to get their printer to work, including the line “You’re a printer! Why won’t you print?!?!” That sounds like confused straight noises to me.
These comics are so cute, I’m exited to watch another video of you reacting to them!
if y want more i have a complaintion of them on my channel
@@winternet8952 oh cool! I’ll check it out
6:40, just in case you were still wondering, the pronunciation is different because aromantic comes from being non-romantic (a-romantic), whereas aromatic comes from aroma.
“A cake. Oh… something asexual is gonna happen” you know us too well Jamie
9:48 WHY DID NO ONE TELL ME THAT JAMIE SAW MY COMIC!? That’s so cool!
8:31 I've had this exact scenario happen to me. Thankfully, I was in a position that I then could follow their "confused straight noises" with explaining about other sexualities.
I was having a rough morning, but after watching this I'm feeling better. I like the LGBallT series
@The Werewolf of Somalia ok boomer
@The Werewolf of Somalia you could’ve just not clicked on the vid
On the gender neutral toilets: I’ve realized that there’s not enough of them AND they aren’t easily accessible or known of when there is one. My friend is openly trans and told all the teachers so he knew there was a bathroom (at the other end of the school) but my other trans friend didn’t know about it and since I’m genderfluid I just use the women’s bathroom instead of doing all that just to go to the bathroom! In short lol there should rly be more of them and be more accessible ones!!
"Ace wants world domination, shiny things, and lots of cake." Are aces crows in disguise?
Just a reminder
Trans fems, you look pretty and I hope you have a good day
Trans mascs, you look handsome and I hope you have a good day
People outside the binary, you look positively perplexing and I hope you have a good day
Xenogender people and non dysphoric trans people, your gender is valid and I hope you have a good day
Allys, I can’t tell you how much the little things mean and I hope you have a good day
(If this made your day please let me know it means a lot)
You're a sweet and loving soul! ❤️
I see your comments all the time, I love it so much!
Thanks. It made my day.
Aw this made my day!
Yay! I hope you have a good day
Ok but the aromatic/aromantic joke was so cute and halarious since I had to do that correction with my mom lmao. I told her I am aromantic for like the third time around and she was like "aromatic?? You smell good?? Lol" she's supportive just super forgetful lmao
I went out for Greek food in Richmond, VA a little over a month ago and on the door to the bathroom, it had both the male and female symbols, a half and half symbol, (pants on one side, skirt on the other) and a picture of an alien. What it said underneath was “Whatever. Just please wash your hands.” I think every bathroom should have that sign.
as a pansexual trans person, how tf is pansexual bi/transphobic lmao. I just feel more comfortable with pansexual than bisexual given literally everybody no matter identity can be hot
to give context - there are _some_ pansexual people who define their pansexuality as different from bisexuality because they are attracted to trans people. Basically "I'm pansexual because I like men, women, trans men, trans women, and nonbinary people". When obviously trans men and women _are_ men and women and not a seperate gender that you need a specific orientation to be attracted to. And to some degree it's the same with being nonbinary - Pan people are not the only orientation allowed to be into enbies. Also makes biphobic assumptions about bisexuality excluding trans and/or nonbinary people, when it does not.
Now of course not ALL or even MOST Pan people define themselves this way, and it's not something I hear all that much anymore, but it is something i've heard Pan people say in the past. People making generalisations about that answer and what it means about pansexuality is where the unfortunate and inaccurate accusation comes from.
I've literally seen people try to say that asexuality is transphobic for some reason. I'm convinced that those comments mainly come from trolls who want to create (more) infighting within the LGBT+ community
@@bronztrooper9440 "you don't have sex so you're transphobic" how does that... work... how do people even come to that conclusion in any way lmao
@@Lisa_Flowers bisexuality is an attraction to 2 OR more genders, pansexuality is an attraction to ALL genders, anyone saying bi or pan are transphobic are goofy and dumb. there's a small difference between bi and pan but neither are inherently transphobic
@@sunnywunny idk. It's primarily aphobes that do that, so I don't tend to take them seriously.
I remember seeing someone post a chart about Super Straights and it basically said that asexuals are only attracted to trans people (like, wut) and asexuals that aren't are transphobic. Like, dude, you got a fundamental misunderstanding of what asexuality is if you genuinely believe that.
I was literally watching the other LGBallT videos earlier today and hoping Jamie would post another one. huh. I HAVE SUPERPOWERS
All hail the great Existing_Person
Same :0
We have superpowers :D
@@jellybaxter1131 WOOOOOOOOO
@@AriOrSomething hehe
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In case anybody isn’t interested in June’s Journey or have already seen this video and don’t want to see the ad again
8:11 okay so im nonbinary afab and I had to go to the bathroom at twitchcon but there was a very long line at the women's bathroom so even tho I still look like a girl I decided I would just go to the men's bathroom but 2 people from security came up to me to tell me that I was "on the wrong side" so I just pointed at the pronouns on my badge and said "I'm not a girl" and I was also lucky enough that a friend I met at twitchcon just got there and just went "oh yea he's a guy" and idgsisvs I'm so proud of myself for not letting them tell me I'm a girl :D just thought I'd share that story! It does get better y'all, you just have to find the right people
ANOTHER ONE!!!!
I love this subreddit sm it’s so cute.
Omg same
9:12 I think they're two boats sailing the TransparenSea together! ❤️
3:42 The last panel is totally me whenever someone dead names or useds the wrong pronouns for one of my friends
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“There’s not enough gender neutral toilets”
Hi! Nonbinary cryptid here, I completely agree with this statement, but it just reminded me of something kinda wholesome!
So last week, I was in Washington DC, and I think every place I went to had either a) gender neutral bathrooms, or b) the bathrooms were single use so anyone could use them. One place I went to get breakfast (called Founding Farmers, 10/10 recommend) has bathrooms labeled “Men, Women, and the rest of us” and I love it
The college I do band courses at also has specific bathrooms FOR NONBINARY PEOPLE!!! Enough people filled out forms that the college realized they should add more bathrooms for gender non conforming people, and midway through second semester they added bathrooms specifically for gender neutral people! It was such a small thing but AH it was amazing!!
On a different note, while I’m thinking of little happy things, I was emailing one of my teachers, and I always sign off my emails with “*name* (They/Them/Theirs)” and my Chemistry 1) immediately started using my pronouns, and 2) STARTED ENDING HIS EMAILS WITH He/Him/His TO HELP WITH THE NORMALIZATION OF PRONOUNS
They’re small things but AH they make me so happy
5:54 literally me. I can pass male at first glance, but if you look a moment you notice I'm afab. So, I go in a women's bathroom, women look at me like "???", I go in a men's bathroom men are like "...!!!"
It's awkward either way.
If a genie ever gives you wishes, do not ask for raspberry crowns. Although they are a type of splendid pastry, they are also a type of deadly wasp- the genie will most likely trick you. Ask for raspberry deserts instead.
What if I want a crown made of raspberries?
@@squeaktheswan2007 Raspberry Tiaras are close enough
@@squeaktheswan2007 Then say that specifically
@@JustAHuman101 Oh ok.
I absolutely loved your tiny correction, that we don’t have to "figure it out." Your ability to reflect and correct in the moment is a beautiful trait ❤️
bisexual here. we must stop bi erasure. CHANGE IT TO LuiGBTQ: MARIO EDITION GUYS PLEASEEEE
"Hi trans, I'm Dad."
That... that is enough to make an entire day ;-;
I'm in no way shape or form telling that poly, omni or pan people are biphobic, as a bisexual person. But unfortunately many pan, poly and omni people keep redifining my bisexuality and keep on telling me I'm transphobic by identifying as bi and not pan, and it's really annoying. Please people, let's not add to more lgbt+ erasure within our community than there already is!
It's easy. We're bi because the flag is prettier.
@@Vickyeverythingelsewastaken exactly!!!
"...people keep redifining my bisexuality and keep on telling me I'm transphobic by identifying as bi and not pan..."
That sounds pretty shitty. All my empathy.
And isnt that really weird, because I thought there was kind of a conceptional difference between the labels pansexual and bisexual.
I thought bisexual meant that one is atracted to more than one gender, and pansexual meant that one is atracted to people without any regard of gender.
Is my understanding correct???
(I'm trying to learn)
If you don't want to writr back thats also ok with me. No pressure
all the best
:o)
@@Vickyeverythingelsewastaken TBF, abrosexual flag is also gorgeous with its watermelon colours. When I look at both bi and abro flags I can only see berries and watermelons AND I'M IN LOVE WITH IT
@@sportenapfeltorten2095 that would be correct! however people who identify as bi can still be atrracted to people regardless of gender (as that is more than two, but quite a few pan people have told me I'm pan and not bi, despite bisexual being my identity. bisexuality can range from being attacted to two genders with a preference to one to being attracted to people regardless of gender without a preference. I see the difference between pan and bi with bi being a more broader term that can include pan, poly and omni, but these sexualities are a more specific definition of what it means to be attracted to two or more genders. hope this helps!
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Hey, that's me :D
Cool
I think I laughed the most when the ace found the bottle cap, because I, an ace, frequently notice bottle caps and want to pick them up.
I'm still figuring myself out. It's been a hell of a journey, but I'm glad that there's people along the way to help me find myself. Maybe I'm just having a hard time accepting myself. *egg cracks*
Take your time.
3:36 proud to be a tree decoration
6:18
I showed this to my aromantic brother and he liked it! I love these comics and hope you do more Jamie!
Speaking of toilets. I once held a cosplay convention with another person and the building we had (they offered it to us for the day/evening free of charge, amazing People 💙) only had the classic men/women bathrooms. So we decided to have a "Sitting bathroom" for what used to be the womens and a "Standing bathroom" for the mens cuz of the urinals. Printed signs and put them up. Alot of people loved it and it made me tear up as I saw my enby/trans friends so happy not having to choose a gender and just choose if they wish to stand or sit down to pee! One small thing that made such a difference to People 💙