I am Sleeping with a FILIPINO and a FOREIGNER

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  • čas přidán 22. 07. 2024
  • #philippines #expatlife #agegap
    ‪@FlyMeToThePhilippines‬
    Join us for the third installment of Chrissy Tells All. Foreign men want to hear the Filipina perspective. Previously Chrissy gave us insight into how to date online (Christian Filipina and Filipino Cupid) and in her second installment she discussed why Filipinas like Foreign men and the Expat Life.
    Today Chrissy tells all about sleeping with not one but two men. A Filipino (do you believe her she says he is a relative) and a Foreigner. Why did she introduce a second man, an Expat in the Philippines, living in Cagayan De Oro, she says the house is two big, however she sleeps with two men, how big should the house be. Finding a house, condo or rental property big enough for two men can be a challenge.
    Chrissy Tells All......
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Komentáře • 432

  • @Cuzaful
    @Cuzaful Před měsícem +4

    Absolutely the best , most relevant and insightful channel on CZcams.

  • @plalonde28
    @plalonde28 Před 2 měsíci +7

    The honesty and openness between you two is why your relationship works. It really is a positive thing the rest of us want.

  • @davidstrumsky7012
    @davidstrumsky7012 Před 5 měsíci +20

    I love the two of you talking, diving deep into your fears (weaknesses), with us (let alone all the preparing and discussing late at night you did over the pillows). :) What I'm taking away here is that a lot of people seem to have a lot of fears, and that's what rules them. The biggest problems seem to be our fears about the other person's fears... True, we need to know and be sensitive to the other person's fears/weaknesses. But the point is we need, each of us, deal with our own fears (esp. not ignore them, hide from them, etc.). Hopefully the person we're with is doing the same. Rob and Chrissy, you did a whole lotta work on yourselves before you met and *after* you met, getting your thoughts and fears squared away. Trust in that. I honor you for that most of all. You're both VERY thoughtful people and heart-stable... Trust in that too. The scariest thing in our relationships is dealing with someone who doesn't know themselves all that well. (Regardless of age.) They don't know enough to be making promises about their future, how they'll act under pressure. You two are solid, if you can get out of the way of your fears, like a bullfighter dodges the bull. Much love and respect to you both.

    • @FlyMeToThePhilippines
      @FlyMeToThePhilippines  Před 5 měsíci +6

      Awesome advice. 🙏. Thank you

    • @duncanmacleod7210
      @duncanmacleod7210 Před 4 měsíci +1

      I don't think they were both talking, man he talks a lot.

    • @carlbanks600
      @carlbanks600 Před 3 měsíci +2

      He does talk a lot through his fears. If he could just listen to her more, their relationship would look much better to the people who they want to hear their stories. Carl Banks Jr., Vietnam Veteran😊

  • @spincube5734
    @spincube5734 Před 5 měsíci +14

    You are asking & answering all the questions I have in my head (and I'm sure most other older guys. have) that no other channels even touch on, let alone openly discuss about age gap relationships.
    Thanks Rob & Chrissy !!

  • @JayDKB
    @JayDKB Před 5 měsíci +8

    Thats a smart educated woman definitely a catch.

  • @moreto62
    @moreto62 Před 4 měsíci +12

    why is she so smart and outspoken , why is her english so good and she can express her self much better than 87% of filipinas

  • @marcom2248
    @marcom2248 Před 3 měsíci +5

    Always, always, always wait minimum 2 years before you tie the knot.
    After 2 years the thrill is gone and the rose tinted glasses dissapeared.

  • @walterbesio9615
    @walterbesio9615 Před 5 měsíci +3

    Amazing! Thanks for taking the time to share this. We should all pitch in to get Chrissy a gift.😊

    • @FlyMeToThePhilippines
      @FlyMeToThePhilippines  Před 5 měsíci +1

      😃 Thanks for your support

    • @xavierkoolat6926
      @xavierkoolat6926 Před 5 měsíci +1

      Kind thought, the gift. But, I'd say that Chrissy got her gift all wrapped up in Rob. The two are a huge gift to the world.

  • @geraldwilliams8189
    @geraldwilliams8189 Před 5 měsíci +15

    Rob, stay there in the Philippines. Im 67, my wife is 35 and our son is 7. We live a normal lifestyle and marriage in Pasig. I don’t notice any issues because of our age difference. When we are living in New Hampshire we get a lot of looks and muffled comments when we are out in public. We both feel uncomfortable at times. The only benefit to me is now my wife doesn’t have such looks of jealousy. We are moving back to the Philippines as soon as our assets here are liquidated. We love your stories.

    • @FlyMeToThePhilippines
      @FlyMeToThePhilippines  Před 5 měsíci +2

      Thanks Gerald, we appreciate hearing from you and thanks so much for your feedback

  • @MikeHoncho884
    @MikeHoncho884 Před 5 měsíci +24

    If a man doesn’t look at women walking by out in public there’s something wrong with him.
    Who you go home with is all that matters. There’s also a difference between gawking at a woman and glancing.
    Women are Work Of Art, that men should admire.

    • @FlyMeToThePhilippines
      @FlyMeToThePhilippines  Před 5 měsíci +4

      I agree. Thanks for watching

    • @dr.richmann4477
      @dr.richmann4477 Před 5 měsíci +2

      Some, but not all art works of art.

    • @michaelbowden7695
      @michaelbowden7695 Před 5 měsíci +2

      Well I look
      And I’m married
      But my Filipina wife is very attractive and beautiful. I never need another woman as I’m very happy and content with my wife ❤️❤️

    • @FlyMeToThePhilippines
      @FlyMeToThePhilippines  Před 5 měsíci

      @@michaelbowden7695 thanks for watching Michael and for sharing

    • @xavierkoolat6926
      @xavierkoolat6926 Před 5 měsíci +2

      @@FlyMeToThePhilippines I also agree (and I'm 82).
      Rob, if you will allow me the freedom to Comment my thoughts about Chrissy:
      As I watch Chrissy's reactions to your comments and questions, I see at first "eye candy." Seriously, she's the kind of woman that I am attracted to. Now, I'm also attracted to buxom women, as well (EXTREMELY). And I really like blondes, too.
      Now, there's much more in my reactions than the above.
      She REALLY appeals to my intellect. She's intelligent, astute, articulate (English for her is a bit of a foreign language), and very sensitive emotionally.
      What a package! She's exactly the type of woman I want as a life partner and lover.
      As to the concept that women are Works Of Art, that men should admire, I greatly admire women on what I just admitted, plus the whole idea that women create new life with childbirth. That alone is a stunner.
      I'd say that due to our early sparse chances to survive, men chose women for their childbearing abilities as well as their catching the eyes of a future father to their future children. It's developed as a mutual symbiotic relationship.
      Hallelujah!

  • @marcprobin1659
    @marcprobin1659 Před 5 měsíci +6

    I really liked this video about your differences and our love between you two! Keep it up, very entertaining!

  • @happycamper5900
    @happycamper5900 Před 5 měsíci +3

    What a refreshing and honest conversation without the titillation. You both appear happy.

  • @TheQuantumTraveller
    @TheQuantumTraveller Před 3 měsíci +2

    Watching you two is delightful. I see a youthful energy about you both, which is great to see.
    Thanks for the natural conversation.

  • @ericg9092
    @ericg9092 Před 5 měsíci +21

    I'm 52, divorced, and never had kids. Personally, I would think myself fortunate if I found a nice woman who had a young child I could help raise and provide opportunities for. To each their own, I guess!
    Great video, as always. I spent many years in medical device sales before going back to the clinical side of healthcare, and hope to utilize your tips and methodology when I begin my search in a few years for someone special as I near retirement. Looking forward to more content.

    • @FlyMeToThePhilippines
      @FlyMeToThePhilippines  Před 5 měsíci +4

      Thanks for watching our videos and for your support I appreciate you taking the time to share and for your feedback

  • @josephurso9098
    @josephurso9098 Před měsícem +1

    Rob has the gift of humor, and making his conversations super interesting.

  • @coffeegetsme9465
    @coffeegetsme9465 Před 5 měsíci +2

    Recent subscriber and I must say you both do such a great job to enlighten my preconceived thoughts on the Phillipines and culture.
    Awesome stuff, and to go to so much trouble to inform, film, edit is above and beyond. Five Star 🌟 channel. 🤙🏼

  • @danielwarnes7231
    @danielwarnes7231 Před 4 měsíci +1

    Very good. One of the best age related discussions I have seen.

  • @boat6868
    @boat6868 Před 5 měsíci +3

    Chrissy seems to be such a delight...easy to see why you say your are living your best life.

  • @BarakTheWonderer
    @BarakTheWonderer Před 5 měsíci +5

    You are a very lucky man. Treat Chrissy well. Continued success.

  • @josephurso9098
    @josephurso9098 Před měsícem

    I love it..
    This is absolutely amazing to see the interaction here..

  • @travelingmachinist
    @travelingmachinist Před 5 měsíci +1

    Great video, Love to meet the 2 of you when I get over there. It will be mid march. Enjoy and be kind.

  • @samueldavis2327
    @samueldavis2327 Před 5 měsíci +1

    Unlike others, I found this video to be extremely interesting. It is great to hear Chrissy give very honest and straightforward answers to these questions.

  • @jeffreycaudle5108
    @jeffreycaudle5108 Před 2 měsíci +1

    "You're like my battery". I love that. Sound like the title of my next song!
    What a great way to describe the need for someone when that "thing" is something that really can't be described.

  • @SuccessiveApproximations-Intl
    @SuccessiveApproximations-Intl Před 5 měsíci +1

    Thanks for another great video, I love you guys. I can relate in many ways, and I think that people should just live and let live, and do what they think is right. A lot of it is in the attitude.... a positive attitude goes a long way. Rob, we're too old to have young kids, all we really want to do is enjoy life, and be happy. And, yes, age is just a number. We can't conform to society all the time. We just have to remember, as people who have much higher living standards, that many of these Filipinos have almost nothing. Many of them are literally sleeping on floors with nothing but thin foam for comfort, and eating rice for every meal. Despite that, they're happy and generous, even if they have little to offer. So, why wouldn't we, as people who have so much more, not want to help them when we're able to? I think it's terribly selfish not to help. Thank you for the content, it's always thoughtful and well presented!

  • @DR23184
    @DR23184 Před 5 měsíci +2

    What I find different about your channel is the honest focus.
    Noticed you have recently put out a personal consulting offer.
    I can just imagine all the calls and requests advise and help.

  • @Degenskier
    @Degenskier Před 2 měsíci +1

    You guys are great. Thanks for making my evening

  • @thejudge1445
    @thejudge1445 Před 2 měsíci +1

    I cant get enuf of you guys. Well done videos. You guys are a match and seemingly expert talk show hosts. I see a future…

  • @A-RHINO-IN-THE-PHILIPPINES
    @A-RHINO-IN-THE-PHILIPPINES Před 5 měsíci +1

    Wow The Perfect VID. So nice and good perfect and Nice..

  • @plalonde28
    @plalonde28 Před 2 měsíci +2

    You two make me laugh! I am glad you found each other.

  • @glenn9057
    @glenn9057 Před 5 měsíci +1

    great vid brutha. im a 68 year old retired dude in cold snowy East Lansing, Michigan. i enjoy your vlogs. looks like you got a good thing goin with Chrissy. i have a filipina friend in Togoloan, not far from you. i would be there now but im getting medical treatment for prostate cancer. you give lots of great advice with all your travel experiences. and you tell it to us straight. i appreciate that. keep up the good work👌😊

    • @FlyMeToThePhilippines
      @FlyMeToThePhilippines  Před 5 měsíci

      Thanks for your support and feedback. Wish you a quick and speedy recovery and see you soon in the near future

  • @edsteward7717
    @edsteward7717 Před 5 měsíci +2

    Good job of drawing her out, and really interviewing her! As for kids, i believe once you know you're a couple, and want to live together, bring them! Love that she chases you! That young lady must have an old soul. She's a very savy woman.

    • @FlyMeToThePhilippines
      @FlyMeToThePhilippines  Před 5 měsíci

      Thanks that was my goal. I really appreciate your feedback. I’ve heard from some other people that I focused too much on my age and need to get over it and other people thought I cut her off a little bit however, she is not inclined to speak to the age issue, and I was probing and probing and using self deprecating humor about my age to try and draw her out seems like you got it. Thanks so much for the feedback.

    • @edsteward7717
      @edsteward7717 Před 5 měsíci +1

      @@FlyMeToThePhilippines Haha! I did get it, and she's a pretty awesome catch. I won't do that big of gap, for now...But you have a very sweet lady.

    • @hillbillyintheasia6122
      @hillbillyintheasia6122 Před 5 měsíci +2

      @@FlyMeToThePhilippines she a older woman at 30 she mature as a American women at say 45 plus . you she a keeper .

  • @EYNugget
    @EYNugget Před 15 dny

    Thank you both for being so honest! Both of you are beautiful and wonderful couple!

  • @rorybellamy2533
    @rorybellamy2533 Před 5 měsíci +4

    Chrissy extra intelligent and nice

  • @ShiroiTora2EChild
    @ShiroiTora2EChild Před 5 měsíci +1

    I keep noticing your incredible views. What a winner of a house. Both of you seem much more relaxed because of your beautiful environment.
    I very much enjoyed this video. Yes, I was suckered in by your innuendos. I was glad that it was bald humor, but, the subject was broached obliquely. It was done in good taste and with intelligence, and as always, Chrissy was graceful in her delivery. She was also very sincere in all her mannerisms and speech. Although Chrissy is young, she is very mature. Her views on life in general, and especially for the long term, is one of an old soul, someone of uncommon wisdom, regardless of age.
    I think you are so fortunate to have a woman who cares enough to be jealous. It is not only cute, it speaks of how much she values her man. What I think gives your relationship such a good chance of succeeding is that neither of you are so arrogant as to think that the other is lucky to have you, but the other way around. You both seem to feel lucky to have the other, and so, you appreciate and respect each other, and so, the conditions for love to continue to blossom will always be there.
    I’ve said it before, Chrissy’s great feminine beauty, of which emanates from the inside and manifests itself in her every action on the outside, is also magnified by her natural physical beauty. She takes care of herself. That is key…only a person who loves and respects him or herself, can truly love and value another. Chrissy is a true gem of the Philippines, and just being her natural self, is one of the greatest spokesperson for the great feminine beauty of the Filipina.
    Of course, as a man, you also show the qualities a man should have to be worthy of such a great woman as is Chrissy. A man must have a solid plan for the future, and must take into account all foreseeable variables, as well as having built in redundancies and contingencies for uncontrollable variables, as so many times happens in life. A man must be orderly, disciplined, logical, and at times…stoic, and yet, must have a good heart. Both of you have such winning qualities, and it bespeaks of what it takes to be in a successful relationship, no matter where in the world. The both of you have an enviable relationship, yet, not one which is unattainable for others to have, so long as each develops the same winning attitude as the both of you demonstrate.
    I must state, that with all of both of your winning attitudes, they would have come to naught had the both of you not had the resilience to bounce back from failed relationships. That is what distinguishes champions from others. While everyone gets knocked down in life, it is only the champion who once again rises.
    I loved this video. This touched on issues of the heart, and it was done with class and light humor.
    I am a writer by passion, and as such, it is about issues of the heart and mind that so intrigues me about others. I love what I see in the both of you. You seem to be living the almost fairytale like relationships I love to write about in my novels…only, writing is easy, to actually live it is truly special. The both of you are my favorite couple on CZcams. I am a romantic at heart, and through what I see in your videos gives me hope that what I write about is not pure fantasy.

    • @FlyMeToThePhilippines
      @FlyMeToThePhilippines  Před 5 měsíci +1

      Wow, I am totally blown away by this essay and fine commentary and that’s incredible since most of your commentary is beautiful and poetic. Taking the time to write this is really touching. Chrissy and I are both odd by your ability to put down on paper your thoughts, and we really value you as one of our subscribers, thank you again

  • @papadougpapadougsadventures
    @papadougpapadougsadventures Před 5 měsíci +4

    I am dating a single Filipina in Manila and she has 2 children aged 10 and 13. The problem at the onset is when I fly 7k miles to visit I want to spend time with my girlfriend but I have to contend with the kids. They do not have family near by so the visit has to be planned to keep the kids occupied. If you want a younger girl, mine is 35 and I’m 64, then they either have kids or want kids. It’s hard to find one that doesn’t have or want kids.

  • @Danaboss2
    @Danaboss2 Před 5 měsíci +1

    Love your channel!

  • @rbfarrell1
    @rbfarrell1 Před 5 měsíci +5

    The fact is women want security. A single mom has less options and wants the best for her children. An older guy also has less options and she knows that. She is comfortable with a guy that see's her as the prize.

  • @benjaminanacay3148
    @benjaminanacay3148 Před 5 měsíci +2

    I know how it feels to have a young, gorgeous, kind, and loving wife. People most of the times gives us the stinky eyes and at first we both felt uncomfortable. But the most important thing is that our love for one another is true and pure. They can say and think what they'd like, it doesn't bother us because it boils down to me and her and our pretty daughter that is smart, happy and so adorable.

    • @FlyMeToThePhilippines
      @FlyMeToThePhilippines  Před 5 měsíci

      Thanks Benjamin for taking the time to write such a wonderful message we sure appreciate hearing from you

  • @gregmertz1202
    @gregmertz1202 Před 2 měsíci +2

    ❤❤ what a great video:-)😂

  • @frankkirkpatrick4452
    @frankkirkpatrick4452 Před 4 měsíci +1

    So glad I found your channel you are seriously knowledgeable I stopped watching some of the other vloggers some very popular but they started talking politics and people come from the West to get away from that stuff thank you for all the advice you really give step by step on how to take care of business even though I'm 60% knowledgeable about the Philippines but that's not enough

  • @tomgaw5552
    @tomgaw5552 Před 4 měsíci +1

    Excellent video!!!

  • @dennisgonya4500
    @dennisgonya4500 Před 3 měsíci +1

    This video is fantastic. Great couple.

  • @russberry3240
    @russberry3240 Před 2 měsíci +1

    Chasing around the house!!! 🎉😂❤❤❤

  • @wesandlanie
    @wesandlanie Před 3 měsíci +1

    Yes I’ve flown there for the last 3 years and stayed a few weeks each time and from the first visit I was blown away by the love and acceptance. I know have 12 children 😂 wow God is Good!

  • @todd7756
    @todd7756 Před 5 měsíci +1

    I enjoy your format guys, it is a little unique to everyone else's. I have been in the Phillipines for a year and have experienced some different relationships. I can relate to the challenges of meeting girls. Online it is true, they will ask for money very quickly. not all but 80 percent. If they are working...they are working 6 days per week and 11 to 13 hours a day. They are tired and little time to date. Most of them will also have a child at home to take care of. It is not so easy.

  • @douggoll2382
    @douggoll2382 Před 2 měsíci +2

    You are both very mature in attitude.

  • @George-ux6zz
    @George-ux6zz Před měsícem +2

    You 2 seem to be a great couple. I hope you have an amazing day, take care and God bless you 🙏 🙂

  • @albertmorrissette3640
    @albertmorrissette3640 Před 5 měsíci +1

    I have learned to take "advice" more so as comments. Everyone's experience is based upon their perceptions. Chrissy hit a homerun with her comment for Expats to be smart

  • @Scruffers2011
    @Scruffers2011 Před 3 měsíci +1

    I’m 55, and my Filipina fiancé is 30… 25 years younger. She has the same view. She prefers a mature man, and a man who is faithful and kind. We have talked about plans for when I get into old age, expected changes in our life as we both age.

  • @KutWrite
    @KutWrite Před 5 měsíci +1

    The funny opening was a great intro to this subject. I found it super-relevant, as some of this runs through my mind. I'm 76 and will be meeting women in their late 30s and early 40s... maybe one who's 55. This gave me some ideas on an effective mental approach to meeting one-on-one and going forward with the BINGO woman!
    I'm glad you covered whether Chrissie wants to have a child with you. It would be a wonderful genetic mix! As to whether she's "the best actress" or real, my feeling is, "If you can't tell, it doesn't matter!"
    Thanks!
    PS You are a very attractive couple. If I saw you at the mall, I'd stare too, but with a smile.
    PPS I like shorts if well produced and not too-loud audio, esp. the music. I watch your and other longer-form videos, even the Pea, at 1.5x. Maybe it's my short attention span, I go 1.5x AND skip forward during the Regular Guy.

    • @FlyMeToThePhilippines
      @FlyMeToThePhilippines  Před 5 měsíci +1

      Yes she does….always enjoy hearing from you and thanks for the feedback

  • @t.m.640
    @t.m.640 Před 5 měsíci

    LET'S HEAR ABOUT THE "PLAN" DETAILS. GREAT TO HEAR HER HEART.

    • @FlyMeToThePhilippines
      @FlyMeToThePhilippines  Před 5 měsíci

      We have a 90 day plan video and one year plan (pdf available) flymetothephilippines@gmail.com

  • @Gillecriosd
    @Gillecriosd Před 2 měsíci +1

    Age is a mental as much as physical. Subtract 10 … and be done with it. I’m being literal. Own it. Must always shape the ship too Don’t relax that Rob. Strong work, Chrissy. Another vid that kept my attention you two 😎🤙🏼

  • @ericg9092
    @ericg9092 Před 5 měsíci +1

    Rob, something I just thought of after hearing you talk about Chrissy being a licensed teacher - several rural schools in the Midwest, Colorado coming to mind from a video I watched earlier today, have brought Filipinas to the U.S. on work Visas to teach due to a shortage of teachers.
    It might be an easier and quicker way for the two of you to come to the U.S. than the typical marriage or fiance visa if you ever become so inclined.

  • @user-kp4fh2qj5i
    @user-kp4fh2qj5i Před 3 měsíci +1

    A lot of good questions and answers Chrisy answers were so clear and articulate. And you bat those questioins off so efficiently. I feel compelled to offer what you call the "religious" perspective. As a man of faith, (I do not say religion because religion is how the secular world understands people of faith but it fails to diffierentiate other problems such as hypocratic beleifs which are so prevalent), faith is a personal relationship with the living G-d and that in it self orders things toward righteousness and completely mitigates insecurity of age and all other things. "surely goodness and mercy shall follow me all the days of my life..." Age is irrelevant. Age happened as a result of sin. If born again, in the life to come those elect we will be ageless in their new glorified body which is not an old one. I say that with confidence it is the spoken Word of G-d. Regarless of how old we are we are all eternal beings. The securlar world cannot overcome age because it has no confidence in it's future because they do not have a living relationship with G-d and are blind to these truths. In the Bible no man marries an old woman because marriage is for family and child raising. Regardless of what age a man is the instruction from the Bible does not change. Obviously there is much more to say about the purpose of marriage... but i focused on age insecurity here.

  • @brian4855
    @brian4855 Před 2 měsíci +1

    You do great videos together you both and i believe you an awesome couple .. Rob you are fairly fit or even way over average fit for your age .. big respect ! And Chrissy is of course a gorgeous lovely and very beautiful Filippina .. with brain !.. that a perfect combo ! Vmbut a small tip to you Rob .. try not to always interrupt your lovely lady when she just talks or you even give an answer to your questions to her .. well, that’s a small thing but it would show even more respect to her !
    Keep on rocking you bith and I also gonna travel this year again to the Philippines .. been there often 12-16 years ago for diving ..

  • @bentnielsen3731
    @bentnielsen3731 Před 5 měsíci +2

    Dear Bob, get over your age problem and be happy that you have found such a lovely woman. You're making her upset by constantly bringing it up. Best regards from Denmark

  • @johnlong3543
    @johnlong3543 Před 5 měsíci

    Very funny and nice! 😅

  • @dcpoon4588
    @dcpoon4588 Před 2 měsíci +1

    In life, nothing is ever guaranteed. If you find someone who loves you for who you are, then you are the luckiest man in the world. Even if it's short-lived, it's better to have tried than not tried at all. Sitting at home criticizing people who put themselves out there seeking love, is nore pathetic to me. Loneliness really sucks, especially when you are older. Finding love with someone younger will always make you feel younger and happier. Good luck Rob and Chrissy. Enjoy what you have, life is so short.

  • @larryhansen2694
    @larryhansen2694 Před měsícem +1

    This episode was hilarious, Sleeping with the other man.(LOL)

  • @bobbo7147
    @bobbo7147 Před 5 měsíci +4

    I've dated 23 Filipina"s in my life. I married a beautiful Filipina and devoriced a angry feminist. Every filipina lies to you. It takes 3 yrs to figure out her lies. I will date more filipinas for the rest of my life. You sir are letting your love blind her faults. Im not a bitter person, just a educated man, who can no the lies from the truth. Good luck I hope she is the one.

    • @FlyMeToThePhilippines
      @FlyMeToThePhilippines  Před 5 měsíci +1

      Thanks for taking time to share, and for your good wishes

    • @paulmurphy5136
      @paulmurphy5136 Před 5 měsíci

      You sir are a realist and I am about to have my first journey to the Philippines in 2 weeks

    • @paulmurphy5136
      @paulmurphy5136 Před 5 měsíci

      Dude 😮 I just kept watching and you are really only 9 months into this 😮 you are hopefully not heading for a world of hurt where you not only lose the one you love but her child that you have formed a protecting and providing relationship for 🙏

  • @Chris-ts8oh
    @Chris-ts8oh Před 5 měsíci +1

    You two are kool!

  • @hillbillyintheasia6122
    @hillbillyintheasia6122 Před 5 měsíci +1

    you have a good woman she smart , kind , open minded , caring , loving and respect . that a 10 inside. outside she beautiful. inside that last.

    • @FlyMeToThePhilippines
      @FlyMeToThePhilippines  Před 5 měsíci

      Thanks for watching and taking the time to comment. We appreciate the feedback.

  • @franciscodelapena7026
    @franciscodelapena7026 Před 4 měsíci +1

    Blessing

  • @miguelsantana9477
    @miguelsantana9477 Před 5 měsíci +1

    Rob, I’m subscribed to several channels related to the Philippines and your channel among one other, are my two favorite channels, I been thinking to retire to the Philippines when the time comes and rest assure that I hope I can reach out for advice and maybe your wife could be a match maker.
    Keep up the great work

  • @nicolaepaun7320
    @nicolaepaun7320 Před 5 měsíci

    please if you ask her a question , please let her finish to explaine . i love you guys. GOD BLESS YOU .

  • @jdtravels5140
    @jdtravels5140 Před 5 měsíci +4

    My 25 yo Filipina’s older sister has been in a foreigner relationship for over 15 years. I think she saw how well they work…even with an age gap. Don’t be blinded. Always keep looking for the red flags.

  • @celticdesign-mm9ds
    @celticdesign-mm9ds Před měsícem

    Thank you.

  • @jeffreycaudle5108
    @jeffreycaudle5108 Před 2 měsíci +1

    I think the "news" thing is cultural as much as age related. I get the idea that most, (not all) Filipinos have been to raised to conform, go along, not question, etc. etc. which rules out analysis, argumentation, and debate.
    Much of the news deals with society, how we view society, and what changes need to be made for the betterment of society. Politics; which is how policy is decided and implemented that governs all of our society and life from using a no.2 pencil or black ink, to dealing with corruption that spends society's money (taxes) on personal projects instead of infrastructure and healthcare.
    Foreigners are cautioned to not "speak their mind" or be "confrontational" because that isn't the way things are done in the Philippines.
    That is my opinion. But I'm sure that is just one facet.
    Love your videos guys!

  • @cliffjenkins5691
    @cliffjenkins5691 Před 5 měsíci +26

    Why in your videos do you continue to focus on your age? It is obvious she loves you and doesn't look at your age so why do? I love lots of your videos but you need confidence in her love. Just my opinion. I wish you both so much happiness.

    • @FlyMeToThePhilippines
      @FlyMeToThePhilippines  Před 5 měsíci +9

      Thanks for watching and taking the time to comment. I appreciate the feedback. Normally I don’t push back when I receive feedback - this video subject was specifically the result of a survey viewers wanted to hear Chrissy describe dating a man in his sixties. I tried to drill down on the topic and use self deprecating humor and draw Chrissy out, not easy to get her to focus on my age, takes some prodding and exaggerated questions to get a good response. However I will ponder the feedback.

    • @etfremd
      @etfremd Před 5 měsíci +6

      It seems Rob is feeling his age and thinks he does not deserve this amazing young beautiful Filipina who finds him attractive! They are looking for other attributes obviously. Chrissy said it so eloquently. Maybe Rob needs to get and maintain the best shape of his life staying fit and young and maintaining muscle mass. Make your 70’s look like your late 40’s! 💪💪🙏🙏

    • @cetilly
      @cetilly Před 5 měsíci +6

      Yeah! I agree. Move past the age topic. You beat that horse to death. I’m sure Chrissy is tired of hearing about it by now too.

    • @user-dy5pq7tp7g
      @user-dy5pq7tp7g Před 5 měsíci +9

      Why do you think everyone has seen his previous videos on this subject? Just because you saw his videos on this subject doesn’t mean we who haven’t seen him talk about it be denied to see what he has to say!

    • @FlyMeToThePhilippines
      @FlyMeToThePhilippines  Před 5 měsíci +1

      🙏

  • @WayneSummerhays-dj1il
    @WayneSummerhays-dj1il Před 4 měsíci

    I was engaged to a wonderful Thai lady but recently called off the relationship.
    I am planning a trip to Phillipines soon and not planning to look online.
    I am not sure what location to begin a search.
    Any advice?

    • @FlyMeToThePhilippines
      @FlyMeToThePhilippines  Před 4 měsíci

      We did a survey.. video called how to use your tool. Also check out our video 30 day exploration plan. Cebu City

  • @user-eu6ge2mq5w
    @user-eu6ge2mq5w Před 5 měsíci +1

    Hello thank you for sharing your experience in the Philippines.Im planing to retire there I have 4 adult children and 9 grandkids how do you deal with being so far from them.

  • @nathandodge1004
    @nathandodge1004 Před 5 měsíci +1

    How did you deal with your kids when you decided to retire in the Philippines? How did they react to the news of living with a younger Filipina? ? Might be a good topic of conversation in a future video, if you haven’t already discussed this.
    Enjoyed the video.

  • @miguelsantana9477
    @miguelsantana9477 Před 5 měsíci +1

    By the way this is my favorite video so far

  • @damonottaway3648
    @damonottaway3648 Před 5 měsíci +1

    You are a lucky man, seems as if you have found a beautiful and sincere young woman.
    I live in Mindanao as well, just not full time as of yet. I have pretty close to the same situation as you, I’m 60 and my gf is 32. We have a 3 daughter together that is my super angel. I love both of them more than anything. We met while I was doing some island hopping 7 years ago and we got serious about 3 years in. To me, online dating doesn’t necessarily have to be a “watch out” for the filipina scammers, but also “watch out” for the westerner guys that are just false advertising and could end up visiting for a month then leaving the woman high and dry and pregnant. It happens plenty. I love your story and seeing a western man fulfilling a Filipina’s dream and his own as well. Good luck to both of you and your new son.

  • @Robert-gt5tr
    @Robert-gt5tr Před 5 měsíci +1

    I loved seeing this video. It shows me that my way of thinking about this type of relationship will work great if your partner has similar thoughts and feelings. I am really impressed. My only bad thought on this is what happens to the young woman when you die from old age? Her life, her life's expectations have been changed and are now shattered?! Do you have insurance that is left to her to help her continue the lifestyle you two have created?

    • @FlyMeToThePhilippines
      @FlyMeToThePhilippines  Před 5 měsíci

      Thanks Robert for watching and sharing your thoughts. Yes, this is something that has to be thought of and we are developing a plan for that.

  • @shawngantnier4588
    @shawngantnier4588 Před 3 měsíci +1

    I like the long videos and usually go to sleep around 8 but I'm only 35. Is there any hope for me😂😂😂

  • @kenkimbell6909
    @kenkimbell6909 Před 5 měsíci +2

    Did Chrissy get an annulment from previous marriage ? If so, was process complete prior to meeting ? Thank you

    • @FlyMeToThePhilippines
      @FlyMeToThePhilippines  Před 5 měsíci +2

      Yes, she had email showing judges ruling, it’s taken another 8 months for hard copy of “finality of judgement” sent to Manila. Lots of opportunities for lawyers to delay if her ex does not pay remaining balance to lawyer.

    • @kenkimbell6909
      @kenkimbell6909 Před 5 měsíci

      @@FlyMeToThePhilippines thanks for prompt response.

  • @stephenmayeske7792
    @stephenmayeske7792 Před měsícem

    Crissy is so positive. I apologize for saying this Rob, but I genuinely hope some of that fibs off on you. You are a great and smart person, but when Crissy talks I lean in.

  • @steveng8727
    @steveng8727 Před 5 měsíci +1

    Also 67, from SoCal and now in Angeles City, where are you from?

  • @ericsolkamans-kj2fd
    @ericsolkamans-kj2fd Před 5 měsíci +6

    It's each and every person choice and beliefs if they want a single woman with children.
    My Wife has two children from previous relationship. I accepted and they both call me Daddy. Even now 10 years later, they still call me Daddy.
    Their ages now are 16 and 18. I Love them both as my own.❤

  • @celticdesign-mm9ds
    @celticdesign-mm9ds Před měsícem

    What is the best site you recommend?

  • @non-monogamousmark
    @non-monogamousmark Před 5 měsíci

    Everyone has a magnetic energy being broadcast looking for a matching energy. Imagine a radio that has many channels or frequency.
    The radio is tuned into a particular signal going out from a radio tower at the same frequency it is tuned in for.
    Rob, your mindset determines your frequency and you found a matching energy. The two of you have a common mindset and that makes you a good match.
    This doesn't mean you are a perfect match and if you make monogamy work, in time the match wears off. Better is to have an open mind and consider ethical and consensual non-monogamy.
    Like that radio, you keep a few channels dialed in and are a much happier and more rounded person having multiple channels you can tune into.
    I begin a relationship introducing a Filipina to living an ECNM life that is not limited sexually and with love.

  • @johntilghman
    @johntilghman Před 3 měsíci +2

    Your house is fantastic, did you buy or build? If you built, how did you pick the developer/builder?

    • @FlyMeToThePhilippines
      @FlyMeToThePhilippines  Před 3 měsíci +1

      We are renting, but you should look at our library. We have an episode on cost of construction. Thanks for watching and taking the time to comment.

    • @johntilghman
      @johntilghman Před 3 měsíci +1

      @@FlyMeToThePhilippines the two of you are my favorite vloggers there.

    • @FlyMeToThePhilippines
      @FlyMeToThePhilippines  Před 3 měsíci

      Thanks John it’s really nice to hear that

  • @Mark-bi4pp
    @Mark-bi4pp Před měsícem +1

    Honest conversations with these two. Too long ,tho,the videos. I would recommend shortening up,.just friendly advice

    • @FlyMeToThePhilippines
      @FlyMeToThePhilippines  Před měsícem

      Thanks for the tip, we struggle as eight of our top 10 videos are our longest

  • @lesliewood4069
    @lesliewood4069 Před 4 měsíci +1

    She is a very beautiful lady 🌷❤️👍🙏🙏🙏

  • @jamescalifornia2964
    @jamescalifornia2964 Před 3 měsíci +1

    I believe that many Western residents do not realize the different culture in Latin America and southeast Asia. Very common to see the man much older than the female in relationship. 😏👍💕

  • @rabidfarmer9765
    @rabidfarmer9765 Před 12 dny

    Of course strike the iron while it is hot, Rob. LOL! I just tell my wifey I am rusty in the joints so she may have to oil them. LOL!

  • @A-RHINO-IN-THE-PHILIPPINES
    @A-RHINO-IN-THE-PHILIPPINES Před 5 měsíci +1

    My filapina is 56 and I am 59 we met and started talking 7 years ago. I will be back in march. She is an OFW with world travel and I am a USN Navy VET. we have alot In common. I dont tell her I will be back I tell he I will be home soon again.

  • @ABC-hi3fy
    @ABC-hi3fy Před 5 měsíci

    Nice couple.

  • @Doug-zl8nb
    @Doug-zl8nb Před 5 měsíci +3

    Rob is very fit for his age and mature and organized same personality that Chrissy has ...u both are very educated...and have the same goals...😊diet is very important...u both understand this...😊chrissy is very mature and understanding 😊

    • @FlyMeToThePhilippines
      @FlyMeToThePhilippines  Před 5 měsíci +1

      Thanks for watching and taking the time to comment and share a comment . I fell off my KETO diet hoping to go back on first day of February.

  • @dosbaggos5575
    @dosbaggos5575 Před 5 měsíci +1

    Have to cross off "separated" pinays off my list in case I want to go 13a in the future.

  • @77magicbus
    @77magicbus Před 13 dny

    I would like to know more about this man's background as far as family, career, etc. Thanks

  • @terryashley4674
    @terryashley4674 Před 5 měsíci +1

    Ok, not bad.

  • @etfremd
    @etfremd Před 5 měsíci +2

    I try to watch every video? Chrissy said divorced? Did she get married? How did she get divorced in the PH? My Filipina was very young with her first time at 15 with a 20 year old BF. I’m happy to pick up a package deal and hopefully add to the package for my dream if I can.
    Online dating is less than 15% legit. In my experience. It takes a lot of filtering and some luck. 🍀 🍀

  • @michaellewis5133
    @michaellewis5133 Před 5 měsíci +1

    This was my first time to watch your video and I got so tired of hearing you beat yourself up about your age difference between you and your gorgeous woman. Please understand I’m not being critical or disrespectful of your thoughts about being with a younger woman but it was very obvious to me that you have a very intelligent woman who is also very beautiful and it’s also obvious to me she is very in love with you. How lucky you are to find real treasure in such a woman. Honestly, it’s not my business to say you should lose your age fear and settle into being in love with this amazing woman before you lose her. I’m 74yo and I’m coming to the Philippines later this year to find the love of my life like you but my age is my asset because I know I have a lot of skills and talents to bring to the table in a good loving relationship. I don’t fear being with a younger intelligent woman and actually it’s why I’m coming there. I wish the two of you lots of success in your future and I’ll start watching all of your future videos. I do hope you gain more confidence about your age difference so it doesn’t become a wedge in your relationship. Maybe this video discussion was purposely about the age difference between the two of you but honestly it got old and boring the more you talked about your age difference and it felt to me as a lack of confidence on your part. I hope I’m wrong but like I said…this is my first video I’ve watched of the two of you so I don’t have any history from past videos to know any different.

    • @FlyMeToThePhilippines
      @FlyMeToThePhilippines  Před 5 měsíci

      Thanks for your feedback. Yes it was specifically a video requested in a survey by viewers on Chrissy dating older man. Took lots of exaggerations to get Chrissy to speak to subject

  • @dannyengstrom5489
    @dannyengstrom5489 Před měsícem +1

    I watched the three budgets for the Philippines and bought a ticket for November. For a month to start. A solo adventure. Possibly romantic.?

  • @robertvail573
    @robertvail573 Před 2 měsíci

    I am just in love with your love with out a doubt I hope to find my true love as well. I just love the way Chrissy puts her arm around you from time to time. The way you look at each other. Talk open about everything I love her getting jealous of you when she is the true beauty. Would love to have a women like her to walk the mall with and stand proud with the most gorgeous women in the mall by my side. Thank you Chrissy for your words of wisdom to not give up and keep trying. I have to agree that some of these bloggers try to scare you off but I am sure there are good and bad wherever you go. I wish the both of you the best of luck and I will keep watching your video as I search for my sweatheart. Thank you for your time and have a great day

    • @FlyMeToThePhilippines
      @FlyMeToThePhilippines  Před 2 měsíci

      Decoding Desire: How to use your Tool #philippines
      czcams.com/video/G3DIFTJyTVM/video.html

  • @joe.man.
    @joe.man. Před 5 měsíci +4

    That was me sorry if I hurt your feelings. I'm just looking out for you. I do have a question. I have watched other bloggers and one of them had a lawyer talking about weird Philippine laws. One of the laws was expats are not allowed to babysit or be left alone with their girlfriends kids at home even if she is just going to the store. Is that law real?.

    • @FlyMeToThePhilippines
      @FlyMeToThePhilippines  Před 5 měsíci +2

      Thanks, I heard something like that, I only am alone at basketball court so I think I am ok

    • @etfremd
      @etfremd Před 5 měsíci +1

      I don’t believe in waiting a set period of time…you size up her honesty, family, etc and make your decision. Of course I have hard experience from blond hair blue eyed America girls. Both failed marriages both deceptive in a way. First was over 7 years dating and she had a boyfriend for the last 3 years before we got married. 2nd was unconscious deception I think, she agreed for advanced fertility treatment and after 2 IVF failures she decided I would NOT be a father. Sorry she was wrong!
      I hope Chrissy and Rob get married sooner rather than later. She is so amazing!

    • @hillbillyintheasia6122
      @hillbillyintheasia6122 Před 5 měsíci +1

      @@FlyMeToThePhilippines you can be alone if have her to go the near by barangay sign you as his guardianship.

    • @FlyMeToThePhilippines
      @FlyMeToThePhilippines  Před 5 měsíci

      That’s good to know. Thanks

  • @user-zs1tk3bt3e
    @user-zs1tk3bt3e Před 5 měsíci +3

    U best act interested in her short blogs or someone else will.

  • @linctexpilot8337
    @linctexpilot8337 Před 3 měsíci +1

    She was married before? How hard was it to get her annulment final before you 2 got married??

    • @FlyMeToThePhilippines
      @FlyMeToThePhilippines  Před 3 měsíci +1

      It took 3 years, cost 1 year salary for average teacher or police man, ex tried to hold up process unless he was paid off once he learned of me, wedding in September

    • @linctexpilot8337
      @linctexpilot8337 Před 3 měsíci

      @@FlyMeToThePhilippines - - Thank you so much for the answer! I am so happy for you both, and your future together!

    • @FlyMeToThePhilippines
      @FlyMeToThePhilippines  Před 3 měsíci +1

      @@linctexpilot8337 🙏