Too tired for sex? Three questions to ask to discover the root cause.
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- čas přidán 6. 09. 2024
- If being too tired for sex is you're number one excuse in the bedroom, there might be more at play than exhaustion. Here's three important questions to ask yourself to discover the root cause behind your tired temperament.
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"I'm too tired" = "I'm just too lazy to put in the effort and I don't want to be around you."
At least that's what it means when my wife says it.
Exactly. As much as they deny it. Why else would you not want to. When for the past 20 years. You been chasing me around for more than then you flip a switch and think we’re not gonna take it the wrong way when you for whatever reason can’t verbalize why. That only leads to the husband’s imagination goes to dark places and is detrimental to your future relationship. But still I’m crazy for thinking such things but anyone with any common sense would assume the worst. Affair. Not in love anymore etc. why else would that come out of nowhere and can’t spit out a legitimate reason why. Anyone who’s ever been burned by trusting someone will never allow that to occur again. At least I won’t. Never trust anybody. Rule number one.
Why does the person who wants sex just have to feel guilty and have to keep it in the urge to ask for sex it just feels like begging and the partner has the power and i just need to deal with it especially deal with it without being sad cus that can become manipulative its just sad
Besides making children, sex maintains the pair bonding. So if that gets crowded out by too much or many other priorities,, then you just lose it.
Its all about me?
It’s ok to be selfish but we also have to be selfless to the ones we love.
Seems like there's a disconnect between her and her husband
Seems like there's a disconnect between you and husband. If the didn't feel like emotionally connecting to you.
Marriage and sex don’t work when BOTH partners don’t strive to be more than they are or “want” to be.
Stretch a little and watch what happens when your husband sees the effort, when your wife feels the investment.
This whole idea of “you’re perfect just how you are” is not helpful. Nobody is perfect, nobody is without room for growth.
Wait, what are you talking about? If it was anything remotely related to having more and better sex, sorry, but you’re only around 180 degrees in the wrong direction. You suggest meditating on the current excuses, determining new ones, and then get lost In psychobabble. This video is less a guide toward improvement than it is an instruction in how to overthink it.
I just don't get any enjoyment out of sex so I don't bother with it. I don't see why any man does.
Some people are wired this way and that is okay but those people should also remain single.
@@mastermommissioneshider719 wired this way? Are you implying broken or just different? Everyone says sex is amazing and feels good but my reality is completely opposite. So all the hype and years of marketing failed. Feels like working for no pay.