True story, she's working for us now, , taking care of my parents though myy dad passed on on July, she's still at my place now with the that kid, , she rented a single room near home as she works
No no usi mrudie otherwise wa mucoka niguo uriaga mundu. As far as ako na huyo other woman usi rudi. Olewa na mtu mwingine otherwise maandiko ime ku ruhusu. You can still get a loving, caring and responsible husband. .
This lady is very hardworking but she is misusing herself with that good for nothing man😢she could left that home long time ago😢God will pay her dearly ❤
Kitu nimekuja kulearn tu hivi karibuni ukiona mwanaume anakuitisha pesa anakuanga amekudharau sana reason ,this kind of men who you spend your money with ,they spend their with other women ,they think you should keep on buying them ,after you buy them with your money they hop to the next shelf then to the next shop you keep buying them,yaani wanatakanga ukae ukiwanunua every now then.to lady don't buy any man with your own financiall effort,this kind of men never respects you no matter how much you give and sacrifice you make for them.
Mama move on kaa maisha yako naata ukitoka kwake usiwai jarimbu kukumbali akukalibie juu ako mupaka nawifu juu yako anawenza mupaka kukufanyia kitu mbaya
Ondokea huyo mwanaume,baada ya munda atakuua, heri kukaa peke yako kuliko kupotesa moyo wako, hiyo simo ni hatari sana.Ondoka mungu atakubariki maana ni mwaminivu wengi wametoka na wako mbele sana.
@Rosemary sio samani ni Siku hizi . Ati msichana akitembea kwa boyfriend and she doesn’t go back home she’s now married. In our times it wasn’t like this. The mother to ur boyfriend would have told u to go home and bring ur parents so both parties could discuss what is happening. Even nowadays these girls have no self respect and don’t care at all.It’s a very disinfactional society such that the marriage bed has been taken for granted and defiled. God Pse have mercy….
After listening to this story half-way, am actually very upset 😡 kwa nn huyu mama anakubali ku deal na shetani nkt,, mtu anakuletea wanawake life life, na unampea pesa , na kumbuyia simu, na kumtoa kwa jela, na still he doesn't respect you, huyu mama ni mjinga sana, si ajikalishe kama single mothers wengine, aende saudi alee watoto, that husband can never change, huyu mwanaume akikufa huyu mama hawezi survive??, jipende mama, na upende watoto wako, move on, single mothers wanaishi maisha poa bila stress .
This lady is too naive and her naivety has led her to all these problems. You have given her good advice. Ingekua mimi ningemwacha aozee jela. Mimi siwezi penda mtu kuliko vile najipenda.
It is unfortunate that victims ate victimized even more by outsiders.I believe nobody has ever visited her with a shoulder to lean on,a listening ear to know why she foes not run away without judging and be reafy to help her settle in the world you are telling her to go.Never ask a victim of DV why thry don't move away and yet you don't ask the perpetrators anything or even sue them?Ehy can't the perpretrators stop.Many hide character under narcissism but are different.An abuser is an abuser.
This is just so sad. Staying in a marriage for the sake of the children or the society is the worst thing that can ever happen to a woman. May God give you peace and open doors for you. This family hates you.
Mimi nikama sijui kupenda juu aaaai kwani watu ufumilia Nini sasa😮 ningemwacha uko jela mimi ,, arape mtoto siwezi kwa na yy tena😮,, mimi sitaweza kukaa place natharauriwa
But saa zingine ni vizuri kujipenda, mbona ukae place hauna amani ukifanyiwa izo vituko zote just ondokea na mungu akupe nguvu n akuponye ..hau hatire kihiko
This man is a narcissist. I can't blame her, a narcissist can abuse you for years, that's why she keeps going and coming back, its not usually easy to get out. She is also not aware of the abuse. She needs counseling. May God fight for her.
Ambia huyu Mama ajipange hapo hakuna kihiko ata wale hawana mashaba wana ishi amepoteza pesa mingi sana but no charge in her life continues na maisha yako but pole sana
Am wondering the same, unakosa ku react aje bwanako akilala na rafiki yako kwa kitanda yenu?, ati alikua mdogo 17 ryrs unaelewa Kila kitu aii,, huyu mwanamke ako na kasoro😂
Huyu mama ni illiteracy na lack of exposure , she is very hardworking na hiyo pesa yote ametumia na huyo mzee ni enough kununua kashamba kake...inakaa she will still.go back
So what's the purpose of staying in this kind of marriage,come beat me but ill choose singlehood anytime over this kind if slavery.hardworking but shida sijui ni nini, always bailing him out ,he never helps with anything, infidelity and disrespectful.
This is a hard-to-listen-to story. Why would one chose to to live n slave for such a soulless beast? Mami jipende kwanza. Huyu mtu realised you have placed no value on yourself. That's why he treats you worse than trash.
The family of that so called husband knows what is eating the man this is not normal then someone tied the heart of a man never to see his first wife ushawi uko nawengi hawajui I know if this man get delivered from that spirit of killing stealing and destroying all could be well
Mama usimupende asieku penda utango utangojeka. ama ukuve uachie watoto wako Sinda Tokauko Na usahau na usahau Jia yakwenda uko okoamaisha Yoko na yawatoto wako
Ata kama nikuvumilia aaiiii mummy you have wasted all your money,energy ..kwani ni nini hiyo ulitaka..tiga wana onawe ah!this is too much..huyu atarudi tuu,shes very desperate for marriage..
Mm nmewaì onja kutharauliwa na mother in law coz haya yoote huyu mama amepitia coz huyo mama hampendi so hua anapea support huyo mwingine may God fight for u 😢
The maths are not mathng,she married at fifteen and let's assume she gave birth at 16,how comes the time the friend slept with the husband the child was school going yet she was 17?😇🤔. Assuming that the child was three years ( which was rare those days for children to start school early),then she was at least 19. A 19 year old not understanding that people should not share husbands???? And worse in the same bed????? Hapa kuna lots of sugar coating
True story she is my first auntie ❤❤ tata wairimu
Yap its true but Kaba kwiyenda niundu kimundu kiu gitimwendete ni kumtumia tu na mwishowe atatupwa kwa hiyo shimo na ifunikwe
Ngai nilikuwa karibu kusema nikipindi huyo uncle yenu nikiumbani
Advise your auntie ajipende kwanza..she will never be misused by anyone
Why you people didn't advise her mpaka afike hii level of sadness
@@annewenjiku-oc8bkyou can't advice a woman in love🚮
Nothing hurts more than realizing he meant everything to you and you meant nothing to him......May God open new doors for her🙏🤲
Wewe ata ungekuwa mbali sana kama ungeondokea hiyo shenzi,jikalishe Indo nigwetho ciethagwo wamother
True story, she's working for us now, , taking care of my parents though myy dad passed on on July, she's still at my place now with the that kid, , she rented a single room near home as she works
She's a very nice lady ,God bless her
She needs help. Psychological help. She is not listening to Symo. God have mercy on her and meet her at her point of need
Symo hiyo miguu chini haraka sana have manners.....
😂😂😂😂😂
Thank God u are alive! My aunt had such a husband eventually she died of stress.
No no usi mrudie otherwise wa mucoka niguo uriaga mundu. As far as ako na huyo other woman usi rudi. Olewa na mtu mwingine otherwise maandiko ime ku ruhusu. You can still get a loving, caring and responsible husband. .
This lady is very hardworking but she is misusing herself with that good for nothing man😢she could left that home long time ago😢God will pay her dearly ❤
a very strong mama and very hardworking jipende mom
Ashiria hiyo ndoa,, it's not working mommy,, naomba enda mbali Mungu atakubariki
Kitu nimekuja kulearn tu hivi karibuni ukiona mwanaume anakuitisha pesa anakuanga amekudharau sana reason ,this kind of men who you spend your money with ,they spend their with other women ,they think you should keep on buying them ,after you buy them with your money they hop to the next shelf then to the next shop you keep buying them,yaani wanatakanga ukae ukiwanunua every now then.to lady don't buy any man with your own financiall effort,this kind of men never respects you no matter how much you give and sacrifice you make for them.
Mama move on kaa maisha yako naata ukitoka kwake usiwai jarimbu kukumbali akukalibie juu ako mupaka nawifu juu yako anawenza mupaka kukufanyia kitu mbaya
Mama Ben God loves you so much,nimeishi kukupea moyo bt now you are free
Huyu mama nasikia kumchapa walai...hio pesa yote kwa mjinga ya mwanaume
😂😂😂😂me too
the way am twisting and clicking..whats wrong with this woman now..wee vile najipenda it can never be me
She's a strong woman start all over again and trust in God
The story is full of pain. Mummy move on ukae maisha yako na akikufuata akiomba msamaha anafaa achapwe na vijana wa kijiji
In today world nowhere you can find such woman kudos mama keep up fantastic narration
Hii dunia kweri iko na mambo aki . Waaah
Ondokea huyo mwanaume,baada ya munda atakuua, heri kukaa peke yako kuliko kupotesa moyo wako, hiyo simo ni hatari sana.Ondoka mungu atakubariki maana ni mwaminivu wengi wametoka na wako mbele sana.
Kuolewa ya kitambo ilikuwa funny...One night stand,ushaolewa...hahaha
@Rosemary sio samani ni Siku hizi . Ati msichana akitembea kwa boyfriend and she doesn’t go back home she’s now married. In our times it wasn’t like this. The mother to ur boyfriend would have told u to go home and bring ur parents so both parties could discuss what is happening. Even nowadays these girls have no self respect and don’t care at all.It’s a very disinfactional society such that the marriage bed has been taken for granted and defiled. God Pse have mercy….
After listening to this story half-way, am actually very upset 😡 kwa nn huyu mama anakubali ku deal na shetani nkt,, mtu anakuletea wanawake life life, na unampea pesa , na kumbuyia simu, na kumtoa kwa jela, na still he doesn't respect you, huyu mama ni mjinga sana, si ajikalishe kama single mothers wengine, aende saudi alee watoto, that husband can never change, huyu mwanaume akikufa huyu mama hawezi survive??, jipende mama, na upende watoto wako, move on, single mothers wanaishi maisha poa bila stress .
This lady is too naive and her naivety has led her to all these problems.
You have given her good advice.
Ingekua mimi ningemwacha aozee jela. Mimi siwezi penda mtu kuliko vile najipenda.
Mjinga sanaaa
It is unfortunate that victims ate victimized even more by outsiders.I believe nobody has ever visited her with a shoulder to lean on,a listening ear to know why she foes not run away without judging and be reafy to help her settle in the world you are telling her to go.Never ask a victim of DV why thry don't move away and yet you don't ask the perpetrators anything or even sue them?Ehy can't the perpretrators stop.Many hide character under narcissism but are different.An abuser is an abuser.
@@eunicenjeru215but what happened to loving yourself first..if she was my mum i would tell her straight to the face
Waaa..!!this kind of patient siezi taka
Mungu atakubariki mum, and may you heal your heart from today,, watu hupitia mengi, bt mungu yupo
Run for your life mum,there is no marriage there,so unfortunate 😞😞😞,God will bless you,hugs💕
Pole sana sana Madam. Umejaribu sana sana
This is just so sad. Staying in a marriage for the sake of the children or the society is the worst thing that can ever happen to a woman. May God give you peace and open doors for you. This family hates you.
This story it is so sad because of a woman who refused to focus and stand by her own jameni kama ndoa hazifanyi kazi siuende jameni onavile unalia aki
Huyu ni kama ako cemented huko ameshindwa kutoka hata saa hii atamrudia tu
Mimi nikama sijui kupenda juu aaaai kwani watu ufumilia Nini sasa😮 ningemwacha uko jela mimi ,, arape mtoto siwezi kwa na yy tena😮,, mimi sitaweza kukaa place natharauriwa
Just move out. Your name mama! You are being wasted. Hau nduri na muthuri ni mnyama. Pole my sister.
Ndugasoke kuu maito iyo ni ngoma usio no aguikie irima reu naingira njeraini oime oo ringi nathie na mbere na kupambana
Riu nihindi wambiriria gwiciria mundu wa muthemba ucio ndacenjagia onaoiga niacenjia no tuhu ino thi ndiigana ruhi bata no kwihoka Ngai
But saa zingine ni vizuri kujipenda, mbona ukae place hauna amani ukifanyiwa izo vituko zote just ondokea na mungu akupe nguvu n akuponye ..hau hatire kihiko
Uyu pia ako na shida
Kubwa Sana mpaka nashindwa kumhurumia.na atamrudia tu
Haiya maya maundu ni maritu! Mummy thara muoyo waku ucio ti mundu ni nyamu
Unatoa wapi Hawa watu wako na mastoey mbaya mbaya
NGAI ndariganiruo niwe mum. Utabarikiwa na MUNGU washangae.
Woiye ma, Ngai ririkana mutumia uyu. mathina mamwe ni marîtu muno ku handle
Pls mama usirudi kwa huyo mwanaume atakumaliza, kumjengea, kumtafutia. Huyu mzee hana shukrani
Riu uyuuri arenda iruo atia ati ndarendekana aumagarii athii, uyuu ana ushamba, onaharia ndimutumia ndiramuigwira thaa, mayaa nimakwireherera
This man is a narcissist. I can't blame her, a narcissist can abuse you for years, that's why she keeps going and coming back, its not usually easy to get out. She is also not aware of the abuse. She needs counseling. May God fight for her.
Mum, ondokea huyo mnyama. Go live in peace and blessings will come your way. Trust God. Such animals do not change.
Now what is this??? Navile your father in heaven loves you.. do know your worth... A very rich woman inside and outside.
Ambia huyu Mama ajipange hapo hakuna kihiko ata wale hawana mashaba wana ishi amepoteza pesa mingi sana but no charge in her life continues na maisha yako but pole sana
angekuwa hata amenunua ploti na anajenga
Soo interesting 😅
Naweza wachapa wote wawili
😊mmmh shida
Roho ya ubwa kabisa
It's so pain waaaaaaa 😳😳 pole sana dada GOD IS ALWAYS FAITHFUL 🙏🙏
This is so heartbreaking,
Mutumia uyuu niwe kiriimu, arenda irui atia nigetha aumagarii. Umagara uhiigi
Simo huyu hawezi badilika
Just forget that narcissist yeye hautaki kabisaaa twangoja kifo hapo
Her story is sad but atleast it's flowing unlike the previous lady...
Weeeeeh ..... ondokea huyo mnyama
Toka mama that's narcissist atakuua ruuuun
Huyu mama ata wewe ulikua na ujinga sana kwani huyu mzee alikua mzuri sana kuliko maisha yako
Am wondering why waste your life kz of such marriage aii
Am wondering the same, unakosa ku react aje bwanako akilala na rafiki yako kwa kitanda yenu?, ati alikua mdogo 17 ryrs unaelewa Kila kitu aii,, huyu mwanamke ako na kasoro😂
Huyu mama ni illiteracy na lack of exposure , she is very hardworking na hiyo pesa yote ametumia na huyo mzee ni enough kununua kashamba kake...inakaa she will still.go back
Ni kweli assume huyu mtu amekufa na uishi peke yako. Usijali . Wanawake wanapenda kujiassociate na mwanaume. Sometimes sio lazima kuwa na mwanaume.
Ngai akurathime nadugatikire mundu uyu akuhuthire uguo akuhuthirite
Ngano imwe si magigi muno! Maraya waku guka gucera gwaku na agakorwo na muthuri waku gitanda kimwe? Onawe wari na gathina.
😂😂😂😂😂 hii story imenikasirisha sana ,, Kwanza hapo kwa huyo maraya ,
So what's the purpose of staying in this kind of marriage,come beat me but ill choose singlehood anytime over this kind if slavery.hardworking but shida sijui ni nini, always bailing him out ,he never helps with anything, infidelity and disrespectful.
I know this woman,she used to work for my neighbor
This is a hard-to-listen-to story. Why would one chose to to live n slave for such a soulless beast? Mami jipende kwanza. Huyu mtu realised you have placed no value on yourself. That's why he treats you worse than trash.
The family of that so called husband knows what is eating the man this is not normal then someone tied the heart of a man never to see his first wife ushawi uko nawengi hawajui I know if this man get delivered from that spirit of killing stealing and destroying all could be well
Maitu wa gwitu mukurweini ehutira dimono iyo
Mama usimupende asieku
penda utango utangojeka. ama ukuve uachie watoto wako Sinda Tokauko Na usahau na usahau Jia yakwenda uko okoamaisha Yoko na yawatoto wako
Ahiki very easy paid with mutu . 😂😂
Alikua wamepewa ka miti na huyooo mwanamke aki it's very sad aki
Very sad story and painful .,ena roho muru muno wa umaraya🥹😭😭
Run run run mama huyo kaa hatakuua atakuletea ugonjwa ukufe uache your special kid bila mtu wa kumwangalia 😢😢😢😢he is a narcist a sycopath
Kai wohererwo kuu
Mau mathina nimaingíha muno
Wewe unafaa kichapo mpaka hiyo ujinga huko nayo ikutoke
If the husband loves the maid let the maid b a second wife
Many wives are suffering silently.
Ata kama nikuvumilia aaiiii mummy you have wasted all your money,energy ..kwani ni nini hiyo ulitaka..tiga wana onawe ah!this is too much..huyu atarudi tuu,shes very desperate for marriage..
😂😂😂😂😂Ati ako na cola ya kuhumbiri aliwekewa jela huwa anahumbiri mahali anakutilia hana kanisa😂
Unawe wari na urimu, how do you let the devil in your hse
Focus with your life and move on
Wee Ngai murathimi turira mutumia uyu njira na weheria ngoro yake he murume
Huyo n kurogwa amerogwa
Illiteracy is the bottom line
A very sad story mum you are capable wachana na yeye kabisa
Nigekuwa mimi sigemutoa
Mm nmewaì onja kutharauliwa na mother in law coz haya yoote huyu mama amepitia coz huyo mama hampendi so hua anapea support huyo mwingine may God fight for u 😢
Mimi önce niliona red flag nilitokana watoto wawili 4yrs na 9 months xaa hii ni 19 and 16 l dont regret anything
😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊
Mami..ndugakuire hau ta kirimu..umagara ugethe miaramano ...nogukorwo itua riaku riakuuma...nikio kuambiriria kia uhotani
Atumia a murang’a mwi kanyama
Thirty years of abuse? What a marriage? But why can't she move out?
All these red flags n ur still in that marriage...?run for your life n God will see u thru...
Watoto wako niwakubwa move out. Illiteracy is bad mimi siwezi kaa naumbwa ya Mzee kama hio🚮
Ukweli kabisa
You are a very hardworking woman, don’t allow satan pastor man destroy your live.
Wamucoka mom jipende mama
Hiyo shimo ndiyo imenipea goosebumps 😢😢😢
aaaaiiii hii story iko na ??
i will use swahili so that she will understand...jipende mama...hapo hakuna mapenzi..yani umenikasirisha mbaya sana..how now
Khai mbn wanaume mutufanyie ivi aki😢
Wanaume gani?
Saimo ndeiriga fasting😂😂😂 nitukwendete muno mwana witu.
Ndukamake miaka 30 tiuhoro Ngai niakamiriha uthamire kuraihu fiu nake riu irima nio makagua ....father inlaw niakuire wee niwe wi thinaini ..eherera ghathia iyo ya mudurume guku nja kwi na arume angi ega
It's time to move out and live your life... Make a decision and stop suffering because of love.
which love
The maths are not mathng,she married at fifteen and let's assume she gave birth at 16,how comes the time the friend slept with the husband the child was school going yet she was 17?😇🤔. Assuming that the child was three years ( which was rare those days for children to start school early),then she was at least 19. A 19 year old not understanding that people should not share husbands???? And worse in the same bed?????
Hapa kuna lots of sugar coating
Ai symo old habits die hard
You ignored the red flags