GIRL TALK | What If His Mom Hates You??
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Mothers get jealous of their son’s relationships and the son needs to stand up for his significant other. He has to stand up to his mom. He’s not marrying his mom, he’s marrying you
YESS! ANOTHER GIRL TALK!!!
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@@weylie_hoang As an Aepygigantogiraffa 🦒 Bull ( male ), I believe this is true based on my observation. Moms tend to look up to their daughter's boyfriends as if they are sons and that's why moms are more accepting of their daughter's boyfriends but they see their son's girlfriends as competitors and rivals and they will do anything to get rid of his girlfriend and keep him all to herself. For dads, they congratulate their sons for getting a girlfriend and since they look up to their son's girlfriends as if they are daughters, they tend to be very accepting towards them.But to their daughter's boyfriends, they always see their daughter's boyfriends as always planning on doing something bad to their daughters and that is why they don't like their daughter's boyfriends.
this hairstyle is honestly so cute
For real!!! adorable
Agreed. Can we get a tutorial for us girls who can't do hair at all lol
Thank you!!
Yesss, please do a tutorial on this hairstyle!
You are the advice queen
Sophia Chang I love u
Thank youuuu, love you too! :)
you should make a podcast!! or start a series like this because it is very nice and I feel like it would be nice/empowering during the morning or even just driving or something. also I love you so much!💗
ur sister joyce YES!!🙌
ur sister joyce never would have thought of it but youre so right! I would listen to the podcast
ur sister joyce I hope Weylie sees this comment!!!! Please make this happen!
Such a great idea! I would listen to that all day everyday lol
ur sister joyce omg YESSS
If a mother doesnt have a valid reason to hate the girl her son is dating, more than likely its jealousy. Jealous her son might leave or abandon the mother for the girlfriend. Mothers think no girl is good enough for their son. Even if the girl is the sweetest, most accomplished thing ever, its never good enough. Sucks I know. I think if you know your a good person, and have alot to offer your boyfriend, you shouldn't get discouraged by the mother. And if your boyfriend decides to leave you to please his mommy then your better off without him. Nothing worse than a mamas boy. A man should be mature enough to put his foot down and make his own decisions to what makes him happy. Not to please his parents. A grown man cant be by mommy or daddy's side forever. If the girl is a good person, I dont see why any man would ditch her all because his mom doesnt have a good enough excuse to hate her. Also, not all mothers are this way. A good majority of them are, but im sure theirs some mothers out there that are not completely insane 😂
Sam Nolan 🙌🙌🙌
Yes I can relate to this so much! 🙌🏼
This is very relatable for me as well! i needed to hear this thankyou :)
Juliette Salh no problem Juliette ❤️ glad I helped you! 😊
Absolutely, my bf's mother is divorced and he's her only child, so that's probably part of it. She hasn't approved of any girlfriend he's ever had and I'm worried that she'll either never learn to accept me or that she'll bother him so much that she'll end up isolated from everyone. She's extremely stubborn, but I know parents will often learn to live with their child's choices. :)
I’m sorry Weylie but my husband chose to stop speaking to his mother a few years ago because of her toxic behavior. I do not believe anyone should have to endure years of emotional abuse. This woman chose time and time again to talk shit about me, make threats, ultimatums anything to get him to leave me. And I know that sounds dramatic but it’s true and I TRIED and TRIED to get on her side because he and his mom were very close, so I understood the feeling that I was taking him away. But she is not able to see beyond herself in the least. When I proved myself loyal time and time again she would find some reason to call me names and put me down.
When you, as a full grown adult, choose to abuse someone because of your own selfish desires... that is someone who should not be in your life. So my husband made the decision - him, not me - to cut off contact with her completely. And of course I hear from other family members how she blames me for this and I’m “in his head” but that’s just further proof that she is not capable of even TRYING to change so she can be in her son’s life.
Truth be told I do not care if she likes me, but to give up her relationship with her child??? It’s unforgivable to me. I have this idea that maybe years down the line she would reach out and apologize to my husband because I want him to have his mother in his life.
But to all those out there struggling with this - it is abuse. No one has the right to abuse you. To mistreat someone their child loves off some selfish idea or fear that you’re not what THEY want for their child. A good parent will learn to love you, will take the time to build a relationship with you.
Respect and human decency is not something that needs to be earned
Celeste Podeswik I agree not everyone deserves your love and attention. If it's toxic let it go regardless of who that person is. Narcissism is real.
Awesome comment
Lol even more fun when married 😂
Celeste Podeswik amen girl
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LOVE reading all the stories you guys are sharing!! Thanks for sharing, I love our community :)
Weylie, you are and have always been like the big sister I never had. I love listening to your advice. It always feels so personal and I find so much comfort in listening to you as if you were actually right here with me. The advice, especially about the aging and the toxic relationships were all things I needed to hear. Keep doing what you're doing.
ilikeweylie where did you get your hair ribbon ?! it's so cute
This is my advice for the mom who doesn’t like you: I also had a similar situation where my boyfriends mom did not like me. My boyfriend told me not to worry if she liked me or not but I insisted that it was important to me because his mom was a part of him and I wanted her approval because I valued her opinion. Family is very important and I didn’t want to cause conflict down the road. So he assured his mother how much he loved me. How I brought him happiness and that he planned on having me in life forever. He told her how he never felt this way about any woman and that he wished for her to share or be happy for him. That is when the tide turned and I’m so blessed to be a part of not only his life but his families. Make sure your man expresses this because every mom wants nothing but happiness for their sons
I think you should never try to win someones approval. It should never be your goal. Respect and have your boundaries. Some will never approve of you and it has nothing to do with you and everything to do with them.
I just broke up with my boyfriend of over 2 years and a lot of these questions & answers made me cry it’s nice to hear these messages I hope all you ladies feel better we all usually deserve way better than we get
I need to find myself a weylie friend
this is exactly what I say after all her videos lol
Love all your responses to the answers. You don't hold anything back and I like that realness you bring forth through your videos. All positives vibes!
I related so much to that last person. I was in a toxic relationship for months & I wanted to leave but I didn’t want to be alone. In the end, he broke it off with me & I was the one that got hurt. I am now in a happy stable relationship & I’m glad that my ex was the one to have left because I couldn’t.
exact same situation here! it happens much too often but i'm glad you are in a better place now. :)
girl i hear you! i was shattered after a super toxic relationship, i kept ignoring all the red flags and kept trying to convince myself he was the one. almost a year later and im in the best relationship in my life! props to happiness for both of us :)
I definitely think it's a good idea to keep your arguments private because if you broadcast it you know people will start picking out sides, pointing out who was wrong, who was right, start criticizing you for being an imperfect person, etc. And if you see those comments it could really influence your relationship when your relationship should be private between you two. I don't think you want to invite the whole internet into your personal relationship.
It's probably the simplest thing to do, but could you film how you style your hair? You've been slaying with that hairdo
yes! Coming soon!
My Boyfriends Mom hated me. Like if looks could kill I’d be dead right now lol. But he was/is a huge mommas boy. She’d always have a comment or look at me funny. And I’m the one to confront and not beat around the bush but out of respect for her and him I didn’t say anything until our 2 yrs anniversary was coming around so I finally decided to invite her for dinner so we could talk. And I we talked for about 4 hours and got everything off our chest. At the end she apologized and as did I because I had some snotty remarks and another year later I can call her for anything and she can rely on me. She’s basically another mom that I’ve never had.
adri cavazos wow this is really good advice. I was always looking for ways to just deal with my bfs mom hating me. I never thought of how to confront the problem and talk about it and fix it. This comment really encouraged me to invite her out to dinner and fix this whole thing. I hope it works out like it did for you.
i know this comment is literally 2 years old but if possible - can you give me advice on how to do this? it’s literally my goal to be able to do this. my bf and i have been together for almost 2 years as well and i have been trying to get her to like me since our 3 month and she just doesn’t seem to want to try and get along and a dinner or something to make us get along and close literally would make my dreams complete so that i can finally be the girlfriend i want to be when she’s around 😭😭 hope you’ll be able to respond x
i wish i have this
Its insane to see how much weylie has grown, it shows in all her videos. Thanks for being the older sister I never had! I’ve been watching you since 6th grade and now I’m halfway through college ❤️❤️❤️❤️
The last question and your advice really hit me. I was stuck in a very toxic relationship for two years and when I ended things I felt miserable. That feeling was only temporary though and I've since moved on and honestly haven't been more satisfied with my life. I clung on to the relationship for so long since it was my first high school relationship. At that time I didn't know my self worth and relied on someone else to validate me. Keeping myself busy and working on my own growth definitely helped me get over it. Now I hate him but that's besides the point LMAO so happy to return from work and be blessed with another girl talk vid! Love you gurl
Loved that reminder that you only fail when you truly give up! Thanks for the motivation, Weylie! :)
These are my absolute fav type of videos from you because you’re so refreshing to listen to and have great advice. I resonated a lot with much of this. Appreciate you always being real with us all this time Weylie!
This girl chat type of video i really love ❤️ weylie keep it coming girl i don’t mind watching it for 2 hours or more 😅
Where was this video last year when I finally got myself out of a toxic 4 year relationship with a guy who constantly lied to me and cheated on me... 😭 Still great to be reminded of putting myself first and foremost, and knowing my self-worth and what to look for in a healthy relationship. ❤ Thanks, Weylie. You really are like a big sister to us. 😍
This video couldn’t have come at a better time! I just got out of a 6 year relationship that became toxic at the end and I realized that I should not be bumming around being sad but I found it hard not to until this video. Thank you Weylie for reminding me that I need to keep pushing forward everyday.
I love your minimalist, natural style for decor & your hair, outfits & makeup ! I love your girl talk videos so much ! your smile is contagious I swear ❤️ I’m so happy you’re happy ! you’re like the big sister I never had ☺️💕
Weylie, the last question is EXACTLY what I’m going through, except I’ve been in this relationship for a year and a half. Your answer was just what I needed to hear! Thank you so much❤️
thank you for this video weylie. it legitimately feels like I have a big sister just talking to me and not gonna lie, I really needed this. anyone can see how much you care and how you genuinely want to help us. your advice is always welcome, I hope you do more videos like this!
recently I've been having issues with the person I used to consider best friend. its not outright drama, but more like issues that piled up and ultimately led to us drifting. i've tried to acknowledge and fix it, but it just feels like we can't go back and that she doesn't want to. when you were talking about how having just one good best friend is a blessing, even though i've heard that phrase a lot, I truly understand it now. if you asked me a year ago if I would be in the situation I am in now with my friend, I would've never believed u. I really thought there was nothing that could separate us, and that I would never be alone, but as my school year comes to a close I realize how naive I was. I have been questioning myself if what I want in a friend, like having someone be "ride or die" for you essentially, actually exists in life. I am still not sure if what I've been looking for is even possible, and I know I shouldn't keep trying to fix what we once had after all my failed attempts. But the saddest part is, I know if she tried even once, I would go running back to her because I miss having someone like that in my life so much. maybe it is time to close this chapter like you said.
thank you again for your video. i love u weylie :'-)
You always have great advices!! 😍
My boyfriend & i have been together for nearly 3 years and your advice on keepin’ the spark alive was truly a much needed reminder! Thank you for the girl talks, sista! Much loves from Singapore 💕
Good for you for wanting to maintain your privacy. I know a lot of CZcamsrs feel obligated to show everything, even if it makes them uncomfortable. I applaud you for setting boundaries.
Girl - you have such an amazing spirit and warmth to you whenever you talk, and no matter what the subject is, I just know when I come here to your channel, I’m going to feel something ☺️
This is probably one of your best girl talk videos yet!! Everything is soo accurate and needed to be said/heard xoxo
When Weylie said “couple goals!!” I immediately thought “UNDERWEARR!!” LMAAAO Love you girl 😂
Kimberly Pham sammme!!! 😂
so funny because that's exactly what I think of now too LOL
Omg.. don't do I do just let it go and have sad ass wholes in lace bras after 9 years keep some cute underwear and matching bras. 😂
Honestly one of the realist videos I’ve watched in a while.
OMG WEYLIE I LOVE YOUR TALKS! ITS SO MOTIVATIONAL:’) LITERALLY YOU NEED TO GO ON TED TALKS
Can I just say I am LIVIIIINGGGG for the way you've been doing your hair!! I am obsessed with those ties and bandanas you've been using! So so so cute.
Weylie you've been uploading more than 20 minute girl talk vids AND I'M LOVING IT!!!
Your advice is always so constructive and motivate ppl to become a better person!!! You are the angel ❤️
Thank you so much for this video! This is exactly what I needed to hear from a girl to girl to give me encouragement to realize that my happiness and morals is more important. ❤️ Thank you for being my internet friend for the past 9 years since tampon days and my teenage years.
Weylie is better than most therapists tbh, she’s so helpful! Love you 💞 keep it up!
Weylie you are so wise and mature for your age! I'm 27 and can't relate to most of the CZcamsrs (especially the ones in LA) bc they seem so fake and act like they're Kim K or something but I love how real and down to earth you are! Keep doing you sista!
Omg I literally live for your girl talks! They are so inspiring, motivating, and empowering. I loved every second of it!
This girl talk was so good!!! I mean all your girl talks were good but this one really touched me and I’m not even having relationship problems.
Also, please do a hair tutorial on your hairstyle in the video!! 😍
Weylie can I just say how amazing you are... I’ve been watching you since I was about 13 maybe or 14. I grew up watching you and I feel like in a way we are sisters... I never had an older sister growing up, I have a younger sister but I had to basically teach myself everything. I feel like watching you helped me grow into the woman I am today .. you felt like my sister.. and taught me things I didn’t know but needed to know. Your wise words help me get through certain times in my life and I Thankyou so much for that! I hope to one day finally meet you in person. I look up to you A LOT and I just hope that you continue to inspire other women❤️
To everyone struggling out there, here's a big virtual hug for you! You've got this! Take your time and you'll eventually get there! ♡♡♡♡♡
your answer to the last question was on point. weylie you honestly have such great advice, very wise :)
You’re the longest you tuber I’ve watched (subscribed when tampon vid came out). So nice to see you’re still active and act the same, it’s comforting
Thank you for being so genuine Weylie! I relate so much to this. Keep doing what you're doing, you're truly a blessing!!!!
random but if you had a podcast like this (girl talk stuff) i’d listen to it all day omg love you sista 💕
i totally agree with your distance and connection point of view. one of my best friends & i hardly talk but the bond is still there whenever we do hang out. it’s crazy but we really do pick up where we left off and we’re able to turn off our phones and just talk for HOURS as if time hasn’t passed. we’re not always center stage in each other’s lives, but we’ll always be in the background, never gone.
Weylie, thank you for the advice. I’m going through a tough time with my relationship, and the LDR doesn’t help either. Thank you for making me feel better! ♥️
Yo I wish Weylie actually started like a series like this just on girl talk. That will be awesome!
Love you sista! I literally dropped everything I was doing at home when I got a notification that said “ilikeweylie uploaded a new video.”
In the last question when you are giving a hug I cry…so truly feel your sincerity and love. Thank you Weiley you are angel. Love you from HK
I think one piece of advice that I would offer to my younger self (who was stuck in a few toxic relationships) is that you need to really think on the fact that life is LONG. I know, people always say life is short. But no, imagine this toxic person who you KNOW isn’t good for you, that you’re still with him when you’re 30, that you spend an additional five long years with him and you’re now 35, and then you spend another five tumultuous years with him and you’re 40. And you’ve got your entire 40s to go through with him too. Think of the situation it will be when you have to be on this persons team as a parent (hardest job ever btw). And this isn’t even into your older years like 50s, 60s, 70s. You have to live with this person and live a generally unhappy life because you’re scared to be alone right now. I was in the same boat, more than once. And as dumb as it sounds, I was so afraid to be alone. So so afraid that I made decisions I knew weren’t good for me. And all I have to say is, I understand it is hard to break out of that cycle. I know it’s hard to sit alone in your living room watching tv, sleeping, eating. But I implore you to gather strength and do what you can to meet someone new. If you can’t handle being alone, then do everything in your power to meet someone new. And move on. You will be so happy and grateful you did. When I think about how much I wanted those relationships to work, it actually scares me now bc what if I had gotten my wish back then? I wouldn’t be in my happy marriage with a beautiful baby now. So girls, please find strength. If you don’t have it, fake it til you make it.
Weylie, I love how genuine and honest you are to your viewers
tbh I never watched a girl talk before & your advice is actually so good! I'm been missing out
I really appreciate this Q&A. Definitely wrote your quote on failure in my bullet journal, to remind me to never give up. Thanks girl!
14:21-17:00 is what i just needed 😭 Thank you weylie for being one of the best advicer a sistah can have. Always loved your girl talk videos. Hope you're doing well. Love ü 💕
So happy that you answered that relationship spark question because i’ve been having problems like that in my relationship recently. Love your advice weylie
I love these videos from you weylie!! You’re the big sister I’ve never had but always needed. I’ve been watching you since you were in high school when getting 1 million views was such a big deal! Needless to say, I 💜U
I love your girl talk videos! Weylie, you truly give out the best advice. After every girl talk video I feel inspired and happy from all the advice you give to us, thank you!
Thanks for taking the time to answer our questions! Your girl talk videos are awesome :) idk how anyone can give it a thumbs down
Thank you for all the advice Weylie🙏🏻Each one made so much sense to me right now! "12 months of opportunity" Yass (jokes aside) that's truly the way to see it. We tend to be more focused on numbers than actual hapiness. Thank you for empowering so many of us
Weylie, I'e been watching for years now and I want to say you get better and better with your content! I love your intro and how you make it feel like you are addressing an audience or a buncha sistas, rather the camera ❤❤❤ love you
Omg I LOVE girl talks!! Thanks for always being there for us sista! 💕
The way I think of it, weylie your channel may not be as big, but you have a community that really supports you vs. passive watchers and bots
FINALLY, I have missed these girl talks!
I looooove your bow in your hair !
Dear Weylie we are almost of the same age but watching your videos makes me feel like talking to a big sister!
you seem to have so much wisdom in you
YASSS LOVE SIT DOWN GIRL TALKS FROM YOU ~ also superrrrr cute outfit!
Also as for the long distance friendship, I have one right now since my other friend and I are both in grad school but shes currently on the other coast from me. but i agree that if a connection is there, ITS THERE.and you have to invest in each other, what the other is going through, scheduling a few hour chats/vidchats atleast once a month. It makes that catch up time more precious and more valuable that you want to keep going.
you're so helpful, i really needed to see this... my boyfriends mom is always belittling me and saying how he's, "dating down."
it really hurts but, it definitely makes me feel better im not alone!
Love you, and the title of the video is making me cry cuz the same thing happened to me, it is ridiculous that his mom only cares about the look rather than the inside or personality. It is such an unsolveble problem..
Getting more and more beautiful everyday! Love these girl talks!! ❤❤
This was just what I needed! Love your advice and I love how honest and open you are! Always so down to earth and so genuine! ❤️❤️❤️
Omg has it been 7 years already!! Be you and don’t feel pressured to do anything.
i seriously LOVED this video so much. i have a notebook where i write down advice that really helps me and i wrote down so much from watching this video. your advice really inspires me to look at life differently :)
Hi Weylie!! I'm usually a quiet follower but I love love LOVED your girl talk! Honestly I want to share it with my friends, my boyfriend, my everyone in my life LOOL your advice is amazing!! xoxo
Yesss weylie you gooooo!!! I always make time for them 25 mins girl advice videos😏
Every time u post a video I’m like ugh this is why I love Weylie 😭 love all this advice girl!
I think the best thing to do after a break up is keep busy, think of goals you’d like to accomplish and when you do it helps take away all the bad and you are filled with an amazing feeling of happiness and accomplishment! As time has passed while trying to accomplish the goals you will feel normal again and finally free from the bad feelings.
I definitely agree with you, Weylie! I’ve been with my now fiancée for almost seven years now too. We own a 3-year old American Eskimo and we also had sooooooo many people that always asked us when we are getting married. We definitely are doing it on our own terms and always ignored how others criticize us and where we should be in our relationship. At the end of the day, it doesn’t matter what others think and what stage they think your relationship should be at because you know, that’s YOUR relationship!
The style, background outfit everything is beautiful together by the way! :D Your videos are calming and brighten all of our days ^^
I love watching your Girl Talk videos Weylie!!! If I ever have children I'm totally going to have them watch your videos because you give such good advice ❤️
Girl yes yes yes. Pleeeease do more of these. Like once a month if possible. Love your girl talk videos. Love ya weylie
This girl talk is SO soothing and reassuring :')
OMG!!!! This is my all time hands down favorite Q & A!!!!!! Weylie, all your advices hit me so hard guuurrlll! Love you sooo much!! Thank you for speaking the truth and letting a sista know!!!! 😘😘😘😘
you are literally like a big sister to me and im sure everyone!!! love ya!
You spoke so many words of wisdom in this one Weylie! I needed you today. Thank you 💗
absolutely love your girl talk videos weylie!! ♥️ esp what you said about relationships in high school, I spend so much of my time trying to get my friends to love themselves
like girl, those kdramas are cute and all, and you'll get your kdrama moment someday (':
Thanks weylie, my boyfriends mom keeps making up random lies and gossiping about me even though I’ve been nothing but nice to her. I needed this video.
Wow you are really good at this "girl talk"! I like a lot of things you say in the video, it really helps. Love your life perspective!
HOLY MOLY!! You have no idea how much the second to last topic helped me. I just found your channel but I needed to hear that so bad. Thank you :)
i love your Q&a’s!! i’ve been watching your videos since high school i love them and you’ve given me really great advice!
I always love your girl talk videos!💙
I love these sister talks! ❤
Girlllllllll you are on point with the whole marriage convo. I’ve been with my boyfriend for a little 8 years and everyone around me is getting married and I am starting to get pressured by family about moving forward and hitting that next step of getting married and even about having kids ( I’m currently in my late 20’s) but I feel the same way as you about it. Like I’m totally fine where I am in my relationship and I rather that part of my life to come organically instead feeling like I’m doing it to please other people
absolutely love these girl talks!! thank you for all the wonderful advice💛
Your skin looks amazing Weylie! I'm a longtime viewer and get so excited when I see you've posted a new video :)
Weylie, i know you probably won’t see this but I’ve been watching you since I was 15 (I’m now almost 23) and can honestly say you are still my favorite youtuber!